Learn the English Phrases "mutually beneficial" and "the feeling is mutual"

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In this English lesson, I wanted
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to help you understand the English
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term mutually beneficial.
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When something is mutually
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beneficial, it benefits both people.
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The other day in my lesson
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I used the term win win.
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When something's a win win, it means
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it's good for both people who are
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involved in whatever is happening.
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You could say the same thing here.
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When something is mutually
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beneficial, then both people are...
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both countries benefit.
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I will say this, I don't like
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to get political, but tariffs don't
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seem to be mutually beneficial.
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The world's a little crazy right now.
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Again, I don't like to comment
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on too much of the political
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spectrum, but I'm not sure
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everything is mutually beneficial
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right now in the world.
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The other phrase I wanted
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to teach you today is the feeling
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is mutual. When someone tells
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you what they think about you or
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how they feel about you.
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And if you respond by saying
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the feeling is mutual, it
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means you feel the same way.
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If one of you didn't like me
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and said, Bob, you're not very nice
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and I thought the same
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about you, I would say,
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hey, the feeling is mutual.
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You can also use this to talk about,
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like if two people think
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the same way about something, you
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could say the feeling is mutual.
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Like if one of you said
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that you don't like tariffs, I could
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say, oh, the feeling's mutual.
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It means I don't really
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like them either.
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I hope I don't get too many
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comments from this lesson.
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But anyways, to review when
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something is mutually beneficial,
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it's good for both people or both
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parties or both countries.
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And when the feeling is mutual,
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it means that you and another
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person or a group of people
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and another group of people feel
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the same way about something.
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But hey, let's look at a comment
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from a previous video.
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This is from Mohd Ags.
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It's so good to see you Mr.
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Bob.
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Thank you for the useful
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phrase sight unseen.
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And thanks to the student that
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used it naturally, they basically
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taught us the phrase too, eh?
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Correct use of "eh" by the way.
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And my response?
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Yep, the people around me are
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unaware that they are
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inadvertently teaching all of you.
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So thanks Mohd Ags for that comment.
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And yeah, I've explained
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this before, haven't I?
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That what I do in order to
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figure out what to teach you today
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is I just listen to people
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and someone actually used the phrase
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mutually beneficial today.
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And then usually the second
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phrase, I just look for something
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that's kind of related.
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It doesn't always mean the same
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thing, but it usually
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has the same word in it or
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some version of that word.
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So yeah, what was I going
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to talk about today?
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Not politics.
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I'm not going to talk
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about that at all.
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Or did I already do that?
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Maybe a little bit.
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I know someone else commented,
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and I didn't have this comment
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on the screen that in the last
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video I was probably talking
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faster than I did in previous
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lessons on this channel.
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And that could be true.
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I'm a little out of practice
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In English,
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when you say you're out of
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practice, it means you haven't
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done something for a while, so
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you're maybe not as good at it or
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not doing it in the same way that
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you used to do it.
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So maybe I'm a little
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bit out of practice.
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I just intentionally started speaking
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a little bit more slowly, 10% more
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slowly than normal, and pronouncing
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all my words correctly.
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So we'll see.
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Now I feel like I'm thinking
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about it too much and adjusting
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how I speak too much.
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So I'll try to go back to normal.
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The idea with this channel is that
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I do speak close to my normal speed
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for the last two minutes, so
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hopefully I'm getting close to that.
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Anyways, thanks for watching! Uh, live
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stream tomorrow or later this
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morning on my bigger channel.
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Yeah, it depends when you watch this,
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but I will be doing a short live
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stream, maybe half an hour, maybe 40
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minutes, just to get back into it
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again. Thanks for watching.
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I'll see you next week with
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another short English lesson.
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Bye.
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