Learn the English Terms ROAD RAGE and SWEET SPOT

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In this English lesson I wanted to help you learn
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the English term "road rage."
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Road rage is anger that's caused by bad drivers.
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Let's imagine that you're on the highway
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and everyone around you is driving really fast
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and they're weaving in and out of traffic
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and maybe they're almost causing an accident
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and you might get really, really angry.
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If you get to the point where you roll your window down,
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I guess you might have power windows,
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so if you roll your window down
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and you start yelling at people,
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we would say that you are experiencing road rage.
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Road rage is just anger that you feel
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because you are just annoyed with other drivers
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because of how they're driving
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or even if they do things that just bother you.
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Like maybe they're driving really slowly in front of you.
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That might cause road rage as well.
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So when you get to the point
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where you're actually yelling out your window,
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we would say that is road rage.
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The other phrase I wanted to have you, or term,
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the other term I wanted to teach you today
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is the term "sweet spot."
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So the sweet spot is any situation
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where things are just perfect.
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I use this phrase in a comment that I replied to.
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Someone said that they had 45 students in their class
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and I said, "Wow, that's a lot."
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I said, "The sweet spot for me is around 24 students."
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That means that if I have more than 24 students,
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I don't like it, and if I have less than 24 students,
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I don't like it, so the sweet spot for me is around 24.
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That is the optimum amount of students to have in a class.
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Sometimes when Jen and I are putting prices on bouquets
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that we're going to sell, if we charge $5, it's not enough.
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If we charge $20, not enough people buy them
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because they're too expensive.
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But if we charge $12, sometimes that's the sweet spot.
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The sweet spot then being the spot,
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the price point where we make a good amount of money,
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but people are also happy to buy that item.
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So to repeat, road rage is when you get angry
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at other people when you are driving on the road
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and a sweet spot is any situation that is near perfect.
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So definitely the sweet spot for me
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when I am teaching a class is around 24 students.
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And when we sell flowers, sometimes we try to price them
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so that we make money and people are also happy to buy them.
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Hey, let's look at a comment from another video.
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This comment is from Fersken, and Fersken says this,
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"Hello teacher Bob.
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Personally, it takes courage for me to give a piece
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of my mind to someone who makes me angry or sad.
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I guess the reason is that I don't want to sound harsh.
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However, I think it is sometimes necessary
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to let such emotions out so that I can forgive and forget,
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which can lead to peace of mind."
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So Fersken, this was an excellent piece of writing
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by the way, thank you very much for that.
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And yes, sometimes letting it out
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gives you peace of mind, doesn't it?
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My response was this, "Great response Fersken.
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Sometimes it's best to express yourself
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and then forgive and forget so you can have peace of mind."
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In English, we have another phrase,
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"Sometimes you just have to let it all out."
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What that means is that you have emotions
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and sometimes if you keep the emotions inside,
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it's not a good thing.
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Sometimes it's better to express those emotions.
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So in the goal of having peace of mind,
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sometimes it's best to let it all out
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because then eventually you can forgive and forget.
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By the way Fersken, that's another phrase
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that I taught earlier.
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I was happy to see that you learned that phrase
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and that you learned it correctly.
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So, but definitely sometimes when you're experiencing anger
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or sadness or frustration,
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it's best to let those emotions out.
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It's best to express those emotions to people,
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especially if you are not happy with someone,
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sometimes it's best to express the emotion.
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I'm not sure if road rage, if yelling out the window
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is the best way to express emotion
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but maybe when you're driving
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and when you're angry at someone and you have road rage,
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maybe yelling lets you calm down
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and then eventually have peace of mind.
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