How to Make Everyone Want to Talk to You | Communication skills in English

32,160 views ・ 2018-11-08

Accent's Way English with Hadar


μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

00:00
Hey, it's Hadar.
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μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš” ν•˜λ‹€λ₯΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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And this is The Accent's Way, speaking to you from YouTube Space, Berlin.
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그리고 이것은 The Accent's Wayμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ² λ₯Όλ¦°μ˜ YouTube μŠ€νŽ˜μ΄μŠ€μ—μ„œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„κ»˜ λ§μ”€λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:05
How fun is that?
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μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ μž¬λ―Έμžˆλ‚˜μš”?
00:07
I wanted to give you a few tips today on how to be a great conversation partner.
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μ €λŠ” 였늘 ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ λŒ€ν™” νŒŒνŠΈλ„ˆκ°€ λ˜λŠ” 방법에 λŒ€ν•œ λͺ‡ 가지 νŒμ„ λ“œλ¦¬κ³ μž ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 특히 μ™Έκ΅­μ–΄λ₯Ό ꡬ사할 λ•Œ
00:12
It's very important to be a great speaker, especially when you speak a
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ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ ν™”μžκ°€ λ˜λŠ” 것이 맀우 μ€‘μš”
00:16
foreign language, but it's also extremely important to be a great conversation
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ λŒ€ν™”
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partner, to be a good listener.
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μƒλŒ€κ°€ λ˜λŠ” 것, 잘 λ“£λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ λ˜λŠ” 것도 맀우 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:24
Sometimes we're so preoccupied with what we're going to say, what words we need to use,
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λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 무슨 말을 ν•΄μ•Ό 할지, μ–΄λ–€ 단어λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ”μ§€μ—
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being afraid of getting stuck that we forget to be a good conversation partner.
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λͺ°λ‘ν•˜κ³ , λ§‰νžκΉŒ 봐 쒋은 λŒ€ν™” μƒλŒ€κ°€ λ˜λŠ” 것을 μžŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:34
We forget to listen.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ“£λŠ” 것을 μžŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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We forget to communicate, to really communicate.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ†Œν†΅ν•˜λŠ” 것, μ§„μ •μœΌλ‘œ μ†Œν†΅ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μžŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:38
So, I want to give you a few tips to remind you what makes a great
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ” ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ
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conversation partner, and what you can do every day with people you speak to.
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λŒ€ν™” μƒλŒ€κ°€ 무엇인지, λŒ€ν™” μƒλŒ€μ™€ 맀일 무엇을 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μƒκΈ°μ‹œμΌœ 쀄 λͺ‡ 가지 νŒμ„ λ“œλ¦¬κ³ μž ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:47
And of course, it could be in your native tongue and in English.
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λ¬Όλ‘  λͺ¨κ΅­μ–΄λ‚˜ μ˜μ–΄λ‘œλ„ κ°€λŠ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:51
To be a better listener, to be a better partner.
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더 λ‚˜μ€ μ²­μ·¨μžκ°€ 되기 μœ„ν•΄, 더 λ‚˜μ€ νŒŒνŠΈλ„ˆκ°€ 되기 μœ„ν•΄.
00:59
First, make it about them.
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λ¨Όμ € 그듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
01:02
It takes the edge off of you so you don't have to always speak.
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항상 말할 ν•„μš”κ°€ 없도둝 κ°€μž₯자리λ₯Ό μ œκ±°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:05
And also, people like to talk about themselves.
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λ˜ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μžμ‹ μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:08
People like when others are interested in what they have to say in their lives.
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μžμ‹ μ˜ μ‚Άμ—μ„œ 말해야 ν•˜λŠ” 것에 관심을 κ°€μ§ˆ λ•Œλ₯Ό μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
01:14
Ask them questions, ask them real questions.
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κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ§ˆλ¬Έν•˜κ³  μ§„μ§œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ λ§ν•˜κ²Œ ν•˜μ—¬
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Try to be the one leading the conversation by getting the other person to speak.
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λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ£Όλ„ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ λ˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ . 그듀이 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것에
01:22
Really be interested in what they have to say.
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μ •λ§λ‘œ 관심을 κ°€μ§€μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ .
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Make it about them, not about you.
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당신에 κ΄€ν•œ 것이 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ 그듀에 κ΄€ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:31
Number 2.
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2번.
01:32
Look them in the eyes.
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ λˆˆμ„ λ°”λΌλ³΄μ„Έμš”.
01:34
Don't look away, don't look at your freaking phone, don't look at your watch.
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μ‹œμ„ μ„ λŒλ¦¬μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”, μ΄μƒν•œ μ „ν™”λ₯Ό 보지 λ§ˆμ„Έμš”, μ‹œκ³„λ₯Ό 보지 λ§ˆμ„Έμš”.
01:40
Look them in the eyes.
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ λˆˆμ„ λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
01:41
If you feel embarrassed, if you feel it's too much, look at their mouth,
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λΆ€λ„λŸ½κ±°λ‚˜ λ„ˆλ¬΄ κ³Όν•˜λ‹€κ³  느끼면 κ·Έλ“€μ˜ μž…μ„ μ³λ‹€λ³΄λ˜
01:44
but make sure that they see that you are looking at them and not elsewhere.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ 곳이 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ 당신이 그듀을 보고 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 그듀이 보도둝 ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
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Even though you're listening, they don't know that you're listening.
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당신이 λ“£κ³  μžˆμ–΄λ„ 그듀은 당신이 λ“£κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 λͺ¨λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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If you're looking away, okay?
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멀리보고 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄, μ•Œμ•˜μ§€?
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It doesn't feel safe, and people don't want to keep on talking
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그것은 μ•ˆμ „ν•˜λ‹€κ³  λŠλΌμ§€ μ•ŠμœΌλ©°, 아무도 κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 말을 듣지 μ•ŠλŠ”λ‹€λ©΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 계속 λ§ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
01:59
if no one's listening to them.
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02:01
It makes them feel funny and weird, and it turns you into a bad conversation partner.
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그것은 그듀을 재미있고 μ΄μƒν•˜κ²Œ 느끼게 ν•˜κ³  당신을 λ‚˜μœ λŒ€ν™” νŒŒνŠΈλ„ˆλ‘œ λ§Œλ“­λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:06
Of course, you can look away every now and then, but always go back to their face.
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λ¬Όλ‘  λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ μ‹œμ„ μ„ 돌릴 수 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ 항상 κ·Έλ“€μ˜ μ–Όκ΅΄λ‘œ λŒμ•„κ°‘λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:09
I guarantee that you'll enjoy the conversation more because
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you won't think of other things.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ 생각을 ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό 더 즐길 수 μžˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:14
It will force you to actually listen to them.
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그것은 당신이 μ‹€μ œλ‘œ κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 말을 λ“£κ²Œ ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:17
And hopefully, they'll say something interesting.
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그리고 λ°”λΌκ±΄λŒ€ 그듀은 ν₯미둜운 말을 ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:22
My next tip is: the strong connection is in the details.
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λ‹€μŒ νŒμ€ κ°•λ ₯ν•œ 연결은 μ„ΈλΆ€ 사항에 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:27
If it's someone that is not new to you that you've spoken with before,
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a friend, a colleague, client.
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친ꡬ, λ™λ£Œ, 고객과 같이 이전에 λŒ€ν™”ν•œ 적이 μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μƒˆλ‘­μ§€ μ•Šμ€ 경우. 이전 λŒ€ν™”
02:34
Remember things from your previous conversation.
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의 λ‚΄μš©μ„ κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ .
02:36
Even take a mental note of the simple things: his daughter's name, her
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그의 λ”Έμ˜ 이름,
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experience in the last flight over here.
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이곳으둜 μ˜€λŠ” λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ λΉ„ν–‰μ—μ„œμ˜ κ·Έλ…€μ˜ κ²½ν—˜κ³Ό 같은 λ‹¨μˆœν•œ 것듀도 λ§ˆμŒμ†μœΌλ‘œ 기둝해 λ‘μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
02:43
Remember small details and bring them up in the next conversation.
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μž‘μ€ μ„ΈλΆ€ 사항을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜κ³  λ‹€μŒ λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ μ–ΈκΈ‰ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
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When you remember the small details and you bring it up in the next conversation,
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μž‘μ€ μ„ΈλΆ€ 사항을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜κ³  λ‹€μŒ λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ 그것을 κΊΌλ‚΄κ³ 
02:52
ask a question about it, it will really touch them, it will move them.
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그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ§ˆλ¬Έν•˜λ©΄ 정말 κ°λ™ν•˜κ³  감동을 쀄 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:57
They'll feel that you actually listened, that you remembered something about them.
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그듀은 당신이 그듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ 무언가λ₯Ό κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜κ³  μ‹€μ œλ‘œ λ“€μ—ˆλ‹€κ³  λŠλ‚„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:01
It is so meaningful to people to feel what they said mattered.
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그듀이 λ§ν•œ 것이 μ€‘μš”ν•˜λ‹€κ³  λŠλΌλŠ” 것은 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ 맀우 μ˜λ―Έκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:05
Even if it's a simple thing.
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λ‹¨μˆœν•œ 일이더라도 말이닀.
03:07
Especially, if it's a simple thing.
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특히 λ‹¨μˆœν•œ 것이라면 λ”μš± κ·Έλ ‡μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:09
We all remember big things, big events, but the small things, the small
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우리 λͺ¨λ‘λŠ” 큰 일, 큰 사건을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μž‘μ€ 일, μž‘μ€
03:14
things really make all the difference.
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일이 정말 큰 차이λ₯Ό λ§Œλ“­λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:17
So, remember the small things and remember to bring it up in the next conversation.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ μ‚¬μ†Œν•œ 일을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜κ³  λ‹€μŒ λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ μ–ΈκΈ‰ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μžŠμ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
03:24
Don't bitch about other people's behaviors.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ 행동에 λŒ€ν•΄ μš•ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš” .
03:26
"Oh, look at him, how he eats.
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"였, μ € μ‚¬λžŒ μ’€ 봐, μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ¨ΉλŠ”μ§€.
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Oh my God.
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세상에.
03:29
He's taking all the food from the buffet".
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κ·ΈλŠ” λ·”νŽ˜μ—μ„œ λͺ¨λ“  μŒμ‹μ„ κ°€μ Έκ°€κ³  μžˆμ–΄."
03:32
"Oh my God, look at her.
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"였 마이 κ°“, κ·Έλ…€λ₯Ό 봐.
03:33
What is up with her hair?"
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κ·Έλ…€μ˜ λ¨Έλ¦¬λŠ” 무슨 일이야?"
03:36
I mean, you don't know who this person you're speaking with.
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λ‚΄ 말은, 당신은 당신이 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 이 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ λˆ„κ΅¬μΈμ§€ λͺ¨λ₯Έλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:39
Maybe they're doing the same thing, and maybe that's going to make
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μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 그듀은 같은 일을 ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ„ 것이고, μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 그것은
03:42
them feel super uncomfortable.
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그듀을 맀우 λΆˆνŽΈν•˜κ²Œ λ§Œλ“€ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:44
It happened to me once.
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ν•œ 번 λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ μΌμ–΄λ‚¬μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:46
I was speaking to this woman and she started talking about all these women
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λ‚˜λŠ” 이 μ—¬μžμ™€ 이야기λ₯Ό ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ—ˆκ³  κ·Έλ…€λŠ” μ΄λŸ¬μ €λŸ¬ν•œ 일을 ν•˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ“  μ—¬μžλ“€μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κΈ° μ‹œμž‘ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
03:50
that do this, this and that, and I was like, "Hmm, that's what I do".
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.
03:54
And it made me feel uncomfortable, and it made me feel like I
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그리고 그것은 λ‚˜λ₯Ό λΆˆνŽΈν•˜κ²Œ λ§Œλ“€μ—ˆκ³ 
03:57
don't want to be her friend.
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κ·Έλ…€μ˜ μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ 되고 싢지 μ•Šλ‹€λŠ” λŠλ‚Œμ΄ λ“€μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:58
And you know what?
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그리고 κ·Έκ±° μ•Œμ•„?
03:59
We ended up not being friends.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” κ²°κ΅­ μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ λ˜μ§€ λͺ»ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:01
So, let me tell you this, even if you feel strongly about
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이 말을 ν•˜μžλ©΄, 당신이 무언가에 λŒ€ν•΄ κ°•ν•˜κ²Œ λŠλΌλ”λΌλ„
04:05
something, keep it to yourself if you don't know the person well.
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κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ 잘 μ•Œμ§€ λͺ»ν•œλ‹€λ©΄ 그것을 혼자 κ°„μ§ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
04:09
You don't know where they're coming from, you don't know how they're going to feel.
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당신은 그듀이 μ–΄λ””μ—μ„œ μ™”λŠ”μ§€ λͺ¨λ₯΄κ³  그듀이 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λŠλ‚„μ§€ λͺ¨λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:12
And when you judge other people, they will feel that you will
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그리고 당신이 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ νŒλ‹¨ν•  λ•Œ κ·Έλ“€
04:16
judge them easily as well.
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도 당신이 그듀을 μ‰½κ²Œ νŒλ‹¨ν•  것이라고 λŠλ‚„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:17
So be careful with how might you bitch about other people.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ‚˜μœ 짓을 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ‘°μ‹¬ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
04:21
Although it may be a funny conversation topic.
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μž¬λ―ΈμžˆλŠ” λŒ€ν™” 주제 일 수 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ. 이야기할
04:24
You know, you can find other funny conversation topics to talk about.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μž¬λ―ΈμžˆλŠ” λŒ€ν™” 주제λ₯Ό 찾을 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:28
And anyway, speaking badly about other people is not a good habit anyway.
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그리고 μ–΄μ¨Œλ“  λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ— λŒ€ν•΄ λ‚˜μ˜κ²Œ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것은 쒋은 μŠ΅κ΄€μ΄ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:35
Respect and appreciate silence.
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침묡을 μ‘΄μ€‘ν•˜κ³  κ°μ‚¬ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
04:40
Don't fill in every single moment of silence.
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침묡의 λͺ¨λ“  μˆœκ°„μ„ μ±„μš°μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
04:43
Don't feel like you have to speak really quickly.
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정말 빨리 말해야 ν•œλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”.
04:46
When someone says something, don't jump in and speak immediately after they're done.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ 말을 ν•˜λ©΄ λ°”λ‘œ 뛰어듀지 말고 말을 마친 직후에 λ§ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
04:52
Let it sink, give it a moment, take a breath.
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κ°€λΌμ•‰κ²Œ λ†”λ‘μ„Έμš”, μž μ‹œλ§Œμš”, μˆ¨μ„ μ‰¬μ„Έμš”. λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 방금 ν•œ 말을 λ“£κ³ 
04:56
When you jump in and say what you have to say without taking any pause after
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λ‚˜μ„œ μž μ‹œλ„ 쉬지 μ•Šκ³  λ°”λ‘œ 끼어듀어 말해야 ν•  말을 ν•˜λŠ” 것은 마치
05:00
what the other person just said, it looks like you are just not listening to them.
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당신이 κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 말을 듣지 μ•ŠλŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ λ³΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:05
Like you were waiting for the moment you could just jump in and speak, like
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당신이 λ°”λ‘œ λ›°μ–΄λ“€μ–΄ 말할 수 μžˆλŠ” μˆœκ°„μ„ 기닀리고 μžˆλŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ,
05:08
it's all about what you have to say.
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당신이 말해야 ν•  것이 전뢀인 κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ.
05:11
To show that you're actually listening to other people, you
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μ‹€μ œλ‘œ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ 말을 λ“£κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 보여주기 μœ„ν•΄
05:14
have to give a time, take a breath, and then say what you have to say.
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μ‹œκ°„μ„ μ£Όκ³  μˆ¨μ„ λ“€μ΄λ§ˆμ‹  λ‹€μŒ ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  말을 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:18
Even though you know exactly what you need to say and you've been
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당신이 말해야 ν•  것을 μ •ν™•νžˆ μ•Œκ³  있고 당신이
05:21
waiting to say it for a while.
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그것을 λ§ν•˜κΈ°λ₯Ό ν•œλ™μ•ˆ 기닀리고 μžˆμ—ˆμŒμ—λ„ λΆˆκ΅¬ν•˜κ³ .
05:23
So, respect silence and understand it's a meaningful and essential
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 침묡을 μ‘΄μ€‘ν•˜κ³  그것이 λŒ€ν™”μ˜ 의미 있고 ν•„μˆ˜μ μΈ
05:27
part of the conversation, in-between sentences, and just silence, as is.
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λΆ€λΆ„μž„μ„ μ΄ν•΄ν•˜κ³ , λ¬Έμž₯ 사이에 μžˆλŠ” κ·ΈλŒ€λ‘œμ˜ 침묡을 μœ μ§€ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
05:36
Just like that.
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κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ.
05:38
Okay.
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05:38
That's it.
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μ’‹μ•„μš”.
그게 λ‹€μ•Ό.
05:39
I hope you liked it.
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λ‚˜λŠ” 당신이 그것을 μ’‹μ•„ λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:40
It was a bit of a different video, but these are things that
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쑰금 색닀λ₯Έ μ˜μƒμ΄μ—ˆλŠ”λ°
05:42
I've been thinking about lately.
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μ΅œκ·Όμ— μƒκ°λ‚œ κ²ƒλ“€μ΄λ„€μš”.
05:44
And I think that in order to be a good speaker, you definitely have
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그리고 쒋은 μ—°μ„€κ°€κ°€ 되렀면 ν™•μ‹€νžˆ
05:47
to be a good listener, a great listener, a fantastic listener, right?
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쒋은 청취자, ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ 청취자, ν™˜μƒμ μΈ μ²­μ·¨μžκ°€ λ˜μ–΄μ•Ό ν•œλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:52
That's more important than anything else.
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그것이 무엇보닀 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:54
And then you are able to hear things, to notice things, and to
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그러면 사물을 듀을 수 있고, 사물을 μ•Œμ•„μ°¨λ¦΄ 수 있으며,
05:58
really connect and communicate.
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μ§„μ •μœΌλ‘œ μ—°κ²°ν•˜κ³  μ†Œν†΅ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:00
And it doesn't matter how well you speak English.
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그리고 μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ μž˜ν•˜λŠλƒλŠ” μ€‘μš”ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
06:03
If you can listen, if you can ask questions, people
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당신이 듀을 수 있고 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€
06:06
would love speaking to you.
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:08
And it's extremely important when it comes to work relationships, and of
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업무 κ΄€κ³„λŠ”
06:12
course, to personal relationships.
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λ¬Όλ‘  개인 관계에 μžˆμ–΄μ„œλ„ 맀우 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:14
Okay.
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μ’‹μ•„μš”.
06:15
So leave me a comment below.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ•„λž˜μ— μ˜κ²¬μ„ λ‚¨κ²¨μ£Όμ„Έμš”.
06:17
Tell me what other things you think can turn you into a great conversation partner,
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당신을 ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ λŒ€ν™” νŒŒνŠΈλ„ˆλ‘œ λ§Œλ“€ 수 μžˆλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ 것듀은 무엇
06:22
and what are the things that you're still struggling with?
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이며 μ—¬μ „νžˆ 어렀움을 κ²ͺκ³  μžˆλŠ” 것은 λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
06:25
Let me know and let's start a conversation right there in the comments below.
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μ €μ—κ²Œ μ•Œλ €μ£Όκ³  μ•„λž˜ λŒ“κΈ€μ—μ„œ λ°”λ‘œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•©μ‹œλ‹€.
06:28
Thank you so much for watching.
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μ‹œμ²­ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:30
If you like this video, please share it with your friends.
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이 λΉ„λ””μ˜€κ°€ λ§ˆμŒμ— λ“€λ©΄ μΉœκ΅¬μ™€ κ³΅μœ ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
06:32
And if you haven't subscribed to my YouTube channel, click on
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그리고 제 유튜브 채널을 κ΅¬λ…ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμœΌμ…¨λ‹€λ©΄
06:36
the Subscribe button and on the bell to get notifications, so you
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ꡬ독 λ²„νŠΌκ³Ό 벨을 눌러 μ•Œλ¦Όμ„ λ°›μœΌμ‹œλ©΄
06:39
know when I upload a new video.
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μ œκ°€ μƒˆ λ™μ˜μƒμ„ μ—…λ‘œλ“œν•  λ•Œ μ•Œ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ†Œν†΅κ³Ό λŒ€ν™”κ°€
06:42
Have a wonderful week, full of communication and conversation.
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κ°€λ“ν•œ 멋진 ν•œ μ£Ό λ³΄λ‚΄μ„Έμš” .
06:46
And I'll see you next week in the next video.
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그리고 λ‹€μŒμ£Ό λ‹€μŒ μ˜μƒμ—μ„œ λ΅™κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:49
Bye.
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μ•ˆλ…•.
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