50 Important Questions in English

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Speak English With Vanessa


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Hi, I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com.
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Are you ready to answer and ask some of the most common questions in English and feel
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confident while you do it?
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Let's go.
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What do you do?
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If I asked you this question, would you freeze and think, "What am I doing?
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I'm watching a video?"
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Okay, no, the question, "What do you do?" is not asking what are you doing right now,
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it is an extremely specific question that only has one correct answer.
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If I asked you this, would your heart start to beat a little bit?
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What do I do?
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What do you do?
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What do you do?
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Well, never fear.
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In today's lesson, you are going to master the question, "What do you do?" and also 50
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of the most common questions in daily English conversation.
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I know that this lesson might be a little bit overwhelming.
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50 questions.
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So I have created for you a free PDF download with all of today's questions, all of the
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sample answers.
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And at the end of the PDF is my little challenge for you so that you can practice what you've
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learned.
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Make sure you click on the link below this video to download the free PDF worksheet for
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today's lesson.
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It is my gift to you.
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Are you ready to get started?
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Let's start with some greetings.
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I'm going to say each question and answer two times.
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The first time, I want you to listen.
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The second time, I want you to speak out loud and say it with me.
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Practice your speaking muscles and your pronunciation.
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You will grow and gain confidence with this style.
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Are you ready?
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How's it going?
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Pretty good, and you?
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One more time.
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Say it with me.
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How's it going?
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Pretty good, and you?
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How you doing?
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I'm good, how are you?
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How you doing?
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I'm good, how are you?
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You doing okay?
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I'm doing all right, how about you?
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You doing okay?
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I'm all right, how about you?
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Notice that a lot of these questions send back the question by saying, "How about you?"
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You're returning the question.
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See this in the next one.
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How you've been?
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I've been doing well, how about you?
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Great.
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You don't need to repeat, "How you've been?" to the other person.
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You can just say, "How about you?"
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Let's practice it together.
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How you've been?
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I've been doing well, how about you?
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What's been going on?
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Not much, how about you?
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Say it with me.
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What's been going on?
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Not much, how about you?
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What's new?
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Not a lot, what's new with you?
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Say it with me.
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What's new?
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Not a lot, what's new with you?
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Let's go on to some weather questions.
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What's it like out there?
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It's cloudy.
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I think it might rain later.
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Say it with me.
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What's it like out there?
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It's cloudy.
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I think it might rain later.
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Crazy weather we're having, huh?
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Notice this question just ends with, "huh?" because you want the other person to hopefully
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agree with you.
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So what can you respond to this question with?
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You might say, "Yeah, it's been so windy."
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Let's say it together.
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Crazy weather we're having, huh?
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Yeah, it's been so windy.
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Is it hot enough for you?
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Almost.
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This question is very sarcastic.
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If the weather is extremely hot and you ask, "Is it hot enough for you?"
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It's a little bit of a silly question, so you can reply to this with, "Almost.
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It's not hot enough for me.
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I want it to be hotter."
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So you can say, "Almost," but you're really acknowledging it is so incredibly hot.
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So try to say this with me.
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Is it hot enough for you almost?
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Almost.
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Can you believe how hot it is?
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So crazy.
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I can't believe it.
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Maybe it's February and it's extremely hot.
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This is very strange.
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That you could ask this question.
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Say it with me.
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Can you believe how hot it is?
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So crazy.
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I can't believe how hot it is.
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I can't believe it.
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Let's talk about some weekend questions.
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If you would like to practice some weekend questions with me in a speaking conversation
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format, you can watch this video up here I made, Speak With Me About Your Weekend Plans.
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Let's review some of those questions.
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What you've got going on this weekend?
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I'm going to go have dinner and a movie.
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Say it with me.
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What you've got going on this weekend?
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I'm going to go have dinner and a movie.
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How about you?
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Let's add that question to ask the other person.
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Say it with me.
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How about you?
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You doing anything fun this weekend?
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Yeah, my family's coming to visit.
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How about you?
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Great.
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Can you say this with me?
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You doing anything fun this weekend?
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Yeah, my family's coming to visit.
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How about you?
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What time are you going to head over here?
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I think I'll leave my house around 8:00.
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Does that work for you?
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This is a great question when someone is coming to your house or coming to the location where
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you are and you want to know, "Hey, when are you going to be here?"
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You can ask this question.
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Say it with me.
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What time are you going to head over here?
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I think I'll leave my house around 8:00.
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Does that work for you?
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Where do you want to meet up?
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Let's meet at the park at 7:00.
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Does that work with you?
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This is a great question to ask.
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Say it with me.
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Where do you want to meet up?
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Let's meet at the park at 7:00.
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Does that work with you?
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You can also substitute when for where.
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When do you want to meet up?
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Where do you want to meet up?
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Great, you're making plans to get together.
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You want to grab dinner?
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Sure.
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Where do you want to go?
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This is inviting someone to share a meal with you.
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Ask it with me.
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You want to grab dinner?
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Sure.
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Where do you want to go?
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You want to do dinner?
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Sure.
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What's a good time for you?
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To do dinner, this is a great way to form this question.
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You're asking if they want to join you for a meal.
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Another way to say that.
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Say it with me.
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You want to do dinner?
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Sure.
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What's a good time for you?
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Next, let's talk about job questions.
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Are you ready?
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What do you do?
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I'm a teacher.
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I teach students online to speak confidently and clearly in English.
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This was the question at the beginning of this lesson, "What do you do?"
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It's just, "What's your job?"
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But in daily conversation, we hardly ever ask directly, "What's your job?"
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Instead, we ask, "What do you do?"
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This happens in almost every bit of small talk.
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Every time you meet someone for the first time, they'll ask you, "What do you do?"
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And you can ask this question now, too.
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So let me know in the comments, what do you do.
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What's your day job?
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I run my own business from home.
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What about you?
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A day job is something that you do to make money.
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Maybe you're a farmer, but you don't make much money being a farmer, so your day job
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is a video editor.
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Okay, you have two jobs, but your day job is the one that sustains you financially.
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Ask it with me.
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What's your day job?
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I have an online business at home.
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Great.
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What field are you in?
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I'm in software engineering.
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What about you?
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This is a great question and a more general job question.
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Ask it with me.
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What field are you in?
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I'm in software engineering.
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What about you?
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What's it like to work there?
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I love it.
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It's so challenging.
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Every day there's something new.
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Can you ask this question with me?
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What's it like to work there?
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I love it.
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It's challenging and every day there's something new.
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If you would like to grow your vocabulary and speak more confidently about your job,
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don't miss this video, "How to Pronounce 100 jobs in English."
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Next, let's talk about some common questions in the office.
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You got a minute?
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Sure.
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What's up?
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Great question for interrupting someone and asking them a question.
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Ask it with me.
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You got a minute?
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Sure.
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What's up?
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What have you got for me?
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Here's the report you asked for.
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Great.
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Say it with me.
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What have you got for me?
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Here's the report you asked for.
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When you have a sec, can I ask you something?
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Sure, I'll be free in just a minute.
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This is great.
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You're interrupting someone politely.
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When you have a sec, can I ask you something?
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Sure, I'll be free in just a minute.
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Are we on the same page?
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I want to make sure that we understand each other correctly.
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This is great.
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Understanding on the same page.
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Are we on the same page?
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I want to make sure that we're understanding each other correctly.
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The next one is a silly one.
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Working hard or hardly working?
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This question is unfortunately very common in the workplace usually between coworkers.
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Usually, a boss will not ask an employee this.
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The first one, working hard means you're diligent.
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You're doing a lot.
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But what about the opposite?
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Hardly working means that you're only doing a little bit of work.
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Maybe if you look like you're relaxing at your desk, someone might say this, "Hey, working
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hard or hardly working?"
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Usually, you don't want to say the last one, hardly working, even if it's true.
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So usually, you should say the first one, "Working hard.
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Yeah."
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Next, let's talk about some common small talk questions that you can use all the time.
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Do you come here often?
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I do, it's the best.
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And you?
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Say it with me.
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Do you come here often?
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I do, it's the best.
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And you?
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Do you live in this area?
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No, I don't, I'm just visiting some friends.
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How about you?
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Do you live in this area?
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No, I don't, I'm just visiting some friends.
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How about you?
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How long have you been coming here?
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It's my first time here.
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What about you?
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Ask it with me.
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How long have you been coming here?
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It's my first time.
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How about you?
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How do you know Dan?
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We went to college together.
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And you?
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This is a great way if you have a mutual friend with someone else.
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You can ask what is their connection to that other person.
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Let's practice that together.
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How do you know Dan?
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We went to college together.
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How about you?
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Next, let's talk about some health questions.
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You might ask these or hear these if you get hurt.
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Notice that we don't ask, "How about you?
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What about you?" because it's not really a casual, chatty conversation.
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You were just concerned only about one person, not about the other.
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So you can ask, "You don't look so hot.
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You feeling okay?"
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Yeah, I think I'll be all right.
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This is a great question.
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When you say hot, you don't mean their temperature, you don't mean their looks.
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You're just saying, "You don't look very healthy.
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Maybe you seem like you'll be sick.
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Maybe you seem like you didn't sleep well."
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Let's ask this question together.
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You don't look so hot.
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You feeling okay?
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Yeah, I think I'll be all right.
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You going to be okay?
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Yeah, I think I just need to rest.
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Maybe if you trip or you fall down or you're coughing a lot or there's some kind of problems,
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someone might say, "You going to be okay?"
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Yeah, I think so.
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I just need to rest.
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When you go to the doctor or maybe a friend might even ask you, "Where does it hurt?"
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We might say, "It hurts between my neck and shoulders."
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Where does it hurt?
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It hurts between my neck and shoulders.
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Next, let's talk about some common questions that you might ask in your home, especially
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to other people who live there.
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Can you do the dishes?
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Sure, will you sweep the floor?
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Say it with me.
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Can you do the dishes?
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Sure, will you sweep the floor?
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Will you make the bed?
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I will, after I have coffee.
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Say it with me.
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Will you make the bed?
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I will, but after I have coffee.
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Can you get the door?
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Yeah, one second.
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What is "get the door"?
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This means someone is knocking on the door and you're asking someone else in the house
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to open the door.
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Can you get the door?
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You might even say, "Did you hear the door?"
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The door is not talking, it just means someone is knocking possibly on your door.
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Say it with me.
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Can you get the door?
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Yeah, in just a second.
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What's for dinner?
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No clue.
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I thought you were cooking.
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Is this a common question in your house?
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Say it with me.
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What's for dinner?
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No clue.
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I thought you were cooking.
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Can you give me a hand with the trash?
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Yeah, no problem.
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"Can you give me a hand with" is a great way to ask someone to help you.
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It's very polite and it's used in daily conversation.
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Say it with me.
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Can you give me a hand with the trash?
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Yeah, no problem.
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Will you ever clean up your stuff?
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Fine, I'll do it after this game.
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Do you get the tone here?
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Will you ever clean up your stuff?
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It's very angry and passive aggressive, so only say this if you're feeling very angry.
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Will you ever clean up your stuff?
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And the other person is a little bit angry too and says, "Fine, I'll do it after this
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game."
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Fine is not a positive thing to say.
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Instead, it's just, "I don't want to argue about this.
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Fine."
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Next, let's talk about some food related questions.
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What are you in the mood for?
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Does pizza sound okay with you?
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"Whatcha" is "what are you."
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You're asking, "What would you like to eat?"
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What are you in the mood for?
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Does pizza sound okay to you?
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What sounds good to you?
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I feel like something light.
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What sounds good to you?
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We're not talking about sound, we're talking about what do you want to eat.
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It's another way to ask this question.
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What do you want to eat?
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Do you want to eat something heavy and fried, or something light and not too heavy?
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Say it with me.
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What sounds good to you?
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I feel like something light.
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What sounds good to you?
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Let's imagine that you're at a restaurant and you ordered something and then you realized
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that you wanted to change your mind.
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You ordered a side of French fries, and then you realize, "No, I should get something healthier."
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What can you say to change your order?
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You can ask this question, "Actually, can I get the salad instead?"
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Of course the waiter will say yes, but it's still polite to ask, "Can I?"
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Can I get the salad instead?
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And your waiter will probably say, "Sure.
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Anything else I can get for you?"
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Can you ask that with me?
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Actually, can I get the salad instead?
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Sure.
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Anything else I can get for you?
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Next, let's talk about asking for directions.
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It's very important to ask the right questions to get to the right place and to answer them
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accurately.
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Where are you headed?
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I'm looking for the park.
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Is it around here?
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Where are you headed?
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This is asking, "Where are you going?"
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We often use the verb "to head" to mean, "This is where I'm going."
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I'm heading to the park.
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Let's ask this question together.
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Where are you headed?
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I'm looking for the park.
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Is it around here?
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Can you tell me where the bank is?
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It's two streets over at the intersection.
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You can't miss it.
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When someone says, "You can't miss it," usually that means you'll probably miss it.
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It's not so obvious.
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But let's ask this question together.
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Can you tell me where the bank is?
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Yes, it's two streets over at the intersection.
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You can't miss it.
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How far is the nearest grocery store?
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Not far, it's right down the street, on the left.
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Right down the street, on the left.
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Sometimes we use the word "right" to mean close.
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So it's not very far, it's down the street.
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But when we add the word "right," you get the feeling of it's close.
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It's not all the way down the street, it's just right on the street, but it's actually
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on the left.
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Very interesting.
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Let's ask this question together.
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How far is the nearest grocery store?
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Not far, it's right down the street on the left.
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Is there a gas station around here?
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No, you have to drive 10 minutes to get to the nearest gas station.
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Ask it with me.
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Is there a gas station around here?
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No, you have to drive 10 minutes to get to the nearest gas station.
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For our final five common conversation questions, these are bonus expressions.
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I'd like to call them conversation nudges.
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A nudge is like a push and it helps keep the conversation going.
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You're not exactly asking for specific information, you're just asking them to continue talking
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about what they were saying.
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These questions we sometimes use when there's some surprising information.
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Let me give you a little example.
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I have a friend who has been going on some dates that she found on Tinder.
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Well, I've been married for 11 years, so I don't really know about dating on Tinder,
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dating online.
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I don't know anything about that.
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So when she told me that, I can ask her this question, "What's that like?"
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I have no experience with it.
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Is it scary to talk to someone who you haven't met in person?
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Or is it exciting?
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Is it thrilling?
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What's that like?
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And you're getting them to give you some more information.
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"It's fine," or, "Yeah, I really don't like it."
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You want to get some information by asking, "What's that like?" because I don't have experience
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with that, and I want to know about your experience.
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Let's imagine a similar situation.
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Let's say that the same friend who's going on some dates she met on Tinder tells you...
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Well, actually, she told me.
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She went on a pretty nice date.
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He was nice, they had a good time.
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And at the end of the date, he says, "Hey, do you want to come back to my house?"
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She wasn't very interested in going back to his house, at least not yet on the first date.
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But before she could say anything, he said, "Well, I need to call my wife and ask if that's
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okay with her."
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What?
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I haven't been on a date in a very long time, but I feel like this is probably not common,
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right?
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I hope not.
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Not very normal.
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So what kind of question can you ask in this type of shocking situation?
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Let me give you a couple.
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How did you feel about that?
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So we're not assuming that your friend is upset at that, but I'm kind of imagining that
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she is.
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So you're asking, "What was your experience like?"
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How did you feel about that?
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If you want to be even more shocked, you could ask, "What's up with that?
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Why wasn't he honest with you at the beginning?
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What's up with that?"
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And you're asking a question that doesn't really need a reply, because you are just
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showing your feelings about this situation.
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Or you could say, "What's that all about?
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Or, "What's the deal?
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Can't people just be honest at the beginning of a date and say, or even before you talk,
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'Hey, I'm married.
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Is it okay if we go on a date?
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My wife's okay with this.
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We have an unusual relationship.'?"
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Just be honest and upfront about this, because it's not exactly common, I would imagine.
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So if someone tells you something shocking, you can ask one of these questions.
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What's up with that?
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What's the deal?
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These are great ways to show you are shocked.
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All right, congratulations on practicing all of those 50 questions.
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How are you feeling?
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You feeling okay?
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Well, now I have a question for you.
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Let me know in the comments, what do you do.
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Do you remember what this question means?
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If not, you'll have to go back and watch all this whole lesson again.
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What do you do?
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And don't forget to download the free PDF worksheet for this lesson so that you can
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master all of these questions, answers, tips, and also answer my little challenge section
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at the bottom of the PDF so that you can practice what you've learned.
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Well, thank you so much for learning English with me, and I'll see you again next Friday
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for a new lesson here on my YouTube channel.
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Bye.
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The next step is to download the free PDF worksheet for this lesson.
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With this free PDF, you will master today's lesson and never forget what you have learned.
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You can be a confident English speaker.
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Don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel for a free English lesson every Friday.
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Bye.
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