MASTER ENGLISH FLUENCY | 5 TIPS TO SPEAK ENGLISH WITH CONFIDENCE

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Speak English With Tiffani


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Hey.
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Welcome back.
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We are about to jump into another English lesson.
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Now this week, my goal is to help you with your English fluency, specifically
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with your confidence in your own English fluency, I'm gonna give you five
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tips, five tips that will completely transform your English fluency and
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help you move to the next level.
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Are you ready?
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Well then.
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I'm teacher Tiffani.
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Let's jump right in.
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Alright.
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Let's get started with tip number one.
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The very first thing to help you, again, speak English with confidence is
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to immerse yourself in English media.
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Now I'm gonna break down this tip a little bit more.
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But I want to say it again.
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Immerse yourself in English media, we are living in a time where the
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Internet, cell phones, computers, all of these technological advancements
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have connected us in ways that did not exist twenty, thirty, forty,
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fifty, even sixty years ago.
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And that means that for you as an English learner, this is the best time
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to take your English to the next level.
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You can do this because the Internet is available to you.
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That's how you're watching me.
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So in order to speak English with confidence, you must immerse
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yourself in English media.
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Let me break it down some more for you.
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You have to surround yourself with English books, movies, TV shows,
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and music to expose yourself to the language consistently.
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In our last lesson, the previous week, when I told you the story during story
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time, I got another one for you later on.
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I mentioned how I learned the importance of consistency.
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The same is true for this tip.
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You have to consistently, on a consistent basis, be immersing
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yourself in the English language.
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You need to immerse yourself in the culture as well.
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So maybe you're wondering to yourself, Tiffani, how can I do this?
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I live in a country where I'm actually the only one learning English.
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Or maybe you live in a country where you have friends trying to
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learn English but there's no other native English speakers around you.
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Let me tell you this.
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Even if you're in that situation, you can still immerse yourself in English.
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Get out your cell phone if you have one.
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Get your computer.
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Whatever device you have where you access the Internet, get that device.
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Find a podcast you like.
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Find YouTube channels, not just with English teachers like myself.
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I'm happy you're watching the video or listening to this lesson,
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but find other videos on YouTube about topics you're interested in.
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Music, food, technology, whatever you're interested in, but find a
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channel that is run by a native English speaker and watch it.
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Immerse yourself in it.
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Even if you don't understand everything in the beginning, at the beginning,
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you might not understand every word, every expression they're using.
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But over time, you'll start to understand more.
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We're talking about helping you speak English with confidence, you need
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to immerse yourself in the language.
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And the Internet is now giving you the ability to do this
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even if you're not living in a native English speaking country.
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So number one.
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Tip number one, immerse yourself.
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Everyday, be watching something or listening to something or even reading
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something in English, enjoy it though.
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Have fun with it.
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Alright?
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Tip number one.
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Now let's move on to tip number two.
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Again, we're talking about helping you speak English with confidence.
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Tip number two, practice speaking with native English speakers.
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Now you're probably thinking to yourself, once again, Tiffani, how?
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I'm not in a situation where I have access to native English speakers.
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My friend, don't you worry.
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Don't worry.
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Let me explain this tip a little bit more.
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It's important to find conversation partners or join language exchange
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programs to practice speaking with native English speakers.
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You can engage in conversations on various topics.
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Now you might be in the situation where you cannot afford to pay for a tutor.
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Again, going back to what I said earlier, my friend, you
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do have access to the Internet.
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Go online.
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Find Facebook groups, Facebook forums.
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Go online and find different websites where people are chatting, having
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conversations and join the conversations.
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You don't have to start out with, I'm sorry.
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I'm an English learner or I'm sorry.
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My English is not good.
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No.
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Just hop.
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You see that?
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If you're watching the video, hop right into the conversation, that's how you
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will improve your English confidence.
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People don't care if your English is the best or if you make mistakes, just
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get involved with the conversation.
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People will be interested in what you have to say.
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Now the important thing is when you're entering these conversations, make
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sure the conversations are about topics you're actually interested in.
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If you don't like politics, don't don't join a politics forum.
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But maybe you're a gamer.
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Right, maybe you like video games or maybe you're an individual
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who enjoys talking about history.
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Join forums.
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Join groups where these topics are being discussed.
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And what's going to happen is you're going to develop relationships.
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You're going to develop friendships, and over time, you'll start speaking more
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with certain individuals in these groups.
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And you might actually say, hey.
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You guys wanna hop on to a Zoom call?
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Let's actually see each other.
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Let me tell you a quick story.
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This not part of story time.
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Don't worry.
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Story time is coming later.
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But this happens.
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So in my academy, I run the speak English with Tiffani academy.
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And again, you are welcome to join our family.
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The link is in the description.
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But in my academy, I have watched my students become best friends.
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I have watched students travel to other countries to meet each other and
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they literally are now best friends.
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They've met each other's families.
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Why?
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Because online, they were interacting with each other.
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Now the same can happen with a native English speaker if your
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goal is simply to get to know them, this is a tip I wanna give you in
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conjunction in addition to this tip.
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When you are speaking with native English speakers, remember, we are humans too.
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We know that you wanna learn our language and we know.
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Again, I'm a teacher so it's totally okay.
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My position in this relationship is as your teacher.
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But when you're trying to have conversation with other native English
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speakers, remember, the other person on the screen, if you're having a video
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call, the other person on the opposite side of your texting is a real person.
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So they don't wanna feel like, oh, you really don't care about me.
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You just want me because of my English.
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Just remember, we're all human beings and the moment you start caring about
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them as a person, that's when you'll start developing deep relationships and
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will actually help your English fluency.
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I experienced this many times when I lived in Korea and I had so many
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conversations with other English teachers saying like, man, there are
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some students we just click with.
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Why?
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Because they treat me like I'm a person.
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Uh, I'm not just someone that can give them what they
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need but they care about me.
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And I developed some close relationships with who were students initially but
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are now literally very close friends.
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So, again, this tip, I wanna help you.
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Your goal yes.
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I know you wanna speak English with confidence.
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But with this tip, in order to practice speaking with native speakers,
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care about the native speaker.
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Unless you're paying for a tutor, it's totally okay.
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In that relationship, they are your teacher.
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They are your tutor.
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But if you're going to these free platforms and trying to start
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conversations, just keep in mind, they are people and they want to get to know you
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just like you'd like to get to know them.
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You got me?
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Excellent.
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Alright.
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Let's move on to number three.
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Number three.
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Tip number three is listen to English podcasts.
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When I say you have so many podcasts, totally free podcasts
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at your disposal ready for you.
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You can, again, take out your cell phone or on your computer, listen
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to these podcasts totally for free.
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Now, again, you already know about my podcast, the Speak
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English with Tiffani podcast.
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Of course, I think it's a wonderful podcast.
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Many students agree, and I hope it helps you.
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But I'm not just speaking about podcasts run by English teachers.
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I'm speaking about podcasts run by native English speakers where they're
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just speaking about topics that they're interested in, this is so important.
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Again, it starts with you knowing your interests, what are you interested in?
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And then go online.
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Go to your phone.
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If you have a podcast app, look for podcasts about that
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topic and start listening.
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Here's the thing.
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Listen to English podcasts on a variety of topics to improve your listening
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skills and expose yourself to different accents, vocabulary, and expressions,
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we are talking about helping you speak English with confidence, but the way
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you start speaking with confidence is also by improving your listening skills.
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You're gaining confidence in your ability to comprehend what is being
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said and then you'll apply the patterns that you're hearing, the words that
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you're hearing being used and the expressions which will inevitably help
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you improve your English speaking ability.
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Makes sense.
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Right?
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Now again, it's important to find podcasts that are related to
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topics that you are interested in.
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You don't wanna find podcasts about random things because you're
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not interested in random things.
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So find podcasts that are really about topics you are interested in, and
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these podcasts will help you improve your listening skills, if that makes
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sense, I want you to shake your head.
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There you go.
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I love it.
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I love it.
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Alright.
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Now I want us to move on to number four, tip number four,
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another very important tip.
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If your desire is to speak English with confidence, you
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need to write in English daily.
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Listen.
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You need to write in English daily.
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Now I'm gonna show those who are watching this lesson.
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I know those who are listening cannot see what I'm about to do.
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With those that are watching this lesson, right behind me, you'll
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see tons of notebooks right here.
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These are just some of my notebooks and I have tons of notebooks on
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the right side of me and also in my work bag, in my office closet, I
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have tons of notebooks everywhere.
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Why?
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Because I write a lot.
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Now I write down things related to this business.
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How can I help more English learners?
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How can I make better lessons?
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How can I dot dot dot?
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In an effort to help you reach your English goals.
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I write things down.
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There's something that happens when you write things down.
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It helps your brain process information and it also helps you retain information.
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So for you as an English learner, set aside time each day to write in
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English, whether it's journaling, writing essays, or practicing
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grammar exercises, seek feedback from native English speakers if possible.
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Remember, the goal of this practice is not to get every single
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word that you write corrected.
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Is the grammar right?
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No.
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The goal is to help you process your thoughts and produce
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them on paper in English.
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It's interesting.
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Right?
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I'm helping you speak English with confidence, but the last two
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tips have been about listening and writing, not speaking.
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The reason is because of the way our brains work.
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In order to speak with confidence, the very first thing that must happen in your
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brain is your thoughts being organized.
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So you have to process your thoughts.
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So listening to other people processing their thoughts actually
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helps you learn how to process your thoughts better in English.
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The same is true for this tip.
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Writing in English, in order to write something down on a piece of paper,
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you have to process information.
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What do I wanna say?
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What do I wanna write about my day today?
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In order to write, I must first organize my thoughts.
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So for you, my friend, your goal is to speak English with confidence.
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I'm telling you right now, if starting today, you begin writing,
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it doesn't matter the amount of time.
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Remember I said last week, consistency and just doing it.
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As long as you pick, it could be two minutes.
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It could be five minutes.
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It might be fifteen.
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It's up to you.
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But do it every day.
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Just write what happened during your day.
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Write something that you heard that really impressed you.
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I guarantee later on, what you wrote is gonna come out of your mouth because
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you've already processed it in your brain.
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Makes sense.
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Right?
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Excellent.
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Alright.
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Here we go.
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Tip number five, another important tip.
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Here we go.
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Take advantage of language learning apps, listen.
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I am telling you, the time that we are living in right now, you have everything
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literally being put on a plate for you.
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Meaning it's so easy to access things that back in the day
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were very challenging to access.
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I remember when I was learning Korean, at that time, the only thing
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really available was Rosetta Stone.
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Some of you may remember and some of you might not remember
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what Rosetta Stone actually was.
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It was the most popular language learning program at that time.
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At that time, we didn't have these amazing, uh, cell phones with
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all of these language learning apps, my friend, download a
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language learning app and use it.
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Now, of course, you know, I also have an app, the English with Tiffani app, and I
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encourage everyone to download the app.
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The app is free to download.
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But why do I encourage you to use this app?
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Again, you might not.
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That's totally okay.
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There might be another app that will be helpful for you.
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Go for it.
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But why do people like myself, teachers, or other individuals
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create these language learning apps?
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Because we know how important it is to be consistently engaging with the language,
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you always have your phone with you.
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So when you're sitting on the bus or you're traveling somewhere or you just
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have a few moments, you could open your phone, open the app, and even
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for five minutes, practice something.
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So whatever app you choose, again, it might not be my app English
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with Tiffani and that's okay.
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But if you find another app, make sure you're using it.
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So let me explain this a little bit more a little bit more.
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Use language learning apps, again, like the one I mentioned, English with
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Tiffani, to reinforce your language skills, practice on the go and discover
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new ways to improve your fluency.
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My team and I for the app that I've created, again, hopefully, you'll
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download it and link it to the description, we work continuously to
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figure out ways to help English learners.
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Hey.
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This is a good practice, um, application we can help the students
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really start using on a regular basis or, hey, let's add this to the app,
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this video lesson to help students.
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Why?
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Because our entire goal is to help you achieve your English goals.
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And the same is true for every other language learning app, you have the
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opportunity to download multiple apps that will help you on your English journey.
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Alright?
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Now, again, I have practice lessons after every one of my video lessons.
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And for those listening to the podcast, you can practice in the app.
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Why?
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I want you to reach your goals and so do other English teachers and people that
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have created language learning apps.
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So use the apps.
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They will help you so much.
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Now I hope you enjoyed these tips.
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Before we end our lesson today, I wanna let you know if you're watching
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this in real time or listening to this, I am going to be doing live
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classes on YouTube every month.
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Once a month, full English class, we are going to have a great time.
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Words, expressions, American culture, you'll see video clips
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from my life and so much more.
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My goal is to help you improve your English this year.
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I want you to go to the next level.
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So don't miss out on these live English classes.
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Go to my YouTube page.
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You'll see when they're announced, and you can join these live classes.
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They are specifically for the members of my YouTube channel.
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And again, the first one in January is gonna be open to everyone.
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I wanna see you there.
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Don't miss it.
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Hope you enjoyed the lesson.
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As always, remember to speak English.
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You still there?
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You know what time it is.
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It's story time.
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A, I said it's story time.
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A, let's do it again.
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Story time.
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A, a, a, I said it's story time.
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Alright.
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I have a very nice story for you today.
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You know, a few weeks ago, it's probably been a month now, I
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was working at a Starbucks.
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So I like to work at Starbucks sometimes when I'm trying to create new lessons
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for you and organize information.
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So I was working at a Starbucks not well, about thirty minutes or so from my office.
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And I normally like to get, uh, chai tea latte.
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I don't drink coffee, but I like chai tea and I add a little almond milk.
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So I was getting ready.
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My mouth was watering.
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I was standing in line about to get my chai tea latte.
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And I noticed a woman that was on my left side.
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She was probably around my mom's age.
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Right?
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So she looked good, um, but I was like, okay.
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She's a little older, so let me let her get in front of me.
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So I looked to her and I said, oh, ma'am, you can go first.
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She's like, oh, no, baby.
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I'm okay.
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I said, no.
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No.
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It's totally okay.
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You are welcome to go first.
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So there were two lines open, and I let her go to the first one.
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So I went to the second one.
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And I was telling the other individual my order and I kind
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of overheard that the first cash register actually wasn't working.
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So I noticed that the woman was just standing there next to me.
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So I stopped my order and I looked at her.
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She said, oh, baby.
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It's okay.
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I'll just wait for you to make your order because I can't
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place my order on this side.
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Their register is closed.
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And the thought came to me.
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Maybe I should just buy her drink for her.
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There was no reason just, hey.
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It's nice to do something nice for other people around Thanksgiving time.
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So I looked at her and I said, you know what?
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I got you today.
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Tell her what you want and I'll pay for it.
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And her face just lit up.
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She was like, no.
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I was like, ma'am, it is totally okay.
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I would be more than happy to buy your drink.
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She said, oh, thank you so much.
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So she made her placed her order and, of course, that
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led us to have a conversation.
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So she looked at me and she was like, man, you know, it's so nice to meet
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people and just have conversations.
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And, you know, when someone does something nice for you, she said, I I really
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love doing nice things for people too.
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And I was looking at her as she was talking and I was
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like, man, this lady is nice.
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And I would have never known this about her, her being so nice if we hadn't
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run into each other in this line.
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But she continued to tell me as we were waiting for our drinks to come up.
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She said, you know, my husband died forty years ago.
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Now remember, I said she looked about to be about the age of my mother.
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My mother and father have been married for fifty years, about fifty years.
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And she said my husband died forty years ago.
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And, of course, I started calculating in my head and saying, man, lord, this
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woman lost her husband when she was either in her twenties or thirties, and
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I thought about what that would be like to lose a loved one and she continued
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talking to me and she said, you know, God has been good to me and, um, and she
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really just progressed to tell me all about her life and how she she worked
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to different companies and she didn't have a college education, but god had
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blessed her to get jobs and she was just telling me how her life had worked
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out and she told me about her house.
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She was basically telling me her life story.
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And as I was standing there listening to her, something that God brought
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to my mind I wanna share with you.
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We never know what someone else is going through.
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We never know what someone else might need.
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At that moment, I could tell that this lady needed someone to talk to.
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This lady really wanted to have some sort of interaction.
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She lived alone.
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In the midst of her telling her life story, she told me she lived alone.
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And she said this moment right here, just you being able to
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speak to me has brightened my day.
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So I want to remind you, you never know what someone is going through and you
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never know how a simple smile, a simple acknowledgement, speaking to someone,
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saying hello can change their day.
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As we move throughout this year, I want us yes.
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You and me together.
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I want us to try to make a bigger impact on the world.
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Wherever you live, wherever you are right now, every day I want you to
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wake up and think to yourself, today, I want to bring joy to someone's life.
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Whether it be by smiling at them, whether it be by saying a kind word, whatever it
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might be, this year, I want us together to impact the world in a positive way.
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Let's meet somebody and bring joy to their lives.
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I hope you enjoyed this story, and I'll talk to you in the next lesson.
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