How to Express Appreciation in English | 6 Ways to Encourage Others

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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

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Have you ever wondered what it is that makes our words so powerful?
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우리의 말을 κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ κ°•λ ₯ν•˜κ²Œ λ§Œλ“œλŠ” 것이 무엇인지 κΆκΈˆν•œ 적이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
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How can they have such a strong impact on others? In his book,
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그듀은 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ κ°•ν•œ 영ν–₯을 λ―ΈμΉ  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 그의 μ €μ„œμΈ μ„±κ³΅ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€
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the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People,
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의 7가지 μŠ΅κ΄€μ—μ„œ
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Stephen Covey has a quote that just might explain this. He says,
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Stephen CoveyλŠ” 이것을 μ„€λͺ…ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μΈμš©λ¬Έμ„ 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·ΈλŠ” μΈκ°„μ—κ²Œ
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next to physical survival,
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윑체적 생쑴 λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ
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the greatest need of a human being is psychological survival.
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κ°€μž₯ ν•„μš”ν•œ 것이 심리적 생쑴이라고 λ§ν•œλ‹€.
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To be understood, to be affirmed, to be validated,
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μ΄ν•΄ν•˜κ³ , ν™•μΈν•˜κ³ , ν™•μΈν•˜κ³ ,
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and to be appreciated. Think about that for a moment.
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κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μž μ‹œ 생각해 λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
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With the power of your words,
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말의 힘으둜
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you have the ability to motivate and inspire your coworkers.
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λ™λ£Œλ“€μ—κ²Œ 동기λ₯Ό λΆ€μ—¬ν•˜κ³  μ˜κ°μ„ 쀄 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ΅œμ•…μ˜ λ‚ 
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You can make your best friend smile on her worst day,
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κ°€μž₯ μΉœν•œ 친ꡬλ₯Ό μ›ƒκ²Œ λ§Œλ“€ 수
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and you can support a family member in a meaningful way as they make a
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있고 특히 μ–΄λ €μš΄ μ‹œκΈ°μ— 결정을 λ‚΄λ¦¬λŠ” 가쑱을 의미 μžˆλŠ” λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ 지원할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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decision during a particularly difficult time. Most importantly,
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. κ°€μž₯ μ€‘μš”ν•œ 것은
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you can give someone else the gift of knowing you,
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ 당신을 μ•Œκ³ ,
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understand you see, and you value them.
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당신이 보고 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ΄ν•΄ν•˜κ³ , 당신이 그듀을 μ†Œμ€‘ν•˜κ²Œ μ—¬κΈ°λŠ” 선물을 쀄 수 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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When you express sincere appreciation,
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진심 μ–΄λ¦° 감사λ₯Ό ν‘œν•  λ•Œ
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such words might come easily to you in your native language,
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κ·ΈλŸ¬ν•œ 단어가 λͺ¨κ΅­μ–΄λ‘œ μ‰½κ²Œ λ‚˜μ˜¬ 수
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but if you've ever struggled to find the right words in English to
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μžˆμ§€λ§Œ μ§„μ •ν•œ κ°μ‚¬λ‚˜ 진심어린 격렀λ₯Ό ν‘œν˜„ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ˜¬λ°”λ₯Έ 단어λ₯Ό μ°ΎλŠ” 데 어렀움을 κ²ͺ은 적이 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄
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express genuine appreciation or sincere encouragement,
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this lesson will help.
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이 μˆ˜μ—…μ΄ 도움이 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 진심 μ–΄λ¦° 감사λ₯Ό μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ ν‘œν˜„ν•  수 μžˆλŠ”
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I want to share with you six different ways you can express sincere appreciation
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6가지 방법을 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„κ³Ό κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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in English, and of course, along the way,
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λ¬Όλ‘  κ·Έ κ³Όμ •μ—μ„œ 7가지 μ‹€μ œ μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—
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I'll provide examples with seven real-world scenarios.
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λŒ€ν•œ 예λ₯Ό μ œκ³΅ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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By the end,
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λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μ—λŠ” μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ 감사와 격렀의 말둜
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you'll know exactly how to lift others up with your words of appreciation
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ κ²©λ €ν•˜λŠ” 방법을 μ •ν™•νžˆ μ•Œκ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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and encouragement in English.
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.
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First, if you don't already know, I'm Annemarie with Speak Confident English.
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λ¨Όμ €, 아직 λͺ¨λ₯΄μ‹ λ‹€λ©΄ Speak Confident English의 Annemarieμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Everything I do is designed to help you get the confidence you want for your
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μ œκ°€ ν•˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ“  일은 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄
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life and work in English.
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μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ‚Άκ³Ό 일을 μœ„ν•΄ μ›ν•˜λŠ” μžμ‹ κ°μ„ 얻을 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ 돕기 μœ„ν•΄ κ³ μ•ˆλ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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One way I do that is with my weekly Confident English lessons where I focus on
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μ œκ°€ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜λŠ” ν•œ 가지 방법은 였늘 이 μˆ˜μ—…μ—μ„œμ™€ 같이 μ˜μ‚¬μ†Œν†΅ ν›ˆλ ¨μ„ ν¬ν•¨ν•œ λͺ©ν‘œ μ˜μ–΄ μ£Όμ œμ— μ§‘μ€‘ν•˜λŠ” μ£Όκ°„ μžμ‹ κ° μžˆλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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targeted English topics including communication training,
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just like in this lesson today. So while you're here,
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. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ μ—¬κΈ° μžˆλŠ” λ™μ•ˆ
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make sure you subscribe to the Speak Confident English YouTube channel so you
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Speak Confident English YouTube 채널을 κ΅¬λ…ν•˜μ—¬
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never miss one of my Confident English lessons.
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제 Confident English μˆ˜μ—… 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λ₯Ό λ†“μΉ˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”.
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Before we get into six different ways to express sincere appreciation in
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진심어린 감사λ₯Ό μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ ν‘œν˜„ν•˜λŠ” 6가지 방법에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ•Œμ•„λ³΄κΈ° 전에 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  일과 ν•˜μ§€ 말아야 ν•  일 λͺ‡ 가지에
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English, let's talk about a few dos and don'ts.
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λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기해 λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€ .
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We'll start with three don'ts and then I'll share what to do instead.
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μ„Έ 가지 ν•˜μ§€ 말아야 ν•  일뢀터 μ‹œμž‘ν•œ λ‹€μŒ λŒ€μ‹  ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  일을 κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Number one,
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첫째, 감사할 λ•Œ
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don't be vague or ambiguous in your appreciation.
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λͺ¨ν˜Έν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λͺ¨ν˜Έν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ .
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Appreciation that is vague is appreciation that isn't specific
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λͺ¨ν˜Έν•œ κ°μ‚¬λŠ” κ°œμΈμ—κ²Œ κ΅¬μ²΄μ μ΄κ±°λ‚˜ κ°œμΈν™”λ˜μ§€ μ•Šμ€ 감사
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or personalized to an individual, and as a result,
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이며, 결과적으둜
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it can sound disingenuous, for example,
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μ†”μ§ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ²Œ 듀릴 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό
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rather than using some general statements such as great job,
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it's better to include what exactly someone did well,
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λ“€μ–΄ μˆ˜κ³ ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ,
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why are you telling them that they've done a great job?
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그듀이 ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ 일을 ν–ˆλ‹€κ³  μ™œ κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ λ§ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
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The second don't on this list is don't overuse Superlatives.
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이 λͺ©λ‘μ—μ„œ 두 번째둜 ν•˜μ§€ 말아야 ν•  것은 μ΅œμƒκΈ‰ ν‘œν˜„μ„ λ‚¨μš©ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Superlatives are extreme adjectives used in extraordinary
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μ΅œμƒκΈ‰μ€
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situations such as amazing, incredible,
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λ†€λΌμš΄, 믿을 수 μ—†λŠ”
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or awesome. These words certainly are meaningful,
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λ˜λŠ” 멋진과 같은 νŠΉλ³„ν•œ μƒν™©μ—μ„œ μ‚¬μš©λ˜λŠ” 극단적인 ν˜•μš©μ‚¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이 단어듀은 ν™•μ‹€νžˆ μ˜λ―Έκ°€ μžˆμ§€λ§Œ
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but when they're overused, they lose their power.
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λ‚¨μš©λ˜λ©΄ νž˜μ„ μžƒμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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And lastly,
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그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ λͺ¨ν˜Έν•œ μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό ν”Όν•˜λŠ” 것과 같은
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don't make impersonal statements similar to avoiding
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비인격적인 μ§„μˆ μ„ ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€
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vague language.
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.
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Words of encouragement that lack a personal touch or
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개인적인 감동이 λΆ€μ‘±ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜
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that aren't tailored to a specific individual can sound hollow and
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νŠΉμ • κ°œμΈμ—κ²Œ μ ν•©ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ€ 격렀의 말은 κ³΅ν—ˆν•˜κ²Œ 듀릴 수 있고
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be easily forgotten. So with those three don'ts in mind,
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μ‰½κ²Œ μžŠν˜€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ”°λΌμ„œ 이 μ„Έ 가지λ₯Ό 염두에 두고
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let's talk about what to do instead.
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λŒ€μ‹  ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  일에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기해 λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€.
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So you're able to express meaningful,
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 의미 있고
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genuine appreciation and encouragement. In English.
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μ§„μ •ν•œ 감사와 격렀λ₯Ό ν‘œν˜„ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ.
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Here we have just one do.
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μ—¬κΈ°μ„œλŠ” ν•  일이 ν•˜λ‚˜λ§Œ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ κ°μ‚¬μ˜ 말을 받은 ν›„
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Do focus on or consider how you want someone to feel
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μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ 느끼길 μ›ν•˜λŠ”μ§€μ— μ΄ˆμ μ„ λ§žμΆ”κ±°λ‚˜ κ³ λ €ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€
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after they receive your words of appreciation. For example,
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. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
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if you want someone to feel valued,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ κ°€μΉ˜ μžˆλ‹€κ³  느끼기λ₯Ό μ›ν•œλ‹€λ©΄, κ·Έ
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make sure that your words highlight in what way that individual is
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μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ μ–΄λ–€ λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ
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valuable to you or what have they done? What have they said?
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κ°€μΉ˜κ°€ μžˆλŠ”μ§€ λ˜λŠ” 그듀이 무엇을 ν–ˆλŠ”μ§€λ₯Ό κ°•μ‘°ν•˜λŠ” 말을 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 그듀은 무엇을 λ§ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 당신이 μ†Œμ€‘ν•˜κ²Œ μ—¬κΈ°λŠ”
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What character trait do they consistently demonstrate that you value?
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성격 νŠΉμ„±μ€ λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ ?
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Or perhaps you want someone to feel seen,
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λ˜λŠ” λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ 보인닀고 느끼기λ₯Ό 원할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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which means that they are noticed, understood,
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즉, λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 보인닀고 느끼게 ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ 그듀이 μ£Όλͺ©λ˜κ³ , μ΄ν•΄λ˜κ³ ,
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and recognized to make someone feel seen.
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μΈμ‹λœλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그듀이 κ²ͺκ³  μžˆλŠ”
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You might acknowledge an area of difficulty or something painful that
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μ–΄λ €μ›€μ΄λ‚˜ κ³ ν†΅μŠ€λŸ¬μš΄ 뢀뢄을 인정
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they're experiencing, and again,
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ν•˜κ³ 
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add on what you appreciate in how they're handling that
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그듀이 κ·Έ 상황을 μ²˜λ¦¬ν•˜λŠ” 방법에 λŒ€ν•΄ κ³ λ§™κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μΆ”κ°€ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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situation.
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Or maybe you want someone to feel uplifted to do this.
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λ˜λŠ” λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ 이 일을 ν•˜λ„λ‘ 기뢄이 κ³ μ–‘λ˜κΈ°λ₯Ό 원할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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You would want to make sure your statements provide support to that
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κ·€ν•˜μ˜ μ§„μˆ μ΄ ν•΄λ‹Ή
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individual. With all of this in mind,
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κ°œμΈμ„ λ’·λ°›μΉ¨ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ ν™•μΈν•˜κ³  싢을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이 λͺ¨λ“  것을 염두에 두고
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let's get started with our first of six ways to express sincere
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진심 μ–΄λ¦° 감사와 격렀λ₯Ό ν‘œν˜„ν•˜λŠ” μ—¬μ„― 가지 방법 쀑 첫 번째 방법뢀터 μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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appreciation and encouragement. Number one, highlight their impact.
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. 첫째, κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 영ν–₯을 κ°•μ‘°ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
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If someone did or said something that had a positive impact,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ 긍정적인 영ν–₯을 미친 ν–‰λ™μ΄λ‚˜ 말을 ν–ˆλ‹€λ©΄ , λ‹Ήμ‹  덕뢄에 λ˜λŠ” λ‹Ήμ‹  λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ„Έ 가지 λ¬Έμž₯ ꡬ쑰 쀑
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you can let them know using one of these three sentence structures thanks
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ν•˜λ‚˜λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ—¬ κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ•Œλ¦΄ 수 있고
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to you or because of you,
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and then add the outcome or positive consequence of that
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κ·Έ
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individual's actions or words. A second option,
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개인의 ν–‰λ™μ΄λ‚˜ 말의 κ²°κ³Όλ‚˜ 긍정적인 κ²°κ³Όλ₯Ό μΆ”κ°€ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 두 번째 μ˜΅μ…˜μ€
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you made me smile when you said,
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당신이 λ§ν–ˆμ„ λ•Œ μ €λ₯Ό μ›ƒκ²Œ λ§Œλ“€κ³ 
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add in the quote and then finish with a thank you or number three,
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μΈμš©λ¬Έμ„ μΆ”κ°€ν•œ λ‹€μŒ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ λ˜λŠ” 3번으둜 λ§ˆλ¬΄λ¦¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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I appreciate that you, and then again,
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highlight what that individual said or did. Let's take a look at an example.
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. ν•œ 가지 예λ₯Ό μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μžλ…€μ˜ 학ꡐ
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Imagine a parent's efforts at your child's school helped your child
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μ—μ„œμ˜ λΆ€λͺ¨μ˜ λ…Έλ ₯이 μžλ…€κ°€
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avoid a health scare to thank that parent. You might say,
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건강에 λŒ€ν•œ 두렀움을 ν”Όν•˜κ³  κ·Έ λΆ€λͺ¨μ—κ²Œ 감사λ₯Ό ν‘œν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 λ˜μ—ˆλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
05:46
because of you,
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λ‹Ήμ‹  덕뢄에
05:47
I'm able to send my child to school without worrying about a severe allergic
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λ‚˜λŠ” μ‹¬κ°ν•œ μ•Œλ ˆλ₯΄κΈ° λ°˜μ‘μ— λŒ€ν•΄ κ±±μ •ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ³  λ‚΄ 아이λ₯Ό 학ꡐ에 보낼 수 μžˆλ‹€κ³  말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
05:52
reaction. Thank you so much.
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. 맀우 κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:55
The second way to show appreciation and encouragement is to
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감사와 격렀λ₯Ό ν‘œμ‹œν•˜λŠ” 두 번째 방법은
05:59
appreciate someone's efforts,
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06:01
particularly during a difficult or challenging situation.
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특히 μ–΄λ ΅ κ±°λ‚˜ 도전적인 μƒν™©μ—μ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ λ…Έλ ₯에 κ°μ‚¬ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:06
To do this effectively, we need to do two things. Number one,
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이λ₯Ό 효과적으둜 μˆ˜ν–‰ν•˜λ €λ©΄ 두 가지 μž‘μ—…μ„ μˆ˜ν–‰ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 첫째, λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ κ²ͺκ³  μžˆλŠ”
06:09
acknowledge or recognize the specific area of difficulty or
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νŠΉμ •ν•œ μ–΄λ €μ›€μ΄λ‚˜
06:14
the pain points someone is experiencing,
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고톡을 μΈμ •ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ μΈμ‹ν•œ
06:17
and then add on your appreciation for their
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λ‹€μŒ
06:22
continued effort to do this.
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이λ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄ 계속 λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 감사λ₯Ό λ”ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
06:24
Here are three sentence structures you can use. Number one,
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λ‹€μŒμ€ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μ„Έ 가지 λ¬Έμž₯ κ΅¬μ‘°μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 첫째,
06:28
I know you're doing the best you can,
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μ €λŠ” 당신이 μ΅œμ„ μ„ λ‹€ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:30
and I appreciate that you haven't given up or you could change that just a bit
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그리고 당신이 ν¬κΈ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ€ 것에 κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜λŠ” 그것을 μ‘°κΈˆμ΄λΌλ„ λ°”κΏ€ 수 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄
06:36
to, I appreciate that you never give up. Number two, I know X,
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, 당신이 μ ˆλŒ€ ν¬κΈ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ”λ‹€λŠ” 것에 κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 두 번째, μ €λŠ” Xλ₯Ό μ•Œκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:40
the situation is hard right now and I appreciate that
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μ§€κΈˆ 상황이 μ–΄λ ΅λ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  있으며
06:45
your Y.
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κ·€ν•˜μ˜ Y에 κ°μ‚¬λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:47
You can add in what that person is doing or recognize
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κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ” 일을 μΆ”κ°€ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜
06:51
that they are continuing to take action, and number three,
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그듀이 계속 쑰치λ₯Ό μ·¨ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŒμ„ 인식할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ„Έ 번째,
06:55
thank you for always x highlight what they're doing
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항상 κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그듀은
07:01
despite Y,
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07:02
despite the challenging situation or the difficulty. For example,
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μ–΄λ €μš΄ 상황 μ΄λ‚˜ 어렀움에도 λΆˆκ΅¬ν•˜κ³  Y에도 λΆˆκ΅¬ν•˜κ³  ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, μ§€κΈˆ
07:07
let's say you have a coworker who is dealing with a particularly difficult
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특히 μ–΄λ €μš΄ 고객을 μƒλŒ€ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ” λ™λ£Œκ°€ μžˆλ‹€κ³  κ°€μ •ν•΄ λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
07:12
client right now, you know she's feeling discouraged and frustrated,
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. λ™λ£Œκ°€ λ‚™μ‹¬ν•˜κ³  μ’Œμ ˆν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•ŒκΈ°
07:16
so you want to show some appreciation. You could do that by saying,
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λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 감사λ₯Ό ν‘œν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. "
07:21
I know things are tough right now with this particular client,
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μ§€κΈˆ 이 νŠΉμ • 고객의 상황이 μ–΄λ ΅λ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  있으며, 고객이 μ„œλΉ„μŠ€μ— λ§Œμ‘±ν•  수 μžˆλ„λ‘ 고객이 ν•„μš”λ‘œ ν•˜λŠ” 것이 무엇인지 μ§„μ •μœΌλ‘œ μ΄ν•΄ν•˜λ €λŠ”
07:25
and I appreciate your continued efforts to really understand what they need
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지속적인 λ…Έλ ₯에 κ°μ‚¬λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€
07:30
so that they're satisfied with their service. Now,
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."라고 λ§ν•˜λ©΄ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이제
07:33
if you feel particularly thrilled or appreciative of someone's efforts,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ λ…Έλ ₯에 λŒ€ν•΄ 특히 ν₯λΆ„λ˜κ±°λ‚˜ κ°μ‚¬ν•˜λŠ” 마음이 λ“ λ‹€λ©΄
07:38
you could certainly add in more powerful or superlative language. For example,
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ν™•μ‹€νžˆ 더 κ°•λ ₯ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ μ΅œμƒκΈ‰μ˜ μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό μΆ”κ°€ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
07:43
wow, I'm blown away by the way you've handled X,
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μ™€μš°, 당신이 Xλ₯Ό μ²˜λ¦¬ν•œ 방식에 λ†€λžμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:48
so the situation or difficulty,
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μƒν™©μ΄λ‚˜ 어렀움,
07:51
or you're doing exceptionally well with X the situation,
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λ˜λŠ” 당신이 상황을 X둜 μœ λ‚œνžˆ μž˜ν•˜κ³  있고,
07:56
and I know you're going to succeed.
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당신이 성곡할 κ²ƒμ΄λΌλŠ” 것을 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:59
Let's go back to that example of a coworker dealing with a difficult client.
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μ–΄λ €μš΄ 고객을 μƒλŒ€ν•˜λŠ” λ™λ£Œμ˜ 예둜 λŒμ•„κ°€ λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€.
08:04
Let's imagine that whatever the situation might have been,
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상황이 어떻든간에
08:07
it has come to a conclusion and in the end,
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결둠이 났고 κ²°κ΅­
08:10
the customer were satisfied to express your appreciation to your coworker.
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고객이 λ§Œμ‘±ν•˜μ—¬ λ™λ£Œμ—κ²Œ 감사λ₯Ό ν‘œν–ˆλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€.
08:14
You might say, wow,
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μ™€μš°,
08:15
I am totally blown away by how patiently you handled that
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당신이 κ·Έ 고객의 μš”κ΅¬λ₯Ό 참을성 있게 μ²˜λ¦¬ν•œ 것에 μ™„μ „νžˆ λ†€λžλ‹€κ³  말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
08:20
client's demands.
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.
08:22
I know it wasn't easy and I admire your determination.
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쉽지 μ•Šμ•˜λ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  있으며 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ κ²°μ˜μ— κ°νƒ„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 감사와 격렀λ₯Ό
08:26
The third way you can express your appreciation and encouragement is to cheer
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ν‘œν˜„ν•˜λŠ” μ„Έ 번째 방법은 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό κ²©λ €ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
08:30
someone on. In other words, provide encouragement.
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. 즉, κ²©λ €ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
08:34
When someone has worked hard or is continuing to work hard,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ μ—΄μ‹¬νžˆ μΌν–ˆκ±°λ‚˜ κ³„μ†ν•΄μ„œ μ—΄μ‹¬νžˆ 일할 λ•Œ,
08:37
especially if they're starting to feel a bit discouraged,
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특히 그듀이 μ•½κ°„ λ‚™λ‹΄ν•˜κΈ° μ‹œμž‘ν–ˆλ‹€λ©΄,
08:41
here are four ways you can do that. Good luck with X,
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μ—¬κΈ° 당신이 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λ„€ 가지 방법이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . X도 ν–‰μš΄μ„ λΉ•λ‹ˆλ‹€,
08:45
good luck with the situation, and I know you will succeed in Y.
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상황도 ν–‰μš΄μ„ λΉ•λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 μ €λŠ” 당신이 Yμ—μ„œ 성곡할 κ²ƒμ΄λΌλŠ” 것을 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:50
What will their ultimate outcome be? Number two,
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ ꢁ극적인 κ²°κ³ΌλŠ” λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ? λ‘˜μ§Έ,
08:54
you're so talented at,
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당신은 맀우 재λŠ₯이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:56
and then let them know in what way they're talented and then continue with,
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그런 λ‹€μŒ 그듀이 μ–΄λ–€ λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ 재λŠ₯이 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ•Œλ €μ£Όκ³  κ³„μ†ν•˜λ©΄
09:01
and I can see that you're getting better every day. Number three,
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당신이 맀일 쒋아지고 μžˆμŒμ„ μ•Œ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ„Έ 번째,
09:05
in the beginning,
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μ²˜μŒμ—
09:07
you x highlight maybe an area of struggle or difficulty
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당신은 μ–΄λ €μ›€μ΄λ‚˜ 어렀움이 μžˆλŠ” μ˜μ—­μ„ κ°•μ‘°
09:11
and now you Y. What are they doing now?
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ν•˜κ³  이제 당신은 Yλ₯Ό κ°•μ‘°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그듀은 μ§€κΈˆ 무엇을 ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
09:15
What has improved or gotten better? And then end with a supportive comment.
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κ°œμ„ λ˜κ±°λ‚˜ κ°œμ„ λœ 점은 λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 그리고 응원 λŒ“κΈ€λ‘œ λ§ˆλ¬΄λ¦¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:20
I have no doubt that you can, and then again,
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λ‚˜λŠ” 당신이
09:23
highlight the ultimate outcome. And lastly, you've got this.
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ꢁ극적인 κ²°κ³Όλ₯Ό κ°•μ‘°ν•  수 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜μ‹¬ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ, 당신은 이것을 μ–»μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:28
I know you can do it. Let's look at one of these. In a real life situation,
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당신이 ν•΄λ‚Ό 수 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λ₯Ό μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‹€μ œ μƒν™©μ—μ„œ
09:33
imagine you have a friend who has been working particularly hard on
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09:37
improving her English speaking skills,
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μ˜μ–΄ λ§ν•˜κΈ° λŠ₯λ ₯을 ν–₯μƒμ‹œν‚€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ 특히 μ—΄μ‹¬νžˆ λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ” μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ 있고
09:39
and right now she's feeling a bit stuck to encourage her.
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μ§€κΈˆ κ·Έλ…€λŠ” κ·Έλ…€λ₯Ό κ²©λ €ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ μ•½κ°„ λ§‰νžŒ λŠλ‚Œμ„ λ°›κ³  μžˆλ‹€κ³  μƒμƒν•΄λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
09:44
You might say in the beginning,
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μ²˜μŒμ—λŠ” μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μžμ‹ μ˜ μ˜κ²¬μ„
09:46
you struggled with clearly sharing your opinions in English,
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λͺ…ν™•ν•˜κ²Œ μ „λ‹¬ν•˜λŠ” 데 어렀움을 κ²ͺμ—ˆλ‹€κ³  말할 수
09:50
and now I see you confidently sharing your ideas with others.
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μžˆμ§€λ§Œ μ΄μ œλŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μžμ‹ μ˜ 생각을 μžμ‹ μžˆκ²Œ κ³΅μœ ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ΄…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€μŒ λΉ„μ¦ˆλ‹ˆμŠ€ λ―ΈνŒ…μ—μ„œ
09:54
I have no doubt that you'll be able to clearly express your ideas
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 아이디어λ₯Ό λΆ„λͺ…ν•˜κ²Œ ν‘œν˜„ν•  수 μžˆμ„ 것이라고 λ―Ώμ–΄ μ˜μ‹¬μΉ˜ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
09:59
in the next business meeting.
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.
10:01
Fourth on our list is tell them that you're thinking about them.
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우리 λͺ©λ‘μ˜ λ„€ λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” 그듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€κ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
10:04
Never underestimate the power of a simple text message, a quick email,
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κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ 문자 λ©”μ‹œμ§€, λΉ λ₯Έ 이메일,
10:10
a handwritten note or a voice memo,
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μ†μœΌλ‘œ μ“΄ λ©”λͺ¨ λ˜λŠ” μŒμ„± λ©”λͺ¨μ˜ νž˜μ„ κ³Όμ†Œν‰κ°€ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€
10:12
letting someone know that they are on your mind.
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. 당신은
10:16
You can even remove any pressure for them to respond by using
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10:20
statements such as, I wanted to let you know,
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ μ•Œλ¦¬κ³  μ‹Άμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€,
10:24
I'm thinking about you and I know you will X.
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λ‚˜λŠ” 당신에 λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜κ³  있고 당신이 Xν•  κ²ƒμ΄λΌλŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€μ™€ 같은 μ§„μˆ μ„ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ—¬ 그듀이 λ°˜μ‘ν•˜λ„λ‘ ν•˜λŠ” μ••λ ₯을 μ œκ±°ν•  μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:27
You can add in what you know they will accomplish or do or
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10:31
succeed in in the days ahead. A second option,
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μ•žμœΌλ‘œ. 두 번째 μ˜΅μ…˜μ€
10:35
you don't have to answer or say anything.
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λŒ€λ‹΅ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 아무 말도 ν•  ν•„μš”κ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:39
I just want you to know that you're in my thoughts. And lastly,
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λ‚˜λŠ” 당신이 λ‚΄ 생각 속에 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 당신이 μ•ŒκΈ°λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ,
10:43
just a little reminder that I'm proud of you and to keep doing what you're
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λ‚΄κ°€ 당신을 μžλž‘μŠ€λŸ½κ²Œ μ—¬κΈ°κ³  당신이
10:47
doing. Imagine for a moment, a friend of yours had her own business,
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ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ” 일을 계속할 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ μ•½κ°„μ˜ μ•Œλ¦Όμ„ λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ μžμ‹ μ˜ 사업을 가지고 μžˆμ—ˆμ§€λ§Œ
10:51
but something recently happened and she has lost that business.
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μ΅œκ·Όμ— μ–΄λ–€ 일이 λ°œμƒν•˜μ—¬ κ·Έ 사업을 μžƒμ—ˆλ‹€κ³  μž μ‹œ 상상해 λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
10:56
You don't want to overwhelm her or bombard her with messages,
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당신은 κ·Έλ…€λ₯Ό μ••λ„ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ κ·Έλ…€μ—κ²Œ λ©”μ‹œμ§€λ₯Ό 퍼뢓고 싢지 μ•Šμ§€λ§Œ
11:00
but you do want her to feel supported.
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κ·Έλ…€κ°€ 지지받고 μžˆλ‹€κ³  느끼기λ₯Ό μ›ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:02
You can let her know by saying there's no need for you to respond.
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응닡할 ν•„μš”κ°€ μ—†λ‹€κ³  λ§ν•¨μœΌλ‘œμ¨ κ·Έλ…€μ—κ²Œ μ•Œλ¦΄ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:07
I just want you to know that I'm thinking about you and I know you will pull
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λ‚΄κ°€ 당신에 λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜κ³  있고 당신이 이 일을 ν•΄λ‚Ό κ²ƒμ΄λΌλŠ” 것을 μ•Œμ•„μ£Όμ…¨μœΌλ©΄ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
11:11
through this.
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.
11:12
The phrasalverb to pull through means to get through an illness,
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pull throughλΌλŠ” κ΄€μš©μ‚¬λŠ” μ§ˆλ³‘,
11:16
a difficult or dangerous situation.
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μ–΄λ ΅κ±°λ‚˜ μœ„ν—˜ν•œ 상황을 κ·Ήλ³΅ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:18
The fifth way we can show appreciation and encouragement is to show
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 감사와 격렀λ₯Ό 보여쀄 수 μžˆλŠ” λ‹€μ„― 번째 방법은 μ—°λŒ€λ₯Ό λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
11:23
solidarity. In other words, letting someone know that they are not alone,
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. λ‹€μ‹œ 말해, λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€
11:28
especially after they've shared with you some of their innermost
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μžμ‹ μ˜ κ°€μž₯ κΉŠμ€
11:32
thoughts and shown vulnerability.
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생각을 κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ³  연약함을 보여쀀 후에 특히 ν˜Όμžκ°€ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌλŠ” 것을 μ•Œλ €μ£ΌλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:36
Here are three sentence structures you can use to show solidarity.
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λ‹€μŒμ€ μ—°λŒ€λ₯Ό ν‘œμ‹œν•˜λŠ” 데 μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μ„Έ 가지 λ¬Έμž₯ κ΅¬μ‘°μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:41
I know it wasn't easy to say this.
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이 말을 ν•˜λŠ” 것이 쉽지 μ•Šμ•˜λ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:43
Thank you for trusting me and sharing this with me. Number two,
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μ €λ₯Ό λ―Ώκ³  κ³΅μœ ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ‘˜μ§Έ,
11:48
I'm so glad we can share this moment together, and number three,
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이 μˆœκ°„μ„ ν•¨κ»˜ ν•  수 μžˆμ–΄μ„œ λ„ˆλ¬΄ 기쁘고 , μ…‹μ§Έ, μ„œλ‘œ
11:52
I'm grateful we can talk about this with each other.
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이야기할 수 μžˆμ–΄μ„œ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
11:55
If you have a son or daughter,
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μžλ…€κ°€ μžˆλŠ” 경우
11:57
imagine your child is experiencing some difficulty learning a new subject at
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μžλ…€κ°€ ν•™κ΅μ—μ„œ μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ κ³Όλͺ©μ„ λ°°μš°λŠ” 데 어렀움을 κ²ͺκ³  μžˆλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€
12:02
school,
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your child opens up to you and lets you know how she's really been
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μžλ…€κ°€ λ§ˆμŒμ„ μ—΄κ³  μžλ…€μ˜
12:07
feeling as part of your response in appreciating their openness
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κ°œλ°©μ„±μ— 감사
12:12
and showing solidarity, you could say, I know it wasn't easy to talk about this.
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ν•˜κ³  μ—°λŒ€λ₯Ό λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” μ‘λ‹΅μ˜ μΌλΆ€λ‘œ μžλ…€κ°€ μ‹€μ œλ‘œ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λŠκΌˆλŠ”μ§€ μ•Œλ €μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€, λ‚˜λŠ” 이것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것이 쉽지 μ•Šμ•˜λ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:17
Thank you for trusting me and sharing with me how you're feeling about this
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μ €λ₯Ό λ―Ώκ³  이 μˆ˜μ—…μ— λŒ€ν•œ λŠλ‚Œμ„ κ³΅μœ ν•΄ μ£Όμ…”μ„œ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:21
class. And now number six on our list,
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. 그리고 이제 우리 λͺ©λ‘μ˜ 6λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ”
12:25
reveal what you admire the most.
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당신이 κ°€μž₯ μ‘΄κ²½ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ°νžˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
12:27
Sometimes we can be our own worst critics,
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λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 우리 μžμ‹ μ˜ μ΅œμ•…μ˜ 비평가가 될 수 있으며,
12:31
and that's exactly why eye-opening compliments can resonate
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이것이 λ°”λ‘œ λˆˆμ„ 뜨게 ν•˜λŠ” 칭찬이
12:35
so deeply. Whether you're aiming to show appreciation,
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그토둝 κΉŠμ€ μšΈλ¦Όμ„ 쀄 수 μžˆλŠ” μ΄μœ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 감사λ₯Ό ν‘œν•˜λŠ” 것이든,
12:40
encouraging someone, or simply complimenting a friend,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό κ²©λ €ν•˜λŠ” 것이든, λ‹¨μˆœνžˆ 친ꡬλ₯Ό μΉ­μ°¬ν•˜λŠ” 것이든,
12:44
you can do that by sharing what you admire most about someone.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ— λŒ€ν•΄ κ°€μž₯ μ‘΄κ²½ν•˜λŠ” 점을 κ³΅μœ ν•¨μœΌλ‘œμ¨ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:49
And here are three sentence structures that can help.
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여기에 도움이 될 수 μžˆλŠ” μ„Έ 가지 λ¬Έμž₯ ꡬ쑰가 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:52
Number one x a particular situation could not have been
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1번 x νŠΉμ • 상황은 쉽지 μ•Šμ•˜μ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:57
easy. I admire your courage and confidence. Number two,
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. λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 용기 와 μžμ‹ κ°μ— 경의λ₯Ό ν‘œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 두 번째,
13:02
not everyone can X highlight a particular situation or
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λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ νŠΉμ • μƒν™©μ΄λ‚˜
13:06
action, and I appreciate that you Y,
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행동을 κ°•μ‘°ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 것은 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. Yλ‹˜μ΄ μ‘΄κ²½ν•˜λŠ” κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ 행동에 λŒ€ν•΄ κ°μ‚¬λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€
13:10
what does that person do that you admire? And number three,
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. 그리고 μ„Έ 번째,
13:15
I admire your X.
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μ €λŠ” λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ Xλ₯Ό μ‘΄κ²½ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:17
Highlight a quality or characteristic because,
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ν’ˆμ§ˆμ΄λ‚˜ νŠΉμ„±μ„ κ°•μ‘°ν•œ
13:21
and then explain why. For example,
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λ‹€μŒ 이유λ₯Ό μ„€λͺ…ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
13:24
imagine you have a team member who's really struggling at the moment,
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νŒ€μ› 쀑 ν•œ λͺ…이 ν˜„μž¬ 맀우 κ³ κ΅°λΆ„νˆ¬ν•˜κ³  있고
13:28
maybe even feeling a bit discouraged,
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μ•½κ°„ λ‚™λ‹΄ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ§€λ§Œ
13:31
but you truly admire this team member and you want them to know.
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μ§„μ •μœΌλ‘œ 이 νŒ€μ›μ„ μ‘΄κ²½ ν•˜κ³  그듀이 μ•Œμ•„μ£ΌκΈ°λ₯Ό λ°”λž€λ‹€κ³  κ°€μ •ν•΄ λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
13:35
You could do that by saying not everyone can understand
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λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒμ΄
13:40
another's perspective.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ 관점을 이해할 수 μžˆλŠ” 것은 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌκ³  λ§ν•¨μœΌλ‘œμ¨ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:42
I appreciate that you're so empathetic in this lesson today.
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였늘 이 μˆ˜μ—…μ—μ„œ κ³΅κ°ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ§„μ •ν•œ 감사λ₯Ό
13:46
You've learned 21 sentence structures you can use to express
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ν‘œν˜„ν•˜λŠ” 데 μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 21개의 λ¬Έμž₯ ꡬ쑰λ₯Ό λ°°μ› μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
13:50
genuine appreciation in English.
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.
13:53
If you want to spend a little bit more time reviewing these carefully and
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이것듀을 주의 깊게 κ²€ν† ν•˜κ³ 
13:57
thinking about how you can use these sentence structures,
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μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ λ¬Έμž₯ ꡬ쑰λ₯Ό μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” 데 μ‹œκ°„μ„ 쑰금 더 보내고 μ‹Άλ‹€λ©΄ μ œκ°€ 이 λͺ¨λ“  μ˜ˆλ¬Έμ„ μ„œλ©΄μœΌλ‘œ μ œκ³΅ν•œ Speak Confident English μ›Ήμ‚¬μ΄νŠΈ
14:01
I recommend you visit this lesson at the Speak Confident English website where
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μ—μ„œ 이 κ°•μ˜λ₯Ό λ°©λ¬Έν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
14:05
I've provided all these examples in writing. With that in mind,
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. 이λ₯Ό 염두에 두고 였늘 배운
14:09
I'd love for you to practice choose two or three of the sentence structures
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λ¬Έμž₯ ꡬ쑰 쀑 2~3개λ₯Ό μ„ νƒν•˜μ—¬ μ•„λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ
14:13
you've learned today and write down genuine words of encouragement or
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μ§„μ •ν•œ κ²©λ €λ‚˜ κ°μ‚¬μ˜ 말을 μ μ–΄λ³΄λŠ” μ—°μŠ΅μ„ ν•˜μ‹œκΈΈ λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€
14:18
appreciation for someone you know. If you're concerned about accuracy,
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. 정확성이 κ±±μ •λœλ‹€λ©΄
14:22
you can always share your examples with me.
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μ–Έμ œλ“ μ§€ μ˜ˆμ‹œλ₯Ό λ‚˜μ™€ κ³΅μœ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
14:25
The best place to do that is directly in the comments below.
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κ°€μž₯ 쒋은 곳은 μ•„λž˜ λŒ“κΈ€μ— 직접 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–Έμ œλ‚˜μ²˜λŸΌ
14:29
If you found today's lesson helpful to you, as always, I would love to know.
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였늘의 μˆ˜μ—…μ΄ 도움이 λœλ‹€λ©΄ μ•Œκ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:33
You can tell me simply by giving this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube or
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μ—¬κΈ° YouTubeμ—μ„œ 이 κ°•μ˜μ— μ’‹μ•„μš”λ₯Ό λˆ„λ₯΄κ±°λ‚˜
14:38
sharing a comment down below. Thank you so much for joining me,
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μ•„λž˜μ—μ„œ λŒ“κΈ€μ„ κ³΅μœ ν•˜μ—¬ κ°„λ‹¨ν•˜κ²Œ μ €μ—κ²Œ μ•Œλ¦΄ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•¨κ»˜ ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ 정말 κ°μ‚¬λ“œλ¦¬κ³ 
14:42
and I look forward to seeing you next time.
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λ‹€μŒμ— 또 λ΅™κΈ°λ₯Ό κΈ°λŒ€ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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