10 AMAZING TIPS that’ll SKYROCKET your English fluency🔥

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Hey everyone, it's Hadar.
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Thank you so much for joining me.
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Today we are going to talk about the 10 things that are going to skyrocket your
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English fluency over the next 12 months.
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As I'm recording this video, this is the end of 2021.
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And if you want to make your English goals come true in 2022, follow the 10 tips that
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I'm going to share with you in this video.
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But even if it's not the end of the year, it doesn't matter because this is
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something that you can start implementing right away to feel the transformation
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in your English as soon as you start.
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So, if you speak English as a second language, and do you want
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the speak English with clarity, confidence, and freedom, this
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video is a must-watch for you.
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If you're new to my channel, then hi, my name is Hadar.
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I'm a non-native speaker of English.
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And I am here to help you step into your full potential in English.
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If you want to find out more about how I can help you, I'm inviting you
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to go to my website hadarshemesh.com, or come and say hi on Instagram at
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@hadar.accentsway, where I share a ton of valuable content almost every single day.
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Okay.
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So, let's begin with 10 things that are going to help you skyrocket your
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English fluency in 2022 and beyond.
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The first is focusing on developing the right mindset.
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When we think about most of the language training programs that we've
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been a part of, whether it's school or language institutions or private
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teachers, the focus is on the language.
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And of course, that is important.
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But our mindset, the way we approach learning the language, the way we approach
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dealing with mistakes, how we feel about who we are as speakers of English as a
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second language - all of that has a huge impact on your ability to communicate
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confidently and fluently in English.
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And if you don't work on developing your mindset, and the right mindset - a growth
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mindset, when it comes to communicating in English, then the problem is that
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you are going to improve your language, but you won't improve who you are as a
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person communicating in that language.
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You won't be creating new opportunities for yourself.
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You won't be dealing with obstacles as you could.
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And this is what's going to make the real transformation in your English.
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I have a lot of videos about shifting your mindset in English, and I'm
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going to list all of them below.
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Actually, I have created a resource for you with all my useful videos
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that are going to help you understand how to implement those 10 steps.
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And you can download it for free by clicking the link in the description.
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The second thing is: prepare well for everything.
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I know it's a given, I know it sounds obvious, but here's the thing.
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A lot of times we only prepare for the big things when the stakes are really,
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really high: a job interview, or an important meeting, or a presentation.
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But what happens is that we come unprepared for other
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situations, whether it's a small conversation or a meeting at work.
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And what happens in those daily situations where we communicate
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in English coming unprepared, is that we create our English persona.
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What do I mean by English persona?
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It means how you feel and think about how you communicate in English.
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Now, if you don't prepare for the small situations, the small conversations, then
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you will come across a lot of obstacles.
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And those obstacles are going to make you believe that English is hard for
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you, and you're not good in English.
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And it's a false conception because you just haven't prepared
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well enough for these situations.
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Not only that, that when you prepare, this is where magic happens.
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When you prepare for a meeting, when you know what you're going to say, when you
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practice saying it out loud, even if it's as simple as a meeting with a teacher or
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a meeting at work - then you will be able to discover other things that usually
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don't happen, like using new words or using new grammar structures, or actually
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listening to the person in front of you.
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These are the things that happen when you feel confident, when you feel prepared,
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when you say what you want to say.
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But if you're struggling to figure out how to say what you want to say,
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then there is no room for magic.
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And when there is no room for magic, you would ultimately start believing
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that your English is really limited.
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So prepare well for everything, not just the big things.
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And when you do, do it effectively, say it out loud, not just in your head.
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English is a language that is spoken.
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It's not a language that you just think, right?
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So, say it out loud.
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Use your body, use imageries, use notes, but do things that will help
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English stick and stay with you.
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And then that you'll be able to use it later on in a conversation.
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There is no such thing as over-preparing.
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And it's not about the meeting, it's about you and your English practice.
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So prepare, prepare, prepare.
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Number three: don't get stuck in the illusion of learning.
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I often talk about the illusion of learning - feeling like you're
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doing a lot of things in English, and you are practicing English, and
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you're putting in a lot of work, but you're not seeing results.
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You feel like you're stuck in a plateau and you don't know
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how to reach a breakthrough.
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This usually happens because of the illusion of learning.
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Either you're doing things that are not beneficial or that you won't be
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able to put into practice when you actually communicate in English.
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Or you're learning too many things and you're not putting them into practice.
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So it remains here, but it doesn't move here.
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And therefore, you're unable to know if these things are
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actually practical for you.
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Or what you might be doing is that you might be learning a lot of things,
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creating overwhelm, anxiety around: "Oh, there are all these things
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in English that I need to learn".
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And also, keeping it up here and not moving it here.
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We can learn a lot of things, but we have to put it into practice
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to know that we can actually use it so that it's available.
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And most of the work that we're doing is around learning and consuming
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content, and very little work around producing the language and
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putting everything into practice.
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So, the amount of practice and implementation should equal
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to the amount of learning.
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Otherwise you will be stuck in the illusion of learning.
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And again, I have a video about that with very clear tips on how to know if
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you're stuck in the illusion of learning.
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And all of that can be found in the PDF that we collected for you with
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a summary of the 10 things and links to help you get started right away.
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The next thing is essentialism or the 80/20 rule.
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The 80/20 rule suggests that 80% of the results come from 20% of the effort.
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It's also called the Pareto principle because it was created
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by this dude called Pareto.
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When it comes to English, it means that to reach your goals, let's
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say to be fluent in English, right?
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That would be your 100% percent.
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To be 80% there, which is pretty impressive, like who wouldn't mind
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being 80% into your ultimate goal?
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So to get to those results, you need to invest 20% of the overall efforts of what
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it takes to get to the hundred percent.
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In other words, you don't have to do all the things that you think you have
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to do to get to where you want to be.
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You have to do a lot less.
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You have to do the things that would actually move the needle in
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how you communicate and think about how you communicate in English.
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The secret is identifying the 20%, identifying the essential
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elements that would get you results.
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Now, again, I have a lot of videos about that, which you can find
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all organized for you in the PDF that we have created for you.
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But just as an example, when it comes to vocabulary, a lot of people learn lists
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and lists and lists of words, and business expressions, and idioms that they're
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less likely to use on a day-to-day basis.
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Where sometimes they get stuck looking for the most basic words.
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Right?
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So, focusing on learning all those fancy words is not as productive as
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understanding and figuring out the words that you know but you never use.
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And those words often get you stuck, right?
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So improving that is going to be a lot more effective than
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doing all the other things.
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That is the idea of the 80/20 rule, or the essentials.
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The fifth thing is repetition, repetition, repetition.
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Nothing can actually become a part of your day-to-day English
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if you don't repeat it many times.
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That's just how it is.
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Whether it's a new word or a sound that you're learning or a new
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grammar form, or just, you know, a certain situation that you need to
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be in again and again, and again.
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Like introducing yourself or a casual small talk.
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You need to familiarize yourself with those sounds or words or situations
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for you to get better at it.
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So, repetition is key.
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Because a lot of times people learn and then they assume that once they
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know it, they'll be able to use it.
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But you've got to turn it into a habit, you've got to
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turn it into a speaking habit.
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And to do that, you have to repeat it again and again and again, to
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create new connections in your brain.
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And that is when you make it your own and it becomes a part of you and you own it.
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And you're not just like knowing it, but unable to use
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it frequently and spontaneously.
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So repetition is key, no matter what it is that you're learning.
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Now, I developed a method called the Pronunciation Confidence Method, that
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I often use when I do Sprints or when I teach my students pronunciation
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and grammar and vocabulary.
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So, I listed all the videos where I talk about building pronunciation confidence
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in the PDF that I've prepared for you, which you can download for free.
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The sixth thing is high performance practice, and what you can
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improve by 1% every single day.
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Meaning, how do you practice English?
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Do you just do the same thing again and again and again, just to check
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it off and say, "I did it, great.
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Let's go"?
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Or are you trying to see what you can improve by maybe 1% or
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half a percent every single day?
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How can you challenge yourself every day a bit more?
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How can you make it a bit more complicated?
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How can you leave your comfort zone every single day, even if
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it's just one step at a time?
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That is how you grow.
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And that is how you don't get into a rut of practice and then you
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don't see results, and then you feel frustrated, and then you quit.
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So, the idea is always to keep yourself on your toes.
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And to always challenge yourself in ways that empower you and make you
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feel like you're actually improving.
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And you have to look at your previous work and to see what you can do and how
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you can improve by 1% every single day.
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The seventh thing is: learn vocabulary effectively.
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One of the things that most speakers of English as a second language
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struggle with is vocabulary.
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Now, vocabulary is a big word.
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And a lot of people don't even know how to start addressing the problem.
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Now, we think that we need vocabulary when we feel that we are limited in English.
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You know, we compare the way we communicate in our first language.
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And then when it comes to English, we feel like a pale version of
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ourselves, unable to really express how we feel and what we think.
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Another thing that I want to talk about when we talk about vocabulary
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is essentialism, or the 80/20 rule.
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What are the words that you really need that you will be actually using?
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And these are the words that actually get you stuck because you don't use
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them because they're not available or you don't know how to pronounce them,
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and you're ashamed of using them.
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Whatever that is, identify those words and learn those words effectively.
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I have a method that actually works, that it might be a little
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slower than memorizing lists and lists of words, but it gets you
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to use those words immediately.
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So I will, again, link to the video where I teach you that method and
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the PDF that I've prepared for you.
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The eighth thing is learning pronunciation and prosody.
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Now, when it comes to fluency and communicating in English effectively,
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pronunciation and prosody - which is intonation, rhythm, stress, connected
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speech - play a significant role.
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Not because you need to sound different or you need to sound native
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or you need to sound non-foreign.
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Not because of that.
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And I know that sometimes you might think that if you spoke like a native, then you
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wouldn't have any challenges whatsoever.
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So, to tell you the truth, that's not true.
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Because I, myself used to have a pretty noticeable accent.
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And I have improved my pronunciation only until I acquired an American accent.
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That was a part of my journey as an actress, because I wanted to apply for
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roles that required an American accent.
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So, I did that back then, but that new accent that I acquired - the
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American accent - didn't give me the freedom that I was looking for.
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I was still very self-conscious.
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I was getting stuck often.
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Right?
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So it just created this illusion of sounding like a native, but internally
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I wasn't as free as I am now because I have developed my mindset and I
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have worked on several other things.
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So, when it comes to pronunciation and prosody, I think it plays a significant
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role because it gives you freedom.
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It gives you clarity, right?
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So that people understand you and you get what you want.
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It improves your listening skills, so that gives you more power in any conversation
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when you're able to understand better the people whom you're speaking with.
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And ultimately, you know, understanding the intonation of English, and tone
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of voice, and what gets people to respond to you - this is a very
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important communication tool.
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And when you feel self-conscious about your pronunciation, of
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course, it affects your confidence and that affects your fluency.
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You tend to speak less, which means you get to practice less,
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which means you're not going to be as fluent as you want to be.
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So this is why pronunciation work is important.
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But it's also important to understand its role within the entire context of
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communicating confidently in English.
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When it comes to pronunciation, I have a ton of videos for you that will teach you
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how to simplify American pronunciation, understand it and use it effectively.
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And we're definitely going to talk about repetition there because
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you build new speaking habits.
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But again, if you feel that pronunciation is the element that you're missing,
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I collected all the relevant links and videos for you in the PDF.
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And now we've gotten to the ninth thing, which is learning to love your voice.
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A lot of times I see my students really struggle with practicing or
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speaking because they can't stand the voice that comes out of their mouth.
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Now, I don't know where to begin explaining the negative impact
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it may have on your ability to communicate and truly connect with
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other people when your experience is that you're hating your voice.
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First of all, because when you don't like hearing yourself,
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you're less likely to talk.
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And when you're less likely to talk, you're less likely to express
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your thoughts, and share your feelings, and show up as a human
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being in this world that deserves the time and space of other people.
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So, it's really important to understand how deep this goes.
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And, you know, when it comes to using your voice, yes, we can optimize it.
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Yes, we can get more comfortable with it.
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Yes, we can change it if you want.
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Right?
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If you feel that your voice is not serving you, your voice is not really who you are.
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But also, if your voice in English is a little different than your voice in your
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native language, these are questions that you need to address and to try to
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think, why are you changing your voice?
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Are you just not comfortable using English and that affects your voice?
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So all of these questions definitely impact the way you communicate in English.
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And I want to stress how important it is to learn to love your voice.
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Not to mention the fact that when you practice English, one of the
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most effective tools is to record yourself on video, or make audio
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recordings and to listen back, and to learn from it and to improve.
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This was one of the best tools.
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Now, when you hate your voice, you're not going to do it.
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You're not going to do it because you're not going to want to hear your voice.
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And this is exactly why you need to come to terms with your voice, learn how to
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use it effectively and effortlessly, how to use it so that you don't
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lose your voice really quickly after speaking for a few minutes in English.
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And that creates a holistic solution that helps you show
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up authentically in English.
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And finally, number ten: embrace your mistakes.
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When we go to school, we learn that when we make a mistake,
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we get punished for it, right?
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Like, if you make a mistake, you lose points or you get a negative
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response from your teacher.
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And when you don't make mistakes, you are celebrated, and yay and good for you.
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And that creates this paradigm in our head that, you know, there
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is right and wrong in English.
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Which, by the way, is not true.
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Because there are many different ways to say things in English.
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You can use several different tenses.
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You can use several different words to express what you want to say, right?
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And sometimes you can use different prepositions.
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But in school we learn that there's only one way, cause that's the
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school's way to teach you and to grade you, and to keep things in order.
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There's no flexibility.
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Which is fine, but it has affected how we perceive the language.
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Now, it's not just in English.
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Usually people are afraid of making mistakes.
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They don't want people to judge them, they don't want to be criticized,
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they don't want people to reject them.
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Right?
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Thinking, "Oh, they're not good enough."
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They don't want to feel like they're inadequate, not good enough.
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Now, all of these things create this sense of perfectionism that people hold
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onto when communicating in English.
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And that is probably one of the things that are most counterproductive
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when it comes to fluency and communicating in English.
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Instead...
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instead of beating yourself up every time you make a mistake or feeling bad
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or cringing or, you know, overthinking it and thinking about what you could've
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done differently, and what they might think about you and, you know, all that
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negative self-talk, which is also related to the mindset that we talked about.
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So instead of doing that, what if you decided to celebrate your mistakes because
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a mistake is an opportunity to learn?
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All right, that's it.
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Thank you so, so much for being here and for watching it.
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I hope those 10 things were helpful for you.
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You know they say that when you write things down, they're a lot more likely to
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happen and you're more likely to do that.
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So let's take this opportunity and set an intention for the next 12 months.
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It doesn't matter if you're watching this at the end of the
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year or in the middle of the year.
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You know, there are still 12 months ahead of you.
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So, set your goals and intentions in the comments below.
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I would love to read it and see it.
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Thank you so much.
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If you want to connect with me personally, then come find me on
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Instagram at @hadar.accentsway.
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Have a beautiful, beautiful week.
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And I'll see you next week in the next video.
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Bye.
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