USEFUL English phrases for daily conversation | Phrases for invitations

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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Hi there, this is Harry and welcome backย  to advanced English lessons with Harry,ย ย 
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ํ•ด๋ฆฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•ด๋ฆฌ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ณ ๊ธ‰ ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์— ๋‹ค์‹œ ์˜ค์‹  ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ™˜์˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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where I try to help you to get a betterย  understanding of the English language. Ifย ย 
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ์ €๋Š” ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋” ์ž˜ ์ดํ•ดํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๋„์™€๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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you're preparing for that all-important jobย  interview, or if you're preparing for thoseย ย 
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๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ทจ์—… ๋ฉด์ ‘์„ ์ค€๋น„ ์ค‘์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ ์‹œํ—˜์„ ์ค€๋น„ ์ค‘์ด๋ผ๋ฉด
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proficiency exams, you're not quite sure aboutย  how to say something, how to write something,ย ย 
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์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ์ง€, ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์จ์•ผ ํ• ์ง€,
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the grammar structure. Well, you've comeย  to the right place. We can help you withย ย 
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๋ฌธ๋ฒ• ๊ตฌ์กฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ํ™•์‹ ์ด ์„œ์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž˜ ์ฐพ์•„์˜ค์…จ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋„์™€๋“œ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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all of those. Improve your vocabulary,ย  introduce some key expressions and phrases.
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. ์–ดํœ˜๋ ฅ์„ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œํ‚ค๊ณ  ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ฃผ์š” ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ๊ตฌ๋ฌธ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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And then our particular lesson today,ย  our advanced English lesson today,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ์ˆ˜์—…, ์˜ค๋Š˜์˜ ๊ณ ๊ธ‰ ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์—์„œ๋Š” ์ดˆ๋Œ€์— ๋Œ€์ฒ˜ํ• 
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we're looking at ways in which you canย  deal with an invitation. So great ways inย ย 
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์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
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which you can respond to an invitation. Soย  we're going to look at positive responses,ย ย 
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์ดˆ๋Œ€์— ์‘๋‹ตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฐ˜์‘,
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negative responses, and of course,ย  some neutral responses as well.
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๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฐ˜์‘, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ผ๋ถ€ ์ค‘๋ฆฝ์ ์ธ ๋ฐ˜์‘๋„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Okay, and if you find out that you liked thisย  particular lesson, then please like the video,ย ย 
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์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ํŠน์ • ๊ฐ•์˜๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“ ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋™์˜์ƒ์— ์ข‹์•„์š”๋ฅผ ๋ˆŒ๋Ÿฌ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
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and if you can subscribe to our channel,ย  because it does, it really, really helps.
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์ €ํฌ ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ •๋ง ํฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Okay, so let's get back to our lessonย  today. It's all about invitations.ย ย 
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์ž, ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ˆ˜์—…์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ์•„๊ฐ€๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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How do we accept an invitation? And howย  do we refuse an invitation? Or indeed,ย ย 
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์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜๋ฝํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋‚˜์š”? ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์ •๋ง
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if we're not quite sure? How do we sort of strikeย  a neutral balance before you say yes or no. We'veย ย 
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ํ™•์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋ฉด? ์˜ˆ ๋˜๋Š” ์•„๋‹ˆ์˜ค๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์ค‘๋ฆฝ์ ์ธ ๊ท ํ˜•์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ์šฐ๋ฆฌ
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all been in that situation before. You get twoย  invitations, if you're lucky. Two invitationsย ย 
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๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ์ด์ „์— ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•œ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šด์ด ์ข‹๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‘ ๊ฐœ์˜ ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์„ ๋ฐ›๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŒŒํ‹ฐ ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ 2์žฅ
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for a party. Who do you accept? And who do youย  reject? Or you get an invitation somewhere,ย ย 
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. ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๋‚˜์š”? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฑฐ๋ถ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์–ด๋””์„ ๊ฐ€ ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์„ ๋ฐ›๊ณ 
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and you don't really want to go either becauseย  you don't know the people so well, or you justย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ์ž˜ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
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can't be bothered. And so you need a way, a niceย  way in which you can turn down that particularย ย 
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๊ท€์ฐฎ๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ •๋ง ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ํŠน์ • ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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invitation. So these are all very helpful. Yeah.ย  How to accept and how to decline invitations.
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. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋งค์šฐ ์œ ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‘. ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜๋ฝํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•.
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Okay, so let's go through them, I broken themย  down into a few categories. First one will focusย ย 
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์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์นดํ…Œ๊ณ ๋ฆฌ๋กœ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š”
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on the positive. So you want to find differentย  ways in which you can give a positive response.
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๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฉด์— ์ดˆ์ ์„ ๋งž์ถœ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋‹ต๋ณ€์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ ์ž ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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So the first one might be, Great, I'll seeย  you there. So that could be just a nice,ย ย 
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
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friendly invitation from your friend to hisย  birthday party. It's nothing special. It'sย ย 
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์นœ๊ตฌ์˜ ์ƒ์ผ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์นœ์ ˆํ•˜๊ณ  ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์ดˆ๋Œ€์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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not a 30th, or 40th, or 50th. You just get aย  an invitation, either by mobile phone, by text,ย ย 
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30๋„, 40๋„, 50๋„๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”, ๋ฌธ์ž,
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by email, whatever it is, and how you're goingย  to say it such as Thank you. Ah, that's great,ย ย 
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์ด๋ฉ”์ผ ๋“ฑ ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“ ์ง€, ๊ฐ์‚ฌ์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ง์„ ํ•  ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์„ ๋ฐ›๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„, ๋ฉ‹์ง€๋„ค์š”.
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I'll see you there. Meaning Yeah, that's theย  date. It's in my diary. And I'll be there inย ย 
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๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๋ฏธ ์˜ˆ, ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋‚ ์งœ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด ์ผ๊ธฐ์žฅ์— ์žˆ์–ด.
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the pub, in the restaurant, at your home,ย  wherever the party is going to take place.
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ํŽ, ๋ ˆ์Šคํ† ๋ž‘, ์ง‘ ๋“ฑ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ์—ด๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ณณ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ์–ด๋””๋“  ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Second. Oh, I'm looking forward to it.ย  So there's a nice positive way to giveย ย 
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๋‘๋ฒˆ์งธ. ์˜ค, ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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somebody a positive response. Yeah, I'd likeย  to invite you to my birthday party or we'reย ย 
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. ๋„ค, ์ œ ์ƒ์ผ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
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having a bit of a gathering of the family andย  friends and we'd love it if you could come. Ah,ย ย 
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๊ฐ€์กฑ๊ณผ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์˜ ๋ชจ์ž„์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์˜ค์‹œ๋ฉด ์ข‹๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„,
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great. I'm looking forward to it already.ย  Yeah, I'll be there. Put it in my diary.ย ย 
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์ข‹์•„์š”. ๋ฒŒ์จ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„ค, ๊ฐˆ๊ฒŒ์š”. ๋‚ด ์ผ๊ธฐ์— ๋„ฃ์–ด.
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I wouldn't miss it for the world. Yeah.ย  Okay. So yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์„ธ์ƒ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋†“์น˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‘. ์ข‹์•„์š”. ๋„ค, ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Next, when you're really, really positive,ย  and this is all about intonation in yourย ย 
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๋‹ค์Œ์œผ๋กœ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง ๊ธ์ •์ ์ผ ๋•Œ, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹น์‹  ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์–ต์–‘์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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voice, Oh, I can't wait. It will be great to catchย  up with all the old friends again. So perhaps oneย ย 
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. ์˜ค, ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆด ์ˆ˜๊ฐ€ ์—†์–ด์š”. ๋ชจ๋“  ์˜› ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋”ฐ๋ผ์žก๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋งˆ๋„
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of your college mates is organising a reunion.ย  They're great fun. So the they haven't seen eachย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋Œ€ํ•™ ์นœ๊ตฌ ์ค‘ ํ•œ ๋ช…์ด ๋™์ฐฝํšŒ๋ฅผ ์กฐ์งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ •๋ง ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
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other for four or five years since everybodyย  left college. So this is the opportunity forย ย 
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๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ๋Œ€ํ•™์„ ๋– ๋‚œ ์ดํ›„๋กœ 4~5๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ๋ณด์ง€ ๋ชปํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€
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everybody to come together. They're meetingย  in the centre of town somewhere or somebody'sย ย 
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๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋ชจ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธฐํšŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์‹œ๋‚ด ์–ด๋”˜๊ฐ€์—์„œ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€
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booked a room above a restaurant or a bar, butย  all the guys and girls are going to be there.ย ย 
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๋ ˆ์Šคํ† ๋ž‘์ด๋‚˜ ๋ฐ” ์œ„์˜ ๋ฐฉ์„ ์˜ˆ์•ฝํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๋ชจ๋“  ๋‚จ์ž์™€ ์—ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ โ€‹โ€‹๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ๋ชจ์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:29
So different people have been asked to contactย  the people they knew best. So you get the callย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ž˜ ์•„๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์—ฐ๋ฝํ•˜๋ผ๋Š” ์š”์ฒญ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ „ํ™”
03:36
or the text or the email and your responseย  is, Wow, I can't wait. I was really lookingย ย 
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๋‚˜ ๋ฌธ์ž ๋˜๋Š” ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ์„ ๋ฐ›์œผ๋ฉด ' ์™€์šฐ, ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๋œ๋‹ค'๋Š” ์‘๋‹ต์„ ๋ฐ›๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ •๋ง ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:42
forward to that. It's been ages since Iย  caught up with everybody. I cannot wait.
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. ๋ชจ๋‘๋ฅผ ๋”ฐ๋ผ์žก์€ ์ง€ ์˜ค๋ž˜๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆด์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค.
03:47
Now, if you're really happy and you want somethingย  very informal, we can use this word "chuffed."ย ย 
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์ด์ œ ์ •๋ง ํ–‰๋ณตํ•˜๊ณ  ๋งค์šฐ ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์›ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด 'chuffed'๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:54
See how it's spelt on the screen there and theย  pronunciation ch-, chuffed. When I'm chuffed,ย ย 
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ํ™”๋ฉด์— ์ฒ ์ž๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๊ณ  ch-, chuffed๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฐœ์Œ์„ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ์ข‹๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
04:00
it means I'm really happy and perhaps a little bitย  surprised that you invited me. Oh, perhaps you gotย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ ์ •๋ง ๊ธฐ์˜๊ณ  ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ๋†€๋ž๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„, ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์€
04:06
an invitation from your friend to be the godfatherย  or godmother of the new baby. So when you say I'mย ย 
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์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ƒˆ๋กœ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚œ ์•„๊ธฐ์˜ ๋Œ€๋ถ€ ๋˜๋Š” ๋Œ€๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์–ด ๋‹ฌ๋ผ๋Š” ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์•˜์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ I'm
04:14
chuffed means you're really really excited. Inย  fact, you're honoured to have been selected.ย ย 
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chuffed๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ์ •๋ง ์‹ ๋‚œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ์‹ค, ์„ ์ •๋˜์‹  ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๊ด‘์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:19
Wow. They picked me, they selected me to be theย  godmother or the godfather. Or the best man. Orย ย 
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์šฐ์™€. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ €๋ฅผ ์„ ํƒํ–ˆ๊ณ  ๋Œ€๋ชจ ๋˜๋Š” ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋กœ ์ €๋ฅผ ์„ ํƒํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ๋‚จ์ž. ๋˜๋Š”
04:26
a bridesmaid. Wow, I'm chuffed. I'm really, reallyย  chuffed. And, yeah, that's really really makes meย ย 
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์‹ ๋ถ€ ๋“ค๋Ÿฌ๋ฆฌ. ์™€, ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ์ข‹์•„. ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋„ค, ์ •๋ง
04:32
feel good. Chuffed. So it's very, very informal,ย  but it's a nice way to accept that invitation.
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๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ธฐ๋ป. ๋งค์šฐ ๋น„๊ณต์‹์  ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜๋ฝํ•˜๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:39
Or something a little bit more formal.ย  Yeah. And so you know, it's not so excitableย ย 
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๋˜๋Š” ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ํ˜•์‹์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ. ์‘. ์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํฅ๋ถ„๋˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
04:47
there. So you might just say something like, Oh,ย  it's great to be included. So you get invited toย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ '์˜ค, ํฌํ•จ๋˜์–ด์„œ ์ข‹๋„ค์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋™์ฐฝํšŒ์— ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฐ›๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
04:54
the reunion or you get invited to the birthdayย  party, the Christmas party, whatever the the partyย ย 
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์ƒ์ผ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ, ํฌ๋ฆฌ์Šค๋งˆ์Šค ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฐ›๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“ ๊ฐ„์—
05:00
happens to be, yeah... And you want to be there,ย  but you're not overly excited about it, but it'sย ย 
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์˜ˆ... ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๊ฒŒ ํฅ๋ถ„ํ•˜์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ
05:05
nice to be asked. So yeah, great to be included.ย  I'll be there. It's great to be included.
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๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด๋ฉด ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ, ํฌํ•จ๋˜์–ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ ์žˆ์„๊ฒŒ. ํฌํ•จ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์–ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:12
And then again, another slightlyย  informal way to reply positively. Yeah,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ธ์ •์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋‹ต๋ณ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ,
05:18
count me in. So it could be just a simpleย  game of football with the guys. It couldย ย 
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์ €๋ฅผ ์„ธ์–ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๋‚จ์ž๋“ค๊ณผ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ์ถ•๊ตฌ ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:23
be to go on a pub crawl. It could be good toย  go on a hike. It could be to do many, many,ย ย 
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ํŽ ํฌ๋กค๋ง์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ดํ‚น์„ ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งŽ์€, ๋งŽ์€,
05:30
many things. And your reply is, Yeah, count meย  in. Meaning, yeah, I'll be there. Count me in.
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๋งŽ์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋Œ€๋‹ต์€ '์˜ˆ, ์ €๋ฅผ ํฌํ•จ์‹œํ‚ค์„ธ์š”'์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ €๋ฅผ ํฌํ•จ์‹œํ‚ค์„ธ์š”.
05:37
And again, a little bit more informal asย  well. Yeah, I'm up for that. And when I'mย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹ค์‹œ, ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ด๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ• ๊ฑฐ์•ผ. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚ด๊ฐ€
05:42
up for something, means you want to do it. You'reย  going to be there. You won't be the first there.ย ย 
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๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ํ•  ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์—์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:47
Maybe you will. But you're really up. I'm upย  for that meaning. Yeah, I want to take part.
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์•„๋งˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ •๋ง ์ผ์–ด๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ ์˜๋ฏธ์— ๋™์˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„ค, ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:51
Okay. So nice, positive ways in which you canย  respond to invitations. I'll give them to youย ย 
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์ข‹์•„์š”. ์ดˆ๋Œ€์— ์‘๋‹ตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฉ‹์ง€๊ณ  ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
05:57
one more time. Great. I'll see you there. Great.ย  I'll see you there. I'm looking forward to it. I'mย ย 
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ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๋” ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—„์ฒญ๋‚œ. ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋ด. ์—„์ฒญ๋‚œ. ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋ด. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์–ด. ๋‚˜๋Š”
06:04
looking forward to it. I can't wait. I can'tย  wait. I'm chuffed and chuffed. Great to beย ย 
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์–ด. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค. ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ธฐ์šด์ด ๋‚˜๊ณ  ๊ธฐ์šด์ด ๋‚œ๋‹ค.
06:14
included. Great to be included. Count me in. Andย  then finally, I'm up for that. I'm up for that.
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ํฌํ•จ๋˜์–ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํฌํ•จ๋˜์–ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋ฅผ ์„ธ์–ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:22
Okay. Now, when you want to say no. And we've allย  been in that situation, we get the invitation andย ย 
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์ข‹์•„์š”. ์ด์ œ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ๋•Œ. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋‘ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๊ณ 
06:28
you open it. Oh, hmm... I wish they hadn't askedย  me, I don't really want to go. I don't really likeย ย 
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์—ด์–ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์˜ค, ํ ... ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌป์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋”๋ผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ , ๋‚œ ๋ณ„๋กœ ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์•„. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋ณ„๋กœ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
06:33
those people or I'm not so friendly with them. Orย  I haven't seen them for ages, I'll feel a littleย ย 
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๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ๊ทธ๋‹ค์ง€ ์นœํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜๋Š” ์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆ ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ๋ณด์ง€ ๋ชปํ•ด์„œ ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์กฐ๊ธˆ
06:39
bit awkward. So I need an excuse. So how am Iย  going to tell them I don't want to go withoutย ย 
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์–ด์ƒ‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Š๊ปด์งˆ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ณ€๋ช…์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ
06:45
hurting anybody's feeling? And that's usuallyย  how we feel. We want to say no, we want to turnย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์ƒํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ ๋Š” ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋‹ˆ์˜ค๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:51
down the invitation, refuse the invitation. But weย  want to do it in a way that nobody will be overlyย ย 
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์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์•„๋ฌด๋„ ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๊ฒŒ
06:57
upset and say, Oh, that guy. He never comes toย  anything. Okay, so let's try a few of these.
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ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚ด์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  '์˜ค, ์ € ์‚ฌ๋žŒ'์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์•„๋ฌด๋ฐ๋„ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ข‹์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ๋“ค ์ค‘ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ์‹œ๋„ํ•ด ๋ณด์ž.
07:04
I'd love to go, but... Okay, so youย  get the invitation for the reunion,ย ย 
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๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ... ์ข‹์•„์š”, ๋™์ฐฝํšŒ ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์„ ๋ฐ›์œผ์…จ์œผ๋‹ˆ,
07:09
I'd love to go but I have to go away on aย  business trip. I'm really busy these days,ย ย 
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๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ ์ถœ์žฅ์„ ๋– ๋‚˜์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์š”์ฆ˜ ์ •๋ง ๋ฐ”์ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:14
perhaps next time. So you let them down gently.ย  You refuse, but you've got a reason for refusingย ย 
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๋‹ค์Œ์—๋Š” ์•„๋งˆ๋„. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์‹ค๋ง์‹œ์ผฐ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ์ด์œ ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:21
because there's a business trip, or there'sย  a family reunion, or a family get-together,ย ย 
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์ถœ์žฅ์ด ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๊ฐ€์กฑ ๋ชจ์ž„์ด ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๊ฐ€์กฑ ๋ชจ์ž„์ด ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜,
07:28
or some special anniversary. I'd love to go,ย  but I promised my wife that I take away forย ย 
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ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๊ธฐ๋…์ผ์ด ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ, ์•„๋‚ด์—๊ฒŒ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ๋ฐ๋ ค๊ฐ€๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์•ฝ์†ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:34
a weekend. And we haven't been away for such aย  long time. So again, a good reason and a goodย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆ ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ์žˆ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ,
07:40
excuse for turning down the invitation.ย  And nobody is going to get upset we hope.
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์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํƒ€๋‹นํ•œ ์ด์œ ์ด์ž ๋ณ€๋ช…์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์•„๋ฌด๋„ ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚ด์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:45
Another one. I'm sorry, I can't make it. I'd loveย  to go, but, you know, it just doesn't suit. I'mย ย 
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฒƒ. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ชป ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ ์ ํ•ฉํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š”
07:52
really really busy. We're getting ready for newย  baby arriving or I've just changed my job or,ย ย 
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์ •๋ง ์ •๋ง ๋ฐ”์ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚  ์ค€๋น„๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ์ง์—…์„ ๋ฐ”๊ฟจ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ์•„์‹œ
07:59
you know, I'm training the football...ย  local football team. So these things takeย ย 
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๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ ์ €๋Š” ์ถ•๊ตฌ... ์ง€์—ญ ์ถ•๊ตฌํŒ€์„ ํ›ˆ๋ จํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์ž‘์—…์—๋Š”
08:03
a bit of time. So I'm sorry, I can't makeย  it. But thanks for the invitation anyway.
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ๊ฑธ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฐธ์„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์–ด์จŒ๋“  ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:09
Another one, I hate to say no, but... Soย  this just gets people to expect to knowย ย 
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๋˜ ํ•˜๋‚˜, ์‹ซ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹ซ์ง€๋งŒ... ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฑด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์•Œ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•  ๋ฟ
08:16
I hate to say no, but I'm afraid I haveย  to on this occasion, because it clashesย ย 
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์•„๋‹ˆ์š”๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹ซ์ง€๋งŒ ์ด ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์— ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:21
with another event. And the word "clash"ย  means two events are at the same time,ย ย 
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ์™€ ์ถฉ๋Œํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  '์ถฉ๋Œ'์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ๋‘ ๊ฐœ์˜ ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ๊ฐ€ ๋™์‹œ์—,
08:26
or more or less the same time. And it's justย  not going to be possible for you to get backย ย 
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๊ฑฐ์˜ ๊ฐ™์€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์— ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•จ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
08:31
from one to attend the other. So I hate to sayย  no, but I'm afraid I have to on this occasion,ย ย 
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ํ•œ ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ณณ์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ์•„๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ถˆ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜๊ธฐ๋Š” ์‹ซ์ง€๋งŒ ์ด๋ฒˆ ๊ธฐํšŒ์— ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
08:37
perhaps the next time or keep me in mind forย  the next time. Okay, so I hate to say no, but...
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋ฒˆ์ด๋‚˜ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋ฒˆ์— ์ €๋ฅผ ์—ผ๋‘์— ๋‘์–ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š” . ์ข‹์•„์š”, ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์‹ซ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ๋Š” ์‹ซ์ง€๋งŒ...
08:44
Or we can say I'd hate to miss this reunion, butย  I'm afraid I'm going to have to. I'd hate to miss.ย ย 
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์ด ๋™์ฐฝํšŒ๋ฅผ ๋†“์น˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋†“์น˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค.
08:51
It has been such a long time since the guys gotย  together. Remember, all the good times we had. Andย ย 
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์ •๋ง ์˜ค๋žœ๋งŒ์ด๋‹ค . ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์กŒ๋˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ์ข‹์€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
08:57
we always promised that we get together again. Butย  you know the way life is? Everything gets on top.ย ย 
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งŒ๋‚  ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•ฝ์†ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ถ์ด ์–ด๋–ค์ง€ ์•„์„ธ์š”? ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ •์ƒ์— ๋„๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:02
Family work, whatever it might be. So I'd hateย  to miss it, but I'm afraid I'm going to have to.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์ผ. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋†“์น˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:09
So nice ways, nice polite ways, which is reallyย  important as how you can say no. So I'd love toย ย 
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์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•, ์ข‹์€ ์˜ˆ์˜ ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•, ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๋งŒํผ ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
09:17
go but... I'm sorry, I can't make it because...ย  I hate to say no, but I'm afraid I'm going toย ย 
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๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ... ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์–ด์„œ... ์‹ซ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ
09:25
have to in this occasion. I'd hate to miss it,ย  but, you know, what can I do? Okay, so these areย ย 
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์ด ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—๋Š” ๊ฐ€์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋†“์น˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ์ž, ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฑฐ์ ˆ
09:32
different ways in which you can say no. Now, ofย  course you can just simply say, No thanks. Yeah,ย ย 
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ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌผ๋ก  ์•„๋‹ˆ์š”๋ผ๊ณ  ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ,
09:37
or I don't want to. Or it's not for me, I'm notย  a party guy. You know, so you can use those sortsย ย 
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์›ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜๋Š” ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๊ด‘์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ข…๋ฅ˜
09:46
of excuses. But people get a little brownedย  off, annoyed when somebody constantly says no,ย ย 
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์˜ ๋ณ€๋ช…์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€
09:51
no thanks because they feel you've lost interest.ย  So you just have to be sometimes a little carefulย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ์žƒ์—ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ณ„์† ๊ฑฐ์ ˆ, ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜๋ฉด ์งœ์ฆ์„ ๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ
09:57
with people's feelings and use expressionsย  that won't offend or won't upset anybody.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์— ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ด๊ณ  ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์„ ์ƒํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ™”๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:03
Okay, now, the neutral responses. This is whereย  you're neither saying yes or no, but you're justย ย 
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์ž, ์ด์ œ ์ค‘๋ฆฝ์ ์ธ ๋‹ต๋ณ€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์˜ˆ ๋˜๋Š” ์•„๋‹ˆ์˜ค๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ณณ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹จ์ง€
10:10
sort of getting people ready for the fact thatย  there might be or you might have to refuse becauseย ย 
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10:16
there is a clash of dates or something. So if weย  want to be neutral, we can use expressions like,ย ย 
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๋‚ ์งœ์˜ ์ถฉ๋Œ์ด๋‚˜ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ์ค€๋น„์‹œํ‚ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ค‘๋ฆฝ์„ ์ง€ํ‚ค๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:23
I'll do my best, but I can't promise, okay.ย  Or I'll do my best, but I can't make promises,ย ย 
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์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•˜๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ ์•ฝ์†ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜๋Š” ์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•˜๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ ์•ฝ์†์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ์ง€ํ‚ฌ
10:30
or I don't want to make promises that I cannotย  keep. So when we say, I'll do my best that means,ย ย 
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์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ์•ฝ์†์€ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•˜๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€
10:35
yeah, look, I'll try a see, can I clear myย  diary and see if I can move things around a bit,ย ย 
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๋„ค, ๋ณด์„ธ์š”, ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๋ณผ๊ฒŒ์š”, ์ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋น„์šฐ๊ณ  ์ผ์„ ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์˜ฎ๊ธธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ณผ๊นŒ์š”?
10:41
whatever you have to do. So I'll do my bestย  to be there, but I can't make any promises,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•ด ์ฐธ์„ํ•˜๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ ์•ฝ์†ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:47
or I can't promise that I will.ย  And perhaps you will let them know,ย ย 
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์•ฝ์†ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ
10:51
a few days before or week before, eitherย  yes, you're going to go or perhaps no,ย ย 
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๋ฉฐ์น  ์ „์ด๋‚˜ ์ผ์ฃผ์ผ ์ „์— ์˜ˆ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฐˆ ๊ฒƒ์ธ์ง€ ์•„๋‹Œ์ง€,
10:56
not this particular time. Okay. So I willย  do my best, but I can't make any promises.
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์ด ํŠน์ •ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๊ฐˆ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์•Œ๋ฆด ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•˜๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ธฐ์•ฝํ•  ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:03
Or you might just ask somebody. When is thatย  again? So you want some clarification becauseย ย 
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋˜ ์–ธ์ œ์•ผ? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€
11:07
you're really, really trying to find out can youย  actually make it. Or you're really trying hopingย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์ •๋ง๋กœ, ์ •๋ง๋กœ ์•Œ์•„๋‚ด๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ์„ค๋ช…์„ ์›ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋˜๋Š”
11:13
that the date will clash with another date,ย  so you will have a genuine excuse for sayingย ย 
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๋‚ ์งœ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‚ ์งœ์™€ ์ถฉ๋Œํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์ •๋ง๋กœ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ๋ณ€๋ช…์ด ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:18
no. So when is it again? What date is it again?ย  So you're asking particular dates just for someย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋˜ ์–ธ์ œ์•ผ? ๋˜ ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋‚ ์งœ์•ผ? ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์„ค๋ช…์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ํŠน์ • ๋‚ ์งœ๋ฅผ ์š”๊ตฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:25
clarification that gives you time to think givesย  you time to organise an excuse if you need one,ย ย 
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ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ๋ณ€๋ช…์„ ์ •๋ฆฌํ•  ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:30
perhaps. And those words... polite, Whenย  is it again? What date is it again, okay.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ๋ง์€... ๊ณต์†ํ•ด, ๋˜ ์–ธ์ œ์•ผ? ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋‚ ์งœ์•ผ, ์•Œ์•˜์–ด.
11:36
Or if somebody your friends are organisingย  a get-together football game, that hikingย ย 
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๋˜๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์ถ•๊ตฌ ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ ๋ชจ์ž„์„ ์ฃผ์ตœํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ•˜์ดํ‚น์„ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
11:41
that weekend trip away, whatever it mightย  be, or even if it's just a simple dinnerย ย 
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์ฃผ๋ง ์—ฌํ–‰์„ ๊ฐ€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ์ƒ๊ด€์—†์ด ํ•จ๊ป˜
11:46
for six or eight guys who used to workย  together used to play football together,ย ย 
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์ผํ–ˆ๋˜ 6~8๋ช…์˜ ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ถ•๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณค ํ–ˆ๋˜ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ์ €๋… ์‹์‚ฌ์ผ์ง€๋ผ๋„
11:50
whatever it is. You might ask the question, doesย  it have to be that particular day because I'm notย ย 
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“ . ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ •๋ง ํ•œ๊ฐ€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ทธ ํŠน์ •ํ•œ ๋‚ ์ด์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
11:55
really free around then it could have be the nextย  week or couple of days later or a couple of daysย ย 
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ๋‚˜ ๋ฉฐ์น  ํ›„ ๋˜๋Š” ๋ฉฐ์น 
12:00
earlier? So you're trying to find to see, isย  there a possibility that they can reorganiseย ย 
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์ „์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์žฌ๊ตฌ์„ฑํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ์•„๋ณด๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:05
it because yeah, probably you'd enjoy it if youย  went there. So you're just looking for excuses,ย ย 
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ์˜ˆ, ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ ๊ฐ€๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ฆ๊ธธ ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋‚ ์งœ๋ฅผ ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ• 
12:11
or reasons and options where you can possiblyย  change the date. So you could say something like,ย ย 
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์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ณ€๋ช… ๋˜๋Š” ์ด์œ ์™€ ์˜ต์…˜์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:16
does it have to be that day, becauseย  I'm not free then and I'm going to beย ย 
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๊ทธ ๋‚ ์ด์–ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋‚˜์š”, ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋•Œ๋Š” ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์—†๊ณ 
12:20
away for a few days. But if it was theย  next week, yep, you can count me in.
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๋ฉฐ์น  ๋™์•ˆ ์ž๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋น„์šธ ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ๋ผ๋ฉด, ๋„ค, ์ €๋ฅผ ํฌํ•จํ•˜์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:24
And then finally, if one of these sorts of holdย  or type of situations, I'll see what I can do,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ, ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ๋ณด๋ฅ˜ ๋˜๋Š” ์œ ํ˜•์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์„ ์•Œ์•„๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:31
leave it with me. So yeah, I've gotย  the invitation, got the invite. Here,ย ย 
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์ €์—๊ฒŒ ๋งก๊ธฐ์„ธ์š”. ๋„ค, ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—
12:35
I've got the details, I really would likeย  to go. So leave it with me. And I'll comeย ย 
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์„ธ๋ถ€ ์ •๋ณด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ •๋ง ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ๋งก๊ธฐ์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์™€
12:40
back to you in a couple of days and let youย  know whether I can or can't. Now that mightย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜์—†๋Š” ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜์—†๋Š” ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜์—†๋Š” ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ด์ œ
12:45
be your perfect opportunity to go home andย  ask your partner. Do you mind if I go awayย ย 
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์ง‘์— ๊ฐ€์„œ ํŒŒํŠธ๋„ˆ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์™„๋ฒฝํ•œ ๊ธฐํšŒ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:50
for this weekend? Do you mind if I go to thisย  dinner? Do you mind ever go here because he orย ย 
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์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋– ๋‚˜๋„ ๋ ๊นŒ์š”? ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ด ์ €๋… ์‹์‚ฌ์— ๊ฐ€๋„ ๋ ๊นŒ์š” ? ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค ์—†์ด
12:55
she may not like the fact that you're going to goย  without them. So you need just to test the waterย ย 
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๊ฐˆ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ๊ทธ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๊ฐ€๋„ ๋ ๊นŒ์š”? ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ฌผ์„ ํ…Œ์ŠคํŠธ
13:01
and see what the attitude at home will be. So aย  good way to sort of make a neutral response is,ย ย 
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ง‘์—์„œ ์–ด๋–ค ํƒœ๋„๋ฅผ ๋ณด์ผ์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๊ธฐ๋งŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ค‘๋ฆฝ์ ์ธ ๋‹ต๋ณ€์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€
13:07
I'll see what I can do. Again, not makingย  any promises, but I'll see what I can do.
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์„ ์•Œ์•„๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ์ง€๋งŒ ์•„๋ฌด๋Ÿฐ ์•ฝ์†๋„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์„ ๋ณด๋„๋ก ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:13
Okay, so there's some neutral ways inย  which you can respond or reply to thatย ย 
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์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ดˆ๋Œ€์— ์‘๋‹ตํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํšŒ์‹ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ค‘๋ฆฝ์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
13:19
all-important invitation. I'll do myย  best, but I can't make any promises.ย ย 
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. ์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์•ฝ์†ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:24
When is it again? Does it have to be that day?ย  I'll see what I can do, I'll see what I can do.
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๋˜ ์–ธ์ œ์ธ๊ฐ€์š”? ๊ผญ ๊ทธ๋‚ ์ด์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€, ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค.
13:32
Okay, so good ways for you to respond positively,ย  negatively or in a neutral fashion. When you getย ย 
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์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ธ์ •์ ์œผ๋กœ, ๋ถ€์ •์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋˜๋Š” ์ค‘๋ฆฝ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์‘๋‹ตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:39
those invitations for the wedding, forย  the birthday, for the football match,ย ย 
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๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹, ์ƒ์ผ, ์ถ•๊ตฌ ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ,
13:44
for the office or school reunion, whateverย  it might be, the ways in which you can reply,ย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋ฌด์‹ค ๋˜๋Š” ๋™์ฐฝํšŒ ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜์„ ๋•Œ ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ๋‹ต์žฅํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€
13:49
okay. And as I always tell you, the best way toย  use them is to practice them. If you need anyย ย 
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ œ๊ฐ€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:54
more details, any more help, than just contactย  me at www.englishlessonviaskype.com I'll giveย ย 
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๋” ์ž์„ธํ•œ ์ •๋ณด๋‚˜ ๋„์›€์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด www.englishlessonviaskype.com์œผ๋กœ ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ์—ฐ๋ฝํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๋„์›€์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์˜ˆ์‹œ์™€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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you some more examples, more situations when youย  can use them. Okay, Harry saying goodbye. Thanksย ย 
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. ์ข‹์•„, ํ•ด๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ž‘๋ณ„์ธ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด. ์‹œ์ฒญ ํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
14:07
for watching. Thanks for listening. As always,ย  don't forget to join me for the next lesson.
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. ๋“ฃ๊ธฐ ์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ธ์ œ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋“ฏ์ด ๋‹ค์Œ ์ˆ˜์—…์— ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์žŠ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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