Practice English Conversation (How to be a good father) Improve English Speaking Skills

all right then you are here  you know we need to talk

好吧，那你就在这里，你知道我们需要

right yes Dad I know I want to say  I'm really sorry I didn't mean to  

好好谈谈，是的，爸爸，我知道，我想说，我真的很抱歉，我不是故意

relax that's fine I already admitted that I'm  going to be a grandfather in fact I like it  

放松的，没关系，我已经承认我要当祖父了，事实上我喜欢它

I mean I know you are young but you're are not a  teenager anymore you will be fine you are 21 and  

我的意思是我知道你很年轻，但你不再是青少年了，你会没事的，你已经 21 岁了，

you are in the last year at College you already  have a job right yes I got a job a good company  

你是大学的最后一年，你已经找到了一份工作，是的，我找到了一份工作，一家好公司

hired me last month I am working there you then  you will be fine and I will be a grandfather  

雇用了我上个月我在那里工作，然后你会没事的，我会成为一名祖父，

I like it I know you had different plans an  and you wanted to travel more and get married

我喜欢它，我知道你有不同的计划，你想更多地旅行并先结婚

first but sometimes it happens I understand  that I am sure you will be an excellent

，但有时会发生这种情况，我明白我相信你会的成为一个优秀的

father that's the problem problem that I  don't know everything happened so fast and  

父亲，这就是问题所在，我不知道一切发生得这么快，

I what don't tell me you don't want to  be a father it's too late for that son  

我不告诉我你不想当父亲，对那个儿子来说已经太晚了，

you will be fine no I already assumed that  I'm going to have a baby we already talked  

你会没事的，不，我已经假设了我要生一个孩子，我们已经

about it with Anna and we will work hard to  give our child a good life the problem is I  

和安娜讨论过了，我们会努力工作，让我们的孩子过上美好的生活，问题是我

am scared that I don't feel prepared for this  I don't know how to be a father I am really

很害怕，我觉得自己没有为此做好准备，我不知道该怎么做作为父亲，我真的很

scared it's too difficult how could  I take care of another person I don't

害怕，这太困难了，我怎么能照顾另一个人，我不

know I mean I have a good job and I also has  finished College she's also working for the

知道，我的意思是我有一份好工作，我也完成了大学学业，她目前也在工作，

moment but I am scared what if I can't  be good enough to be that little child's  

但我害怕如果我能做到的话怎么办？ 我知道 ，我不足以成为那个小孩的

father I see let me tell you something  what you're feeling is something very

父亲，让我告诉你一些事情，你的感受是很正常

normal I'm telling you this because I  was also scared when your mother got

的事情，我告诉你这些是因为当你母亲怀孕时我也很害怕，

pregnant but what does it mean to be a  d fatherhood is evolving a society and  

但这意味着什么？父亲身份正在不断发展，社会和

traditional family changes but some things  will never change and I think I can help  

传统家庭正在发生变化，但有些事情永远不会改变，我想我可以帮助

you with that listen to me it will be very  important to spend time with your child how a  

你，听我说，花时间陪伴你的孩子是非常重要的，父亲如何

father spends his time reveals to his child  what is important to him kids grow up quickly  

度过他的时间向他的孩子揭示了什么是对他来说很重要，孩子们很快就会长大

and the time to bond is now there are plenty  of fun ways to spend family time with children

，现在有很多有趣的方式可以与孩子们

seriously well I can tell you have  always been there for me that I know

认真地度过家庭时光，我可以告诉你，你一直在我身边，我知道

that even when you have to work hard all day  you always asked me how my day was at the end  

，即使你必须努力工作，那天你总是问我一天结束时过得怎么样

of the day exactly there are no excuses there  is always at least a little time to spend with  

，没有任何借口，总是至少有一点时间与你的孩子一起度过，

your children also discipline with love  and positive parenting very important

还有爱的纪律和积极的养育非常重要，

all children need positive guidance and  discipline not as punishment but to set reasonable

所有的孩子都需要积极的指导和纪律，而不是作为惩罚，但要设定合理的

limits that should remind Children of the  consequences of their actions and positively  

限制，提醒孩子他们行为的后果，并积极

acknowledge desirable Behavior fathers  who discipline in a calm and fair manner  

承认良好的行为。以冷静和公平的方式管教的父亲

show love for their children  and be your child's role

表现出对孩子的爱，并成为孩子的榜样，

model whether they realize it or not fathers are  Ro models to their kids for example a girl who  

无论他们是否意识到Ro 是孩子们的榜样，例如，一个女孩

spends time with a loving father grows up knowing  she deserves to be treated with respect by boys  

与一位慈爱的父亲共度时光，她长大后知道自己应该受到男孩的尊重

and she learns what to look for in a  partner fathers teach boys and girls  

，她也知道在伴侣中寻找什么。父亲

what is important in life by demonstrating  honesty humility and responsibility never  

通过展示来教导男孩和女孩什么是生活中重要的东西诚实、谦逊和责任感 永远不要

forget that earn the right to be heard fathers  should begin conversations with their children  

忘记，赢得被倾听的权利 父亲应该

about important topics when they are very  young so that difficult subjects will be  

在孩子很小的时候就开始与孩子谈论重要的话题，这样当他们长大后，困难的话题就会更

easier to handle as they get older take time for  listening to your child's ideas and problems like

容易处理。 花时间倾听孩子的想法和想法像现在这样的问题

now eat together as a family an important  part of healthy family life is bonding through  

全家一起吃饭 健康家庭生活的重要组成部分是通过

family meals it gives kids the chance to talk  about what they are doing and want to do it is  

家庭聚餐来加强联系 它让孩子们有机会谈论他们正在做的事情和想做的事情 这

also a good time for fathers to listen and be  involved it provides a structure for families  

也是父亲倾听和参与的好时机

to be together each day read to your child  in a modern world dominated by television  

在一个以电视和互联网为主导的现代世界中，为家庭提供了每天一起给孩子读书的 结构。

and Internet it is important that fathers  make the effort to read to their children  

为了培养终身 阅读能力，父亲努力给孩子读书是很重要的，

in order to grow lifelong readers begin reading  when they are very young and as they get older  

在他们很小的时候就开始阅读， 随着年龄的增长，

encourage them to read on their own respect  the other parent of your child I'm talking  

鼓励他们尊重自己孩子的另一方家长，我说的

about Anna and you parents who respect each  other and demonstrate mutual respect to their

是安娜和你们，互相尊重并相互尊重孩子的父母，

children provide a secure environment for them  when children see parents respecting each other  

当孩子们看到父母互相尊重时，为他们提供了一个安全的环境其他的，

they are more likely to feel that they are also  accepted and respected within the father child

他们更有可能觉得自己在父子关系中也被接受和尊重

relationship seek involvement early  show interest early by understanding a  

尽早寻求参与 通过了解 父亲在怀孕期间或收养或代孕过程中的角色，

father's role during pregnancy or the adoption or  surrogacy process and gently touch play hold and  

尽早表现出兴趣， 并轻轻地触摸、玩耍、抱住和

talk to your infant child why well when fathers  are involved they send a clear and empathic

和你的小孩子谈谈，为什么当父亲介入时，他们会发出一个清晰而富有同理心的

message I want to be your father I am interested  

信息，我想成为你的父亲，我

in you and we have a relationship that  is important important to me again you  

对你感兴趣，我们之间的关系对我来说很重要，你

will be fine few events change a  man's life as much as becoming a

会没事的，很少有事件会改变一个男人的想法。生活就像成为一名

father being entrusted with the responsibility  and care of another person is a Monumental

父亲一样，被托付给另一个人的责任和照顾是一项艰巨的

task but no one is more rewarding than becoming a  

任务，但没有人比成为一名

father and seeing your child  grow gradually into alhood

父亲并看到你的孩子逐渐长大成人

with your affection returned in good  measure and your child's selfworth

、你的爱得到充分回报以及你的孩子的自我价值

confirmed and to finish there's not a secret to be  a good dad you will learn to be one in the process  

更有价值 确认并完成，成为一个好爸爸没有什么秘密，您将在这个过程中学会成为一个好爸爸，

just remember these tips and also love your child  and your wife as much as you can protect them  

只需记住这些技巧，并尽可能地爱您的孩子和妻子，尽可能保护他们，

thank you Dad I feel a little nervous but  I am sure I can be an excellent father  

谢谢您，爸爸，我感到有点紧张，但是我相信我可以成为一个出色的父亲，

you are right and now change D's scary  face and let's go with Anna she must be  

你是对的，现在改变 D 的可怕表情，让我们和安娜一起去吧，她一定很

worried and she needs you there with her  right now let's go I hope you liked this  

担心，她需要你在她身边，现在我们走吧 ，如果你能提高你的英语，

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我希望你喜欢这次 谈话 还有一点请订阅该频道

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或单击超级感谢按钮非常感谢您的支持保重