Moving & Relocation Vocabulary [English Phrasal Verbs, Idioms, and Collocations]

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If you've ever moved to a new home or moved to a new office due to a job change
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or relocated to an entirely new country,
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you know how exciting it all can be, but it's also rather disruptive.
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Then doing all of that in another language is really tough.
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Recently inside my Confident Women Community.
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I've been sharing about my own cross-country moving experience.
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And today I want to share some key vocabulary with you, English,
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phrasal verbs, collocations, idioms,
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and more all related to moving or relocating.
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My goal is to help you have all the vocabulary you need to communicate
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about your experiences or your upcoming plans with
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friends, family, coworkers, and more.
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Now, before we start, if you don't already know,
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I'm Annemarie with Speak Confident English,
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everything I do here is designed to help you get the confidence you want for
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One way I do that is with my Confident English lessons,
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which I share every Wednesday at my Speak Confident English website and
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So you never miss one of my Confident English lessons to navigate
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this topic on conversations related to moving and relocating
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I've focused in on four strategies that help make the moving
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process easier.
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So if you have an upcoming move in your life,
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you can follow these strategies to make it less stressful. And along the way,
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we're going to learn more than 15 essential English,
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collocations, phrasal verbs, idioms, and more.
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So you have successful conversations.
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So strategy number one for the moving and relocation process,
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make room for all the emotions.
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Let's say that you or a loved one just accepted a new job.
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And that means that you'll be moving to a new city or maybe even to a new
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country. The moment that happens,
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do you know what's coming an emotional roller coaster
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describing a relocation as an emotional roller coaster means
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that you are going to have a variety of emotions.
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Everything from excitement, exhilaration to nervousness,
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anxiety, disappointment, frustration, worry,
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and so much more all in a very short period of time
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going from feeling exhilarated to desperate and
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back again is quite an emotional experience.
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One of the best things you can do early on in the relocation process
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is prepare yourself for the emotional fallout of moving
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emotional fallout, refers to the anxiety, stress,
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or even trauma you might experience after a major event or crisis.
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Sometimes we experience an emotional fallout. Even when there isn't a crisis,
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it can occur when we're struggling to come to terms with a rational decision,
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like accepting a new job and preparing to move.
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When an emotional fallout occurs,
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it's important to give yourself time and space to process.
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In other words, tune into your needs. At that time in the sentence,
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I just used giving yourself time to process in this
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context to process means to give yourself time,
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to evaluate information,
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to accept it or absorb it. And while you're doing that,
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while you're processing all those emotions,
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you might ask yourself a few key questions.
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Do you need to keep busy to keep your mind off of things?
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Or do you just need to slow down and take a breath?
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Do you need to talk about it with someone and get all of those emotions off your
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chest? Or do you just need some time alone?
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Maybe you need to do some research to help you organize and plan
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during the process of processing your emotions.
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These are helpful questions to consider the second strategy when moving
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or relocating is stay organized. Most importantly,
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avoid flooding.
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Flooding is a feeling of emotional or mental overwhelm.
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The best way to avoid flooding is prioritizing downtime
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to avoid burnout. Additionally,
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prioritize the most important items on your moving checklist
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and take into account.
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The time you'll need to pack and prepare to take
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something into account means to consider something or to consider it
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fully while judging or evaluating the situation.
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The last part of staying organized is to help others prepare for the
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impact of your move.
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This includes communicating important dates and telling
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others what you need from them to help.
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When you're communicating on these key points with friends, family,
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and coworkers, here are several essential,
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phrasal verbs to know number one, to move out,
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to move out means to, to leave one's home, to live somewhere else.
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For example, we need to move out of our apartment by Friday.
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So I need to spend all my free time packing phrasal verb,
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two to move away.
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This means to leave one place for a new place.
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For example, my husband and I aren't moving out of state,
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but we are moving away from the city. Number three,
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to move into this means to move your possessions into a new
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location, to make it your home. For example,
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I'll be moving into my new apartment on Wednesday.
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So I'll be offline and unavailable for two days. Next week.
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The fourth key phrasal verb to know is to pack up.
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This means to put things into boxes or bags in order to take
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them with you somewhere. For example,
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there's quite a bit to pack up here in my office.
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So I'll need to spend all afternoon doing that.
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Number five is to load up.
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And this means to fill something with several items until it's full.
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For example, after you've packed up your office,
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you might load up all of the boxes into your car.
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Another example,
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the movers won't be able to deliver our items for another two weeks.
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Would you mind helping me load up our car with all our essentials?
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And the last key phrase LA verb to know for right now is to settle on
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this means to decide on something or to make a decision. For example,
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let's settle on the 18th as the last day for any meetings this month.
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Let me pause here for just a moment before we go onto strategy. Number three,
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for how to handle moving and relocating. Well,
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we've just learned six essential, phrasal verbs,
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and you might be wondering how do I remember all of these?
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These are really useful, phrasal verbs. I have two recommendations for you.
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Number one,
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review my lesson on how to effectively learn and remember
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vocabulary. I'll share a link to that lesson in my notes below.
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And number two,
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practice these FRA LA verbs in speaking,
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if you're not sure how to do that,
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I want you to go to my website and download my free,
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How to Say What You Want in English training. In that training,
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I share my number one strategy for getting speaking practice.
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Even if you're self learning or learning alone,
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this is the same strategy I use with my students to make
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effective progress in their English, confidence and fluency.
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Again, you can get that training at my website.
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It's a perfect way to get speaking practice and incorporate some of
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this key vocabulary. And now strategy number three,
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when moving and relocating ask for help.
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I know it isn't always easy,
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but sometimes you need an extra set of hands to get things done.
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So don't be afraid to ask friends and family to help with packing up and
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organizing the same can be said for emotional and mental
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support. When you move to a new place,
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you might experience some culture shock or in some cases,
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reverse culture,
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shock culture shock refers to those feelings of confusion and
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uncertainty that we experience when we move to a new place or a new country.
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For example, if moving from one country to another,
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you might experience culture shock.
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When eating out at restaurants in north America, for example,
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it's customary to give a tip of 15 to 20% or even
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more to the servers. However,
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in another country's giving a tip may be considered rude.
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If you're from a culture where you always tip at a restaurant and
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then you move to a new country where you have a negative interaction,
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because you thought you were doing something correctly,
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you may experience some culture shock, reverse culture shock. On the other hand,
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are those feelings of uncertainty and anxiety.
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When moving back to your home country,
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there's often some readjustment that needs to take place and it isn't
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always easy.
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So if you've just returned home or maybe you're even visiting your home country
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for a few days, weeks, or months, while you're there, you might tell someone,
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I think I'm having a bit of reverse culture shock. I'm not used to all of this.
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I've been away for so long.
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I'm curious whether you've ever moved to another city or country and
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at some point in time experienced culture shock or reverse culture
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shock. If so, tell me about it.
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You can share with me in the comments below,
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I'd love to know more about your experience and how you dealt with that culture
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shock or reverse culture shock. Now,
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when you experience these feelings of anxiety or uncertainty,
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it's important to tap into your support network,
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to tap into something means to access a resource or an object
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that can be an advantage to you.
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And this brings me to strategy number four for successful relocation
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and moving put down roots,
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moving to a new place can be daunting and to help
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overcome those initial feelings of uncertainty and anxiety.
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It's important to put down your roots to put down roots means to
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settle into your new life and feel that you belong. Now,
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if you're an introvert like me, this can be a real challenge.
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It's hard to resist.
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The urge to hunker down to hunker down means to stay in
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one place like inside your home for a long period of time,
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in order to protect yourself. However, to start feeling comfortable,
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to begin putting down your roots, it's important to explore your new location.
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This might include going to local events, starting new traditions,
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building new routines,
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meeting new people and so much more in the area where you live.
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One thing I always do is take excessively long
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walks wherever I move to.
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I like to allow myself to get lost so I can just explore
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what's around me and figure out where everything is.
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Another way that I love to do that is to get on a bus at one place
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and go until it stops at the very end,
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just to see where it goes through the city and how the streets connect
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and to find out what's there.
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It's a great way for me as an introvert,
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to find my footing and begin exploring where I live.
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If you do something like this,
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then you're likely to find new places that you want to go back and visit.
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And there may even be opportunities to meet new people. For example,
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you might discover an art gallery that you'd really like to visit or a new park
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that you'd like to take your kids to. While you do all of this,
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it's important to remember that you're going through a transition and
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patience is key. There are going to be highs and lows,
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good and bad days along the way. All of that's okay.
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It's a natural part of a transition to help smooth that transition.
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You can focus on positive, familiar attachments,
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finding the places that you want to go back to again and again,
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and begin to settle into a new routine.
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To settle into something means to begin feeling comfortable in that
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new place, that new city, new home, or new job.
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Some things that you can do to help you settle in is to do
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activities you did in your previous home, in your new place,
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or while you unpack, fill your new space with familiar items.
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For example,
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perhaps there are a few items that you really loved having in your original
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office. Well, when you make the transition to a new one,
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put those same items in your new office,
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that'll help give that feeling of familiarity.
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As you begin to settle into that new place with that,
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you have four essential strategies to help you have a successful
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moving process or relocation process.
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Now that we've gone through all of that, I want you to practice the English,
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phrasal verbs, idioms,
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and collocations that you learned today to do that.
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I have two questions for you. First.
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I want you to choose three or four new vocabulary words from
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today's lesson and use them to describe your own experience.
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Moving again. It can be moving from one office to another.
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It can be moving from one country to another,
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but I want you to describe what happened.
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Describe your experience using three to four new vocabulary words.
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The second question I have for you is if you've moved before,
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what tips do you have for first time movers?
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What would you recommend?
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What would help make the process easier for someone else?
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You can share your answers with me in the comment section below.
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And if you found today's lesson helpful to you, I would love to know.
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