75 Ways to Politely Interrupt and Join ANY English Conversation | Go Natural English

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Hello there welcome to go natural English I am so excited you're here today because
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Today we're going to solve a really important problem that has been tearing me up inside
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Meaning, it makes me sad and frustrated when I see a really smart English Learner like you in
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A group of English speakers, and you're not speaking so this makes me mad
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Not at you
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But it makes me mad that you don't have the tools to interrupt and to join that conversation so today
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I'm going to give you not one not two but
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75 ways to interrupt politely in any
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English conversation
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So this is going to solve this problem once and for all and I'm gonna see you more fluent and way more
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Confident by the end of this lesson now as you watch this video
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I want you to repeat all the words and phrases after me then after you watch the video
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So this is a great way to practice your
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interruption skills politely in order to join any
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That's in the description, so let me share
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Seventy-five ways for you to do this so that you never hesitate to join any English conversation again alright, let's begin
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Before we learn interjections which are ways to interrupt in a conversation
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I want to make a point you need to have something to say you need to have a purpose
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Don't just interrupt and then say nothing plan ahead a little bit what you're gonna say or just keep it really simple
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You could just show your understanding or you could agree or disagree
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but it's a good idea to be ready to follow up your
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Interjection with something to say if someone is talking and talking and talking really fast
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And they don't give you any time to join the conversation then try to wait for them to
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Pause at the end of a phrase or to take a breath
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I mean eventually they have to breathe right so that's a great time to politely jump into a conversation
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Okay, first of all let's begin with attention getters attention getters are categories of words that don't really have any
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meaning
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But we use them all the time even more often than regular
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Vocabulary words to get other people's attention so number one is not even a word
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I'm sorry, but it's a great way to
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Interject into a conversation. It is to clear your throat
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Go ahead repeat boom next um
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three hmm four
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Five oh
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well
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so
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Hey
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Now hey is a little bit casual so as we go
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I'll point out different words or phrases that are more formal or more casual number nine
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Say someone's name in the conversation so for example James
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And then of course you're gonna follow that up with the purpose of why you're interrupting for example James
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that's a great idea ten guys so guys can be used in a group of men or women or
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Just men or just women or both
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It doesn't matter and eleven is the formal version guys
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Ladies and gentlemen so only use this in really formal situations or when you're trying to be funny in a casual situation
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Guys can be used in pretty much any conversation, but it's not super formal
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So just try to observe a little bit and see if it would be appropriate if other people are saying guys
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Otherwise you might want to substitute this with everyone
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For example everyone, I think that's a great idea everyone is appropriate in
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professional situations
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Next number 12, we're going to talk about several phrases. You can use to add information
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I need to add something here. Can I just say something here now?
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This is a question. Don't wait for a response you don't need permission
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This is just a way to get people's attention so you can go right into what you'd like to say can
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I just say something here. I think that's a great idea 14. Can I just add something here 15 may?
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I add I'd like to add. Let me add something that reminds me for this one. You'd want to tell a connected or related
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Story or piece of information for example that reminds me
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We need to prepare the report for next week next up
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We have several phrases that are literally asking to interrupt in a conversation, so let's go
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Let me interrupt a second or in faster more casual English. Let me interrupt a second
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I'm sorry to interrupt, but I don't mean to interrupt, but sorry for interrupting but
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Can I stop you there for a moment can I just butt in for a second can I just mention something?
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excuse me for interrupting but
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Excuse me. I'd like to say something
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Excuse me for butting in but that's a lot of but just a moment I'd like to
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Next we have several phrases to jump in a phrasal verb that means to join a conversation
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Let me jump in or let me jump in but again
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We blend sounds together, and it'll sound like lemme jump in do you mind if I jump in here?
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Can I jump in here? Do you mind if I come in here?
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I don't mean to intrude, but now this one is more for joining a conversation that you're not already part of like if you
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Overhear other people talking and you want to join their conversation, I don't mean to be rude
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But and this one is also for joining a conversation that you're not already part of may
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I interject this one is super formal and never used, so I don't recommend using it
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But it's good to know now
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If you're in a meeting or in a class you might like these next phrases before we move on to the next
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points may I add
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Before you move on I'd like to say something before you go on I'd like to say something
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and we have
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Pardon me now. I personally never use pardon me
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I don't know if it's more British English or just old school
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But I can tell you it's not used as often as excuse me now you can also use
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Asking for clarification as the perfect way to interrupt in a conversation
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You could ask could you clarify that
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Sorry
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Could you explain that a little more do you mean that and then when you use this one you need to summarize what you?
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Understand the person has already said so for example. Do you mean that you think that's a great idea?
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Would you tell us a little bit more about that could you clarify that last point before we move on?
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Would you mind explaining that a little more could you explain that more fully?
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Next let's look at phrases for asking for time for example to jump into a conversation
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Hold on. Just a minute wait. What about can we just pause a second, let's see
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one quick thing
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Just one thing just let me say
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Listen next sharing your opinion is a great way to
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Interject in a conversation, so let's look at a few ways to do that. I think I agree. I disagree. I don't agree
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I'm not sure about that. That's great. That's interesting now. Be careful with your tone your tone has to match your meaning
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That's interesting is very different than that's interesting. Do you hear the difference?
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I hope so you can also interrupt to bring other people into the conversation
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Reach out to others who are quiet in a group for example?
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What's your opinion James?
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What do you think James James? Do you agree as far as I'm concerned?
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personally I believe
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The way I see it
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That's right. That's correct
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one of my favorite words to use as an introduction is
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actually
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Finally you could use suggestions to interrupt. It would be interesting -
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Why don't we?
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How about and?
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finally
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You don't need to say any of these words or phrases you can just say
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What you want to say just speak up and jump in a conversation however?
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I think these 75 words and phrases will really help you to jump in and to
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Combat those fast and loud speakers that never allow you time to jump in well
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sometimes you need to jump in and take it for yourself so be brave be fearless and
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Learn to use at least some if not all of these
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Awesome 75 words and phrases to interrupt in any English
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Conversation you deserve to join and other people want you to join the conversation so don't be shy
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Jump in today. I highly recommend that you practice using these ways to interrupt and try lingo - today
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I really want you guys to participate more in English conversations. It'll make me super
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