1 Hour Fluency Masterclass to GET FLUENT in English!

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JForrest English


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Welcome to this one hour  English fluency master class.
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In the next one hour you are going to  improve all areas of your English and  
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by the end of this master class you are going  to sound more fluent and feel more confident.
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I think I'm excited.
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Welcome back to JForrest English.
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Of course, I'm Jennifer. Now
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Let's get started.
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First, in this master class, let's  focus on your listening skills so  
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you can understand fast English and  so you can learn natural expressions.
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Here's how this lesson will work.
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I'm going to say a sentence  three times at a natural pace,  
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and you need to write down exactly  what you hear in the comments.
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And this test will progress from  beginner A1 to more advanced C1.
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Let's get started.
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Are you all set?
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Are you all set?
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Are you all set?
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I said are you all set?
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Notice that EU becomes more  of an unstressed ya or ya.
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So it's a very subtle difference.
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Uh ah ya, ya native speakers will use both.
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Are ya are ya are ya all set?
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And notice I don't push out that T.
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So set, all set.
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Now what does this mean to be all set?
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This simply means to be ready.
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So you can use this all the  time in your daily speech.
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So I could ask you, Are you ready  for your presentation tomorrow?
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And you can reply back with those two words.
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All set, all set.
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The full form would be I am all set.
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And then you can just reduce that  to all set, which means I'm ready.
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I'm ready for my presentation tomorrow.
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We commonly use this to confirm  that someone is ready to leave.
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Leave a house, leave a  restaurant, leave any location.
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Are you ready to go?
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And you can reply back with those two  words, all set, which means I'm ready to go.
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All set, all set, all set.
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Let's try this again, a little more challenging.
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I'll say it three times.
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My weeks off to a rocky start.
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My weeks off to a rocky start.
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My weeks off to a rocky start.
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Did you get this one?
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I said my weeks off to a rocky start.
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Notice that contraction weeks that  is week is my week is my weeks,  
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my weeks off and instead of saying to ah, I can  combine those together with A to Washington.
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So I use that to glide to to  my weeks off to a rocky start.
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The reason why this is more difficult is  because you may not know the expression.
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The expression is to be off to  ah and then adjective start.
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And in this example, my adjective is  rocky, my weeks off to a rocky start.
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Rocky means difficult or uncertain.
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He and I got off to a rocky start all right,  sure tonight got off to a weird rocky start.
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We often use this adjective  rocky to describe relationships.
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It could be a romantic relationship,  a relationship with family or friends,  
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or a relationship with your boss or Co worker.
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Your friend might come to you  upset and say our relationship  
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is a little rocky right now  and she wants your advice.
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But remember you can use any adjective with  this expression so hopefully you'll use a +1.
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My weeks off to an amazing start and notice  because my adjective starts with a vowel,  
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my article becomes and an amazing  start off to a great start.
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So we're off to a good start and you can use this  expression as a reply to how's your week going.
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So why don't you practice this right now?
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How's your week going?
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And I want you to put in the comments  my weeks off to a adjective start.
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And you choose the adjective, put that in the  comments and hopefully it's a positive adjective.
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Let's try this again.
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I'll say it three times.
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What do you have on the go today?
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What do you have on the go today?
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What do you have on the go today?
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Did you get this one?
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I said, what do you have on the go today?
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Have you heard that native speakers pronounce?
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What do you as Wadia?
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Wadia.
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We combine all those sounds together,  Wadia, an alternative is whatcha, whatcha.
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And I use both of them equally.
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So it's important that you  know both of them as well.
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And this question is how a native speaker  will commonly ask, what are you doing today?
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So the expression is have on the go.
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What do you have on the go today?
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What are you doing today?
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Now instead of have on the go, native speakers  will also say, what do you have going on?
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So on the go is one option,  going on is another option.
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What do you have going on today?
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Hey girl, what do you got going on today?
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So to answer, maybe you could say today  I'm studying J4's English lessons.
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Is that what you have going on today?
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Let's try this one more time.
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I'll say it three times Did you nod off  in the presentation to did you nod off  
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in the presentation to Did you nod off in  the presentation to did you get this one?
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I said did you nod off in the presentation to  
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native speakers will combine did you and say  did you did you So you hear a just sound.
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Did you or we can reduce that to  did ya or did ya so that uh or ah.
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So all three options are common.
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Nod off is a phrasal verb.
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So we'll pronounce it as one word nod off.
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So notice I'll take that D sound and I'll connect  it on the off, but I have to combine it together.
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Nod off, nod off nod off to nod off.
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This means that you fall asleep accidentally  
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when you're not supposed to,  like during a presentation.
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So hopefully you're not nodding  off during this lesson right now.
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Or maybe you nodded off on the bus.
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I nodded off on the bus and missed my stop.
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Has that ever happened to you?
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Or maybe you see one of  your coworkers nodding off?
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I think Sarah nodded off.
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Someone should wake her up  before her boss sees her.
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You just nod off.
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I knocked it off.
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So I nodded off a little.
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Nodded off Ross, you were snoring.
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Now let's do an imitation exercise so  you can practice your pronunciation.
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I'm going to say each sentence again,  
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and I want you to repeat the sentence  aloud and imitate my pronunciation.
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Are you all set?
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Are you all set?
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Are you all set?
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My weeks off to a rocky start.
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My weeks off to a rocky start.
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My weeks off to a rocky start.
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What do you have on the go today?
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What do you have on the go today?
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What do you have on the go today?
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Did you nod off in the presentation too?
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Did you nod off in the presentation too?
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Did you nod off in the presentation too?
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Are you enjoying this lesson?
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So you can improve your listening  skills of fast English, expand your  
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vocabulary with natural expressions,  and learn advanced grammar easily.
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Now let's continue with our lesson.
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Next, you're going to expand your  vocabulary and you'll do that by  
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learning natural expressions to impress natives.
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Your first phrase to sound like a  native speaker 1, you must start using.
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How's it going?
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How's it going?
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How's it going?
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You'll know that I teach all my  students to use how's it going  
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because it will instantly make  you sound like a native speaker.
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Of course, this is a replacement to  how are you and it's used in friendly  
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professional situations and social contexts.
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Yes, you can still use this  in professional situations,  
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just make sure the atmosphere  sphere is more friendly.
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But to sound like a native speaker, you  must pronounce it like a native speaker.
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You cannot say how is it going with spaces  between, You must say, how's it going?
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How's it going?
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So notice those sounds, How zit, zit,  you have that strong zit, How's it going?
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How's it going?
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Repeat after me.
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How's it going?
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How's it going?
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Keep practicing that until you're  pronouncing it just like me.
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Now to answer, because you will  be asked this by native speakers.
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To answer, you would say  it's going plus adjective,  
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or you can simply use the adjective it's going.
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Notice that it's going.
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Make sure you get that contraction.
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Don't say it is going.
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That will not make you  sound like a native speaker.
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It's going Great.
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Good.
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Pretty good.
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Not too bad.
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OK.
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Those are the most common options.
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How's it?
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How's it going?
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How is Andy?
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How's it going?
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Don't worry about taking notes because I  summarize everything in a free lesson PDF.
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You can find the link in the  description #2 Do you have a suck?
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Do you have a suck?
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Do you have a SEC?
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This is used to ask if someone can  give you their attention for a short  
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period of time because suck is short for second.
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Do you have a second?
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Do you have a suck?
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Now make sure you pronounce that  it's AK sound at the end suck.
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Repeat after me suck suck.
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Native speakers will often drop  the auxiliary and the subject  
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and simply say have a suck instead of do you have.
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We simply say have a suck and more casually,  
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informally, we use got instead  of have got a suck, got a sunk.
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So you could come in, knock on my door and  say, hey, Jennifer, do you have a sunk?
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If I'm available for a short period of  time, I can say sure, what's up now.
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You can also specify what you want  to talk about in the question.
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Hi Jennifer.
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Do you have a sack to talk  about vacation requests?
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So the topic of discussion is vacation requests.
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So notice it's do you have a SACK  plus infinitive 2 plus base verb  
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common infinitives are to talk about,  to discuss, to review, to go over.
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There are many other options,  but those will get you started.
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Hey Jack, do you have a SEC?
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Do you have a SEC #3 what's up?
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Did you notice that I used  what's up in the last example?
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Well, let's talk about what that means.
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This is a casual way to inquire  about someone's needs or wants.
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In the last example, I said,  hi Jennifer, do you have a SEC?
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And then as a reply, sure, what's up, what's up?
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Now first let's talk about the pronunciation.
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What's up, What's up?
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So notice it sounds like one word and  you hear that S on what's and Sup,  
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we put it in front of up.
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What's up?
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Repeat after me.
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What's up?
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What's up?
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Work on that pronunciation, because it's extremely  important to sound like a native speaker.
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Let's review this example.
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What's up with Jacob?
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He seems really distracted.
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In this case, it's a casual way to  inquire about the status of someone,  
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usually based on that person's behavior.
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So Jacob seems distracted.
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I want to know why.
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What's the reason?
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What's the status of Jacob?
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What's up with Jacob?
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He seems really.
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Distracted to.
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Reply.
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You could say I'm not sure,  maybe he's under pressure,  
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or you could provide the reason, the status.
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His father's in the hospital, so  that explains what's up with Jacob.
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You could also ask what's up with the conference?
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Have the speakers been determined yet?
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In this case, it's a casual way to  inquire about the status of something.
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The conference.
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What's up with her?
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What's up with Marshall?
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What's up with ichabod #4?
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I'm on it.
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This is a great expression, and it's  used to accept responsibility for a task.
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For the pronunciation.
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Notice how those sounds blend together.
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I'm on.
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It.
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So you take the M and you put it on and you  take the north and you put it in front of it.
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I'm on it.
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Repeat after me.
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I'm on it.
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I'm on it.
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You can also drop the subject  and verb and simply say on it.
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Make sure you get NIT on it.
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Repeat after me on it.
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Excellent someone.
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Could.
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And say, hey Jennifer,  
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can you send out the meeting request  and I can reply back and say on it?
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In this case, it's a response to a direct request.
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Someone asked me directly to do something on it.
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Now, if you're in a meeting and the boss  says does anyone have time to send out the  
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meeting request, you can volunteer  to accept this task and say on it.
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So you can use this as a reply to an open request.
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So if you like this lesson, make  sure you share it with your friends.
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Now, to say that you accept this task that I  just gave you, what can you say on it, on it?
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So put that in the comments on it, on it,  
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but then make sure you actually  share this lesson with your friends.
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I'm on it, all right?
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I'm on it.
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I'm on it.
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I'm on it.
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#5 could you give me a hand?
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This is used to ask if someone can  help you notice for that pronunciation.
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Did you hear that JA sound?
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Could you ju?
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Could you Gimme, give me Gimme,  Could you give me a hand?
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Repeat after me.
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Could you give me a hand?
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Could you give me a hand?
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Now this is a general request for help so  someone could reply back and say sure what's up.
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They're asking about your needs and wants.
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Sure, what's up.
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So the person can say I need to  bring these boxes to the garage.
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Now the other person can say I'm on  it to accept your request for help.
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I'm on it.
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You can also specify the activity  directly in the question and say,  
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could you give me a hand with these boxes?
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So notice you use the preposition with  and then you specify what help you need.
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You can also use this to offer someone help.
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I have 20 boxes to move and  they're all really heavy.
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A very nice Co worker could say I can give you a  
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hand or I'm happy to give  you a hand with that give.
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Me an again.
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Yeah, maybe you could give me a hand.
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Could you give me a hand?
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Outback number six.
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I can't make it.
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This is to say that you're not available  to attend something or go somewhere.
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In this case, make it means attend or arrive.
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Now let's talk about the pronunciation.
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I can't notice.
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We don't push out that TI  can't just don't push it out.
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I can't make it.
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The K sound is on the vowel kit make it.
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I can't make it repeat after me.
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I can't make it.
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I can't make it.
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Your coworkers could say to you, we're grabbing  a bite after we move all the boxes so they're.
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Casually inviting you to join them.
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And you can say, sorry, I can't make it.
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I have to pick up my kids.
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So you can't go, you can't attend.
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Or you could be on your way to a meeting,  
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but there is an accident and you have to text  your coworker and say traffic is terrible.
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I'm not going to make the  meeting start without me.
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So here, remember we're just using  the verb make instead of attend.
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Or you could say I'll try my best to make  it tonight, so it might be the party.
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I'll try my best to make the party.
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You could also say I'll try my  best to make it to the party.
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I can't make it tonight.
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Oh, I I can't make your party.
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Tomorrow.
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Deb, I can't make it.
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#7 It's up to you.
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This is to say that someone is  responsible for making the decision.
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Notice that pronunciation.
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It's up to you.
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So we take it's up.
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We use that S sound.
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It's up TA instead of to.
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It's up to you.
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Repeat after me.
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It's up to you.
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It's up to you.
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So if you're planning to watch a  movie tonight, you could say to  
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your friend or partner there are three new  releases, which one do you want to watch?
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And your partner can say it's U to you,  so you're responsible for deciding.
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It's common to add the reason why, for example.
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They all look good to me so it's up to you.
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This is very commonly used if you give someone 2.
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Choices.
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Do you want to take the highway or the scenic?
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Route.
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It's up to you.
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You are responsible for deciding.
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Again, you can provide the reason  why you're driving, so it's up.
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To you, it's up.
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To you.
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It's up to you.
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It's up to you.
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Now let's have some fun.
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You'll complete a quiz to see how well  you know these commonly confused words.
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And of course, you'll learn new vocabulary  and grammar throughout this section.
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So here's how this video is going to work.
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I'm going to show you a sentence,  and you're going to have two options.
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And you have to decide which option  correctly completes the sentence.
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Now, I'll only show the sentence for a  couple seconds, so make sure you hit pause,  
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take your time to read it, to answer it,  
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and then hit play and I'll show you the answer  and I'll explain why that answer is correct.
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Are you ready to go number one?
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There were people at the  party than I had expected.
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The answer is fewer.
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There were fewer people at  the party than I had expected.
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And the reason is we use  fewer with countable nouns.
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You can count how many people there are,  but we use less with uncountable nouns.
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So I could say there was less rain.
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You can't count rain.
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There was less rain this year compared to  last year #2 I'm just in the of a big project.
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And the answer is midst.
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Midst.
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This is a tricky one simply  because of pronunciation.
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When you hear this in spoken English,  I'm in the midst of a big project.
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It's easy to confuse this with mist,  
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and to be in the midst of something is  simply to be in the middle of something.
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So I'm in the middle of a big project  #3 wow, that shirt really your hair?
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And the answer is compliments with an E.
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These two words sound exactly  the same in pronunciation.
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It's spelling that is different,  but they have different meanings.
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Compliment in this example  is when one thing your shirt  
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combines really well with another thing your.
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Hair.
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Compliment with an I is when you  say something nice to someone.
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I love your shirt.
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Thanks for the compliment.
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If you want to learn more about compliment and  compliment, you can look in the description  
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for a link on a video on that topic  #4 that movie had quite an on me.
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The answer is a fact, it  had quite an effect on me.
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The pronunciation is very similar.
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Effect, affect.
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There's a slight difference, but the spelling is  
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important because affect is a verb and  affect is a noun, and we need a noun.
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You know that because there's an  article in the sentence with the verb.
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I could say that movie affected me.
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If you want to learn more about affect and  effect, you can look in the description for  
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a link on that #5 Quizzes are a great  way to your skills to hone your skills.
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Again, similar in pronunciation,  but the correct choice is hone.
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This is an expression to hone one skills.
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This is simply to improve one's skills.
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Number six, I didn't know at the party.
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I didn't know anybody at the party.
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Didn't is negative In the English  language, we do not like double negatives.
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You can only use one negative in a clause.
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And since I already have didn't,  I can't use the negative nobody.
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I have to use anybody #7 I don't like carrots.
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I don't like carrots either.
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Now this is the same as number six  because I don't don't is a negative.
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Neither is also a negative.
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So we can't use it we want either.
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I don't like carrots either.
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To use neither.
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I could say you don't like carrots.
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Neither do I, neither do I.
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If you want to learn more  about either and neither,  
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you can look in the description  for a video I created on this.
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And #8 She has more she needs.
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She has more than she needs.
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Similar in pronunciation than then,  
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but they're two totally different  words than we use in comparisons.
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More than, less than, fewer than comparisons.
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Then is an adverb.
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It's used in time.
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References.
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First I'll eat lunch, then I'll go for a walk  #9 Joining social clubs is, for all purposes,  
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the solution to loneliness  for all intents and purposes.
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This is an expression in English.
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For all intents and purposes.
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This simply means in almost every situation.
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In virtually every situation.
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But when you say this at a natural  pace, for all intents and purposes,  
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for all intents and purposes  it sounds like intensive.
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Intensive is a word that  people are very familiar with.
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Intense and is not something  that people are familiar with,  
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but the correct expression  is intense and purposes.
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This is a very useful business  or academic expression.
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It isn't really used in casual conversation too  much #10 we can discuss this after the meeting.
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We can discuss this further after the meeting.
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Further and farther both mean more.
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We can discuss this more in  more detail after the meeting.
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We use further when we're  talking about figurative and  
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we use farther when we're talking about literal.
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For example, we need to walk farther.
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We literally need to walk more.
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We need to walk farther to see the waterfall.
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If you want to learn more about this,  
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look in the description for a link on  a separate video #11 You can down here.
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You can lie down here.
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Lay and lie.
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They have the same meaning, but lay is transitive.
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It needs an object.
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For example, lay the baby down  here, lay the blanket down here.
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You lay something.
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But lie is intransitive, so there's no object.
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Lie down here, lie yourself  down here, lie down here.
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Number 12.
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That sweater is too for you.
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That sweater is too loose for you.
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This one is confusing because of the spelling.
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Do I need one O or two?
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It's easy to forget lose with  one O is the opposite of win.
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Did you lose the game?
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Did you win the game?
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Did you lose the game loose with two O's?
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When we're talking about clothing is  when it doesn't fit closely to your body.
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So this shirt I'm wearing is not  loose, It fits closely to my body.
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But this sweater, for example, is  loose #13 we should worked harder.
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We should have worked harder.
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Now, this is a mistake that many native speakers  make because in spoken English we take have,  
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which is the grammatically correct choice,  but we reduce it, we say it quickly,  
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and it sounds like of you should have, you  should have, you should have worked harder.
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So sometimes native speakers forget  that it's actually have and not of,  
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because that's what it sounds  like in spoken English.
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So in spoken English, you can absolutely say  you should have, you should have worked harder.
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But in written English,  
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just remember that the correct choice is  have #14I shouldn't have to the party.
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I shouldn't have gone to the party.
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Our verb here is go.
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The past simple is went, and  the past participle is gone.
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This structure requires the past  participle, the third form of the verb.
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Yesterday I went to the party.
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I've gone to three parties this month.
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And finally #15 do you trust the most?
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Whom do you trust the most?
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Who and whom?
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It can be very tricky for students and  native speakers to know the difference.
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Just ask yourself, do you need she or her?
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Do you need a subject or an object?
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She or her, he or him.
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I trust her the most.
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We need an object, not a subject.
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So you use whom?
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Who is your friend?
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She is my friend.
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In this case, we need a subject, so we use who.
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Now let's do my favorite exercise, and I  know it's an exercise my students love.
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We'll read a news article together so you  can improve your reading vocabulary, grammar.
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And pronunciation.
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First I'll read the headline Pen  pals of 70 years meet for first time.
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So these two are the pen pals.
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And now 70 years later they met.
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So first notice in the headline  it says meet for first time.
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This is actually grammatically incorrect.
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Do you know why?
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It's because there's a word  missing, a small but important word.
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And that's the article.
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This is considered acceptable acceptable  to do specifically in headlines.
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You can omit the article just to save space,  but you need to say for the first time first.
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Is an ordinal number and we use the article the.
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It has to be the.
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It can't be for a first time for  the first time for the first time.
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Now it's correct when we add that pen  pals of 70 years meet for the first time.
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So let's hear about their story now.
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First of all, do you know what a pen pal is?
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To be honest, I'm not sure if this is something  that's popular anymore, but when you have a pen  
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pal, it's when you and someone else, usually  in another country, another part of the world,  
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decide to become friends and your friendship  consists of you writing to each other.
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So of course, 70 years ago, writing would take  place by sending a letter to the other person.
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Now, obviously you can have a pen pal online.
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In the past, I know it was quite common to  have pen pals for language learning purposes.
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I personally had a pen pal, someone from Africa  when I was learning French and he was learning  
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English and I wrote to him in French and he wrote  to me in English and we actually met in Canada.
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So that was a very interesting experience for me.
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So I have met a pen pal that I had.
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What about you?
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Have you ever had a pen pal?
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Have you met your pen pal?
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Do you still have a pen pal?
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Share that in the comments.
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So that's the definition of pen pal.
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If you weren't aware, I added that  definition of pen pal here for you.
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Now, don't worry about writing this  down because I summarize everything  
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in a free lesson PDF so you can look  for the link in the description.
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Let's continue.
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A pair of 80 year old pen pals.
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So notice here a pair.
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Well, of course that means 2SO12.
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This is a pair of women, a  pair of pens, a pair of apples.
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It doesn't matter what, but it  means 2, a pair of 80 year old.
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This is an adjective to describe  the pen pals as an adjective.
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They don't take singular or plural forms,  which is why you don't see an S on years.
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And remember that adjectives  are always optional in English.
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So if I remove the adjective, the sentence  would still be correct a pair of pen pals.
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So it's still correct without the adjective,  and it just describes who the pen pals are.
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So a pair, remember that equals 2.
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A pair of 80 year old pen pals who have  been writing to each other since 1955.
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Of course, we need our what verb 10s  because I have since 1955 What verb 10s.
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Well, of course, the present perfect,  in this case, the present perfect  
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continuous because the action started  in the past and continues until now.
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They're still writing to each other.
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So that's why we have the present perfect.
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And sense is a keyword for the present perfect.
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And in this case, it's just in the continuous form  because it shows the continuation of the action.
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A pair of 80 year old pen pals  who have been writing to each  
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other since 1955 have finally fulfilled  their lifelong wish to meet in person.
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So it's been their lifelong wish.
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I think you can understand what lifelong means,  but this is an adjective to describe the wish,  
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and it's something that the person has  been wanting to do for their entire life.
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You can have a lifelong wish.
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You can also have a lifelong  dream, desire, or goal.
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For example, it's my lifelong  dream to go to Disneyland.
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I don't know why I chose that.
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It was just the first thing  that popped into my head.
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And then notice here they say have  finally fulfilled their lifelong wish.
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When you fulfill it, it means you achieve it.
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They've done it so you could  add, I hope I fulfill it soon.
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Patsy Gregory from Lancashire, which is in the UK.
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I'm not sure where to be honest.
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If you know where this is, feel free to share.
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Patsy Gregory from Lancashire  traveled nearly 4000 miles to  
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meet Carol Ann Cross in South Carolina,  which is of course a state in the US.
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I'm more familiar with South Carolina  than I am Lancashire, I must admit.
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Who she began writing to as a 12 year old.
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So again, here we're using it as  an adjective, as ah, as a what?
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As a 12 year old girl.
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And then they just omitted the  word girl because it's obvious.
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But here as a 12 year old girl.
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And then you can just omit that noun and then  just have as a 12 year old, as a 12 year old.
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So she began writing to who she  began writing to as a 12 year old.
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So that's when their pen pal  relationship, pen pal ship.
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Pen pal ship.
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I don't know if that's a word.
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I made it up.
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Their pen pal relationship began.
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All right.
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Mrs.
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Gregory said Mrs.
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Cross.
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So remember Mrs.
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Gregory's from the UK, Mrs.
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Cross is from the US Mrs.
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Gregory said Mrs.
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Cross was exactly as she imagined she would be.
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Now notice, as she imagined she would be, we  have the hypothetical here because obviously  
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as you're writing to someone, you, you have  an image in your head of who that person is.
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But at this time, they didn't have social  media, they didn't have video chat.
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So it was they probably.
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Didn't see that many pictures  of each other or were exposed to  
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each other's lives in the way we  are now because of social media.
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So they have this image in their  mind of what the other person  
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was like, and that's why it's in the  hypothetical here she would be, Mrs.
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Gregory said.
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Mrs.
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Cross was exactly as she imagined she would be.
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I recognize her immediately.
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When you recognize someone, it means you  look at someone and they are familiar to you.
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So you can recognize a person.
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And sometimes if you're talking to someone,  you're like, oh, hi, do you recognize me?
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It's another way of saying,  do you remember who I am?
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Because.
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Perhaps we met at a conference,  
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but five years ago, and the person  is asking if I remember who she is.
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Do you recognize me?
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Do you recognize me?
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Now?
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You can recognize someone physical appearance,  
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but you can also recognize them  based on the sound of their voice.
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For me, actually, I tend to  remember someone's voice,  
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the sound of their voice, more  than actually what they look like.
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So I might recognize someone because  their voice sounds familiar to me.
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I recognized her immediately  and it just felt natural.
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In this way, Natural means comfortable because  they're meeting each other for the first time.
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And when you meet someone for the first time,  
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it can be awkward because you don't  know how to interact with that person.
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But they've been communicating with each other  as pen pals for 70 years, so that's why it felt  
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natural, which means it felt comfortable because  of the relationship they have as pen pals.
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Comfortable, Mrs.
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Gregory, the one from the UK, Mrs.
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Gregory said though the pair had not met  before, their lives had taken similar patterns.
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So remember the pair means the  two of them, so she could say.
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Mrs.
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Gregory said though they because they represents  the two of them, which is also the pair.
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So you could say although they had not met  before and then you can see the equivalent  
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of they as the possessive pronoun there,  their lives had taken similar patterns.
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We're both the same age and got married around  the same time and have three children, she said.
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Which is probably why their pen pal relationship,  which I just described as pen pal ship.
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I'm making up a new word.
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You heard it here first.
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Their pen pal ship.
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Maybe it already exists.
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I'm not sure.
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Their pen pal ship was successful because  they have all of these similarities.
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So you could say these are the  things they have in common.
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We have so much in common and we're both married.
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We both have three children, we're  both the same age, we're both women.
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We have so much in common.
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We have so many similarities.
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So notice so much in common.
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Because common is uncountable.
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We don't put a S on it, but here are similarities.
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So, so many similarities.
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We have so many similarities.
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You can use the same verb.
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Have we started in pencil?
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They're talking about their pen pal  ship, their pen pal relationship.
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We started in pencil, moved on to ink.
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When you move on, it means you  progress to something else.
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So you advance progress or  advance progress, advance.
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Now you move on to something.
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Notice that.
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So if you finish one task at work,  you can move on to the next task.
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You can progress to the next  task, advance to the next task.
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We started in pencil, moved  on to ink, then typing.
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Wow, this is an interesting  relationship when you think  
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of how the method of communication  has changed over the past 70 years.
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Then typing and now we can e-mail  and stay in touch on social media.
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So different and notice here stay  in touch and when you stay in touch  
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with someone it means you keep  communicating with that person.
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So often this is how we say goodbye to someone.
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We say bye, stay, stay in touch, which is a  way of saying make sure you keep talking to me,  
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make sure you keep sending me messages,  make sure you keep emailing me, calling me.
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So to remain in communication, remain in  communication and you stay in touch with someone.
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OK, So we've stayed in  touch for the last 70 years.
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We have the present perfect because it started  in the past and it continues until now.
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We've stayed in touch for the last 70 years.
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This is how you can use it in a sentence.
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We've stayed in touch.
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Now you don't have to include the  with each other because it's we.
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It's not necessary at all.
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But I just want to show you that if  you identify someone you need with.
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So in this case, if you use we, it  wouldn't be common to include that.
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But you might say I've stayed in touch  with my pen pal for the last 70 years.
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We have a great pen pal ship.
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OK, it's going to catch on.
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Just wait.
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So you can stay in touch.
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You can also keep in touch by  stay in touch, keep in touch.
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I'll just add that in here.
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Keep in touch.
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They're exactly the same.
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There's no difference.
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So for all of these, you just  need to conjugate your verb.
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We've kept in touch, we've kept in touch,  I've kept in touch with my pen pals.
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So you can use stay or keep.
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48:07
There's no difference in meaning, there's  just two separate options here, she said.
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It's come a long way.
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When something has come a long way, it  means that something has progressed a lot.
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So we can say, for example,  computers have come a long way.
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Think back to the computer that these  women used to type their first message  
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to each other and then compare that  to the computer they're using now.
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Obviously that technology has progressed a lot.
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It has come a long way, so has progressed,  advanced a lot to come a long way.
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Let's continue.
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Mrs.
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Gregory's trip was organized by her three  children as a special gift for her 80th birthday.
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Oh, that's sweet.
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And her daughter's, Steph Callum,  accompanied her for the journey.
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When you accompany someone, it  means you go with that person.
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49:24
So her daughter went on the trip with her.
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49:29
Her daughter accompanied her to America.
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Mrs.
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Gregory is the UK pen pal.
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So my daughter accompanied me to South Carolina.
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So this means my daughter went with  me, went with me to South Carolina.
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You accompany someone.
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All right, I'll just highlight that for you.
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So Steph Callum accompanied her.
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They don't include the location.
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If they did, it would be to  South Carolina for the journey.
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50:12
Mom has always wanted to  meet her American pen friend.
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50:17
I've never heard it referred to as pen friend.
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50:21
I've only heard it as pen pal maybe.
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50:26
I'm not sure.
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Maybe that is a British expression.
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50:33
I have not heard that before.
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But also I don't know if I've ever heard pen pal  ship, which I just made-up pen pal, pen friend.
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50:42
But I can definitely tell you  in US at least, we say pen pal.
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50:47
I've never heard pen friend.
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Also notice this spelling of mom is  specific to UK spelling in the US.
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50:57
In American English we say mom,  which is of course if you didn't  
726
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51:04
know is short for mother and almost  everyone calls their mother mom.
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51:11
To me, it sounds very formal to  say mother, it's mom, mom, mom.
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And when you're a little kid, maybe  until you're 10 years old, you say mommy.
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51:24
But after 10 years old, if you still say  mommy, it sounds a little childish, a little.
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It doesn't sound appropriate for an adult or  a teenager to do, at least in North America.
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51:40
So when you're maybe until you're  10 years old, you can say mommy,  
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and then after that and until for  the rest of your life you'll say mom.
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You can absolutely say mother  is just not the most common.
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Miss Callum the daughter, Remember Miss  Callum the daughter, Miss Callum said.
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She said the meeting had been on her mother's  bucket list as it was one of her lifelong regrets.
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Oh, remember, we had lifelong wish.
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I believe it was a wish, lifelong wish.
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You can also have a lifelong regret.
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A regret is something you wish you had done,  something you wish you had done but you didn't.
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52:34
I don't like having regrets.
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I think having regrets are some of  the worst feelings you could have.
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So I always try to make sure I do the  things I want to do so I don't have regrets.
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I don't want to have lifelong regrets.
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52:51
I want to fulfill my lifelong wishes,  dreams, desires, and I guess that's it.
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52:59
Wishes, dreams, desires, goals.
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That was the other one.
747
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Goals.
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53:03
OK, a bucket list.
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This became very popular with a movie.
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I don't know if I had heard the  expression before the movie.
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53:13
When you kick the bucket, it's  another way of saying you die.
752
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A very casual slang way of saying  you die to kick the bucket.
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This means to die.
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It's not very commonly used.
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53:32
It might be considered a little disrespectful  
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to say something like my friend kicked  the bucket, which means my friend died.
757
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53:41
But this expression comes from the  list of things that you want to do,  
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53:48
your goals, your wishes, your desires.
759
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53:51
The list of things you want to  do before you kick the bucket,  
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before you die, that's called your bucket list.
761
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54:03
So on her mother's bucket list, one she wanted  to meet her American pen pal pen friend.
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It was one of her lifelong regrets  that they had never met in person.
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So remember, Agret is when you say like,  oh, I wish I had applied to that job.
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I wish I had moved to another country.
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54:29
I wish I had spent more time improving my English.
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It was very emotional when they meant  when something is described as emotional,  
767
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it means it produces very strong feelings in you.
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54:47
Women tend to show these feelings by crying,  so you can imagine they probably were crying,  
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but in this case they were tears of happiness  because they're meeting for the first time.
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55:01
It was very emotional when they met, she added.
771
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55:04
I was quite choked up when  they hugged for the first time.
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55:10
When you get choked up to get or to become  to be in this case, it's be choked up.
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55:18
It means emotional.
774
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55:20
It's another way of saying emotional.
775
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55:23
So perhaps your it's your retirement party and  after working for this company for 50 years,  
776
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55:33
you're giving a speech and you're  saying goodbye to all of your coworkers.
777
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55:39
And as you're saying goodbye,  you might get a little choked up,  
778
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55:45
you might have trouble expressing  those words because there's a lot  
779
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55:49
of emotion and you're trying  not to show that emotion.
780
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55:56
And that causes you from like  getting a little choked up.
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56:00
So it's when you have a lot of  emotion, but you also try not to  
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56:03
really show that emotion 'cause you  might be in the middle of a speech.
783
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56:07
For example, I was quite choked up  when they hugged for the first time.
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56:13
So the daughter is watching the two women.
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Remember, one of them is her mother.
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It was her lifelong dream to meet this  pen pal that she's had for 70 years.
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56:25
And they hug and the daughter is watching them  and like getting choked up, getting emotional.
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56:33
They hit it off instantly  and have a lot in common.
789
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56:37
Oh, I already shared this with you, woohoo.
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56:40
Now to hit it off.
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56:42
This is when you get along with someone.
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56:46
When you get along with someone, it means  you have a positive relationship with them.
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56:51
So when you hit it off, it means you,  you feel very connected to someone.
794
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56:57
You feel that you will have a good relationship  
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57:01
with someone after meeting them for  the first time and in this case.
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57:08
It is their.
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57:09
First time meeting, although they've  been communicating for 70 years.
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57:13
They hit it off so they like someone  and they became friends immediately.
799
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57:19
They hit it off instantly  and have a lot in common.
800
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57:22
They've been talking non-stop, non-stop.
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57:26
This is an adverb and it means they've been  
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talking continuously so the action  happens for a long period of time.
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I have another example here for you.
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I've been working non-stop continuously  
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now because this action started in  the past and continues until now.
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You can use the present perfect  or the present perfect continuous.
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Mrs.
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Gregory and her daughter stayed  for 9 days in South Carolina,  
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with much of that time being spent with Mrs.
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Cross and her family.
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The two pen pals said they  would continue to stay in touch.
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So remember, stay in touch  or what's the other verb You  
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can use stay in touch or you can keep in touch.
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Continue to stay in touch.
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Keep in touch through letters and cards.
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But we're not sure if the  meeting would ever be repeated.
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If something's repeated, of  course, it means it happens again.
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So they're not sure if they'll  ever meet in person again.
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Although they do want to maintain their  pen pal relationship, their pen pal ship.
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And that's the end of the article.
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And this is an image of the women when they met.
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And here are some of the letters  that they wrote to each other  
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when they could have been 12 or 14 years old.
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So that must have been really  fun to meet each other to.
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Look at these old.
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Letters to talk about their lives.
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It must have been a very interesting meeting.
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What about you?
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Do you have a pen pal?
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Share that in the comments.
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And now what I'll do is I'll go to the  beginning of the article and I'll read  
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it from start to finish and this time  you can focus on my pronunciation.
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Pen Pals of 70 Years Meet for First Time A  pair of 80 year old pen pals who have been  
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writing to each other since 1955 have finally  fulfilled their lifelong wish to meet in person.
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Patsy Gregory, from Lancashire,  traveled nearly 4000 miles to meet  
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Carol Ann Cross in South Carolina, who  she began writing to as a 12 year old.
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Mrs.
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Gregory said Mrs.
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Cross was exactly as she imagined she would be.
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I recognize her immediately and  it just felt natural, she said.
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Mrs.
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Gregory said though the pair had not met  before, their lives had taken similar patterns.
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We're both the same age and got married around  the same time and have three children, she said.
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We started in pencil, moved  on to ink, then typing,  
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and now we can e-mail and stay in  touch on social media, she said.
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It's come a long way.
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Mrs.
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Gregory's trip was organized by her  three children as a special gift for  
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her 80th birthday, and her daughter Steph  Callum accompanied her for the journey.
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Mom has always wanted to meet her  American pen friend, Miss Callum said.
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She said the meeting had been  on her mother's bucket list as  
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it was one of her lifelong regrets  that they had never met in person.
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It was very emotional when they met, she added.
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I was quite choked up when  they hugged for the first time.
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They hit it off instantly  and have a lot in common.
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They've been talking non-stop.
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Mrs.
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Gregory and her daughter stayed  for 9 days in South Carolina,  
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with much of that time being spent with Mrs.
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Cross and her family.
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The two pen pals said they would continue  to stay in touch through letters and cards,  
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but we're not sure if the  meeting would ever be repeated.
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Do you want me to make another  master class just like this?
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If you do put yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,  yes, yes, yes, yes in the comments below.
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And of course, make sure you like this lesson,  
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share it with your friends and subscribe so  you're notified every time I post a new lesson.
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And of course, you can get this free  speaking guide where I share 6 tips  
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on how to speak English fluently and confidently.
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For the link in the description and I have another  master class I know you'll love so make sure.
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