Have SAFE SEX with Ronnie!

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Now, some of you guys might have seen lessons that I've done before about sex with Ronnie.
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Guess what?
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As much as I like to teach you about sex and all its fun, there is a very, very serious
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side to sex that I want to talk to you about.
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This is a public service announcement.
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No guitars, but we're going to talk about safe sex with me.
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Hi. Safe sex basically means preventing two things, the first one is present-...
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Preventing unwanted pregnancy, that means not having a baby.
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So, we know, hopefully, that if you have sex (intercourse) there's a nice chance that you
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can have a baby.
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But maybe you're a little too young to have a baby.
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Maybe you don't want a baby.
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Maybe having a baby would really mess up your life.
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So, we're going to go through two very important things, one is birth control, and the other
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one even I think more important than birth control is not dying because or not getting
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very sick because you have contracted or gotten what's called an STD.
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"STD" means a sexually-transmitted disease.
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We have a lot of these.
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I'm going to teach you the name of some of them, the slang of some of them.
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You'll hear them in movies.
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But most importantly, I want you to not get these.
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Please, do these little things to help you, even if you're really drunk.
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When you go to a pharmacy or you go to a place to get things, like condoms or something to
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help you, do not be ashamed, do not be scared.
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You are protecting yourself, and you are protecting your partner.
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There is no shame in protecting yourself and not dying.
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So, no matter what your culture was in your country, no matter what your parents think
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- you want to protect yourself, so please.
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"She won't get sick if you cover your dick."
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This means: Wear a condom.
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Come on.
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It takes two seconds, just flip that on and you're ready to pounce.
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Rawr.
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So, wear a condom, guys.
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Do it. It's easy, it's fun.
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There's many different flavours, you can get different colours, they can glow in the dark,
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condoms, wear one.
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You're not going to have to have a baby you don't want and you're not going to get a disease,
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hopefully. So, ladies, this is for you.
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Unfortunately, if we get pregnant we're the ones that have to keep the baby and the men
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disappear and have their fun, but we're stuck with the baby.
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So, most of the forms of birth control, this means stopping to have a child, are for women
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because it's our responsibility, it's our body.
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No matter what anyone says, you have control of your body, not anyone else.
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So, we have many different methods that we can use to control if we have a baby, if we don't.
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Now, the most popular one, it's been around for a long time, it's called "the pill".
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The pill is a pill, like a tablet that we take every day and it prevents us getting
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pregnant because it prevents the eggs from coming into the uterus and making contact
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with the sperm.
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I'll explain all that later, but basically it's called the pill and it prevents us from
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getting pregnant. Yes.
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Another one like the pill is called "the patch".
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Now, the pill has been around since the 1960s in America.
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The patch is fairly new.
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It's basically a sticker you put on your body, and hormones are released into your body,
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and again, it prevents you from making the eggs, so the sperm and the eggs don't make
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contact and don't have a baby.
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We have another thing called "the morning after pill".
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Now, this is different than the birth control pill because the morning after pill is taken
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the morning after you have sex or intercourse.
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So let's say that you didn't use a condom and you are not on any birth control-this
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happens, no problem-you can go to the pharmacy, you can go to the drugstore, you can go to
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the doctor and you can ask for the morning after pill.
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Again, this will stop any further egg and sperm connections, it's 100% legal, reliable,
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and safe.
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So do it, even if you feel embarrassed.
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It's better to be embarrassed for 10 seconds than have a baby for the rest of your life
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that you can't take care of.
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So, believe me, the morning after pill is perfectly fine.
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It has many names, like: "Plan-B" or "the emergency pill".
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But if you just go to the pharmacy and ask for the morning after pill, you're set, you're
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good, you're like: "Yay, I can do this!"
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Then we get into more drugs, and different ways that we can prevent having babies.
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So, there's something called "Depo-Provera".
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Depo-Provera, we in slang, call "the shot".
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It's an injection, which means they inject hormones into your body of progestin.
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And this is a hormone that stops ovulation.
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"Ovulation" means your eggs start to produce and go into your body where they're ready
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to meet the sperm of their dreams and have a baby.
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So what happens is if you take these hormones, your eggs will not produce and you cannot
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have a baby, hopefully.
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We also have something called "an I.U.D." this is an "intrauterine device".
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That's hard to say.
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So, an intrauterine device or I.U.D., we make it easier, we actually insert it in the uterus...
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The uterus is the part of your body where you can produce the child.
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And it's put there by a doctor.
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Okay? You're not having your best friend help you out with this.
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You're going to go to the doctor or a clinic and they're going to put a device inside of
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you that, again, will stop ovulation so you don't have...
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So you won't have a baby.
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This one can last anywhere from three to 10 years, so if you want to have a child you
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can have the device removed, and you can then have a baby.
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So these things are really, really good.
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They are not permanent.
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You stop it when you decide to, not anybody else.
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Not your doctor, it's all you.
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Another thing, we have, like...
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This is called "the ring", and the ring, it's a...
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Looks like a plastic circle, and I think the doctor name is NuvaRing, it has hormones again
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and what happens is it, again, prevents the egg and the sperm contact.
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This ring you put in and take out once a month, so it's a bit more work, but all of these
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have proven to be quite effective to prevent an unwanted child.
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Another thing that we have is called "a sponge", and a sponge, it's like a soft material that
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you can put inside of you before you have sex, and there's something called "spermicide"...
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Spermicide is a gel or a foam that will actually kill the sperm.
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Now, "sperm" are what men have, they look like little fish, they're little, white fish,
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sperm, and those are the things that will connect with your egg and the miracle of birth will happen.
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So, a sponge has spermicides or a gel that will kill the sperms.
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It's cool, we don't want them to live.
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There's lots of them, we don't like them.
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And the other thing we have is called "a diaphragm".
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A diaphragm, some people call it, like, a female condom, but it basically creates a
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barrier, so again the sperm and the eggs, they never meet.
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They're just strangers passing in the night having a good time.
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Women, ladies, these are many choices that we have to protect ourselves.
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Unfortunately, all of these things will not prevent sexually-transmitted diseases.
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Guys, that's where I'm talking to you.
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You have one very important thing, and it is, again, "a condom".
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A condom is square...
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I don't have one here, I should have brought one, and you open it up, and you put it on
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your penis and you can go all night.
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Okay?
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And it will prevent you becoming a father and it will also prevent STDs.
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So, another option is a spermicide.
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A lot of condoms have a spermicide in them so that it will kill the gel.
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I've just decided that the condom god has blessed me with a condom.
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Thank you, condom god.
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This is a condom.
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It's Durex, oo, we're doing brand names here.
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So, if you don't know how to use one of these, I suggest you find the videos on YouTube and
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check it out.
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They are really important.
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They might even save your life.
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Don't ever be embarrassed to go to a store, a pharmacy, or ask someone, ask a friend if
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they have one of these because this little guy, mm, your best friends, guys.
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Use it.
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A very drastic thing you can do, guys, if you never want to have children is get what's
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called a "vasectomy".
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So, a vasectomy is basically sterilization where you can never have children again because
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the sperm die inside, and they will never, ever reach the egg because they don't produce
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sperm to reach the egg.
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We can also have this operation, it's called...
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Something, I forget what it's called for girls.
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I'll think about it and I'll tell you later, but guys, you can have a vasectomy.
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This means...
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A lot of men choose to have a vasectomy after they have children, and they decide:
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"Do you know what?
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My wife and I don't want any more children, we have one partner, we don't have to worry
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about using condoms.
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We don't want any more babies, so we're going to get a vasectomy."
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Women, ladies, we have the same thing and we can get our "tubes tied".
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So, tubes are little things that connect our eggs to our uterus.
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Getting the tubes tied means they cut the tubes so our eggs won't travel anymore.
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And this is an option, it's almost permanent for us.
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Now, the most important thing when you use this condom is to prevent something called
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"sexually-transmitted diseases" or "STDs".
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STDs are just the easier way to say "sexually-transmitted diseases".
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So, this is a short list of some very common STDs.
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We have "chlamydia", which we call "the clap".
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We have "Hepatitis B", which in slang we call "hep B".
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We have "herpes", "HIV", which can become "AIDS", we have "syphilis", "crabs" or "lice".
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Ew, what?
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What?
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You eat crabs, so crabs or lice are little insects that live in your pubic hair of dirty,
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dirty people.
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So someone...
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If someone has little insects living in their pubic hair or in their hair, if your pubic
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hair touches theirs, guess what?
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You got crabs and you're really itchy.
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Oh!
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Very uncomfortable.
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Do not eat them.
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It's not that kind of crab that you find in the ocean.
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It's found in pubic hair, don't eat it.
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No.
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Another common one is called "gonorrhea", and then we have the "HPV".
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This is called-bear with-"the human papilloma virus".
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One cool thing is that now we have a "vaccine" to protect us against the HPV.
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This is happening a lot in Canada, a lot of girls who are entering the age of being sexually
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active, high school age, are being vaccinated against this virus to cut down on the spread of it.
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It happens a lot, just because you don't use this.
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Use this. Yeah, again, condom, please use a condom.
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Just do it. Yeah?
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It'd be easier.
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So you think: "Oh, guess what, Ronnie? Do you know what?
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I'm not going to get an STD because I actually don't have sex.
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I'm not, you know, sticking my dick in, you know..."
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Guess what?
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Even if you have oral sex, ladies, "ah" or "ah-la-la", you can still get these diseases.
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So, this is going to help you, gentlemen.
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And guys go: "Oh, it doesn't feel the same. I don't like it."
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Guess what?
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You probably don't like have syphilis and dying.
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Wear this.
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Ladies, there's also something that you can get, or gentlemen, called a "dental dam" and
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this is basically a piece of plastic that goes over your mouth when you're performing
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oral sex on a lady, and it will prevent these STDs entering your body.
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So, syphilis, hep B, herpes, gonorrhea, these are things that you can also get from oral sex.
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So it's not just sexual intercourse, it's just putting your mouth on genitals.
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Guess what?
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You can get STDs as well.
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This is the main thing that I want to go over with you guys: How to prevent STDs.
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This is the number one answer.
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The number two answer: Have sex with one person.
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Oh, you guys: "That's boring, Ronnie."
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Yeah, cool, whatever, but it's a way to stop the spread of STDs.
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So you're using a condom, you have one partner.
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Guess what?
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This is a good thing.
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Another thing that I highly recommend that you do is you get tested.
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Getting tested means you go to the doctor, again, there is no shame in doing this.
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I've done this, I have to do this.
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I go to the doctor and I get tested, they take some blood to make sure that I do not
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have any STDs.
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If I had an STD I could give it to my partner, then it gets spread around.
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So, you can also get, as I mentioned before, vaccines against some of the diseases, but
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not all of them and probably not most of them.
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So: "Sex is cleaner with a packaged wiener.",
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"She won't get sick if you cover your dick."
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Guys, use a condom.
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Have fun, have sex, go crazy, wear one of these, and I'm good.
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