How to FLIRT in English (at a C1-C2 ADVANCED level) - British English Slang Vocabulary Lesson!

Hello you gorgeous things and welcome to my super advanced lesson on flirting.

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right now, recently I have been making a series of videos where I take common

everyday topics, the kind of first ones that you learn in English, and I take

them to an extremely advanced level.

I'm talking C1, C2.

Whilst I'm not recommending that you force yourself to speak on these everyday

topics at this level, it's a really fun and interesting way to learn advanced

grammar and advanced vocabulary.

Today is part of a two-part series.

In this lesson, I am going to show you how you can ask someone out, how you can

flirt with someone at a C1 to C2 advanced level.

And next week in the next video, I'm

going to show you how you can break up with someone at a C1, C2 advanced level.

It's going to be hilarious.

We're going to be focusing on British

English slang, and we'll also touch on some pronunciation as well.

In the next lesson about breaking up, we'll focus more on general vocabulary

and grammar.

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It covers everything we talk about in

this lesson.

Plus, I've also included some more

realistic ways to flirt with people and ask them out on a date.

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Right, let's get back to the lesson.

Okay, let's start with the first one.

This is a baseline.

It doesn't have any slang.

It's a starting point so that you can make comparisons with later passages.

Let's try it.

Ready?

My friend doesn't think you'll agree to go on a date with me, but I'd love to

take you out for dinner sometime.

Nice and simple, a nice easy start.

That's our baseline.

Let's move to the next level, level two.

I've been wanting to ask you out all night, but my mate told me I had no

chance of getting a date with you.

He'll be absolutely speechless if you say yes.

So you wanna to get a bite to eat?

No pressure.

So did you understand all of that?

It wasn't too advanced, but there are a

few words that I really want to look at.

The first one is mate, mate.

This here in this context means friend, and it's really common in British

English, but it's even more common in Australian English.

For example, my mates encouraged me to ask you out.

The second word is the informal contraction wanna, which is short for

want to, wanna.

Some people pronounce it wanna, others

wanna with more of an o sound.

Some use a, wanna, wanna as an alternative.

An example, do you want to go for a drink sometime?

And the final phrase from that text is a

bite to eat, a bite to eat.

Now notice the pronunciation here.

In fast speech, when one word ends in a vowel sound and the next one starts with

a vowel sound, we often add an extra sound to make it easier to say.

In this case, the extra sound is w, a bite to eat, to eat.

But what does it mean?

Well, a bite to eat often means a small meal.

However, we also use it in conversation to ask if someone wants to go out for

something to eat, not necessarily something small.

It's just very informal.

For example, fancy getting a bite to eat

at the local pub.

Note that you will also hear bite on its

own or a bite on its own.

Fancy a bite later, fancy something to

eat later.

Now, before I move on, I also want to

talk about something in this question.

You might have noticed that do is missing

from it.

Instead of saying, do you wanna get a

bite to eat?

I just say, you wanna get a bite to eat?

In informal speech, we often omit auxiliary verbs like do from questions.

If we want to go super informal, we can omit you as well.

Wanna get a bite to eat?

Okay, I can do better than this.

We can go more advanced.

Let's try level three.

Ready?

You are, by miles, the most stunning person

in the room, and I've been weighing up whether to come over or not.

My mate over there, the slightly trolleyed one, told me I didn't have a chance in

hell of getting you to go out with me.

He's gonna be gobsmacked if you agree, so

what do you reckon?

You wanna go out for a slap-up meal sometime?

No worries if not.

Okay, how did you do with that?

It's definitely getting more advanced.

Not too advanced though.

It doesn't sound like you're trying to be Shakespeare.

The first phrase is by miles, by miles.

You can also say by far.

It means by a very large amount or by a

long way.

We do not use the metric system when we

use this phrase.

We can't say by kilometres.

It just doesn't sound right.

An example, you're the funniest person

I've ever met by miles, by a long way.

We also had to weigh up, to weigh up.

This is a phrasal verb.

This means to think carefully about doing

something before making a decision.

There is another linking sound in that

phrase, to weigh up, weigh up.

Can you hear it?

We insert a little j sound.

My next word is extremely colloquial, informal.

It's trolleyed, trolleyed, and this means very drunk.

Ben's trolleyed.

Get him a taxi.

And next, we have an idiom, to not have a chance in hell.

Sometimes we omit the in hell part.

We just say, to not have a chance.

And even sometimes, to not stand a chance.

We also use it with the verb to be.

There's no chance in hell that he will go out with you.

Now, this example might sound a little bit mean, but it's an example of British

banter, our humour.

We often say these kinds of things to

close friends, knowing, hopefully, that they will know that it's a joke.

It's like playful teasing.

It can go too far, but be prepared for it

if you come to Britain and mix with Brits.

Next, I just want to mention gonna from

that text.

It's another informal contraction, just

like wanna or wanna.

Gonna is generally pronounced with the schwa.

Gonna, gonna.

You gonna ask him out or not?

You gonna ask him out or not?

Another great word, super informal, gobsmacked.

Gobsmacked.

So gob is quite a rude, informal slang

word for mouth.

Shut your gob.

If you are gobsmacked, you are so surprised that you can't speak.

You smack your mouth.

I'm gobsmacked.

I'm absolutely gobsmacked.

It's very informal.

I was gobsmacked when he turned up to our date wearing a tuxedo, black tie.

The final word that I want to point out from that text is an adjective, slap-up.

Slap-up, which often comes before the word meal.

This means a very large and delicious meal.

But I will tell you a secret.

I didn't understand the meaning of this for a very long time.

I thought a meal that was...

A slap-up meal was something that was

just slapped up in the kitchen, something that was made in a really careless way.

So honestly, if someone had invited me for a slap-up meal, I'd have said, well,

maybe you could put in a little bit more effort.

An example, I'd love to take you out for

a slap - up meal sometime, a really large and delicious and luxurious meal.

That was good, but I think we can make it even more advanced.

Here is number four, level four, the final level.

Ready?

My mate, the tipsy one by the bar, is

absolutely sick of me banging on about how stunning you look and told me to shut

my cakehole and do something about it.

Anyway, I decided nothing ventured,

nothing gained, so I'm here to ask you out for dinner.

He'll be floored if you say yes.

Maybe literally, he's more than tipsy, to

be honest.

And I'll be well chuffed to get a date

with the fittest person in London.

No stress if you don't fancy it though.

Okay, how was that one?

Would you say yes to me?

It was packed full of slang, so let me break some of it down for you.

We have to be sick of something.

If you are sick of something, you are

bored of something because it's annoying, it's repetitive.

You will also hear people say, I'm sick of it, I'm sick of this, I'm bored of this.

An example, I'm sick of you talking about Dylan, either ask him out or stop.

We also have to bang on about something, to bang on about.

This means to talk for a long time about something in a way that is annoying.

Ruth's been banging on about her date for hours.

Did you notice that when I'm trying to be

extra informal, instead of saying banging with the ng sound at the end, I said

banging, banging.

And sometimes we do this for emphasis.

It also sometimes happens when we talk quickly.

I've been singing for hours, singing for

hours, should be singing.

The next word is possibly the funniest

one on my list.

Cakehole, cakehole, which is British

slang for mouth.

Isn't that wonderful?

It's literally the hole that you put cake into.

So we've had gob and cakehole.

This is an incredibly rude lesson.

It's not a polite word, but you will

often hear it in the phrase, shut your cakehole, shut your mouth.

In American English, they often say piehole, which maybe means that Americans

prefer pie over cake.

Now I want to talk about the idiom,

nothing ventured, nothing gained.

This is a proverb, meaning that you have

to take risks to achieve something or to get something good.

If you don't take any risks, you won't get the reward.

An example, just ask Ravi on a date, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Next, let's look at the verb to floor, which means to confuse or to surprise

someone so much that they don't know what to say.

Very slang here.

You saw this phrase in the passive voice,

he'll be floored, but you can also use it in the active voice.

Amelia floored me when she asked me if I wanted to dance.

I didn't think she knew who I was.

After that, you heard the most marvellous

slang adjective, chuffed, chuffed, which means very happy or proud, or sometimes

even satisfied in a positive, in a really positive way.

I was really chuffed, surprised and happy.

I was really chuffed when Tom gave me his

phone number, or I was so chuffed with my exam result.

We sometimes say well chuffed or chuffed to bits for emphasis.

Using well instead of very or incredibly is uber slang.

It's not traditionally grammatically correct, but it's a common feature in

many dialects.

You look well nice today.

That food is well good.

Unless you're trying to integrate into a

specific community that uses it, I wouldn't say it's something that you

should really say, but it's really important to understand it.

And the final word that I want to talk about is fit, fit, which in the text, in

that context means physically attractive.

We met some really fit guys at the pub

last night.

Did you notice how I used a glottal stop

at the end?

Fit guys, fit.

I'm being informal.

And when I am with my friends or family,

I'm talking fast.

We're having fun.

I don't follow all of the RP pronunciation rules.

I do use the glottal stop.

I do make intentional grammar mistakes.

As I said, you don't want to sound forced, but really important that you

understand why people say them.

Okay.

What do you think?

Would you use any of these phrases to ask

someone out if you were in the UK?

And maybe you can adopt some of the slang

into your daily conversations.

Let me know in the comment section.

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