🌻 OUTSIDE in the SUN 😎 - English Addict πŸ”΄LIVE stream - Episode 302 / Sun 28th JULY 2024

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2024-07-29 ・ English Addict with Mr Duncan


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🌻 OUTSIDE in the SUN 😎 - English Addict πŸ”΄LIVE stream - Episode 302 / Sun 28th JULY 2024

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English Addict with Mr Duncan


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Hello, everyone.
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Welcome to our live stream for Sunday
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the 28th of July, 2024.
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We are out in the garden and
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it is a beautiful afternoon.
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Even though the insects, all of the flies
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and all of the other annoying types of creature.
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nibbling away.
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But we are here anyway.
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It is myself, Mr.
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Duncan, and of course.
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Yes, he is here as well.
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In the garden.
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We are now live.
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And here we are.
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Oh, here we are.
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If you want.
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Oh my goodness.
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Hi everybody.
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This is Mr.
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Duncan and Mr. Steve.
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Mr. Steve is with us as well.
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And we are here today
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live with something slightly different because the weather is so nice.
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I couldn't resist coming outside to do a live stream.
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So we are with you now, live from England.
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It is just after 5.5 minutes
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past 2:00 and we are here and Mr.
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Steve is with me as well, even though he's been very busy this morning.
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But we are here and we're enjoying the weather.
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We are and we're relaxed.
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Mr. Duncan, we're sitting here.
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All we need is a glass of wine.
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some aperitifs.
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we're just sitting here. Come to be persuaded, Mr.
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Duncan, that we should be sitting down, not standing up.
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And Mr.
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Duncan went with my suggestion, so we may actually fall
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asleep halfway through this live stream.
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So if you want to watch us, if you
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if you want to want to actually watch us here
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sleeping for the whole afternoon with the flies slowly
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eating us alive, then please let us know on the live chat.
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Yes, the live chat is up and running.
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Congratulate Vitus.
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By the way, you are first on today's live chat.
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Congratulations, Vitus.
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You are first here today with people here. Mr..
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Can you hear us?
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This is the main thing.
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Do tell us.
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Please tell us if you can. Tell us. If you can hear it.
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Can you hear us? And can you see us?
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If you can, then both of those things will be most welcome.
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If I was honest with you, there's lots of people on the live chat.
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Mr. Duncan, Beatrice is here. Hello, Beatrice.
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sash? Sash is here.
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the red CEO is here as well.
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and somebody from Poland saying a big hello.
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Mario, I'll try and pronounce your name correctly.
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we've got Mr. Putin as well.
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Hello, Mr.
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Barry, it's nice to see you here as well.
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And we are in the garden and, not now.
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I did take a big risk today because at this time of year,
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all of the insects are now buzzing around.
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So we might actually slowly start losing limbs
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as we are doing this, as the insects are chewing into us.
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This is not the most flattering angle, by the way,
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because when you sit down like this,
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it looks as if you've got a giant stomach.
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But we haven't, so neither of us have big stomachs.
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It's just the angle of the camera I tried to make.
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It is flattering as possible, but you know what it's like
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I'm holding my stomach in, Mr.
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Duncan. I'm puffing up my chest.
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Okay. Make myself macho.
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The live chat. Hello, everyone.
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If you want to say hello on the live chat, please say hello.
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Please say hello to me or if you want to.
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I don't know why, why you would want to,
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but you might want to say hello to Mr.
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Steve as well.
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And it's a beautiful afternoon.
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We had some terrible weather last week
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and then the weather suddenly changed and everything went nice.
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And today we are having lovely, lovely weather tomorrow as well.
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Apparently tomorrow it might be 28 Celsius.
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Blimey, Mr. Duncan, it's going to be.
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That's going to be far too hot for us.
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Can I say hello?
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Hello to everyone watching in Rome at the moment.
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Apparently it's 43 at the moment in Rome.
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Well, guys.
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Yes, it's a good job we're not there now, Mr. Duncan.
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We were, of course, there.
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As you well know, a lot of people watching matters there,
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and it would be probably a little too hot
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to be looking at all the sights.
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probably.
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It's 50 degrees inside the Colosseum.
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Ale IL Colosio, I should say,
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if I'm going to pronounce it in the Italian.
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No way.
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Wait, why are you talking in this strange, muffled way?
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I know what Steve's afraid of.
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Failing. Mr..
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Don't, don't, He's worried the neighbours will hear us anyway.
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I couldn't care less, Mr. Duncan.
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I them couldn't care. Anyone can hear us. That's it.
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That's good project. Project?
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Oh, I've been I've been killing off.
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We just.
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This morning, Mr.
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Duncan, you were always busy in the garden.
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I don't know how Steve does it, but he always manages
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to find something to do in the garden.
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I really hate this angle.
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It really looks like my stomach is bulging out, but it is bulging out.
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No, it isn't it.
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Look, Steve, you did this last week.
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You are always on very thin ice.
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Maybe. Maybe we need to to sink down a bit.
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So I think that makes it worse.
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Says it.
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I don't know why this angle.
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Look, I'm pushing my stomach right in.
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There's nothing there.
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I know that is your stomach.
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Okay. Again.
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Steve, I don't know why you keep playing with this fire.
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I could I could see things just without even trying.
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Say hello to receive in Brazil.
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Hello.
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I now pronounce that name incorrectly, but I'm saying hello to you anyway.
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That says Lucius Maximus Recife, I think.
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I think Recife might be, I'm not sure if that's the place
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or the person.
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We will have to wait.
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Well, I'm sure we will find it.
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I think you're right.
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I think it's in Brazil.
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Okay, Steve, we just need Pedro.
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And then we've got two people from Brazil watching.
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By the way, this does work better if only one of us talks.
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Mr.. Steve.
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Mr.. Steve. Yes?
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Have you been watching the very,
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very exciting and not at all boring,
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but really, really interesting,
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incredibly fascinating Olympic Games.
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Have you been watching them?
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I haven't been watching the Olympic Games.
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I saw some of the opening ceremony.
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Celine Dion was fantastic.
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I have to say, she was outstanding.
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No, we didn't watch all of it, did we?
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We didn't watch all of the opening ceremony.
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Apparently some people were getting really afraid and upset
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for various reasons.
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But I have to say, the icing on the cake,
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the most amazing moment of the opening
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ceremony was the part that we actually caught.
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So we tuned in just as it was finishing
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and Celine Dion was there singing on the Eiffel Tower
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to the whole world.
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That was outstanding, which is,
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that is a consummate professional, which isn't.
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Well, she's been incredibly ill.
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She's had this serious illness, stiff body syndrome.
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I've never heard of it until I read the the story about Celine Dion.
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And apparently it can cause spasms
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all over your body and you can't move you literally.
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It leaves you completely rigid and you can't do anything, including speak.
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So if you are a singer, as you are, Mr.
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Steve, you have to be careful.
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These sorts of things can end your career.
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So I thought it was amazing.
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A wonderful song as well.
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Yeah, she was fabulous.
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what a way to end the opening ceremony.
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It was very French, which is what we want.
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You know, if you're going to hold the Olympic Games in your country,
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you want the opening ceremony to reflect your culture.
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And it certainly did that.
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So, shame about the rain, but you can't do anything about the weather.
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No, I have to say,
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it might be the wettest ceremony I've ever seen.
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And I've seen some very wet ceremonies,
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by the way, today, besides the Olympic Games,
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because everyone's talking about it.
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I would imagine that a lot of people at the moment,
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Steve, are not even watching.
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They're probably watching the they're running or I think today,
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I think today it was the women's volleyball.
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Was it the volleyball in front of the Eiffel Tower?
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So I would imagine a lot of the men are watching the women's volleyball,
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possibly.
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I don't know why they would, but possibly Mr. Duncan.
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anyway, what are we going to be talking about today?
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Well, we have a few things to talk about.
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We'll be looking at small talk now, small talk is something we all do.
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I think it is part of the the social glue,
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the way in which society keeps moving along.
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And there are many things that we do
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in our day to day lives, especially on a social basis
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that sometimes make no sense.
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So, for example, the other night, Steve,
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we were going for a walk and we met a neighbour
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walking her dog, and you said,
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are you going for a walk?
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And at the moment it doesn't seem that bad.
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It seems like a normal thing to say, but afterwards
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you kind of think, well, it's obvious.
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It's obvious that she's going for a walk because she's out in the street
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walking with the dog.
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So but what we do tend to do this, that we,
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we like to open the conversation with some sort of small talk.
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That's right.
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So if we see someone doing something quite often, we will ask them
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if they are doing that particular thing,
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which when you think about it, makes absolutely no sense
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because clearly that's what they're doing.
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But we like to use small talk, and sometimes it's a good way
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of opening a conversation.
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Yes, you could talk about the weather,
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is a good opening bit of small talk in the UK.
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Oh, isn't it hot today?
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Oh, isn't it cold today?
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Ooh. It's a, it's a bit.
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It's a bit. Oh what's going to happen. Is it going to rain.
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Oh the garden's dry.
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Need some anything.
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it could be.
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Oh. Did you see that TV programme. Right.
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Oh, I like your dress.
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That's very nice.
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Have you changed your hair?
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Oh, I don't, I'm not sure about that.
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I don't think you can say that nowadays.
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I think will just lie, but anything to get the conversation going.
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I'm very good at this, Mr.
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Duncan, but my my point is, quite often we say things that make no sense.
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Because if you see someone doing something, you will still ask them
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if they are doing that actual thing.
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Like the other night. Are you going?
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Are you going for a walk? Are you?
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Well, yes.
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Because.
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Because that's what you want to say in response.
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You want to say, well, clearly, of course I'm going for a walk.
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Can't you see me walking along the road?
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But we've had this said to us as well.
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So we've been out walking another people have met us
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and they've asked us
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if we are going for a walk, which of course is is is obvious.
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Of course we are.
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But it just gets conver this conversation going.
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It's the glue that holds society together.
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It is true, as I often say, and but there's nothing worse.
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If you walk past somebody and they ignore you
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if you know them, or even if we're out walking quite commonly,
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if we go out for a walk and you meet other people
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coming in the opposite direction, it is courtesy.
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To at least
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smile or say hello for something.
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Unless, of course, you don't like them, in which case you do
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the opposite, which is ignore them completely.
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You just you snub them.
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It's S and you b I'm snub,
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but but that you don't usually do that too.
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If there's not many people that you would come across but you don't like.
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I'm very good at snubbing people.
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I if there was ever an Olympic sport, Mr.
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Steve of snubbing, I think I would get the gold medal every time.
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Yes, you are very good at that.
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But I went for a walk stroke run.
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What I mean is a bit of a walk,
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a bit of a run, a bit of both.
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We're not saying that you have a stroke when you have a run, a stroke.
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I mean, I mean the, the,
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stroke that you would put in writing,
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what would you call that, like a forward stroke. Yes.
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Well, it's a stroke walk.
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Yes. Because you're using two things in the same sentence.
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So, so that they both kind of relate to each other
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with the subject that you're talking about.
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So you might say walk, stroke, run.
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So you're saying that those two things
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are both happening during that time. Yes.
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so I did that the other day and there was a lady with two dogs
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coming towards me, and I went to say,
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in fact, I did say hello to her as you,
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because we were in the middle of nowhere.
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There was nobody else around.
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It's not like there were crowds of people.
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So I just, I was the only person I passed in about 20 minutes.
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So I said hello and she just looked away.
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In between like that.
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Very strange.
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I think I didn't think, I think what annoyed her was her
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dogs were off the lead,
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which they shouldn't have been on a public footpath.
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And, she was annoyed because I was coming along
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and she had to put them back on the lead to stop them running at me.
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so, but I was friendly.
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I said hello, but a lot of people I've noticed around here, Mr.
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Duncan, out in the country,
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when they're out for a walk,
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they tend to think that it is their own land
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that they're walking on with their dogs or whatever.
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And so for some reason, they get quite annoyed.
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if you come along.
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Yeah.
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Well, this is this is a whole subject, though, isn't it?
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This is a house subject. This is this.
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This could be the the dog subject
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where people are walking with their dogs.
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And can you believe it, one of our local newspapers around this area,
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they actually did a report last week
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because apparently more and more people are.
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What are you doing, Steve?
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I standing very distracting.
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It's very distracting when you're doing that.
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And he going like the
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in the local newspaper,
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the local newspaper reported that there are more people now complaining
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or reporting other people to the police
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because of their badly behaved dog.
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And apparently the number of people complaining
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about dogs, generally
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in public places has increased.
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So more and more people are becoming, I would say, maybe annoyed.
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So you're right, Steve, when you meet someone with a dog
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and they're coming towards you, maybe the dog
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is running around in a crazy way
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and you just want to go for a nice walk,
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and sometimes the owner will look at you as
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if is if you're doing something wrong, as if you shouldn't be there,
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you shouldn't be walking.
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You should be letting me walk with my dog on my own.
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and it's rather selfish and arrogant.
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So you're right, Steve, but, but but I find it very difficult nowadays.
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If someone has a dog running around.
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Sounds like a bird being attacked.
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I think it's it's it's a black bird getting very alarmed by us, I think.
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So what what what was I saying?
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So it is it is the case that sometimes when you're walking and you.
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You see a dog running around loose, and I, I find it
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very hard to actually say anything to the, to the owner.
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I don't want to say hello to them.
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I just, I just want to snip them because it's so annoying.
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and they should have the dog on,
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lead,
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which, to be fair, most people, but I wouldn't say most probably half.
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So not quite, but the same people.
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Of course you would find,
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would let their children run around in restaurants.
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So they should be on leads.
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Okay. They should be on leads as well.
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So, you know, they probably anyway.
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But the dog should be on the lead and the kids
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should also be on leads as well.
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So you keep them all on the lead
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so they can't run around and cause chaos.
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Let's talk.
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Listen to Inaki lift talk.
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Yes, that is similar to small talk because in a lift.
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Oh, I see if you're.
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If you find yourself in the lift.
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No one ever talks to me.
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No one ever talks in a lift.
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But sometimes they do that.
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The expression lift tool.
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Oh, I see, I mean, I
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you've been in a lift sometimes it may be with people,
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you know, or, you know, to a stranger.
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Well, sometimes you might.
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And you're in the lift.
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You're going up to the 30th floor.
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It's going to take several minutes and it stops on every floor.
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You walk in.
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You're in an enclosed space.
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so you either just look down.
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That's me.
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Look at your phone.
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That's what I do.
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I just pretend to be looking somewhere else.
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I've never seen anyone start a conversation with a stranger in a lift.
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So I have lots of times because well nowadays of course again nowadays
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you might get a slap around the face,
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so maybe someone will think that you're
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trying some funny business in the lift.
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So you have to be very careful.
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So I think normally in that situation, and
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especially when people are very close together, I have to say I hate that.
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I don't like situations where you're you're
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all in a small space with strangers
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and your bodies are pressed together and you go, well,
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if there's lots of people, I think
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if there's only, say, 1 or 2 people,
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there's more pressure to say something.
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If there are lots of people, 12 people in a lift,
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maybe nobody would say anything.
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But then if 1 or 2 people know each other, they'll start talking
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and then you're close by.
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It's very easy for the conversation
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to start moving around, different people.
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But yes, small talk, lift talk.
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Oh, this is a smooth lift, isn't it?
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What you might say this is a smooth lift.
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Oh, what a what a comfortable lift.
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I'm so glad that this lift is not crashing to the ground.
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Oh, did you, did you, did you see that person on reception?
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They're a bit rude, aren't they?
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So that's okay.
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Or what?
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You usually sometimes you what you find in the lift
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is that people may be on a conference.
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Get in the lift together, and you're not part of that group.
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But they all come on laughing and joking with each other.
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and then they get off and then.
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Yeah.
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So you can sometimes you can talk in a lift.
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I think it depends.
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Yeah.
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You've got to be careful that I find
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social situations can always be a little awkward.
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24:18
Maybe if you're standing in the queue
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24:21
in a supermarket, that's another one
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24:23
where people just don't acknowledge each other.
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We just all pretend that we're we're in our own little world.
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So I do find those sorts of things quite fascinating.
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If you ever use the the London Underground
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and you're sitting in one of the seats
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or maybe you're standing up, everyone will avoid icon act,
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24:45
so everyone will find a place
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to look at their own little space that they can stare at.
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24:51
Or some people will just pretend to read the newspaper
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so they don't have to make eye contact.
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So I always find those sorts of things quite, quite fascinating.
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Giovanni says that in in northern Italy,
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in my area in northern Italy.
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Hello, Giovanni.
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yeah.
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25:11
It's become strange.
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people respond with a cold salvaje, which is.
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Hello, which is, I know you
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Salvaje is what you say to a stranger.
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Somebody you don't know in Italy.
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if you're greeting them with hello, it's
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the formal way of saying hello Salvaje instead of chow,
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which is what you would say if you know
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25:35
somebody have learnt something from going to Italy, Mr.
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Duncan. Yes. but yes.
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So, sometimes foreigners are more welcoming.
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again, it is interesting.
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Yes I will, I remember when we went to Turkey,
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when we were in Turkey, and we visited some of the,
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the other places away from where we were staying.
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Local people were incredibly friendly.
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We were invited in to one place.
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There was there was a shop in one of these little bazaar
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areas, not bazaar as in weird,
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but bazaar as in a place where where things are sold.
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Lots of different things are for sale, and people were so friendly.
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Now you might say, Mr.
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Duncan, I think they were trying to get you to buy something.
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But no, they there was no pressure and it was wonderful.
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So we did have some lovely experiences with strangers,
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complete strangers who we we've never met before
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in, in Turkey and of course, in Italy as well.
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People are quite friendly, very open in Italy.
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Olga says when I visited the UK many years ago,
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I was surprised how the children, when noisy,
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but I thought it was okay for English culture.
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26:56
Well, it didn't used to be like that because the expression,
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27:00
I always grew up with was children should be seen and not heard.
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27:05
Yes, is is definitely something that my parents grew up with.
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27:11
And it was very socially unacceptable for your children
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27:15
to be making noise and running around in public.
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27:19
but now it isn't.
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27:22
now it is, at least in the UK.
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27:27
generally, I would say children are.
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I think parents want their children to express themselves.
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And, for whatever reason, they think it is acceptable
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27:40
if you are paying large sums of money in a restaurant
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27:42
to be disturbing everybody else around you.
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27:45
Yeah, well, I was saying this the other night
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because we went we went out for a meal on Friday night.
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We haven't been out for a long time at night for a meal.
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And we went to this place and, and we were talking amongst ourselves.
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And then we said, wouldn't it be great if you could have
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private rooms that you could go into
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and have a little areas where there is a table
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28:09
and you can go into a separate room, like in China?
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28:12
I always remember that in China.
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So you could go to have a little private place, a little private party,
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and there would be be lots of side rooms
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that you could go into, and you could have your meal in a small group.
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So. So, I must admit, I do like that
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Beatrice says that, outside of the big cities,
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then, a people are more willing to say hello to you.
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And we find that here.
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So if you, if you in fact, the people that don't talk,
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if you walk past somebody sometimes in Much Wenlock
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and they're a tourist, they won't talk to you
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because they're probably from a city and they're not used to
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28:57
or don't want to talk to people that they don't know.
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but if you see a local.
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29:03
Well, in fact, we often say if you walk past a group of people
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or one person or two people
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29:09
and they don't respond to you, if you say hello or smile,
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then we automatically you
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we say to each other or they're they're probably they're out of town.
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Yeah.
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From Birmingham or London or somewhere like that.
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Well we a good example.
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We, we went into a, into one of the local shops yesterday
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and we struck up a conversation with the lady working in this shop.
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So there are lots of little shops.
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So we went into the sweet shop and we,
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we started talking to this lady.
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I've never seen her before, but apparently she's only lived
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in this area for a short time and and we were just talking for ages.
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29:49
So it can happen, especially if you are both local.
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If you are both local people, quite often
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you will start talking about things that are going on,
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or maybe your own opinion
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30:01
or your own view of things going on in the area.
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So. So it was interesting.
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30:07
We were actually talking to this woman for quite a while,
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so I did buy something,
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30:12
but we also had a chat for quite a while, didn't we?
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30:15
And it was an interesting chat because she
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used to live in London
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near Heathrow Airport, in fact.
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very busy.
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She, I think she was brought up there
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and her and her husband decided
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to move out of that area and come and live here.
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And, she wasn't entirely happy, was she? No.
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Which is what you find quite often with people who move,
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30:46
from the city into the town.
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is that she's finding it a little boring,
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because everything shuts down at about 8:00 at night.
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Yeah.
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The only place to go to see anyone is the local pubs.
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Everyone's in their house.
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That's typical of the countryside.
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There aren't any theatres.
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There aren't any restaurants. Open late.
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You can't get a taxi anywhere.
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Which is true.
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31:13
You can't hear, we found that out for ourselves, so.
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But, but but that that's the.
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I suppose that's the contrast between those two types of place.
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31:23
A city or a big town.
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And then you come here to Much Wenlock.
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31:27
Inaki, by the way.
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Hello.
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Inaki just asked, do you get tourists
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31:32
in Much Wenlock during the summer?
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31:35
We get lots and lots of tourists coming
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31:38
to have a look at the old buildings
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31:40
and visit some of the nice scenic places.
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So it's true.
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Yes, we do get lots and lots of tourists at this time of year.
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31:49
Many people will come from other parts of the UK,
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or maybe maybe a group of people
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will come on a coach and they will visit for the day.
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They will come and see Much Wenlock.
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32:01
So it is, I suppose you would describe Much Wenlock
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as a tourist attraction.
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It is.
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It's it's main economy,
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I would say would, would be from the local people.
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and then at certain times of the year, like in the summer,
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they will get an influx of tourists.
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but we haven't got many hotels.
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in fact, the main hotel is just closed, in Much Wenlock.
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so, mainly sort of day tourist,
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I would say, but.
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Yeah. What were we talking about before then? Yes.
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moving from the city into the town.
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If you're used to a busy, vibrant life going out in the evenings,
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meeting with friends, you like going to theatres,
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you will find probably that you the countryside will be very boring.
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In fact, I find it a bit boring, don't I, Mr.
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Duncan?
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Yeah, I would go a bit mad if it wasn't for the fact that I could drive
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and go out to the various,
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things that I'm a
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member of choirs and, and dram societies.
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Yes. You.
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I can feel very cut off. Yes.
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Once you have no public transport or.
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No, no way of getting around, that's when you can feel very isolated.
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We do have buses
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33:21
before anyone asks.
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We do have a bus service, but not many.
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So maybe, maybe just in the morning, in the afternoon,
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and then in the early evening the buses will stop.
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So you got to have a car.
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33:34
And that's right. Mr. Steve is right.
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If you have a car, then living here wouldn't really be a big problem.
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It but it would, of course, if you couldn't.
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Or of course, I suppose without being unfair.
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If you are, if you are elderly.
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Well, that's what she commented on.
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She said, that the number of elderly people here was
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she didn't like it.
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and it's true.
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34:03
I mean, it must be 90% elderly people,
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in Much Wenlock and a lot of
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you have seen the videos before and have commented on this yourself.
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Everyone says everyone says, Mr.
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34:15
Duncan, why is everyone so old in Much Wenlock?
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it's true, they are.
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And that kind of.
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If you want to be around young people,
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you wouldn't come and live in Much Wenlock.
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in fact, she was.
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She said, you come to Much Wenlock and
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34:33
you just get old
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and wait to die, is the expression she used yesterday.
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It's.
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I'm not sure if she actually said that.
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2002
34:43
I think you just come here to grow old.
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I think she described one of the local pubs as God's waiting room.
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Oh, yeah.
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so, God's waiting room.
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I think you could imagine what that means,
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2002
34:58
or one of the local restaurants anyway.
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35:01
But yeah, it can seem like that on a beautiful day like this.
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We are talking about small talk,
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35:10
social interaction,
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35:13
and the might also be a few words we can show as well on the screen.
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35:17
So let me just have a look.
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This might not work by the way.
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35:20
We will see what happens because it might be too bright.
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So we have the word small talk.
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I hope you can see that small talk is the thing we do
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35:30
when we want to make polite conversation with other people.
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35:34
Small talk.
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35:36
And it happens quite often in situations
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35:39
where you don't expect to meet someone.
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35:43
So maybe a social situation where you meet someone,
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35:46
but maybe, maybe you weren't expecting to see them.
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35:50
And it happens quite often.
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35:51
If you're walking around, isn't it? You might.
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2002
35:53
You might suddenly meet someone in the street.
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35:56
Oh, hello. Hello there.
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2019
35:58
You might have
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36:00
chit chat.
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So chit chat can also be a type of small talk.
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36:07
We say chit chat, a little chit chat.
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You have a conversation, a general conversation.
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36:16
We can also say idle chat as well.
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36:21
Idle chat is just general conversation.
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36:25
Nothing too heavy, not politics,
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36:29
not religion, nothing too heavy,
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36:33
nothing that will start a fight.
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36:36
Just general tool it probably talking about other people.
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36:42
chit chat is is just about very light subjects. Yes.
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You know what's happening with your friends.
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36:50
Your family may be
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2002
36:52
what's going on in the local area, but no deep conversations.
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36:56
You're not talking about religion, politics, that's it.
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36:59
Anything like that?
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37:00
Another word.
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718
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Here's a nice word.
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37:02
Pleasantries.
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37:04
And this is a real word, by the way.
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37:06
I know it doesn't look real, but it is a real word.
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37:10
Pleasantries is pleasantry.
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37:13
So when we describe something as a pleasantry, it means small talk.
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37:18
A nice thing to say to someone how are you?
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37:21
How are you?
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37:22
Hello? Is it is it?
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37:24
Isn't it a lovely day?
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37:27
Yes. How are you?
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37:28
How is your family?
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37:30
How are your friends?
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37:31
How's your job going?
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37:33
Just things to light, conversations
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37:37
to get the conversation going.
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37:40
because when you, when you give pleasantries to somebody,
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you're usually expecting something back in return.
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37:47
but they, you know what they say
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37:52
it's better to be a good listener than a good talker.
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37:55
because people respect you more and they want to talk to you
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37:59
if like for example, here's a good example.
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38:02
We met somebody the other day, the other week that we hadn't seen
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38:06
for a long time, in fact, you know, about three years.
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38:10
We won't say who will give any clues in case they're watching.
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38:14
We just met them and
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38:17
hadn't seen, I don't think we'd
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38:19
seen this person for at least two years if not three. Yes.
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38:21
It must have been three years, a local person
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38:25
and we didn't know them that well anyway, and then said, oh, hello.
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38:29
Oh my tooth. Oh, I've had a tooth out.
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38:31
It was just hello.
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38:33
And then straight away her agenda was talking about herself.
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38:37
All of the problems.
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38:38
Oh I've had a tooth and she talked about five minutes about her tooth.
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4020
38:43
And I was sitting there thinking
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38:46
what are
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2002
38:48
I haven't seen you for three years
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38:50
and you're just telling me about some random thing you haven't said.
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38:53
There were no pleasantries in the conversation.
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38:56
It was hello.
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38:57
Oh I've just had a tooth out.
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2002
38:59
Oh it's been so painful to.
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2003
39:01
Okay, but it wasn't. How are you?
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39:04
I said, but that c I haven't seen you for a while.
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39:07
What that does, that shows how important small talk is.
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39:12
It's a way of easing into the conversation centuries.
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39:16
Yeah.
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See that in that situation,
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39:19
that person should have said, oh, I haven't seen you for a long time.
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39:23
How are you doing?
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39:24
Are you still living in sin? Searcher?
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39:27
How are your family?
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39:28
and you try to remember things
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2002
39:31
and then you will ask the same things back,
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39:33
and then you might say, how are you?
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2336
39:36
And then that person might have said, oh, well, I'm fine,
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39:39
but I had a bad tooth the other day.
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39:41
Yeah.
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39:41
That's not just to immediately tell you. Yeah.
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39:44
Without asking.
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39:45
That's very annoying.
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39:46
When people you meet people
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2002
39:48
and they just suddenly tell you something about themselves.
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39:52
Yeah. Hello.
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851
39:53
How are we? Yeah, yeah.
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1101
39:54
Oh, we've just come back from holiday.
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39:56
Yeah, well,
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39:58
no, don't just tell me that that's not good conversation.
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40:02
Yeah.
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40:02
Wait for me to ask if I'm interested in you.
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40:05
I will ask, yeah, but just to suddenly offload and tell you about.
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40:11
It's very selfish, lazy way to to to.
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3887
40:15
Here's another phrase.
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40:15
We often use social interaction.
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2519
40:18
Social interaction.
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2002
40:21
So when we talk about interaction,
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40:23
we are talking about something taking place normally
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40:27
between two or more people.
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40:31
So the interaction is actually the conversation.
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40:35
People are having a conversation.
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40:38
They are talking to each other, they are doing something together,
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40:42
or maybe they are talking to each other about something.
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40:46
Generally, social interaction is what that is.
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40:52
General
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1968
40:54
things that people are doing,
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40:56
you know, drinking together, talking together,
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41:00
maybe going, having a drink, a meal together,
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41:03
social interaction, groups of people
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41:06
getting together to do something,
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41:11
talking, eating,
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41:12
drinking, just social interaction.
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41:16
We're very sociable beings.
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41:20
In fact, I've identified now it's one of the major causes of
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41:23
of dementia and, heart
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41:26
attacks is not getting enough social interaction.
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41:30
And, because it, you know, releases all those lovely, feel good hormones,
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41:34
really reduces your stress hormones.
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41:38
although it doesn't work for everybody, does it?
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41:40
Some people don't like, but generally, you know, giving somebody a hug,
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41:45
it all helps to sort of the ease of conversation
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41:51
and yeah, social interaction is very important to most human beings.
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41:56
I think so certainly is to me.
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41:57
Certainly, certainly with me, I, I do find some
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42:01
sometimes I'm uncomfortable.
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2002
42:03
I think that's the way of expressing it.
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42:06
Uncomfortable in situations where maybe I don't know people
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42:10
or if I'm thrust into a group of people
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42:14
who I don't know, it can be it can can be difficult,
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42:17
Inaki says here as well.
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2019
42:20
lots of good comments from Inaki today.
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2002
42:22
What about those people that start moaning as soon as you meet them?
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4438
42:27
Yeah, that's it.
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42:28
It's it.
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42:30
Some people do,
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2002
42:32
particularly in a work context.
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2603
42:36
and I often find that
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2619
42:38
if somebody is stressed over work or has a lot of things to moan about.
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4171
42:43
Now phone you up. oh.
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42:46
Or you meet them and they just oh, they're always at work.
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42:49
Awful.
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484
42:50
And they'll tell you all the things that are bad, but they're getting it on.
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3537
42:53
They're getting it off their mind.
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2052
42:56
But then it's coming on to you.
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1601
42:58
They off load and then it comes onto you.
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43:01
And then you go away feeling a bit down.
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43:04
But in all fairness, to be to be fair, Steve
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43:07
does have his moments as well.
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43:10
General questions.
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So this is something we briefly mentioned earlier.
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43:15
General questions as a way of using small talk.
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43:20
So you might ask a person a question.
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43:23
You might ask general questions about things,
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43:28
certain things normally related to things such as family.
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3904
43:33
I don't even know if you can see that it's so small.
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43:36
Family.
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43:37
How's the family keeping?
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2002
43:39
How's your brother?
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1201
43:40
How's your sister?
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1352
43:42
How's the wife?
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2002
43:44
I'll tell you what always impresses me.
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43:45
If you meet somebody.
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1618
43:47
And this happened to me recently with somebody at work.
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3670
43:51
I'd only met them once before,
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2036
43:54
but they remembered specific things about me
815
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3120
43:57
in a conversation that we'd had, three months previously.
816
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4138
44:01
Wow. And
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1101
44:03
they straight away said, oh, how's your sister?
818
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3871
44:08
Well, I can't remember what it was now.
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2002
44:10
but it was.
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1801
44:12
Yes. Oh, yes.
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1102
44:13
How's life in Much Wenlock?
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44:16
And I was quite taken aback because they'd remember
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44:19
taking the back means you're a bit shocked.
824
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44:23
Mild shock.
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2003
44:25
I don't believe you just said that.
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44:27
But it was flattering when somebody remembers your name
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3020
44:31
and you've only met them once before,
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1986
44:34
when they remember specific things about you,
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2836
44:38
it really impresses you, about that person because they've taken the time
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44:43
to actually remember something about you.
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44:46
I think the the other thing as well, when you meet Mr.
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2803
44:49
Steve, it is quite memorable.
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44:53
It is something you'll never forget.
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44:56
So a lot of people do remember, Mr.
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44:58
Steve, when when I would say it's part of Steve's success
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45:03
in his job as well, because he's got very good
837
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45:07
interpersonal skills,
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2737
45:09
very good way of talking to people, listening to people.
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45:12
And, and I think this does help with your job.
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3387
45:16
I am not so good at that.
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45:19
So I will admit it.
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1918
45:21
Sometimes, I'm awkward in certain social situations.
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45:25
You see, it's not it's not that.
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1768
45:27
That is what helps me in my job.
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2036
45:29
It was the job that helped me develop skills,
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4838
45:34
social skills with people, because I was used
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45:37
to be very shy when I was young,
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2552
45:40
very shy, very awkward talking to people in social situations.
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4655
45:46
although I wasn't when I was a child.
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2068
45:48
But then when I went through teenage years,
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45:51
became very shy and introspective.
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45:53
introverted.
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2002
45:56
I would say introverted is the phrase.
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2002
45:58
But then I moved into a job in sales, and,
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3687
46:02
you have to develop skills with people.
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4104
46:06
You go on lots of courses and it helped me greatly.
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3938
46:10
So now I feel as though I can talk to anyone.
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2335
46:12
Although I always feel a little,
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2186
46:17
nervous talking to people in authority.
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46:22
bosses.
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684
46:23
I think that's normal.
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46:24
Yes. Can I say hello to Laurie?
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46:27
Hello, Laurie.
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46:28
We met you in Rome.
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Apparently, Laurie wants to buy one of your.
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46:34
Well, one of those hats.
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Very similar to Mr. Steve's hats.
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46:38
His Tilley hat.
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46:40
It's a Tilley hat. I don't know what.
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46:42
Which one? It is.
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46:44
Loretta.
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46:45
Laurie.
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717
46:46
but, yes, I've had this for years.
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46:49
They're so well-made, they last forever.
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2019
46:51
And if if you lose it,
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46:55
apparently they will replace it for free.
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2002
46:57
That's amazing.
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701
46:57
I know, or if it if it disintegrates.
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2452
47:00
but now I've had this one for many, many years, so.
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47:05
Hello, Loretta. It's nice to see you here.
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47:07
And please give our regards to your husband as well.
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47:13
Salvador.
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47:17
have I remembered that correctly?
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47:18
I hope so, Loretta,
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2002
47:21
is that right?
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47:23
Now? That's for. Is that Francesca's?
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47:25
Oh, that's not that.
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47:26
No, that was, Sorry.
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47:27
Giovanni's.
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47:29
Giovanni's your husband, Giovanni Rivette.
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47:33
Is that right?
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47:35
Giovanni?
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47:36
It's Giovanni.
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47:37
Sorry about that.
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47:38
Loretta.
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47:38
Loretta, Loretta and Giovanni. Yes.
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47:41
That's it, because we met so many people during our time in Rome.
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4521
47:45
But it's Giovanni, not Giovanni Rivette.
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47:48
Giovanni Ferrari.
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2002
47:52
no, I wasn't that I can't remember.
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47:55
Okay, but yeah.
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601
47:55
Anyway, Loretta and, there's a there's another Giovanni with a different.
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3920
47:59
Okay, let's not draw attention to it.
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48:02
Whether we like to talk about the weather when we are using small talk.
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48:07
What a lovely day.
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48:09
Is it the weather? Terrible.
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48:10
It's too hot, I would imagine.
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2019
48:12
Today, I bet someone somewhere in England
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48:16
is complaining about the weather.
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48:18
And I bet someone is complaining because it's too hot.
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48:22
Well, in of course everybody knows
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2035
48:24
the British people, English people,
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48:27
UK people always talk about the weather
914
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48:30
because we happen to live in a country
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48:32
where the weather is different every day.
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48:36
And we have very distinct seasons.
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48:39
but I would imagine probably if you live in a near
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48:43
the equator or
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2002
48:47
in very cold countries that are cold all the time,
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48:50
where the weather is more constant
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48:51
and maybe they don't talk about the weather so much.
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48:54
I don't know, I like to think of in the morning,
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48:57
maybe, maybe in the North Pole, where where the Eskimos live.
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49:02
Although you can't call them Eskimos anymore.
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3253
49:05
Apparently it is not politically correct to say Eskimo.
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49:09
Can you believe it? In you?
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49:11
It apparently so.
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49:12
When the Inuits wake up in the morning,
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49:15
even though I'm going to say Eskimo
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2002
49:17
because you know what I'm talking about.
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49:19
They Sciretta and Giovanni or Romano.
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49:22
Romano. Yes. Okay, good.
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49:25
Thank you. Beatrice.
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49:25
So when when the Eskimos wake up in the morning,
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I wonder if they say to each other, oh, isn't it cold today?
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49:33
Isn't it cold? And then?
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49:35
And then the other person will say it's cold every day.
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49:38
Yeah. You idiot!
939
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2002
49:40
Why is here? It's different every day.
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1918
49:42
And whatever the weather, there's always somebody that will moan about it.
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49:46
We're always moaning about the weather. It's too hot
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49:49
when it's.
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49:50
When it's
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49:51
winter.
945
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667
49:52
We're moaning because it's cold.
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1669
49:54
Then the summer comes and we're moaning because it's too hot.
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49:57
This is just British people, but it's all part of the small town.
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50:01
because I find as one in conversation.
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50:05
That you don't want to appear
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50:09
like your life is too good.
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2002
50:14
When you're talking to people.
952
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50:16
So I think sometimes if you moan
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50:17
about something or complain about something,
954
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50:21
I often find that,
955
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2002
50:23
yeah, you don't want to be boasting too much about your life
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50:27
when you're in conversations with people because nobody likes
957
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50:30
somebody whose life is going too well.
958
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50:32
No, no, we we always hate people who are
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50:36
who are having a really, really good life.
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1952
50:38
I don't know why we sometimes, but not always and not everyone.
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4138
50:42
So I, I think sometimes, even if you're
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2886
50:46
say you, you know, your life's absolutely fantastic.
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2970
50:50
you know, you're a millionaire.
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1968
50:52
You've driving around in a Rolls-Royce.
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2119
50:54
I think we know the mansion, but.
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50:56
Yes, but then we would know that, wouldn't we?
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1885
50:58
I know, but I think, you know, you wouldn't
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51:01
boast about that in a conversation with somebody.
969
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51:03
You'd you'd find something.
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2002
51:05
It's it's a strange.
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1985
51:07
It's a strange, thing that people do in conversation.
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51:11
Sometimes it they almost want to
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51:15
put themselves down.
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51:16
Known a bit about their lives.
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1985
51:18
Yeah.
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417
51:19
Because they want the other person to feel better
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51:23
often. Fine.
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718
51:24
I think I do that.
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51:25
I do that in conversation.
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51:27
Yeah.
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51:27
I well, well, you
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51:30
I think I think your problem, Steve, is you're just too modest.
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51:33
So I think Steve might be the other way.
984
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51:35
Sometimes you're too modest.
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51:36
And you, you hide your light away from other people.
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51:41
Salvadori is saying, hello, Alexandra's on.
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51:44
So we were right about that.
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51:45
At least I was right about that.
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51:48
Hello, Alexander.
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2002
51:51
can I just say that?
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51:52
Alright, I'm going to get confused because there's so many people,
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51:55
you only have to remember one name, and that's me and Steve.
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52:00
Two, it it the most.
994
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2720
52:03
It's two.
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52:04
But I have to remember dozens and dozens of names and faces.
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52:09
And it's not easy, not at my age.
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52:11
And it was, of course,
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52:14
Loretta who had purchased one of your t shirts.
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52:18
That's true.
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52:19
And she was very excited to bring it with her to Rome
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52:22
and wear it on the live stream, which is lovely.
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52:26
And, and her husband, Giovanni
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52:29
Romano, was there also.
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52:33
Can I say hello to some of the live chat?
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1968
52:35
Because we've missed I think we've missed most people today.
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3120
52:38
Olga. Hello, Olga.
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1835
52:40
Hello also to Beatrice.
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52:43
Nice to see you here as well.
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1952
52:45
We also have.
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967
52:49
Tram Ung, who I believe is watching in Vietnam.
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3803
52:53
Hello. Vietnam from England.
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2219
52:56
And who else to say?
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1869
52:58
Fairy balls. Hello, fairy.
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53:00
Because nice to see you here as well.
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2253
53:04
Pinocchio.
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2002
53:07
uses a trick
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967
53:08
if they don't want to talk to people, which is a very good idea.
1018
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2887
53:11
Sorry, I'm carrying frozen food and I have to go.
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53:15
Oh, yes.
1020
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1351
53:16
Yes, that's the best thing to talk about right now.
1021
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4705
53:21
Excuses.
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1969
53:23
Do you ever walk down the road?
1023
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2002
53:25
Are you ever in a situation where you're walking down the street
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3086
53:29
and you see someone coming in the opposite direction,
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3571
53:32
but you don't want to speak to them and you try to hide,
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4054
53:36
or maybe you go round the corner so, so you don't see them.
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3770
53:40
Have you ever done that?
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1051
53:41
Come on, be honest, I have.
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2136
53:43
I've done it.
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53:44
I'm sure Steve has done it.
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1985
53:46
And I would imagine many people who have seen us
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53:51
walking down the road,
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53:52
I would imagine they have hidden away
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53:55
so they don't have to speak to us, I think.
1035
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53:58
So I'm sure that happens a lot. Mr. Duncan.
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54:00
I think so, but yes.
1037
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1435
54:01
How do you getting out of a conversation?
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2853
54:04
If you meet somebody and you're in a hurry,
1039
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3437
54:08
but you don't want to appear rude?
1040
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2002
54:11
how do you get out of that conversation?
1041
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4505
54:16
and how do you.
1042
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1885
54:18
Yes, you could say I've got some frozen food.
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3020
54:21
I need to,
1044
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1618
54:23
to, to go home and put it in the deep freeze.
1045
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3370
54:26
But then if that person says, oh, what?
1046
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3087
54:29
What have you been buying?
1047
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1768
54:31
If they ask questions, then you might be caught out.
1048
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3571
54:35
Yeah, yeah.
1049
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1201
54:36
So you have to be careful when you make an excuse.
1050
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2519
54:39
It has to be real or something that that at least appears real.
1051
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4622
54:43
Don't make something up. And then later on,
1052
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2452
54:47
you forget about it
1053
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1652
54:48
because then you will be exposed as being a liar.
1054
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3236
54:52
So that happens quite a lot.
1055
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54:55
It's very good.
1056
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734
54:55
Now that we have, on, on phones
1057
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54:59
that, you know, who's calling, you call a display or whatever you call it,
1058
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3587
55:03
because, in the old days,
1059
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2603
55:06
before mobile phones, it would tell you who was calling.
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3370
55:10
You only had a landline, and, you wouldn't necessarily.
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4354
55:14
The phone was ringing, but you wouldn't know who they were.
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2603
55:18
and you might pick the phone up
1063
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2002
55:20
because, for example, I've done this before.
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2853
55:23
You might have thought it was your mother or your sister calling,
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2586
55:26
and you pick the phone up and it's somebody else.
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2469
55:28
Yeah.
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300
55:29
Somebody that you don't really want to talk to.
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3320
55:32
And your heart sinks because you just think, oh,
1069
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3554
55:37
we all know somebody
1070
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1785
55:39
that you just it's virtually impossible to end the conversation with.
1071
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4121
55:44
in fact, there's one particular person I know, and, you know, but,
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5039
55:49
now I know if that person's calling
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2185
55:52
and I will decide whether I have the time
1074
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3521
55:56
or the, inclination to want to talk to that person
1075
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3938
56:01
because, you know, it's going to be at least an hour
1076
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2519
56:04
and you won't be able to get away from that conversation,
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3787
56:08
because even this particular person I have said,
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3037
56:11
I have to say about five times what it was nice talking to you.
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3771
56:16
I've got to go now.
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1251
56:17
It's a bit like, ignore it and just carry on talking.
1081
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2636
56:20
Anyway, that was a bit like your mum as well.
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2219
56:22
Sometimes you would have to say goodbye to your mum
1083
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2353
56:24
quite a few times before she would put the phone down.
1084
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2335
56:27
That's because she was a bit lonely.
1085
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1468
56:28
Yeah. Wanted to talk. That was. Well, maybe.
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1985
56:30
No, but.
1087
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434
56:31
But that, that sits well, maybe that's your friend, you say?
1088
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2936
56:34
Maybe your friend is lonely and she just likes to have
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3137
56:37
a conversation on the telephone.
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1685
56:39
But the the wonderful thing nowadays is when
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2436
56:42
when your telephone rings, you know who it is.
1092
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2569
56:45
So you can decide whether or not
1093
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2219
56:47
you want to speak to that person or not.
1094
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2019
56:50
Between you and me, I don't like talking on the phone.
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4988
56:55
I don't.
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751
56:56
I like talking face to face or send an email
1097
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4888
57:02
or a message on your phone using text,
1098
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2853
57:05
but never a conversation where you just hello, hello, how's the weather?
1099
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4021
57:09
And sometimes the conversation might just slow down
1100
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3770
57:13
and suddenly you've got nothing to talk about
1101
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2136
57:15
and then it becomes all embarrassing.
1102
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2019
57:18
Loretta is, is fighting,
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3403
57:21
and then an army of ants attacking.
1104
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3738
57:26
the house.
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2002
57:28
so, yes.
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1585
57:31
we've got a bit of an ant problem.
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2002
57:33
Yes. this time of year, particularly this time of the year.
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4304
57:37
So I've got this.
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1168
57:38
I don't like killing ants because after I saw the film
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3871
57:42
ants, ants said,
1111
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2752
57:46
of course, which makes the ants seem human.
1112
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3086
57:51
I don't like killing ants, but unfortunately,
1113
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2636
57:55
you have to, because if you don't,
1114
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2970
57:58
they just invade your house eventually.
1115
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3738
58:03
and they just become a nuisance.
1116
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4255
58:07
Well, I think that's prejudice. It's like.
1117
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1919
58:09
It's like mice.
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1234
58:10
I think that's very prejudiced towards ants.
1119
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2453
58:13
They just want somewhere to live.
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58:15
They just want somewhere to settle down
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1802
58:17
and live their lives just like we do.
1122
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2102
58:19
So why should the ants be persecuted and kept away?
1123
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4855
58:24
I've got some white powder that I spray spray around.
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4021
58:28
If I see the very common
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2752
58:32
ants seem to like living under, flagstones.
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4438
58:36
Yes. Or, under anything.
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2002
58:38
Yes. If you've got sort of
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1468
58:41
flagstones, what else do you call those slabs?
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2202
58:43
Slabs?
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1035
58:44
If you've got an area of your garden that is got slabs,
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4387
58:49
you know, 12 inch slabs or whatever,
1132
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2702
58:52
they start coming out,
1133
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2335
58:55
you see these little piles of, of very fine soil
1134
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4622
59:00
where the ants are coming to the surface and,
1135
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4772
59:06
I squeeze the powder down there when I see it,
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2553
59:08
because the problem is, if you don't, the slabs,
1137
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2586
59:12
because they're all the soil keeps coming up, the slab start sinking.
1138
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3470
59:16
and, it just becomes annoying.
1139
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3003
59:19
So what are you using?
1140
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1919
59:20
Have you got, Giovanni out there trying to kill the ants off?
1141
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5472
59:26
Well, how are you?
1142
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784
59:27
What are you doing?
1143
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750
59:28
That is, my mum used to put hot water.
1144
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3271
59:31
She used to boil hot water, and she would pour the boiling
1145
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3987
59:35
hot water over where the ants were coming out.
1146
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2737
59:39
So that's
1147
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500
59:40
still very nice.
1148
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984
59:41
I know, but it's a horrible image.
1149
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2219
59:44
But it's just want to live somewhere.
1150
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59:47
Although they can be annoying,
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especially when you find them in your butter.
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59:51
Well, I left them one year.
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They were near the back door
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2002
59:54
and I just thought, oh well, let them, you know.
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59:57
But then eventually they started finding ways
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59:59
into the house through the brickwork.
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60:02
so we, we came down one morning
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60:04
and the ants, thousands of ants all inside the kitchen area
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60:09
because they must have buried underneath
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60:12
and come up somewhere in the floor.
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60:14
so you have to control them.
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60:16
Otherwise they, they invade your house.
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60:21
controversial subject.
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60:23
So as soon as I see,
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2003
60:25
it's coming up, and those telltale signs
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60:28
of the little bits of fine soil,
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60:31
I'll spray, powder all around the whole.
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60:36
I tell you what's been annoying this year.
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2002
60:38
House flies.
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60:39
Yes, in the house.
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I know, I know,
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901
60:44
I just realised I know what you're going to say, Mr.
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60:47
Duncan. They're called house flies.
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2002
60:49
You're going to find house flies in your house,
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60:51
I know that, I know, but there seem to be more of them,
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60:54
and they are so annoying, especially when you're sitting at night.
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60:59
You're trying to watch your favourite television show
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61:02
and the fly keeps buzzing around your head.
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61:04
They attack you, don't they just keep landing on you?
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61:07
I've just. I've given up with spiders.
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61:09
We get a lot of spiders in the house now.
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61:13
These what they call them daddy longlegs spiders.
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61:15
That they're not normal house spiders.
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61:18
They're.
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61:18
They're different ones with very long legs and small bodies.
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61:23
and they go up in the corners of the room.
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61:25
I mean, there's so many of them.
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61:27
I've got this device that, like a miniature, it's got it got a motor.
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61:31
And you can just suck them into this tube.
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1918
61:33
It's like a vacuum cleaner, except for instead of sucking up the dust,
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61:37
you you suck up the spiders.
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61:40
It's got along. It's battery operated.
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61:42
It's got a long pipe, and you can reach
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61:44
right up to the ceiling and and turn it on.
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61:47
And the spiders go into the tube.
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61:49
If not, you can always use your vacuum cleaner.
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61:51
Vacuum cleaner.
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61:52
But I mean, with the flies, you know,
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61:55
you like to let them out,
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2003
61:58
but eventually there's so many, you just have to kill them.
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62:01
But they know that.
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867
62:02
But flies are also a little bit stupid, because if you've ever tried
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62:05
to get a fly out of your room, you open the window
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62:09
and you're trying to get the fly to go out of the window,
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62:11
but it goes everywhere else, it goes no, that way, that way.
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62:16
This is, you know, over there.
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62:20
Over there, you stupid fly in Vietnam
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62:23
term, says we use fire bag plastic and put on hold of.
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62:29
And I wonder what that is.
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62:30
Oh, I wonder if it's, melted plastic.
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62:34
So I wonder if it's melted plastic.
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62:36
Maybe you melt the plastic and the plastic will go into the holes, and then.
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62:40
Then it will seal up the holes.
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62:43
Maybe it will stop the ants from coming out.
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62:45
More details please. It is true.
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62:47
Insects are annoying. They can be.
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62:50
But we don't get the really big ants in the UK.
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62:54
but I would imagine in, Italy,
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63:00
you've probably got, Lauretta,
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63:04
much bigger ants than we have in the UK.
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63:07
The ants in the UK are very small, the common and, is very small.
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63:12
And we've noticed when we've been on holiday to hot places like Turkey,
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63:18
we've seen these really began,
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1985
63:21
you know, 3 or 4 times the size of UK ants. Yes.
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63:24
They can be big.
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1134
63:25
but we've only got very small ones in the UK.
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63:29
It is interesting what what you can get in your house.
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63:31
Sometimes I think the strangest animal we've ever had in the house.
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63:36
Steve, must be a bat.
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2003
63:39
There was one night we were sitting
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63:40
watching television and then suddenly we realised
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63:43
there was a bat in the living room
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63:45
and it was flying around and around and around it wouldn't stop.
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63:48
It was going crazy.
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63:50
But that one just went out.
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63:51
We just opened the window and it went out.
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1952
63:53
I think that's that's the strangest animal with ever had.
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63:56
But we don't like insects.
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63:57
And even today, as we're sitting here, I'm very aware
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64:01
that there are thousands and thousands of insects
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2903
64:04
flying around and nibbling me.
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2586
64:06
That's why I've got my shirt on today.
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64:09
I was going to wear my short shirt
1244
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2119
64:12
and also my shorts, but I thought, no, because I know what will happen.
1245
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4672
64:17
The flies and the ants, they will start nibbling me
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64:23
and we don't.
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64:23
Yes, we have ants of all sizes, says Alessandra.
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64:27
but we.
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333
64:28
Yes. Okay, well, we don't have the very big ones here.
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64:31
No we don't, they're very small.
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64:33
They're very small.
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64:33
We don't have the sort of army ants
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64:36
like the ones they get in tropical forests.
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64:39
a very aggressive, very big, aggressive ants.
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64:44
but not here.
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64:46
yeah.
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64:47
So, imagine if spiders were the same weight as dogs says they hate us.
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64:53
Yeah,
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64:54
well, they they'd they'd be.
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1918
64:56
The terrible thing with insects is they can only get to a certain size
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64:59
because they've got very heavy
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2002
65:02
outer skeletons. Yes.
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2002
65:04
So they can only grow to a certain size before they become too heavy to move around.
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65:08
They've become too heavy to move around.
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65:10
But I think probably when the climate was a lot hotter,
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65:16
in the time of the dinosaurs,
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65:18
you probably got much bigger insects, bigger spiders,
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65:22
the heart of the country generally, the insects are bigger, aren't they?
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65:26
you know, it's happening day.
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65:27
The sun is now moving, so I'm going to move my chair slightly.
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65:37
Do you want me to move? Mr..
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65:39
No, that's okay, Mr. Side.
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65:40
Getting hot.
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65:42
I'm not getting hot.
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65:43
I've just got the sun sort of on me, and it's annoying.
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3087
65:46
That's better.
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1918
65:48
Well, that's the thing.
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601
65:49
You see, the sun is moving
1279
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2002
65:51
because I move the camera and go over that way.
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65:53
Oh, no, we're not doing that.
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2002
65:55
So we will be with you for about another ten minutes and then we're going in.
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65:59
Mr.. Steve, we'll make a cup of tea as usual.
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66:02
And actually I will have a drink of water, which is now warm.
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4588
66:08
Lewis says that,
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66:10
they have ants in the house.
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2002
66:13
Loretta's ants are coming into the house
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2119
66:15
and they're going away next week,
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2169
66:17
so they're going to wonder what's going to happen.
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2002
66:19
Yes, I would, I'm sure you've got,
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66:24
your husband on to that, looking for where they're coming in
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66:27
and spraying something in, in the in the entry point.
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66:32
they're looking for sugar. Yes.
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66:36
Which they do.
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66:36
They do like like looking for sugar. There was a film.
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66:39
Do you remember that film in the 1960s about giant
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66:43
and it was called I know the I know the movie.
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66:47
It was called The Giant Ant Invasion.
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66:50
And it scared me to death as a child because very scary.
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66:56
It was.
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66:56
It was that sound they made, that sort of.
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66:58
She was she really, really she beep beep beep beep.
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67:01
They made a sort of very eerie sound as well.
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67:05
It was the usual premise, that if you everyone
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67:10
was frightened of atomic nuclear power, weren't they?
1305
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67:13
And, in the 60s, there were lots of films around where,
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67:18
you know, something gets exposed to, some uranium.
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4971
67:23
They got the idea, by the way, from Japan.
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2019
67:26
Yeah, it was Japan that started all of that.
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67:28
We all know that Godzilla, because it was actually done as,
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5105
67:34
a kind of commentary
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2002
67:36
on the, the bombing of, of Japan.
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2903
67:40
And that's, that's, that's how Godzilla came about.
1313
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67:43
But there's always this fear or there's
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67:45
this sort of almost comedic, thing
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3487
67:49
that if you expose animals to radiation,
1316
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67:52
they will mutate into a much larger monster as,
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3754
67:56
and this film about giant ants, it was very scary.
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68:00
It was a similar premise, I think, that some ants have been exposed to radiation,
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68:04
and they developed these giant and they're like the size of a house.
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68:07
It is interesting.
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68:08
How have you noticed how some old films
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68:12
are still scary, even though you watch them now
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4171
68:16
and they're maybe 50 or 60 years old.
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3037
68:19
Yet some of them, over.
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68:22
Pretty scary even now.
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68:24
And I always find that if you watch a film in black and white,
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68:29
it's more scary than if it's in colour
1328
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3153
68:33
still.
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450
68:33
Yeah.
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534
68:34
So my, my, my one of my, the scariest films to me
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4054
68:38
is, good scary film is, God is not me.
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5823
68:44
The name of it.
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517
68:44
Now, I think it comes to me once, that one after the
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2820
68:47
on the Arctic and the aliens in the, the thing, the thing,
1335
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3203
68:50
the thing that I remember when I first watched that I was scared stiff.
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4871
68:56
And also, The Day of the Triffids.
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3604
69:00
anything like that.
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784
69:01
War of the world. War of the world.
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2019
69:03
Another one.
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500
69:03
A very scary film.
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1235
69:05
Because of the sounds, I.
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3020
69:08
I don't know why, but but I find sometimes
1343
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3337
69:11
the use of sound effects in movies
1344
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69:15
can create, quite a quite a chilling atmosphere.
1345
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69:19
Well, it's a good one, Alexander I yes, we'll do that for you.
1346
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69:22
The word and and the, the creatures
1347
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4372
69:27
that are invading Loretta's house and and aren't
1348
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4472
69:33
they're very close
1349
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2002
69:35
and and is the creature
1350
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2119
69:38
that is invading Loretta Loretta's house
1351
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3704
69:42
and an aunt is the deceased.
1352
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3570
69:48
like your auntie, a parent.
1353
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1802
69:50
Sister Kerry. Sister.
1354
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2002
69:52
Aunt is short for auntie. Yes.
1355
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2552
69:55
So. And and and aunt.
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3887
69:58
You well, you don't you don't say like that
1357
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4054
70:03
unless and, And,
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3804
70:07
Aunt aunt aunt
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70:12
aunt aunt.
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2002
70:15
There we go.
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601
70:15
You got to elongate the a vowel, for, aunt,
1362
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5489
70:21
which is probably difficult for,
1363
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3103
70:25
somebody in Italy to do,
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70:28
I would think, because the vowels are usually not elongated, are they?
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70:33
I think they can be, but not not often.
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3053
70:36
a e r o not very often.
1367
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3437
70:40
So we go, okay.
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70:42
Elongate our vowels.
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1836
70:44
That's what people say.
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1201
70:45
That's what people say when they turn on my live stream.
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70:48
They say, look at him.
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1952
70:50
what a poor, poor man.
1373
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2370
70:52
Now, Olga was watching alien the other day,
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70:55
but there's another scary film. The the,
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2569
70:59
alien.
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71:00
the second one, aliens. And.
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71:03
Oh, is that the second?
1378
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718
71:03
What's the second one?
1379
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817
71:04
Well, the second one is called aliens Alien.
1380
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71:07
The first one is called alien because there's just one aliens.
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71:10
The, director's cut.
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2002
71:13
that's when they go to the planet, isn't it?
1383
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71:16
that's why I think that's a fantastic film.
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71:19
I think the first one is still good, because there's always that that
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3037
71:22
that one scene with John Hurt.
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3003
71:25
Where were the alien?
1387
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2002
71:28
It sort of comes out.
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1969
71:30
It's sort of,
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2002
71:37
Like that.
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2002
71:39
That was very good, Mr.
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951
71:40
Duncan.
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71:40
I like that.
1393
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2002
71:43
Now, aliens is my favourite film, one of my favourite films.
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71:48
because it's just action packed
1395
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2402
71:51
and Sigourney Weaver is fantastic in it.
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71:54
it's a bit more fast paced than the first.
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71:58
I really wish I hadn't done that,
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72:00
because all you can see is my big wobbly belly.
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72:04
the, but very good,
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1986
72:06
very good recommendation for a scary movie.
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72:09
Yes. You're right.
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834
72:10
I remember watching day of the Triffids.
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72:12
My parents.
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72:13
I was probably about. I.
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1502
72:15
Jeannette 13, 12, 13, something like that at the time.
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4021
72:20
And I was always scared of Doctor Who.
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72:21
I used to hide behind the sofa most.
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2586
72:24
What can I just say?
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751
72:25
Most people are scared of Doctor Who nowadays.
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72:28
but, I remember my parents went out for the night.
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4605
72:33
I was on my own.
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72:34
I think my sister was in bed.
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2002
72:36
I don't know where my sister was.
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1201
72:38
Anyway, I was on my own.
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72:39
It was dark.
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984
72:40
It was winter and day of the Triffids was on the television.
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72:44
I was absolutely scared.
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72:46
Stupid. Yeah.
1419
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72:48
I remember being so relieved when my parents came back home.
1420
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72:52
So that one.
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72:52
Now, if I watch that now, it's not very scary because it doesn't look very good.
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72:57
No, you can tell that that just sort of rubber things and they don't look very scary.
1423
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73:02
Year old boy on his own
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1985
73:04
in a dark house in the middle of winter, I think so, and
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4038
73:09
I used them to capture some
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2002
73:11
scary, scary scorpions.
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3453
73:15
Yeah. We don't have those here, thankfully.
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73:17
No, actually, it's amazing how many animals,
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dangerous animals we don't have.
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And I have to say, walking around the countryside
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is is a more pleasant experience here.
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Because do you know that nothing is going to jump out and attack you?
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Unless, of course, it's
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another human being?
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It's likely.
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It's likely the only thing that you're likely to be severely injured
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or killed by is somebody's dog. Yes.
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that is what most people,
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a lot of people do get killed every year in this country
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by being attacked by people's dogs.
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Just a couple of days ago, I think a lady was was attacked by a dog.
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And they can they are they are capable of killing a human being
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even if the dog is friendly.
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And that's what people say.
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Always. Okay, don't worry.
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He won't show your face off.
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It's okay.
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He's he's he's just a bit excited.
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But then the next thing you know, the dog is chewing someone's face off.
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Yeah.
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So you can go for a walk in the UK anyway,
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we don't have bears or wolves.
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No. Or anything like that.
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we don't have crocodiles.
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Alligators.
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So you can go near the water.
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Monkeys do nothing that you can go near the water
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quite safely and nothing is going to come out and snap you.
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We don't have scorpions.
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We don't have poisonous spiders.
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Even that can kill you.
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There's literally nothing.
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you might get attacked by bees or wasps. Yes.
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but the thing that to to the anything
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that's likely to attack you is somebody's dog. Yeah.
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And in fact, I have been. Well, we all have.
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It's very not uncommon to be.
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I've been bitten by people's dogs, when I've been out,
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particularly if you if you're a runner, if you like running,
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then you learn very quickly as a runner
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that as soon as you see a dog, you stop running and just walk
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because they always because it's somehow
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if a dog sees somebody running, it wants to chase that person
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because it thinks it needs to attack it.
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Yeah, it's like many things, dogs are easily scared.
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Even if your dog is not normally scared by things,
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they can suddenly become scared.
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Frightened. They might panic.
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They might bite someone, they might run away.
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If they are not on a lead.
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Can you believe we've come full circle?
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Because we started off talking about this
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and we've ended on this subject as well, because we will be going in a moment.
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I know what you're going to say, Mr.
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Duncan. Please don't leave us.
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Please stay with us all afternoon.
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I would love to, but now the sun is coming round and I'm slowly
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starting to bake in the sunshine.
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Unfortunately. Nope.
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We don't have any wild animals that could kill you.
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you can't even get rabies in the UK.
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Yeah.
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You might get bitten by,
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insects like a mosquito.
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but. Or a horsefly.
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Ironically, the most dangerous creatures are the very tiny ones.
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Yes, but we don't have malaria.
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We don't have.
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You can't.
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There aren't any diseases.
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You can get lyme's disease.
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You could get that from a tick.
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You know, it's only in certain parts of the country.
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And ticks are very obvious.
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Yeah.
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And you could, If you wear long trousers,
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then you won't get bitten by the ticks.
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But they're only bad.
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But again, it's, it's small things.
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So we don't have anything big that it will come out and drag you away.
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We don't have bears.
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Isn't that strange? I think we used to.
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Maybe we used to have.
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We used to. Yes, but.
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But they've all gone now.
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We we we we decided to turn them all into rugs.
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77:13
The most dangerous thing, as I've already stated, is dogs. Yes.
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And other human beings.
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Lots of human beings, of course. Yes, yes.
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Anyway, we are going in a moment.
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I hope you've enjoyed today's live stream.
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It's been a little bit different outside.
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I am now starting to overheat.
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77:32
I'm very cold here.
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I'm in the sun.
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I've got the sun on me now, Mr. Steve.
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And I'm also a little tired,
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so I'm going to go into the house and.
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Well, I think Mr.
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Steve is going to come with me as well, unless you want to stay here and chat with Mr.
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Steve for another hour.
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77:52
Giovanni says, I love hedgehogs, Giovanni.
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Oh, Giovanni, I've got a a horror story to tell you
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because last week I ran over a hedgehog and oh, Mr.
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Steve, I know I couldn't avoid it.
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Unfortunately, it was night time and
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I saw at the last minute it was on the main road.
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I saw something going across.
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2002
78:18
And you know, when you know you're driving and there's no way to avoid it.
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I was hoping it would go between the wheels, but,
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that horrible third sound,
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I would imagine it was more of a
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78:34
sound as the wheel.
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The wheel went over the hedgehog.
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78:39
But it's it's true.
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78:41
It's one of the problems with living in the countryside, especially driving at night.
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There's all sorts of animals roaming around,
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78:47
and they can jump out in front of you with any, any moment.
1549
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78:50
Actually, there's something that could seriously injure you
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78:53
if you were in your car.
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78:55
And because there are lots of deer in this area, so,
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and in fact, we know lots of people
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79:02
where this has happened to them, particularly at night,
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79:06
the deer can run out onto the road,
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79:09
and you can obviously hit the deer with your car and,
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79:13
it could kill, but it would certainly write your car off.
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79:16
Yes. It also would deer.
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79:19
It wouldn't be very nice for the deer either.
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No. You can you could be seriously injured and end up in hospital.
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79:26
if you hit a deer at speed.
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2002
79:28
Now, also, the deer, I mean, the deer wouldn't have a good time either.
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Yeah, that's very true.
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Did you know, here's an interesting thing.
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As the sun disappears, did you know that
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79:38
if you hit an animal on the road,
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79:41
you are not allowed to get out of the car and pick it up?
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79:45
However, if you are driving behind someone
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79:49
and the car in front of you hits an animal,
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79:52
you are allowed to pick it up.
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79:55
It's not strange.
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79:57
So if I'm driving along the road or Mr.
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Steve is, and you hit a deer and kill it and you hit an animal,
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80:04
you can't get out of the car and take it home with you.
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80:07
However, if you see someone else do it in front of you.
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80:11
You can stop the car and then get out
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80:13
and drag the animal into your car and take it home,
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80:17
and you have maybe a month's worth of meat.
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80:20
The most stupid creatures are the,
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80:24
that always run out into the road.
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80:26
Pheasants are the pheasants.
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80:28
The pheasants.
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By the way.
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I think they might be a little crazy.
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80:32
And I've run over a few of those.
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80:34
There's a road everybody knows between here and the next town.
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80:39
It's like the killing Fields.
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80:41
They just.
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80:42
They just run out constantly.
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80:44
There's some.
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There's a deer or a pheasant or a rabbit.
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80:47
I ran over a rabbit the a few weeks ago as well.
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80:51
but the I was quite upset about running over the hedgehog
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80:54
because I thought to myself, well,
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80:56
maybe that's a mother, and it's going home to its children.
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81:00
as upset me for a
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81:01
few days that day, but it could be Hedgehog Hitler.
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81:04
And maybe you've done the hedgehog community some good.
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81:07
Maybe. Maybe you've done something good.
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81:09
By the way, hedgehogs are full of fleas.
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They are, as I've discovered, in the past.
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If you, get near a hedgehog, you end up covered in fleas
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81:20
and, bites.
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2002
81:22
anyway, we will leave it there.
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81:25
I hope you've enjoyed today's live stream.
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81:28
I'm slowly starting to cook.
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81:30
Like.
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Like a joint of meat, Mr.
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81:33
Duncan, in Tuscany.
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81:35
There are lots of wild boars.
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Oh, I see, we met.
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81:39
We met a few at them.
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81:41
We met a few of them at the hotel.
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81:43
Well, yes, I think it's both a, Oh, I say not boring people.
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It should be spelled, by the way, be a
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a, so an animal is b o r
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a person who is not very interesting is b o r e.
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Well, maybe that's what lala lala borella.
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82:04
But she.
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Maybe that's what you meant.
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82:07
Did you mean boring people? What?
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82:10
What did you mean, a wild pig?
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82:12
Oh, I see, well they do bye bye.
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82:15
No they do, they do have wild boars in Italy.
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82:18
It's a.
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We could have been attacked, Mr.
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Duncan.
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Any anyway, Steve.
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Well, of course, boar,
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82:25
was on the menu in a lot of places in Italy.
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Yes, well, that's why I said that. That. Yes, there are.
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82:31
It was on the menu. In the photo menu as a meat.
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82:33
Anyway, we've got to go because I'm literally baking here.
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82:37
I can feel my arm is now starting to cook under the hot sunshine.
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Thank you very much for joining us today.
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82:46
I hope it's been interesting. Something different.
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82:48
I will now go into the house and I will wait for Mr.
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82:52
Steve to make me a lovely cup of tea,
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82:56
and I will be back with you on Wednesday.
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82:58
I'm with you on Wednesday.
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83:00
Steve is not because he's working.
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83:03
And of course, don't forget to look out for new lessons as well.
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83:07
There will be some new lessons coming up as well.
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83:10
And of course, on Wednesday it is the final day of July.
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So we say goodbye to July on Wednesday.
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And can we, can we say if, dear friend
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Christina is watching as well,
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83:25
who is currently suffering with,
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83:30
oh, what's it called?
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83:30
Can't remember Covid, Covid that's it.
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83:33
My brain's going.
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83:34
How can you not remember Covid? I know, I just don't know.
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83:37
Do you remember?
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83:37
Do you remember, Steve, that there was that period of time
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83:40
between 2020 and 2023,
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when the whole world stopped
1656
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83:46
turning round to see, to might be watching as if she is high.
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83:50
She's in her bed.
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Yeah.
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Covering from a nasty temperature.
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Well, I have to leave.
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She. Well, I have the latest news concerning Christina.
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83:59
Christina is feeling much better.
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Thanks
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84:03
to Mr.
1665
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Steve and his lovely, supportive messages.
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84:07
Well, that's not just me.
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84:08
No. I'm just. Well, you're here with me.
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84:10
Oh, right.
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Yes. So? So, yes.
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84:13
And also other people as well.
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84:14
So I think we've all cheered Christina up. So.
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84:18
So we are glad to hear that you're feeling much better.
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84:21
I've got to go, Mr. Steve.
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84:22
Or else you're going to see me collapse on the floor
1675
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84:26
because I'm in the baking sun.
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84:27
It's all right for Steve is in the shade.
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84:30
I've taken care of Mr.
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84:31
Steve, but unfortunately, I'm all hot now because the sun is coming round.
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Thank you very much for your company.
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84:39
We are definitely going now.
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84:40
Take care of yourselves.
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84:42
We are back on Wednesday and I will be with you from 2 p.m.
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UK time.
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And of course until the next time we meet here.
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84:53
By the way, that's
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where you can find me on YouTube.
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English Addict
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every Sunday and Wednesday from 2 p.m.
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UK time.
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And of course until the next time we meet.
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Any final words, Mr. Steve?
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85:09
Yes. It's been lovely to be here.
1693
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85:11
Hope you've learnt something.
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I hope you've enjoyed today's live stream and I look forward to seeing you all next week.
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Have a lovely week and of course, until the next time we meet.
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85:21
You know what's coming next.
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85:23
Yes you do.
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85:25
Take care.
1699
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85:26
Enjoy your day and don't get too hot.
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And of course.
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85:37
Ta ta for now.
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2002
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