LEARN ENGLISH DAILY ROUTINES (5-DAY ROUTINE)

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Speak English With Tiffani


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Day number one.
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All right.
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Day number one of our five day English routine is going to be Monday.
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And it is the who we're using the five W's and for day number one, you want to
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focus on the people you interacted with.
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Let me explain this a little bit more.
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Again, the people you interacted with.
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Think of three people you interacted with or saw online and describe them.
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Make sure you give a detailed description of their appearance, their
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character, and their influence on you.
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Remember we're speaking about the first part of your five day routine
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to help you speak English fluently.
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The first thing you want to do is think about people.
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So let's break it down just a bit more.
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I want you to think about it like this.
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Imagine today, imagine that you interacted with your husband.
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Then you interacted with your boss.
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Next you interacted with the cashier at the grocery store.
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Now, remember, what are we talking about?
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Specifically focusing on the people you interacted with three individuals that
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you interacted with, for example, your husband, your boss, and the cashier.
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And what you're going to do is you're going to.
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Speak about these individuals.
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You're going to write about these individuals.
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You're going to think in English about these individuals.
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We're talking about a five day routine that will help you start
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speaking English more fluently.
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So we have on Monday, these three individuals think about.
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What they look like, their appearance, think about what they said.
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Their words and think about how they made you feel.
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This is what you are going to do on Monday, right?
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You're feeling, how did these individuals make you feel when you spoke with them?
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Now, why is this such a good routine for day number one?
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Let's check out the three reasons.
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Here's reason number one.
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Describing people helps build essential vocabulary related to physical appearance.
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Personality traits and personal characteristics.
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Once again, physical appearance, personality traits, and
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personal characteristics.
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The second reason why this is such a good thing to do is it improves your
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observational skills and your attention to detail, which are crucial for For
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effective communication in English.
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I mentioned a few moments ago, let's say you were thinking about the cashier.
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Well, now you have to really go back and think about, Hey, what
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was the cashier actually wearing?
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You're going to describe his or her appearance.
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You're focused on the details and this will actually help
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you improve your English.
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Day number one, your routine number three.
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The reason is it also helps you by practicing descriptions.
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You will enhance the ability you have to form complex sentences and
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use various grammatical structures.
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As you're thinking about the cashier or your husband or your boss, you're going
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to figure out ways of describing these individuals that's going to cause you
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to use the grammar rules you've learned to use the expressions you've learned.
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So again, focus on.
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On day one, the first part of this five day routine is once again, you need to
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focus on the people you interacted with.
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And we're focusing on the first W, which is the who now, before we get to day
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number two of our routine, my name is Tiffani also known as teacher Tiffani.
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And my goal is to help you.
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Speak English with confidence.
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This lesson going over five day routine will help you more
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than, you know, are you ready?
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Well, then I'm teacher Tiffani.
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Let's jump right in today.
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Number two day, number two of this five day routine.
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I want you to use the W the what to focus on the things you did.
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This is going to help you in so many.
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Ways.
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So what you're going to do is you're going to focus on what you did.
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What does this mean?
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You're going to think of three things you did throughout the day and describe them.
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Make sure you give a detailed description of the actions.
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So I want you to literally think about what you did throughout your day.
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For example, let's say.
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You enjoy actually meeting up with your friends.
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So let's say first thing you met your friends, right?
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You met your friends.
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Maybe you met them at a cafe.
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All right.
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You met your friends and maybe you also had to give.
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Uh, presentation.
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All right.
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So you gave a presentation and then finally, maybe you promised your kids
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that they would have pizza for dinner.
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So maybe you purchased a pizza.
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Remember this routine is all about picking three things you did that day.
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We're on day two of our five day routine to improve your English.
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Focus on the things you did speak about them or write about them.
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Three things you did.
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And I wrote down again.
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Met with friends, gave a presentation, and also purchased a pizza.
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Now, why is this such a good routine?
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Here's the first reason why this is so important.
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Describing actions in detail enhances your ability to create
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more vivid and engaging narratives.
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A key skill in both spoken.
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And written English.
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Remember I mentioned earlier, the importance of giving details.
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So let's go back to our example.
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I mentioned meeting with friends, giving a presentation and pizza.
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So if we were to focus on the pizza, what would happen?
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You could start describing what you put.
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On your pizza, what do you like to eat on your pizza?
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Maybe you say, Oh man, I love olives on my pizza.
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Or maybe you say, Oh, I love onions on my pizza.
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Or maybe you even like pineapples.
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Some people enjoy.
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Pineapples on their pizza.
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You're starting to describe what you put on your pizza.
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This is again, enhancing your ability to give details in English.
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Day two, this routine is all about focusing on the things you did.
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Here's the second reason why this routine is so powerful.
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This exercise.
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Promotes the use of sequencing words and transitional phrases, improving the flow
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and coherence of speech and writing.
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Now you may ask yourself, Hey, what does this actually mean?
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I want us to go again, back to our example.
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Meeting your friends.
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So let's say, which one did we do first?
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Let's say you met your friends first.
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So I met my friends at 10 AM.
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Then.
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The transitional phrase, transitional word.
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Then I gave a presentation after I gave the presentation, I purchased a pizza.
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So after I gave the presentation, I purchased a pizza.
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We're seeing this sequence of events, met my friends, maybe for breakfast,
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gave a presentation, then I actually purchased a pizza for my children.
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When you follow the second day, this routine of focusing on what
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you did, you'll also improve your ability to use transitional phrases.
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And the third reason why this is such a powerful routine is regular practice
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in describing actions will help you think more directly in English.
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Reducing the need for mental translation from your native language.
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This is something that is very important.
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So how can we apply this to our example?
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All right.
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Again, describing your actions.
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We talked about meeting friends.
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We talked about giving a presentation.
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We talked about purchasing pizza, but we didn't give any specific details yet.
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But the moment you start thinking about, ah, my friends, maybe you'll
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start telling us about, Hey, my friends, we met back in college.
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We've been friends for over 20 or 30 years.
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Then your presentation, whew, it took a long time to prepare, but it went well.
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You're going to naturally start giving more details, just like we gave details
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about the pizza a few moments ago.
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This is why it's so important to follow the second day, day
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two of our five day routine.
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So we have who day one, that routine.
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Day two, what now we have day number three, day number three is Wednesday.
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And on day number three, we're focusing on when this W meaning
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focusing on specific times of the day.
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This part of the routine will help you as well, improve your English.
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So let's break this down.
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Think of three specific times of the day and describe them.
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Make sure you give a detailed description of the weather, the sounds you heard,
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and also any emotions you felt.
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Once again, the weather, the sounds and your emotions.
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So let's write this down.
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All right.
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We have the weather, the sounds.
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And your emotions.
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All right.
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We're talking about specific periods or times of the day.
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So let's say I want to talk about the morning specifically 9 30 AM.
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Now, what happened at 9 30 AM at 9 30 AM, I had a meeting with my My employee,
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all right, meeting with my employee.
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My employee.
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All right.
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I'm describing right.
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What happened at that time?
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I'm speaking specifically about 9 30 AM.
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I chose it because I had a meeting, but remember, we're
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going to talk about the weather.
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Well, at 9 30 AM this morning, it was actually raining outside.
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So I can say it was raining at 9 30.
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Then the sounds, ah, the sounds at 9 30 AM.
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Well, there were lots of sounds.
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Of birds singing at 9:00 AM So birds chirping.
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And what about my emotions at 9:30 AM I was actually very excited.
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Why?
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Because I was giving my employee a bonus for the work she did.
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So again.
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We're talking about this part of our routine, day three of our routine.
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And we're saying, we're going to focus on specific times of the day.
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I mentioned 9 30 AM and already I was able to speak about many things related
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to that specific time of the day.
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This is why this routine is so powerful for day.
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Number three, we're talking about when.
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Three specific times of the day.
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I just chose one.
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We have one right here, but you can choose three specific times of the day.
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Talk about the weather, the sounds and your emotions, how you feel.
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Felt now, why is this so powerful?
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Here we go.
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Reason number one, focusing on specific times encourages you to pay attention
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to details in your environment, which can lead to more nuanced and
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engaging conversations in English.
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I love it.
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You're already smart enough, your English, you know, so much English already.
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You've read tons of books.
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You've attended multiple courses, amazing courses, and you've watched
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many English teachers online.
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You have a lot of information inside.
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It just needs to come out.
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And by following this routine, you will be able to pull all of the information out.
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Remember it says it can lead to more nuanced and engaging
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conversations in English.
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Imagine this.
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Someone asked me, Hey, Tiff, how has your day been so far?
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And I said, Oh, you know what?
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At nine 30, this morning, I had a meeting with my employee.
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It was kind of raining outside, but it still was a great, great morning.
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They said, Oh, it was raining today.
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So yeah, it was raining, but wouldn't, you know, the birds were still chirping.
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And I really felt good as I was hearing them chirp and also talking to my
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employee, it will naturally lead to, wow.
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The birds were chirping, even in the midst of the rain.
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Where do you live?
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It will lead to a more engaging conversation.
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This is why this part of the routine is so important.
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Reason number two, describing emotions associated with different times of
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day will help you express yourself more effectively and more freely.
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And connect with others on a deeper level in English.
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Why think about it.
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I was talking about a meeting I had with my employee, but
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I said that I was excited.
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I wasn't overwhelmed.
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I wasn't frustrated.
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I was excited.
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So I'm expressing a different emotion.
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And I'm also acknowledging at that time of day, this is how I felt.
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So maybe the person that I'm speaking with will say, you know, what made me excited
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yesterday, and it will lead to a more, a deeper conversation, a conversation
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that will continue on for a while.
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And reason number three, this practice enhances your ability to create
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vivid mental images of yourself.
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Through language, an important skill for storytelling and
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descriptive writing in English.
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Think about it.
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When someone says, I had a meeting today, the meeting was with my employee.
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And during the meeting, it actually started raining outside.
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Right?
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So of course they can imagine you sitting there, possibly at your computer,
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having a meeting with your employee.
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Maybe you are using zoom to talk to your employee.
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But the more you describe the situation, right, the more you say, ah, but outside,
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I actually was able to hear the rain falling and hitting against my windowsill.
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And then I was also able to hear the birds singing outside.
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All of a sudden, the person listening to you.
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We'll start to imagine the situation.
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Wow.
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There were birds outside singing.
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Wow.
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And then, oh, Tiffani felt very excited during this meeting.
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This is what will happen in the person's mind.
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As you continue speaking with them, this is why it is so important for you
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to practice focusing on this routine.
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Once again, This routine, speaking about our five day routine, the third part is
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focused on specific times of the day.
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Now, day four of our routine day four, we're going to.
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Focus on where you went, where you went.
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Remember we're using the five W's to create this five day routine that
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will help you improve your English.
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So focus on where you went.
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Think of you got it.
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Three places you went to throughout the day and describe them.
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Make sure you give a detailed description of what each place looked like and
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how you felt while you were there.
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So I want you to think about your day.
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Think about the different places you went to.
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And remember, we're selecting the places.
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Three specific places you visited throughout the day.
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Now, even if you stayed in your neighborhood, that's totally okay.
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You can mention your house.
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We're talking about the places you actually went to.
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Maybe you actually went to the office today.
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Talk about the office building you went to in order to get your work done.
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And then maybe you stopped at a restaurant in order to get some food for your kids.
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Again, you're talking about the places you went to today.
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So why is this so important?
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Why is this routine so important?
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So helpful.
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Here's the first reason describing places enhances vocabulary related to
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locations, architecture, and environments, expanding your ability, the learner
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to discuss diverse settings, right?
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You're opening up your mind to think in different ways, to describe things
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you didn't describe in the past.
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The second reason this practice encourages the use of sensory language, helping
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you to create more vivid and engaging descriptions in English, for example,
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okay, you went to get your kids some food.
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What did it look like?
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Ah, there were some golden arches.
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Okay.
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It was like a gold color, right?
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You're starting to describe it a bit more.
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And maybe you can say, listen, when I pulled up, my stomach started growling.
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I loved the aroma.
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I could smell it a mile away as I pulled.
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Um, it smelled so good again, sensory.
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All right, let's continue.
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Reason number three, regular practice in describing places helps you develop
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your ability to give directions, a practical skill for real life
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situations and travel scenarios.
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Uh, yeah, it's right around the corner from the McDonald's, you
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know, with the golden arches.
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And then if you go two blocks down, you'll see the big company, the big building, it
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helps you learn how to be more descriptive and don't forget the importance of saying
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how you felt when you were actually there.
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At these different places.
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All right.
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Your feelings when you were at these locations.
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All right, let's continue now.
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So that's routine day.
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Number four, Thursday.
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Now we're going to day number five, our routine.
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Why the last W focus on the reasons why you enjoyed your day.
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And we talked about this in the previous lesson.
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You can watch that one.
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After this video, here's what I need you to understand.
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Think of three reasons why you enjoyed your day.
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Make sure you give a detailed breakdown for each reason.
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Think about your day.
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Now I want us to go back, right?
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We have four days that we've done so far day.
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Number one, we talked about who we encountered day.
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Number two, we talked about what we did day.
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Number three, when the specific time of day, we did certain things
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and day number four, where we went now, day number five, we're talking
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about why we enjoyed our day.
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Now, why did I show you those first four days?
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Because you can actually use pieces of those routines.
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Let's say I want to talk about.
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Where I went as a fact that I enjoyed my day today.
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Right.
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So I'm going to mention this now again, for those watching, you see me
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putting McDonald's, I actually don't eat McDonald's, but I know kids love
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McDonald's and adults love McDonald's.
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So no matter what country you live in, you can recognize those golden arches.
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All right.
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And then let's say, maybe I want to mention the meeting I had.
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All right.
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The meeting I had today and how that really.
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Was one of my favorite parts of the day.
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Okay.
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So again, maybe I had another meeting and this meeting was
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with five, four people, right?
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Five, including me.
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All right.
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So what am I doing now?
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I'm talking about why I enjoyed the meeting, why I enjoyed
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getting the food for my kids.
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Here's the reasons why this is such an important routine.
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Reason number one, practicing giving reasons enhances critical thinking skills,
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encouraging you to analyze and articulate your thoughts more effectively in English.
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Here's the deal.
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You have emotions, you have feelings, things happen throughout the day
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and you might suppress or push those feelings down, but they're still there.
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At the end of your day.
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Figure out what those feelings are.
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Describe them in English in detail.
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Number two, this will help you develop more complex sentence structures
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and advanced vocabulary as you need to express cause and effect
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relationships and logical connections.
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Remember I showed you earlier, I mentioned McDonald's the golden
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arches, and I mentioned that meeting.
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So I say, oh man, today.
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Listen, I was elated or I was so satisfied.
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What am I connecting those emotions to?
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Well, I was satisfied because I was able to give my employees a bonus.
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I was elated because I thought about the smiles that would be on my kids
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faces when I gave them the food.
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So I'm connecting logically and emotion to something that happened.
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This will help you improve your English and your ability to think in English.
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And reason number three.
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Regularly explaining reasons improves overall coherence and organization
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in both spoken and written English, leading to more persuasive and clear.
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Communication.
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My friend, I want you to be able to speak clearly.
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I want you to be able to speak English with confidence.
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I hope this five day routine helped you.
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And I'll talk to you in the next lesson.
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You still there, you know, what time it is.
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It's story time.
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Hey, I said, it's story time.
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All right.
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So the story for today is more of a lesson in communication, right?
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During our lesson today, I taught you a five day routine that will
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help you have better communication.
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So I want to tell you something that happened to me with one of my friends,
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one of my friends, and we've been friends for well over one T five, 26 years.
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Okay.
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And my friend and I, there was a period where we did not have the best time.
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Communication.
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It was a period of about two years and I want you to pay close attention.
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My friend and I, due to miscommunication, we were basically estranged.
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We didn't talk.
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Um, I wanted to, and I'm sure she wanted to as well, but it just wasn't working out
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and it was because of a misunderstanding.
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I had one perspective and she had another perspective, but
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the day came after two years.
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When I said, I don't want to lose a friend, a friend
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that I've had for so long.
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We have to talk about this.
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So my friend ended up coming to where I live, as far as the state that
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I'm living in on the East coast, and we met, we had lunch together and
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then we had the hard conversation.
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There were tears and in the midst of our conversation, we both realized that That
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the issue had been miscommunication.
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She thought that I had done something for one reason.
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And I thought that she had done something for one reason.
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And literally, as we were sitting in the car talking and we both said, wait
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a minute, that's what you thought.
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And she said, that's what you thought.
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I said, yeah.
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So two years.
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For two years, we weren't communicating because of a misunderstanding.
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Now I'm not going into too much details because again, it's a private situation.
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The thing I want to tell you though, is after we cleared the air, after
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we were able to do away with the misunderstanding, we got closer
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than we ever had been before.
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I feel that our friendship is deeper than it had been, even though we had
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already been friends for over a decade.
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What does that tell us?
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I don't know.
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There is power in proper communication, not just as you're learning English
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to properly communicate your thoughts, your ideas, and your opinions, but
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even in your own language with your family members, with your friends, with
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your coworkers, it's so important to properly communicate what you're feeling.
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Properly communicate your ideas because when we, as human beings don't
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communicate properly, it will end badly.
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So my friend, I hope that today you choose to communicate properly.
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I'll talk to you in the next lesson.
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