How To Communicate Clearly In English Using 4 Simple Tips

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Hey in today's English lesson, I'm going to give you four tips, four
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tips that will help you communicate clearly in English and start speaking
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like a native English speaker.
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Are you ready?
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Well, then I'm teacher.
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Tiffani let's jump right in.
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All right.
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Tip number one.
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You need to simplify your idea.
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This is something that I encourage all of my students to do, and I
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want to encourage you as well.
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You see simplifying your idea is one of the first keys to speaking
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English, like a native English speaker.
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Look at point number one in order for your idea to.
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For the person listening to you to understand and follow along, you need
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to make your idea as simple as possib.
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Think about it.
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I'm teaching you English.
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I'm your English teacher.
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My goal is to help you master this English language and finally speak English like a
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native, but English is very complicated.
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So my job is to simplify the ideas, simplify the lessons.
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And in order for you to speak like me, you must also do the.
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The next thing is you must break your idea down until you
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get to the core of your idea.
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Think about an apple.
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I love apples and I have eaten an apple every day for so many
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years because I love apples.
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Now.
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Some days I miss eating the apple, but usually I eat apples.
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Now at the center of an apple is a core the center, the main portion of the apple.
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So when we say the core of your idea, you want to make sure you're giving
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the most important information, figure out what you're trying today
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to say, , I'm gonna leave that in and actually deliver that information.
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That message to the individual.
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Simplify your idea.
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And then come up with one simple and impactful statement or sentence.
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Remember when you're trying to speak in English like a native, it's important
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for you to organize your thoughts.
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And as you organize your thoughts, you'll figure out the core of your idea and
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you'll figure out the most important thing you need to tell the person listening.
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And you should be able to break that down into a simple sentence or statement.
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For example, in this lesson, I am teaching you, I'm giving you four
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tips that will help you communicate in English like a native English speaker.
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One sentence, one statement first simplify.
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Your idea makes sense.
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Right?
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Okay.
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Let's move on to tip number.
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Tip number two is you need to prove your idea.
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This is something that I love teaching my students, how to
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do again, proving your idea.
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You need to let the person listening to, you know, that you
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actually can support your thoughts.
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This is something that many English learners are not
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taught in their own countries.
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In other courses, in other books or other Institute.
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But it's something that native English speakers.
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We are taught this in school.
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When I was in high school.
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When I was in elementary school, when I was in college,
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I was taught how to do this.
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So this actually helps you support your idea.
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And in essence becomes the foundation.
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When you are able to support your idea, it literally shows that
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you are a fluent English speaker.
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You're able to really organize your thoughts and ideas and
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communicate well in English.
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This also helps you to give clarity.
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It gives clarity to your idea.
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It makes it clear and easy to understand.
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I want you to think about this.
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Have you ever been listening to someone?
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And they start talking, right.
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They're talking to you and you're following along.
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But then all of a sudden, instead of hearing words, all you hear is my
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mom, my mom, my mom, my mom, my mom.
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You don't know what they're talking about.
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You know exactly what I'm saying, right?
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That happens when a person has not really provided a clear idea and is
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not supporting or proving their idea.
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Instead, they're talking about random.
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Now you as an English learner, in order for you to communicate clearly and
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speak like a native English speaker, you must prove your idea because
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this will provide clarity for your idea and help the person understand.
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It also helps to round out your idea.
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It basically comes full circle.
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The person listening to you.
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Here's your idea then after you prove it, there's this response.
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Ah, that makes sense.
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Similar to what's happening to you now, as you're watching this English
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lesson, I'm breaking this down.
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Again, four tips to help you communicate in English and I'm proving it by
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giving you different examples by helping you understand the power of
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following these tips and tip number two, proving your idea makes sense.
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Right?
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Okay.
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Let's move on to tip number three.
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This is very important.
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Connect your idea to an emotion.
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This is another one that I.
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So native English speakers, we have been taught our entire lives throughout
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school, and even in adulthood, how to connect our lives to any topic, how
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to connect our emotions to any topic.
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This is a part of speaking clearly in English, communicating in English and
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speaking English like a native, for example, before I get to this point,
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what do I do at the end of each English?
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You know, story time ache, right?
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And you look forward to the stories I tell you, right at the end of the lessons,
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I'm connecting to you with an emotion.
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The story is either a happy story or a sad story, or an inspirational story.
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I'm connecting the lesson to an emotion for you in order to
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communicate in English, you need to connect your idea to an emotion.
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This is important.
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Point one, this is important because your idea will stay in the
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listener's mind if they care about it.
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For example, I know that you get frustrated when you're not able to express
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yourself like a native English speaker.
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I know you get sad or upset when you're trying to speak in English
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and the words just won't come out.
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I understand.
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So when I'm teaching you in English, when I'm teaching you English in English, I
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am aware of what you are going through because I went through the same thing when
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I was studying Korean, just right there.
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When I told you just now that I experienced the same thing
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you are experiencing right now, suddenly there was this connection.
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Ah, Tiffani understands me.
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I can follow her lessons because she knows what I'm going through.
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I connected my lesson, my idea to an emotion.
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When you do this, you will become a better communicator in English and start
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sounding like a native English speaker.
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The next thing is when someone cares about something, when the person
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listening to you cares about what you're saying, they pay attention to it more.
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Why do you watch my English lessons?
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Because there's a connection I've never met you in person, but
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there's this connection we have.
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And that connection leads you to come back and watch these lessons because I truly
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care about you and you recognize that, Hey teacher, Tiffani really cares about me
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and wants to help me improve my English.
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There's a connection.
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This is all part of speaking English, like a native communicating clearly
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and well, and effectively in English.
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The other thing is by connecting your idea.
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To the listeners emotions.
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You inadvertently answer the why question in their mind.
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It should say the not, they, the why question in their mind, think about this.
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When you're speaking to someone, you're explaining something to them, right.
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You're helping them understand your idea and your emotions.
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Well, when you're doing that, the person as they're listening to you, the moment
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you connect to their emotions, the moment you realize, Hey, this is what
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they're feeling and you connect to them.
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They want to listen more and you're answering the question in their head.
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Why should I listen to this individual?
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Why should I spend my time with this individual listening to them?
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When you answer that by connecting to their emotions, everything goes much.
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So again, three tip number three, connect your idea to an emotion.
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Now tip number four is just as important.
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Tip number four, share your examples for your idea.
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Again, share your examples for your idea.
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Earlier, we talked about proving your idea.
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Now you're gonna give examples.
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You're basically painting this picture in the mind of the person, listening to you.
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They get to see your idea in their mind, in their imagination, right?
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So this is important because your story or experience makes your idea more.
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When I talk to you about my experience in Korea, studying
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Korean and learning Korean, all of a sudden my lessons become more
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real.
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Ah, Tiffani is not just
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making this up.
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She's experienced it before she's helping me.
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And she's explaining or talking about her personal experience for you.
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Tip number four, when you share examples for your idea, you're sharing
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your personal experience, which also helps the person connect to.
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Another thing when someone hears your story, they may also
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think about your idea more.
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You're giving them more things to connect to you, give them a story in their mind.
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You give them your ideas, you prove your ideas.
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And now you're giving examples and all of these things are working in their brain.
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As you're talking and they're paying attention to you more, you're
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communicating better in English, share your experiences, share your
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examples, that connect to your.
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And point number three, by connecting your story, to your idea, your
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personal experience, like story time, you actually help the listener,
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understand it even more than before.
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When you tell stories that are connected to the topic, when you tell
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stories that help your idea, be a bit more clear, the person listening to
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you will literally understand even.
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Here's the thing you want to speak English like a native English speaker.
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You want to communicate clearly in English.
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It's not just about the words you learn or the expressions you learn.
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It's really about how you communicate, how you express your
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ideas and how you think in English.
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Now I just gave you four tips today, but if you want to continue studying with
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me and you really want to learn how to communicate like a native English speaker.
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All you have to do is go to English fluency plan.com again,
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www.englishfluencyplan.com.
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The link is in the description and I would love to be your English teacher forever.
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Helping you speak English like a native English speaker.
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I hope you enjoy the lesson and I'll talk to you in the next one.
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You still there you know what time it is?
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Here we go.
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It's story time.
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Hey, I said it's story time.
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All right.
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So today's story.
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I'm going to connect to you, right?
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I'm going to give you an example.
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I'm going to actually connect an emotion.
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So I mentioned earlier that as an English learner, Sometimes you get frustrated.
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Sometimes you really get upset because you're not able
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to express yourself clearly.
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Right.
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And sometimes you also feel nervous.
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I want to tell you about a time.
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I felt nervous speaking in English.
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So I actually, this is when I was.
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In college.
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I was asked to give a sermon at my church.
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Now I don't have any problems speaking up front.
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I don't have stage fright.
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I've never had stage fright and this is something that's a blessing from God.
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Right.
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I understand that many people have stage fright and are scared to stand up in
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public in front of others and speak.
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Um, but I don't have that fear.
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So I said, okay, I'll definitely speak.
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I'll I'll give the sermon at church.
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So I did my research.
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I studied, I went through the Bible.
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I found a topic.
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I had my notes and everything was organized and I was praying.
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I wanted to make sure the holy spirit moved as I gave the sermon.
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So I prepared for a while and I had everything written out, EV all of my
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bullet points, everything was organized.
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Right.
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And the morning that I was supposed to give the sermon, I woke up early.
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I rehearsed, I practiced, looked in the mirror, made sure everything was.
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. And as I was practicing, all of a sudden, my stomach began to turn
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like knots were in my stomach.
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It felt like my intestines were just turning.
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And my stomach made me ke over.
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I bent over and said, oh my goodness, something's wrong?
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And I told my mindset, something's going on?
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Like, my stomach is killing me.
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I ran to the bathroom.
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I, I came back to my room.
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My stomach kept bothering me and I didn't know what was going on.
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I realized that I was nervous.
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I was nervous because the message that I was going to
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preach was a very deep message.
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It was a message that would not be easy to deliver.
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It was deep, but it was not an easy message to deliver.
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And without realizing it, I had started to get nervous.
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So I prayed.
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I said, God, I need you to help me because I'm extremely nervous right now.
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And when you're nervous, you're not able to think.
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You've been there before, right.
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As an English learner.
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When you're nervous words, don't just come out.
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Right.
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They don't come out the way you'd like them to come out.
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You're not able to communicate clearly.
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So I prayed and I, I got to church, I went to the pastor's office, you know,
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we, we went through the preliminaries of praying and getting everyone together.
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And then we walked into the church and I was still praying,
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Lord, I need you to help me.
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This nervousness came out of nowhere, but Lord, I need you to help me.
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The service was going on.
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We had music, we had announcements, we had prayer, everything was going on and I was
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still praying throughout the entire time.
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And then it was my turn to go to the pulpit, to the
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front, to deliver the sermon.
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And as soon as I stood up at the pulpit, I could feel God's
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presence and I immediately was calm and I preached the sermon.
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And the sermon went well, praise God, everyone was blessed.
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People came up to me afterwards and said, man, that sermon was amazing.
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It was from God, not from TIFF.
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But the point is when I was nervous, I wasn't able to think clearly,
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but the moment I calmed down, everything started to go smoothly.
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So for you as an English learner, you're going to have moments when you feel
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frustrated, when you feel nervous and when you are not able to say what you like to.
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In those moments, stop, calm down and then start again.
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It's amazing how, when you are calm, you are able to speak and
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communicate in English so much better.
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Hope you enjoyed this story, and I will talk to you in the next lesson.
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