HELP - Basic Verbs - Learn English Grammar

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Hi, everybody. My name is Alisha.
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Welcome back to Know Your Verbs.
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In this lesson, we're going to talk about the verb, “help.”
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The basic definition of the verb, “help” is to assist or to aid.
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Let's look at the conjugations of this verb.
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Present tense, “help,” “helps.”
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Past tense, “helped.”
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Past participle tense, “helped.”
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Progressive tense, “helping.”
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Now, let's talk about some additional meanings of this verb.
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The first additional meaning, to make something nicer or to make something more pleasant,
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to make an experience better somehow.
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Examples of this.
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“Ah, that massage really helped my back ache.”
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Another example, “I think it'll help if you restart your computer.”
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In each of these sentences, we used the verb, “help” to show that something, some situation
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or some behavior caused another situation to become better or improved, more pleasant.
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In the first example, a massage improved my back, so it really helped my back ache means
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my back ache became more bearable, it's not so bad now.
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In the second example sentence, the speaker thinks that maybe restarting the computer
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will improve the computer's performance, will make the performance better so we use “help”
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in this way.
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The second meaning is to avoid something.
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Let's look at some examples.
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“I'm sorry you fell down.
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I can't help laughing.”
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“I can't help laughing,” means I can't avoid laughing, it's just not possible.
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I can't avoid laughing, it just comes out.
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“I can't help laughing.”
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Another example, “I can't help wondering what's the company going to do next.”
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I can't avoid wondering, I can't to stop myself from wondering what is the company going to
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do next.
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The third meaning of this verb is to serve, as in to serve food or drink.
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Let's first look at some examples of this and then we'll explain.
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“Please help yourself to anything you'd like.”
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“Guests may help themselves at the buffet.”
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With this meaning of “help,” it means to serve.
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We often use, “Guests may serve themselves,” guests may help themselves, we use help themselves,
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as in assist yourself in getting food or aid yourself in getting food.
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In other words, some one else is not going to do it for you so please help yourself,
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guests may help themselves to food.
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It means serve yourself.
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It's typically used in that way.
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“Help yourself.”
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Guests may serve themselves.
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Alright, the fourth meaning for this lesson is to take but without permission.
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So, taking something without permission.
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Let's look at the examples first.
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“I'll just help myself to this jar of cookies.”
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“She helped herself to all the money in her mother's wallet.”
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Here, we kind of see it as we're assisting ourselves or were aiding ourselves as opposed
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as in the previous example with food and drink.
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However, in this case, it means to do those things without permission.
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When using it to refer to like serving food or drink, there's permission to do that, “Help
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yourself,” that's permission to take food and to take a drink.
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With this meaning of “help,” however, it means there's no permission so it's often
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used with a reflexive pronoun.
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“She helped herself,” “He helped himself to something.”
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This is a small grammar point here actually.
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The subject of the sentence and the receiver of the effect of the action are the same person.
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So, “She helped herself,” so “helped” is used reflexively here.
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“She,” the subject of the sentence, the person doing the action is also the receiver
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of the action.
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“She helped herself to the money in her mother's wallet.”
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You'll also see, “She helped herself to,” “to” is used before the noun phrase here.
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“She helped herself to the money in her mother's wallet,” or, “all the money in
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her mother's wallet.”
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In the first example sentence, “I'll just help myself to this jar of cookies.”
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We used “to” before the noun or the noun phrase that we are taking or using without
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permission.
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Let's continue on to some variations of the verb, “help.”
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The first one is “so help me,” or “so help me God” is often used.
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“So help me God.”
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We use this expression to mean believe it or not, I'll do something or something is
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going to happen.
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Some examples of this, “So help me God, I am gonna get that job.”
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So, believe it or not, I am gonna get that job.
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Like, with everything in my power, whether you believe me or not, I'm going to get that
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job.
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It's a confident expression.
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Another one, “I am gonna open my own restaurant, so help me God.”
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Whether you believe or not, this is my plan, I'm going to do this.
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This is my intention.
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We started talking about the next variation a little bit.
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When I said, the word, “help” can be used to mean avoid, I said, “I can't help laughing,”
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“I can't help wondering.”
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There's a variation of this one which is “can't help but,” “can't help but, verb.”
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We use “can't help but” to also mean avoid.
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“Can't help but” means cannot avoid or cannot refrain from, cannot stop from doing
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something.
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Examples of this.
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“I can't help but cry when I see this movie.”
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“He can't help but dance when he hears that song.”
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In these example sentences, it's not possible not to do that action.
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It's not possible not to verb.
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“I can't help but cry,” means I can't avoid crying, in other words.
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We can use the pattern introduced earlier in this episode, “I can't help crying when
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I watch this movie.”
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Both are fine to use, just note the grammar is a little different.
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“I can't help but cry,” or, “I can't help crying.”
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In another example sentence, “He can't help but dance,” “He can't help dancing.”
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The grammar changes a little bit but the basic meaning remains the same.
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Actually, both of these sentences are correct and they maintain the same meaning so it's
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up to you to decide which you want to use.
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Alright.
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I hope that helps you understand the word, “help” a little more.
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If there are any other variations or any other meanings you know of, please feel free to
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let us know in the comments, along with any example sentences or any questions you might
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have.
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Thanks very much for watching this episode of Know Your Verbs and I'll see you again
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soon. Bye.
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