Advanced English Phrases 5 - Love, Romance, Dating and Relationships - Speak English Naturally

well hello and welcome to the

well hello and welcome to the fluency corner lesson for this

fluency corner lesson for this

fluency corner lesson for this month i am especially excited

month i am especially excited

month i am especially excited and I was really excited about

and I was really excited about

and I was really excited about this one

this one

this one while we're doing the filming

while we're doing the filming

while we're doing the filming for this lesson because there

for this lesson because there

for this lesson because there were so many great phrases and

were so many great phrases and

were so many great phrases and words and expressions that came

words and expressions that came

words and expressions that came up all about love and dating and

up all about love and dating and

up all about love and dating and romance and relationships that

romance and relationships that

romance and relationships that people have with each other and

people have with each other and

people have with each other and in this lesson what I'd like to

in this lesson what I'd like to

in this lesson what I'd like to do is go over some of the good

do is go over some of the good

do is go over some of the good some of the bad and some of the

some of the bad and some of the

some of the bad and some of the ugly when it comes to

ugly when it comes to

ugly when it comes to relationships

relationships

relationships so we'll go over lots of phrases

so we'll go over lots of phrases

so we'll go over lots of phrases and words and expressions that

and words and expressions that

and words and expressions that you can use in not only your you

you can use in not only your you

you can use in not only your you know romantic relationships but

know romantic relationships but

know romantic relationships but also friendships and

also friendships and

also friendships and professional relationships as

professional relationships as

professional relationships as well let's get started first

well let's get started first

well let's get started first very quickly we'll just give a

very quickly we'll just give a

very quickly we'll just give a few things a few expressions

few things a few expressions

few things a few expressions that you can use when you're

that you can use when you're

that you can use when you're talking about someone that you

talking about someone that you

talking about someone that you love someone that you love you

love someone that you love you

love someone that you love you can call this person your

can call this person your

can call this person your special someone

special someone

special someone your special someone and you'll

your special someone and you'll

your special someone and you'll often hear people on the radio

often hear people on the radio

often hear people on the radio or TV shows or friends when they

or TV shows or friends when they

or TV shows or friends when they are meeting each other and say

are meeting each other and say

are meeting each other and say have you met that special

have you met that special

have you met that special someone yet have you met that

someone yet have you met that

someone yet have you met that special someone yet so have you

special someone yet so have you

special someone yet so have you met someone that you really love

met someone that you really love

met someone that you really love you know a a a great partner for

you know a a a great partner for

you know a a a great partner for you that kind of thing like a

you that kind of thing like a

you that kind of thing like a boyfriend or girlfriend

boyfriend or girlfriend

boyfriend or girlfriend something like that or people

something like that or people

something like that or people that are you know they're kind

that are you know they're kind

that are you know they're kind of sad you know especially in

of sad you know especially in

of sad you know especially in movies and they're saying well I

movies and they're saying well I

movies and they're saying well I haven't met that special someone

haven't met that special someone

haven't met that special someone yet I haven't met that special

yet I haven't met that special

yet I haven't met that special someone yet

someone yet

someone yet so if that's the case we're just

so if that's the case we're just

so if that's the case we're just talking about the person that

talking about the person that

talking about the person that you care about a special someone

you care about a special someone

you care about a special someone that special someone

that special someone

that special someone you can also talk about someone

you can also talk about someone

you can also talk about someone being a soul mate soul mate a

being a soul mate soul mate a

being a soul mate soul mate a soul mate is again it's the same

soul mate is again it's the same

soul mate is again it's the same kind of thing you know some

kind of thing you know some

kind of thing you know some people believe we are put on

people believe we are put on

people believe we are put on this planet and there are

this planet and there are

this planet and there are billions of people but there is

billions of people but there is

billions of people but there is that one special someone

that one special someone

that one special someone that's soul mate for you so that

that's soul mate for you so that

that's soul mate for you so that one person that connects with

one person that connects with

one person that connects with your soul and you have a very

your soul and you have a very

your soul and you have a very great relationship with them a

great relationship with them a

great relationship with them a soul mate a soul mate and in

soul mate a soul mate and in

soul mate a soul mate and in addition to that special someone

addition to that special someone

addition to that special someone or soul mate you can also talk

or soul mate you can also talk

or soul mate you can also talk about finding the one for you or

about finding the one for you or

about finding the one for you or the right person so that special

the right person so that special

the right person so that special someone

someone

someone or that

or that

or that right person it's again we're

right person it's again we're

right person it's again we're just talking about

just talking about

just talking about I want to find someone that

I want to find someone that

I want to find someone that loves me and that i love that

loves me and that i love that

loves me and that i love that person but when we talk about it

person but when we talk about it

person but when we talk about it it's kind of more like a poetic

it's kind of more like a poetic

it's kind of more like a poetic way we're trying to sound a bit

way we're trying to sound a bit

way we're trying to sound a bit more elegant in natural and a

more elegant in natural and a

more elegant in natural and a little bit more

little bit more

little bit more I don't know maybe romantic

I don't know maybe romantic

I don't know maybe romantic about it so we talk about

about it so we talk about

about it so we talk about soulmates that right

soulmates that right

soulmates that right someone that special someone

someone that special someone

someone that special someone that right person for me

that right person for me

that right person for me i I just haven't found that that

i I just haven't found that that

i I just haven't found that that right person for me

right person for me

right person for me Oh No can you help me that right

Oh No can you help me that right

Oh No can you help me that right person for me

person for me

person for me soulmate that special someone

soulmate that special someone

soulmate that special someone and a really great phrase when

and a really great phrase when

and a really great phrase when you're talking about being away

you're talking about being away

you're talking about being away from someone and you miss them

from someone and you miss them

from someone and you miss them this is a really great

this is a really great

this is a really great expression

expression

expression absence makes the heart grow

absence makes the heart grow

absence makes the heart grow fonder

fonder

fonder absence makes the heart grow

absence makes the heart grow

absence makes the heart grow fonder now this is a full

fonder now this is a full

fonder now this is a full expression we use it as a full

expression we use it as a full

expression we use it as a full expression we don't shorten this

expression we don't shorten this

expression we don't shorten this in a conversation we can just

in a conversation we can just

in a conversation we can just say absence makes the heart grow

say absence makes the heart grow

say absence makes the heart grow fonder

fonder

fonder absence makes the heart grow

absence makes the heart grow

absence makes the heart grow fonder now let's break this down

fonder now let's break this down

fonder now let's break this down into pieces

into pieces

into pieces so absence it just means when

so absence it just means when

so absence it just means when you're not with someone to be

you're not with someone to be

you're not with someone to be absent is to be not there so

absent is to be not there so

absent is to be not there so absence is like the noun form of

absence is like the noun form of

absence is like the noun form of this so absence makes the heart

this so absence makes the heart

this so absence makes the heart my heart grow fonder

my heart grow fonder

my heart grow fonder now fund is more kind of elegant

now fund is more kind of elegant

now fund is more kind of elegant or elevated or advanced way of

or elevated or advanced way of

or elevated or advanced way of saying that you like someone so

saying that you like someone so

saying that you like someone so maybe many many years ago you

maybe many many years ago you

maybe many many years ago you wouldn't just say oh I like that

wouldn't just say oh I like that

wouldn't just say oh I like that girl over there you would say

girl over there you would say

girl over there you would say I'm very fond of her

I'm very fond of her

I'm very fond of her it's usually not an expression

it's usually not an expression

it's usually not an expression or a word that you would hear so

or a word that you would hear so

or a word that you would hear so much but in this expression

much but in this expression

much but in this expression everyone understands it absence

everyone understands it absence

everyone understands it absence makes the heart grow fonder

makes the heart grow fonder

makes the heart grow fonder so what that means is that if

so what that means is that if

so what that means is that if I'm away from my girlfriend or

I'm away from my girlfriend or

I'm away from my girlfriend or my wife or whoever or you are

my wife or whoever or you are

my wife or whoever or you are away from you know whoever your

away from you know whoever your

away from you know whoever your special someone is absence makes

special someone is absence makes

special someone is absence makes the heart grow fonder

the heart grow fonder

the heart grow fonder it means you miss them more and

it means you miss them more and

it means you miss them more and more as you're away from them

more as you're away from them

more as you're away from them you know either physically away

you know either physically away

you know either physically away from them you know over a long

from them you know over a long

from them you know over a long distance or it's been a long

distance or it's been a long

distance or it's been a long time since you've seen them

time since you've seen them

time since you've seen them absence makes the heart grow

absence makes the heart grow

absence makes the heart grow fonder absence makes the heart

fonder absence makes the heart

fonder absence makes the heart grow fonder

grow fonder

grow fonder all right now we're going to get

all right now we're going to get

all right now we're going to get into some of the juicier more

into some of the juicier more

into some of the juicier more interesting stuff because as you

interesting stuff because as you

interesting stuff because as you probably know already

probably know already

probably know already most of the time if you're

most of the time if you're

most of the time if you're having a good time in your

having a good time in your

having a good time in your relationship if everything is

relationship if everything is

relationship if everything is going along well it's not that

going along well it's not that

going along well it's not that interesting to talk about

interesting to talk about

interesting to talk about oh how is your wife and how is

oh how is your wife and how is

oh how is your wife and how is the relationship

the relationship

the relationship everything is perfect everything

everything is perfect everything

everything is perfect everything is going just fine

is going just fine

is going just fine well that's the end of that

well that's the end of that

well that's the end of that conversation but the thing that

conversation but the thing that

conversation but the thing that people really talked about they

people really talked about they

people really talked about they want to gossip about they want

want to gossip about they want

want to gossip about they want to know about drama and trouble

to know about drama and trouble

to know about drama and trouble and this is what every movie is

and this is what every movie is

and this is what every movie is about there's always a problem

about there's always a problem

about there's always a problem and so that's why most of this

and so that's why most of this

and so that's why most of this video lesson we'll be talking

video lesson we'll be talking

video lesson we'll be talking about problems and how to deal

about problems and how to deal

about problems and how to deal with them and kind of

with them and kind of

with them and kind of specifically how we talk about

specifically how we talk about

specifically how we talk about that for love and relationships

that for love and relationships

that for love and relationships but also for other relationships

but also for other relationships

but also for other relationships in general

in general

in general so let's get started first we

so let's get started first we

so let's get started first we typically talk about men and

typically talk about men and

typically talk about men and women being different and there

women being different and there

women being different and there are lots of different ways to

are lots of different ways to

are lots of different ways to describe this you can say we are

describe this you can say we are

describe this you can say we are wired differently

wired differently

wired differently so again we have like different

so again we have like different

so again we have like different wiring like our brains are

wiring like our brains are

wiring like our brains are actually a little bit different

actually a little bit different

actually a little bit different I don't mean like the size or

I don't mean like the size or

I don't mean like the size or anything just kind of how we

anything just kind of how we

anything just kind of how we think the things that we think

think the things that we think

think the things that we think about and you know there's a lot

about and you know there's a lot

about and you know there's a lot of equality in the world like

of equality in the world like

of equality in the world like men and women doing the same

men and women doing the same

men and women doing the same jobs are making the same amount

jobs are making the same amount

jobs are making the same amount of money but you know sometimes

of money but you know sometimes

of money but you know sometimes we talk about things differently

we talk about things differently

we talk about things differently or think about them in different

or think about them in different

or think about them in different ways

ways

ways so you know we've got oftentimes

so you know we've got oftentimes

so you know we've got oftentimes problems that come up when men

problems that come up when men

problems that come up when men are thinking about things in one

are thinking about things in one

are thinking about things in one way and women are thinking about

way and women are thinking about

way and women are thinking about them in another or whatever it

them in another or whatever it

them in another or whatever it is in your relationship and we

is in your relationship and we

is in your relationship and we talked about men and women

talked about men and women

talked about men and women specifically having a battle of

specifically having a battle of

specifically having a battle of the sexes this is a be a TT le

the sexes this is a be a TT le

the sexes this is a be a TT le like a fight like a war a battle

like a fight like a war a battle

like a fight like a war a battle battle but again we have the tea

battle but again we have the tea

battle but again we have the tea turning into ad sound so a

turning into ad sound so a

turning into ad sound so a battle battle battle the battle

battle battle battle the battle

battle battle battle the battle of the sexes

of the sexes

of the sexes now there is a really really

now there is a really really

now there is a really really popular book that came out I

popular book that came out I

popular book that came out I think maybe

think maybe

think maybe maybe 20 years ago I believe

maybe 20 years ago I believe

maybe 20 years ago I believe it's still quite popular though

it's still quite popular though

it's still quite popular though it's called men are from Mars

it's called men are from Mars

it's called men are from Mars and women are from venus and

and women are from venus and

and women are from venus and this is again another way of

this is again another way of

this is again another way of describing the same thing where

describing the same thing where

describing the same thing where men and women are different so

men and women are different so

men and women are different so men are from Mars and women are

men are from Mars and women are

men are from Mars and women are from Venus

from Venus

from Venus now we can talk about this you

now we can talk about this you

now we can talk about this you know any time there's a problem

know any time there's a problem

know any time there's a problem in a relationship or you know

in a relationship or you know

in a relationship or you know like you're sitting down and a

like you're sitting down and a

like you're sitting down and a friend of yours is complaining

friend of yours is complaining

friend of yours is complaining about their relationship or

about their relationship or

about their relationship or there's a problem or something

there's a problem or something

there's a problem or something you can just say well you know

you can just say well you know

you can just say well you know men are from Mars Women are from

men are from Mars Women are from

men are from Mars Women are from Venus and that just means that

Venus and that just means that

Venus and that just means that you know there's going to be

you know there's going to be

you know there's going to be problems in a relationship and

problems in a relationship and

problems in a relationship and that means you just have to work

that means you just have to work

that means you just have to work a little bit to try to make

a little bit to try to make

a little bit to try to make everything go a little bit more

everything go a little bit more

everything go a little bit more smoothly in the relationship

smoothly in the relationship

smoothly in the relationship so the battle of the sexes and

so the battle of the sexes and

so the battle of the sexes and men are from Mars Women are from

men are from Mars Women are from

men are from Mars Women are from Venus

Venus

Venus now another great expression

now another great expression

now another great expression that you'll often hear in movies

that you'll often hear in movies

that you'll often hear in movies and TV shows especially as well

and TV shows especially as well

and TV shows especially as well as conversations is you can't

as conversations is you can't

as conversations is you can't live with them you can't live

live with them you can't live

live with them you can't live without them

without them

without them now this is a really great

now this is a really great

now this is a really great expression where it's got almost

expression where it's got almost

expression where it's got almost two meanings to live with

two meanings to live with

two meanings to live with someone means to physically be

someone means to physically be

someone means to physically be living with someone and then

living with someone and then

living with someone and then you've got to live with out them

you've got to live with out them

you've got to live with out them so let's say I love my wife but

so let's say I love my wife but

so let's say I love my wife but sometimes I i just hate what she

sometimes I i just hate what she

sometimes I i just hate what she does for this is you'll you'll

does for this is you'll you'll

does for this is you'll you'll see in movies where you know one

see in movies where you know one

see in movies where you know one character all he he really loves

character all he he really loves

character all he he really loves I his girlfriend or something

I his girlfriend or something

I his girlfriend or something but sometimes she does things

but sometimes she does things

but sometimes she does things that you know they're just crazy

that you know they're just crazy

that you know they're just crazy and they really he just doesn't

and they really he just doesn't

and they really he just doesn't know what to do about that

know what to do about that

know what to do about that so when people they sit and they

so when people they sit and they

so when people they sit and they think about women or men and

think about women or men and

think about women or men and they're just like i like i like

they're just like i like i like

they're just like i like i like why is it so frustrating like I

why is it so frustrating like I

why is it so frustrating like I love them but sometimes I really

love them but sometimes I really

love them but sometimes I really hate them at the same time so we

hate them at the same time so we

hate them at the same time so we say you can't live with them to

say you can't live with them to

say you can't live with them to live with someone again to live

live with someone again to live

live with someone again to live together to cohabitate or you

together to cohabitate or you

together to cohabitate or you can't live without them

can't live without them

can't live without them so it can mean physically like

so it can mean physically like

so it can mean physically like living you know with the woman

living you know with the woman

living you know with the woman or it could mean just having

or it could mean just having

or it could mean just having women or men in your life

women or men in your life

women or men in your life so often when people are having

so often when people are having

so often when people are having problems are there talking with

problems are there talking with

problems are there talking with their friends about problems

their friends about problems

their friends about problems that they're having they'll use

that they're having they'll use

that they're having they'll use that expression I man

that expression I man

that expression I man can't live with them you can't

can't live with them you can't

can't live with them you can't live without him

live without him

live without him and notice how I'm saying you

and notice how I'm saying you

and notice how I'm saying you can't live without

can't live without

can't live without 00 because we don't say them it

00 because we don't say them it

00 because we don't say them it just sounds a little bit to a

just sounds a little bit to a

just sounds a little bit to a little bit too formal

little bit too formal

little bit too formal so if you want to be you know a

so if you want to be you know a

so if you want to be you know a bit more informal you want to be

bit more informal you want to be

bit more informal you want to be more casual and conversational

more casual and conversational

more casual and conversational you can save you can't live with

you can save you can't live with

you can save you can't live with them you can't live without him

them you can't live without him

them you can't live without him you can't live with them you

you can't live with them you

you can't live with them you can't live without them now

can't live without them now

can't live without them now let's talk more specifically

let's talk more specifically

let's talk more specifically about what happens when there is

about what happens when there is

about what happens when there is a problem in a relationship and

a problem in a relationship and

a problem in a relationship and this can mean any kind of

this can mean any kind of

this can mean any kind of relationship but most of the

relationship but most of the

relationship but most of the words that you'll hear are used

words that you'll hear are used

words that you'll hear are used specifically for romantic

specifically for romantic

specifically for romantic relationships like a husband and

relationships like a husband and

relationships like a husband and wife or a boyfriend/girlfriend

wife or a boyfriend/girlfriend

wife or a boyfriend/girlfriend that kind of thing

that kind of thing

that kind of thing so the first one is instead of

so the first one is instead of

so the first one is instead of just saying oh like you're

just saying oh like you're

just saying oh like you're having problems you could

having problems you could

having problems you could describe your having trouble in

describe your having trouble in

describe your having trouble in paradise

paradise

paradise trouble in paradise so let's say

trouble in paradise so let's say

trouble in paradise so let's say I am a father and I have a son

I am a father and I have a son

I am a father and I have a son its maybe 16 years old and he's

its maybe 16 years old and he's

its maybe 16 years old and he's got a girlfriend for the first

got a girlfriend for the first

got a girlfriend for the first time and everything is going

time and everything is going

time and everything is going great and then I they have their

great and then I they have their

great and then I they have their first problem

first problem

first problem so he's telling me a story out

so he's telling me a story out

so he's telling me a story out dad like you know I i saw the

dad like you know I i saw the

dad like you know I i saw the girl like may be hanging out

girl like may be hanging out

girl like may be hanging out with some other guy at a party

with some other guy at a party

with some other guy at a party or something like that under

or something like that under

or something like that under saying oh

saying oh

saying oh trouble in paradise trouble in

trouble in paradise trouble in

trouble in paradise trouble in paradise

paradise

paradise so paradise is like heaven it's

so paradise is like heaven it's

so paradise is like heaven it's like a fantastic thing and so

like a fantastic thing and so

like a fantastic thing and so everybody thinks when they're in

everybody thinks when they're in

everybody thinks when they're in love

love

love it's like paradise it's like

it's like paradise it's like

it's like paradise it's like heaven because you know you feel

heaven because you know you feel

heaven because you know you feel great all the time but when

great all the time but when

great all the time but when there's a problem there's

there's a problem there's

there's a problem there's trouble in paradise

trouble in paradise

trouble in paradise oh no trouble in paradise

oh no trouble in paradise

oh no trouble in paradise trouble in paradise

trouble in paradise

trouble in paradise and when you have trouble in

and when you have trouble in

and when you have trouble in paradise you tend to butt heads

paradise you tend to butt heads

paradise you tend to butt heads with someone to butt heads

with someone to butt heads

with someone to butt heads now if you've ever seen a goat

now if you've ever seen a goat

now if you've ever seen a goat before these are like the little

before these are like the little

before these are like the little animals at the farm they've got

animals at the farm they've got

animals at the farm they've got the horns that come up and the

the horns that come up and the

the horns that come up and the like the men or the you know not

like the men or the you know not

like the men or the you know not the men i guess but the male

the men i guess but the male

the men i guess but the male goats

goats

goats you could call these like billy

you could call these like billy

you could call these like billy goats or you can just call it

goats or you can just call it

goats or you can just call it like a ram that's usually the

like a ram that's usually the

like a ram that's usually the the name for a male goat

the name for a male goat

the name for a male goat but anyway so they've got the

but anyway so they've got the

but anyway so they've got the horns and they kind of fight

horns and they kind of fight

horns and they kind of fight with each other they butt heads

with each other they butt heads

with each other they butt heads like that

like that

like that now this is an expression you

now this is an expression you

now this is an expression you can use to but

can use to but

can use to but kids with someone again to butt

kids with someone again to butt

kids with someone again to butt heads notice how I'm not saying

heads notice how I'm not saying

heads notice how I'm not saying but heads I'm saying butt heads

but heads I'm saying butt heads

but heads I'm saying butt heads but heads the T sound basically

but heads the T sound basically

but heads the T sound basically disappears

disappears

disappears now when you butt heads with

now when you butt heads with

now when you butt heads with someone this could be at an

someone this could be at an

someone this could be at an office like one person thinks

office like one person thinks

office like one person thinks one way in someone else thinks a

one way in someone else thinks a

one way in someone else thinks a different way you're butting

different way you're butting

different way you're butting heads or this could be butting

heads or this could be butting

heads or this could be butting heads in a relationship where I

heads in a relationship where I

heads in a relationship where I think we should do something one

think we should do something one

think we should do something one way or I want to sleep with the

way or I want to sleep with the

way or I want to sleep with the air conditioner on and my wife

air conditioner on and my wife

air conditioner on and my wife wants to sleep with the air

wants to sleep with the air

wants to sleep with the air conditioner off or something

conditioner off or something

conditioner off or something like that

like that

like that so you're butting heads butting

so you're butting heads butting

so you're butting heads butting heads about that next

heads about that next

heads about that next another great expression for

another great expression for

another great expression for fighting is to duke it out

fighting is to duke it out

fighting is to duke it out you can fight with someone or

you can fight with someone or

you can fight with someone or you can Duke it out to do get

you can Duke it out to do get

you can Duke it out to do get out

out

out now listen carefully to how it

now listen carefully to how it

now listen carefully to how it blends do kid doubt do kid out

blends do kid doubt do kid out

blends do kid doubt do kid out duke it out to do get out with

duke it out to do get out with

duke it out to do get out with someone duke it out with someone

someone duke it out with someone

someone duke it out with someone now you're duking it out

now you're duking it out

now you're duking it out it's like you're putting up you

it's like you're putting up you

it's like you're putting up you put up your dukes your fists so

put up your dukes your fists so

put up your dukes your fists so it's like a very physical fist

it's like a very physical fist

it's like a very physical fist fight with someone and again

fight with someone and again

fight with someone and again this can be used in any

this can be used in any

this can be used in any situation it could be a friend

situation it could be a friend

situation it could be a friend or it could be like a romantic

or it could be like a romantic

or it could be like a romantic relationship you know a Mary

relationship you know a Mary

relationship you know a Mary partner or something like that

partner or something like that

partner or something like that somebody at your office and your

somebody at your office and your

somebody at your office and your instead of just butting heads

instead of just butting heads

instead of just butting heads you're also duking it out so

you're also duking it out so

you're also duking it out so you're really having a fight and

you're really having a fight and

you're really having a fight and it could be maybe not an actual

it could be maybe not an actual

it could be maybe not an actual physical fight but you're really

physical fight but you're really

physical fight but you're really you know you really heated it's

you know you really heated it's

you know you really heated it's a very like a tempestuous

a very like a tempestuous

a very like a tempestuous situation like a tempest it's

situation like a tempest it's

situation like a tempest it's very wild if you remember from

very wild if you remember from

very wild if you remember from the phrase builder lesson

the phrase builder lesson

the phrase builder lesson tempestuous and so it's really

tempestuous and so it's really

tempestuous and so it's really wild and exciting and

wild and exciting and

wild and exciting and everybody's like really really

everybody's like really really

everybody's like really really serious and angry about that

serious and angry about that

serious and angry about that so when you're butting heads and

so when you're butting heads and

so when you're butting heads and then your duking it out

then your duking it out

then your duking it out do get out I don't want to do

do get out I don't want to do

do get out I don't want to do get out with you I just want to

get out with you I just want to

get out with you I just want to talk things over

talk things over

talk things over I don't want to do get out with

I don't want to do get out with

I don't want to do get out with you I just want to talk things

you I just want to talk things

you I just want to talk things over next to describe someone

over next to describe someone

over next to describe someone this could be in a relationship

this could be in a relationship

this could be in a relationship or any relationship really as

or any relationship really as

or any relationship really as someone who gets angry easily

someone who gets angry easily

someone who gets angry easily this is a person called a hot

this is a person called a hot

this is a person called a hot head

head

head a hothead

a hothead

a hothead hothead my father is a real

hothead my father is a real

hothead my father is a real hothead he gets crazy if i go

hothead he gets crazy if i go

hothead he gets crazy if i go into his room when he's busy

into his room when he's busy

into his room when he's busy watching a sports game something

watching a sports game something

watching a sports game something like that so while he's watching

like that so while he's watching

like that so while he's watching football

football

football I don't I don't go in and bother

I don't I don't go in and bother

I don't I don't go in and bother my father because he's a hothead

my father because he's a hothead

my father because he's a hothead like that he gets angry really

like that he gets angry really

like that he gets angry really quickly

quickly

quickly a hothead my dad's actually a

a hothead my dad's actually a

a hothead my dad's actually a really nice guy but you know for

really nice guy but you know for

really nice guy but you know for the purposes of the example a

the purposes of the example a

the purposes of the example a hothead

hothead

hothead also I love my wife i know i'm

also I love my wife i know i'm

also I love my wife i know i'm giving a lot of kind of weird

giving a lot of kind of weird

giving a lot of kind of weird examples over here

examples over here

examples over here but you know really if if I'm

but you know really if if I'm

but you know really if if I'm going to be honest about this

going to be honest about this

going to be honest about this though she does like it quite

though she does like it quite

though she does like it quite warm in the room while she

warm in the room while she

warm in the room while she sleeps and I like it really cold

sleeps and I like it really cold

sleeps and I like it really cold so you know maybe that's

so you know maybe that's

so you know maybe that's something we butt heads about a

something we butt heads about a

something we butt heads about a little bit

little bit

little bit next when you're having trouble

next when you're having trouble

next when you're having trouble communicating with someone or

communicating with someone or

communicating with someone or you really don't know what to

you really don't know what to

you really don't know what to say or you don't want to speak

say or you don't want to speak

say or you don't want to speak with them at all because you're

with them at all because you're

with them at all because you're angry with them

angry with them

angry with them we call this situation putting

we call this situation putting

we call this situation putting up walls

up walls

up walls so let's say I'm having a

so let's say I'm having a

so let's say I'm having a dispute with you a fight an

dispute with you a fight an

dispute with you a fight an argument and you know we just

argument and you know we just

argument and you know we just I I don't want to talk to this

I I don't want to talk to this

I I don't want to talk to this guy anymore i'm really really

guy anymore i'm really really

guy anymore i'm really really angry with him I just

angry with him I just

angry with him I just it's really really frustrating

it's really really frustrating

it's really really frustrating so I don't want to talk with him

so I don't want to talk with him

so I don't want to talk with him and I put up a wall

and I put up a wall

and I put up a wall so I'm putting up walls i'm like

so I'm putting up walls i'm like

so I'm putting up walls i'm like literally building a wall

literally building a wall

literally building a wall between us like this to put up

between us like this to put up

between us like this to put up walls so putting up walls just

walls so putting up walls just

walls so putting up walls just means you're stopping

means you're stopping

means you're stopping communication somehow either you

communication somehow either you

communication somehow either you don't want to do it you don't

don't want to do it you don't

don't want to do it you don't want to listen or you know

want to listen or you know

want to listen or you know really you're just you're just

really you're just you're just

really you're just you're just tired of listening to them

tired of listening to them

tired of listening to them because they

because they

because they you really can't come together

you really can't come together

you really can't come together on something you can't

on something you can't

on something you can't compromise and and work out the

compromise and and work out the

compromise and and work out the problem

problem

problem whatever that is to put up walls

whatever that is to put up walls

whatever that is to put up walls put up walls put up walls put up

put up walls put up walls put up

put up walls put up walls put up walls and for the last few

walls and for the last few

walls and for the last few things for this video lesson I

things for this video lesson I

things for this video lesson I want to talk about making up

want to talk about making up

want to talk about making up making up

making up

making up so to make up with someone this

so to make up with someone this

so to make up with someone this is after you've had a fight and

is after you've had a fight and

is after you've had a fight and you know when you're talking

you know when you're talking

you know when you're talking with people okay we've had our

with people okay we've had our

with people okay we've had our cool down . so you get things

cool down . so you get things

cool down . so you get things get like hot and heated and then

get like hot and heated and then

get like hot and heated and then you have to you have to take a

you have to you have to take a

you have to you have to take a step back to take a step back

step back to take a step back

step back to take a step back and look back

and look back

and look back maybe the problem wasn't such a

maybe the problem wasn't such a

maybe the problem wasn't such a big deal or maybe i said

big deal or maybe i said

big deal or maybe i said something stupid so you're

something stupid so you're

something stupid so you're taking a step back and cooling

taking a step back and cooling

taking a step back and cooling down

down

down so these are all phrases and

so these are all phrases and

so these are all phrases and expressions that

expressions that

expressions that talk about that the first one

talk about that the first one

talk about that the first one when you're apologizing with

when you're apologizing with

when you're apologizing with people as you'll see in the

people as you'll see in the

people as you'll see in the conversation is it takes two to

conversation is it takes two to

conversation is it takes two to tango

tango

tango and this means any time the two

and this means any time the two

and this means any time the two people are required to do

people are required to do

people are required to do something and then it's usually

something and then it's usually

something and then it's usually both of their faults

both of their faults

both of their faults you know both people are

you know both people are

you know both people are responsible if there's a problem

responsible if there's a problem

responsible if there's a problem so it takes two people to have a

so it takes two people to have a

so it takes two people to have a good relationship

good relationship

good relationship it takes two people to have a

it takes two people to have a

it takes two people to have a good marriage or a good business

good marriage or a good business

good marriage or a good business relationship or anything like

relationship or anything like

relationship or anything like that so it takes two to tango

that so it takes two to tango

that so it takes two to tango and this is the regular like

and this is the regular like

and this is the regular like tango dance because I can't

tango dance because I can't

tango dance because I can't dance the tango by myself you

dance the tango by myself you

dance the tango by myself you need two people to do it but

need two people to do it but

need two people to do it but this is just the dance that

this is just the dance that

this is just the dance that people use you know we don't say

people use you know we don't say

people use you know we don't say it takes two people to waltz or

it takes two people to waltz or

it takes two people to waltz or it takes two people to do you

it takes two people to do you

it takes two people to do you know some other dance two to

know some other dance two to

know some other dance two to tango

tango

tango is it just the very common

is it just the very common

is it just the very common expression and that's the

expression and that's the

expression and that's the dancing term that we use for

dancing term that we use for

dancing term that we use for that

that

that so anytime you want to resolve a

so anytime you want to resolve a

so anytime you want to resolve a problem just remember you know

problem just remember you know

problem just remember you know maybe you did something but

maybe you did something but

maybe you did something but maybe I did something - and you

maybe I did something - and you

maybe I did something - and you know maybe it's kind of both of

know maybe it's kind of both of

know maybe it's kind of both of our faults

our faults

our faults it takes two to tango it takes

it takes two to tango it takes

it takes two to tango it takes two to tango

two to tango

two to tango now listen carefully to how this

now listen carefully to how this

now listen carefully to how this blends it takes two to tango

blends it takes two to tango

blends it takes two to tango it takes two to tango again that

it takes two to tango again that

it takes two to tango again that T becomes the D sound you hear

T becomes the D sound you hear

T becomes the D sound you hear the pattern to tango two to

the pattern to tango two to

the pattern to tango two to tango

tango

tango next make it work make it work

next make it work make it work

next make it work make it work to make it work and it is the

to make it work and it is the

to make it work and it is the relationship means to work

relationship means to work

relationship means to work together to repair a

together to repair a

together to repair a relationship or to keep it going

relationship or to keep it going

relationship or to keep it going smoothly now a relationship does

smoothly now a relationship does

smoothly now a relationship does require a lot of work

require a lot of work

require a lot of work it could be a friendship that

it could be a friendship that

it could be a friendship that you have with people I know I've

you have with people I know I've

you have with people I know I've kind of lost some friendships

kind of lost some friendships

kind of lost some friendships that I've had with people as i

that I've had with people as i

that I've had with people as i go out and travel around and

go out and travel around and

go out and travel around and live in different countries and

live in different countries and

live in different countries and some of my friends that are back

some of my friends that are back

some of my friends that are back in America

in America

in America you know I don't really get to

you know I don't really get to

you know I don't really get to speak with them so often or we

speak with them so often or we

speak with them so often or we kind of lost contact we've lost

kind of lost contact we've lost

kind of lost contact we've lost touch we've lost touch lost

touch we've lost touch lost

touch we've lost touch lost touch

touch

touch so you know it takes a little

so you know it takes a little

so you know it takes a little bit of effort to make it work

bit of effort to make it work

bit of effort to make it work make it work to make it work

make it work to make it work

make it work to make it work so whenever you have a

so whenever you have a

so whenever you have a relationship with people you

relationship with people you

relationship with people you always need to keep making the

always need to keep making the

always need to keep making the effort especially if it's

effort especially if it's

effort especially if it's someone that you have a very

someone that you have a very

someone that you have a very close relationship with like

close relationship with like

close relationship with like your you know your wife or your

your you know your wife or your

your you know your wife or your house

house

house when your boyfriend or

when your boyfriend or

when your boyfriend or girlfriend or whoever so work

girlfriend or whoever so work

girlfriend or whoever so work hard to make it work to make the

hard to make it work to make the

hard to make it work to make the relationship goes smoothly make

relationship goes smoothly make

relationship goes smoothly make it work

it work

it work next mind reader a mind reader

next mind reader a mind reader

next mind reader a mind reader and you'll see this again in the

and you'll see this again in the

and you'll see this again in the conversation along with all the

conversation along with all the

conversation along with all the other phrases that you're

other phrases that you're

other phrases that you're learning in these lessons but

learning in these lessons but

learning in these lessons but mind reader specifically is

mind reader specifically is

mind reader specifically is something that you can use when

something that you can use when

something that you can use when just like we talked about in the

just like we talked about in the

just like we talked about in the phrase builder lesson use words

phrase builder lesson use words

phrase builder lesson use words or use your words

or use your words

or use your words we want people to actually

we want people to actually

we want people to actually express themselves because we're

express themselves because we're

express themselves because we're not mind reader's

not mind reader's

not mind reader's so I don't know how to read your

so I don't know how to read your

so I don't know how to read your mind I can kind of guess how

mind I can kind of guess how

mind I can kind of guess how you're thinking like if you look

you're thinking like if you look

you're thinking like if you look angry

angry

angry I can see that or i can

I can see that or i can

I can see that or i can understand that but maybe I

understand that but maybe I

understand that but maybe I don't know why

don't know why

don't know why so I'm not a mind reader and

so I'm not a mind reader and

so I'm not a mind reader and often you'll hear this in movies

often you'll hear this in movies

often you'll hear this in movies and TV shows when you know a

and TV shows when you know a

and TV shows when you know a husband and wife are arguing and

husband and wife are arguing and

husband and wife are arguing and like the wife will you know be

like the wife will you know be

like the wife will you know be like this and kind of angry and

like this and kind of angry and

like this and kind of angry and the husband's like what what

the husband's like what what

the husband's like what what what what what I'm not a mind

what what what I'm not a mind

what what what I'm not a mind reader

reader

reader I'm not a mind reader and it

I'm not a mind reader and it

I'm not a mind reader and it just means please tell me what

just means please tell me what

just means please tell me what you're thinking because like I

you're thinking because like I

you're thinking because like I don't know exactly what the

don't know exactly what the

don't know exactly what the problem is

problem is

problem is I'm not a mind reader I'm not a

I'm not a mind reader I'm not a

I'm not a mind reader I'm not a mind reader and our last phrase

mind reader and our last phrase

mind reader and our last phrase is don't go to bed angry

is don't go to bed angry

is don't go to bed angry don't go to bed angry one of the

don't go to bed angry one of the

don't go to bed angry one of the best ways to make sure that you

best ways to make sure that you

best ways to make sure that you have a good night sleep

have a good night sleep

have a good night sleep especially if you've had a fight

especially if you've had a fight

especially if you've had a fight is you know you take some time

is you know you take some time

is you know you take some time you try to think about it and

you try to think about it and

you try to think about it and talk it over

talk it over

talk it over talk it over with the person

talk it over with the person

talk it over with the person you're with your wife or your

you're with your wife or your

you're with your wife or your husband or whoever and then you

husband or whoever and then you

husband or whoever and then you know you want to make sure you

know you want to make sure you

know you want to make sure you resolve the problem pretty well

resolve the problem pretty well

resolve the problem pretty well at least and maybe not its maybe

at least and maybe not its maybe

at least and maybe not its maybe it's not perfect but at least

it's not perfect but at least

it's not perfect but at least you don't go to bed angry

you don't go to bed angry

you don't go to bed angry so a lot of people will give

so a lot of people will give

so a lot of people will give this advice to each other

this advice to each other

this advice to each other especially people that are

especially people that are

especially people that are living together for the first

living together for the first

living together for the first time because it's really

time because it's really

time because it's really difficult to go to bed angry

difficult to go to bed angry

difficult to go to bed angry when you know you've just had an

when you know you've just had an

when you know you've just had an argument and then you don't

argument and then you don't

argument and then you don't sleep well and then kind of you

sleep well and then kind of you

sleep well and then kind of you wake up in the next morning and

wake up in the next morning and

wake up in the next morning and your your kind of Angry still

your your kind of Angry still

your your kind of Angry still because you didn't sleep well

because you didn't sleep well

because you didn't sleep well and the problem is not been

and the problem is not been

and the problem is not been resolved

resolved

resolved so do your best to try to

so do your best to try to

so do your best to try to resolve the pro you know the

resolve the pro you know the

resolve the pro you know the problem whatever that is

problem whatever that is

problem whatever that is so that you don't go to bed

so that you don't go to bed

so that you don't go to bed angry don't go to bed angry so

angry don't go to bed angry so

angry don't go to bed angry so some people will say don't go to

some people will say don't go to

some people will say don't go to bed angry or never go to bed

bed angry or never go to bed

bed angry or never go to bed angry

angry

angry don't go to bed angry never go

don't go to bed angry never go

don't go to bed angry never go to bed angry

to bed angry

to bed angry well that's it for this month i

well that's it for this month i

well that's it for this month i hope you have enjoyed all of

hope you have enjoyed all of

hope you have enjoyed all of these phrases go back and review

these phrases go back and review

these phrases go back and review them use them in your

them use them in your

them use them in your conversations as often as you

conversations as often as you

conversations as often as you can remember most of these are

can remember most of these are

can remember most of these are just talking about personal

just talking about personal

just talking about personal relationships so if you're a

relationships so if you're a

relationships so if you're a hothead

hothead

hothead or if you know you like to butt

or if you know you like to butt

or if you know you like to butt heads with people or do get out

heads with people or do get out

heads with people or do get out or you know you want to work it

or you know you want to work it

or you know you want to work it out or make it work

out or make it work

out or make it work all of these things they're

all of these things they're

all of these things they're great for any kind of

great for any kind of

great for any kind of relationship

relationship

relationship it's just that you know when

it's just that you know when

it's just that you know when we're talking about these kind

we're talking about these kind

we're talking about these kind of couples relationships that's

of couples relationships that's

of couples relationships that's when people get very emotional

when people get very emotional

when people get very emotional and really passionate about

and really passionate about

and really passionate about these things and we use a lot of

these things and we use a lot of

these things and we use a lot of these phrases more in those

these phrases more in those

these phrases more in those contexts

contexts

contexts well that's it for this lesson

well that's it for this lesson

well that's it for this lesson and I hope you enjoyed it and i

and I hope you enjoyed it and i

and I hope you enjoyed it and i look forward to seeing you again

look forward to seeing you again

look forward to seeing you again when we use all of these in the

when we use all of these in the

when we use all of these in the master class lesson coming up

master class lesson coming up

master class lesson coming up soon have a great day and I'll

soon have a great day and I'll

soon have a great day and I'll see you in that lesson

see you in that lesson

see you in that lesson bye-bye