English Expressions: Accountability & reaching your goals.

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Business English with Christina


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When you say that you'll do something, do you really do it?
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If your answer is yes,
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then you already know something about today's topic accountability.
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And today you're going to learn how to talk about this essential business
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topic and learn lots of business English vocabulary about the
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theme of accountability. Are you ready? Let's skip. Hi, I'm your English coach,
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Christina, and welcome to Business English with Christina,
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where you become better at English and better at business by learning
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about topics that are important to you, your profession,
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and your success and your goals, like accountability.
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So what is accountability exactly? Well,
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accountability is saying that you're going to do something maybe to
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yourself or to other people, and then actually doing it. You know,
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you can be accountable to yourself.
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That means that you promise yourself that you do something and
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you do it,
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and you can also be accountable to others. And that means that you promise
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someone else that you will do something and you do it.
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And it's very important to be careful about
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what you decide to be accountable for because after all,
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you want to trust yourself and you want other people to trust you.
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So if you say that you'll do something,
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you want to be sure that you've got the resources, the time, the energy,
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the money, whatever, to actually do it. Now,
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a lot of really successful business people that I know,
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they also know how to hold themselves accountable,
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and that means that they have a habit of doing
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what they say that they're going to do, setting a goal and achieving it.
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Now, what about you?
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Do you hold yourself accountable when you set a goal or make a promise?
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The reason I ask is because often, you know,
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when you hold yourself accountable,
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great things can happen. Whether you're holding yourself accountable to yourself
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or to other people you know, first,
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you're more likely to reach your goals if you are able to get things done,
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if you do what you say that you're going to do to yourself or to others,
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and that feels great. And it creates a real sense of personal
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credibility, meaning that you believe in yourself when you make a promise,
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because you know that you will do it and you believe in yourself,
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you know that you can get things done,
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and you probably also feel more self-respect
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because you know that people can trust you and you can trust yourself.
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And all of those things make you more likely to reach
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your next goal. Now, being.
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Accountable to yourself is a good strategy,
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but being accountable to others is even better.
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I mean, think about it.
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Imagine you tell yourself that you will do your next
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exercise, your next workout, um, but then you don't, you know,
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you say you're going to wake up at 6:00 AM you're going to run,
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go outside and run and train for your next marathon,
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but then the alarm clock goes off and it's dark and it's cold,
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and you, you know, you're like, ah, no, I, I'll do it tomorrow.
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No one will ever know,
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and no one will be disappointed in you except maybe
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yourself. But let's imagine that situation differently.
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What if you tell a friend, Hey,
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let's meet at the park at six 30 and let's go running together.
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Now,
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what happens if you don't wake up early,
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go to the park to meet your friend,
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but your friend is waiting for you in the cold and in the dark to go running?
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You know, your friend is going to be really disappointed in you,
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and you're going to feel bad because you disappointed your friend.
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And that's why having someone to hold you accountable,
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to make sure that you show up,
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that you put in the work and that you move closer to your goal,
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can actually make a huge difference. And I mean,
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that's kind of the same thing with the Faster Fluency Conversation Club,
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our Conversation Club to help you practice speaking and become more confident.
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You've got someone who's waiting there for you. The teacher is waiting for you,
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your conversation partners are waiting for you.
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Everyone is expecting you to attend those sessions. And if you don't, you know,
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people are like, where's, where's Sophie? You know,
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we haven't seen Sophie in a while. It's a little worrying.
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And that way you know that someone's waiting for you,
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you're more likely to do it,
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and you're more likely to reach your goals. So whenever you have a goal that is
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not easy to achieve or that requires long-term work
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and commitment and regularity and consistency to meet it, you know,
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having some kind of social accountability can really be the
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difference between success and failure,
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because social accountability helps because you have a
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group or just a friend encouraging you. And these are, you know,
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like-minded people, people who have the same goals as you,
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people who have the same struggles,
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the same difficulties as you because you understand each other and you don't
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judge each other. And then you feel accountable to the other person,
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but also to yourself.
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And you show up and you do whatever is necessary to.
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Accomplish that goal because you don't want to let yourself,
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or more importantly, you don't want to let others down. And I mean,
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plus like just from my experience of learning with other people,
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um, training for marathons with other people, um, and, you know,
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setting goals like I sound that sounds like a geeky thing to do,
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but this is what my friends and I do.
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We actually talk about our goals and we check in with each other about our
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goals, and it's fun and it's motivating.
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Like we go out to lunch together and we talk about this stuff.
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So if you're looking for someone to hold you accountable and to help you to
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reach your goals in English, to become more confident,
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to be more consistent with your practice, whatever it is,
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join me for my live free interactive workshop on
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January 25th.
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And it's a really special one because you will see what it's like inside my
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Conversation club and how it can help to hold you
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accountable and help you reach your goals in English this year. So
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if you want your invitation, sign up to my newsletter, which is, uh,
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the link is down below this video.
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And I would love to see you in that workshop. Now, as I always say,
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if you don't use it, you lose it.
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So here's how you can use what you learned today.
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Do you have a situation or an activity where you have
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someone to hold you accountable? If you do,
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tell us about it in the comments. And if you don't,
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well maybe tell us what goal or situation you would like an
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accountability partner for. I don't know,
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maybe you'll find one in the wonderful world of the internet.
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And if this lesson was helpful for you, I would love to know.
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And there are three ways that you can tell me.
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Give this lesson a thumbs up on YouTube and of course,
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subscribe to my channel so that I can continue making business English lessons
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for you.
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You can go over to the blog post that goes with this video and
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go deeper into the topic and explore it a little more
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and get ideas on accountability for yourself.
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And you can watch this next lesson to solve your work problems
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and your English problems with a lesson with a neuro language coach.
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That's me. And of course,
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thank you so much for improving your English and your business with business
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English with Christina, and I'll see you next time.
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