Boost your Business & your English: Small talk on films, TV series and more

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Business English with Christina


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- If you're a business owner or an entrepreneur,
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you know how important it is to build rapport with others,
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so that you can grow your business.
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And today, we'll work on your small talk skills in English,
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so that you can go from feeling uncomfortable
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to feeling confident when networking in English.
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Let's go.
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Hi, I'm your English coach, Christina,
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and welcome to Business English with Christina
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where you become confident in English,
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so you can grow your business.
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Making connections through small talk is one
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of the best ways that you can use English
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to grow your business.
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And the good news is that it's not as difficult
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as you might imagine, if you've got the right techniques
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and you just have some small talk secrets or tips.
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And I really believe that this topic is so important
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when you're learning English,
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but also when you're doing business,
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and that's why later on in this episode,
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I'm gonna quiz you on it.
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So pay close attention
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to the three strategies in this lesson.
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Now, do you know what's something that makes a lot
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of my clients feel stressed about small talk?
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And I think just a lot of people in general,
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native speakers or not, it's that you don't know
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what the conversation is going to be about.
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You don't know where it's going,
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unless it's you who starts the conversation
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with a great question.
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Now, a really safe, comfortable,
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easy topic of small talk,
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it's movies, books, podcasts, things like that.
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So when you want to try to make some small talk in English,
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just try one of these questions.
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Have you seen any great movies lately?
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Do you ever watch TV series, and do you have a favorite?
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Do you ever listen to podcast while traveling
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or do you ever listen to podcasts in general?
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Asking questions is a great way to feel more confident
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about your small talk in English.
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Why? Because, well, when you ask the questions,
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first of all, you know what the conversation
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is going to be about
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because you introduced that topic of conversation.
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So that means that you can prepare a little bit
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which helps you to feel more confident
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just to get that conversation started,
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which is often the hardest part.
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And then also, questions show
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that you're showing interest in your conversation partner,
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which, of course, is very important in good small talk.
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Now, there is nothing worse than awkward silences
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in conversations, at least for a lot of Americans, I think.
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So imagine that situation,
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you're in a networking conversation,
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your business contact answers the question that you asked
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and then both of you are just kind of silent
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and kind of feeling a little uncomfortable.
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So here's how you can ask follow-up questions
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to keep that conversation going.
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So let's imagine that you started
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by asking about their favorite movie.
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Oh, I just saw a good movie at the theater recently.
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Have you seen any good movies lately?
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Well, I've been really busy lately,
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but I did see a really good movie
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on Netflix earlier this month.
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Oh yeah, that's a good way to keep up
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with movies when you're really busy.
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What was the last good movie that you watched?
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It was a biopic about Steve Jobs.
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I think the title was just "Steve Jobs",
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but it was really fascinating.
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That sounds like a good one.
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I'll have to watch it.
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Do you watch a lot of movies about business?
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Yeah, now that you mention it, I do.
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What about you?
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Okay, so, so far, we've got two of my strategies
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for good small talk for entrepreneurs,
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and keep those in mind
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because the third one is coming up, and remember,
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you've got a quiz on this at the end of this episode.
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All right, so here's strategy number three.
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It's simply to find common ground.
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Common ground is basically just those things,
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those points that you have in common with someone else.
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So let's imagine a scenario
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where you ask your business contact a question like,
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"Have you seen any great TV series lately?"
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And she says, "Actually, I don't have a TV.
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I don't ever watch TV."
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Ooh, okay.
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So this could potentially be a moment of awkward silence
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because you had prepared to ask,
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"Do you like watching TV series?"
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They would tell you the TV series.
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Then you would ask some questions about it.
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And now it's like, your conversation partner
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has just killed all of the preparation that you did.
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But that's okay, because you got this
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and you can come up with another question
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because the subject really,
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it's not the TV series itself,
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it's getting to know your conversation partner.
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And that's what's really important in small talk.
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It's not the topic of the conversation,
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it's the activity of getting to know each other.
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So that means you can get to know them
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by asking some follow-up questions like,
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"How interesting.
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I guess that gives you a lot of time
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to do a lot of other interesting things."
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Yeah, that's true.
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Since I've stopped watching TV,
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I think I've read 60 books this year
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and I actually have time to follow some
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of my favorite business podcasts.
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And maybe this is the place
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where you find your common ground.
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Oh, I love business podcasts.
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Which ones do you listen to?
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Okay, quiz time.
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Did you get those three small talk tips for entrepreneurs?
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Do you remember what they were?
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Ask great, mm.
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Ask great, mm.
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And find, mm.
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Now, I want you to be active in your English
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as you're growing your business
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and increasing your confidence in English.
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So to get the answers to that quiz,
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I'm gonna ask you to go over to my blog
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and you'll find the answers down in the comment section
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of the blog or at the bottom of the blog post,
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somewhere down at the bottom of the screen, basically.
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But I promise, they're there.
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Now, remember, watching this video is a great first step,
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but to see real change, you need to make it a habit
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to practice your English regularly.
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So here's how you can use what you learned today.
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Think of one great small talk question
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that you could ask someone that you meet
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at a networking event
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or any other professional situation,
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and put that question in the comments below this video
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and you'll give...
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Well, you and everyone else in the community
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will give each other a good list of questions
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to help you make that first step
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and start a small talk conversation in English.
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Now, if this lesson was helpful for you,
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there are three ways that you can tell me.
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Give this lesson a thumbs up on YouTube
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and subscribe to my channel,
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so that I can continue
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making business English lessons for you.
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Of course, number two, go over to the blog post,
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get the answers to the quiz,
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be active in your learning, and see how you did.
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And the third thing that you can do is
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to watch this next lesson all about
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how to avoid awkward silences in conversations.
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All right, thanks again for improving your business,
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your English, and yourself
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with Business English with Christina,
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and I'll see you next time.
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