Stop using these COVID words!

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Magazines, Magazines, Bloomberg Businessweek, and The Economist.
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Hi.
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James from engVid.
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I just got the mail.
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I'm like Mr. Rogers here.
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Went out, got the mail, got the magazine.
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The Economist, why are so many governments getting it wrong?
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And they're talking about COVID, which is a very important topic.
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You may be seeing this now, you may see this in 10 years from now, but at this time, 2019
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to 2020, this rocked our world.
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It changed a lot of things.
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And with that change came new language.
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Words we had used before, but we started using them in a different way, seeing them from
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a different perspective, and they got a given meaning, a special meaning.
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And I'm, yeah, E said it right, but even though we started using these words, in some way
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we overused them and they lost the power that they did have, they once had.
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And what I want to do is two things here, a little bit of education for people learning
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English, what these words mean, but also to give you a greater power of specificity, specificity.
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Being specific.
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Specificity.
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Specificity.
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I'm not even going to try anymore, okay?
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Because once you start using a word in a general way, even if it has a very specific meaning,
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it loses its actual - to be very specific or getting it to an accurate point.
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So I want to bring that back so we can start - you're going to see me use different words
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as I explain what - these are my pet peeves, and a pet peeve is something that bothers
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me.
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It doesn't necessarily bother everyone else, but when you have a language which is as rich
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as English, to use four or five words to describe everything, that to me is sad.
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It's like having a gold credit card and only using it to buy lollipops.
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You can buy a Mercedes.
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Anyway, let's go to the board, and he's right.
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If I hear that one more time, and in North America you'll hear people say that, and I'm
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going to give you the power to change your language and make them smile and go, "Yeah,
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that's right."
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So, let's start with my first one.
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The new normal.
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This is the new normal.
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We've had to stay away apart from loved ones - oh, by the way, safety, whatever, this is
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my PSA, public safety announcement.
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I am not saying not to take this period in time seriously, and not to take the proper
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precautions to protect yourself and those you love.
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All right?
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Be responsible in the decisions you make.
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This is merely talking about language, not your health habits.
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Okay?
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So, if you're in your area, they say wear a mask, please wear a mask.
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If they say to social distance, please do that, okay?
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It's not always about you, it could be about others.
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Now, I've been excited, I will go back to being normal, because I'm still pissed off.
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I'm sorry, angry at the overuse of these words.
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So, before I start a new normal, let's look at overused.
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Overused is to use too often, too much, too many times, too broadly, and that's how these
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words are being used right now.
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So, let's start off with the new normal.
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First of all, this is a new normal for me, an airplane going through my lesson.
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Shoot that guy down.
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Anyway, "new" means new.
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First time, right?
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"Normal" means all the time, so they don't kind of make sense.
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Now, I'm going to explain when we used to say this.
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Now, please keep in mind, all of this is about before 2019.
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Somebody might say "new normal", and I'll explain a very specific example for you.
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One would be if a couple had a new baby, because for that couple, prior to the baby or before
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the baby, they had a life where they might go out with their friends drinking, have dinner,
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go away for weekends, stay up late.
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Once the baby has arrived, it's going to be a new situation for now, but it will eventually
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become a normal situation, which means it will not end.
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Keep in mind what I just said.
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It's not just a new situation, but a situation that will not end.
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Now, think about COVID and when they tell us about what is happening now.
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They say this is the new normal.
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Well, most of us, including myself, don't want COVID to be normal forever, so I think
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we should use more specific language that addresses or tells us that this is a special
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circumstance, but we will move past it.
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There may be other pandemics in the future, but that's in another time, and that will
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be a new thing in itself.
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So, to call something the new normal doesn't make sense, really, because we are at a special
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time in history, which we're told by one of the other words I have on the board, and then
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they say it will be like this forever.
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Okay?
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All right, so you're catching me on that one.
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I could say this, we could say these are special times, and we can talk about unfamiliar routines.
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You might even say this could be an oxymoron, because a routine is something you do all
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the time, but we're saying this is an unfamiliar one, something new that we have to do for
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a while, but we're not used to it.
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That kind of helps with the new normal kind of aspect they're getting.
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It's not going to be permanent.
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We don't think it will be permanent, but it is something unfamiliar and a routine that
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we must do for now.
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Special times tells us that there are normal times and special times.
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Now, I have to give this caveat.
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For some people, they have said that the years, let's say, from 1950 or 1945 until today,
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we have been in a special time, you know, war, not that many diseases, and we have not
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been taking care of, you know, our planet and environment.
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That's an argument to be made.
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But I'm just saying from what we are used to for the generation that is alive now, these
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are special times.
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We are not used to this.
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Cool?
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So, we've got unfamiliar routine, right?
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So, a routine we have to take on we've never had before, and special times, because it
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goes against the argument that this COVID situation will go on forever and ever and
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ever and ever, and that's what new normal kind of leads to, right?
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All right.
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So, that's one you can use.
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So try using special times or these are unfamiliar routines for us, and that gives the idea that
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I'm not expecting this to be permanent, but I do understand as in routine, it will go
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on for a little while, and it's not something I'm used to.
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And special times, these are not what we normally or how we normally live.
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Now, here's my other favourite one, and this is funny because I'm not the only one who
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said this.
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Most of our government said this one.
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Social distancing.
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Before 2019, and you have to be very specific when you talk to people, if you ask people
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what is social distancing, they'll say to you right now, "Well, of course you stay six
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feet or two metres away from another person.
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That's social distancing."
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That is new in our lexicon, and lexicon, I mean dictionary.
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If you had said to anybody in 2018, "I'm going to go to the bar tonight, I'm going to be
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dancing, and I'm going to social distance", they would say, "Have you been drinking?
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What does that mean?
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What do you mean you're going to social distance at the bar?
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You're going to meet somebody, right?"
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"No, I'm going to be social distancing."
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It made no sense.
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The idea of being social is to be in society with people.
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Distant means to be away from.
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Now, it has come...
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We have used this phrase now to say social distancing, because originally they wanted
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to talk about physical distancing, because when you stay two feet - sorry - six feet
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away from me, or two metres, we are physically distant.
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We can still be social.
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I can still say, "Hey, Fred.
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Hey, James.
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How's the garden?
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Going good.
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What about your dog?
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It's got a litter."
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We're distant, physically distant, but we're very social.
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Now, I'm not saying don't use this because most Western-speaking, English-speaking countries
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say social distancing, but you can make your language more specific and say, "Look, I'm
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going to be physical...
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Doing physical distancing with you right now because I'm worried about, you know, someone
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in my family getting sick."
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Telling them, basically, we can still be social, but if I stand away from you, it's nothing
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to do with not being friendly.
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Right?
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Makes sense.
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Social distancing, you could also talk about computing.
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Sitting on your computer, that's kind of social distancing, but that's completely different
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than what we mean when we say you need to social distance when there are two people
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in a room.
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Isn't it?
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On a computer, you are being social at a distance.
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You're halfway on the planet and I'm over here.
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In fact, I'm making a video here and you're over there.
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We're socially distant, but we're trying to be social.
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In a public space, we're talking about - it's not not be friendly, it means move away, and
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I think this would be a better thing to use.
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Just saying, give it a try, and if you have to explain it, then you're probably talking
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to the wrong person.
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They're like, "What do you mean?
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What do you mean social distancing?
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Physical distancing?
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I don't understand."
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It's like, you know, "Back up.
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Back up.
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I'll just email you."
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Okay?
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Next.
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Unprecedented.
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Covid is unprecedented, they say, and yes, it is a new virus.
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It is new.
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We've not had this virus before.
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However, in the last 400 years, we've had 20 major viruses.
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Once again, please remember, I'm not saying these words are wrong, I'm saying they're
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overused and you can use language which is much more specific and actually keeps us thinking
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about what's going on as opposed to falling asleep because we just use the same words
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over and over until they lose their meaning.
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Unprecedented.
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So, "precedent" means to come first, "pre" means first, "cedent" means to follow.
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It's not unprecedented to have a virus.
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When they're saying unprecedented, what they mean is the world did not respond the way
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it has now.
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We shut down the whole world.
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The globe was shut down.
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But they did restrict travel and other things back then.
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So, our response to the virus is unprecedented.
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The virus itself is not.
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In 1918 and 1920, we had the Spanish Flu which wiped out approximately 3% of the planet.
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In fact, it was so bad that air pollution went down.
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It killed that many people.
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It just went down because there weren't that many people burning, you know, like - because
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back then we would be making fires to cook our foods and that, it wasn't microwaves.
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So, that was extraordinary.
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So, that leads me to these words, "unparalleled".
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So, when something is parallel, you're going to get this.
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Unparallel, one is not close to the other.
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They're not the same.
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They're not on the same lines.
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They're not going in the same direction.
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They're unparallel, okay?
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To say this is an unparalleled virus is absolutely correct.
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We have never done what we've done before that I know of.
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I wasn't alive in 1918, and if I was, I'd be looking damn good right now.
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Hundred-year-old man.
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Okay.
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And in 2010, we didn't do the same thing.
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Now, we're not saying it's unprecedented.
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We're saying something like this has happened before, but never like this.
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And that, to me, is more accurate in your language.
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What about "extraordinary"?
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"Extraordinary" means, like, super, really different.
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More than ordinary.
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Right?
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Literally.
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Extraordinary.
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I love this word because it's like, it's not just ordinary, it's extraordinary, which
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kind of makes no sense when you think about it, because if something's extraordinary,
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it's really normal.
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It's like, it's normally, normally, normally.
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But we say this to mean it's above ordinary, so this is an extraordinary time.
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See, I'm getting upset about this.
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It's an extraordinary time.
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It's like, it's not normal.
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It's not an ordinary time.
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And here, "unparalleled", it's not - nothing has been like it before.
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Which is better than saying "unprecedented", in my opinion, and you can play with the language.
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It still gives you a message across.
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In fact, because you're not speaking like everyone else, people will pay more attention
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to what you're saying.
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Right?
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The rate of infection across the globe has been unparalleled.
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We've never seen anything like that before.
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Right?
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Essential workers.
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Now, before you get upset, because some of you will be like, "Well, I'm a grocery worker.
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I was told I'm an essential worker."
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And then some of you are police going, "I'm an essential worker."
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And some of you are, let me say, brain surgeons, and you're being called "essential worker",
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and all of you might be looking at each other going, "Oh, no, hold on a second.
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No.
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No, no, no."
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And I'm like, "You're kind of right."
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In this time, all of these people are, in my opinion, brave to go into places where
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there's possible danger that they didn't sign up for.
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But the level of - I'm not saying importance as in status, you know, who's better.
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But that society needs can be defined by using better words.
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An example, a friend of mine gave me.
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If we have grocery workers, they are, I would say, they are necessary workers.
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In some cases, we might say "indispensable", right?
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But I wouldn't call them "crucial".
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And you go, "Why not?"
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Well, here's the deal.
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My friend put it this way.
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If you have a grocery worker and you need grocery workers, you can go out today, grab
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five people and say, "Okay, you need to sell groceries.
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No problem."
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Here's where we have a problem.
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You need heart people, people - heart surgeons to work on your heart.
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You go out and grab five people and go, "Okay, here's a scalpel.
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Go operate."
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You just killed five people.
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Now, some people are crucial, right?
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People who are organizing our police, hospitals, those are crucial.
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Some people are necessary.
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And some people are indispensable.
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Without it, nothing works.
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The guys who keep the light on, guys and girls that keep the lights on, right?
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They're indispensable.
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We need them in society, especially at this time.
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So, I'm saying we can use these words to still honor the people doing the jobs, but also
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let us know what we need to have for sure, what we can manage, and what we should appreciate.
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But they won't - the world won't stop if they aren't there.
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And I want to make sure I make a point of saying it's funny how it took COVID in 2019-2020
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for people to realize that all jobs are necessary, you know?
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You need the grocery guy just like you need the fireman.
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Just a point to keep, right?
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Respect people who are working.
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So, anyway, so essential workers is floated by our politicians and people in the news
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all the time.
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Everyone's an essential worker, and to the point you're like, "I actually knew this one
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woman who was a massage person, and she was like, 'Our careers - we are essential workers
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because we massage the people who do the heavy work.'"
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You're necessary, doubt it.
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People need you, but crucial - moving on.
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That's why that's up there.
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Okay, trying times.
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This is another one where you get prime ministers and presidents, "These are trying times for
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the people right now."
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What does that mean?
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Now, if you speak English, you know it has - it's like difficult times, right?
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If you don't speak English, you're like, "What are they trying to do?
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Are they trying to eradicate the disease or what?
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I don't know."
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But yeah, we are trying - trying in this case means stressful.
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But even using this word, it's not a fair word to use, because I've given you three
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words that can really help you understand what it might mean for different people.
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Okay, quickly, stressful times.
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If you are a man or a woman that used to go to an office, and suddenly you're at home
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because you have to work from home because of physical distancing requirements - see
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how I use that?
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You can, too.
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So, you're at home, but your kids are at home, too, because they are also physical distancing
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from other students.
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That's a very stressful time for you, because you've got to manage your children and you've
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got to do your job, right?
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That's stressful.
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That is different than demanding times.
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When we say these are demanding times, we might be saying to you something like this.
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Your government requires you to do something.
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They're demanding something of you, and we know we're asking you to do a lot.
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Yes, it causes stress, but there's more the thing that you're asking me to do a lot.
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You're asking me not to see my family, you're asking me not to see my friends, you're asking
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me not to socialize.
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You're demanding a lot of me.
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It could be stressful, but really what I'm concerned about is the demands you're placing
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on me.
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So, you can say to people, "I know these are demanding times.
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The country and your fellow citizens are asking a lot of you."
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And that means more to me or resonates more than stress, because I'm not a parent with
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children at home.
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Right?
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Both are speaking, but we're being very specific.
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Now, here's a very simple word that you might say, "Well, hard is up there."
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What does that mean?
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Okay, my friend, here we go.
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Remember the person at home working?
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Working at home?
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Well, they're bringing in money.
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Okay?
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So, they've got money coming in, so they can pay for their food, their house, their lights
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and everything else, and their kids.
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Demanding.
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Well, they've got demands on them, sure, but they're okay.
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They've got a home over their...
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They've got a house over their head, and they've got money.
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So, what are hard times?
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Hard times are when you don't have food in your house, you don't have a place you can
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stay permanently, you don't know where the money's going to come from, and you don't
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know if you're going to be living in this place.
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It's not paycheck to paycheck.
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You have no clothes.
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Maybe you have nothing and you're about to live on the street.
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Those are hard times.
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So, you can have people in the same time, these trying times, some are having stressful
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times.
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They live in nice houses, but they've got their kids and they're driving them crazy.
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Some have demanding times where lots are being asked for them.
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They have to take care of their elderly in their home.
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Right?
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In Italy that happened.
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People are having a lot of their older folks at their home, and people are dying.
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So, you know, that's very demanding on people.
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Hard times is you have no money, no place to go.
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That's different.
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Different levels, but look at the level of specific - I try it again, I give up.
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How we got very specific with our language.
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I'm going to get that word down, I swear.
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But this is very, very, very, very specific, okay?
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And it gives me more information.
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When you say my friend is facing hard times, I'm going to go "Oh", because I get an idea
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very quickly.
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When you're saying stressful times, I'm like "Oh, how's the job, how's the family going?"
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And see how that can change just by one word?
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Well, anyway, I did the snap by accident.
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I'm like Thanos, I'm practicing.
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And I'm going to snap again, and half of you - no, you'll all reappear next.
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And we're back.
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A special time of ours.
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You like that?
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Okay, we're going to go to the board, practice a little bit more.
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Where's my magic marker?
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Dun-da-da-dun-dun-dun.
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It's quiz time.
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All right.
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So, first quiz we're going to do - ah, got to get this ready here.
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When a routine situation has changed, but you don't want to normalize it.
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When we talk about normalizing something, we mean to make it, like, everyday, normal,
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regular, okay?
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So, what would you use to modify this to let people know that, okay, I know this is different
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and it might go on for a while, but I want to give special attention to this period of
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time.
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I gave you two terms, but I'm specifically looking for one, because you don't want to
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normalize it.
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That's right, special, because we all know that special means it's not regular, it's
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not normal.
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So, when these are special times, we know there are different times this is a special
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one that we have to pay attention to.
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And a pandemic is a special time, right?
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Not like Christmas, but it's a special time.
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When a situation has no equal or is very exceptional, I gave you two words, and I do want you to
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remember these words, okay?
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What do you think they would be?
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That's right.
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Notice I said "has no equal", and I'm going to help you with this one, because I have
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a difficulty spelling this word myself.
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"Para" means side by side, so it's double L. You can remember parallels, you know the
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double Ls in there.
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And we talked about being "extraordinary", remember I made that joke?
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It's not just ordinary, it's "extraordinary", which should mean really normal, but it doesn't,
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it means special.
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Anyway.
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Third, when a situation causes a lot of stress, and I've helped you with this one, what do
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you think it would be?
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Well, if you don't know the answer to this question, you would say it is - oops, stressful
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- stressful times, right?
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These are stressful times.
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Tests can be stressful, I can tell you that.
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Now what about number four?
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I'm sorry, number five for our blanks, number four question.
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When an operation or a situation won't work without this, so something, if it's not there,
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it has to be, you can't work without it, what would you call it?
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It could be a thing or a person, actually.
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Well, it's crucial, it's crucial, if it's crucial, it's just, you don't have it, nothing's
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going to happen, right?
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Oxygen is crucial for breathing, no oxygen, you're dead.
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And number six in our thing, but five in the question, you need to keep a safe what?
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Distance away.
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Yeah, I like this one better than the one we use currently.
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It's physical distancing, because it's true, you need to stay physically away.
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And as I said, a PSA is a public safety, public service announcement or public safety announcement,
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don't remember, but it's supposed to make you safe and feel better at home.
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Stay safe, stay healthy, okay?
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Do whatever the experts in your region say is right for your people, okay?
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I'm not in your country, so I don't know, but take care of yourselves.
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Next.
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These, okay, this whole lesson was based on these two words.
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These two words are, in my opinion, are overused, and then I just thought COVID would be a good
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one to work on that, but these are pet peeves.
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Pet peeves are things that upset me personally, may not be everybody else, but to me, ugh,
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they drive me crazy.
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The word "journey", and some of you are like, "Why you got a problem with journey?"
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If you watch American television or North American television, and I don't know if this
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is in England, Wales, Scotland, maybe they have this program everywhere, there's a program
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called "The Bachelor" and also "The Bachelorette", and this is crazy, but this is the premise,
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okay?
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This is the idea.
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One person gets to date 25 other people for three months, and everybody knows about it.
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In fact, the men and the women that are dating live in the same house, and they go out on
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dates in nice places like Spain, Italy, they'll come to the mountains in America, and the
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company pays for it, so the person doing the dating doesn't pay for anything.
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Anyway, they go all over these places, and then they talk about it, but this is the key
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word.
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I don't watch this program, before you think I do, I just usually come home because I leave
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my TV on, and this program is on usually, I think, Monday nights.
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See, I don't even know, I just know I walk in the door, and I hear this word.
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As soon as I walk in the door, I'm like taking my bag off.
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This journey we've been on, week one.
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This journey, week 17.
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This journey, and there's just different people going, "You got no other words?"
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They're trying to say that the start of a relationship is a journey, going from one
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place to another that can be magical.
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I'm like, you know what would be magical?
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If you used a dictionary, that would be magical.
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Open it up, turn it, there's different pages, different words.
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For example, "expedition".
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They didn't go on a journey to the North Pole, they went on an expedition.
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That means they were looking for something difficult to get.
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Love is difficult to get, you know that.
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They worked hard, it was dangerous, and finally they got to where they needed to be.
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That's an expedition.
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That's what your love should be like, not a journey.
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Another one is an "adventure".
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Doesn't that get you excited?
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Ooh, goosebumps.
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You know, maybe you're playing your video games and you're on a starship moving around,
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that's an adventure.
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It's not a journey.
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You want your love to be an adventure, both of you excited to be there.
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Journeys can be pretty arduous, I mean, hard and difficult, not much fun.
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That's it, bachelor.
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I'm putting you on notice.
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People are going to start complaining about you.
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Next, in the news, especially in North America, they've got this special word now.
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When I was a kid, we used to use it only in specific times, but now it's the narrative.
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We have the narrative for everything, the political narrative.
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I don't want to say this one because people will get upset, but lives matter narrative.
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Then there's the poli-narrative.
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You know, the guys in blue, they have a narrative, everyone's got a narrative.
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When I was a kid, here's what it used to be, okay?
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Number one, it was an account.
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An account, like a bank account, was filled with facts.
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This is the account that we've got.
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These are the facts, not a story.
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Because, you see, the word "narrative" also means "story", and here's something we won't
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tell you, or they don't.
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In English, when you say "story" or "tale", it means we don't necessarily believe you,
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and that's why I like those words, because when you give me your account, you are telling
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me these are the facts.
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That's it.
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The sky is blue, the sun is yellow.
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This is my account.
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It's not a narrative, not a story, it's a fact.
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Now, "portrayal" is how I want to give you my perspective on it.
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The portrayal, they said it like this, which is maybe there's truth to it, but you know,
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I can't say it's 100% facts.
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What's your portrayal?
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Like, when you get a portrait done of someone, it is a picture of the person, not the person.
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Cool?
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Ah.
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See how much closer these words are to getting out what we mean?
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And if someone tells me, "I don't like your story", you know, someone told me this tale,
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I don't think it's real.
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I think it's imaginary.
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So, if I said, "He told me this tale about why he was late for work", I'm calling the
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person a liar.
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I don't want to use narrative for that, but this has been very popular and it's pushed
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out words that are actually quite accurate when we are explaining something.
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Okay?
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Anyway, that's how this lesson got started, in case you ever want to see behind the scenes
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or how does he pick out lessons.
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These two words started this particular one and the situation we're in right now.
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Anyway, as always, I've given you your quiz here.
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You've got your bonus material, my pet peeve, or peeves, and finally we're going to do homework.
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And because there are uno, dos, tres, cuatro, cinco, cinco, right, un, dos, tres, cuatro,
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cinco, five words here that you're going to look for, I'm going to make it special.
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You can have one million points for each one you get correct.
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Just imagine if they were dollars.
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So, here's the sentence and you have to figure out which words that I taught you would suit
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this paragraph better, and don't forget to pull it in and put it in the comments beneath.
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So, in these something times, we must thank something workers in the grocery stores and
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something workers in the hospitals.
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Remember, there's probably a difference between them, what is the word that works best?
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Remember to something something for everyone's safety.
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Now, what can you do as a person for everyone else's safety?
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We worked on it today, you should figure it out.
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Anyway, that's your quiz, go get your points, and don't forget to press like or subscribe.
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And I say that simply because this is the end of my video, and you're still here so
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you clearly liked it because you're looking for more.
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I'm going to give you more in 10 seconds, so press like.
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And if this is your, like, second, third time pressing like, time to subscribe, I think,
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yeah?
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Anyway, it's up to you, but I think it would be good for you.
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So, to get more, I would like you to go to www.asinenglishvidasinvideoengvid.com, and
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you will get a quiz that has 10 questions that you can go and practice your English
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on, see if you've mastered what I've taught you today, and find other wonderful teachers
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to help you out.
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Okay?
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Anyway, I hope you've enjoyed these special times we've shared.
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I've got something that's crucial in my mind that I have to take care of, and I must go.
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All right?
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Don't forget to like, subscribe, and I look forward to seeing you again in the next video.
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Ciao.
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