Learn Real English: 12 Current Words & Expressions

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Hi, everybody. Welcome to www.engvid.com. I'm Adam. In
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today's lesson, we're going to look at some popular culture
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expressions. These are words that are very popular today;
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they may or may not be popular in a few years. Right? And the
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reason that it's important to understand these is because
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you're going to see or hear these words a lot now, but
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they're not words that are very common, or they're not words
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that you would see in an English learning textbook, for example.
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They are words that suddenly appear in mainstream media, or
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in, like, Hollywood, or in things like that -- that
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basically celebrities, or influencers, or people who are
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popular and have a big audience make common. Right? So, these
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are not everyday words; these are words that somebody made
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popular. Okay? And we're going to... You're going to have an
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idea once I get going.
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For example: "to throw shade at someone". Ten years ago, you
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would not have heard this expression. Ten years from now,
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you might not hear this expression anymore. But today,
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this is a very common expression. "To throw shade"
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means to insult someone publicly. But the key is that
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it's not a very obvious insult; it's a very subtle or very
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hinted-at insult. And it's usually celebrities at
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celebrities. Because who is in the public eye? Celebrities.
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Everyday people, like you or me, nobody cares what we actually
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say. So, nobody's listening to us, so we can't really throw
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shade in public. We can do it in private, but then it's just
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insult; it's not shade.
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Now, the main idea is that it's shade. "Shade" means "not
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direct". Right? So, if... If one musician makes a joke, but
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doesn't mention the... another musician's name, but the nature
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of the joke everybody understands is about that
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musician, then that is called "throwing shade". The first
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musician could directly insult to the second musician, but she
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doesn't. She says something that everybody understands to be
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about the second musician, and therefore she can't be blamed,
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really, for anything. Although it usually goes back and forth
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both ways. Okay? So, to insult in a very subtle but public way.
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"Gaslighting", this is a very common expression. This is
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actually an old expression, but it's become popular again, in
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the new political, American-political situation.
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You'll hear it more commonly in the US than you will other
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places, but "to gaslight someone"... So, one person can
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"gaslight" someone or a person can "gaslight" a whole group of
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people. It basically means "to manipulate". But how? How do you
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manipulate people? You lie to them, or you make them think
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that they... their reality is questionable.
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So, if I tell you lies every day, every day, every day, and
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then you question me, and I would say: "What are you talking
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about? I never said that." So, I tell you the lie, and then I
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deny it. And then I again, and again, and again, until finally,
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you start to think that maybe the problem is in your mind; you
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start to doubt yourself, you start to think that your reality
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might not be 100% accurate, or you start questioning what is
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actually true and what is not. You don't know what to believe,
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who to believe, etcetera. So, the person who did this to you
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gaslighted you or gaslit you, and that's the whole intention
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of it. So, especially in the political environment we live in
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today. Some politicians are actively trying to gaslight the
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public; they lie to them, lie to them, and they say: "No. I never
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said that." Or: "No, no, I said the opposite. I don't know why
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you think this." Right? So, they're manipulating them. And
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it's working, which is a scary thing. So, that's "gaslighting".
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"Trigger". "Trigger" is a very popular word now as well. When
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someone is triggered, it means something got them emotionally
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active; it made them somehow emotional, usually in a negative
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way. So, somebody said something, and that made me very
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angry, and maybe it offended me. It made me feel attacked or
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insulted. And then I get very angry and I want to take some
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action. This is also very common in the political landscape these
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days, especially in the US, where if someone triggers
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someone, the... It makes them angry, but sometimes... It's
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gotten to the point where the person getting angry is getting
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angry about everything. Right? So, the political right is
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accusing the political left of always being triggered, which
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leads...
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Actually, I'll go... I'll skip a few and go to this word:
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"snowflake". So, the political right, started calling people on
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the left "snowflakes" because "snowflakes"... Basically,
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"snowflake" means somebody who's not really special. Right? He's
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just like everybody else. But now it means that somebody who
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gets easily offended. So, a lot of people accused the liberals
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in the US of being snowflakes. It's very easy to make them
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upset; it's very easy to offend them. They're always trying to
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be politically correct, trying to make everybody happy, which
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is a little bit impossible. So, it's gotten to the point where
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people on, like, on the left... on the right, like Republicans,
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are actively and happily trying to trigger the snowflakes on the
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left. And the problem is that the liberals, the Democrats are
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starting to look a little bit weak, because everybody thinks
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they are snowflakes.
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So, I'll give you a common example these days. It's
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becoming increasingly popular for people to say what pronoun
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they want to be called by. So: "Hi. My name is Adam. I prefer
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'he' and 'him'." So, like, basically, I'm saying I'm a
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male, so call me by my male pronouns. Some people say they
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prefer to be called "they". People don't want to be
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gender... They want to be... They don't want to be
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gender-binary; they want to be neutral. So, anyways, this is
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one of the things that people are talking about. If you call
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somebody, if somebody says: "'He'. I want to be called 'he'
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or 'she'", and you call me "they", I will be triggered, I
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will be angry, and I will complain and I will be upset
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about it. And then you will call me a "snowflake" because I'm
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getting upset about nothing really serious. So, "snowflake"
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and "triggers" kind of go together.
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Now, a "snub". A "snub" is basically ignoring something or
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someone a little bit with the intent of making them feel bad.
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So, if you think about the Oscars, the movies or any award
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show -- somebody is getting a lot of praise for their acting,
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or directing, or production. And everybody thinks: "Oh, yeah,
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this... This actor is going to win an Academy Award." And then
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the Oscar committee announces the nominations, who is
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considered to be the best actor, and they snub this actor. It
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means they don't include him in the nominations. That means they
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ignore him; they think his, that his performance was not very
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good. So, a "snub" can be considered an insult. But mostly
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it means you're not included or not considered for something,
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and people take offense to that as well.
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I'm sure if you follow Instagram or social media, you've probably
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seen "BAE" a lot. A lot of people think that "BAE" is short
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for "baby". Actually, it's an acronym: Before Anyone Else. So,
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basically, your special person. You will do something for this
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person before anyone else. So, it could be baby, your baby, but
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it's basically your boyfriend or girlfriend, the... Or your
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lover. Doesn't... depends on the situation. "Before Anyone Else"
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is the actual expression.
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"Ghost". This is actually a verb: "to ghost". So, "to ghost"
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means, for example, in a party... If you're at a party
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and you leave without saying: "Goodbye" to anybody, like,
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nobody knows that you left. Suddenly, they realize you're
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not there -- that means you ghosted; you left quietly
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without telling anybody. Or on a conversation, on a telephone
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conversation, someone calls you and your friend picks up and you
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say: "Hello?" You say... Somebody says: "Yeah. Can I talk
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to Bill?" And Bill is standing right here. It means I'm not
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here. Right? So, they say: "Oh, I'm sorry. Bill's not here. Can
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he call you back?" So that Bill is ghosting the person on the
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phone. That's another use of it.
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And if you have a relationship with someone, you're talking or
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texting, whatever, and then suddenly one person just stops
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communication; never writes back, never calls -- just stops
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any communication. So. that, also, is called "ghosting".
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That's a common expression these days.
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Another thing to keep in mind about most of these expressions,
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like, for example: "BAE", and "ghost", and things like that --
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young people use it more than the older generations.
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"Trigger", "snowflake", and "gaslighting" -- these are just
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more of political words and expressions, so everybody's
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using them. But a lot of the pop-culture words originate or
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come with... from young people.
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Now, then an example here is the word "woke". This is actually an
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old word, but it has a resurgence. Basically, it's a
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word that's become popular and then sort of disappears, nobody
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uses it; and then it comes back to be popular, and maybe
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disappears again. So, this is basically, like, now the third
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time that it's become popular. "Woke" means aware; socially
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aware of discrimination or injustice, especially when it
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comes to, like, racial discrimination. If you think
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you're being discriminated against, or if you notice that
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there's a lot of discrimination against people of color; Black
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people, Latinos, etcetera - then you are "woke".
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And generally, if you're going to be woke, you're probably also
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going to be "triggered". Right? I'm actually going to say
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"triggered" when we're talking about a person or describing a
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person. "To trigger" means to make someone triggered. And if
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someone is woke, they can be easily upset; they can be easily
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triggered by seeing how, let's say, police treat a certain
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segment of the population, or how the government treats them,
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or how anybody. Like, any one area the population treats
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another area of the population, especially as the world is
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becoming... There's a lot more White supremacy, and populism,
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and all these things. People are becoming more woke. Okay?
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On a more light tone, we have "GOAT". "GOAT" is also an
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acronym; it's not the animal, it means: Greatest Of All Time.
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Greatest Of All Time. So, it started... The conversation
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started, I think. It became more and more popular when there was
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a question: "Who is the GOAT? LeBron James or Michael Jordan?
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Who is the greatest basketball player of all time?" And after
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they started, then: "Okay, who's the GOAT in hockey? Who's the
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GOAT in soccer? Who's the goat in football?" And then it
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started to go outside of sports altogether: "Who's the GOAT
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president? Who's the GOAT businessman?" All these things.
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So: "Who's the best? The best of the best. The Greatest Of All
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Time." And it's used quite a lot these days.
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"Goals". "Goals", basically means "goals"; it's exactly what
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it says, but it's very commonly used when people talk about what
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they want to achieve. And you'll see this a lot on social media.
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Right? Somebody puts a picture of a happy couple and they're
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doing something fun, and in the comments, you'll see: "Oh,
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couple goals". Or they're... They have very nice body; body
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goals, or vacation goals, or whatever goals. So, whenever
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people see something that they think is really good and they
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want for themselves, instead of actually working towards it,
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they'll just say: "Oh, body goals, couple goals. I want to
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be like them." So, that's actually what it means: "I want
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to be like", and whatever you're talking about. And notice that
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it's not "goal"; it's always "goals". "Body goals, vacation
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goals, couple goals". A very common word these days,
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especially on social media.
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"To binge". "To binge" means to do a lot of something in a very
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short time. So, for example, if you... If you like the
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Friends... The TV show, Friends, for example and you... You
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want... You don't have much time, but you want to see all of
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the shows, one day you will start and you will watch one
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after the other, after the other. And after a day or two,
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you've seen the entire series. You binged on the show. It's
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also commonly used for when we talk about drinking alcohol, and
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especially young people at university, and they have
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parties and they binge drink. So, we can also use it as an
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adjective. "Binge drinking" means drinking a lot; a huge
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quantity in a short time, which is very dangerous when it comes
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to alcohol. You can get very sick; you can even die from
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alcohol poisoning. But doing anything in a huge quantity in a
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short time is called "binging".
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And "meme". "Meme" should be more or less popular; common to
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a lot of people, but just in case: A "meme" is a very popular
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picture, or expression, or movie scene, or... Or piece of music
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that becomes so popular that people take it and manipulate it
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into other situations. So, if you have a movie scene and it's
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really funny or really strange, people will take that scene and
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they will Photoshop it or they will add text, change the text
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to fit it to other situations. And you'll see this a lot in,
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like, Twitter or Instagram. People take a situation and
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everybody makes a different version of it to make fun of it.
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Because it's so popular, everyone recognizes the picture,
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or the text, or whatever it is. So, that's called a "meme". And
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it's usually pictures of people in different situations, but it
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doesn't have to be that. Okay?
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Now, the main thing to remember, here, is that these words may go
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out of fashion; people may stop using them. But for now, for the
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foreseeable future, it's good for you to understand what...
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What they mean and how they're used.
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But, anyway, if you're not sure about the explanations I gave,
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please go to www.engvid.com. In the comment section, you can ask
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me all the questions you have. There's also a quiz you can take
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to make sure you understand how these words are used. And that's
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it. I hope you liked the video. It's... I hope it was
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informative. If you did, please give me a like, don't forget to
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Bye-bye.
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