SPEAK ENGLISH FLUENTLY | Answer Any English Question In 3 Ways

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Hey in today's English lesson, I'm going to teach you how to answer any
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English question in three easy ways.
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Using the simple rule of threes.
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Well, then I am teacher Tiffani.
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Let's jump right in.
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So let me explain first what the rule of threes actually is.
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You see, it basically says provide enough support for your thoughts, ideas,
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and opinions by giving three details.
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Three examples or three reasons.
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This is the simple rule of threes that my English teachers actually taught me.
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So let me explain the first part part number one, three details.
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Now the first part of this rule focuses on the important details of the topic,
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subject or person you are discussing.
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In other words, you want to help your list.
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Visualize what you are talking about now, remember, I'm showing you three
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different ways to answer any question.
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So let's take a look at the question and the first way
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you can answer this question.
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So it's actually about American culture.
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Here's the question greeting.
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How do people in your country normally greet each other?
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Simple response.
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We normally wave our hands back and forth, but using the first part of the
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rule of threes, I can give three details.
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Waving that's a detail.
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Second big smiles.
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And third, ask a question.
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Now, what I'm doing right now is using the first part of the simple
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rule of threes, giving three details.
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So the question, now, let me show you how this will turn
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into a natural English response.
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Here we go.
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Here's the response now, including each of my three details, many people know
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that Americans normally greet each other by waving their hands back and forth.
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But to be honest, our greetings involve much more than just waving our hands.
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We usually weigh bat each other.
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Give a big smile and then ask each other a question.
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You see, I gave the three details.
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The questions can vary, but usually they are related to how the other person
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has been doing since we last saw them.
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This is a fluent English response to the question about, Hey, how do people
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usually greet each other in your country?
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Now you'll notice there are two things bolded.
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The first thing is to be honest.
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So let me explain this to you very quickly, what it means, to be honest
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as you're seeing in the response.
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So to be honest, this just means it's.
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Before, or after a statement to indicate that you are telling the truth about
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your own opinions or feelings, especially if you think these will disappoint this
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person or the person you are speaking to.
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So right here, I said, but to be honest, Our greetings involve
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much more than just waving hands.
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So I said to be honest, because many people not living in America
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assume that this is all we do just waving our hands, but I continued
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supporting my answer by giving three details, the waving, the smiling,
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and then the asking of a question.
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So again, to be honest, this is used when you're indicating that,
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Hey, I am telling the truth about my feelings or my thoughts on this topic.
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We say to be honest, now the other one is right here.
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Very, very V a R Y.
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Now this means to change in form appearance, nature, substance, et
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cetera, or to alter or modify, or to make different from one another.
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Now in my response, I said, the questions can vary.
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Meaning there can be different questions.
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How was your day?
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How have you been, Hey, I haven't seen you in a long time.
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What have you been doing for the last 10 years?
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So again, the questions can be different.
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So for part one, the question again, Hey, TIFF.
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In your country, how do people normally greet each.
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I gave three details.
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We wave, we give big smiles and then we ask a question.
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Now that's the first way to answer the question, but what if we have the
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same question and we want to use part two of this simple rule of threes.
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Let's look at the exact same question and how to answer it in a different way.
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And remember part two involves giving three examples.
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So the second part of this rule focuses on examples of the topic,
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subject or person you are discussing.
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In other words, you want to help your listener understand more by giving
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them real life examples situations.
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Remember in part one, we just gave three details.
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We didn't give any examples or examples situations.
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We were using part one.
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Now, part two.
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How can we answer the same question with three examples?
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So remember the question the.
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Greeting.
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How do people in your country normally greet each other response?
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We normally wave our hands back and forth.
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Now, remember, this is the same response from the first part, right?
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But now the supports are going to be different instead of supporting details.
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We're going to give supporting examples.
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So watch this example, number one.
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Students greet their teacher during a virtual lecture example, number
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two, friends, greet each other during a video call and example.
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Friends greet another friend's parents.
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So now we have three examples to support our response.
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Remember, remember the simple rule of threes.
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It's all about supporting your response in three different ways.
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So three examples.
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Now, what will our response look like to the exact same question here?
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Here's our response in my country.
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People normally wave their hands back and forth when they greet each other.
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For example, students sometimes greet their teachers by waving
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their hands during a virtual.
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My students do that as well.
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After our class, you can also see friends waving to each other during video calls,
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as they shoot the breeze at the mall.
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Finally, it is common to see friends waving their hands.
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As they greet their other friends, parents, you see
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what happened, same response.
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People normally wave to each other.
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In my country, but now my support for the same response is in the form
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of examples, you can do the exact same thing to speak English fluently,
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like a native English speaker.
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Now I want to explain one thing to you.
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Shoot the breeze.
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Now shoot.
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The breeze just means to relax and, or talk to someone about things that
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are not very serious or important.
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My friends and I, we were on the phone.
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Hey girl, what you do?
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Nothing.
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I'm just sitting here looking at TV.
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What you doing?
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We're just shooting the breeze, relaxing and talking on the phone.
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Maybe you do the same thing with your.
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So in English we say, shoot the breeze.
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So we understand now following part two, we have examples that are
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supporting our response, the exact same response from part one, but
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now we're using different supports.
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So what about part three of the simple rule of threes?
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Again, the exact same question.
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But now we're going to use part three.
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Now, part three, as a reminder, three reasons.
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The third part of this rule focuses on giving specific reasons for
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your ideas on the topic, subject or person you are discussing.
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In other words, you want to help your listener understand your thought
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process and how you developed your idea.
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All of these things.
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There are part of speaking English fluently, like a native
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English speaker, things that I learned when I was in high school.
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And now you're learning that you can sound like a native English speaker.
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So again, the exact same topic, the question once again,
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greeting, how do people in your country normally greet each.
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Response.
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We normally wave our hands back and forth, but now we're going to support
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that same response with three reasons.
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Check out my reasons.
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Here we go.
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My reason, reason, number one, it grabs the attention of the other person.
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Reason.
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Number two, big waves imply that you are genuinely happy to see the.
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And reason three it's more welcoming and inviting.
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So now as you're listening to my response, you're probably
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like, wow, that does make sense.
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So let me give you my response, including my three reasons.
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Here's what the response would be in my country.
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It is very common to see people waving their hands back
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and forth when they greet.
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One of the main reasons people wave is because it grabs the
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attention of the other person.
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Another reason is that when you spread your fingers out and wave, it shows
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that you are genuinely happy to see the other person finally waving is common
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because it's more welcoming and inviting.
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The other person feels like you are encouraging them to
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have a conversation with you.
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Think about this.
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Look at me right now.
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I'm going to say hi.
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Hey, how are you now?
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Tell me think about this now.
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Hey, how are you suddenly the feeling is different, right?
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It seems a bit more welcoming and invite.
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Just proved my reason, one of my reasons to support my answers.
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So again, I have my three reasons to support my response
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right here in this response.
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Now I do want to go over two of the expressions and words from
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this response, actually three, the first one is grabs the attention.
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Now this just means to cause one to be.
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Interested in something.
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Think about it a few moments ago.
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I said, hello.
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And then I waved my hand and I said, hello, I got your attention.
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Right?
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Again, grabs the attention causing you to be more interested, right?
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The next one is genuinely, genuinely.
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Now this just means really and sincerely, and to explain this one,
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I said, this wave is very different.
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From this wave.
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When I spread my fingers, it seems more inviting like, Hey,
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this is more genuine right now.
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If someone ways that you like this, it's not bad, but this is a lot more genuine.
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All right.
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Again, sincere.
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Now the last one is welcoming, friendly, or making you feel welcome again.
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Hey, come on.
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How are you?
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I want to talk to you a bit more again, I gave you three
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reasons to support my response.
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So once again, I want you to use this simple rule of threes.
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Part one.
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Just simply giving three details, part to simply giving three examples and
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part three, simply giving three reasons.
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You can answer any question in English using the simple rule of threes.
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Hope you enjoyed the lesson.
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Remember to keep speaking English.
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You still there?
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Ah, you know what time it is?
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Come on, sing it with me.
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It's story time.
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I said it's story time.
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All right.
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For today's story.
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I want to tell you something that happened to me when I was in the sixth
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grade, my niece, one of my nieces is actually in the sixth grade right now.
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And I was telling her this story a few weeks ago.
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So when I was in the sixth grade, my school classes started.
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I think 8:00 AM, but we were allowed to get to the school between seven, 15 and
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seven 30 in the morning, because many of our parents had to get to work early.
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So the school allowed parents to drop kids off early and there would be a
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teacher there to kind of supervise.
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So I was one of the students that would arrive at school early because
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my dad had to go to work very early.
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At that time, he worked at IBM with.
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So anyways, I would get to school early and a few other friends and we'd
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just talk and, you know, have fun.
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But one day we got a new game.
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It was tabletop pool.
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It was a pool table that you could sit on top of desks, but instead of
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balls, they were these little circles with holes in them and they were flat.
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So we would have the cue stick and we would hit them the
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same way you would hit a pool.
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So my friends and I, we started playing in the morning, but as time
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went on, our other friends started hearing how much fun we were having
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in the morning before school started.
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So it started off with three of us being the early bird students.
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Then another student came and there were four of us.
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And there were five of us then were seven.
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Then there were 10.
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Then there were 11.
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Everyone wanted to get to score early so that they could play tabletop
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pool with their class members.
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By the end of that school year, almost our entire class, about
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20, 20, 2 of us at that time.
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Would come together every morning and play tabletop pool.
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Now I want you to think about this.
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We were in sixth grade, we were only about 11 or 12 years old
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and we would bag our parents.
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Please take me to school early.
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Take me to school.
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Mommy and daddy.
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I want to get there early now.
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Now in 2022, when I'm recording.
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How many of you have children that are begging you to take them to school early
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times have definitely changed, but that will always be one of my most precious
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memories having fun in the morning before school started playing with my friends
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and it was very healthy competition.
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We'd play two at a time and then we'd take turns and we had so much.
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So I hope later in life when I have kids, my kids also make memories
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like that with their friends.
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I hope you enjoy this story guys.
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And I'll talk to you next time.
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