Young women on social media ⏲️ 6 Minute English

Hello, this is 6 Minute English from BBC Learning English.

I'm Neil. And I'm Beth.

In this programme, we're discussing the positives and negatives

of social media in the lives of young people.

And this is a really trending topic at the moment

because of what's happening in Australia,

where a new law to limit under 16-year-olds' access to social media

is being debated.

Neil, tell me one good thing

and one bad thing about having social media in your life.

Well, one good thing is it means I can see

what friends are doing who live far away.

And one bad thing is it's really addictive and a massive waste of time.

Well, it's interesting to hear a man's perspective, Neil,

because when it comes to issues like cyber-bullying,

it's often young women who are most affected,

so soon we'll be hearing from women in different countries

about their online experiences.

And remember, you can find all the vocabulary and a worksheet

on our website: bbclearningenglish.com

But first I have a question for you, Beth.

In 2024, which was the most regularly used social media platform in the world?

Was it a) Facebook?

b) Instagram? or c) TikTok?

Oh, I'm going to say TikTok.

Well, we'll find out the answer at the end of the programme.

Now, let's start with the positive side of social media.

As a politics student at Oklahoma University,

21-year-old Haleigh Hurst campaigned in the 2024 US presidential election.

Here, she explains one benefit of social media

to BBC World Service programme Pick of the World:

I do think social media has played a huge role in educating young voters

on different policies and different people who are running.

I know Trump has recently said that he has a soft spot in his heart for TikTok.

With the growth of social media, it has sparked a lot more debates,

I think my generation too, has seen so many climactic things happen.

Haleigh thinks one good thing about social media is that it sparks debates

and conversations -

it causes debates to start.

She comments that Donald Trump is a fan of social media

by saying he has a soft spot for TikTok.

If you have a soft spot for something or someone you feel affectionate

and fond of it - you like it a lot.

But of course, that's not the whole story.

Increasingly, young women are reporting

the negative impact social media is making on their lives

and the pressure they feel to appear perfect online, especially from men.

Maanvi Sharma, aged 28, is a businesswoman and model

with a large Instagram following who lives in Delhi, India.

And Kemi Adeyemi is a 26-year-old travel blogger from Lagos in Nigeria.

Both young women discussed these social media worries

with BBC World Service programme Pick of the World:

The person you're dating,

they might leave you just because of the social media.

They might think that you're not good for, you know, marriage like, you're not,

you can't be a good partner because you're on social media,

because you're being watched by a lot of people

and they feel a little intimidated by this.

"You know what? We saw your girlfriend,

Oh my gosh! She was wearing this. Oh my God!"

  But it's affecting my personal life.

Some men or some people, they want you to shrink yourself

so that they can, like, be the bigger person.

They get to listen to what their friends say about you,

or what your family says about you,

and they are not able to, like, stand up for you to say,

"Oh, I know this person.

I believe she's not like doing these things for other reasons."

Maanvi thinks some men are intimidated by her popularity on Instagram.

Intimidated means to feel frightened or nervous because you lack confidence.

She feels people gossip about her posts and photos,

using expressions like 'Oh my gosh!'

And 'Oh my God!'

to express their shock or surprise.

And Kemi agrees.

She says that on social media, some people want her to shrink herself,

a phrase meaning that you underuse your full potential

in order to avoid making people feel uncomfortable,

or to fit in. When she's bullied online,

Kemi says that these people don't stand up for her.

To stand up for someone means to defend or support someone

who's being criticised or bullied.

And I think it's time you reveal the answer to your question, Neil.

I asked which was the most regularly used social media platform in the world

in 2024 - Facebook, Instagram or TikTok?

What did you say, Beth? TikTok.

I'm afraid you're wrong.

It's Facebook with over three billion regular users.

Okay, let's recap the vocabulary we've learned in this programme.

Starting with the verb spark, meaning to cause something, such as a debate

or argument, to start happening.

If you have a soft spot for someone, you feel affection for them;

you like them very much.

To be intimidated means to feel frightened or nervous

because you lack confidence in a situation.

The expressions 'Oh my gosh!' and 'Oh my God!' are exclamations

of strong feelings like shock, surprise, anger or disbelief.

If you shrink yourself, you make yourself smaller

and don't use your full potential in order to make others feel comfortable

or to fit in with them.

And finally, to stand up for someone means to be vocal

in defending a person who is being bullied.

Once again, our time is up.

But if you're ready for more, head over to the BBC Learning English website

to try the worksheet with a quiz for this programme.

See you there soon. Goodbye.