Do this BEFORE the END OF THE YEAR to reach a breakthrough

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Accent's Way English with Hadar


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Hey everyone, it's Hadar.
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Thank you so much for joining me.
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This is the end of 2020.
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And, Oh my goodness, what a year this has been.
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And what I like to do at the end of each year, but in particular, in
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particular, at the end of this year - at the end of 2020, is reflect back on
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the passing year and to acknowledge all the progress that I've made and
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all the lessons that I've learned.
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So I can step into the new year with clarity and focus and motivation.
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And I want to do that year-end review with you today, focusing
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on your English journey.
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Now listen, even if you're watching this not at the end of 2020, this is still such
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an important process to do if you want to create change in how you learn, how
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you practice, and you finally want to see a breakthrough in your English fluency.
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Because to do that, you have to reflect back on what has worked
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and what hasn't worked for you to understand how to focus on the future.
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Now, this is going to be a two-part video series.
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In this episode, I'm going to ask you a few questions and
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explain why it's important to focus and answer these questions.
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And by the way, I wanted to make it super easy for you, so you can download
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the PDF and answer the questions in the PDF, so it's organized and clear.
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And I know you like organized and clear.
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So this is part one of the year in review.
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In the next episode, I'm going to share with you five unexpected
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things that are going to skyrocket your fluency in 2021 and beyond.
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Now, these are profound things that I haven't spoken about before.
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And I think they are imperative and crucial for your English journey.
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So, you definitely want to be there for that.
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And if you want to make sure that you don't miss out the next episode, be
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sure to subscribe to my channel, my podcast, or get on my email list to
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get this into your inbox directly.
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I'm going to put all the links in the description below.
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Now, if you want to get started and skip directly to the questions, you can click
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on the time code in the description below.
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But before that, I want to share with you my personal experience of 2020.
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2020 for me has been an incredible and crazy insane year.
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In terms of business, this has been our best year yet.
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Even though our local school has shut down because of COVID, which was really
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frustrating, our online school and online community has really grown,
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which I am so incredibly grateful for.
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We opened two new memberships: English Teachers Academy for English teachers who
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want to learn how to teach pronunciation with simplicity and also build and grow
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their online business; and Beyond - my English practice community for bilinguals.
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And overall, throughout 2020, we have welcomed over 1000 new
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students into all of our programs.
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We have welcomed new team members and thousands and thousands of new community
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members into the InFluency community - our free community on Facebook.
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But most importantly, this has been the year that we have seen the most
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breakthroughs - and significant breakthroughs - for our students.
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And I attribute that to two things.
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One, I think that what happened this year was that people had more time or they
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were more around their computers; and that has created more time than usual
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for them to put in the work and practice.
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Because, my friend, if you want to improve your English, you have
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to put in the time to practice.
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This is exactly why I created Beyond, which is just like a safe space and an
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effective place for you to practice.
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So, people had more time to practice, and ultimately that led to incredible results.
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But also, I think this year has opened doors for many people, because many
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people have moved to the online world.
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And all of a sudden, where you are in the world doesn't matter so much,
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and it feels like you almost have equal opportunities as everyone else.
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Which means that English has become such an important component in your
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personal and professional success.
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Because there are many more opportunities, but at the same
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time, people need English more.
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So people were willing to invest more time and more effort into
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building their English skills and improving their English fluency.
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And that commitment has led to more breakthroughs.
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So this is how I feel.
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Now, on a personal level, you know, this year has been the year where I had two
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little girls at home for most of the year.
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I've seen less and less of my friends and my team members.
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I was supposed to travel to business conferences and to travel with my family.
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And of course, that hasn't happened.
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So there was a lot of frustration around that.
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And the first part of the year felt like an ongoing race.
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But I have to tell you that the second part of the year has
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been a little different for me.
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First of all, because I've invested in my personal training and personal growth.
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And I've learned how to allow things to be without pushing; and
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also how to take time for myself, integrate more space in my life.
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And I can tell you that that is such a significant lesson for me.
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And I want to encourage you to do that as well.
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So, for all you people who are hard workers and all the teachers out there
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who are constantly on the go, it is so important to take time and create
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space for yourself and to invest in your personal development and your inner peace.
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Because without that, you'll constantly feel like you are just chasing your
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tail or you're on that hamster wheel.
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And when you take a step back and you look and reflect and breathe,
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then you allow the change to happen internally, and not just externally.
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So, this is just my experience from 2020.
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And I'm definitely going to take these lessons that I've learned and use them
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as I plan 2021, and as I go through 2021.
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And I pray that this year is the year where we go back as
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close as possible to normal.
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So let's get started with our year in review.
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And again, download the PDF so you can see these questions in front of you and also
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answer them inside the PDF and save it.
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The first question I want to ask you is what are you most proud of this year?
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What have you done this year that made you feel like you have
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done something different, you stepped out of your comfort zone?
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It is so important to acknowledge the things that you have accomplished
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and the things that you are good at.
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Because our tendency in our day-to-day life is to focus on
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all the negative stuff, right?
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Like, "I didn't do this right, I didn't do that right."
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"I need to improve here, I need to improve that."
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And we very rarely just sit, look back and think about all the
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good things that we have done.
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So, this is a great opportunity for you to acknowledge all the good stuff in your
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life and all the good things that you have accomplished when it comes to your English
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learning and English learning process.
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So, focus on the one thing that you're most proud of.
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It can be a program that you've joined and you followed through.
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It can be a conversation that you had that you really felt that you
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put everything that you know into it.
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It can be something that you were afraid of, but you did it anyway
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- anything that you feel most proud of.
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And you can even write it down in the comments so you can share it
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with the rest of the community.
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The next question is what inspired you most to take action?
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What motivated you?
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When were you most happy to do the work and to speak in English?
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Try to think back about certain situations or topics or specific people
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that you enjoyed speaking with; certain content that you enjoyed consuming.
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What was something that made you feel good about yourself?
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Rather than 'incompetent' or 'not enough'.
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So, focus on all the good things that this year has brought.
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And I know that for many of you, this has been an incredibly challenging year.
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And, you know, nothing went as planned.
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But at the same time, it's so important to cherish the moment that
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we're grateful for and to recognize the things that have worked for us.
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So, what kept you going?
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What kept you inspired?
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What kept you motivated?
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I want you to list all of that.
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Now, make sure that you write these things down and you take your time.
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Because if you just think about it, it's not going to stick or stay.
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And, you know, you won't be triggering new thoughts for yourself.
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So, I think this is such an important thing to take the time
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for yourself and to do it properly.
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Also, this part is going to help you understand and see what you'd like
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to see more of in the coming year.
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So, you'll understand better what keeps you going and what lights you up.
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The next question is, if you encounter a challenge when it comes to English - and
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when I'm talking about a challenge, it could be anything, don't limit yourself
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- just you can also write everything down.
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And it could be things like, "I did not have time to practice because I had to
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homeschool my kids", or "I had to work triple shifts", or "I lost my job and
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I was really upset and depressed, so I didn't find the motivation to practice".
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Or "I didn't have any patience".
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"I had the pandemic fatigue."
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"I had to work at the hospital all day long."
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Like whatever that was for you, write it down.
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Something that has prevented you from realizing your dreams
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or fulfilling your plans.
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But also, I want you to acknowledge the things that you have done
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to overcome this challenge.
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Even if it was "I let go for it for a little bit, and
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now I'm getting back to it."
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Right?
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So even if it means that you had to let go of your English practice, cause you
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had to homeschool your kids, that is okay.
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That is a way to tackle a situation that, you know, goes not as planned.
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Okay?
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So, write it all down.
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Again, download the PDF if you need to.
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And once you're done - you can pause this video - once you're done,
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we'll move on to the next question.
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Now, the next question is what hasn't worked for you when it comes to English?
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What did you try to do and you felt like it was not working for you,
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it wasn't right for you, you were disinterested, it was not effective?
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Maybe you felt like you've spent your money or maybe you felt like you didn't
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properly put something into practice.
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Anything that has not worked for you and you do not want to repeat
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it again - write it down as well.
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Again, it's important to understand that, you know, when we learn something or when
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we want to develop ourselves in a certain area, we try out a bunch of things.
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And some things are going to be a perfect fit for us, and others may not, even
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though they might work for other people.
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Okay?
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So, I want you to acknowledge that too, and not to feel guilty or to
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blame yourself for giving it a try.
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Because you are always, always doing your best to improve.
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And you are where you need to be.
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So even though you haven't accomplished the things that you want to accomplish,
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probably the circumstances have not allowed you to accomplish all the
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things that you wanted to accomplish.
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Again, especially this year, this is the year where you cannot be
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hard on yourself about anything.
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Okay?
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So, if you feel that you are unhappy with the results that you're seeing
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right now in your life, then this is your opportunity to start making
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changes and use that momentum of the new year to put it into practice.
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So, write down all the things that haven't worked for you
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and you don't want to repeat.
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And I also think it's important to reflect on that because sometimes we
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get into the pattern of doing things that we've done in the past, just
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because we've done them in the past.
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Even though they weren't beneficial for us, we do it just because it's
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already a habit that we're used to.
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Right?
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It's called the confirmation bias.
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We like to do things that we've done in the past to prove to ourselves that our
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original decision was the right decision.
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And sometimes it was not the right decision, but we keep doing things
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that we know are not good for us.
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So this is really important for us to recognize that this hasn't
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worked and there are plenty of other things that can work for you.
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And you want to focus on those things in 2021.
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Okay?
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So write it down, pause the video if you need to, and we'll
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move on to the next question.
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The next question.
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If you had planned to do something and you haven't done it, why
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didn't you follow through.
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Now, it might be a little similar to the question about challenges, but here
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I want you to focus on your habits.
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Okay?
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Why didn't you follow through if you had planned to do something in particular?
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Let's say, you signed up for a certain program or you decided to practice every
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day for 10 minutes, and you didn't do it.
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Why?
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Was it hard for you to follow through?
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What distracted you?
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What prevented you from showing up every day or every other day to do
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the work and to do the practice?
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As I said at the beginning, we've seen massive breakthroughs this year
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because our students were committed to practicing almost every single day.
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And the way we do it, and I think we also hacked the way in which we provide
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our students their practice, because it's very concise and very effective.
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So, we've made it really short and feasible to do almost every single day.
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But, if for you - if you haven't had a system to follow, you know - you
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need to look into what prevented you from following through.
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Was it too complicated?
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Was it vague?
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Did you not know what you were doing?
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Okay?
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So if you've made a commitment and you didn't follow through,
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why didn't you follow through?
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I think this is a very important question to reflect on.
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I can tell you that when it comes to business, this is something
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that I constantly ask myself.
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If I had made plans to accomplish something and I haven't, why
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haven't I followed through?
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One of the reasons could be, this was not important enough for me.
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But if it's important and I still haven't followed through, then I
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want to look into my habits and the way I approached that project.
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And maybe something there did not make sense.
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Okay?
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So, now it's your turn to reflect on those questions.
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The next question, and probably the most important question of them all, is 'what
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beliefs or limitations are you willing to let go of to be able to step into
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the next year with confidence and with power?' What are you willing to let go of?
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What negative thoughts, limiting beliefs, things that you think are not
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possible for you, all those things: that you're not enough, that you are
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a fraud, all those negative thoughts, all those words that your inner critic
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constantly says to you every time you open your mouth - this is not reality.
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This is not your reality.
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It's not facts, it's not the truth.
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And as such, it only exists within your head.
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So, the question is, are you willing to let go of that, to be able to
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reach that breakthrough and to finally feel fluent and accomplished
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in English in the coming year?
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Because here's the thing, mindset is everything.
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And if you think that you're going to practice more and do more work and
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spend hours and hours learning without working on your mindset and without
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understanding that you need to let go of all those limitations and limiting
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beliefs and fears - I mean, you can't let go of fears, fears are always there
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- but not to let those fears stop you.
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Unless you understand and willing to take active action to let go of that - and
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we're going to talk about how to do that in the next episode, in the second part
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of this video series - unless you're willing to do that, you won't be able to
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fully take advantage of your potential.
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It's time to step into your true potential because you can absolutely do it.
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Don't let anything get in your way.
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So, write down right now - what are you going to let go of to be able to step
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into your power in the coming year?
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Now, in the PDF that you'll download, you'll see the series of questions
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and also the questions related to part two of this video series.
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So, I hope you'll put it into practice and you'll feel that you are ready to make a
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change in your English and in your life.
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Thank you so much.
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I can't wait to hear from you in the comments below.
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So, let me know you think, what is the thing that you're most proud
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of, and share in the comments also, what are you willing to let go of?
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It is so important to share it with the community because honestly,
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you will recognize that you're not alone and you'll learn so much
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from other people's experience.
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And you'll gain that power, and strength, and motivation.
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Also, if you'd like to share your review with me, then you can answer the questions
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and take a picture, and upload to your stories and tag me so I can see it.
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And I can also reshare it in my stories so other people can see
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that we're all in this together.
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Thank you so much for being here.
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I love you very much.
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You are absolutely incredible.
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And I will see you in the next episode.
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Bye.
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