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Accent's Way English with Hadar


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Hey, it's Hadar, and thank you for joining me.
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And in this episode, I'm going to talk
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about why if you want to improve your vocabulary
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and stop getting stuck in English, you have to stop
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memorizing and learning new words.
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Here's the thing, as a speaker of English
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as a second language, you may have found yourself
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in the past or in the present speaking English,
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and then you got stuck, right?
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You were looking for a specific word,
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and that word was nowhere to be found.
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Word, where are you, word?
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Word?
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And then you ended up using a different word
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that didn't quite convey the message
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as you wanted it to convey the message,
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or you just got stuck and you started
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getting all anxious and nervous, and then you got stuck
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even more and started making stupid mistakes.
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And then afterwards, you felt like crap.
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You thought, oh, my English is so terrible.
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I don't know words in English.
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And then you say to yourself,
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hey, I just need to improve my vocabulary.
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That is the problem, I get stuck
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because I don't know enough words.
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You compared yourself to your abilities
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in your native tongue, and in your native tongue,
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your words are just like laying there
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waiting for you to grab them, right?
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And in English, it's just like you have to search for them
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with a flashlight.
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Now, first of all, stop comparing yourself to who you are
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in your native tongue, 'cause it's not productive.
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It's only going to make you feel bad about yourself.
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And it's just not fair,
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these are two different circumstances.
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It's kind of like you're comparing apples and oranges.
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You don't wanna do that.
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Second, you have to understand that the problem here
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is not your poor vocabulary.
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It is what you are doing with the words
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that you already know.
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And to explain that even more,
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I'm gonna have to take you to my whiteboard.
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But before, I wanna share with you a quick story.
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When I first started out teaching, it was after
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a long period where I wouldn't speak English at all.
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So just a quick reminder, I moved to New York in 2000,
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and moved back to Israel in 2004 or five.
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So I was there for almost five years.
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And then for two years here, I haven't talked in English,
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I haven't read anything in English, I had no connection.
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Maybe I listened to TV shows, but that's about it.
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So when I first started teaching,
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I wasn't very confident about my English abilities,
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especially my fluency.
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So I was pretty good with pronunciation still,
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but my ability to communicate and the words
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and my knowledge of English was fairly limited,
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especially in comparison to where I am right now.
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And I remember a situation where I was teaching
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this executive, he was in my house.
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Back then I didn't have an office,
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I was teaching in my apartment.
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And he wanted to practice reading articles.
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And I was just like, okay, sure,
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so let's open "The New York Times."
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I wanted to sound sophisticated, and read an article.
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So we started reading an article,
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and I was, my eyes went blah,
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'cause we started reading it, and I was just like,
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you know, trying to show him how to pronounce every word,
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and it was really great, and then we came across a word
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that I have no idea what it meant.
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Like I could figure out how to say it,
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but then he asked me, "What does that mean?"
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I'm like, "Um."
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I would try to understand from the context
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what this word is, and then I would make up something.
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And then, mind you, it was like almost,
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like it was 10 years ago.
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I was young and naive and kind of my ego
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was a lot bigger than what it is today.
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And then I, and then we came across another word,
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and I had no idea what it meant.
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And then another word, and another word.
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And at some point, I was just like,
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"Okay, let's go back to the beginning and read it again,"
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so I don't come across as completely stupid
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not knowing all of these words, right?
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And then I really felt horrible.
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I was just like, how is that even possible?
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You know, the imposter syndrome started rising up.
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How is it possible that you're a teacher
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and you don't know all of these words?
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And this is ridiculous, you shouldn't be even teaching.
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He thinks that you are stupid and not intelligent.
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And blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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Of course he loved the lesson, and then he texted me.
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"Oh, it was such a great lesson, thank you so much.
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"I learned so much."
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But that doesn't matter, right,
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everything that I thought to myself.
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And then I got obsessed with learning
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all these fancy words from "The New York Times."
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So I invested a lot of time learning a lot of words
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that I came across in all of these academic articles
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and business articles.
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And as I started teaching,
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I noticed that I'm not using these words.
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I'm not using these words.
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And all of a sudden I started forgetting
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about all these words, right?
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So I spent all this time learning these fancy words.
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But I never had a chance to use these words.
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And then I started exploring it and I started talking
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to my students, seeing what they are focusing on
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when they're learning new words.
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And they were pretty much doing what I was doing,
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learning all these fancy words.
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But they never had a real opportunity to use them.
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Maybe I used them in my academic writing,
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'cause at the time I was also learning
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English literature at the university.
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So yeah, every now and then I used one of those fancy words.
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But in speaking, in my lessons, when I was talking
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to friends, I was never using them.
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And then I started thinking about how we go about
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learning words, and is the investment that we're making
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in learning all of these new, fancy, nice-to-have words,
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is really advancing us in where we want to be,
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which is pretty much speaking fluently
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and being able to convey our message clearly
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with the right words, with the right flow,
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and of course with the right pronunciation and intonation.
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(gentle music)
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I want you to imagine your vocabulary as a circle.
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As a sort of a circle.
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So I was never great at drawing.
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Okay, anyway, you get the point, that's your vocabulary.
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I'll even write it here.
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Now, this is your overall vocabulary.
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That means that these are words that you understand,
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that you know, that if you were to read them in a book
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or hear them when someone speaks, you'd be like,
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I know exactly what it means, you wouldn't need
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to go to check them in the dictionary, okay?
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So here's the problem.
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The words that you use in regular conversation are here.
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It's a much more limited circle.
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Okay, so these are that you use easily, right?
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These are the words that are retrieved easily,
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words like house and on and chicken
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and soup and ladies and gentlemen,
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and maybe other words that you use on a regular basis,
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maybe words related to technology
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because you use them at work all of the time.
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However, there's still a gap here
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between the words that you know
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and the words that you actually use.
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Now, the problem is that a lot of people
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don't even think about these words as a challenge.
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They don't think they need to do anything with these words
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'cause they know these words, so they go ahead
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and spend a lot of time expanding and extending the circle.
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Now since it's the outer circle,
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it'll take a lot more energy and work to expand it,
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and you'll do a lot of hard work to expand it
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just a bit, right?
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And here's the problem, when you extend the outer circle,
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it doesn't do much to the inner circle, right?
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So these words usually stay unaccessible.
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I mean, you may understand them better when you read,
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so it definitely helps your comprehension
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and your listening skills.
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But the question is, is that helpful for your fluency,
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and does it prevent you from getting stuck?
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I don't think so.
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So what I'm saying is that instead of investing
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in the outer circle and expanding the outer circle,
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focus on this inner circle.
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I'm gonna use a different color for it.
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So you know that these are the words that you use easily.
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Start putting your focus on the words that you already know
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but you never use.
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These are the words that are not available.
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These are the words that get you frustrated
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because your subconscious mind knows that you know
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these words, and you're like, I know this word,
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how come it's not available?
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How come I can't use it?
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And then you remember it, right, an hour later.
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You're like, oh, that was the word I was looking for.
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Or when someone helps you and you're like,
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yes, yes, that's it, right?
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Whether it's words or phrases, whatever.
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But you know this, and you are just limiting yourself,
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or you haven't done something to make these words,
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to turn them into active words.
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Right now they're only passive.
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And passive doesn't help us with anything,
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especially not with our fluency.
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So as I'm suggesting, instead of expanding your vocabulary
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with all these fancy words that are important,
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don't get me wrong, I mean, it's great to know more words.
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It really is helpful, especially if you need to write
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academic articles, and if you want to write books,
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and if you want to understand better what it is
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that you're reading, so of course invest more time in it.
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I'm just saying don't expect it to be available right away
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without doing something about it.
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And what I'm also saying is these words are words
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that you hear around you all of the time.
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So maybe in the hierarchy of words, in terms of what words
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are more important than others, probably these words
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are more important 'cause you constantly hear them,
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you know them, right, that means that they're very,
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very present in the language.
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It's just that you don't use them,
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and that's the problem, okay?
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So I'm gonna take you back to the table,
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and there I'm going to share with you the steps
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that will help you start implementing those words
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into your day-to-day speech.
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So the first thing I want you to have is a memo
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on your phone, so you can use the Notes app.
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You can use Evernote, I'm gonna put a link to it below.
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That's a really great app to keep track of your notes.
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And there you're going to make a list of words.
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Now, this list of words, it needs to be super accessible,
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where every time you come across a word that you know,
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but you say to yourself I never use this word,
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so you need to have this inquisitive listening,
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where you constantly listen to words
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but you're also asking yourself, is this a word I use?
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Okay, especially words that you need.
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And again, remember, these are not words
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that you need to go to the dictionary to look them up.
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These are words that you know,
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but you find yourself never using them.
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And then I want you to put it on that list.
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Now, every now and then, you'll come across a word
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that you don't know, but you feel people are using it
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all of the time, and you may think to yourself,
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hey, maybe I need to know that word.
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You can put it on the list as well.
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But remember, the purpose, the first stage is to get you
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to start using all the words that you already know.
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It'll be a lot faster and a lot more effective.
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And then you are going to start adding those words
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as you are listening to English.
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So don't think about it and try to remember it,
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because you'll forget.
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The moment it happens, the moment you come across
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that word, you put it on your list.
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And then once a day, or once every other day,
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I want you to go to that list
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and pull one of those words out.
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The best way to make this word more available
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and more accessible is to first of all develop
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the muscle memory of the pronunciation.
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Let me tell you a secret.
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A lot of times your subconscious mind knows a word
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but will avoid using it because you are uncertain
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about its pronunciation.
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There is this fear here that is preventing you from using
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that word even though you know when you need to use it.
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So it keeps shoving it down until it's no longer available.
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So for example, let's say that on your list
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you have the word regurgitate.
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Now, this is a word that I know, but I never use.
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And I know that I can use it more often.
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So let's say that that's my word,
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and I'm going to probably say it 20, 30 times,
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just like this, regurgitate, regurgitate, regurgitate,
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regurgitate, regurgitate, regurgitate.
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Then I might want to use another resource
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to help me get it into my system.
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So then you can use our friend Google
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to Google for sentences with the word regurgitate.
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And then I would probably say these words out loud
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a few times, then I would want to invent some sentences
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with the word regurgitate.
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So for example, now I need to think about it.
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The students regurgitate the material
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they learned from their teachers.
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Okay, so maybe at first I'll get stuck.
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No, wait, is there a better way for me to say it?
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The students keep regurgitating the material
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they learned from their teachers.
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And then I say it again, and I'll try to refine it
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and do it again and again and again
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until it comes out naturally with flow.
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That's how I'm starting to connect all the dots together.
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All the senses, hearing it, seeing it,
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'cause it's written in my notebook.
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You might wanna write it phonetically.
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Feeling it in your mouth, getting the muscles
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to work around the sound.
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Reading it out loud, using resources
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that someone else created, and then creating
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my own sentences, right, and connecting all the dots there.
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The word with context.
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That's how you start remembering words.
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Now, don't overwhelm yourself.
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You don't need to do 10 of those a day.
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One word a day is enough.
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Expanding your vocabulary by 20 words
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within 20 days or 30 days, one month, is incredible.
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It's more than what you've had before, right?
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So the other alternatives, they don't work as well,
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so start enhancing the words that you already know.
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You will see that it's a skill, it's an acquired skill.
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The easier it is to start retrieving words that you know,
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the easier it will be for you to store new words
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or to start using words that you actually don't know.
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So what we're doing here will expand your vocabulary,
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will help you feel more expressive.
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But most importantly, it'll give you the skill
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to know how to retrieve words easily
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and to integrate words into your day-to-day speech
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fast and effectively.
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Remember that understanding something, gaining clarity
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without taking action right away is meaningless.
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It's as if you haven't done anything.
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So what I want you to do right now is take a piece of paper
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and a pen and write down 10 words.
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So you'll need to do some mind searching right now.
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Brain searching.
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And you'll need, I want you to come up with a list
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of 10 words that you know but you never use,
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you find yourself never using because you're not sure
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how to say those words, or maybe it's just
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they're not available.
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And if you can't think of something, then start a list
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of five words, maybe words that you heard in this video.
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Maybe the words that you have recently come across.
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If not, make a point that you'll get that list done
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by the end of today.
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And then I want you to post those 10 words
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in the comments below, because I really want you
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to commit to yourself to take action.
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And also your words are going to be someone else's resource.
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So this is a win-win situation.
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Okay, that's it, thank you so much for watching.
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If you like this video, I invite you to subscribe
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to my channel and come on over to my website
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to sign up for my email newsletter, where you'll get
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a new lesson into your inbox every single week.
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Also if you felt that this episode was beneficial,
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then share it with your friends, your students,
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your colleagues, so they can all enjoy the knowledge
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of new and old words.
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Have a beautiful week, and I'll see you next week
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in the next video.
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Bye.
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