Better Ways to Say 'I Don't Know' [English for Work]

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Hey, it's Annemarie with Speak Confident English. And let me ask you a question.
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Do you panic or get super stressed when you know someone's going to ask you a
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question and the only answer you can find is,
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I don't know? In English,
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maybe it's because the question is unexpected.
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Maybe it's because you're just feeling stuck.
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You can't find the word or the expression that you need in English.
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So the only thing you can think of is, I don't know.
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So today I want to share with you 14 better ways to say,
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I don't know,
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so that we can alleviate or remove that stress and worry.
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These answers will help you sound more professional and confident in your
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English.
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And they're perfect for those situations when you should know the answer,
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but you don't. Or when it's not your area of expertise,
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but someone still wants to know what you think about it and you'll have answers
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you can use for those questions when you need a little bit more information to
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give them the right answer.
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And then at the end I'm going to share with you some casual slang ways that we
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say,
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I don't know in English for those moments when it is okay to say it.
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All right. Let's start with situation number one,
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which is the hardest on this list because you should know the answer but you
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don't. Instead of saying, I don't know,
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here are three great options.
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I'm not sure right now but I'll find out and get back to you soon or simply I'll
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find out.
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I'll look into it and I'll let you know what I find or the third option.
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That's a really good question and I want to give you the most accurate answer I
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can so let me get back to you by the end of the day.
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These are much better options than simply saying,
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I don't know because the other person asking the question feel certain that
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you're going to get them the right answer or the right information.
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Situation number two is when someone asks you a question that is not in your
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area of expertise but they want to know what you think. For example,
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my area of expertise is English confidence and fluency.
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I focus on spoken communication skills.
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So if someone asks me about climate change,
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it's not my area of expertise. I might have my opinions on it.
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I have some thoughts, but if it's a technical question,
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I might not know how to answer it. And again,
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instead of saying, I don't know, there are some better things that we can say.
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For example, I'm not sure I'm the best person for you to ask,
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but here are my thoughts and you would continue to share your opinion or ideas
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or here's what I know and here's what I don't know on this topic.
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And then again,
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you would continue to talk about the things that you do know or think and then
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be honest or clear about the things that you're not so sure about. And finally,
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a third option that you can use in this situation is based on my understanding
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or based on what I understand, here's what I think.
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So going back to that example,
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if someone asks me something really technical about aviation,
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climate change or economics,
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I might know a little bit about those things, but I'm certainly not an expert,
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so I might start my answer with based on what I know or based on my
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understanding, here's what I think.
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Situation number three is when someone asks you a question and you realize that
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you don't know the answer exactly,
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and this is also a really good opportunity for you to learn together with
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someone. An example might be if you're training someone new at work,
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someone recently joined your team,
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they ask you a question and you kind of know the answer,
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but you also know this is an opportunity to train this person so that they know
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what to do going forward and they don't have to ask this question again.
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So in those situations,
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here are two great things you can say instead of simply saying,
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I don't know, number one, that's a great question. Let's look into it together.
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And number two, let's see if we can figure that out together.
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Or let's see if we can find that information.
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Let's see if we can figure out this process. And finally,
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situation number four,
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those moments when someone asks you a question but you're really not sure what
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they're asking,
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you need more information or more specific details instead of simply panicking,
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getting stuck and saying, I don't know, you could say,
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before I answer that question,
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could you provide a few more details or before I answer that,
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could you clarify what you mean? When you do that?
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It forces the other person to continue speaking and to get more specific and
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clear about what they're asking you.
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And it gives you time to think about what to say.
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Now that you've got some better alternatives to I don't know,
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let's look at some common slang or casual expressions you might hear when it is
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okay to say I don't know. For example,
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maybe you've got a friend who always loses her keys.
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Every time you see her, she says, um,
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have you seen my keys? Do you know where I put them?
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And of course you don't know. So instead of saying, I don't know,
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you could also say, I don't have the foggiest idea.
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I don't have the foggiest idea.
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Fog is the clouds that you see when they're close to the ground. For example,
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sometimes in the morning or evening when the weather's changing,
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you'll see clouds really close to the ground and it makes it difficult to see.
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Nothing is clear,
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so when someone talks about having a foggy idea or they don't have the foggiest
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idea, it means that there's no clarity.
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There isn't a clear picture in their mind.
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Now let's get back to more examples of some great expressions to say,
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I don't know. You could also say, I don't have a clue.
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Don't ask me. Who knows?
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And your guess is as good as mine.
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So the next time one of your friends asks you a question and you definitely have
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no idea what the answer is, which one of those would you use?
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Now before we finish,
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I definitely want you to practice and try to get some of this language into your
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active vocabulary.
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The best way to do that is to immediately practice what you've learned so that
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it sticks in your mind and you can use it easily in those situations where you
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really need it. So here are a couple of questions for you. Number one,
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I want you to tell me,
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what would you say if one of your colleagues asks you a question in a meeting
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tomorrow and you should have the answer but you don't,
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how would you respond? And number two, I've got a question for you.
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It might not be your area of expertise, but I want to know your thoughts.
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What do you think is the best way to become confident in speaking English?
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Give me your thoughts and you can share with me in the comments below. Now,
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if you found this lesson useful to you,
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And if you want a similar video,
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I've also got a lesson on better ways to say yes, no,
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maybe, and I can't. I'll leave a link to that for you in the notes below.
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With that, thank you so much for joining me.
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Have a fantastic week and I'll see you next time for your Confident English
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lesson.
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