Why You’re Not Getting More Fluent In English

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any moment now we'll give YouTube a moment as  usual uh I will allow people to ask questions  
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and if you have questions uh feel free to post  them and I will do my best to answer those for  
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you uh and we'll see oh looks like YouTube is  live so welcome I am Drew Badger the founder  
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of englishanyone.com and welcome to another  live video here on YouTube today the English  
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fluency guide that's me I'm going to help you  understand uh more really what I've seen as  
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the number one thing that has stopped the  people I've worked with uh over 20 years so  
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helping people get flu for 20 years wow  more than 20 years that's a long time I  
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did not think I would be doing this many  years ago but uh I've enjoyed it so much  
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I've just continued to do it well nice to see  you there George all right uh making sure we  
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are working here we should be all right okay  uh let me erase the board and then we'll get
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started I wanted to make this video because I had  an interesting conversation with a learner um they  
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were asking me about some vocabulary and how to  improve their vocabulary uh and I recommended one  
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of my videos and they said oh well that video is I  don't know it's like a few years old or something  
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like that and I said well like it doesn't matter  if the like if the video is uh is old or not  
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the point is does the vocabulary or the lesson  actually help you improve uh and so often like  
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I will get you know comments like that maybe not  so often a lot of people I think they understand  
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this you might have an old book for example  that's still a great story but maybe it was  
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just made many years ago and the interesting thing  is that this learner who was uh talking with me uh  
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their their use of the language they were using  so like they were not using it correctly so when  
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when people say to me like oh I I don't want to  learn that thing because it's older it's like well  
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you're you're not communicating correctly so why  not like what is your goal here do you want to  
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become a confident uh correct speaker or do you  care I mean does it does it matter uh and so again  
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I I thought that was just an interesting thing  uh because really what I found is the number one  
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thing that stops people from from getting fluent  is the review uh so even if people get what I  
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would call bad lessons like the the lessons just  aren't very good uh and what I mean by that is uh  
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well here let me let me draw this very quickly I  talked about the the fluency triangle in the last  
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video but I think it's important just to mention  it here since we always have new people joining us  
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uh but you can look at uh individual lessons and  actually judge whether the lessons are helpful or  
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not at getting you more fluent based on what the  lessons are doing uh so I'll just put here ft uh  
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for fluency triangle and the basic idea of the  fluency triangle is there are three things you  
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need to become a fluent speaker the first one is  you need to have real English so you actually need  
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to learn the real vocabulary natives are using  or you won't understand people or communicate  
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confidently I think that's pretty obvious for  most people uh but the second thing and this is  
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a little bit trickier this is that you need to  learn that as a first language so you need to  
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not learn it uh through your like through your  native language through translations or getting  
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definitions you actually have to understand the  language like a native and I'll give you some  
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examples of that later in this video uh and then  the third thing uh is the review part which we'll  
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be talking about specifically in this video uh  which is what I call naturally varied review and  
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so naturally varied review is a way of reviewing  the content and actually developing fluency  
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because even if you learn some real English and  you learn it the same way a native does you might  
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forget that information pretty quickly or you  might not be prepared if people say something  
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different or pronounce things differently or maybe  they don't pronounce things very C very clear  
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so there are lots of good reasons to review  and the important thing is to review things in  
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different ways all right and so I contrast the  fluency triangle with basically what you could  
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call the test prep triangle so the test prep  triangle instead of learning real vocabulary  
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you will learn some of that but a lot of it is  just formal English used for writing and this  
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is why often people will say oh I understand what  the teacher tells me but I don't understand what  
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people in real life or movies or whatever are  saying so it's actually a different English now  
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just to make it very clear uh if we've got real  English over here and formal English over here  
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obviously there is some some overlap between  those two so native speakers are using some  
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textbook English or whatever it's not that big of  a deal but the the the problem is it's not just  
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the vocabulary it's also the way people speak it's  usually less clear or natives are blending their  
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sounds together or they're speaking with a more  difficult accent than like how I'm speaking now  
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which is a very clear easy to understand English  okay so I'm giving you more of this but you still  
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need to get this if you want to understand  natives okay so they're also getting things  
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they're learning English as a second language  usually they're learning through their native  
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language they're just getting textbook definitions  of things or translations they're trying to study  
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rules and they probably understand a lot of  rules uh maybe they could take a test and pass  
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that so really that's the point of the test prep  triangle here uh and then the review over here  
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is really trying to get lots of speaking and you  really try to just repeat things to yourself if  
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you don't have people to practice with maybe you  use flashcards or you talk to yourself but that's  
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basically the repetition right there for review  so see how these things are they're related but  
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they're actually quite different and so natives  are learning the language this way and non-natives  
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are typically learning the language this way and  this is really what I found is like the biggest  
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problem for people people because let's say  you could go right here on YouTube and actually  
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find lots of vocabulary videos that are actually  teaching you the way people really speak you'll  
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find lots of those here uh but the more difficult  the more uh much more difficult thing to find  
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on YouTube is actually getting naturally varied  review because you need to actually use different  
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videos in order to do that uh it's pretty rare to  find a video that would give you enough naturally  
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varied review within that video so you need to  get lots of different native speakers and you  
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need to hear them at different speeds and you need  to hear things in different tenses there's lots of  
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different variety that you need to prepare for and  the whole point of this this fluency triangle here  
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is to prepare you for real communication because  you don't know what people are going to say so in  
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a test you usually know what the teacher is going  to say the teacher says this and then I have to  
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respond with this thing over here so it's a very  uh specific thing there's usually one answer like  
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a correct answer for a test uh but there are  many answers that could be correct in read  
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communication okay so obviously these things are  related and there will be some overlap between  
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these two so some of the test kind of things that  you will learn in class and the real things that  
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natives will learn in the same way but there will  be some overlap there but this point here um again  
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even if you get bad lessons so even if you learn  lots of uh like formal English or textbook English  
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uh you probably aren't learning it like a native  does you don't really understand it like a native  
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does you probably have a good a good sense for  some basic things but natives really know how to  
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use the language very well um but this part over  here the two main reasons that people don't get  
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enough review are number one because it's boring  so I'll just put this up here for for the people  
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who know a lot of English but still have trouble  speaking it's really because they're not getting  
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enough review uh and the review they need to  be getting is actually naturally varied review  
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not just more repetition because if you don't  know something fluently already then knowing  
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it again by repeating it more is probably not  going to help you all right so we need to have  
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more examples but again the reasons people don't  get this number one is it's boring this is why  
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people are always interested in new information  so English Learners are always looking for new  
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information and it's even if they know I don't  know they've they've seen something and they they  
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haven't really learned it well enough they're  still looking for more new information anyway  
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all right uh and then the second reason over here  this is this is a trickier one but this is because  
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they think they know that vocabulary already all  right so some people they're they're even happy  
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to review but they think oh like I know that word  I know what that means so I'm not going to review  
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that word more all right and so like maybe I think  of a better way to express this uh like they they
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think so they think they know the vocabulary  all right now in for me learning Japanese this  
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happens to me all the time when I will know a  word and then I will be surprised when I hear  
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it used in some new way and I think oh wow isn't  that interesting that I thought I knew that word  
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but really I'm I'm still learning it I'm I'm  still getting more fluent and as I get more  
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examples and more varied examples that's what's  going to get me fluent uh in using that word okay  
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hopefully that makes sense let me know if you  have any questions about this uh but I wanted  
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to review this for people just very quickly again  the the the reason native speakers become native  
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speakers they're not born native but they become  native is because they're learning this way so  
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they are learning the real language and they are  understanding it like U actually just directly  
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in the language without needing translations or  explanations about grammar rules that kind of  
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thing and they're getting lots of varied review so  their parents will tell them something and their  
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friends will tell them something like that so it's  very simple but you need all three of these things  
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if you want to get fluent and often what happens  is people do maybe like a mix of both of these so  
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some people who are learning like watching videos  here on YouTube they will get some real English  
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but then they will learn it like a non-native  speaker and this basically means they're usually  
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getting a translation like it's a video about uh  here are some interesting phrases but a Spanish  
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speaker is teaching that through Spanish  and so they're giving a Spanish explanation  
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uh or Portuguese or Chinese or whatever and so  this is the way most people learn so even if  
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you get that real vocabulary if you don't  understand it like a native and you don't  
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review it like a native then you're not going to  speak like a native all right but it's important  
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to remember natives are not born they are made  okay so anybody could become a native if you just  
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switch from really learning this way to learning  that way all right now before I give a bunch of  
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examples of this uh let me go check comments see  if anybody has any questions I think this should  
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be a pretty easy thing to understand but let me  know I want to make sure this is clear but you  
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have to be very careful about this as a learner  even myself I have to remind myself like if I know  
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so humans in general are bored by things if we see  the same thing over and over again because we just  
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don't really care about it we already know about  that thing I want to know what's new that's why we  
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ask people what's new when we see them hey how's  it going what's new we're asking people uh has  
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anything changed in your life what's new so that's  a good greeting as well what's new so when we  
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meet people we don't say what's old we say what's  new so we want to know what's what's a new thing  
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happening in your life or the news so what is some  new information that we can get because we don't  
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care about old information we already know old  information or we think we know okay so if we know  
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things are going to be boring for us then that  means we have to vary the review okay so we have  
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to trick our mind into reviewing things by giving  the the A variation of that thing to make it new  
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for our mind okay that's why we have naturally  varied review and that's why people naturally  
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get fluent that way when they get lots of examples  from different people all right so even if they  
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think they know that they usually don't and so  we have to be very careful about that as Learners  
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so whatever language you're learning you have to  remember that maybe I don't know this as well as  
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I think I do I should be open to uh to reviewing  things and learning things in a new way or hearing  
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different people say those things or hearing it  at a different speed or something like that so  
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if you can overcome these two challenges you will  easily become fluent and you actually have a good  
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chance even if you learn the traditional way so  even if you learn uh textbook English and you're  
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still learning it through your native language if  you get lots of naturally varied review uh that's  
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really going to help you a lot more so even if  you're trying to learn through translations which  
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I don't recommend uh just makes it more difficult  for you but uh if you had to have one of these  
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pieces the naturally varied review is the thing  that's going to help you the most because a lot  
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of people they learn their their kind of textbook  English but they still don't review it very much  
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and that's because either it's boring to review  it they don't want to repeat that again and again  
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where they think they know it but they really  don't so I started this video talking about a  
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learner who was asking me about something and uh  I said oh you should watch this video and he said  
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I I don't want to watch that video cuz it's older  uh and I said well but you're you're like the the  
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language you're using is incorrect that means  that even even this vocabulary here that's old  
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vocabulary for you you don't know it so why are  you trying to learn new vocabulary before you  
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understand the other vocabulary now most of the  vocabulary I'm using right now I learned this I  
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don't know 30 years ago this is not like lots of  new vocabulary I'm using a lot of it is basic uh  
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and helping people understand the language you can  see I'm communicating even if I don't use a lot of  
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difficult vocabulary but it's because I know how  to use the vocabulary I knew how to kind of fight  
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this to fight the uh the boredom and making sure  I know things by getting lots of naturally varied  
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review so that's how I got fluent in English so  I wasn't born a native speaker I became a native  
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speaker because I learned this way and that means  you can do the same thing all right now before I  
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give a bunch of examples let me go back uh look  at chat if you have any questions uh about this or  
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anything else but I'm going to give you some  examples of naturally varied review all right  
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uh Louis nice to see you there George again  and I can't read the Arabic unfortunately but  
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it looks like a sad face uh this is sometimes my  feeling your theme of your class sometimes I feel  
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confident sometimes I feel bad yes and so like  this will happen as you learn the when you're  
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trying to learn a new language because it does  take some time like you're you're going to feel  
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like this like hopefully over time it's trending  up uh a lot of people it's kind of trending like  
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this where where it's just they're not actually  improving even though they're learning more um  
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but yeah there will be some days for me I feel  like wow my Japanese was really good today and  
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other days I'm just like I don't know I forgot  some simple word yesterday actually I I forgot  
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some English word I knew the Japanese but I had  forgotten the English I still don't remember the  
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English for uh like so my daughter went to the  dentist and she had some teeth pulled uh and this  
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means like she's you know her she had like some  just I don't know crowding or something like that  
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but she had two teeth pulled uh and then she got  some like in Japanese we say masui uh and this is  
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like the uh like now I can't remember the English  but it's it's what numbs your your gums or your  
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mouth or whatever so you could call it novacaine  but I think that's a brand name and not like a  
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kind of thing but anyway uh so you there will  be sometimes where you feel good and sometimes  
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where you not or you don't feel so good um and  that's okay but if you're learning the right way  
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if you trust the plan you trust the system uh you  should be tending up over time uh Amnesia is when  
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you forget things that's close though Amnesia  yeah am Amnesia is like you you wake up like  
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oh no I I forget I forget who I am that's Amnesia  you're thinking of like ah now I forget what's the  
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somebody look somebody looked that up for me yeah  anesthesia that's right yes like an anesthesia and  
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am Amnesia is similar but yes it sounds similar  but it's a different word anyway uh Lewis do not  
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feel bad about that hopefully over time you should  be feeling better if you focus on this you will  
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absolutely improve guaranteed because it's really  what other people are doing to you that gets you  
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fluent now you you'll notice from this example um  I haven't talked about this in a while but I think  
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maybe it's good to review it anyway um getting  fluent in a language is actually quite different  
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than exercising in a gym so if I am a Gym trainer  I will go to the gym with someone and I can tell  
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them what to do I say okay take this weight and  move it like this or like that or whatever uh  
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but then you have to lift the weight all right you  actually have to do the work and it's going to the  
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gym can be quite boring and because you have that  repetition you're just moving some weight again  
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and again uh so you can see why a lot of people do  not like going to the gym but with getting fluent  
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it's actually something that other people do to  you especially uh other people teaching young  
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children so young children are not talking to  themselves in the mirror they're not studying  
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flashcards they're not reading grammar books  they're just getting all of these examples from  
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other people that make the language understandable  and so that's why I spend a lot of time uh giving  
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these kinds of lessons and reminding you that it's  not like something you have to do by yourself to  
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try to understand the language you only have to  do that if you're learning by yourself but if you  
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have someone to help you then all of this stuff  is really doing the hard work for you to get you  
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fluent all right so I'll give you an example of  this uh in just a moment uh Olympia nice to see  
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you there dear teacher and Diana says hello xemma  says teacher I pretty understand American English  
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you would say I pretty yeah you could say maybe  I pretty much understand uh the American American  
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accent but I don't understand anything when I hear  British accent sounds like another language to me  
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uh yes so if you have more experience listening to  British English then you will understand it better  
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and even in America there are various accents uh  so you just need to get more experience with that  
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accent if you want to understand it and even you  know within Britain you will have a variety of  
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accents as well n says hello from Morocco icr says  hello from Saudi Arabia hello my uncle that's my  
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that's my uh my nephew maybe or more my niece  I can't tell uh let's see uh Joseph says what  
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can I do if I have ADHD I can't stay focused  um I guess it depends like if you have like a  
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a specific issue I mean I probably have ADHD you  know I'm always looking at new things and trying  
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to figure things out um but I would look for uh a  particular thing that you are interested in so I  
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know like recently maybe the past 20 years or  something more have uh ADHD d and or you know  
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whatever kind of you know diseases or or some  mental problem where they can't focus in school  
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uh I don't know if that's true or if that's really  happening or not it's not really the point but uh  
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typically even if you have a child who maybe has  ADHD or has some kind of issue there is something  
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that they can focus on and if you look at what  they are enjoying like they can sit and you know  
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paint or something for for a long time so my older  daughter Arya is a good example of this uh like  
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you could look at her she loves to run around  and and you know jump and play and she'll jump  
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in the house uh and you could think wow this this  little girl has a lot of energy but maybe she has  
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ADHD or something but if you sit her down and say  oh would you like to draw something she can draw  
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for an hour so the the issue is not like does a  child have a problem or I mean even you know you  
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with with whatever that is uh I would look for a  particular thing in your life that you are able  
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to focus on so if you're not able to focus on  anything at all like you can't even watch a TV  
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show for a little bit or you can't read a book or  you can't whatever your interest is uh then you  
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might have an actual problem and I'm not the best  advice for that but if you do have something uh  
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that you're interested in I would start there this  actually reminds me of a comic uh I was it was  
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just a comedian I was listening to uh and he was  uh he was talking with his like his little nephew  
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and this little kid was holding some Pokemon cards  and he and he started showing his uncle all these  
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Pokemon cards and he said oh look this Pokemon  does this and it has all these cool little you  
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know things or these powers or something and  this Pokemon does this and his uncle was just  
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like oh wow that's really cool and after after the  child had explained all of that the uncle took the  
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child into the bathroom and he said this is my  shampoo this shampoo does this it has all this  
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cool stuff and after I use the shampoo then I use  this conditioner uh and this conditioner does this  
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stuff and then I have a special soap and this does  this and obviously the child looked very bored so  
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the child didn't care about that but it's exactly  the same thing so if we look at a child and say  
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well that child is you know they have ADHD or you  know they don't care about whatever you know the  
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the particular subject is they're probably is  something they can focus on so I would focus on  
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that uh think about something that you do like or  enjoy or are able to focus on and then use that  
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and connect that with the English so if you like  learning about whatever do that thing in English  
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that's that's how I would do it uh teacher what  should I do to be a good interpreter it's hard  
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for me to hear and translate at the same time  oh oh that's that's a tricky one uh I would I  
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mean I would really get very good if you can at  learning English as a first language and and so  
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that's the kind of thing that I teach here so  if you learn things [Music] and I don't I don't  
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do professional interpreting and I'm not like a  whispering interpreter which I think is really  
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cool uh but I do do some translating or whatever  like my mother will be in town uh this coming week  
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and uh I will probably do a lot of interpreting  uh having you know being able to speak Japanese  
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and English with you know her and other people uh  but the the tricky thing often for people who are  
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trying to translate uh is if you're learning  so like this is your your native language and  
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then you're learning another language over here  and then you have a third language that you're  
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trying to learn uh if you learn if you learn the  languages through each other like that so this  
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is like the first one you learn and the second one  you learn um it's much more difficult and you will  
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be much slower uh you will think more slowly and  and be able to express yourself more slowly if you  
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learn this way but if instead you're able to learn  both languages as a first language then you should  
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be able to uh communicate and respond much faster  so I would focus on that anytime you're trying to  
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learn things you really want to understand it  the same way a native does and then all you're  
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really doing because it's all a native language  to you at that point uh so if you're learning  
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like if I'm learning Japanese even if my native  language is English if I'm learning Japanese  
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like a native speaker then it becomes a native  language for me also so I have a native Japanese  
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and native English uh but if I try to learn learn  a different language through a translation then  
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it will be more difficult for me all right so what  I'm going to show you uh in this video is actually  
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an example of this but it's all in English and  that will be uh some naturally varied review but  
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it's taking one situation and giving you lots  of different ways to say that and so what we're  
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doing when we interpret something we're not we're  not really trying to like translate one thing to  
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another it's more like here's what I want to say  and here's how I might say that in one language  
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and how I might say that in another language just  like how I might you know say one thing in in many  
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different ways in English so I'll give you an  example of that in just a moment but that's how  
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I would do it so I'm not trying to really like  learn these things through each other I'm just  
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understanding all of them directly so I can make  that connection very quickly and it doesn't really  
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seem like translating uh even though that's that's  basically what you would be doing all right so  
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it's it's kind of it seems like it's translating  but it's not because you're going Direct  
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ly uh from your your just natural understanding of  the language so Pedro says I can understand almost  
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everything you say as long as I speak fluently  hail to Brazil so Olympia says thank you George  
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S oh you got that answer already cam says good  morning nice to see you there uh Marcel from  
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Brazil thanks for the class not a lot of Brazilian  a lot of Brazilian Flags over Mr stranger says you  
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have been older yes I get older every day every  day there wasn't there wasn't a single day in  
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my life where I got younger one day I wish it  happened that would be so cool if I if there  
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were some days I woke up and I was younger that  would be awesome but no it happens this way uh  
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Johan says or Joe or Jay Joe Johan Joan you were  really helpful to me when I was still learning  
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English and improved my listening I used to watch  your videos always thank you so much you're great  
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glad to hear it if you do like the videos click  the like button and share the videos with other  
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people and good evening teacher says estudos  cono if I'm pronouncing that correctly let's  
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see and Don says that keeps happening to me every  time I understand a new word and then looking for  
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its meaning in Arabic and can't remember it DOC  I think I'm losing my own mother tongue and I'm  
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getting weaker in both yes sometimes it it it  happens like that like I was explaining I forgot  
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I forgot anesthesia but I I never used the word  anesthesia I haven't said anesthesia in so long um  
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but I mean now that I hear it I like okay it's  back again I remember it it's like riding a bike  
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even if you don't ride a bike for a while you get  back on and it comes back to you so you remember  
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how to do something it comes back to you so yes  there will be some days where maybe you're not  
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feeling so confident or you forget some words  or something like that but in general if you're  
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learning the right way you should be feeling more  fluent over time uh let's see but yes I would  
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remember if you if you don't understand something  uh in English try to get a different example of  
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that thing all right don't don't just quickly go  back to your native language the whole point is to  
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understand something uh and so that's what I try  to do I try to help people understand things Rose  
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says I need people to practice uh as I tell people  often no you don't you actually don't need I mean  
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if you're practicing with me right now it's really  me helping you understand the language better so  
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you don't need me physically there and you don't  need to say anything you're the one getting fluent  
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because of the way I teach all right so if I can  teach you real English and help you understand it  
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like a native and give you lots of naturally  varied review then you will feel much more  
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confident and then you will start speaking okay  so the speaking is the result of learning with  
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the fluency triangle and over here it's really  more of frustration and maybe you're prepared for  
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some specific answers per tests but you will be  finding it more difficult in regular communication  
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if you learn that way all right let's see oh no  I'm going to try to read this katak here let's
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see what is that what is that is that I'm I'm so  bad with reading Katakana because I don't know  
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what it's what it's supposed to what it's supposed  to say even even like a like a simple word like  
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cakey I'm like what is that and it's like oh cake  that's what they mean cake okay uh do I live in  
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the United States no I am from Chicago but I am  uh in Nagasaki Japan right now uh Rell says Hi  
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teacher how have you been doing I've been doing  well ahed says I understand you very well and  
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my English language is almost good I am listening  too much when I am alone my pronunciation uh it's  
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like American but in public totally different  now this is always an interesting thing I get  
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ver maybe uh variations on this kind of comment  where people are able to speak by themselves uh  
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but when they're uh speaking with other people  then their language changes and I I found this  
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um for me it's it's an interesting thing maybe I  should make a video talking about this idea but  
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like I I've noticed my my Japanese is better uh  when I'm speaking with people who who don't know  
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anything about me and uh if the if someone if I  have known them for a long time and they knew me  
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when I could not speak Japanese then my Japanese  is not as good and I think it's because I feel uh  
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I'm being judged by the person even if they're  not like actually judging me they I'm just feeling  
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like well they they knew me when I was not a good  speaker and now uh like if I am a good speaker  
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uh I worry about making more mistakes because I  want to show them that I can I can speak well now  
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uh but for people who don't know me if I just  see someone at a hotel or on the street or in  
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a store restaurant I just start speaking and my  Japanese is much better so there's an interesting  
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uh psychology part um about like like how we learn  and how we communicate and part of that is is what  
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we think about other people so I actually made a  video talking about that uh just search my lives  
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and you will see um for let's see what was it  called it was like if you're able to speak speak  
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alone but you can't speak with other people or  something like that I forget the exact title  
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uh but I talk more about that specific issue uh  and often uh part of that is is that reason where  
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we're we're feeling like we're being judged by  other people uh but often we're also not able to  
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judge our own speaking very well so a native can  listen to our speech and tell us oh like here are  
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the things that maybe sound incorrect or uh could  be better or something like that so there there  
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are some interesting reasons why that happens  uh let's see leou says actually every single  
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second we stay older that's true yes you know it's  like time doesn't actually move but we we kind of  
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feel older it's interesting how that works uh Mr  stranger shut up he's so handsome well you can I  
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can be getting older but still be handsome you  know we got that that overlap here so this is  
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me getting older and this is me being handsome  and so we've got the the overlap in the middle  
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there you can be you can be both we we call this  aging gracefully aging to get older gracefully  
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all right let's see uh La Lomi Lomi from  Haiti thank you and Nico says a how would  
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you teach pronun how hey how would you teach  pronunciation for me it's difficult to find  
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difference between the Sheep uh and the eye of  ship ah uh if you if you want this the perfect  
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solution the exact thing you're asking  for is what we made it's an app called
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Frederick uh and you can click on the link  in the description to get it but the way it  
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works is it's the first app of its kind that  actually lets you spin different wheels and  
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produce different sounds that let you compare  things like that so I can listen to something  
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like ship or sheep and we're continuing to  improve uh the app and design more things but  
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it will take you through all of the levels  of phonics and different sounds so all the  
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sounds of English with over 2,000 words and  sentences and you can teach yourself the pron  
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iation that way so the the really two pieces  you need for pronunciation are learning the  
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the different sounds of English but then also  hearing how natives really communicate in real  
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life but if you're uh specifically struggling  with that issue then Frederick is the thing  
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that will help you with that all right so click  on the link in the description below this video  
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to get that uh let's see see again uh why  don't you grow your hair Mr Andrew Maybe  
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Sparky style spiky I don't know what that mean  you mean spiky spiky style would be awesome well  
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I keep thinking about cutting cutting all of  my hair off I want to I want to shave it off  
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but my wife won't let me she says no don't don't  do it don't do it Olympia uh as the good wine yes  
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JP says thank you your explanations are taking my  English to the next level yes and so when people  
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say that uh that's great to hear and the reason  that's happening is because you're understanding  
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something better more deeply rather than just uh  only learning new information that you forget so  
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why are you so beautiful see that's a good comment  right there that's a that's a great question why  
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are you so beautiful I don't know you know I guess  I uh I don't know no idea but I'm glad you think  
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so there you go I'm G to try to read that that  Katakana again let's see I'm gonna read it slowly
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Z Death Note ah okay Death Note oh okay  I see what you're talking about now I got  
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all right uh Med says hello my favorite teacher  this is me S I'm happy to be here with you welcome  
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PO says Drew from Chile uh I understand what  you're saying about being an interpreter as  
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a native speaker but I believe that in the end  you are somehow translating in your mind when  
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interpreting do you agree no uh I don't agree  and I I'll explain like why I don't agree with  
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that I gave an example of that before but I'll  give you another example in a moment about that  
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I'm just going through these questions uh  Miguel says uh but I can't speak in English  
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just understand when somebody is talking again  uh you're probably lacking review so you don't  
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know the information as well as you think you do  and I'll show you some more examples of how that  
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works uh in this video all right uh let's see  Louis says how do you say a galloza in English  
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could be gray fox I don't know what gallosa  gallosa means does that mean is that gray  
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fox I don't know is cza does that mean Fox and  Gallow means gray if it does then yeah that would  
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that would be it and Rose says hello uh if  you need someone to practice I'm here I'm an  
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intermediate English speaker all right now  remember you don't need to have someone to  
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practice your English with because it's all about  input it's about getting the language and making  
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sure it's understandable to you and after you feel  confident then you can speak okay if you want to  
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try to improve your English by speaking with other  people you can but most likely you're just going  
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to use information at your level that you already  feel comfortable with so you're probably not going  
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to improve very much in order to improve you need  to stretch yourself and that means you need to  
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get literally to a higher level of understanding  and you don't do that by speaking you do that by  
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getting more information by understanding the  language better all right uh Alex says hi dear  
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Drew let me express my gratitude to you you really  helped me to find the way to get fluency you help  
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me to break a language be alfl originally from La  Lip lip liet lipet USSR welcome well that's great  
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again if you have found these videos helpful do  click the like button and let other people know  
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say hey come watch this guy all right now it's  interesting that we're getting this uh question  
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about translating uh or being able to interpret  things but let me remind you uh in English and  
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probably in your language as well you might  have a situation like something you want to  
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express and you will have many different ways of  saying this okay so I could say for example uh
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really big wave so the situation this is a  nice visual thing pretty easy to understand  
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let's say I'm standing on the beach if you  can see that so here I am uh it's me I got  
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my uh swim trunks on kind of okay oh that's  kind of a that might that's that's a little  
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dangerous right there let me let me draw  this more uh cleanly there we go all right  
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so that's me and my swim trunks on the beach  and I see wow look at that a giant wave now  
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there are different ways I could express that  I could say wow really big wave I could say
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giant giant wave or I could
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say tsunami all right so wow look at that like or  the news is talking about that they say there's  
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a really big wave coming this way be careful  there is a giant wave coming this way oh there  
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is a tsunami coming this way all right now most  adult English speakers would know all of these  
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things they would understand that and they all  mean the same thing what I'm doing right now is  
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interpreting I have one thing I want to express  it's this situation right here this wave uh but  
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there are different ways I could say that okay  and notice one of these things is a Japanese  
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word isn't that interesting but a native a native  speaker doesn't realize that's a Japanese word  
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unless they know like they they've heard that or  they understand the history of the word uh then  
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you know something like that but hopefully you  guys get the idea here that to a native speaker  
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the word tsunami is a native English word it  becomes an English word like it's now an English  
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word in English like it's not people aren't  aren't thinking it's a Japanese word they're not  
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translating in their head they're just thinking  oh look at that a tsunami all right now they might  
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not even pronounce it like that they might say  like Tsunami Tsunami Tsunami uh but again this  
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is the the the Japanese word they don't realize  it's a Japanese word because they learned it as  
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a native speaker all right now if I take you to a  Japanese class and I say okay here is a really big  
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wave and we're going to go from big wave and now  how do you say that in Japanese you say the word  
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tsunami okay so here this is an example of going  from a situation to the native English to some  
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Japanese word instead but we don't learn that way  instead we go from the situation to the Japanese  
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word and the English word but we don't think  about it as a Japanese word it's just a different  
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word in English so I can switch from any of these  things and I'm not really uh translating here I'm  
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just selecting a different thing that I understand  natively so all of these things really big wave  
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Giant Wave tsunami it's just different examples  of ways I could express this same situation okay  
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so it's the exact same thing as here's something  I want to say here's how I might say it in Italian  
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here's how I might say it in Spanish here's how  I might say it in whatever and so young kids when  
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they're learning languages this way they will hear  a word like tsunami and they will not think like  
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oh that's wait a minute isn't that a Japanese  word they don't know they don't know what word  
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came from French or German or whatever okay so  when you're trying to think about interpreting  
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you can see how it's much easier to interpret  this way I can go from the situation to like ah  
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like how do we say this in French or how do we  say this in Italian or or whatever all right so  
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they're like songs for little kids that just teach  them like what are different words for friend and  
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they say like oh Amigo or uh Amit or whatever you  know like different uh like Monami like like from  
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French or Spanish or Italian or whatever and so  kids don't realize like oh that word came from  
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French they're just hearing it's just another word  for friend but in a different language that they  
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don't know all right but it becomes it becomes  like a native language to them all right so we  
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put these categories like well this is an English  thing and this is a a what thing but what is this  
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what is tsunami is it English or Japanese or both  or what okay so the point is if you're if you're  
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learning the things directly it becomes much  easier to use them automatically when you speak  
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and it doesn't matter uh what level you know what  what level or what excuse me uh what language it  
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is you're using all right uh let see so gray fox  would be a middle-aged man with a good fit like a  
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gall Sena or gray fox ah okay uh okay then there  you go is that you're saying I'm that aala yeah I  
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need to get like the pronunciation down for that  what what does that kind of guy do I need like a  
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like what it was the like the Spanish equivalent  I don't know like a cool like some sunglasses or  
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something like that I can put some sunglasses  on I don't know I don't know what people do for  
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that but peris says Hi everyone C says his pants  are bigger than his entire body yes well that's a  
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you know it's just a funny picture you understand  what it means I'm I'm exaggerating uh the short uh  
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my my swimsuit over here my swim trunks tell us  a short way to improve our language efficiency uh  
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or efficient and efficiency without more time  and cost uh just watch more videos about the  
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things you're interested in here on YouTube in  English that's it so if you don't want to spend  
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any money you just like you're you're uh if if  like if money is more important to you than time  
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then you should just watch more YouTube videos in  English but you have to be smart about how you do  
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it don't watch random uh YouTube videos about like  language lessons you should get maybe one language  
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lesson and then look for those examples in other  videos or watch different topics and focus on  
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a few different videos about that topic okay so  uh we don't want to like just want watch a bunch  
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of random stuff that's only English teachers  and especially like teaching you through your  
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native language so if you don't want to spend any  money and your time is is maybe maybe your money  
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is more important than your time for for those  people then do that just watch videos on YouTube  
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about specific topics you could get fluent that  way it's just more difficult to find things and  
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then try to understand everything again you're  you're really choosing between money and time  
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which is more important to you so for me like  I always choose time because I I can get more  
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money I'll figure out some way to get more money  but like I'm not going to get more time so I want  
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to be trying to get fluent if if efficiency is  really the most important thing but you can't  
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really have both you can't have like the most  efficient thing and the like the cheapest thing  
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at the same time because usually you're you're  able to save uh Time by using money okay so just  
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pick which one you want to do so if you want to  get fluent uh and you don't mind spending a lot  
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of time doing it then then do that all right so  look for videos on YouTube about things you're  
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interested in and watch a lot of those in English  all right so whatever the topic is watch 10 videos  
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about that thing from different people and you  will learn more and you will feel more confident  
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and then you will start being able to speak uh  because the fluency happens as you understand the  
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language better all right but just pick which one  uh you'd like to do let's see and Miguel says uh  
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teacher when are you coming to miico uh I was in  Mexico uh when was I in Mexico I've been to Mexico  
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a few few times actually I don't know when when  are you paying for my trip then I'll think about  
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coming to Mexico someone can organize a trip for  me and I'll come Rose says okay Baris what is your  
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speaking L okay you guys are speaking with each  other Shang wayu says good morning Drew uh like  
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you I tend to figure out new things there you go  uh and jerma says Hi teacher and Shang again as I  
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keep watching your live session some thoughts pop  in my mind how can I break a situation into pieace  
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let's say I am facing a new situation what do I  normally uh normally uh need to look for first  
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when you say break a situation into pieces what do  you mean by that when when I give these examples  
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what I'm talking about is there is something you  want to say but there are usually many ways to  
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express that thing so a greeting if I meet you  for the first time or if I see you after a long  
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time I could just say oh hey or hi how are you how  have you been how is your family what's up how are  
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things going so these are the different ways we  might express the same situation just like here  
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we have this big wave in the water and I could say  oh really big wave Giant Wave tsunami and there  
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are you know maybe some uh some different ways of  expressing that okay so uh if you have more give  
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me some more information if I'm not answering your  question um but let me know uh if that makes sense  
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but the basic idea a for this is that we do have  different ways of expressing things and I'll give  
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you an example of that now uh Zack Keen says hyre  I just want to know your dra you mean daughter uh  
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D you mean daughter speaks English like a native  English speaker or she has some accent uh oh my  
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daughters if you're if you're talking about them  uh when they're speaking English they sound like  
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native English speakers uh their English level  is not as good as their Japanese but they their  
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pronunciation is perfect uh and that's cuz they  get get lots of examples from me but also from  
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television or you know radio or other native  speakers that kind of thing so I make sure  
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they get lots of naturally varied review so my  daughters are living in Japan and they spend  
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actually more uh more time really most of their  day uh in a Japanese environment So speaking with  
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other people in Japanese so I have to be smarter I  have to be very efficient with my time about how I  
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teach them so I need to make sure they're getting  lots of naturally varied review learning things  
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uh that natives actually say and making sure  they understand it like a native I don't I  
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don't use Japanese to teach them English all  right uh let's see and are you coming I don't  
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know what those are versus do ah you mean like  well if you're if you're saying like are you  
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coming like it depends on the situation like  are you like I'm I'm calling my friend and he  
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should be like arriving at my house is said hey  are you coming are you coming over that's how  
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you would say that hi I love your videos from  Columbia says Paul glad to hear it click the  
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like button NCO says so according to your beliefs  you would say beliefs here your beliefs you agree  
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with Steven crash in theory that we could reach  the fluency consuming comprehensible input uh  
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whether it's from your courses or the internet uh  so yes uh crashing the basic idea about crashing  
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is uh comprehensible input and I'm a big fan of  crashing he discovered the same thing I did but  
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the the thing I kind of extended crashing  with was uh this so again this idea I just  
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call it understandable messages because that  sounds a little bit easier to understand so
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compre comprehensible input so comprehensible  input just means information that you understand  
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all in the language you're learning so you  shouldn't be needing uh translations if you  
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can understand things directly in the language  all right so that's what comprehensible input  
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means um but when when I was learning about crash  and so after I after basically I discovered this  
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the same thing independently uh I just call it  like these ideas here about learning English  
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like a native um or learning English as a first  language rather than learning it as a second  
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language and so that's what like this this part  here is is the comprehensible input part um and  
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the the thing that like I I didn't get from  Crash and from like other teachers who were  
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trying to explain that to me and they didn't seem  to understand it either was like how exactly it  
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works uh and the thing I I discovered is that  like the the idea of comprehensible input is  
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doubt destruction or you can call it doubt eraser  or whatever but uh the important thing here is to
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destroy to destroy doubt so the point is not just  to get lots of input and random input about stuff  
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the point is to use information it's it's  kind of like solving a puzzle like where  
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you're getting clues to solve a a mystery in a TV  crime drama something like that U so the point is  
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not to just get lots of random information but to  destroy doubt so that's how you can get fluent as  
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efficiently as possible by by getting those doubts  removed so yes it is possible to get fluent by  
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yourself and that's how I I got fluent in Japanese  so there is no course or a course I'm aware of  
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uh that that does that does all of this uh and in  Japanese and and maybe there is but I've not heard  
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of it uh I've not found a course like that uh so I  had to create my own program for learning Japanese  
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in that way just by getting like because I  understand how to learn that's how I got fluent in  
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Japanese so you don't have to pay to do it like I  mentioned before uh I've I've spent a lot of time  
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I've wasted a lot of time and I'd rather spend  my money to get fluent in Japanese if this was  
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offered as like the same thing that I created for  learning English all right so it is possible you  
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could get fluent by yourself just like I'm  getting fluent in Japanese because that's  
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the only option I have but I would much rather  save time and spend money to do that so if I had  
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somebody organizing all of the information for  me like the organizing of stuff and making sure  
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I understand it well that's really hard to do  and it's especially hard hard to do by yourself  
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but it's possible so there is lots of content  available you can find lots of random videos  
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but trying to find like the the specific things  you need making sure you understand the content  
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making sure you understand the content like a  native it's much more difficult to do so it's  
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possible but yes like if you're like if you're  if you're asking about learning with me like you  
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don't have to you can continue to use just lots  of free content but again you're either spending  
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time or you're spending money and you just have  to think which is more important to you so for me  
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like learning Japanese like like would I spend I  don't know like a couple hundred dollars to learn  
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Japanese and get fluent and if it was guaranteed  yeah absolutely why wouldn't I do that because if  
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I can become fluent in Japanese well I'm already  fluent but again like for learning new things uh  
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the the value of Japanese fluency to me is is like  the whole rest of my life I would be able to speak  
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even better and have more opportunities  and and all of that is worth way more  
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than spending some money on a course so usually  the people who join my program are people like  
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we got like Executives or people in government  or other people who have companies or something  
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like that like they'd much rather just get fluent  faster and have me do it for them so that's what  
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you're paying for anyway uh yes it's certainly  possible to do there's lots of information but  
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it just becomes more difficult as people are like  you know it's harder to find really good content  
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and then making sure you understand it well uh  let's see and then oh and we got uh AKA Jin says I
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Bol stop using kak see I can't if it's just  like one one long stream string of kadana  
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like that it's really difficult for me to  read because I'm trying to understand I I
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I I
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I get does that say I bought your course is that  what you're trying to say let me know that let's  
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see p says I'm fluent in many situations or  topics in English but there is always a point  
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when teaching to my kids where I feel stuck  in some specific word or situation uh that  
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inevitable uh I need to translate yeah and so in  like there there is always going to be something  
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like that and often translating is just faster but  if the purpose is to teach someone else and to get  
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them fluent and usually that's what parents are  trying to do we want to make it easy for our kids  
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to communicate with us and so that's why this is  the fastest way to teach them okay so uh hopefully  
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that makes sense and uh and and when when you're  learning this way uh especially if you're trying  
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to help your kids learn then focus on that and  if if there's some things like you don't know  
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how to express it well just get more examples  of it in English or see how other people might  
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be doing that I'm first time from Korea nice  to see you there I can't read the huru but if  
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you'd like me to know your name you can put that  up there uh atmosphere in the classroom and the  
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uh Akida Gan says uh thank you drew your courses  are helping me a lot I bought two already awesome  
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welcome to the programs if you do have questions  let us know and you should tell other people say  
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hey join the program it's helpful C says can you  teach a few methods to Riz girls fluently to Riz  
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girls do you mean like like when you're trying  to chat girls up or something is that what you're  
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talking about like how to ask girls out on a date  or something there's already lots of content about  
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that available just look for like P Pua I guess if  we're talking about the same thing Pua like pickup  
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artist you know or how to date or whatever and  this is just English speakers making content for  
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other English speakers so it's not not about uh  like needing a specific language class for that  
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my question was it correct or to say do you coming  or are you coming I confuse yeah you you would say  
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are you are you coming uh right now I wrote that  wrongly you wrote that incorrectly yes it's okay  
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yes whenever I see a long string of kakana it's  still even after many years it takes me a long  
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time because my my brain is trying to process  what what is like the unit of information there  
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so it's just like looking at a bunch of stuff and  I can't figure out what is what is a word uh okay  
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thanks teach for your answer my last out is is  the native fluency blueprint made to reach that  
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fluency or what is that about thanks for the good  vibes uh Nico watch the uh the previous video so  
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last what was that Monday's video IAL about that  like somebody asked me about the courses the basic  
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idea is the native fluency blueprint is for people  that are are more learning independently and  
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and they want to uh know how to do something and  and understand like the the kinds of things I'm  
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explaining here um and it's about really helping  people understand without needing to learn anymore  
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so you could you're you're basically trying to uh  get fluent or more fluent and communicate better  
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using the vocabulary you already know but the uh  the the stuff we have in fluent for life that's  
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really all of the step-by-step training that gets  you fluent and I do the work for you all right  
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so that's really the difference like for Native  fluency blueprint we really want to show people  
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hey it's actually quite easy to communicate better  here's how to improve your pronunciation here's  
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how to improve this and it's lots of little  strategies that can help you improve so we  
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take what natives are doing and I just share those  things that natives are doing with you all right  
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so if you'd like to learn some uh some really  useful tips that can help you express yourself  
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better that's what the fluency blueprint does uh  but if you'd like to just have me get you fluent  
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that's what we do in fluent for life all right  let's see and hello from Mexicali Mexico Shang  
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says ha thanks for the reminder there are many  ways to express a situation I guess I'm trying  
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hard to build up a tendency towards logical orders  and expressions well you don't have to think about  
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like logical orders and expressions it's just more  recognizing different uh ways of saying something  
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because that's that's what fluency means fluency  means I want to express something but if I maybe  
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can think of a better way or maybe I forget  one way I can express something differently  
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so I don't need to express something all in one  particular way like there are different ways I  
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can do that um and even if you only pick one  of those things then you you'll you'll still  
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be prepared for what other people are saying  all right uh let's see just delete the chat  
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so I won't disturb the teacher well again you  guys are traveling to each other Mohan says what  
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is this ASAP it says uh or it just means as soon  as possible so if I need someone to do something  
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very quickly I can say I need that ASAP as soon  as possible C says I am able to speak Japanese  
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fluently and still so I'm able to speak Japanese  and still can't read uh yes so you can have like  
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that's that's often my problem so my my spoken  Japanese is way better than my reading uh I'm  
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like a child that way so I know a lot of a lot of  characters I know about half of the kanji so the  
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the written characters needed for for everyday  ability to read but Katakana specifically like  
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though like trying to read words like that is  really difficult because I'm like I can read  
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the characters but trying to understand what  it's what it's saying to me so if I have a  
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word like like I remember like I I was I was  at a a Starbucks yesterday and I said to a  
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woman I was like um what did I say uh chocolate  cakei and she said oh strawberry cake I said no
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noake and and when you look at like seeing the  word written out in Katakana it's like ch ch and  
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then you're like ah okay they mean chocolate  all right so often the the pronunciation is  
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different uh and like like dinosaur names is  another thing about that there like so in in  
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English I'm not going to write the whole thing  but we have often this combination of p and t  
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it's a ENT P like Pteranodon uh like the flying  flying dinosaur but in Japanese because the p is  
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on there they put that into the Katakana  so it's like they have like the sound is
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like or something like that but it like there is  no P sound so I look at that and I'm like what are  
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they trying to say because I know it's a foreign  word and then like oh Pteranodon and like but but  
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there's no we don't say the P the p is there but  the Japanese is translated as like they put the  
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P sound on there even though we wouldn't say it  like that so it's just a challenging thing for  
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me uh it's much easier and faster if I have kanji  and and things are written out normally like they  
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would be but if I see a long string of Katakana  it's more difficult for me uh but in general my  
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my speaking is way better uh what social media  do you like to you oh I guess you're talking to  
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each other all right P says uh but how do we deal  with the fact that even though we could already  
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know how to say something natively in English we  just forget that word and start feeling nonfluent  
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and feel bad well I mean if you in a conversation  like native speakers will have this same problem  
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where they will maybe forget a word or they will  think about maybe what's maybe that's not a good  
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way to say something I should say something else  so in that moment native speakers aren't feeling  
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bad that they forgot a particular word or thought  maybe there was a better way to say something they  
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just easily switch to something else and so that's  what I try to do with these lessons is is helping  
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you understand there are different ways to express  yourself and when you get lots of naturally varied  
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review you automatically learn these things  and that way if you forget one way you can  
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say something else and so the thing you should be  excited about is the ability to switch it's not  
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like oh I forgot this word so I feel bad just oh I  was able to remember this other word and use that  
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one and continue speaking and and so you you could  think about it like feeling bad that you forget a  
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word but it's it's like a better idea uh to think  oh I actually remembered uh this other word here  
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and I was able to continue speaking all right so  that's the way I think about it uh and and often  
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native speakers if they forget they just you know  it's more like a joke or a funny situation to them  
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like me like I was talking to my wife and I said  ah like M got the like you you know you use some  
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uh anesthetic but I couldn't remember the name  of it in English and that was just kind of like I  
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just thought that was kind of silly I I I couldn't  remember it but I I didn't feel bad about myself  
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for that I just thought it was funny all right  so don't feel bad and start getting more examples  
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of things and remember that native speakers  have those same issues so even if you have uh  
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something you want to communicate but you don't  know exactly how to say it just use something  
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else there's always different ways to express  yourself uh let's see C says did you prepare  
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uh yourself scenario before you approach  a girl or going on a date uh prepare my  
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well I don't really prepare anything I mean I  mean I I'm not going on any dates anyway now  
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U but I'm always uh introducing myself or or  striking up beginning starting conversations  
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with people so I will see people and I just  I just am naturally you know I like to try to  
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speak with people or try to make other people  feel comfortable or whatever if I can uh and  
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you know I will just say hello or notice something  I usually just notice something about a situation  
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I told a story a while ago about a uh I I was I  sat down at a coffee shop with a uh a woman and  
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she was with her husband and it was the only table  uh that had people sitting there so like the whole  
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restaurant the whole area was open but I sat right  next to them and so it it seems like it's kind of  
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an awkward situation if I walk up and sit right  next to a couple when there's lots of other seats  
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available but I just wanted to sit in my seat uh  and so that that was like my usual chair I like  
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it where it is you know I have my special spot  and so when I went in there I said oh they're  
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making us sit together like they're making  all of us foreigners sit together and the lady  
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said oh really you know and I said no no I'm just  kidding you know and but so we had a nice convers  
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but I didn't I didn't plan anything before that  I just thought like oh that would be kind of a  
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funny thing to say because the situation is like  the situation is I have to I have to kind of say  
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something to to make it not seem weird that we're  that I'm sitting next to them when there's a whole  
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restaurant full of tables available all right  so maybe I don't need to say anything at all  
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but it sounds kind of weird or it feels weird if  you just if you go into somebody's space and you  
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don't say anything about that so especially  like foreigners you know like we needed like  
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foreigners usually have a like a wider area of  space where they feel comfortable so especially  
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Americans Japanese have a smaller range of space  so Japanese people could stand closer together and  
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not feel uncomfortable about that but usually  native like people from America are standing a  
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little bit further apart we just have a natural  you know there's like a like a border there you  
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know so anyway I I felt that and I didn't think  of like like a pickup line or anything I didn't  
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plan anything but when I got there I just said  oh they're making us sit together because then  
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then I'm kind of messing with their their brains  a little bit because they don't they don't know  
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that they think I'm they don't know if I'm being  serious or not uh but then I just say no no it's  
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you know we're we're I'm just I'm just messing  around with you so uh the the point about about  
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fluency is is it's the same way with meeting  women or talking to people at a random coffee  
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shop or something like that the point is more to  to read the situation and then to have a good way  
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of expressing something for that situation so if  I'm trying to meet a woman uh or just talk with  
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her I would just say oh like we happen to be at  the same thing or I notice something interesting  
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about her that maybe other people would not notice  or whatever and so that that's that's like how  
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you how you begin or open the conversation  but I'm not trying to plan anything like a  
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good pickup line because the the pickup line is  really uh it's a appropriate for a particular
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situation all right and Alli says what is the best  way to practice English so I'm going to show you  
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that now Mohan says I can speak English easily  but I want to enhance my level So reading is a  
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better way to improve the point isn't just reading  or listening or watching or whatever it's just how  
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do I understand the language better okay and so  you need all three of these things you need to  
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learn the real language natives use or you won't  understand natives or speak fluently or you also  
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need to uh understand that like a native so  that just means you're learning English as  
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a first language you're able to understand it  with what people call comprehensible input and  
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then you need naturally varied review because  if you just get like some examples of something  
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that make it understandable from a teacher you're  still probably going to have uh errors or problems  
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with native speakers in a real communication  setting so in a real conversation people don't  
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speak clearly or they have an accent or they're  going to say something you weren't prepared for  
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so that's why the more preparation you can get  the more examples of things the more confident  
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you will feel but you don't need to do that with  other people so that's a really nice thing about  
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uh discovering this way of learning it's really  what other people do to you now if you're trying  
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to get fluent by yourself then you need  to be your own teacher which is actually  
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quite difficult and that's what I had to do  uh and still do to get fluent in Japanese  
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all right uh bck says it's 3:42 a.m. oh my  goodness in Poland well welcome B says great  
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explanation thank you glad to hear Helga says  uh thanks for your lessons from Russia dni 3D in  
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which part of Japan do you live I live in Nagasaki  Japan C says a person who unactive at speaking  
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tends to stuck at conversations and run out of  topics yes uh but again the the point is not to
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it's not to like learn a lot of information  it's to know that information well and you  
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notice like if I took all of the the vocabulary  I use in these live videos it's it's probably  
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not a huge number of words I'm I I can speak  for a long time and use words in different  
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ways but the actual vocabulary it's not that  not that much all right so let me finally  
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get to these examples so I wanted to talk  specifically about naturally varied review
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and remember the two main reasons that people  don't get enough review is number one it's  
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boring and number two they think they know the  information already okay so oh I know that word  
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I don't need to review that again oh that's  old I don't I don't care about that then why  
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are you not using it correctly why are you not  communicating fluently all right maybe you don't  
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know the information as well as you think you do  maybe you don't all right so situation uh we're  
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going to talk about this one is losing or missing  we'll just say lose and make sure that fits here
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opportunity so uh the situation is you miss  some kind of opportunity or you miss some  
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kind of chance and there are many ways we could  express this I can see if maybe you can think  
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of some but here this is an example of naturally  varied review for the situation all right there  
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are different kinds of naturally varied review  one of them is hearing the same English spoken  
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by different people or at different speeds or  in different tenses but here we're just talking  
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about actual different phrases that you could use  for this same situation all right so to lose an  
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opportunity maybe I go somewhere like where since  people are talking about dating uh let's say I am  
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uh there is a girl at a bar uh and or wherever  we're at a museum or something uh and she is  
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she is giving me that look like everybody knows  that look is like you know like she's looking  
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at me I can kind of tell she's looking at me  uh we call this dropping the handkerchief to  
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drop the handkerchief so this is a it's kind of  a metaphor or an idea uh where the woman is is  
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is beginning the interaction letting the man know  hey it's it's okay for you to say something to me  
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or look at me or something like that so the woman  is usually giving the man some kind of indication  
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like hey I'm I'm interested in you and like we  would uh in many years ago when a woman would  
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have like a a towel or a handkerchief she would  drop that on the floor and the man would walk by  
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and pick that up and that's how the conversation  would begin all right so that's one way of doing  
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it so uh talking about uh losing an opportunity  that's one opportunity where she uh was looking  
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at me there was clear uh an indicator of Interest  so she was clearly interested me in some way um  
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and I could probably say something but I was too  scared so I didn't I didn't do anything and I lost  
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the opportunity and maybe 20 minutes later she  left and I never saw her again all right so I  
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lost the opportunity to lose an opportunity what  are some different ways that we might say that  
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all right some in different ways that we might  Express that and again it's for losing really any  
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kind of opportunity I'm just giving a specific  situation like a man missing an opportunity to  
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speak with some woman at a at a bar or Museum  or resta restaurant or whatever all right so  
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you have a chance to do something what are some  different ways can you think of different ways you  
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might say that how would you express that idea  of missing an opportunity all right so one way  
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we might say this is to miss the boat to miss the  boat to miss the boat now we think about this you  
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can imagine yourself uh like here we are standing  on uh the dock and there is a boat waiting over  
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here to take us but oh no we took too long we're  trying to run but oh no now the boat the boat has
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left the boat is gone and now we missed the boat  so we missed the opportunity and you will hear  
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natives talk about trains in this way too like  to miss the boat or miss the train so if I'm my  
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like I I'm there with my friend and I say hey  you should go talk to that girl over there uh  
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or like you know it looks like she might leave  uh you might miss the boat the train is leaving  
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the station okay you better hurry you better  go or you will lose the opportunity you will  
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miss the boat you will miss your chance miss your  opportunity all right now notice what I'm doing  
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here you see we have all three of these things  covered at the same time so teaching you real  
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vocabulary like Miss the boat the train is leaving  the station these are ways natives would actually  
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Express this and then we have understanding it  like a native so I'm showing you an example I'm  
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not just giving you a translation of something  I'm trying to help you understand look here's  
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a dock where a boat is and maybe if you're too  late you take too long no no the boat is leaving  
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and the boat left so you missed the boat or  you missed the train or you missed the bus  
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you can use all of those expressions to describe  this same situation okay but notice we're also  
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getting that naturally varied review hearing more  examples hearing different ways we might say that  
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now you don't need to remember all of these  things or try to use all of these things in  
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your conversations maybe you just remember one  but the important thing is that you are prepared  
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and you understand when people are talking about  ah I missed the boat I missed the bus I miss the  
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train okay so all of those things are fine so  it's like something that leaves on a schedule  
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you have an opportunity right now there's a  window of opportunity a window of opportunity  
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and nope the window is closed all right to  miss the boat can you think of some other  
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ways to understand or how to express this I'll  give you some more I'm going to write a bunch  
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of them on here let's see uh you can just say  to lose out on it's a interesting phrasal verb  
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way of saying this to lose out on something  or to miss out miss out oh no don't miss out  
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don't lose out don't lose out don't lose out on  a opportunity on an opportunity so don't miss out  
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on an opportunity or uh like in the uh previous  video I talked about like letting something slip
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through your fingers so let something  slip through your fingers let something  
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slip through your fingers so I  have had a chance an opportunity  
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but oh no it slipped through my  fingers it slipped through my
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fingers all right or you could say to drop the  ball to drop the ball this is a uh an idea from  
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sports like if I someone is you know throwing  me a football or a baseball but oh no I dropped  
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it oh no I missed that opportunity so I had  the chance to do something and I missed it I  
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dropped the ball I dropped the ball so all of  these things are great when you lose any kind  
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of opportunity so I can drop the ball at work I  can drop the ball on a date by saying something  
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stupid or missing an opportunity in some way uh  or if I'm trying to get a job and I I forget to  
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wear pants to the interview oh no I missed the  boat on that one I dropped the ball on that one  
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I made a mistake I lost an opportunity all right  I could go on and on uh I've actually put some  
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more examples of these uh into the comments or  actually well they will be in the comments but  
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they're in the description below this video so if  you want to look at some other ways that express  
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the same thing I don't want to cover all of them  because you get the idea all right so you don't  
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need to remember all of these things the point is  you should be prepared for things like that and  
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you become better prepared when you get naturally  varied review all right so the typical way people  
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people would do this in a regular classroom is you  might just say like to miss an opportunity or lose  
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an opportunity and that's fine uh and then maybe  you will hear this as a translation or you get a  
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definition of that rather than thinking about the  situation and the vocabulary the way a a person  
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learning in their first language would do and  then you would probably just repeat that again  
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and again you would say Miss uh an opportunity or  lose an opportunity now if someone else says hey  
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I missed the boat you would think what where where  where is a boat I don't what are you talking about  
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and that's because you're not thinking about  it like a native speaker so a native speaker  
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is taking another situation and saying it's it's  like this you're losing an opportunity so just  
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like missing a boat you could be missing a chance  to to date or you know talk with some person or  
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whatever okay so this happens a lot in life even  you know if we uh maybe we we try to do something  
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or even if it's not our fault you know sometimes  we get opportunities and they they pass Us by so  
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either we we snatch those opportunities or we  do not all right I'll share one more uh that I  
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just think is interesting because this is a  a native way of uh kind of playing with the
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language and this is to snatch
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defeat from the JW cause of
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Victory now often people will hear uh the  opposite which is to snatch Victory from  
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the jaws of defeat all right now it's  harder to understand if I just read  
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the words out to you but if you can  think about it like uh some kind of
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animal like there is a there's me over here and  there's some kind of giant animal with lots of  
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teeth oh no he's he's going to eat me like this  so these are like the jaws of some creature that's  
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it's trying to eat me uh but I just I get away oh  I snatched Victory so maybe I was like reaching  
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reaching in here to get some I don't know like  special Prize or something like that so I reach in  
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and very quickly grab it wh so I snatch something  from the from the Jaws so the Jaws are the like  
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the mouth of that thing like the upper jaw and the  lower jaw so to snatch something to snatch Victory  
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from the jaws of defeat so this is an example of  when maybe you were close to failing but you won  
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you succeeded okay so to snatch Victory from the  jaws of defeat so instead of losing so you were  
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very close to losing but you won so often movies  are like this like the character has to fight some  
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kind of monster or there's a great challenge  or something uh and you almost loses but but  
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he wins so he snatches Victory from the jaws of  defeat now n had taken this and they write it in  
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the opposite way or they say it in the opposite  way which is to snatch defeat from the jaws of  
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Victory and so this is the opposite thing like  like you should have won that it was very easy  
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but you failed anyway all right so you missed  some kind of opportunity you snatched defeat  
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you didn't snatch Victory you snatched defeat you  lost from the jaws of Victory so something it was  
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yours to lose like you you had the opportunity  it was right there but you didn't you didn't  
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make you didn't make it or you didn't uh take  advantage of the opportunity whatever that was  
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all right so this is the kind of situation will  happen uh that will happen frequently in movies  
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TV shows everyday conversations everyday life when  you know maybe you have a chance to do something  
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but then you don't or you you thought you could do  something but maybe you didn't really or it wasn't  
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your fault but uh it's the same kind of idea all  right and so there are lots of different ways to  
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express that so if you understand them you try  to think about it more like a native you can even  
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just pick one or two that you like to use so I say  like oh I miss the boat okay but I understand if  
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someone says oh no you snatched defeat from the  jaws of Victory it's like you should have won but  
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you you found a way to to to lose that all right  it's like the the girl was clearly interested in  
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you why didn't you go talk with her I was too shy  or whatever all right so you snatched defeat from  
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the jaws of Victory all right so again when you're  learning whether you're learning by yourself or  
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you're learning with someone like me who makes  it easy for you you have to get these things you  
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have to understand the real language you have to  understand it the way a native would understand it  
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so all as a a first language like in English and  then you have to get lots of review varied review  
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not just repeating things again and again so you  have to understand it like a native and review it  
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in different ways the same way a native does if  you can do this even if you don't have a speaking  
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practice partner you will become a confident  speaker because you will understand the language  
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better and then when you have an opportunity  to speak you will feel much more confident in  
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that situation okay so again the typical way that  people would be learning they try to uh they try  
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to speak a lot because they think that speaking  makes you fluent but speaking doesn't make you  
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fluent because uh if you're speaking when you  speak you're not actually learning anything new  
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you're just repeating what you already know  and it's probably something you already feel  
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comfortable with so you're not going to feel  more confident try to use like additional uh  
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like additional vocabulary or learn something  new now in a conversation uh you will uh find  
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especially if you speak with people who are  better speakers or native speakers you will  
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listen to what they say and then you will learn  things there so that's how conversations are good  
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but actually you speaking is not as helpful as  people think it is all right so if you already  
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feel comfortable then go ahead and speak but  you're probably not going to learn much more  
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from yourself from the words you say all right  it's always what other people are saying to you  
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that's how you develop that fluency because the  whole point is to destroy doubt if you have doubt  
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about something you won't use it in conversations  all right check last couple of comments here and I
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think
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uh let's see someone says missed the boat missed  the train yep George missed the Rocket Ride to  
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Sky High ah yes that's right yeah you might  you like you'll hear this this same kind of  
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thing uh especially used with stocks it's  like oh no you missed you missed the Rocket  
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Ride or you missed the elevator or you  you know whatever that kind of metaphor  
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about something Rising going up like that so  NCO says if I understand you think that it's  
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not necessary to talk to reach fluency but if  you don't practice talking all my vocabularies  
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is in my passive vocabulary it would be  like a child uh if a child doesn't speak  
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uh in in the uh last video I talked about  this as well imagine someone who's mute so
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mute so a mute person cannot speak all right but  they could still be fluent if you spoke to them  
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they would understand the language uh and and  the the idea about passive vocabulary usually  
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it just means you don't know that vocabulary very  well it's not about uh like like if I I if I know  
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something would I feel confident saying that if I  don't feel confident then that's where we have the  
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the passive vocabulary uh rather than something  that you would feel confident using like in an  
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active way this will be our last point for today  but Nico has some good questions so we should  
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review this the basic idea is that when you are  learning new vocabulary you go through different  
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stages of understanding so the first time let's  say this is like 0% understanding and this is  
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understanding like perfect understanding you  know how to use something or say something  
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correctly confidently fluently pronunciation  is great uh so there is there's a wide range  
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where your understanding level might be so  when you first hear something we call that
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exposure so that's here so this like you hear  a word or phrase and maybe I don't know what it  
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means but I've heard it I've been exposed to that  I don't feel confident about using it because all  
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of this over here so if this is understanding  this is doubt all right and as we get more  
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understanding we destroy more doubt we feel  more confident now we get up here which is like
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awareness and this is where people have a  passive vocabulary so they can understand  
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something when other people speak I can watch a  movie and follow the movie movie but I wouldn't  
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feel confident saying that all right so I can I  I could watch lots of movies and not speak at all  
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and even learn new vocabulary um like as just me  the the person not like like a learner or whatever  
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um but I'm talk just talking about in English  like I might learn some new vocabulary that way  
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uh and not use it but if I'm 100% confident that I  understand what the vocabulary is or maybe I hear  
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like something like missing the boat or missing  the train so a young child will hear miss the  
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train and you think literally like oh no there's  like a physical train and the train left and we  
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didn't get that train all right so the child is  not really applying that in a figurative way to  
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other situations that there's no actual train  there it just means losing an opportunity or a  
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chance all right so as you get older you hear  someone that they the the situation is they  
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lost an opportunity and someone else says oh you  missed the boat on that one you missed the boat  
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and the child thinks wait a minute like there's  no boat there what are they talking about but  
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like they understand they make that connection  naturally ah okay I I understand the situation  
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so you you're doing all of this even if you  don't speak all right but the point when you  
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really understand something you get that uh what  I call an aha moment where your understanding  
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gets really B really uh really good really  clear and you think ah now I really understand  
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something well and I feel confident using that  all right that's where you get to the ownership
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level the ownership level excuse me uh with your  vocabulary and that's for individual words and  
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phrases as you understand them better all right  so you begin with exposure you go to awareness  
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and this is where most people get stuck and the  reason they get stuck they have this passive  
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vocabulary it's because they still have some kind  of doubt about pronunciation grammar vocabulary  
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usage whatever that thing is that's stops them  from using that vocabulary okay so you could you  
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could actually know something very well and never  speak just like a mute person that's physically  
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it's physically impossible for them to speak all  right or you're born with no mouth or something  
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like that so you can still become fluent and  understand the language and when people are  
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talking or maybe you write instead of communicate  like speaking uh but you move through these same  
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phases uh for for anything like this with language  so you get exposed you finally have awareness  
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level when you feel okay now I recognize that  information it's not just some some noise or  
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sound I understand what that is and then I get  ownership where I control the word now now I  
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really feel like it's part of me I understand that  and I might not say the word but if I did say it I  
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would feel confident about using it like I missed  the boat all right so if I'm in a situation where  
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uh somebody is like forgotten something or they  lost an opportunity or whatever I could say ah  
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you missed the boat all right and I would use that  correctly it's like okay I see people using that  
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in a movie I'm getting naturally varied review  I'm seeing lots of different examples of people  
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talking about missing the boat about a girl or  missing the boat about a job or missing the boat  
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about some other thing like that so they had a  chance to do something but they did not do it  
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or they couldn't do it or whatever they missed the  boat they missed their chance all right and so the  
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point is uh if you don't feel 100% confident it's  because there's some kind of Doubt so you need to  
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destroy that doubt to get ownership of the word  and when you do feel that ownership level even if  
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you don't speak you are fluent in that vocabulary  so fluency is something that happens independently  
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of whether you speak or not and speaking is not  what really like allows you to to retain the  
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vocabulary I mean I could read books or whatever  and still be trying like keeping that active in  
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my mind like uh somebody else I see them on a  TV show talking about missing the boat that's  
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refreshing my mind with more naturally varied  review okay so the point is not like speaking  
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developing fluency it's fluency developing speech  because if you don't feel confident if you don't  
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destroy the doubt how are you going to speak how  would you do that basically you would just be  
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speaking and saying things that you don't really  feel confident about which you could do but it's  
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not really helping you it's it's actually making  you feel worse and if you talk about crashing like  
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going back to that like he recognized that  same thing and even children they go through  
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the same thing this basically quiet period where  they're just learning things and I see this with  
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my kids all the time like they're just watching a  movie or they're listening to me talking you know  
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like or whatever some people talking and then  suddenly they say the word and it's because  
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they went through these phases where they heard  something they understood something and they  
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destroyed the doubt and that's where they really  felt confident about saying something okay so you  
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don't have to have a lot of people with you to  to practice speaking the point is can you get  
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the doubt destroyed can either you you do that  by yourself or you get somebody like me to do  
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that for you okay but that's how you do it and  so again like I I don't become a better Japanese  
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speaker simply by speaking Japanese I get better  by understanding the language better okay so it's  
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not just comprehensible input the point is doubt  destruction that's the goal because it's the doubt  
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that stops you from speaking all right hopefully  that makes sense over there but uh these are all  
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good questions and I'm glad uh hopefully these  are making more sense let's see I think I did I  
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skip some things over here let's see DSi great  explanation Salvador says Salvador mate from  
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mosambique love the explanation glad to hear it  thank you for the lesson from China see again just  
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imagine if I were your son and going on a date uh  I was so nervous and I told you what are you going  
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to say to me I would say hey just relax as there  are plenty of fish in the sea there are plenty of  
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fish in the sea lots of ladies out there uh and  you know you don't want to put the lady up on a  
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pedestal because that's actually going to make  her like you less so just go and enjoy yourself  
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and and see if you're actually interested in her  or not let's see Miss the boat okay I got those  
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already okay uh slip through your fingers sounds  like fall through the cracks yep there you go so  
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if you're remembering that's more naturally varied  review for you so these are different like that  
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opportunity uh kind of slipped past me all right  so fell through the cracks or something like slip  
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past is typically used more uh for when we like  lose an opportunity like it slipped through my  
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fingers so it's the kind of the kind of expression  where uh like I had some kind of control and  
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I couldn't I couldn't close the deal or I  couldn't I couldn't finish something or or get  
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the opportunity uh let's see miss my lover well I  guess you're talking about somebody else let's see  
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good all right nice explanation hello Sensei says  Koo good tip uh let's see argentinia snatches the  
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snatches Victory from the jaws of mbapp there  you go and again says I know you speak slower  
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than usual for your students but how do you speak  English in in your real life do you use different  
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vocabulary your English is so understandable  I wish movies were like that yes so the the  
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way I speak it's the same way if I'm talking to a  woman I'm going to change the way I speak for for  
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the appropriate situation so I know more people  are not going to understand my my normal speaking  
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uh usually it's because I'm using things like  missing the boat or whatever like I I use more  
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kind of idioms and phrases and uh and things like  that uh because I'm I'm I'm trying to connect with  
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the person I'm I'm speaking with so I'm not um I'm  not trying to like speak one way with everybody  
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I I speak in different ways with different people  so I can speak more formally if I need to or I can  
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speak more casually but usually I'm trying to make  a connection with the person I'm speaking with uh  
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or with with the person the person I'm I'm like  try not trying to use with too many times uh in  
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the sentence there uh but the point is I change  the way I speak and if I'm speaking casually with  
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my friends like I will often use movie quotes  and references and things like that because  
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they know that so I'm I'm basing my communication  uh on on how they or like the the vocabulary they  
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know uh but you can see if you look at um like  conversation videos here on YouTube that that  
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I'm in um just on our Channel you can find that  like examples of uh conversations from fluent for  
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life but it's it's a different way you'll see me  speaking differently there Lake says uh hello from  
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Korea I really appreciate your helpful videos and  love your accents glad to hear it and americ says  
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everything first in my mind is Chinese instead of  English and yes if if that's how you how you were  
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thinking about English it's because that's how you  learned so don't feel bad about that it's not your  
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fault but now you can change the way you learn you  can start learning English as a first language and  
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then you will start speaking English as a first  language it's pretty easy how that works so you  
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can see like if you learn this way then of course  you will have trouble communicating but if you  
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uh if you think how can I learn and understand  like a native then you will understand and speak  
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more like a native and you will feel much more  confident about that all right since I have a  
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question is it really bad to mix American English  and British English I've been told it won't help  
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me improve so well I mean it it depends like uh I  think the the only thing is more there are certain  
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there are certain uh pronunciations that are  different and certain words that are different  
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like if if I say uh like he's taking the piss like  you take you taking a piss you taking a piss it's  
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like if if I if I say that in in British English  it means like am I kind of joking with someone but  
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in American English it means I'm actually taking a  piss like I'm at the toilet so there there's some  
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things that have a different meaning like that  uh and it would be kind of like if I was if I was  
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speaking like like oaka Ben and Nagasaki Ben and  and mixing them together and I was like like like
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like and I started speaking like oaka Ben I  switched Nagasaki Ben it's like Mo and and and  
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and people might hear that and they might think  like that's interesting he's he's like you know  
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speaking with two different like two different  dialects uh or or my pronunciation is a little bit  
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different or or I'm sounding a little bit weird  um but in general you should be getting a mix of  
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different things uh if you're maybe dealing with  uh different kinds of speakers or if you need to  
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watch movies and you have uh different kinds of  speakers those movies so as I usually recommend  
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if I'm living somewhere like I live in Nagasaki  so I'm going to hear a lot of Nagasaki band you  
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know that makes sense like if I'm in Texas I'm  going to hear a lot of people speaking you know  
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with it like a southern Texas accent and so if  you if your everyday life is in that then you  
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should focus on that but if you like watching  movies about British dramas or something then  
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you can learn that vocabulary too so I I wouldn't  I I wouldn't worry too much about like mixing that  
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stuff up but people might notice that like if I'm  in Texas and I like watching British I don't know  
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British TV shows and I and I say hello to people  I'm like well top of the morning to you you know  
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like like say something like that like in like  they would think like that's kind of weird you  
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know so I me it might be kind of funny but I  wouldn't I wouldn't worry about it too much but  
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you know like I I could do that just as a joke  like say that say that to people I I talk with  
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so I have a few different friends in Nagasaki that  are that are foreigners from different places like  
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a a New Zealander so he's a kiwi and another  friend who's an Australian and we we kind of  
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uh so there's a uh there's a bug like a large it's  like a large cricket um what would be the Japanese  
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equivalent like a uh like a cogi no not like a  cogi it's like a um uh I forget the name of it  
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but just just like like it's it's like a large  bug called a wi so like the the Japanese or the  
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the New Zealand pronunciation is is a little bit  different from how I would pronounce it in English  
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so I would say like a WETA like WETA like but the  New Zealand pronunciation is like wit wit wit wit  
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so we were talking about that in like this uh you  know just just comparing the different accents  
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and if you mix them together uh it just sounds  a little bit funny but I wouldn't worry too much  
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about that but it is nice like all usually  the like the Japanese uh speakers I meet who  
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have lived abroad they they sound like like the  country they were living in so obviously like if  
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a Japanese woman goes to New Zealand or Australia  she's going to start speaking that kind of English  
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or if you have people who are you know like from  China living in Australia or something they're  
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they're going to be sounding more uh they're going  to have that Australian accent so it's okay uh  
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says why do you have to burst into these kinds of  examples of missing the opportunity to talk about  
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a girl that previous day I saw a foreign girl who  needed help understanding what local people were  
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trying to say and I could help her and at the same  time taking advantage of improving my English and  
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pick up myself a girl a very beautiful one but  I didn't have the guts to take the step honestly  
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doc I felt shame it's okay but you learned from  that now I I've been in that situation before I  
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remember when I was in high school uh and I I had  like there was this chance I blew an opportunity  
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it was like like I blew it I blew it you know I  like it it blew up in my hand like I I I let it  
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slip through my fingers I was sitting with a  girl we were on a walk and we were at a park  
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it was like kind of like a nature walk and just  sitting at a uh like on a log and we were the only  
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people there and she was clearly like waiting  for me to kiss her or whatever and I I didn't  
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do it so so you know we we've all been there and  this this is this is another good expression as
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well when you are telling a story  or showing empathy empathy like  
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you you show other people that I  understand how you feel uh you can  
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say we've all been there so this is  another way of saying I know how you
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feel or I understand
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stand or I
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know [Music]
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know so all of these different things again  this is more naturally varied review but when  
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someone tells a situation like that or describes  a situation so I know what that's like or I know  
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what it's like we've all been there we've all been  there so we have all had that opportunity or that  
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chance or we've like you know uh whether it's a  a girl or whatever uh but you miss some kind of  
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opportunity we've all been there we've all been  there so we've all had that experience I know how  
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you feel or just I understand I understand all  right so there different ways you can express  
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this but these are the kinds of things you will  see in movies like yes I can relate another good  
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example very good I can relate so I can relate is  like when you when you think about um like uh like  
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I can relate is a little bit less strong because  it's like like a similar thing happened to me but  
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if you want to say like I know exactly how you  feel so I know how you feel or I know exactly  
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how you feel because I had the exact same thing  happened to me okay so if you can say like I can  
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relate you can also use that to talk about  missing a different kind of opportunity so  
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if your son is saying he felt bad because he he  missed a chance with some girl you can say well  
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uh I can relate I missed a chance with my you know  boss or something like that like I missed some  
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opportunity or something like that so I can relate  is a little bit less strong because it's not the  
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exact same situation and people like typically  when you're empathizing with someone like if you  
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can say well I've had the exact same thing happen  to me okay so I understand I understand perfectly  
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I understand completely okay I feel for you yeah  so I feel for you is like when you are when you're  
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talking about their situation and even though I  like I maybe I've never been I've never lost an  
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opportunity with a girl let's imagine that so  I've never never missed an opportunity but I  
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understand you know maybe somebody else has so I  understand how you feel I feel for you all right  
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so I feel bad uh that you have that situation  I feel for you all right I think everybody's  
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getting it though what time is it all right we're  winding down here but I think people are getting  
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it let's see but don't feel bad about that there  will be plenty of opportunities but like use that  
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shame that bad feeling to remind yourself next  time you will uh take that chance next time you  
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will I would tell another story about that but  this video doesn't need to continue longer than  
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it is let's see pure mind edu or Edie or edu or  something like that why the acccident movie is  
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not easy to understand because it's just how  native speakers are are talking and native  
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speakers understand each other just fine because  they've had lots of examples of native English  
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that's it so the reason it's difficult for most  Learners is because they don't learn real English  
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that's like the fundamental thing they're not  learning the real examples the real vocabulary  
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the real uh you know the real expressions like the  kinds of things I'm telling you here all right so  
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even if you learn those things in YouTube videos  you will find this is the most common thing you  
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Find in YouTube here is some real vocabulary for  this but most people don't remember what they  
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learned because they don't learn it like a native  they don't learn it as a first language and they  
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certainly don't get much review okay so you have  to correct that problem for yourself especially  
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if you're learning by yourself or you just have  someone like me do the hard work for you so all  
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this stuff is already done it's all waiting it's  all ready all you have to do is just relax and go  
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through the program and it will get you fluent  automatically so that's what fluent for life is  
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if you'd like to learn more about that you can  click on the link in the description below this  
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video all right uh last couple of questions  over here KO says W glad to hear it British  
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accon give me a bottle of water very funny yes so  that a bottle of water a bottle of water and we  
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you know we kind of make fun of that uh and and  British people make fun of our accent as well  
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it's all in good fun you know all right thank  you so much says kcko and says I've been there  
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we did that one already J Joo the Beast and so  this is almost like a Katakana word where I'm  
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I'm trying to figure out where the is it like  Noth Bist like like J Noth jist or it could be  
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J no or something hey guys hey everyone says  Johnny how are you I feel for you and Chris  
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says British accent be like AR that's right AR  you know and so they they have they have those  
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the letters but they just don't use them you know  all right uh are you going on vacation next week  
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yes uh so next week there will be no live videos  but again it's an an excellent time to review go  
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back and actually review the things that maybe  you have not seen yet or something but continue  
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to review and you will feel more uh so I think  there will be maybe some short videos released all  
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right so help me to be fluent again go back and  watch this video uh and you will enjoy that so no  
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there will be no live videos next week but go back  you don't need a live video to get fluent there  
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probably other videos I have many of them that you  have not seen go watch those all right that's why  
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they're here don't wait for like the exact live  video that it's I'm often talking about the same  
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things anyway I'm just trying to give people more  review I'm trying to trick you into getting fluent  
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all right in Chile we don't pronounce the s ah  okay where are you going uh I'll be in Okinawa  
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for a few days I I just won't be here during my  us us recording times but have a fantastic day if  
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you'd like to learn more about fluent for Life  uh or especially Frederick for improving your  
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pronunciation you can click on the links in the  description for that uh and I will see you uh I  
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guess in like over a week I guess about a week  and have a fantastic day see you then bye-bye
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