🛑 STOP Saying "I"m Sorry" And Use These 25 Alternatives To Sound Fluent in English! (FREE PDF)

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2023-04-10 ・ JForrest English


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🛑 STOP Saying "I"m Sorry" And Use These 25 Alternatives To Sound Fluent in English! (FREE PDF)

12,940 views ・ 2023-04-10

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I'm sorry are words that people use every single day but did you know that native speakers
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have many different expressions in
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our
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vocabulary to say?
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I'm sorry in fact there are over 25 common expressions and that's exactly what you'll
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learn today.
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Let's get
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started.
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First, let's talk about some casual Expressions that you can use in everyday situations.
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Let's take the example of
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Of bumping into someone at the grocery store and you want to apologize.
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So instead of saying I'm sorry,
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you
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can simply say sorry, I know it's a subtle difference but it will really help you sound
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more natural to just say sori sori.
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You can also add so or very in front of it.
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So sorry, very sorry.
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Or you could say sorry.
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About that, that being the mistake, bumping into the person at the grocery store.
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Sorry about that.
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So sorry about that.
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I'm so sorry about that to help you remember.
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All of these Expressions I created a free lesson PDF, you can look in the description
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or the comment section for the link to download the free lesson, PDF.
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Another common thing is simply to make a sound effect.
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Like
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Like, oops, oops, whoops.
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Oh no.
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Oh my.
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And then you don't even have to say anything else because usually it's your facial expression.
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Oops.
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Oh oopsie oopsie.
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Thanks, whoops.
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A slightly more formal one.
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But that's still very casual is to say, excuse me.
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Or pardon me, excuse me, pardon me.
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Those are quite common as well.
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Let's say that your friend asked, you to buy her a chocolate chip cookie, but you bought
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her an oatmeal cookie.
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So instead of saying I'm sorry, you could say, my bad, my bad, this is extremely common
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in North America and it will really
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They make you sound like an American English speaker.
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My bad, my bad.
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Keep in mind, it is quite casual and it's used for smaller things.
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You want to apologize for like getting the wrong.
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Cookie, my bad, you could also say my fault, my fault or my mistake my mistake, I got you
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the wrong cookie.
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My bad, let's say you want to add
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MIT your mistake, for example, you told your friend, the party started at 8:00, but it
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actually started at 7:00.
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You could say I was wrong.
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So, instead of saying I'm sorry, I gave you the wrong time, you could say I was wrong.
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Of course, you can use any of our other Expressions, my bad, but one to specifically, admit your
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mistake is simply to say aye.
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I was wrong often.
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We say sorry, if we can't do something that someone wants us to do.
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So let's say your friend invited you to a party but you can't attend.
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It would be very common to say, I'm sorry, I can't attend your party instead of saying
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I'm sorry, you can say, unfortunately.
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So replace I'm sorry with unfortunately,
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Unfortunately I can't help you.
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Unfortunately, I can't attend your party unfortunately, I can't drive you to the airport.
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Now let's talk about some more professional Expressions that you can use in the workplace
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or a more formal situation.
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Let's say you arrive to an important meeting, 10 minutes late, instead of saying I'm sorry.
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You can say the my apologies now you can expand that and say my apologies for being late to
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make it stronger.
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You can add sincere my sincere apologies for being late to sound even more formal.
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You could say please accept my apologies, please accept my sincere.
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Apologies for being late.
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That sounds very formal
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Let's say you made a mistake at work and you ordered 100 boxes but you should have ordered
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10 boxes.
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Now, in the Casual example, we learned I was wrong to admit.
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You made a mistake in a professional context.
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I recommend I take full responsibility.
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This sounds very professional because the word responsibility.
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Sounds professional.
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I take full responsibility for ordering the wrong number of boxes.
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My sincere, apologies, I take full responsibility.
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You can also say, I understand, I made a mistake, I'll fix it now, instead of understand you
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can say, I know I made a mistake.
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I admit I made a mistake all fix it.
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So notice you're not
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Just admitting it, you're also offering a solution.
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I'll fix it.
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I'll call the supplier right now.
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I'll get this resolved.
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So offering a solution is a great addition to admitting a mistake.
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Let's say that you kept a client waiting on the phone for a long time.
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Now, instead of saying, I'm sorry for the wait, you can
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Say, I appreciate your patience.
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So instead of talking about the - you talk about the
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positive,
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which is the fact that your client is patient, I appreciate your patience.
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Thank you for your patience.
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Thank you for understanding.
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Thank you for holding.
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I appreciate your time.
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I appreciate your patience now.
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Let's say that.
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Let your boss your coworker or your client offers you some constructive criticism.
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So they tell you about something that you're not doing very well.
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Maybe your last presentation wasn't very good and they give you some constructive criticism
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some feedback instead of saying I'm sorry, my presentation wasn't good.
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You can say thank you for bringing
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bringing this to my attention or thank you for letting me know and then you can add a
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solution.
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I'll work on that, I'll improve that or you can even ask them, how can I improve?
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Can you give me some suggestions to improve?
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Thank you for bringing this to my attention.
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There's one common idiom that you can use to admit you made a mistake.
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So, remember in the casual,
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Example, you can say I was wrong.
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In the professional example, you can say, I take full responsibility, the idiom that
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you can use in.
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Any situation is the buck stops with me, the buck stops with me.
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This simply means I was wrong or I take full responsibility, the buck stops with me.
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So now you have so many alternatives to help you sound very fluent and
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Natural.
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My favorite is my bad, my bad, because I hear Americans use it all the time and I want you
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to sound more fluent by using it to my bad.
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What's your favorite from this list?
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Now, don't stop here.
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You can keep learning with this lesson.
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I know you'll love it and make sure you download your free speaking guide where I share six
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tips on how to speak English fluently, and confidently, you can get it from my website
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right here, so
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Now, get started with your next lesson.
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