Mixed Conditionals — The Unreal Past | English Grammar Practice

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Without a doubt. In your years of English practice,
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you've studied the conditionals. Right now, your brain might be racing,
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thinking conditionals, conditional. Oh,
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I think there's a first and a second. You're exactly right. In fact,
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we have four conditional forms in English. The zero, first, second,
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and third, and now I've got a twist.
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We also have mixed conditionals, as you might guess,
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a mixed conditional mixes the forms or structures of
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the other conditionals. Let's take a look at an example sentence.
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If we had downloaded the directions before we lost our signal,
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we wouldn't be lost. Right now in this sentence,
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I've combined the third and the second conditional forms.
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Now again,
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I know your brain might be racing and you're thinking this sounds really
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confusing, and do I really need this? I hear you.
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Conditionals can be tricky. However,
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I'm going to walk through this with you step by step and give you ample examples
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so that you understand why you want to use mixed conditionals in your English
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conversations and how to use them with accuracy. By the end of this lesson,
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you'll be ready to use them with more confidence,
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so get a notebook and a pen or pencil and get ready to take some notes and at
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the end I've got an extra special bonus to help you practice.
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But very quickly, if this is your first time here, welcome. I'm Annemarie,
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an English confidence and fluency coach.
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Everything I do is designed to help you get the confidence you want for your
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life and work in English. If you'd love more free resources and lessons from me,
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including lessons I have on the zero, first, second and third conditionals,
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you can find hundreds of my Confident English lessons at my Speak Confident
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English website. While you're there,
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you can also download my in-depth training called How to Get the
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I share my number one fluency and confidence building strategy or
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be sure to check out my Confident Women Community to start this lesson. Today.
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I want to briefly refresh your memory of the zero first,
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second and third conditional so that we have those correct structures in your
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mind because we'll be using them as we continue into the mixed conditional
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forms.
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I also want to talk about why mixed conditionals are so useful.
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Then we'll get into three specific reasons You'll want to use the mixed
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conditionals and I'll be giving you examples.
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Let's talk briefly about the four conditional structures.
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Why do we have them and we'll look at an example sentence for each.
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One reason we use the zero conditional is it helps us talk about
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routines, facts, and truths. For example,
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if you heat ice, it melts,
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the first conditionals are used for present or future
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situations that are likely or possible. For instance,
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we might use them to make a promise to someone or give someone a morning.
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If you cook dinner tonight, I will do the dishes.
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When we transition to the second conditional form,
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we are not just changing our structure but we're also changing our focus.
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Instead of thinking about likely or possible present and future
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situations, we're thinking about unlikely, unreal,
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maybe even impossible present or future situations.
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We use this when we want to express a wish for an alternate
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reality. For example,
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if I had one extra hour in the day, I would spend my time painting.
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Now of course I can't add to time, I can't change time.
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Time is fixed. I have 24 hours a day just like you do,
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but I can wish for an alternate reality and I express that wish
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through the second conditional form and now the third conditional form
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focuses on the past the unreal past.
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We think about a situation that didn't happen in the past but we
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wish it did.
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This allows us to express regrets over past actions or decisions.
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For example, if you had told me that you needed help,
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I would've canceled my trip and stayed home to help you. In that sentence,
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I'm expressing that I wish something else had happened in the past.
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Unfortunately it didn't.
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Now if you want to get in depth lessons on each one of those conditional forms,
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I've got lessons on all of them at my Speak Confident English website.
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I'll leave links in the notes below as well.
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So now why do we need the mixed conditionals if we already have these other
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four?
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Each of those four conditionals focuses on situations or actions that
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happened within a specific timeframe. For example,
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the first conditional is focused on the present or future that is likely
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the second conditional is also focused on the present or future,
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but unlikely or even impossible. The third conditional focused on the past.
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However, sometimes something that happens in the past also
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influences or impacts the current moment.
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Mixed conditionals allow us to demonstrate that they allow us to transition
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through time or connect those past decisions with something that is
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happening in the moment or something that could happen.
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Let's walk through this step by step.
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I'm going to share with you three sentences,
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the first and the second conditional, then the third, and then a mixed form.
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To do this,
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I want you to imagine two people going on a road trip and they're traveling to
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somewhere somewhat remote. For example,
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if you're in my area and you're visiting big Surf for the first time,
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there are places on that drive where you will lose your cell phone signal.
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So here's my first sentence in the second conditional form,
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if we had a good signal, we could download the directions.
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Now in this sentence we're focused on the unreal present.
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The truth is we don't have a good signal right now so we can't download the
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directions and perhaps as a result we're lost.
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This is all focused on the unreal present.
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Now let's say you've arrived at your destination,
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you've had some time to relax,
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it's the next day and you're telling someone a story about your drive.
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Yesterday,
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if we had downloaded our directions before losing the signal,
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we would not have gotten lost. Here I'm focused on the unreal past.
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I can't change yesterday, it's already finished,
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but I can definitely express some regret over what happened or maybe some
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frustration, some annoyance.
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The third conditional allows me to focus on that unreal past
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and now we're going to mix them.
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If we had downloaded the directions before losing our signal,
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we wouldn't be lost.
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Here I'm focused on the unreal past.
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At some point in the past we didn't download our directions.
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Maybe it was 30 minutes ago, maybe one hour ago, maybe it was yesterday,
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and now that we don't have the signal we're lost in this moment,
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that past action has impacted our present moment.
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This is why mixed conditionals are helpful.
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Sometimes our past decisions or past events influence
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the present moment when we are focused on conditionals that highlight the
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unreal past and their influence on an unreal
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present or future.
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To accurately use this specific type of a mixed conditional,
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we have a form or structure that we want to follow In the if
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clause we start with the third conditional structure.
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If plus the past, perfect.
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If I had packed my sunscreen,
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then we add wood followed by the base form of the verb.
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This is a part of the second conditional form.
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I wouldn't have a sunburn right now.
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In addition to using the if plus past perfect plus wood plus
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base form of the verb,
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we have a second structure we can also use to help emphasize an
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unreal present or future. For example,
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I want you to imagine you're having a conversation with a friend who a few
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months ago said no to a job offer. It was a really good job offer,
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but it would require her to move to a new city and she didn't want to
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move.
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You might be having a conversation with her right now and in that
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conversation you might say, if you had accepted that job offer,
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you would be moving across the country right now or you would be moving
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across the country next week. How are you feeling? Are you happy you stayed?
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Are you happy with your decision? For this example,
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I've changed the structure just a bit.
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I'm still using the if plus past perfect for that unreal past and then
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it's followed by wood plus the two be verb and an ING verb.
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You would be moving.
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I want to share with you several more example sentences,
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real sentences that someone might use to illustrate these structures and then
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we'll talk about three specific reasons.
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You'll want to use this type of a mixed conditional.
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Here are four more sentences that focus on the unreal past with the
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unreal present or future. If I had learned French as a kid,
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I would have a perfect French accent right now,
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unfortunately neither of those are true.
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It's an unreal past and an unreal present.
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If she hadn't received the scholarship,
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she wouldn't be going to Harvard right now. Thank goodness she got it.
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If I hadn't spent all my bonus right away,
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I would have enough money saved to go to New York City with you next month and
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now this last example.
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Imagine someone saying it in the middle of running a marathon.
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If I hadn't trained as much as I did, this would feel more difficult,
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but I feel great right now.
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Before we get into three specific reasons to use these mixed conditionals,
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I have one last tip.
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Like all conditional forms we can reverse the clauses in the sentence.
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One of my examples was if I had remembered to pack my sunscreen,
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I wouldn't have a sunburn right now and I can reverse those with.
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I wouldn't have this sunburn right now if I had remembered to pack my sunscreen.
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For the remainder of this lesson,
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I want to highlight how we use this mixed conditional form to indicate missed
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opportunities and past regrets that have an impact on the present or
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future.
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We also use this mixed conditional to share assumptions about what we think
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would be different right now and we can use it to express willingness
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or to give advice.
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Be sure to stick with me to the end because I also want to share with you a
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special bonus I have to help you practice. As I highlighted earlier,
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we can use the third conditional to highlight a past regret,
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something that we wish had been different about the past.
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We can also use mixed conditionals to highlight those missed opportunities and
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the reality that that missed opportunity or regret influences or
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has an impact on our present or future. For example,
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she would be able to pay off her house right now if she had invested in that
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stock when you told her to.
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The truth is she didn't invest when you told her to,
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and as a result she doesn't have all the money right now to pay off her house
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the way she wants. If my daughter hadn't missed her flight yesterday,
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I wouldn't need to spend extra money on a ticket.
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If I had pursued art at a younger age,
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I would probably be a better artist now,
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but better late than never because we can use more than one conditional
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to express regret.
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I want to compare how I might express regret using the second
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conditional and how I would do it in the mixed conditional form.
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This first sentence is going to be in the second conditional form.
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If I spoke Spanish now,
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I wouldn't need to rely on a translator. Now again,
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the second conditional focuses on unreal present or future,
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so the truth is I don't speak Spanish now and I do need to
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rely on a translator as a result,
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that entire sentence is focused on an unreal present. Now,
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in this second example sentence, I want to do a mix.
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I want to focus on something that didn't happen in the past and its
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impact on the present. If I had learned Spanish in the past,
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I wouldn't need to rely on a translator.
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Now here the first part of that sentence is focused on the unreal past
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and its influence on the present,
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so now I want to pause here for a moment and ask you to reflect on
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past decisions,
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past outcomes that perhaps were missed opportunities or regrets
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that still have an impact on your life today or potentially
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on your future. Is there a sentence you might use to express that?
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I have three sentence starters to help you think this through.
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Take a moment to review them and if you want to,
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you can share an example with me in the comments below.
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If I had studied or learned, I would or wouldn't.
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If I had pursued when I was younger,
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I would or wouldn't if I had become a I would or
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wouldn't. And now let's talk about the second reason.
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You'll want to use this mixed conditional form.
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You can use it to share an assumption about what you think might be
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different about the present or future. Imagine for example,
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you're attending a lecture with a friend and at the end of the presentation an
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audience member asks the presenter a question and it's a question that seems
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like it should be easy to answer. However,
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you notice that the presenter is obviously struggling with how to
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answer this question. While this is happening,
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you might whisper to a friend if she had done her research,
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she wouldn't be struggling with this question or she wouldn't hesitate
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to answer this question. In this case,
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you are acting on the assumption or the belief that she didn't do
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her research.
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The truth is you don't really know and you don't really know why she's
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struggling in the present moment, perhaps something simply distracted her.
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This statement allows us to express that assumption that if something else had
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happened in the past, something else would be true about the present moment.
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Here's another example of how we might assume the way a person
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would respond if they were present in that moment.
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Let's say you and your coworkers had a surprising meeting with your manager that
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day, however,
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one of your coworkers wasn't there in talking about what happened.
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You might say Melissa would be furious if she had heard the
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manager speak that way. Of course,
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you can't know for certain how someone else might feel or respond in a
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particular situation,
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but we can make an assumption about it and this mixed conditional form helps us
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express that assumption. And finally,
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the third reason you'll want to use this mixed conditional form is you can use
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it to express advice or feedback.
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Imagine for example,
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you manage a team and just before a major deadline,
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one of your team members requests help or says that she's unable
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to complete the project. As a result,
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the entire team is in chaos and maybe has to work extra
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to make up for this situation,
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and it could have been addressed earlier,
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but it wasn't in giving feedback to that team member.
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You might say,
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if I had been informed earlier when this issue initially began,
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our team would be better prepared to handle this request.
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How can we improve communication going forward to avoid putting extra stress on
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the team?
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Here's one more example of how we might use this to give advice or feedback.
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In this case,
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I want you to imagine that you work at a doctor's office and you're training a
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new team member.
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A woman has just arrived for her doctor's appointment and she's a little
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frustrated that she can't see the doctor right away. Instead,
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she has to spend 10 or 15 minutes completing a series of forms.
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Now,
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while the patient is doing that and in the process of training your new team
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member, you might say if she had completed the forms online beforehand,
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she would be with the doctor right now and we would avoid these uncomfortable
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situations.
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We always encourage our clients to complete the forms online to save time
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when they arrive for their doctor's appointment.
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You now have a complete overview of how and
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why to use this mixed conditional form focused on the unreal past
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with the unreal present and future.
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I know that practice is a hundred percent necessary to gain that
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automatic ability to be accurate when using these forms,
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and that's why I have an extra bonus for you,
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a downloadable PDF worksheet that gives you ample opportunity
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to use the correct structures and I give you examples to check your
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answers. On the worksheet,
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you'll find 12 sentence prompts with the key words you should use for
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your example sentence, and as always,
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if you want to share any of your examples with me, you can do that.
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The best place is in the comments below.
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If you'd like to get that PDF worksheet,
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I want you to visit this lesson at my Speak Confident English website.
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I'll provide a link directly below this video. And with that,
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if you found today's lesson helpful,
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I would love to know and there are a few ways that you can tell me that.
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Number one, you can give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube. Number two,
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you can subscribe to this channel so you never miss one of my Confident English
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lessons. And number three, you can drop a comment below.
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Thank you so much for joining me and I look forward to seeing you next time.
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