25 English Collocations with 'Stay' [Vocabulary-Building Lesson]

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Hey, it's Annemarie was Speak Confident English and welcome to this.
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Week's Confident English lesson.
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This is exactly where you want to be every week to get the confidence you want
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for your life and work in English.
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This week it's all about advanced-level vocabulary building.
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This is something I talk about quite a bit on the Speak Confident English
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channel.
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I love sharing videos on natural sounding language that
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English speakers use. If you've been following me for a while,
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you've probably heard me use the word collocation.
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And if you haven't heard me use that word before, it's definitely a strange one.
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You might be wondering what exactly is a collocation.
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The best way for me to explain it is to think about things that you wear,
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the clothing that you wear. You probably know that certain colors,
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certain patterns just naturally go together. In language,
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there are words that just naturally go together.
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So a collocation is two or more words that go together
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well, or they're used together often.
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And you already know a lot of them. When you first begin studying English,
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you learn words that go together with the verb make and words that go
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together with the verb do. For example, make the bed,
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not do your bed. Do the dishes after dinner,
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not make the dishes. Over the last couple of years,
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I've done Confident English lessons on collocations with the word think,
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collocations about progress,
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collocations with the word say and many more.
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So today we're going to focus on 25 collocations that
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use the word 'stay' in English.
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And we're going to focus on five different categories.
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Things that we say when we talk about staying focused,
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staying updated,
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staying in one place or remaining as you
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are, invitations to stay with someone.
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And finally what we say,
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when we talk about how long we will stay with someone,
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Let's start right away with things that we might say when we talk about staying
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focused. If you're working on something particularly challenging,
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you might stay at it, which means you don't give up on it.
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You continue working,
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you continue staying focused to accomplish something that you want.
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When you do that. It's also important to stay on track.
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In other words, you're avoiding distractions.
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You're avoiding interruptions so that you can keep your focus and get what you
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want finished. And now category number two,
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collocations using the words stay when you want to
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stay updated, you want to get all the details that you need.
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Certainly if you're coordinating a project,
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you want to stay up to date on what everyone is doing,
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or you want to stay in the loop.
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If you're going away on vacation for a few days,
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you might tell a coworker I'd like to stay in the loop.
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So please let me know if there are any changes. Similarly,
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you can ask to stay informed. Again,
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what that means is you want to make sure that you get all the details and
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updates necessary. Now stay up to date,
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stay in the loop and stay informed are all things you
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might say when you want someone else to give you updates.
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But when we talk about updates,
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you might also tell someone to stay tuned.
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What that means is you are telling someone else, keep watching,
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keep listening, watch your emails.
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I'm going to give you an update soon.
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You're asking them to stay connected with you. For example,
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if I want to give you a preview of what's coming next week on my
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Confident English lesson, I might say:
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stay tuned for next week's Confident English lesson where I talk about____.
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And then I give you some kind of preview.
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Companies will often use this when they want to get people excited about
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something new that's coming.
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And our last collocation for this category on staying updated is stay in
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touch. This is a request to stay connected.
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Imagine one of your coworkers gets a new job,
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or maybe their position will be transferred to a new city or state.
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You might tell your coworker to stay in touch.
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What that means is you're asking them to email you from time to time,
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call you and let you know how things are going. You want to stay connected.
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And now category three collocations to talk about staying in one
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place or remaining as you are.
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When you want to tell someone to stop moving,
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you don't want them to go anywhere or do anything you might
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say, stay there.
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Don't move or stay put stay still.
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All three of those mean that you want someone to remain where
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they are. And as they are, you don't want them to move.
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You don't want them to go away. That collocation stay still.
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I could also use like this.
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I'm so nervous about my presentation tomorrow. I can't stay still.
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What do you think that means? I'm so about my presentation tomorrow,
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I can't stay still. I can't stop moving.
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Maybe I'm walking around or I'm tapping my foot on the floor.
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I'm moving around because I have a lot of anxious energy.
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When someone's upset, you might tell them to stay calm.
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And right now I'm seeing a lot of emails where people write,
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stay safe, stay healthy.
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When we talk about staying in one place,
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there are many people who are staying home more often.
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Now there are some mornings when you might want to stay in bed a little
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longer. And if you're in the middle of a big project,
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you might need to stay at work later than usual.
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When that happens,
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you might say something like I'm going to stay behind at work
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today. What that means is everyone else's leaving and going home,
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but you still have work to do so. You are going to remain.
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You're going to stay at work,
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even though everyone else is leaving similar to stay
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behind at work. We can also say,
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stay to do something at work.
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Maybe all your coworkers are going out for happy hour and they invite you to
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come along. You might say, I'll join you in 30 minutes.
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I'm going to stay to finish up my,to do list before I leave.
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And finally, one last collocation. When we talk about remaining, as you are,
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is to stay together.
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We use this when we talk about two people staying in a
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relationship. All right,
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we have eight more collocations with the word stay on our list today.
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Let's move on to category number four,
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things that we say when we stay with someone.
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Let's say one of your neighbors comes over just for a quick chat.
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And in the conversation,
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if you want to invite them to stay for dinner or to stay for a drink
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to stay for dessert, you might say, won't you stay?
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Won't you stay for dinner? Won't you stay for a drink? Similarly,
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you could also say, stay for awhile.
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Like won't you stay and stay for awhile.
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You might also ask someone to stay in chat.
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All three of those examples. Won't you stay,
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stay for awhile and stay in chat are all casual ways
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to invite someone into your home or to invite them to hang out with
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you for a little while. If you have kids, they might ask.
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If one of their friends can stay overnight on a Friday night.
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And if you want to invite someone to come,
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stay in your home for a longer period of time,
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you might encourage them to come and stay with you. For awhile. For example,
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recently I was chatting with my sister who lives in another part of the United
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States. And while we were talking, I said,
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I would love for you and your family to come and stay for awhile.
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When we do that, when we invite someone to stay with us,
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we also have some collocations to talk about how long someone might
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stay.
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We might talk about the length of someone's stay in our home.
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For example, it might be a long stay, a couple of weeks,
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a short stay, just a few days,
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a temporary stay. If my sister comes to visit,
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it would probably be a short stay about four or five days.
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And finally,
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our last example on this list today of collocations using the word stay.
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If someone invites you to stay in chat or to stay for
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awhile, you might want to accept,
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but you know that in 30 minutes or in 45 minutes,
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you have somewhere else to be.
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You could definitely accept the invitation and say, I'd love to,
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but I can't stay long. And with that,
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you have 25 collocations using the word stay that you can add
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to your vocabulary in English.
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When you learn a long list of vocabulary like this,
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I have a recommendation.
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Do not try to learn all of them on the same day.
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You'll only end up frustrated and probably forgetting most of
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those words. Instead, review the list from today,
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choose two or three collocations that you absolutely want to
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remember,
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that you want to add to your active vocabulary and then use those again and
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again and again, until they're permanent in your memory.
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Once that happens,
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you can choose two or three new words and go through the same process.
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The key is identifying a small number of new words or phrases that you want
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to learn and giving yourself the opportunity to use them
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again and again.
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So today I have got your first opportunity choose two or
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three collocations from this list that are new for you and use them in your own
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example situations.
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You can create a sentence and share those with me in the comments just below
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this video. And if you found today's lesson useful to you,
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be sure to let me know. You can do that by subscribing to this YouTube channel.
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So you never miss one of my Confident English lessons and giving this lesson a
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thumbs up.
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If you have a friend or coworker who would also love to add new
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collocations, new vocabulary to their English,
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you can share this lesson on Facebook, share it on LinkedIn,
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or send it to them directly by email with that.
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Thank you so much for joining me,
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have a wonderful week and I'll see you next time for your Confident English
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lesson.
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