Are my parents doing the right thing? | Havisha Rathore

You, you are the only one who can do something for yourself.

Let me tell you; I am not the brightest bulb in the box.

When I can do it, I am sure anybody can do it. You can also do it.

Don't cramp your kids' style. Don't clip their wings.

Hello, my brothers and sisters, First and  foremost, I want to thank you for your incredible  

support and love. This is my first video this  year as a thank you to all of you who watch my  

videos on this YouTube channel. I have had an  enjoyable year making English learning videos  

for you. I enjoyed it a lot while delivering  the lessons to you. But above all, I just want  

to thank you for watching English Boosting  Power. I express my heartfelt gratitude and  

thank my lucky stars that we started this YouTube  channel, English Boosting Power. In this journey,  

in this process, I learned a lot and shared it  with you as well. Sharing knowledge helps both of  

us. You won't lose anything if you share, and you  won't gain anything by keeping it with you. So,  

please share your knowledge. One of the best  features of this channel is that we are just  

trying to make you understand through  video clips, conversations, and pictures.  

Trust me, once an image is imprinted in your mind,  whenever you speak or act, that picture will flash  

in your mind. That’s what my parents taught  me to follow and I am learning a lot through  

this method. It’s really useful. A picture is  worth a thousand words. A picture can give as  

much information as a large amount of descriptive  text. There is a beautiful metaphor, " A mind map  

or a mental picture." This metaphor is not just  to make an idea impactful but is indeed a very  

powerful tool to learn the English language or to  understand any other subject. In every video on  

this channel, we are trying to associate you with  a picture or story so that the subject matter will  

remain in your memory for a longer time. Let  that be English phrases, verbs, conversations,  

or any part of English grammar. And I am sure you  can speak English effectively. Our aim is to give  

you the best to make you the best. I am learning  this language, and I can understand that learning  

a language is not easy, and I have a lot of  respect for the people who take on that challenge.  

Many of you appreciated my parents,

but some of you mentioned that my parents did not do  any good to me by exposing me to this language  

called English. But let me tell you, I gained many  things in this process for which many people pay a  

considerable amount to various coaching institutes  like public speaking, developing confidence,  

and many more. As far as I am concerned,  my parents did good and are doing well.  

I am learning a lot and getting a lot of  experience in this process. I am indebted to  

them and grateful for this kind of exposure. I am  enjoying it. I love it. Let me tell you; I am not  

the brightest bulb in the box. When I can do it,  I am sure anybody can do it. You can also do it.  

If I talk about kids, I don't think anybody would  want their kids to lag other kids. Everybody wants  

their kids to be as competent as other kids.  They always wish their kids' flesh should not  

crawl when it comes to public speaking or communication skills. Nobody wants  

their kids to have their hearts in their mouths.  So, my dear friends, my brothers and sisters,  

this is the time for you to work on yourself,  and work on your kids. Don't cramp your kids'  

style. Don't clip their wings. Let them do what  they want to do. Let them learn what they want to  

learn. I think I should end this video here.  Please make a new year's resolution and work  

on yourself. Your relatives, your friends, your  neighbours, I’ll tell you, nobody can do for you.  

You, you are the only one who can do something for  yourself. You don't have any option. You have to  

do it If you really want some change in yourself.  How long will you procrastinate it? And you know  

what I have learned from my parents is when it  comes to self-improvement, you need to watch  

your step. When we talk about others, we can have  some tolerance. But when it comes to you, you need  

to have zero tolerance for yourself. Be lenient on  others, but don't be lenient on yourself. Anyways  

to wrap up, I will keep trying to make suitable  English-speaking lessons for you. So, work on  

yourself and have a great year ahead. Happy New  Year! If you gained something from this video,  

then don't forget to like, share and subscribe to  this channel. Bye-bye! See you in the next video.