55 Common English Phrases For Daily Conversation

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Hey everyone, I'm Andrea your RealLife English fluency coach
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and in today's lesson you are going to be learning 55
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common English phrases that you can start using
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in conversations to sound more natural when speaking
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so these phrases that I will teach you today are ones that natives use
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a lot they are alternatives to very common or more
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formal ways of expressing yourself maybe the types that you learn in a classroom
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so we are here to teach you how natives really speak in the real world so you
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can grab yourself a nice cup of tea or a cup of coffee and
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a notebook and pen so that you can start jotting these down while you watch the
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lesson and then you can start learning them and
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Okay so the first phrases that we're going to have a look at
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are how to ask someone how they are.
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So you've probably learned that you would
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say how are you and while we do still use this natives
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use a lot of other expressions a lot of
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other phrases to ask this question so the first
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one is how have you been okay so there i'm pronouncing every
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single word quite clearly but when we tend to ask this question we
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do use contractions and connected speech so
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rather than saying how have you been I would say how have you been so
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how and have contract to make howv
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however and it's a lot faster it's a lot more
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natural and this is the way that natives speak also
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what tends to happen here is the you isn't really sounded out the way
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that it is like formally so instead of saying
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how have you been we would say how have you been so that
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you sounds a bit more like a ya so that's
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some connected speech there as well and certainly in America they would do this
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for sure another way to say this is what have you
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been up to but again instead of saying and
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expressing every single word we would say what have you been up to so
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again we use contractions, I know sometimes
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learners are afraid of using contractions because they think that
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it's really informal but i'm here to tell you they are not
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informal they are a part of everyday speech and you
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can write using contractions as well just as long
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as it's not maybe for an essay or some formal writing what have
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you been up to is also a great way to ask this question
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because rather than how are you which can be quite a closed question
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what have you been up to makes you think of a longer length of time
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and you can really answer this question in a more open way so it's a great one
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to use so the next three phrases are really
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useful they're quite simple but can be used both
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in the US and the UK and natives use them a lot and you can too
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and they are how are things how's it going
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and what's up so very simple but again ones that natives really use
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so now we're going to look at some ways of responding to these types of
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questions such as how are you and all the great ones that we just
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looked at so the first one is can't complain so this is a great way
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to respond to how are you if you're feeling good or things are
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generally quite normal you could say can't complain meaning
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that things are going well you have no complaints there's no
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negative things happening and this is a great way of responding
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very simply to a question of how are you another way
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you could say pretty good so if you're feeling quite good you're feeling happy
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instead of just saying I'm fine you could say
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pretty good if things are going really well you could say
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never been better so this would mean that you're feeling really great nothing
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negative is happening you're feeling really positive and you've never been
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better literally like things are going so well
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however if they're not going so well you could say
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could be better so we have never been better
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when things are going really well and you could have could be better
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if things could go better because they're not going so great at the moment
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and if you generally don't have much to say
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when someone is asking you how you are you might say
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same old and this doesn't necessarily mean that things are negative
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just means you've been doing the same nothing different has really been
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happening so nothing really exciting to report so
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you just say same old or same old really there's
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nothing wrong with that so next we're going to look at phrases
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that you can use to say thank you so instead you could say to
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someone you're a star or you're the best
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or even you're an angel so if you want to say thank you to someone without
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using those two words these three are great ways of showing gratitude.
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You could even say I owe you one because
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that would mean that you owe them a favor because maybe
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they helped you out in some way they did you a favor and you want to
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repay them so by saying I owe you one that's another
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way of saying thank you because someone did something kind for you or helped you
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out and you want to repay that kindness back
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you could also say I appreciate it so that's how I would say in British
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English but for sure in American English they would say more like I appreciate it
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so you have that tap t sound I appreciate it
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whereas in British English we say I appreciate it.
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And if I'm not pronouncing the T with a true T but instead with a glottal T
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I might say I appreciate it so in both those t's they're in appreciate
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and in it there's a glottal t there so i'm not pronouncing it but there is a
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sound there where I am stopping the flow of air and
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then releasing it.
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So we could say I appreciate it with a
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true T and we could say I appreciate it with a
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glottal t you could also simply say that's
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fantastic or that's brilliant or that's great so
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do keep in mind that brilliant is quite a british word so you probably won't
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hear in America that much but you certainly
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So now we're going to look at how to
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respond to thank you so instead of saying you're welcome you
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could say it's a pleasure or it's my pleasure
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which is a really friendly way of responding to thank you
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you could also say no worries so don't worry about it don't mention it
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these are kind of similar but all really great ways of responding
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to thank you so you could say no worries or
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don't mention it or even it's nothing you know so someone is saying thank you
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to you because they're really grateful for the way that you've helped them
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but for you it was nothing or it was a pleasure or don't even mention it
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Happy to help, another way is instead of saying you're
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welcome you could say you're so welcome you know if you really
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want to tell that person it was a pleasure for
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you you could say you're so welcome so these are all great
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alternatives to saying you're welcome and great ways of responding to thank
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you okay so next some phrases that you can
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use when you agree with someone so instead of saying I agree with you
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you could just respond absolutely and hear you mean that you
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totally agree with that person absolutely there is no doubt in your
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mind or there is no disagreement there at all
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absolutely and you can say they're with an exclamation mark or an exclamation
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point if you're learning American English and
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this is a great and simple way to respond when you really agree with
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someone another way of saying this is I totally agree
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or I totally agree with you you could
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even just say totally which is probably used more
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in American English and they wouldn't pronounce it like me
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they would say it more with a tap t sound so they would say
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totally so there you hear that tap T i say totally or with a glottal t
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I might say totally which I probably wouldn't use because I just find it
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sounds a bit strange but many people speak like this but in
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America they would use the American T or the tap T
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as it's called and they would say totally
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so that t turns more into a d sound a soft
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d another great way when you completely agree with someone is to say
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tell me about it and really here you don't mean that you want more
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information or that that person needs to tell you more about the situation
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it's just a way of agreeing so it's a very great phrase to use
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to agree with someone it's very simple but very effective so
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tell me about it but in America they would probably say
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tell me about it so again there's that tap t
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sound there and that connected speech so it sounds a little bit different
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a couple more great ways to agree with someone is to say
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exactly so again very exact very precise you agree with that person
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exactly and finally you could even say you hit the nail on the head and what
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you mean there is that the person has got it totally
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right so you completely agree with them they hit the nail on the head
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this is a great English expression when you want to agree with someone but also
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saying that they are totally correct.
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Okay so we've looked at phrases that we
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can use when we agree with someone but what about when we disagree with
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someone now here take caution just because you don't want
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to sound dismissive or argumentative or
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troublesome when you are responding to someone that
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you disagree with so do keep that in mind these are some
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great polite ways of saying that you disagree
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with someone so the first one is I'm not sure I agree
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with you so here you're not being rude or cold in
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any way you're just saying that you're not quite
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sure that you agree with what they are saying
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so you're still giving your point you're putting your point across that you
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disagree but in quite a polite way you could also
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say not necessarily so again it's a way of
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saying I don't necessarily agree with you but
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much shorter and much simply with not necessarily you could even say I don't see it that way
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so again it's just showing that you have
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a different point of view or maybe a different opinion
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not that that person is wrong but again you
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are expressing that you disagree with what they are saying
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and finally you could even use some sentences with but
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so this can be really useful when you want to be polite again
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you could say that's interesting but and then kind of give your opinion about
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the situation too okay so next we're going to take a look
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at some phrases that you can use when someone has changed plans
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so you've made plans with someone maybe a friend or a family member and then
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towards the last minute or without much notice they've changed the plans
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so these are some great ways that you could respond so the first one that you
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can say is no worries so this is very simple
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instead of saying don't worry about it a full-blown sentence you could just
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say two words no worries and you are telling that
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person not to worry about it because these things happen that's also
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a great way to respond these things happen don't worry about it
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no worries they're all really useful ways to
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respond to this you could even just say things happen you don't even have to say
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these things happen you might even just say things happen
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you could also say it can't be helped so if you know that
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that person is in a situation where they have to cancel your plans
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you can say it can't be helped so again it's another way of saying don't worry
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about it there's nothing you could do in this
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situation and you had to change the plans another alternative to
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no problem is no biggie so again it's not a big
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deal so these are all great ways of telling
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someone not to worry about it if they've changed plans
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and sometimes what does happen is you tend to use more of these
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in a sentence or in a conversation with someone because if someone
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is telling you that they are really sorry about changing plans you want them
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to feel okay about it so you might say don't worry about it
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these things happen it's no biggie so already there I used
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three and that would just be in a small part
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of a conversation now if someone invites you somewhere and
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you want to respond to tell them whether or not you can make it
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these are some great phrases that you can use so very simply you could say
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sounds good or sounds great if you can make it
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so that way you are confirming that you can go
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to the invitation that they are inviting you to whether it's dinner
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a party or just to catch up also if it's something you're quite excited about you
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might say i'd love to so this is a great way of responding to
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show the person that you would love to accept their
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invitation a polite way of responding that you
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won't be able to make it is simply saying sorry I can't, you could
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also say I won't be able to make it or
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unfortunately I won't be able to make it so
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you'd really like to be there but you can't another way of saying this
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is I hate to miss it but and then giving you a reason
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why you can't go and finally one that's probably a bit more american
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you could say I think I'll pass but of course they don't have the elongated a
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so they would say I think I'll pass.
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Now if you're having a
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conversation with someone but you really need to end the conversation
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because you have other things to do there are some really great phrases that
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you can use to do this in a polite way so one way of saying
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this is I must make a move so this doesn't mean
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that you need to make a move on someone but it just means that you need to get
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going so this is another one that you can use
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I need to get going or I must make a move
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or I better get a move on so in the UK we would use this one quite a lot we
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could say I better get to move on or I better get a move on
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and in America they might say I better get a move on
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because you need to get going because you have somewhere else to be
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you could even be super polite and say I've taken up enough of your time or
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I've taken up too much of your time so if you're speaking to someone and
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you've spent quite a lot of time with them this is a really polite way of
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ending the conversation and finally you could be completely
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honest and say I have another commitment or I'm sorry I
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really have to go I have another commitment that way the
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person knows that you would love to spend more time with them
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but you have to go because you have something else to do or somewhere else
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to be so in your classroom you've probably
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learned the way to say goodbye is by simply saying the word or even by
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as a shortened version however in the English language there
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are so many more great ways of saying goodbye and so many
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more phrases that natives use one that we use a lot in the UK is see
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you later so if you are saying goodbye to someone
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even if you're not going to see them later that day
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you would still say see you later or see you later
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with the glottal t and in America they would probably shorten it even more
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just to say later so they wouldn't say it like me of course
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they would say it with the tap T the American T so it turns into a soft T
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and they would say later you could even say it was lovely to see you.
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So when you are saying goodbye to
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someone you would say it was lovely to see you
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and off you would go you could even say speak soon
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and this is probably something that many people also write
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when they're writing a text message or an email an informal one of course
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they might rather than saying goodbye just say speak soon
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so you know you don't know when you're going to speak to the person but it's
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likely to be quite soon another way of saying this is talk to
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you later so you can hear again there I'm not
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really expressing each word individually there
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is some connected speech there see you later so the u changes it
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shortens it's more of a sound and it would probably be the same
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in American English as well but again they would have the American t
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the tap t sound when they say the word later so
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talk to you later or talk to you later another great one
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is stay in touch so a way of saying goodbye
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but you still want to keep in contact with that person
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you could say stay in touch and finally one of my favorites you could say take care.
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So there you have it those are your 55
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common English phrases that you can start using now
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and learning so that you can understand natives better
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to be honest there were probably a few added bonuses in there as well so it's
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probably a little bit more than 55 so you've got a whole range of phrases
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there that you can start learning and using to speak English more naturally.
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I hope you enjoyed this lesson and if
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you did I highly recommend that you check out
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this lesson that Ethan made on School English vs Real-Life English
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because it really connects well with this lesson
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where you'll learn real-life English not the classroom
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English that you might be used to and I will see you guys soon, take care!
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So in school they probably taught you to say these like Serious Sam
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Let's see got to, want to have to, going to.
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However it's pretty
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uncommon that you will hear natives speak this way
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most natives will actually speak like my friend Street Stan
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yeah man I'd say like gotta ,wanna gonna, have to!
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