English Imperatives! Be kind! Be nice! πŸ™‚β€οΈπŸ’―

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Well, hello.
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Welcome to my annual Christmas message.
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Actually, I haven't made one before, so I guess this
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is my first annual Christmas message to all of you.
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And I wanted to talk a little bit about this season.
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I'm not sure if you celebrate Christmas or not,
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but whether you do or not, this is a
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time of year where people are generally happy.
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A time of year when people visit family,
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visit friends, and have a good time.
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And I have a few phrases in the
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imperative that I'm going to teach you today.
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And it's going to sound like I'm telling
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you what to do, but I think that's
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okay because I think they're good phrases.
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I think in the spirit of Christmas, you should be kind.
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You should be kind and you should be nice.
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I mean, you should be this way all the time.
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But I think at Christmas it's especially important because even
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though I said Christmas is a happy time for some
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people, it can also be a sad time.
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It's a time where people remember
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loved ones who have passed away.
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It's a time of year where even though most
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of us spend time with family and friends, some
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of us don't have people to spend time with.
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So be kind. Be nice.
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Those are the first two phrases.
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The second phrase is the phrase be helpful.
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I'm always trying to be a helpful person.
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I'm not an amazingly helpful person.
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In fact, I was just at school and someone asked
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if I could help them move chairs and I said,
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no, I have to go make a video, so I
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guess I wasn't listening to my own advice.
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But please be helpful.
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If you see someone that needs help, please help them.
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In fact, I should probably go back to school
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in a few minutes and help that person.
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They were setting up tables and chairs.
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I think we're having a little Christmas dinner
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for the staff, so maybe I'll be helpful.
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When you're helpful, it just makes people happier.
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It's just a good thing to do.
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So be helpful and then be considerate.
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I don't know if you know this word, considerate.
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Be considerate.
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When you're considerate, it means you try to think about
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what someone else's life is like when you're talking to
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them or when you're doing things with them.
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I have a friend and I always like to
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be considerate when I'm talking about visiting my mom
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because his parents have both passed away.
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So when you're considerate, it means you think about
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another person's life when you are talking to them.
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So that you don't say things that make them sad.
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So be aware of other people's
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lives and try to be considerate.
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The next one I have here is, oh, I have a
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list, by the way, if you're wondering what I'm looking at.
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The next one I have is be good to yourself.
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Now you should be good.
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I don't know if you're familiar with Santa
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and Christmas, but only good kids get presents.
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But I also think you should be good as an adult.
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But be good to yourself.
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I think it's important to take care of yourself.
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So make sure you go for long walks,
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make sure you spend time with friends.
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Make sure you take a break from work every once in
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a while, be good to yourself, take care of yourself.
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And then lastly, be thoughtful.
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This is very similar to be considerate.
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In fact, they have almost exactly the same meanings.
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It means that think before you say things, try to think
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about other people before you do things or say things.
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You know, sometimes it's easy to be critical of other people.
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It's easy to say negative things.
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It's easy to judge people for what they do.
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But try to be a little bit more thoughtful.
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When you see someone act in a certain way,
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there might be a good reason for that.
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So try to be thoughtful.
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Try to be kind, try to be nice.
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Try to be considerate.
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Make sure that you are good to yourself.
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And did I forget one? Let's see.
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Be kind, be helpful, be nice, be considerate,
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be good to yourself and be thoughtful.
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Hey, anyways, I hope you're
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having a good holiday season.
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I'm not taking a break.
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By the way, you'll have english
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lessons right through the Christmas break.
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I'm even hoping to do a
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live stream together with Brent.
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I have to kind of text him today to make sure
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we can find a day where we can do that.
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Anyways, thanks for watching. You're all awesome.
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Have a great break if you have one, and enjoy this
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time of year even if you don't have a break. Bye.
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