9 Effective Phrases to Express Your Support [for Ideas, Opinions, and People]

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Hey, it's Annemarie with Speak Confident English.
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This is exactly where you want to be every week to get the confidence you want
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for your life and work in English.
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Let's talk about how you express your support for friends, colleagues,
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family members, whether you're supporting an idea,
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they have an opinion or supporting them emotionally during a difficult decision
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or challenging part of their life.
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Let's imagine one of your coworkers wants to share an idea in a business
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meeting tomorrow, and you think it's a brilliant idea.
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You want to express your support for your coworker.
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So you could say something like I support that, or I support you.
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And sure. That is a nice,
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simple way to express that support and show that you think your coworker has a
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good idea.
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Maybe you'll even say that in the business meeting so that everyone knows you
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support her,
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but there are several different maybe even better ways and more natural
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sounding ways to express your support in English. So again,
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whether you want to support a coworker's opinion or tell a close friend that
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no matter what she decides on a difficult issue,
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you support her in today's Confident English lesson.
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You'll learn nine different ways to do that in English.
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And we're going to end today with my favorite phrase on this list because
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this phrase can be used for a number of situations.
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And in fact, has a few different meanings as well. Plus,
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I'm going to share with you a really fun way to pronounce it.
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All right, phrase number one today,
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for how to express your support for someone is I'm with you on this.
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This one is perfect to express your support of someone's opinion
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or a decision, particularly if it's an unpopular or difficult one,
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it can also be used to say, I agree with you, or I believe in you.
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Similar to that is phrase number two. I'll stand with you to the end.
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This is a fantastic way to commit or promise to supporting someone
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throughout a project or a period of time.
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Number three uses a fantastic phrasal verb.
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And if you're one of my Fluency School students, you definitely know this one,
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I'll back you up.
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To back something up or to back someone up means to support them.
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This one is great for business situations.
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When you know that someone is going to present an idea or opinion,
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or maybe make a difficult decision, and you're there to say,
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I'm going to support you, and I'm going to publicly give you that support.
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So if you have a business meeting coming soon,
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and you know that a colleague will be sharing an idea,
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they have a great way to express your support is to let them know you're going
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to back them up. Phrase number four is very similar.
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I'm behind you a hundred percent. Phrase number
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five is another great one when someone has to take a position or make a
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decision,
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there may be two sides and you want to let someone know
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you're on their side and you can do that simply by saying,
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I'm on your side. In phrase, number two, I'll stand with you to the end,
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we talked about how that is a sort of commitment or promise of your support.
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Another one that does that is you can count on me.
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When you tell a friend, family member or coworker that they can count on you,
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you are committing your support,
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whether it's emotional support or support by doing something.
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For example,
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if you know someone who recently had a major operation or surgery,
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you know, when they're home,
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they need help and you can commit to helping them by saying,
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you can count on me.
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That might mean taking their kids to school for them going grocery, shopping,
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cleaning their home, doing yard work.
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There are so many different ways that you might provide support to someone who's
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going through a difficult time mentally, emotionally, or physically.
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Now, while we're on that topic of going through a difficult time,
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if you're looking for the right words to say to someone to show comfort or
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sympathy, I've got a full lesson on that topic and I'll leave a link to it.
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In the notes below the video phrase,
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number seven is another one that's perfect.
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When someone has to make a difficult, maybe even agonizing decision.
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There are times when we just don't know what's right.
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And we spend so much time thinking about the pros and cons and trying to
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decide a way forward. So to best support a friend or family member,
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you could say I'll support you no matter what,
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or I'll support you either way. I'll support you,
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no matter what you decide, phrase number eight.
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Isn't my favorite one on the list, but it's close. I've got your back.
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I've got your back.
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What that means is you're there to help someone you're ready to be a second pair
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of eyes, a second pair of ears, a second pair of helping hands.
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You are there to give whatever kind of support is needed.
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And finally, phrase number nine. As you know,
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this one is my favorite one on the list. Number one,
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it's super simple and easy to say. I got you.
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When a friend of mine has a difficult decision to make,
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or they want to share their idea in front of a group.
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When I want to show support, I'll say I gotcha.
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Did you notice how I said that? I got ya?
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I didn't say I got you.
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I didn't have that clear pronunciation of got you.
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Instead, I'm using a form of connected speech. I got ya.
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I got ya. Give it a try and see how it feels. I got ya.
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If you want to learn more about connected speech,
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I have a full video on that topic. Again,
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I'll leave a link to it below this video in the notes,
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but I want to talk a little bit more about this phrase because not only
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does I got you mean I support you,
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but it can also mean I understand, or I understand you.
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If someone is trying to clarify or explain something to me
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when I want to let them know that I understand, I'll say I got ya.
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And again, it's simply means I get it. I understand.
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Plus there's a third possible meaning.
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It could also mean that you are going to cover the cost of something.
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For example,
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if you and a friend go to a coffee shop or go out to lunch and you want to cover
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the cost as your friend prepares to pay, you might say, Oh,
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don't worry about it. I got ya. Again.
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What you're saying is you're going to cover the cost.
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You're going to pay for it. So I got,
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ya can be used to mean I support you. I understand you,
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or I understand what you're saying.
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I get the point or I'm going to cover the cost of
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something.
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It's a fantastic phrase to know and use regularly in a variety of
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conversations with friends, family members, and coworkers.
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Now that you have these nine phrases to show your support to someone,
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I would love to know which one is your favorite and how could you use it
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in a real life situation?
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Do you know someone who has to make a difficult decision soon,
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or do you have a meeting coming up and you know,
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one of your colleagues will be sharing an idea or a proposal.
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How could you use one of these phrases from today's Confident English lesson to
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express that support,
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share your example with me and the entire Confident English community in the
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comments below. It's a wonderful way to get practice feedback,
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and learn from others as well with that, have a fantastic week.
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Thank you so much for joining me.
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And I look forward to seeing you next time for your Confident English lesson.
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