Practice English Conversation (How to be a good father) Improve English Speaking Skills

all right then you are here  you know we need to talk

right yes Dad I know I want to say  I'm really sorry I didn't mean to  

relax that's fine I already admitted that I'm  going to be a grandfather in fact I like it  

I mean I know you are young but you're are not a  teenager anymore you will be fine you are 21 and  

you are in the last year at College you already  have a job right yes I got a job a good company  

hired me last month I am working there you then  you will be fine and I will be a grandfather  

I like it I know you had different plans an  and you wanted to travel more and get married

first but sometimes it happens I understand  that I am sure you will be an excellent

father that's the problem problem that I  don't know everything happened so fast and  

I what don't tell me you don't want to  be a father it's too late for that son  

you will be fine no I already assumed that  I'm going to have a baby we already talked  

about it with Anna and we will work hard to  give our child a good life the problem is I  

am scared that I don't feel prepared for this  I don't know how to be a father I am really

scared it's too difficult how could  I take care of another person I don't

know I mean I have a good job and I also has  finished College she's also working for the

moment but I am scared what if I can't  be good enough to be that little child's  

father I see let me tell you something  what you're feeling is something very

normal I'm telling you this because I  was also scared when your mother got

pregnant but what does it mean to be a  d fatherhood is evolving a society and  

traditional family changes but some things  will never change and I think I can help  

you with that listen to me it will be very  important to spend time with your child how a  

father spends his time reveals to his child  what is important to him kids grow up quickly  

and the time to bond is now there are plenty  of fun ways to spend family time with children

seriously well I can tell you have  always been there for me that I know

that even when you have to work hard all day  you always asked me how my day was at the end  

of the day exactly there are no excuses there  is always at least a little time to spend with  

your children also discipline with love  and positive parenting very important

all children need positive guidance and  discipline not as punishment but to set reasonable

limits that should remind Children of the  consequences of their actions and positively  

acknowledge desirable Behavior fathers  who discipline in a calm and fair manner  

show love for their children  and be your child's role

model whether they realize it or not fathers are  Ro models to their kids for example a girl who  

spends time with a loving father grows up knowing  she deserves to be treated with respect by boys  

and she learns what to look for in a  partner fathers teach boys and girls  

what is important in life by demonstrating  honesty humility and responsibility never  

forget that earn the right to be heard fathers  should begin conversations with their children  

about important topics when they are very  young so that difficult subjects will be  

easier to handle as they get older take time for  listening to your child's ideas and problems like

now eat together as a family an important  part of healthy family life is bonding through  

family meals it gives kids the chance to talk  about what they are doing and want to do it is  

also a good time for fathers to listen and be  involved it provides a structure for families  

to be together each day read to your child  in a modern world dominated by television  

and Internet it is important that fathers  make the effort to read to their children  

in order to grow lifelong readers begin reading  when they are very young and as they get older  

encourage them to read on their own respect  the other parent of your child I'm talking  

about Anna and you parents who respect each  other and demonstrate mutual respect to their

children provide a secure environment for them  when children see parents respecting each other  

they are more likely to feel that they are also  accepted and respected within the father child

relationship seek involvement early  show interest early by understanding a  

father's role during pregnancy or the adoption or  surrogacy process and gently touch play hold and  

talk to your infant child why well when fathers  are involved they send a clear and empathic

message I want to be your father I am interested  

in you and we have a relationship that  is important important to me again you  

will be fine few events change a  man's life as much as becoming a

father being entrusted with the responsibility  and care of another person is a Monumental

task but no one is more rewarding than becoming a  

father and seeing your child  grow gradually into alhood

with your affection returned in good  measure and your child's selfworth

confirmed and to finish there's not a secret to be  a good dad you will learn to be one in the process  

just remember these tips and also love your child  and your wife as much as you can protect them  

thank you Dad I feel a little nervous but  I am sure I can be an excellent father  

you are right and now change D's scary  face and let's go with Anna she must be  

worried and she needs you there with her  right now let's go I hope you liked this  

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