How to Learn English | Simple Method for Fluency (in just 30 minutes!)

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Future perfect continuous  has two different forms...  
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We'll have been doing and be going to have  been doing, unlike simple future forms  
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future perfect continuous forms  are usually interchangeable.
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Aww yeah! So does learning English ever  feel a little bit like that to you?  
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Well if you watch this video until the end we're  going to give you our methodology that we've  
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used with all of our students for dramatic  changes and how they perceive the language  
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and results and fluency now this methodology has  10 parts which you don't necessarily have to do in  
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order and it's broken down into three cyclical  steps so we're going to jump right into that  
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but before we do I want to let you know that if  you are new here every single week we help you to  
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understand fast speaking natives to be understood  by anyone and to connect to the world just like  
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our fan Jushaf who says that our lessons are  helping him in his goal to reach the 8-band score  
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all right so starting out with the first step in  the cycle we have mindset now we have three parts  
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to this the first one being your purpose now this  is where we start with all of our students because  
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something we've noticed about all successful  English learners is that they have a clear burning  
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desire to learn the language and being able to  cultivate this is going to make you so much more  
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successful because it's going to help you to get  past those really challenging moments when you  
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want to give up so what we do with our students is  we have them start with why now I actually talked  
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all about this in a recent video where we looked  at some of the kind of bigger impacts that one can  
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make with their English and you can definitely  check that out down in the description below  
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but basically this is about not starting  with what which what is basically the thing  
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that you want to get your goal right so for you  it's probably English fluency it's being able  
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to communicate with others confidently and  without a lot of mistakes right but in order  
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to get there first you have to have that drive  behind it you have to have that strong purpose  
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that strong why so I recommend that you actually  write this down so you can get some clarity around  
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it and you can actually look at it every day now I  have an exercise that I used to do with all of my  
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students I talked about that in that video that  I just mentioned so definitely check that out  
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so the second part is having a clear plan so  we kind of move from that y down to the how  
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so how are you going to get to your goal  of English fluency now a really important  
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part of this can actually come from a book that I  absolutely love called the seven habits of highly  
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effective people which I actually talked about  in a recent lesson that I did on some of the best  
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books for your English learning and if you are  a book lover like I am then you might find that  
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interesting to add some books to your list  and i'll definitely link that as well down in  
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the description below but this concept of start  with the end in mind now this is actually about  
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thinking or even visualizing where you're going to  be when you reach that goal so you could actually  
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even close your eyes and think about you know when  I am a fluent confident English communicator what  
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would life be like where will you be what will  you be doing how will you be using your English  
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differently than you are now something that  can help a lot with this is actually meditation  
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because it gives you the focus that you need  to concentrate on the moment it will allow you  
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to get that visualization of where you want to be  much stronger and another exercise that I love for  
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this is kind of a fill in the blank activity so  it goes like this when blank happens I usually do  
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blank but now instead I will blank so that sounds  kind of confusing let me give you an example so  
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say that usually when you sit down to study your  English you get distracted by your phone and you  
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usually start to look at instagram for instance  so we want to rewrite that behavior right so we  
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would say instead that when I sit down to study  English usually I get distracted by my phone and  
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look at instagram for 30 minutes but now instead I  will set a 10-minute timer look at my instagram as  
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much as I want during that time and then i'm going  to put my phone away another room where it can't  
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distract me so that I can study well let's look at  another example say that you want to go and speak  
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English and you have opportunities to practice but  that you get really shy so maybe something that  
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you could try is that when I feel myself getting  really shy I usually just decide that i'm not  
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going to talk to anyone and I go home or something  like that but now instead what i'm going to do  
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is go up to the person and just say hello so  maybe that oversimplifies it but really if you  
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do this exercise you're going to find that when  you actually interact with those challenges when  
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you actually reach those roadblocks that you're  going to feel much more prepared for it because  
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you already have made a plan for how to deal with  them so I highly recommend that you actually try  
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taking some moments to pause the video  and writing some things down like that  
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so when you do this when you start with the end of  mind and then you kind of work your way backwards  
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imagining the challenges you're kind of giving  a summary of the entire process you're kind of  
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able to look at it almost as if it were a  tangible object now what has to happen then  
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is you actually have to do the work in the day to  day right to actually reach that end goal now the  
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best way to do this really is through small steps  every single day now we'll talk more about habits  
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in a little bit but actually I would just share  with you that recently I just got a new puppy  
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and so i'm in the process of training her now  something that has worked really well for me  
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is instead of trying to sit down for an hour every  day and train her is instead just finding three  
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to five minute blocks throughout the day where we  can just do very quick different little trainings  
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and this is obviously much easier for her she  has a very short attention span it's much easier  
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for me because it's more convenient and you can  totally do this with your English i'm sure that  
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you are busy and stuff you have trouble actually  carving out an hour or two hours of time to study  
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and really it's not that motivating to do  that so what kind of little things can you  
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do throughout your day that will help you to make  it much more easy and convenient and fun for you  
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I actually did a video recently also talking about  things that you can do every day to improve your  
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English which i'll link down below that might give  you some more ideas all right finally there is a  
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science called implementation intentions now  what is that that sounds really complex right  
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but it's actually quite simple now most people  when they want to learn anything or they want to  
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do anything important they feel some resistance  to it and usually they'll say you know I don't  
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feel like doing it right now i'll do it later i'll  do it tomorrow i'll do it someday but what happens  
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then is that you end up never really doing it  but what you need to do instead basically is  
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just start doing it start doing it with something  really small really easy just to kind of get it  
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going now basically what happens here is that  if you're waiting for the motivation to come  
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it never really comes but when you start doing it  with something really small something really easy  
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kind of the simplest way that you can just get  it rolling what happens is that the motivation  
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then comes and you end up probably doing a lot  more than you intended now if you think about  
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anything any work that you've done in the past any  project that you've worked on this probably has  
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been something that you've kind of naturally done  you've resisted it at first but as soon as you  
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got started that motivation just kind of naturally  came and it got easier now to build this intention  
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it can also be really useful to write down when  and where you're going to be doing this thing now  
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different studies have shown this can actually  make you two times more effective in accomplishing  
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your goal so again it kind of comes back  to these little exercises that you can do  
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to kind of reflect to visualize to think about  that and plan and work your way backwards  
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now we're gonna talk more about this in  step two but really you can think about  
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this whole entire video as kind of a plan for your  English fluency to how to get to that end goal  
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so that said let's move on to the third part  which is about cultivating grit now what is grit  
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so an author named angela duckworth she actually  wrote a book all about grit and this is because  
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she identified it in studying different successful  people from athletes to musicians to people in the  
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army to really any walk of life that this was the  number one characteristic that kind of unified all  
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these people and being able to be so successful  so grit helps you to cultivate your joy and your  
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curiosity for learning English so what is it  exactly grit is perseverance plus passion now  
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passion that kind of comes back to your purpose  for learning it's that drive behind it it's that  
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thing that gets you excited to start doing it to  reach that big goal now you might think of passion  
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as something that you either have or you don't  have but a lot of times it's not something  
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that you just innately have a lot of times  it's something that you actually have to do  
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some work in cultivating and then perseverance is  actually showing up every day and doing the hard  
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work now another really important part of this  that's going to make you successful in cultivating  
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grit is having a growth mindset now you can  either have a growth mindset or a fixed mindset  
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people with a fixed mindset basically think  that either they have the talent to do something  
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or they don't so for example if they have some  challenge they're probably just going to say you  
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know i'm just not good at this so I might as well  give up or if they actually are successful with  
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something they think maybe it's because they were  born with that success or because they're really  
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intelligent or something like that now people  with a growth mindset think kind of differently  
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when they fail at something they don't think you  know it's because I just don't have the talent  
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for it they say I need to work harder next time  I didn't work hard enough and that's why I failed  
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so when they encounter any challenge basically  their idea is that I need to still learn something  
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I need to work harder I need to try more next  time now if you feel like you have more of a  
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fixed mindset don't worry you can cultivate a  growth mindset this is something that we help  
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all of our students to do now in step six we're  going to talk more about deliberate practice  
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now this really is the key to being able to  reach mastery in anything that you want to learn  
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or any skill that you want to build and obviously  having grit and having a growth mindset are going  
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to help you a lot at that but we'll talk more  about that in a little bit okay moving on from  
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mindset we're going to get into the actual  method so what are the things that you actually  
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need to work on to improve your English skills so  the first part of this is making English a part  
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of your life now this is probably the most fun  part of the process and it's probably the number  
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one thing that separates unsuccessful learners  from the successful learners so this is all about  
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making a fun natural and convenient but it's also  really important to recognize that as learners  
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we're all unique and each one of us have different  ways that we learn best so what worked perfectly  
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for someone else might not necessarily work for  you so not only is it about sitting down and  
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actually doing the work to learn but it's about  experimenting a lot and finding out what works  
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best for you as a learner it's about getting  curious and trying a lot of different things  
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and it shouldn't be putting you to sleep either if  someone told you for example that learning English  
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with the news is a really great way to increase  your vocabulary you shouldn't do that just because  
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that person told you so if it's not something that  you actually already enjoyed doing in your own  
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language so this can actually be a really great  gauge is to look at what do I enjoy doing and  
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to start doing those things as much as possible  in English and another thing that can be really  
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effective that I used to have all of my students  do is thinking about something that you're really  
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good at now you could actually journal about this  and think about what are the things that made you  
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really successful in learning that thing or in  acquiring that skill and then you can kind of  
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reflect on how can I apply what I learned in that  to my English learning and I think you might see  
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that there's actually a lot of connections that  you can make that are going to really help to push  
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you forward and help you discover what makes you  unique as a learner so part five let's talk about  
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habits now so we already discussed this a little  bit and it can be really effective already to find  
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things that are fun for you that are going to be  very easy for you to work into your day-to-day  
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routine but other than this it's not always so  fun and you might need to actually kind of work on  
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developing that habit so really effective way to  do this can be with something called micro habits  
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so what are micro habits micro habits can help you  to lower the bar and make it super easy for you  
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so just to give you an example say that you want  to start going to the gym you want to get in shape  
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and so most people when they do this they think  like okay i'm going to sign up for the gym and i'm  
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going gonna go four times a week for an hour but  what ends up happening is most people give up at  
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some point because they just can't keep up with  that commitment they get busy or something like  
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that and really you can make it much easier  than this instead of saying i'm gonna go for  
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four days a week for an hour today i'm going to  go four days a week and i'm just going to work  
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out for five minutes now that probably sounds a  little bit ridiculous right to go to the gym and  
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just work out for five minutes but the thing  is is that it makes it so easy that you can't  
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not do it it's just really simple for you to go  to the gym and work out for five minutes that any  
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excuse that you're gonna make just won't be valid  right and what's going to happen is that you're  
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gonna go there you're gonna start exercising for  five minutes and then you're gonna say well you  
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know as long as i'm here I think i'll do a little  bit more so you can also apply this of course to  
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your English learning you can instead of saying I  need to sit down for an hour every day and study  
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grammar you can say well you know i'm going  to sit down and i'm going to do five exercises  
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so first off it'll be really easy for you to find  the time to do this and then the second benefit is  
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that usually when you've sat down to do those  five exercises maybe you'll actually enjoy it  
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and you'll say well i'm gonna do a little bit more  and this can actually end up being a lot more time  
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than you originally intended and the best part  of this is that if you're doing this every day  
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or you're doing this a few times a week you'll be  kind of cultivating the foundation for that habit  
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so in the future it'll be much easier for you to  increase that time that you're spending to develop  
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that habit so let's look at some other tips that  can help you to cultivate habits so something that  
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can be really useful when you're trying to develop  a new habit is actually giving yourself some  
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reward when you complete it every day or every  time that you're doing it and just to give you an  
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example say that you're wanting to start running  you're wanting to start running every single day  
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now besides just doing a micro habit for example  of making it five minutes of running to start out  
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you could actually give yourself a reward so every  time that you come back from running you could  
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have a piece of chocolate let's say now by doing  this it's going to give you a bit of motivation to  
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get out the door to go on that run because you'll  already be thinking about when you come back  
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you're going to have that piece of chocolate now  when you do this eventually you won't even need  
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the chocolate anymore because you'll just enjoy  that good feeling that you have after running now  
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it's really simple to apply this to your English  learning so say for example that you need to study  
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some vocabulary and you need some motivation to  do that so say that you could set up that okay i'm  
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going to study vocabulary for 15 minutes but then  after the reward I can watch an episode of friends  
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and then on the other side of this besides  giving yourself rewards consequences can also be  
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really useful and especially when you get other  people evolved to kind of hold you accountable  
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so let's take an example with this so say that  you tell your wife or your husband or a friend  
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for example that you want to do this 15 minutes of  grammar study every single day or that you want to  
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have a 20-minute conversation every single  day so how you could actually do this is by  
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telling them that every day that you don't do  this you're going to give them five dollars or  
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you know the equivalent in your currency now  first off you're probably not going to want to  
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lose that five dollars so you'll sit down to do  it or even if you fail on that a couple times  
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you'll probably learn pretty quickly that it's  more worthwhile to actually do that new habit  
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than it is to lose those five dollars and the  other really great part of this is if you tell  
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your wife or husband or friend or whoever they're  also going to be checking in to make sure that  
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you're doing that because they're going to want  the money now if you don't have a lot of money  
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that's of course not the only way that you can do  this you would also tell for example your wife or  
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husband that for every day that you don't do that  new habit that you will take out the trash now if  
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that is something that you really hate doing  again you'll probably just need to miss that  
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study one or two times in order to start saying  that it's more worthwhile for me to actually just  
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do it than it is for me to have to take out the  trash now you can learn more about the science of  
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habit formation how you can apply this to your  English in that lesson that I already told you  
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about about the top books where I looked at  a really great book called the power of habit  
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now getting into part six we already talked  about this a little bit deliberate practice  
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now deliberate practice really is the fine tuning  that you're doing to kind of take yourself to the  
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next level so what happens usually is when  we're learning a language we get to what's  
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called the intermediate plateau so usually when  we start out learning we can learn really quickly  
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there's so much to learn and our progress is  really quick but at some point we kind of get  
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flat it kind of gets really stagnant and really  difficult to kind of be acquiring more knowledge  
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to really be taking our skills to the next level  and this is where delivered practice comes in  
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so this is identifying kind of those key errors  that you're still making kind of the big things  
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that you still have to solve and repairing those  or solving them or overcoming them and a really  
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great way to do this is to actually sign up for  an exam I actually had recent experience with this  
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last year when I was really focusing on learning  catalan and I had actually kind of experienced  
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this that I felt like I was really stagnant in my  learning I wasn't progressing anymore so I signed  
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up for the c1 exam and I found this really useful  because first off I actually had a date by when  
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I would have to take that exam and so I had a time  period that had to make that plan for learning  
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and then I also had very specific things that I  would have to learn in order to pass that exam  
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the other thing is that I got a teacher who helped  me immensely in being able to identify kind of my  
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key errors my key mistakes that I needed to solve  now by doing this I found that I really excelled  
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in just a short period of time I think I had  three months to study and i've learned so much  
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during that time and really improved my level in  this and again having a really great teacher or  
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coach can be immensely helpful because they'll  help you to identify your gaps and see those  
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mistakes that you're making a lot and usually  a good coach or a good teacher is going to have  
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different techniques to help you to overcome  these things without a great coach or teacher  
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I think it's near impossible to ever be able to  reach a level of mastery and then another thing  
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I think is immensely helpful is to have a really  great support network or community now these would  
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be people who either support you so they know your  goal and they're kind of there to help you out in  
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any way that you need and of course a teacher can  play this role but another really great thing is a  
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community if you have other English learners from  around the world especially or maybe even just  
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from your class that are in this together they're  all kind of going through the same challenges  
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with you and they're there when you're kind of  having difficulties when you're going through  
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different challenges we have for example our  fluency circle that's included with all of our  
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courses and people find this immensely helpful to  kind of be going on this learning journey together  
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all right so we've talked about making English  a fun natural and convenient part of your life  
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we've talked about developing the habits that  will make it so you don't even really have to  
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think about learning English and then finally  if you're wanting to go from that intermediate  
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plateau where you feel like you're not learning  anything and breaking through to a more advanced  
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level how important deliberate practice is so  the next step in the cycle is mastery it's to  
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help you to actually reach that goal of English  fluency or whatever your goal is with your English  
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and to be able to communicate confidently so the  first part of this is listening so most people I  
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think when they talk about their English they talk  about wanting to be able to speak English better  
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but really until you get to the point where  you're listening is really bulletproof it's  
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really that you can understand natives at any  speed that when you get an interaction you feel  
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comfortable being able to understand people it's  going to be really hard to be a great speaker now  
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why is it so difficult to understand for most  of us what we learned in school isn't the way  
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that natives actually speak in real life right  probably the first time that you actually heard  
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natives we did things that you weren't expecting  at all we cut our words we link them together we  
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morph different sounds into things that you're  not expecting at all and in fact if this is an  
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issue that you have it's something that we look  at in all of our courses and you can actually  
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join our free power learning week which is  really great to kind of learn some of these  
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different things that natives do so that when you  encounter native speech you can actually expect  
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how we're going to say things and understand so  if you want to learn more about that and sign up  
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it's really simple just click up here or down the  description below and another really big issue  
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that I see most English learning facing is that  you filter English through your native language  
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now this is pretty natural because most of us  learn through methodologies that teach us through  
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translation so kind of naturally in our head we've  built this habit of translating from our native  
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language into English but the bad thing about  this is that when we read anything usually we  
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expect it to be pronounced like it would be in our  native language when this is almost never the case  
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so i've heard this called lexophilia now that's a  made-up word I didn't invent it but basically it  
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means that you're depending on your eyes too much  so basically what you need to do instead to kind  
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of break these habits that you got when you're  learning in school is to start to trust your  
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ears more so it's listening a lot more instead  of reading it's depending less on the subtitles  
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to kind of help you and stuff it's learning how  we actually pronounce things so you're not just  
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depending on the subtitles and starting to expect  us to speak in one way that we don't speak at all  
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now we'll get to reading and speaking in a  moment but another really important aspect of  
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listening and I think also of speaking is  developing survival phrases now survival  
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phrases basically are different phrases that  you'll have in your arsenal that you will have  
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available to you that will help you to overcome  certain challenges when you get the opportunity  
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to have a conversation with someone so these would  be saying things like sorry I didn't understand  
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or can you say that again so instead of just  freezing up because you don't know what to say  
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or because you didn't understand what the person  said or kind of just nodding up and down even  
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though you have no idea what the person's saying  you'll have these kind of different phrases that  
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you can depend on that you can ask that person to  go slower or to come to your level so that you'll  
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feel more comfortable with the conversation  and you'll be able to participate more  
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you'll be more of a communicator and one of  my biggest pet peeves one of the things I find  
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most annoying is when learners start off the  conversation by saying sorry for my poor English  
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or sorry for my mistakes now I really really want  you to never apologize for your English again  
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the reason for this is because first off you're  kind of telling that person already that my  
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English isn't good which that shouldn't kind of be  your intention from the start of the conversation  
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let them make their own perception of how your  English is because when you're already telling  
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them that then maybe they're going to think it's  worse than it actually is maybe they will even be  
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communicating to you a much slower way that's  not going to really be doing you any favors  
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and being able to take your skills to the next  level the other reason for this is that you've  
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worked really hard to get your English to the  level where it is if you're understanding even  
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part of what i'm saying right now then you've  put so much sweat and tears i'm sure into your  
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English learning and you should be proud of that  you shouldn't be apologizing for that so put away  
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your apologies and get your survival phrases we  actually did a recent podcast on this which i'll  
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link in the description below if you want to learn  all about what those are and how to start using  
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them but that brings us to the next part which is  speaking so that's probably one of your biggest  
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goals right is improving your speaking now before  you can even really improve your speaking first  
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we need to look at confidence because you know if  you are too shy or too scared to go up to someone  
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and start that first conversation then you're  never going to be able to improve your speaking  
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this comes from having vulnerability and courage  so vulnerability is being able to say to someone  
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not sorry for my English but i'm still learning  and so I might need some of your help a little bit  
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and the courage is basically being able to go  up to someone and just start that conversation  
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courage is also learning the value of fears it's  seeing them as the stepping stones to get you to  
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the fluency it's overcoming your fear of them and  actually seeing them as a tool to improve now we  
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talked before about lowering the bar about making  baby steps so what are kind of the baby steps that  
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you can take for speaking it's maybe not trying  to go out to a party and having a conversation  
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with 50 people at once it's maybe just trying  to have one conversation with someone in your  
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English class or with a friend that you know who  also speaks English now I recommend speaking with  
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non-native speakers before native speakers because  this can really help to boost your confidence  
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first of all other learners are going to be  more empathetic because they're going through  
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the same thing as you and you probably won't be  as self-conscious about your mistakes and stuff  
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because you won't be as worried about that person  judging you now if you consider yourself shy or  
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you are an introvert then that's another thing  completely and I actually did a lesson all about  
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that which will be in the description as well  but one of the really most important things is to  
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start speaking from day one now if you're watching  this i'm sure that's not really possible for you  
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anymore but the reason that I say that is because  when you start learning a language if already  
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from the very first day that you are learning it  you start speaking it's really going to do wonders  
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for your confidence you're not going to have all  this fear a lot of that fear kind of comes from  
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the fact that when you were learning in school you  had very limited opportunities to speak and so you  
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weren't able to build that confidence in using  the language but if you're not speaking already  
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then you need to start practicing a lot now it's  not necessarily that you actually have to live in  
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an English-speaking country to be able to do this  you can start practicing even by yourself if you  
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don't have anyone else if you feel a little bit  weird practicing by yourself then speak to your  
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dog speak to your kids speak to a friend speak to  yourself in the mirror even just start speaking  
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and as a bonus you can start recording  yourself and listen back and correct  
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some of your own mistakes you could also  try shadowing so to do this you would just  
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listen to an audio in English by a native speaker  and you would actually repeat exactly what they're  
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saying at the same time trying to say it the  same way that they are or just for example what  
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one of my students used to do is that he had a  lot of traffic on his way to work so he would  
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take advantage this time by beforehand looking  up different topics and discussing that with  
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himself in the car on the way to work and really  his speaking got so great just by doing this  
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now once you're actually practicing you're kind  of getting that confidence of being able to speak  
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whether it's speaking with other people or  just practicing a lot speaking by yourself  
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although at some point you are going to need  to speak with other people in order to improve  
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uh the next part is actually ironing out the  mistakes that you're making now this comes back  
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to deliberate practice even if it's just a few  minutes a day and what you're going to be focusing  
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on especially here is having clear pronunciation  so for most of you out there it's not going to  
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be necessary to actually speak like a native  although you can improve your connected speech  
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and you can really work on the different aspects  of that if that is really important for you but  
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it's going to be tremendously difficult but for  most of you clear pronunciation will be enough  
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and it's absolutely necessary because people need  to be able to understand you and again I really  
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think it's going to be near impossible for you  to achieve mastery in your speaking if you don't  
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have a great teacher or coach who's helping you  along the way who's helping you to point out those  
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errors and helping you to iron them out now hang  in there with me we're almost done that brings  
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us to the next part which is reading and writing  now depending on your goals for it and your use of  
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your English this isn't going to be so important  for everyone but if it is important for you then  
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really it can be one of the best ways to improve  your vocabulary of course by reading you're able  
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to encounter all sorts of words that people don't  actually tend to use so much in their day to day  
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but reading a lot can actually really help you  to improve your writing because you're kind of  
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experiencing different stylistics of the  language being used you're experiencing a certain  
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vocabulary that's a lot more literary and you  know it's just kind of giving you more exposure  
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to how things can be well written in English so a  great thing about reading is that it's really easy  
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to make it a part of your life one thing that I do  is I read another language every day before bed so  
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you know this is a really great way for me to  kind of be able to wind down to be able to relax  
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in the evening and it's also just kind of a way  that i'm subconsciously improving my language  
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skills so this can be really great because you're  kind of seeing the grammar and use for example  
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and when you do this of course you can study it  more but even if you're just passively reading  
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it's going to kind of get into your head and  again if you sign up for a test this is going  
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to be really helpful to improve your writing  because usually there's some sort of writing  
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aspect so you're going to have to focus on this  in order to be able to pass that exam and again  
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having a teacher can be immensely helpful not  only to be able to improve your mistakes but  
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also to help you kind of to be able to write  better to be able to say things in a nicer way  
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and the final part I think this is like the most  important part of the entire process is actually  
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using your English for a higher purpose it's  using it to kind of make that change in the world  
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so I did a recent lesson on this so i'm not going  to really go into it too much you can watch that  
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it's linked down below if you want to but the  thing about this is that it's really the highest  
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level that you can get in your English learning is  actually paying it forward with your English it's  
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being able to start seeing the planet as a whole  living organism that we all live on and having  
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that realization that no matter what divides us  what unites us as human beings is so much stronger  
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all right so do you want to know how successful  that you're going to be on your English learning  
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journey what you have to do is count out how many  of the 10 that you're currently doing write that  
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down in the comments below and also write what  is the first thing you're going to focus on in  
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order to improve and of course subscribe because  we make videos every week to help you with each  
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one of these 10. so first off do you have a  clear burning purpose for learning English  
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do you have a plan of how you will accomplish your  goal and do you know what you're going to do when  
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it gets really difficult do you have passion  and perseverance can you keep at it even when  
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it gets really difficult do you make English  a part of your life and do you not even really  
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have to think about it because you already have  created positive habits do you do deliver practice  
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those hard exercises that you need to iron out the  imperfections and do you work on your listening  
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consistently so that you can understand without  getting lost do you practice your speaking every  
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day even if it's by yourself do you read English  instead of your native language whenever possible  
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and finally are you using your English to  make a difference in the world remember to  
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write your score down in the comments below and  now it's time to go beyond the classroom and  
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live your English ah yeah and maybe like yourself  I am an introvert but learning languages over the  
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last 12 years has helped me a ton in being able to  overcome the paralyzing shyness that I felt when  
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I was younger so let me tell you that if you are  shy or you believe that maybe you're an introvert  
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that this does not need to be a barrier to being  able to speak English fluently and confidently
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