Advanced Fluency Secret for Speaking Better English

okay today we have a long text about fluency and  the topic is your English will sound better with  

this what is this that's the topic of the lesson  we'll see now we're going to go through the text  

nice and slow at first and then we will do  shadowing later all right if you want to  

improve your English if you're looking to  up your English game if you're looking to  

if you're seeking to improve up your game improve  your game raise your level focus on this one  

important aspect an aspect what's an aspect it's a  particular part focus on this one particular part  

this one important aspect confidence confidence  my friend you got to have confidence rather than  

diving into technical skills grammar rules or

pronunciation so rather than diving  into working on focusing exploring  

your technical skills working on your grammar  rules or diving into your pronunciation rather  

than a I want to highlight how crucial  it is to sound confident when speaking

rather than a B I want to highlight how crucial  it is to sound confident when speaking English  

easier said than done right that's what you're  thinking when someone speaks with confidence they  

not only sound more advanced but also convey  a sense of fluency not only but also they not  

only sound more advanced but also convey convey  is to communicate communicate a sense a feeling  

of fluency it's not maybe it's not true fluency  but they convey a sense of fluency that's not the  

same as truly fluent they may they trick you into  thinking they are fluent all right that's the main  

topic of today's discussion the significance of  portraying confidence portraying is is presenting  

or acting like you are confident the significance  of portraying confidence while communicating in

English it's about more than just putting on a  brave face putting on a brave face is displaying  

bravery it's more than that it's essential to gen  genuinely feel that confidence truly feel that  

confidence I know I know easier said than done  easier said than done so while you can pretend to  

be confident to a degree to a degree to a certain  extent up to a certain point you can pretend to  

be confident to a degree the real Improvement in  your English comes comes from truly believing in

yourself even if your grammar and mechanics aren't

perfect by the end of this video I hope  you feel motivated to express yourself  

in a more liberated manner  set yourself free liberate

yourself free from restrictions  and the fear of making

mistakes embracing confidence in your speech  will undoubtedly enhance how you come across  

when speaking English let's look at that embracing  welcoming and including confidence in your speech  

will undoubtedly certainly without doubt enhance  boost strengthen how you come across how you  

appear your impression when speaking English  so why is confidence so vital when speaking  

English vital essential why is it so vital  why is it essential when someone is unsure of  

themselves uncertain if they lack confidence they  are sure of themselves their mistakes become more

noticeable you pick up on their errors  you pick up on means you become aware  

of you notice their errors mannerisms and  even the way they use their voice and Body

Language things like filler words um um  uh and um they stand out more in a lack of

confidence generally when someone isn't confident  their discomfort shows it's visible it's apparent  

it shows whether they try to mask it or not  whether they try to hide it or conceal it  

mask it or or not it shows their discomfort will  show you can often spot subtle signs which can  

turn your attention away from their message and  instead highlight how they're behaving you start  

to think about how they're behaving instead  of listening to their message think back to  

the classroom setting where a student has to  give a speech but appears visibly nervous and

unsure if they aren't familiar with  their topic their nerves might cause  

them to shake their voice to  tremble or even their face to

flush this extreme example underscores  how we notice signs of insecurity  

rather than the content of their speech so rather  

than paying attention to the content of  the speech we start to notice signs of

insecurity a similar but less intense scenario  happens when someone speaks a foreign language  

with uncertainty so when you speak English  with uncertainty a very similar scenario

happens their unease is palpable diverting your  focus to their communication issues palpable  

what's palpable it means it's so intense that  it almost feels like you could touch it it's  

palpable almost feels like you could touch it  their unease their you know their mistakes are  

diverting well not mistakes their their  lack of confidence that's what I should  

say their unease is palpable diverting  your focus to their communication issues  

moreover a lack of confidence can  weaken the persuasiveness of their

message if I confidently express my  beliefs to you you're more likely to be  

sway than if I share my thoughts

hesitantly a confident  delivery makes for a stronger

message also encountering uncertainty  in conversation can create

awkwardness and we naturally prefer  to avoid uncomfortable exchanges  

you know exactly what I mean don't you  yeah you do confidence can transform the  

dynamic of a conversation when  someone speaks with Assurance  

the atmosphere becomes more pleasant  devoid of nervous tension or awkward

pauses people tend to feel more  positively about a confident speaker

allowing them to concentrate on the topic rather  than fixate on linguistic errors or grammar

mistakes so if you're confident that  allows other people to concentrate on  

the topic of the conversation rather than  look at you and make judgments about your  

errors or your grammar mistakes from my  experience teaching thousands of students  

I've observed that when a student  exudes confidence it transforms our

interaction even if they make numerous  mistakes I barely register them it's  

as if I'm solely focused on  their ideas and the topic at

hand this Rel relaxed State makes our conversation  more enjoyable allowing me to connect with them  

on a genuine level so when you're confident  your mistakes can seem insignificant and it  

feels like you're navigating the conversation  with ease even when plenty of Errors Maybe

present overall it's clear that confidence plays  a pivotal role in your conversations especially  

when you're speaking English or any foreign  language over the years I've witnessed this  

countless times many students have made numerous  mistakes during a class but their confident  

makes it seem as though they have  a solid command of the language in  

essence the importance of confidence in your  speech far outweighs the frequency of your

mistakes and that's the topic of today all right  I said it nice and slow I didn't give you time to  

repeat or anything well sometimes I did now I just  just want to do that entire speech that entire  

text again nonstop and now you can try to say it  with me read along with me um let's enunciate and  

try to be clear all right here we go if you want  to improve your English if you're looking to up  

your English game focus on this one important  aspect confidence rather than diving into  

technical skills grammar rules or pronunciation  I want to highlight how crucial it is to sound  

confident when speaking when someone speaks with  confidence they not only sound more advanced but  

also convey a sense of fluency that's the main  topic of today's discussion the significance of  

portraying confidence while communicating in  English it's about more than just putting on  

a brave face it's essential to genuinely feel  that confidence while you can pretend to be  

confident to a degree the real Improvement in your  English comes from truly believing in yourself  

even if your grammar and mechanics aren't perfect  by the end of this video I hope you feel motivated  

to express yourself in a more liberated manner  free from restrictions and the fear of making  

mistakes embracing confidence in your speech  will undoubtedly enhance how you come across when  

speaking English so why is confidence so  vital when speaking English when someone  

is unsure of themselves their mistakes  become more noticeable you pick up on  

their aors mannerisms and even the  way they use their voice and Body  

Language things like filler words uh and  um stand out more in a lack of confidence

generally when someone isn't confident their  discomfort shows whether they try to mask it  

or not you can often spot subtle signs which can  turn your attention away from their message and  

instead highlight how they're behaving think  back to the classroom setting where a student  

has to give a speech but appears visibly nervous  and unsure if they aren't familiar with their  

topic their nerves might cause them to shake their  voice to tremble or even their face to flush this  

extreme example underscores how we notice signs of  insecurity rather than the content of their speech

a similar but less intense scenario happens  when someone speaks a foreign language with  

uncertainty their unease is palpable diverting  your focus to their communication issues  

moreover a lack of confidence can weaken  the per persuasiveness of their message

if I confidently express my beliefs to you you're  more likely to be swayed than if I share than  

if I share my thoughts hesitantly sorry about  that a confident delivery makes for a stronger  

message also encountering uncertainty  in conversation can create awkwardness  

and we naturally prefer to avoid uncomfortable  exchanges you know exactly what I mean confidence  

can transform the dynamic of a conversation when  someone speaks with Assurance the atmosphere  

becomes more pleasant devoid of nervous tension or  awkward pauses people tend to feel more positively  

about a confident speaker allowing them to  concentrate on the topic rather than fixate  

on linguistic errors or grammar mistakes from my  experience teaching thousands of students I've  

observed that when a student exudes confidence  it transforms our interaction even if they make  

numerous mistakes I barely register them it's as  if I'm solely focused on their ideas and the topic  

at hand this relaxed State makes our conversation  more enjoyable allowing me to connect with them  

on a genuine level so when you're confident your  mistakes can seem insignificant and it feels like  

you're navigating the conversation with ease even  when plenty of Errors may be present overall it's  

clear that confidence plays a pivotal role  in your conversations especially when you're  

speaking English or any foreign language over  the years I've witnessed this countless times  

many students have made numerous mistakes during a  class but their confidence makes it seem as though  

they have a solid command of the language in  essence the importance of confidence in your  

speech far outweighs the frequency of your  mistakes boom we did it good workout you're  

probably exhausted I'm exhausted I tried not  to make any mistakes but it's difficult but I  

tried to exude confidence in my speech hopefully  it'll help you in your attempt to exude confidence  

in your speech all right one step at a time  we'll get there I'll see you in the next step