Daily life conversation (Lack of self-confidence) English Conversation Practice

good morning boss Michael told me  you were looking for me what happened

good morning boss Michael told me hinahanap mo ako anong nangyari

mourning a steward yeah I was looking for  you have you just arrived to the office

mourning a steward yeah I was looking for you kararating mo lang sa office

oh no no of course not I arrived on  time as usual but I was in the bathroom

oh no no of course not I arrived on time as usual but I was in the bathroom

okay then well I called you because I  have something very important to tell you

okay then well Tumawag ako sa iyo dahil mayroon akong napakahalagang sasabihin sa iyo

sure if I can be of help it could be  a pleasure to be there for you sir

na sigurado kung makakatulong ako maaaring maging isang kasiyahan na nandiyan para sa iyo sir

I'm glad to know that because you will be  the one in church of presenting the project

natutuwa akong malaman iyon dahil ikaw ang nasa simbahan ng pagtatanghal ng proyekto

me am I going to present the project  to all the company partners but

sa akin Ipe-present ko ba ang project sa lahat ng company partners but

obviously everyone is gonna be there so  I want it to be the best presentation

obviously everyone is gonna be there so I want it to be the best presentation

I have already talked to your supervisor he had  some doubts about it but I'm sure you can do it

Nakausap ko na ang supervisor mo may mga pagdududa siya tungkol dito pero I'm sure kaya mo.

yeah but why me I mean you're  the one who always does it

oo pero bakit ako ang ibig kong sabihin ay ikaw ang laging gumagawa nito

and you are doing an excellent job sir I  think you should do it they want you to do it

at gumagawa ka ng mahusay na trabaho sir sa tingin ko dapat mong gawin ito gusto nilang gawin mo

I don't get it you were always there helping  me and the team you worked really hard  

hindi ko naiintindihan na lagi kang nandiyan para tulungan ako at ang team nagsumikap ka talaga

and now that you have the chance to get a  good promotion because that's what it means

at ngayon na may pagkakataon kang makakuha ng magandang promosyon beca gamitin mo yan ang ibig sabihin

you know that this project is very important for  the company's objectives you know that don't you

alam mo na napakaimportante ng project na ito para sa mga layunin ng kumpanya alam mo naman yun diba oo sir alam ko naman na

yes sir I know that I was the one  in church of leading the project  

ako yung nasa simbahan ng namumuno sa project

but but nothing you just need to convince  the company partners and then you'll get it

pero wala kailangan mo lang kumbinsihin yung mga partners ng kumpanya. at pagkatapos ay makukuha mo ito

you could finally be centering command here  you let that project really well steward

maaari kang sa wakas ay maging centering command dito mo hayaan ang proyektong iyon na talagang mahusay na tagapangasiwa

congratulations and now all you have  to do is present it it will be perfect

binabati kita at ngayon ang kailangan mo lang gawin ay iharap ito magiging perpekto

you've already done a great job at leading that  project this will just be a piece of cake for you

nagawa mo na ang isang mahusay na trabaho sa pamumuno sa proyektong ito ay just be a piece of cake for you

I'll see you tomorrow for the presentation  I'm looking forward to seeing you there

kita kita tayo bukas sa presentation I'm looking forward to see you there

of course sir oh oh no what am I gonna do now damn

syempre sir oh oh no what am I gonna do now damn

hey Stuart I was calling one  of what happened are you okay

hey Stuart I was calling one of what happened are you okay

hello John no I'm not okay I'm  worried I don't know what to do

hello John hindi ako okay nag-aalala ako hindi ko alam ang gagawin

relax what's going on do  you have any problem or what

relax what's going on may problema ka ba or what

yeah I do the boss put me in church  of presenting the project John

yeah I do the boss put me in church of presenting the project John

oh seriously that's awesome bro  congratulations I can't believe it

oh seriously that's awesome bro congratulations hindi ako makapaniwala na

Mr Belfort never does those kind of things  because obviously this is very important

hindi ginagawa ni Mr Belfort yung mga ganung bagay kasi obviously napakaimportante nito

yes I know I know this presentation is  one of the most important in the company

oo alam ko alam kong isa ang presentation na ito sa pinakaimportante sa company

well then we need to celebrate  and wait you don't look happy why  

well then we need to celebrate and wait parang hindi ka masaya bakit

I can't do it John and you perfectly know  why I just can't do it what am I gonna do  

hindi ko kaya ni John. perfectly know why I just can't do it what am I gonna do

wait a second Stuart don't tell me this is  because you are afraid of doing the presentation

wait a second Stuart don't tell me this is because you are afraid of doing the presentation

well actually yeah I don't know

well actually yeah I don't know

I can't believe it you're still having  self-confidence issues that's not possible

I can't believe it you' re still having self-confidence issues that's impossible

I understand that could happen when we studied  at the University but we're working now

I understand that could happen when we studyed at the University but we're working now

you can't be afraid of talking in front of  people or to do important presentations like this

hindi ka matatakot na magsalita sa harap ng mga tao o gumawa ng mga importanteng presentasyon tulad nito

you have worked hard for this and nobody  deserves it better than you come on Stewart  

pinaghirapan mo for this and nobody deserves it better than you come on Stewart

this is what we've always talked about we  said we would work hard and get a promotion  

ito ang palagi nating pinag-uusapan sabi namin magsisikap kami at makakuha ng promo Alam ko

I know I know but I can't I want  that promotion but I can make it

alam ko pero hindi ko kaya gusto ko yung promotion pero kaya ko

but you let that project you have experience  leading people and that makes you a good leader  

pero hinayaan mo ang proyektong iyon na mayroon kang karanasan sa pamumuno sa mga tao at iyon ay nagpapahusay sa iyo leader

it's true I was in charge of that project  but I didn't ask for help I did it on my own  

totoo nga ako ang may hawak ng project na yun pero hindi ako humingi ng tulong ginawa ko sa sarili ko

what oh my God again you used  to do that at University too  

ano oh my God ulit ginagawa mo yan sa University

I know but I can't speak to many people  you know I get scared and start to sweat  

alam ko pero hindi ako nakakausap ng maraming kilala mo. I get scared and start to sweat

all right all right relaxes to it I will  help you okay you know I'm good at this

all right sige relax to it tutulungan kita okay alam mo magaling ako dito

yes you are you were the one who presented  all our projects at the University

oo ikaw yung nagpresenta ng lahat ng project natin sa University

yes and that's why I will give you some  tips so you can become more confident okay

oo at kaya kita bibigyan ilang tips para mas maging confident ka okay

okay I hope you can help me I'm scared John scared

okay sana matulungan mo ako natatakot ako John natakot

all right the first thing you have to do is  be kind to yourself accept yourself as you are  

sige ang una mong gawin ay maging mabait ka sa sarili mo tanggapin mo ang sarili mo kung ano ka

I mean there's nothing wrong with you you  just need to improve one skill that's it  

I mean wala namang masama sayo ikaw lang need to improve one skill that's it

what I mean is that you're really good at doing  other things this is just one of your weaknesses

what I mean is that you're really good at doing other things isa lang to sa kahinaan mo

yeah I suppose you're right I was the best  student of our generation at the University

yeah I suppose you're right Ako ang pinakamahusay na estudyante ng henerasyon natin sa Unibersidad

exactly you're good at many things and  you have to admit you have a weakness

eksakto ikaw magaling sa maraming bagay at aminin mong may kahinaan ka

then the best way to be more confident  is to get outside your comfort zone

then the best way to be more confiden t is to get outside your comfort zone

sadly you didn't do it when you had the  chance at the University but we can do it now

sadly hindi mo nagawa nung nagkaroon ka ng chance sa University pero kaya na natin ngayon.

you can give us a shorter presentation  that way you will be practicing

maaari kang magbigay sa amin ng isang mas maikling presentasyon sa paraang iyon ay magsasanay ka

a shorter presentation okay I suppose  I can do that some minutes what else  

ng isang mas maikling pagtatanghal okay Ipagpalagay ko na magagawa ko iyon ng ilang minuto ano pa ang

we have to make a list of your positive  qualities I'm sure you have a lot of them

kailangan nating gumawa ng isang listahan ng iyong mga positibong katangian Sigurado ako na marami ka sa mga ito ay

positive qualities I suppose I have some  but how could that help me be more confident  

positibong katangian. Ipagpalagay na mayroon akong ilan ngunit paano iyon makakatulong sa akin na maging mas kumpiyansa

as I told you before you need to understand  you have a lot of strengths that help you a lot  

gaya ng sinabi ko sa iyo bago mo kailangan mong maunawaan na marami kang lakas na makakatulong sa iyo nang malaki

then we need to practice body  language that's something important

pagkatapos ay kailangan nating magsanay ng wika ng katawan na isang bagay na mahalagang

body language what do you mean  by body language I don't get it

wika ng katawan ano ang ibig mong sabihin body language I don't get it

look at me when I talk to you do  you see me as a person who is shy

tignan mo ako kapag kausap kita nakikita mo ba ako bilang isang taong mahiyain hindi

no because I know you're not  shy you are very outgoing

dahil alam kong hindi ka nahihiya napaka outgoing mo

exactly your body says a lot  about you and your personality

eksakto maraming sinasabi ang katawan mo tungkol sayo at sa pagkatao mo

you need to show you are prepared for the  presentation but don't worry we'll work on that

kailangan mong ipakita na handa ka sa presentation pero wag kang mag-alala gagawin natin yan

what else oh you need to  understand you're not alone Stuart

ano pa ba oh kailangan mong intindihin hindi ka nag-iisa Stuart

why do you say that are you going to present  the project with me thank you so much

bakit mo nasabi na ikaw ang magpe-present sa akin ng project salamat so much

no no what I mean is you are not the  only one who has self-confidence issues

no no what I mean is hindi lang ikaw ang nag-iisa may mga isyu sa pagtitiwala sa sarili

like you there are a lot of people out  there with the same issue you get it

tulad mo maraming tao diyan na may parehong isyu naiintindihan mo

yeah I suppose I knew a friend who  also had this problem he was terrible

yeah I suppose I know a friend who also had this problem he was terrible

exactly what else oh we  have to go little by little

exactly what else oh we have to go little by little

in this case we don't have much time but  we'll do the possible to reach the objective

in this kaso wala na tayong maraming oras pero gagawin natin ang posible para maabot ang layunin

oh also something really important is you  have to start talking to you positively

oh may importante din talaga na kailangan mong simulan ang pakikipag-usap sa iyo ng positibong positibo

positively but I am not prepared to  speak in front of people so stupid

ngunit hindi ako handa na magsalita sa harap ng mga tao na napakatanga

and that's exactly what you don't have to do  don't say you're stupid because you are not

at iyon mismo ang hindi mo kailangang gawin wag mong sabihing tanga ka dahil hindi ka

I've already told you you're great at many  things this is just one of your weaknesses

nasabi ko na sayo na magaling ka sa maraming bagay isa lang to sa mga kahinaan mo

all right I guess I will have to do those  things in order to give that presentation

sige I guess I will have to do those things in order to give that presentation

yes and I will help you don't worry  and we'll start now stand firmly  

yes and I will help you don't worry and we'll start now stand firmly

exactly that's what I'm talking  about you will do it great I promise

exactly that's what I am talking about you will do it great I promise

thank you very much John you helped me a lot  thank you so much let's do it I hope you liked  

thank you very much John nakatulong ka sa akin ng husto maraming salamat gawin natin sana nagustuhan mo

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