English Learning Tips with Sarah - Self Study English with Sarah for 2 Hours

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Paper English - English Danny


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so today we're going to learn this is  actually based on a really good ted talk  
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by the same name uh and in it there are  some really great tips about how to learn  
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a language and i'm going to apply it today to  learning english so the secrets to learning  
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english how can you learn english effectively if  you guys are interested the woman's name is lydia  
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makova so i'll put her name in the comments  after so you guys can check out her talk but  
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today i'm going to review the four ways to learn  english effectively so let's go ahead and begin  
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teacher how can i learn english this is the  question we get the most on our facebook page  
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and on our youtube channel so very often on videos  posted on live streams like this or the one with  
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dr dawn we get a lot of questions asking how  can i learn english right how can i be better  
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so we have posted many videos and done many live  streams like this about improving your speaking  
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improving your listening reading and writing being  more confident and just generally becoming better  
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at english so today i'm going to try and take  all that we like to talk about on our channel  
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about becoming better at english and put  it together into these four easy steps  
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so how to learn a new language how to learn  english there are four steps enjoyment methods  
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system and patience so we will go  through and talk about each of these  
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one by one how they are important what  does it mean and how can you use it to  
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really go to the next level with your english  okay so let's begin with number one enjoyment  
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so what does this word mean enjoyment in this oh  let me find my mouse it's somewhere there we go  
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we see the word enjoy and in enjoy we see the  word joy right happy so if you get enjoyment  
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from something it makes you feel happy you like to  do it right you enjoy it so step one is enjoyment  
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this is truly step one it is the most important  so before we talk about any other steps you must  
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enjoy what you are doing so if you do not enjoy  learning if you don't like learning english  
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or the way that you're learning english you will  not want to do it right you will stop you will not  
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be interested or you will feel that oh i have to  study oh i don't want to right we don't want that  
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we need to make sure that no matter what you are  finding a way to enjoy learning because again  
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if you don't you're not going to want to do it  right so how can you do that what does that mean  
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often when we think about studying english or  studying any language we think of things like  
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memorizing vocabulary studying grammar rules  things that maybe you enjoy doing i know i  
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love learning new vocabulary but not everyone  wants to sit down and memorize 10 words a day or  
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20 words a week or what have you or maybe  the way that they're doing it flash cards or  
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oh grammar rules right maybe they don't maybe  you don't enjoy that so you have to think  
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about this question what do you enjoy maybe you  enjoy breeding fiction books meeting new people  
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going to coffee shops playing sports  playing video games watching tv  
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watching movies photography which is taking  pictures right painting or listening to music  
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or maybe there are so many more things right  so right now as you watch think about this  
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question what do you enjoy anything what  are your hobbies what do you like to do  
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what do you enjoy okay so think about it for a  minute so for me i for example i love to read  
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i read almost every day um i love to go to coffee  shops i love uh playing games watching movies  
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so on so on what do you enjoy anything right there  are maybe one million more things we could add to  
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this list okay so now that you have thought about  maybe three to five things that you enjoy now  
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add english to it okay so what does that mean well  that brings us to step two which is methods okay  
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so now that you have thought of some things  you enjoy we need to take those activities  
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and add learning to them okay a method is a way  of doing something you must use your interests to  
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choose your learning methods and notice here  oh sorry guys i always lose my there it is  
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your interests your methods what does this mean  your methods will be unique or special to you so  
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you will not have the same methods as me maybe  we'll have one similar method but they will be  
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different depending on what your interests  are okay so we're going to make some methods  
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another great thing to do if you're having a hard  time is talk to others about how they learn too  
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you can also just use a search engine  like google to look up how to learn  
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methods study methods or maybe  again i gave the example of movies  
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you can just search how to study english  using movies how to study english using blank  
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right and you can find some interesting  methods and find one or two that works for you  
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so next now that you have thought about what you  enjoy let's talk about some methods so here are  
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some meth some things that i might enjoy right  i like reading fiction books i like going to  
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coffee shops i like playing online games i  like painting and i like listening to music  
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great so these are all things that i enjoy so now  i want to add english to it how can i use what  
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i enjoy to learn english right add english to my  hobbies and interests so let's take a look at some  
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sample methods for each of these and you can think  about your hobbies and interests and how you might  
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add english to them so number one i like reading  fiction books well this one's probably easy  
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right you can read the english version of your  favorite book for example maybe you really love  
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a classic novel and you've read it so many times  and you know it is available in english well  
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try reading it in english this is a great  method because you already know the story  
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right so because it's not a new story it's easier  to start to learn the language around the story  
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when you already kind of know what's happening  who the characters are what the plot is and so on  
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okay number two i like going to coffee shops oh  this one's a little more tricky if i love going  
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to coffee shops and love drinking coffee  and making it and so on i can always study  
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coffee culture in blank speaking countries so  of course if you're learning english you want to  
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maybe study coffee culture in english-speaking  countries so learning language is not just about  
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vocabulary right culture is uh language is a  part of culture culture is a part of language so  
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learning the language around different parts  of culture like music culture movie culture in  
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this case coffee culture can be a great way to  learn to talk about something you really like  
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in a second language right great just always  start with things that you enjoy because you want  
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to actually learn how to talk about those things  you actually enjoy those things okay number three  
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i like playing online games okay so what can i  do to use english if i really just want to play  
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games with my free time you can try to play on an  english server like the us server the australia  
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server whatever is close to you geographically  and easy to use maybe it doesn't have too much lag  
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and play on an english server especially games  that have an open chat section and you can type  
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right chat with english speakers  read see what they're talking about  
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though this isn't the best way to learn  formal english it's a great way to learn  
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slang and kind of the way people talk to  each other in that environment and again  
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culture right so you can see inside  gaming culture in different countries  
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okay how about painting or really any hobby for  example let's say you really really love painting  
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read about your favorite artists art and  lives in english so who do you love what  
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what uh which artists inspire you or make you want  to paint well one method you could possibly use  
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is to read about your favorite artists  art their pieces right and their lives in  
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english and finally listening to music you  can explore english music and study the lyrics  
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so again each of these also has culture in it  too which is great right we're learning about  
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um coffee culture gaming culture paint uh maybe  art art art culture music culture and so on so  
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these are all example methods so think about  what you enjoy and how you can add english to it
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okay so methods are the base right so number  one enjoy what you're doing number two  
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make some methods based on what you enjoy so let's  say i've chosen those five things right so let's  
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say these are my five methods okay great read  the english version of your favorite book that's  
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great to say but i need to go farther i need  a system i need to develop a system and so  
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do you this means you need a study plan so  before we get to that so we see here a calendar  
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right i can't just say i will read my favorite  english book or my favorite book in english  
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okay when for how how often how long  will you read for when will you do it  
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how will you fit it into your schedule so  if you're like me you love having a plan  
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but maybe this doesn't come naturally to you you  don't really ah no i'll just do it when i can  
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so for if that's how you feel i need i want  to tell you that this is a very very important  
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step if you do not have a system that is  doable enjoyable easy to stick to for you  
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then you you won't get any farther okay so  let's talk about how to make a study plan  
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your study plan should be smart so  what is this this is called an acronym  
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that's when each letter stands for a  different word so the s stands for specific  
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m stands for measurable a attainable are relevant  and t time bound so we're going to talk about all  
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of these but let's take a look at what these  words mean first so first we have specific  
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this means that i shouldn't just say i'm going to  read a book specific would be what kind of book  
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which book uh how many pages how often  what what days what times and so on  
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measurable to measure something we might think  of like a ruler right oh um it's 10 feet or  
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100 kilometers right but here we want to be  able to measure our improvement right so whether  
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that's um i will read 25 pages a day until i  finish the book right i can see my progress  
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or i will uh study 15 vocabulary words a  week and use them in my writing okay and  
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you can measure how many words you use and  how many you're learning right measurable
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a is attainable this means you can  do it another word we might use  
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is achievable this means it's possible you can  do it so don't say i will study i will read  
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a book for three hours a day every  day because you probably won't right  
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it probably will be impossible for you  to do that maybe you will at the start  
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but it a word we would use is sustainable this  means if it is not sustainable this means you  
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can't keep doing it it's too much so make sure it  is doable attainable achievable okay something you  
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can do even if you only have five minutes a day to  uh do something do one of your methods that's okay  
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even just once a week whatever works for you  the point is you have a system and you can do it  
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and for and there's no reason  that you should have to stop okay  
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the r stands for relevant so this  means that what you choose to do is  
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uh it is important it's useful right it is not  something that you'll never use so let's say you
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this goes back to your methods right you want  to choose methods that are uh that interest you  
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are based on your interests and that you will  actually use the language for right and finally t  
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means time bound so whether that's uh  i will read this book in two months  
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or i will give myself 30 minutes every uh 30  minutes three days a week to do it it needs  
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to be time-bound so let's take a look a little  bit closer at what these mean okay so specific  
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make your goals specific and narrow for good  planning right more effective planning it's uh  
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again i could say read a book or i could be  specific and say read uh 15 pages of harry potter  
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in english um every week and highlight the words  and write them down and that i don't know and  
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write them down on a separate place to study right  measurable so you need to choose what your goal is  
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is it that you want to learn more words is it that  you want to read faster what is your goal choose  
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what what you're measuring and keep track of it  right so if you choose words learned the number of  
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words you learn let's say you start off and then  and you're learning a lot of new words and then  
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it stops well now you can change what you're  doing right it means you need to measure  
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attainable again make sure you can do your goal  make sure it is possible that your plan is doable  
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relevant it should match your goals right don't  do something that isn't important to you and time  
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bound realistic and have an end date i want to  do this by this time having smart goals is very  
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important having a smart system of learning is  extremely important and you can do it so let's  
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look at an example of a smart learning goal for  studying english right i've been talking about  
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um uh reading so for example i will read harry  potter for 15 minutes every day right that works  
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for me in my schedule i will look up words i don't  know and quiz myself on new vocabulary each week  
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i will finish the first book in two months okay  great so we have let's make sure we have each part  
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specific yes so i say how often 15 minutes  every day vocabulary quiz each week measurable  
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well i'm quizzing myself right i'm checking  my learning and if i'm not doing very well  
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on my self-made quizzes well i can change what i'm  doing change how i'm reading give more time to it  
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attainable well 15 minutes every day is attainable  for me and two months that works i can do that are  
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relevant well i always loved harry potter and i  know that there's a lot of really good language  
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in there so definitely relevant and time bound  yes i have my daily goal my weekly goal and how  
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long it will take me to complete so use this as  an example for how to create your learning system
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okay so of course you have to enjoy the methods  you use to and develop a system using them  
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and that's great but the last step here is  patience this means being okay to wait right you  
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should not expect to learn the entire english  language in two months you can't do that  
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but you can make progress this is again why  that m measurable is so important if you are  
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studying and practicing but you are not measuring  your progress it will be more difficult to see how  
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you are improving so keep track this might  mean uh something like recording yourself  
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keeping a journal let's say you want to work on  your writing keep a journal get a notebook and  
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write in it at the end of each week maybe and then  as time goes on you can look back and maybe see  
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your earlier mistakes oh i know that that that  i shouldn't have done that now i know what's  
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right and maybe you can even fix it right for  speaking maybe try to choose something to describe  
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or talk about or a certain topic and record  yourself on your phone or on your computer  
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and then come back to it maybe a few three months  later and see oh yes i've gotten better or if not  
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that's okay that just means you need to change  your methods right and with reading you can search  
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and find uh books the the english level the how  hard different books are to read so maybe start  
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very easy right and slowly very slowly work  your way up and that's a great way to keep  
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track of your progress as well and to help  yourself feel patient so remember you should  
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enjoy what you're doing use your hobbies and  interests to create unique special methods  
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take those methods and put them into a  well-planned system and be patient with  
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yourself and don't be afraid to change right if  you develop a system and it's not working for you  
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change it right you may end up going back and  forth between these two things again and again  
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and you may over time find also different methods  that work for you so just keep going through  
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this is not a one-time thing you're going  to have to change because you will change  
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your interests will change your schedule or  job might change so just be willing to always  
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change these steps as you go on as well alright  so those are the main four but there is a  
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fifth that i would like to add and that  is high expectations and self-compassion  
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so i think that it is very important to set high  goals for yourself but also don't beat yourself up  
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if you don't meet those very high goals you set  but you want to um make sure you are trying to do  
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something you know you can do but that's going  to be challenging right we want to challenge  
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ourselves so you should acknowledge or recognize  no yes this is hard english is hard learning a  
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second language is quite difficult especially  if you do not live in a country where you're  
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hearing that language all the time so if you  are learning english and you live in england  
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well it will be it's a little easier for you  because you have to use it every day you see  
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it on signs you hear it on the radio tv movies  everywhere you're surrounded by english but if  
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you are learning english and you live in pakistan  for example i saw someone on our comments today  
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saying that uh that's where they're watching  from today well you probably don't hear as  
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much english right it's it's going to be more  difficult to seek it out learn from it and you  
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really are more responsible for your learning so  it really falls on you so it is hard but still  
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set high expectations and big goals for yourself  trust that you can do it that you are capable but  
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also don't beat yourself up when it takes longer  than you think to reach those goals maybe my goal  
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is to pass the um past a certain level of a toefl  test or topic or not that ielts or some english  
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test maybe there's five levels of a test and i  want to pass um level three by the end of the year  
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and i'm working really really hard really really  hard and i don't pass well maybe i got to like 2.5  
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that's still really good right i'm still making  progress so make sure to set high expectations  
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for yourself and if you don't meet it in the  time you want to be patient right persistence  
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is the key keep going as i showed you on the  last slide you might have to change your methods  
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change your system again and again until you find  what works for you but you will find something if  
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something isn't working for you try something new  because you may be just one step away from finding  
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the methods and systems that help you to meet your  goals so have you ever felt nervous while speaking  
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english maybe you feel a little shy or nervous and  when you try to speak you forget the words i know  
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this happens to me sometimes when i try to speak  a second language so has that ever happened to you  
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have you ever struggled with confidence  when using english so have you ever felt  
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not very confident when using english or have  you ever wished you could feel more comfortable  
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using english so actually these are  all things that some of our followers  
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on facebook and youtube have commented so uh you  guys i hope today i can help you feel a little bit  
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better about using english so let's learn how to  be more confident with english okay you guys ready  
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so we're gonna talk about three  things today having a plan
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something called fake it till you make it  we'll talk about that and something called  
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self-compassion so don't worry we will talk  about all of these words and what they mean  
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so here is a three-step plan to be more confident  using english step number one have a plan  
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so do you have a study plan right now uh what  is a plan you need to choose what and when you  
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will study so do you have that do you have uh do  you know exactly what you study and exactly when  
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you study it do you have a plan or is it  just random and whenever you feel like it  
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so you need to choose what and when you will study  so this means you need methods which are what and  
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a schedule which is when so let's talk about  these things so step one of having a plan is  
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you need methods or ways to study so a method  is what you do right this is the thing that you  
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do to study it is very important this is  something i talk about a lot your methods should  
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be enjoyable so this means you should like the  methods you choose so if you like to study english  
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maybe you love to study vocabulary well that's a  method you like maybe you like to use flashcards  
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when you study well then do that because you  like it you enjoy it if you don't like to do that  
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that's okay you don't have to study that  way you can study any way that you enjoy  
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but extremely very very very important that your  methods are enjoyable so how how can we do this  
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maybe you're thinking oh what does that mean how  can i like studying well an easy thing is to think  
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of what you already like and add english to it  so for example maybe you love watching youtube  
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well then watch youtube videos about topics  you like in english maybe you love to watch  
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videos about food i do i like cooking videos so  how can i make this about language study well i  
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can watch youtube videos about cooking in the  language i'm trying to learn so if i want to  
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learn english well i can watch cooking videos  in english or maybe you like sports okay watch  
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some sports in english you can do this on  youtube you can do this in many places online  
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so watch things if you like youtube watch  youtube videos about topics you like in english
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maybe you love listening to music well then  a great enjoyable method for you to study  
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would be to learn about and explore english music  and use that to study study the music and read  
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the lyrics or the words to the song and study the  words music and lyrics which are again the words  
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in a song are a great way to study so if you love  music that could be an enjoyable method for you  
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or maybe like so many people you  love playing video games well  
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play your game if it's an online game  or a game you can play with other people  
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then play on an american or british or australian  server and chat with the players in english this  
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is a really nice way because you don't have  to show your face right you can just type in  
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practice and you can learn a lot of english slang  and see how conversations work with many people  
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so make sure to have methods this is very  important but what's also important is having a  
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schedule a schedule is when right it is impossible  or not possible you can't do it you can't  
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learn a skill like language without committing  regular time to it so this means uh maybe  
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every day or once a week or whatever works for you  make sure your schedule is doable which means can  
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do it and enjoyable which means can enjoy so make  sure you can do your schedule and you can enjoy  
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did you notice here again enjoyable the best way  to learn is to find a way that you enjoy learning  
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whether it's learning how to ski ride a bike or  speak english it is best to and and will help you  
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if you enjoy it so also make sure your schedule is  specific so this means don't just say i'll study  
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once a week okay well we're getting started on  a specific schedule but for example instead of  
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saying once a week say and commit or always do it  i will study every tuesday morning for 10 minutes  
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or i will study three days a week for 15  minutes on my way to school or on my way to work  
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so maybe i choose monday wednesday friday right  on my way to work i will study however i want to  
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maybe that means listening to an english podcast
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but that you have methods and a schedule this  is the best way to learn okay so step one for  
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being more confident have a plan when you are  doing something and sticking to your schedule  
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and being regular always studying in a way  you enjoy at the same times it will help you  
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feel more confident right unless what should  i do right so have a plan have a schedule  
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okay step number two is called fake it till you  make it so this is an english idiom we talk about  
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idioms a lot on our channel this is an english  idiom that means to pretend you're good at  
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something until you are so to fake it means  to pretend right um and then make it means  
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you can do it so fake it till you make it we use  this idiom pretty often in english especially when  
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maybe i am starting a new job for example  and i don't feel very confident well i will  
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just pretend to be confident until i am and we  can do that with english as well pretend you  
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are confident using english and eventually maybe  maybe even in a few minutes if you are pretending  
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to be confident or maybe it takes some time you  will really feel more confident and comfortable  
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so does this sound crazy maybe it does but i  promise it really works so what does it mean  
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to pretend you're confident how do we pretend  to be confident using english well what do con  
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confident people look and what do confident people  sound like well confident people have good posture  
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good volume and humor right can we can laugh at  ourselves if we feel confident so let's talk about  
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each of these first good posture so confident  someone who has uh who is confident has good  
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posture part of this means sitting up straight  like i'm doing so if you are using english make  
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sure to stand or sit up straight it helps you  really does help you feel more confident make  
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sure you don't start shrinking right and  doing this we do this when we feel nervous  
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right so make sure to sit up straight and it  really does help you feel a little more confident  
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another part of good posture is don't do something  called fidgeting so for example let's say i am  
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looking for oh let's say i'm holding a pencil  and i'm using english and maybe i feel a little  
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nervous so this is fidgeting right or maybe  i'm doing something like this don't fidget  
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make sure to be aware of the things you do  when you feel nervous and to help yourself  
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feel more confident make sure to don't do those  things right so sit up straight and don't fidget  
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i notice when i'm nervous if i i'm wearing a  ring i play with my ring so i have to not do  
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that because it helps me feel more confident  and also other people see me as more confident  
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another part of posture or or just our body  language is keeping eye contact if this is  
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difficult for you or maybe in your culture  it's not as normal to always keep eye contact  
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when someone is talking that's okay just make  sure that you're not looking away because you're  
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feeling nervous or shy okay so step one fake it  till you make it good posture next is good volume  
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so this means speak at a normal conversational  volume one thing that we do when we feel like we  
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don't know exactly how to say something in english  is maybe we start mumbling right we talk a little  
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quieter because we don't we're not really sure  is this how i say it oh i i don't know so maybe  
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you start speaking quiet quietly so make sure to  speak at a normal conversational volume and again  
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maybe you have to force yourself to do it maybe  you feel uncomfortable speaking loudly or you feel  
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uncomfortable sitting up straight not fidgeting  and keeping eye contact but it's okay you will  
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feel a little uncomfortable at first but soon it  will feel normal and you will feel more confident  
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and last and this is very important is humor  so humor is uh we often say if someone has a  
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good humor this means that they can they laugh a  lot or make other people laugh right if you have  
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good humor so part of fake it till you make it is  humor don't be too serious laugh at your mistakes  
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every person alive makes mistakes i make mistakes  you make mistakes that person over there makes  
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mistakes they make mistakes everyone makes  mistakes right so it's okay if you are trying  
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to sit up straight and speak clearly and loudly  and you make a mistake just laugh and continue  
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it's okay to make mistakes don't uh be too  serious or too hard on yourself because  
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this is just part of learning right we we always  make mistakes and another thing that you can do  
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if you really feel like you're making  big mistakes and you are talking to a  
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native speaker just joke about your language  level oh i have so much to learn with english  
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you'll be surprised at the feedback that you  get and what do i mean by this most people  
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appreciate that you are trying to speak to them  in english or in their native language right  
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so it's okay you don't have to be perfect so  just try to have some humor about it it's very  
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important to be able to laugh at yourself you guys  see me laugh at myself on the live streams when i  
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make mistakes haha whoops and continue right so  like this so remember good posture good volume  
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and humor okay our last step today okay for being  more con is something called self-compassion okay  
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so what does this term mean well self is  you or for me myself is me yourself is you  
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and then let's talk about the word  compassion compassion is the feeling you get  
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when you see another person suffering  and you want to stop that suffering  
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so what is suffering this is when someone is hurt  or hurting right so maybe you see a child fall and  
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cut their knee and you feel oh i want to help  i want to help that person oh poor oh you poor  
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thing i want to help you that is compassion so  when we feel we see another person hurt we and  
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we want to help them and help them to stop being  hurt right so how do we have compassion for others  
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what do we do what is compassion compassion could  be your friend had a bad day and you just try to  
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make them feel better oh don't worry about it  you are so smart you're so great you can do it  
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tomorrow will be better right don't worry so we  might talk to people to try to make them feel  
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better right give compliments this is compassion  uh we might do something to help them maybe i see  
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that my my my mom my parents are so busy so  i oh i have compassion right i feel oh it's  
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so difficult for you so i might do something  like cook them dinner this is compassion so  
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a good way to think about compassion with  language is ask yourself this question  
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what would you tell your best friend if they were  feeling bad about their language ability maybe  
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my best friend is trying to learn english  too and um she tells me oh i made so many  
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mistakes today and i just feel so bad  well what would i say to my best friend  
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what would you say to your best friend  well i think most of us would say hey  
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don't worry you're doing a good job learning a  language is hard you're doing great maybe try  
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to do this next time right so what would you tell  your best friend if they are having that struggle  
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now tell that to yourself so if i tell my  friend if i would tell my friend hey you're  
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doing a good job learning a language is hard  try this next time well now i'm just going to  
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tell that to myself when i feel that way hey i'm  doing a good job it's hard to learn a language  
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and i'm going to try this other thing next time  and then maybe not feel so bad about it right  
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compassion also means patience and forgiveness  so patience means okay to wait so it takes a  
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lot of time to learn how to speak a language  especially something like english which is  
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a difficult language it has so many influences  from other languages and it's an old language and  
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it has so many crazy rules and things that it's  supposed to be a rule but it doesn't work so  
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be patient with yourself it takes time and it's  okay that it takes time and forgiveness means to  
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not stay angry or unhappy about another person's  actions so it's important to forgive yourself  
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if you make mistakes don't don't feel angry  or upset or bad because you're making language  
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mistakes just forgive yourself oh it's okay right  have patience it takes time and forgiveness it's  
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okay that i make mistakes right just keep trying  if you can't do that it will be very hard to learn  
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because if you're always saying no i should have  been perfect i did this wrong i did that wrong  
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no no make sure to have self-compassion  patience forgiveness and be kind to yourself too
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so with practicing self-compassion uh remember  often when you're afraid of what others will think  
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of you you're putting your worries into their  mind so if you are afraid that you of speaking  
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to a native english speaker because you'll make  mistakes and you're worried that they will think  
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a bad thing about you usually  that means you feel bad about you  
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so you think the other person is will  as well but that's often not the case  
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this is most often not the case so most  people are understanding and forgiving  
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and appreciate you trying and know that  it's hard to learn another language so
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don't put your worry into someone else's mind  okay so remember most people will be understanding  
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and will not uh think bad things about  you okay so remember our three steps  
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to having confidence with english step one have  a plan have enjoyable methods and an enjoyable  
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schedule so you can practice regularly in a way  that you enjoy even just sticking to a study  
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schedule can help you feel more confident because  you're doing something and learning a little bit
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step two fake it till you make it pretend to  be confident until you are have good posture  
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good volume and humor make sure you can laugh at  yourself and step three have self compassion so  
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don't be angry at yourself when you make mistakes  be kind be patient and be forgiving and remember  
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most other people are kind patient and forgiving  too so today we will talk about self-study and  
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self-evaluation so let's go ahead what are those  things so self-study i will answer the question  
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how can you effectively study by yourself so  effectively this means in a really good way  
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right so using your time well and using good study  methods right so how can you self-study very well  
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and then self-evaluation so how can you keep track  of or how can you know and follow your english  
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level with no class and no teacher so i will share  with you some different ways that you can do that  
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so let's go ahead and begin so for self study  today i will share with you self study about the  
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four main english skills writing reading listening  and speaking okay so we'll go through one by one  
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and talk about some different ways to self-study  each of these main english skills okay so  
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first let's talk about how to self-study writing  this is a question that comes up very often in  
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the comments during the live streams and even  the comments on our youtube videos and facebook  
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videos so today i want to begin by sharing some  different helpful ways to self-study writing  
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okay so let's talk about three ways to self-study  writing first keep a journal and we'll talk about  
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each of these in detail so keep a journal use  english writing prompts talk about what that  
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is and write a summary so let's go through these  three self-study skills or self-study methods so  
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first is to keep a journal so unfortunately oh no  journal around me so a journal is like a notebook  
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that we write our thoughts in so in a journal  you can write about the events of your day  
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you can write about your thoughts and  feelings this will help you express yourself  
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so it might not be something that you have  normally done or that you have done before but if  
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you keep a journal in english this is an excellent  way to practice writing about your life right  
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and all of our study skills are connected  so if you practice writing about your  
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day and writing about your thoughts your feelings  your opinions in english every day or very often  
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then it will help your speaking too right  so you become more skilled at talking about  
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whatever it is you want to write about so for me  if i try to keep a journal in another language it  
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i write about uh what i am comfortable writing  about but try to challenge myself a little so  
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let's say i want to write about where's my mouse  there we go the events of my day so let's say i  
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am studying english and i know how to talk about  simple things like i woke up i brushed my teeth  
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i ate breakfast some simple things there so i  can also challenge myself what does this mean  
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well maybe i did something and i don't know how to  say it in english keeping a journal is the perfect  
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time to look up new words use them to talk  about your day and expand your vocabulary  
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improve your writing and improve  your speaking and confidence okay so  
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keeping a journal excellent excellent way  to practice your writing and something  
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you can see over time your skill will improve  right so also make sure to try and write  
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as long as you can as much detail as you can so  not just two sentences right it is hard to talk  
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about our day in just two sentences so maybe  try ten sentences or more okay so keep a journal  
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our next self-study writing method is use english  writing prompts so what is a writing prompt  
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a writing prompt is a sentence or a question  that we read and then write about that saying  
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so for example a writing prompt might say  something like um tell me what music you like and  
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there you go okay that's the topic i will  write about so english writing topics  
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okay you can use google or any search engine  to look up english writing prompts there are so  
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many and just choose one a day this will help  you to learn to write about many different topics  
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and again make sure to uh use your phone or your  computer to translate use a dictionary use tools  
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to help you learn the words and phrases you need  to write about these many different topics so  
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here's an example i just searched english writing  prompts so let's take a look at some that would  
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be easy or at least good starting questions to  write about maybe could be difficult could be easy  
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so your favorite childhood vacation wow so that  one topic you could write so much about right  
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you could write about your favorite teacher  right describe them what they are like  
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in writing so many things you could talk  about write about your first job right  
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so there are hundreds and hundreds and  hundreds of these kinds of questions out there  
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so all you have to do is search for them  and then write about them each day okay
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okay so the next way we can self-study  writing is to write a summary so a summary  
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let's talk about what that means first  a summary is like let's say i have a  
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long long long story or a long movie or something  long and i want to tell you just the most  
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important information about that thing let's  say i watched a great movie and my friend asks  
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me what was the movie about well i'm not going  to tell them the whole story right maybe just  
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the most important information so if someone asked  me what happened in the avengers endgame movie  
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i could say something like oh um they all came  together to fight thanos in the end well i don't  
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want to ruin it for you if you haven't seen it but  i would just give some simple information right  
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this is a great way to learn how to talk about big  ideas in a short way sometimes when we are trying  
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to express ourselves in another language maybe  there are so many things we're thinking about  
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and so many things we want to say it can be  hard to uh just say what we need to say right  
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so practicing writing again helps our speaking  too you can write summaries about anything  
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you like okay so this is always important write  about what you like right anytime you self study  
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you should enjoy it so you can write summaries  about movies books tv shows things happening in  
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the news and so on anything that you like okay so  remember writing a summary keeping a journal and  
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using english writing prompts are all  excellent ways to self-study writing
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okay let's talk about our next self-study skill  
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reading this is another very common  question oh teacher how do i self study  
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reading well let's look at a few skills  first choose a story you know already
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use an online dictionary for meaning  and pronunciation while you read  
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and lastly write synonyms next to new words
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so let's go ahead and go through these
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first choose a story you know already read a  story in english that you know very well in  
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your native language for example i know the story  harry potter so so so well i have read the books  
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in my native language many times so when i want  to practice reading in another language well  
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a great place to start for me is harry potter  because i know the characters i know the story  
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and this helps me to understand or infer which  means guess the meaning of words in sentences  
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right because i already know the story so it  could be any story for you just think what's  
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a story you know very well and then find  that in english find that book in english  
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this helps your comprehension or your  understanding and your language development  
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because you learn slowly how to infer  the meaning of words in sentences  
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or in a paragraph or in a story right so  because you know it it is a little easier  
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to understand and maybe more interesting  because it's a story you know and like
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the next self-study skill for reading is use  an online dictionary while you read so maybe  
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you're reading a book or maybe you like to read  on a kindle or a tablet you can always have your  
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phone nearby to use an online dictionary while  you read of course when you read there will be  
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words you don't know phrases you don't  know things that will be confusing right so  
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always have a dictionary nearby  when you see new words when reading  
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you can look them up in an online dictionary  so one of my favorites is cambridge dictionary  
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this is a dictionary.cambridge.org something  like that just search cambridge dictionary  
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it will go from language to language there  are many different languages and you can see  
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meanings what does the word mean and how do you  use it in a sentence you can see the translation  
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what is the word in your language and you can  click to hear how the word sounds and practice  
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your speaking as well right so this is very useful  i think when you are reading remember all of our  
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language skills help each other when we get better  at writing we get better at speaking in reading  
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and even listening and when our reading  gets better it helps our other skills too  
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so don't be afraid to write the meaning or  translation above the word and read the sentence  
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out loud a few times to help your speaking and  your reading comprehension or your understanding  
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of what you're reading it helps to do it maybe  three times to really help your understanding  
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right so make sure to use a dictionary while you  read and don't be afraid to write in your book  
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if you are maybe you are  reading on a computer or tablet  
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just keep a notebook and write the  words on on there as you go along
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all right our last self-study method for  reading is write synonyms next two words  
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so what is a synonym a synonym is a word  with the same meaning as another word so  
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if i see the word big some synonyms or  words with the same meaning aren't large  
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and sizeable and we can use these all in almost  the exact same way in most sentences right  
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synonyms are a great way to improve  our reading comprehension and again  
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also our speaking as we learn different ways to  say the same thing this is even uh as a native  
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english speaker something we learn as we grow up  as as we go from kindergarten all the way through  
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high school and so on we learn how to expand our  vocabulary and use more words and bigger words and  
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more descriptive words so you can do that too  right this is a natural part of learning a  
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language and you can make it happen for  yourself by writing out some synonyms  
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so maybe you see a big word or an unfamiliar word  which means not familiar don't know it right we  
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aren't we don't recognize it so write synonyms  maybe you see a really a word oh what is that so  
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yes we can look up the meaning in translation and  it's helpful to write down synonyms for that word  
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so let's say you're reading and you see the word  sizable and you think what does that mean sizeable  
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so you look it up and maybe above the word you  write the words big and large and this helps you  
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make the connection this is another word i can use  for big or large you can also write synonyms for  
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small common words to expand your vocabulary so  let's say you see the word large and you look up  
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a synonym above it you write sizable you can  go both directions with this but this is a  
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great way to expand your language and improve  your vocabulary and your reading and of course  
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because all of our skills are connected read  the sentence again with each new synonym  
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maybe you write three synonyms for a word  well read the sentence switching out with each  
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new synonym most of the time as long as it's the  same part of speech so all adjectives for example  
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then uh we can often use them in the same way  but we might need a different ending right  
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okay let's move on to study skill number three  listening so how can you self study listening
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you can use dual subtitles on netflix and  youtube you can watch ted talks with transcripts  
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and subtitles and you can use language  apps like memrise duolingo or rosetta stone
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so let's talk about oh did i skip one nope okay  ted talks with transcripts and subtitles you can  
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go to ted.com to find thousands of interesting  videos about many many many many many many topics  
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and these videos are teachers and  professionals from all around the world  
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talking about really interesting many of these  videos have subtitles in many different languages  
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and full transcripts that you can read so a  transcript is all of the things said in the  
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video when you watch maybe you just see one  line of speaking show one sentence at a time  
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right on the transcript you can see the whole  speech and they have transcripts in english and  
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korean and chinese and russian and so many other  languages so you can listen along watch practice  
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right read and listen this is very  important to developing your listening  
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make sure to read along while you listen it  helps us to understand and make the connection  
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between the sounds we hear and the words they  represent so make sure to read the transcript  
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or read the subtitles in english and  your native language while you listen  
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you can also do this on things like netflix  and youtube with something called dual  
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subtitles dual means like two so  you can download something called  
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netflix dual subtitle for learning languages  or youtube dual subtitle these are the exact  
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names and these are things you can download on  google chrome that allow you to see two language  
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subtitles at the same time this is very useful and  the netflix one the netflix dual subtitle you can  
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even pause highlight words put your mouse over a  word and see the meaning you set the language so  
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this is very useful for studying and you can do  it with your favorite shows and movies and you  
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can even do it on youtube so this is a great way  to study listening again reading while you listen
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and of course you can use apps like memrise  duolingo and rosetta stone these are very  
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convenient right we can do them any time of  day on your phone at your convenience right  
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of these and of the many i recommend the rosetta  stone app because it takes an acquisition  
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approach what this means is from the beginning  you only hear things in that second language  
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so it starts very simple you practice your  speaking listening reading and so on uh from  
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in in a more natural way that you would learn a  first language in so rosetta stone is a great app
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okay guys let's talk about our last self-study uh  methods self-study skill speaking oh this one many  
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of you think what how can i self-study speaking we  often want feedback for our speaking or we want to  
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be in conversation to practice our speaking but  this is not always necessary to practice you can  
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do self-talk which is like writing a journal but  we do it out loud we speak it instead of write it  
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you can do something called mirroring so  you can watch our july 13th live stream  
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for a whole lesson on how to do mirroring  or you can join an online language exchange  
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so let's talk about these three methods  self-talk which is like journaling out loud  
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so this is something you can do in the comfort  of your home you can practice describing your day  
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maybe pull up pictures on your phone and try to  describe them in english or describe what you see  
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around you out loud to yourself so this of course  is something we do when we're alone and we just  
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want to practice speaking one of our viewers  last week recommended doing this in a mirror  
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so you can practice things like keeping eye  contact and using gestures while you speak  
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so that's great but you can always start by just  describing your day and practicing your english  
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to yourself if you are thinking well i am not  alone often maybe you live with other people  
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or you're very busy you can also practice  thinking in english and practice internally  
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when you're in public or around other people  so you can still do these things but just  
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think instead of speak right if you uh  like this method and you want to use it but  
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you are around other people very often you can  try doing it with your thinking as well right okay  
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next is mirroring so i'm only going to talk about  this for a minute but if you watch our july 13th  
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live stream you will see a whole lesson about  how to do this mirroring is a study practice that  
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involves studying and mimicking or copying a good  english speaker's speech which means their words  
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intonation and rhythm and their body language  so gestures facial expressions and so on so make  
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sure to check out that live stream this is a great  study method that can help you feel more confident  
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in your speaking in your pronunciation and so  on and last is join an online language exchange  
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there are many apps and websites  for online language exchanges  
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here you can chat with native english speakers  anytime for practice for example try speaky this  
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is one that is a typing chatting app but you can  chat with native english speakers for practice  
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it's very comfortable because it's just again  on your phone typing so you have time to think  
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there's no worries about making mistakes or  anything like that so you can use an online  
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language exchange all right so now that we have  talked about some study methods some self-study  
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methods for each of the main language  skills let's talk about self-evaluation
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there are many online english level  tests you can take again and again to see  
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what your english level is for example  cambridge english has a general english exam  
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there's also an online english level test  from british council and again you can just  
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search these things online and they'll pop  right up there are also grammar quizzes and  
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vocabulary quizzes for free online to test  your skills and see where you need to improve  
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so you can just search for these things right  there are so many resources all you have to do  
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is search so maybe you are trying to self-study  some new grammar maybe you have a textbook that  
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you're using or some study book and you  can look up um a simple present quiz or
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english vocabulary quiz just test yourself  see what you know and this will help you see  
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where you need to improve if you get many  questions wrong about some certain grammar  
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point well that's something to study and work on  if the vocabulary quiz gets too hard with certain  
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words certain level of words okay well i know this  is my vocabulary level and i can work to improve
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so let me recommend to you some reliable or very  good english evaluation websites again cambridge  
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english they have an online dictionary they  have level tests really great resource i also  
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love british council again many great resources  for students and teachers alike duolingo  
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has an excellent english test it is not free  but it's a good one and if you pay for it you  
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can take it as many times as you want over time  so it's a very good way to measure your progress  
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ielts has a good online test and  so does ef ef standard english test  
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the key here is to choose one and take it maybe uh  three or four months apart so take it a few times  
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a year to see how your study skills are working  right are my methods working am i improving  
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and if not then it shows you you need to adjust  or change and do things a little differently  
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but choose one and take it over and over again  that's why i really like the duolingo english test  
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it is very comprehensive so many  topics many skills and you can take it  
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every day not that you should but you can  take it many times a year and track your  
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progress see how you improve so what  else can you do to self-evaluate  
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well this goes back to our mirroring so  you can choose a native speaking sample or  
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maybe a video or short clip maybe one minute  or two minutes whatever is comfortable for you  
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you can find it on ted.com netflix youtube any  any resource study it and i don't mean study for  
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five seconds and repeat i mean study and memorize  for a week or so or at least several days  
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practice it a lot until you feel like i know these  words i know uh i i really feel like i am saying  
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something very similar to the native speaking  sample maybe it's a clip from a movie or a tv show  
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and i learn it and feel okay i now i know it very  well maybe it took me two weeks to really study  
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then record a video of yourself you can just  use your phone you can use your computer  
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and record yourself repeating the same  words saying that native speaking sample  
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then compare how is your video different than the  original video notice things like pronunciation  
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or certain words or sounds that are hard  for you or that aren't the same or aren't  
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similar enough to be understandable and  study them and practice those things  
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intentionally this is a really it can be  difficult to self-evaluate but repeating and  
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comparing yourself to native speakers can be  a really useful strategy and before we end  
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remember that enjoyment and consistency are  extremely important so what does this mean  
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you must have enjoyable study methods if you  want to study but you hate studying the usual way  
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the normal way well don't do that there  are so many ways to study there are  
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as many ways to study as there are people so  find what works for you and what you enjoy  
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you also must have a specific realistic schedule  so this means that you should uh maybe every  
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monday for five minutes at 10 a.m and it should  be realistic so if you are very busy don't say i  
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will study one hour every day that's very  difficult right and maybe not realistic  
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maybe if you study one hour a day you will very  very quickly not want to study so find what works  
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for you and you must stick to it so this means  continue find what you enjoy doing to study  
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have a specific realistic schedule and stick to  it you probably will not figure it out right away  
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so be patient allow yourself to change and adjust  maybe your methods change your schedule changes  
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that's okay keep doing that and find what works  for you we are going to talk about encouraging  
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others to speak so let's first  take a look at this word encourage  
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encourage um this word is a verb so usually if  i want to encourage someone this means i want to  
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maybe help them feel good or help them feel better  about something maybe my friend is having a bad  
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day and i want to encourage her or maybe let's  say she is going to run a race tomorrow and  
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she's feeling nervous i want to encourage her that  she's going to do great so i want to make her feel  
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good now here when we say encouraging others to  speak it means kind of gently helping someone  
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to be okay with speaking so there are many ways  that uh in times when we might want to do this so  
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what can we do when we are talking to someone shy  or what if we just want to make someone feel more  
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comfortable talking and sharing their opinions or  maybe we are talking to many people and maybe it's  
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mostly me and my friend amy talking but my friend  uh my friend grace is here maybe she's very quiet  
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i want to get her opinion too so what  can i say we're going to talk about a  
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few different situations today so today let's  learn phrases to help people to start talking  
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and phrases to help people continue  talking maybe you are talking to one person  
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and they're telling a story or they say something  interesting and you want to know more how to  
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keep the conversation going right very useful for  speaking english how can we keep the conversation  
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going and that will lead us into talking  about the importance of follow-up questions  
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if you have been watching this channel for a  while or watching my live streams for a while  
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you know i love to talk about follow-up  questions they're so helpful and important  
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so today we will review a little bit about that  and talk about uh how to use them in conversation  
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so let's get started first let's talk about  phrases to encourage people to start or begin  
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speaking so this might happen in a group or  maybe in a classroom at work there are many  
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times we might want to encourage someone to start  speaking so let's look at four phrases we can use  
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for that first what do you think and then the  person's name uh what do you think so and so  
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what do you think lolly lolly what do you  think pedro right so we put in the name
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next we see well and their name how about you
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we see does anyone else have an idea so  this is kind of a general question that we  
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ask to um a group maybe we've heard where's  we're with 10 people we have heard from  
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two people we want to hear more people more  people's opinions does anyone else have an idea  
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or we could ask someone directly do you have  an idea and their name do you have an idea  
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okay so let's see these phrases are really good  for group conversations um one of them we might  
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ask to just one person but these are usually more  commonly used in group conversations when we want  
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more people in the group to start talking or to  share right so let's take a look at how we use  
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these four phrases with an example let's say  i'm with a group of friends and we are talking  
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about what should we do tonight so let's see four  examples so let's say i'm talking with my friends  
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we're talking about what we should do tonight  i might say i'm not sure what to do tonight  
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what do you think amy so here i am encouraging  amy to share what she thinks we should do tonight  
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right what do you think amy oh um oh thank  you uh i think we should go see a movie
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now we have well such and such how about you  
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so here someone could share their opinion i think  we should go for a bike ride well jack how about  
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you so here we're asking jack what do you think  what do you think we should do how about you
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next we see does anyone else have an idea  so this is usually later in the conversation  
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when maybe we've heard from many people but we  want to hear from a few more so or we are sharing  
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many ideas and just asking does any anyone not  just one person right in examples one and two  
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we are trying to get one person to talk here we're  just seeing does anyone have an idea so let's read  
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sentence three we could go out to eat go see a  movie or stay in does anyone else have an idea  
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so here maybe again many people right does anyone  else have an idea about what we could do and last  
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we have one more example of asking one person oh i  can't think of anything do you have an idea grace  
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so here we are again asking one person so these  are all great phrases to encourage people to start  
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talking what do you think well how about you does  anyone else have an idea or do you have an idea  
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these are all great for getting people  to share their opinions and start being  
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a part of the conversation  and really any conversation  
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so let's see an example let's say we  have three people talking a b and c so  
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let's say person a and b are talking together  mostly i think we should go see a movie after  
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dinner tonight yep that sounds great what movie  should we see i want to see the new movie tenet  
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me too it looks so cool what do you think amy i'd  love to see it too thank you for asking so here  
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if we look at this conversation this is  when two people are having a conversation  
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let's say person a and b were doing most of the  talking but they want to make sure that person c  
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is okay with what they're talking about she's  not really talking much so they want to make sure  
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that she agrees or has a different opinion right  so person a asked what do you think amy and amy  
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answered i'd love to see it too thank you for  asking right so this is a great way here we used  
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what do you think but we also could have used well  amy how about you or do you have any another idea  
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amy right we could have used our other phrases  too so here we see this is a great example of uh  
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phrases and a conversation where we want another  person to start talking and share their opinion
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now what if we are talking to someone and we  want them to continue talking here we're going  
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to talk about some different words and phrases  we use when maybe someone is telling a story or  
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they are just having a conversation they say  something interesting we want to know more  
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so how do we encourage people to continue talking  or keep going we could say simply tell me more  
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we could use our open-ended follow-up questions  with our five w's and h who what when where why  
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how right we can ask questions that are  open-ended which we'll talk about what that means  
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and we can also use simple small reaction words  like right little things like this show that we're  
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listening and can keep the person talking so these  phrases are good for one-on-one conversations  
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and group conversations so these are  phrases we can use any time when we want  
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someone to continue talking keep talking  about whatever topic they are talking about
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so let's see an example here we're  gonna see an example between two people  
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i'm so frustrated i have too much homework  so i don't have time to relax these days  
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yeah it's been a difficult semester  i just don't know what to do
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i found a way to make things easier can you  tell me more sure i've been keeping a schedule  
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and doing a little work each day so i don't have  to do too much at once good idea how much work do  
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you do each day about two or three hours a day so  let's look at this conversation a little closer so  
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here two people are talking about uh about school  right so person a i don't have time to relax  
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i don't know what to do person b says well i found  a way to make things easier now the conversation  
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could have ended there oh good for you i'm really  stressed though but person a is interested really  
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tell me more or can you tell me more and then they  share and again oh okay well i still want to know  
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more so here we have an open ended follow-up  question starting with how how much how much  
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work do you do each day about two or three hours  a day so we can see that these questions like  
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can you tell me more and how much work do you  do each day help keep the conversation going  
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now the uh another way that we can um keep a  conversation going is using small reaction words  
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so we often use small words like or
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or no way right to show that we are actively  listening and want the person to keep talking  
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we often use these words when someone is telling  a long story so this is a way maybe someone's  
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talking and we are listening closely here we see  actively listening so we're very interested in  
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what they're saying and when they say something  we react right we don't just sit silently  
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and wait till they're done we might use  some small words like oh no way really  
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right like this to show that we're listening  uh we're keeping up with what they're saying  
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and we want them to keep going so we use  small words because we often don't want to  
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maybe inter interrupt or stop them talking  by sharing our own sentence or our own story  
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but we want to show we're listening and we want  them to continue so we use small words like this  
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we can also use other reaction words or sounds  too like ah or sigh or a gasp like right  
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just to show we're interested we're listening  we are reacting to what they're saying  
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so this really can encourage people to continue  talking just showing that we are interested and  
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showing some small reactions uh that show where  really into their story we want them to continue
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so the last way that we can encourage others to  
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continue to speak is to use follow-up  questions so today let's expand upon that  
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skill what are follow-up questions how  can we use them and what are some examples  
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so a follow-up question is a question that we  ask to get more information in a conversation  
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follow-up questions usually start with our  five w's in h right who what when where why how  
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for example let's say i'm talking to a  classmate i might ask why do you like your major  
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follow-up questions can start with the be  verb is mr was were are you happy you chose it  
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and can commonly start with do do does  or did do you want to be a teacher  
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so these are all different types of questions we  can ask in a conversation to keep the conversation  
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going follow-up questions are important to every  conversation and there's something you really want  
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to know how to be able to use in english they keep  the conversation going and again show the person  
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you're talking to that you are interested in what  they're saying just like those reaction words
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no way really tell me more just like things like  that show that we want to keep the conversation  
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going so do follow-up questions they can also  help you understand the other person if you are  
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learning another language follow-up questions are  great because they can help you to clarify which  
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means to make clear or to uh to understand better  what the other person is talking about and we can  
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do this with follow-up questions so let's look at  some examples of the different follow-up questions  
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so here we have our five w's and h who what when  where why and how so let's see some examples  
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this is to show you that we can really ask  questions about anything there are so many  
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so let's see some who questions who are you  going to dinner with who's your friend what  
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what kind of movies did you like what did  you do last weekend when when did you do that  
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when are you going to go where where are  you from where are you going on vacation  
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why why is a great follow-up question  why is that your favorite song why do  
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you like playing board games and then how  so here we're gonna look at some different  
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questions with how how often how many how long  how well how good how often do you exercise  
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how many classes are you taking  how good are you at playing soccer  
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how long have you been a student so here alone we  see what 14 questions uh so there and this is just  
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just thinking of any question that starts with  these words so when you're in a conversation keep  
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those question words in your mind and you can ask  them to follow up and keep the conversation going
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it's very important in a conversation to ask  open-ended questions these are questions that  
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cannot just be answered with yes or no so these  are the best questions now questions like that  
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start with do or did did you have fun yes i did no  i didn't are you happy today yes i am no i'm not  
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those questions are okay and they're fine to use  but open-ended questions are the best because  
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they really uh help the other person to talk  more they can't just answer with yes or no  
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they have to share more information so let's take  a look at some closed questions some yes or no  
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questions and see how we can change them  into better questions open-ended questions  
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so let's say someone is talking to me about  something they did over the weekend i could ask  
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was it fun and they could say yes or no so how can  i change that to an open question what was it like  
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so instead of assuming or thinking that  it was fun i could ask what was it like  
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this is really tell me more about it what  was it like instead of did you enjoy it  
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how did you feel instead of did you have  a good weekend what did you do over the  
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weekend so here we see a great example did you  have a good weekend yeah i did or no i didn't  
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what did you do over the weekend well this will  be a much longer response i went here i did that  
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i saw this person and so on do you like listening  to music we could change to who's your favorite  
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singer or what's your favorite band or maybe we  see someone drawing so you like drawing yeah i do  
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well a better question could be how did you become  interested in drawing or why do you like drawing  
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and these will make for better conversations  that really help keep the conversation going  
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because they help us get more information from  the other person so let's take a look at a  
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conversation with closed questions okay so here we  go person a and b hey did you have a good weekend  
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yeah it was great did you play any computer games  no i just watched movies are you tired today i  
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hate mondays yeah i'm pretty tired do you have a  lot of homework to do yes okay so these are okay  
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questions but we see each time it's just  yes or no questions that start with did  
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or do and be yeah i'm tired yeah yes no so  let's try to make this conversation better with  
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open-ended questions so instead of did you have  a good weekend hey what did you do this weekend  
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not much i stayed home and watched movies so we  still get that same information i watched movies  
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but now we're gonna ask another open-ended  question oh what movies did you watch  
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we want more information right i  watched the lord of the rings movies  
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i love those movies who's your favorite character  oh i think it'd have to be samwise oh really  
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why is he your favorite he's the bravest character  and a loyal friend they wouldn't have been  
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successful without him and so the conversation  continues so these open-ended questions who what  
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another what why they help us get a lot more  information from the person we're talking to  
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other than just yes or no so remember to use open  ended questions to keep the conversation going  
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all right guys so today we talked about phrases to  help people start talking like what do you think  
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we learned phrases to help people continue  talking like can you tell me more and we  
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talked a little bit about follow-up questions and  the importance of open-ended follow-up questions  
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so these are all really useful conversation tools  that you can use anytime you're having an english  
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conversation so today's speaking skill which i  hope will be interesting to you is how to have  
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better and more interesting english conversations  so let's go ahead and talk about what that means  
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and how we can do this how can we have better more  interesting and more fun english conversations  
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so what will we do today well  i'd like to begin with a question  
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have you ever tried to speak to someone  in english but you couldn't keep the  
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conversation going maybe you felt very  nervous for example because you feel  
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some some shyness or discomfort when you're  speaking english with someone you don't know well  
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maybe you didn't know what to say or you just  got that feeling that okay this conversation  
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is over and maybe you didn't want it to be so has  that ever happened to you or have you ever felt  
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maybe that you have lower confidence  with keeping english conversations going  
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today we're going to talk about three  strategies to keep the conversation interesting  
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so we're going to talk about using better  adjectives a speaking strategy called qarf  
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and a tip about engaging the listener so  we're going to look in detail at these three  
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conversation strategies that will help you have  better more interesting english conversations
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so let's begin with using better adjectives  first let's take a look at this word adjective  
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so can you guys think of any adjectives maybe  think to yourself what are some adjectives  
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uh maybe words like good fun exciting nice um  uh hot cold right all of these are adjectives  
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adjectives are words we use to describe  things right so let's take a look at  
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an example conversation and see what  kind of adjectives we use here so  
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let's say i am person a and i say uh hey  what are you going to do this weekend  
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and you tell me i'm going to see my favorite band  in concert i'm so excited and i say that's good
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um conversation over so why why wha what did we  do here here we used the adjective good so we can  
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tell when we look at person b's response right  they they're very they even say they're excited  
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and it's their favorite band and they're going to  see them live so if we respond with low enthusiasm  
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or a low energy adjective like that's good well  that's a great way to make the conversation  
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end right let's try again same question  what are you going to do this weekend  
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i'm going to see my favorite band in  concert i'm so excited that's awesome  
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yeah i can't wait so here i am instead of just  saying that's good if someone is telling me  
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something they're excited about or interested  in right maybe their enthusiasm or excitement  
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is high i should meet them at that same level of  excitement right to show them i'm interested if  
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i don't show them i'm interested in what they are  saying we can't really keep the conversation going  
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right so here i just use the word awesome that's  awesome that's a much stronger adjective than good  
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right so let's take a look at some different uh  kinds of adjectives we can use so here we want  
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to use strong powerful adjectives uh to show our  interest and to meet the other person's enthusiasm  
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and to show that we're really interested  in what that person is saying so we can  
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use words like awesome right not good or nice  but awesome amazing interesting or fascinating  
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these words are much stronger in a positive way  right that's awesome that's amazing that's so  
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interesting that's fascinating those all sound a  lot better than just oh cool nice yeah right so  
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this is a very simple way and our first strategy  today to having a better conversation is by  
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in a small way changing the words we use  to show better enthusiasm and interest  
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we can also do this with negative words maybe  someone is telling you about something bad that  
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happened oh that's awful that's horrible that's  terrible so here we have a few adjectives showing  
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negative right not just oh yeah that sucks or oh  yeah i'm sorry that that happened but oh that's  
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that's horrible you know really empathize and show  greater interest and the easiest way for positive  
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or negative is to just add words like really very  and so before the adjective that we're using so  
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this is a very simple way and it's just step one  in how to have a better conversation so remember  
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using better adjectives is very simple and very  useful and a good way to show the other person  
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i am interested in what you're saying  and i want to keep the conversation going
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next let's talk about qarf so let's build on this  uh uh excited response using stronger adjectives  
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is one way to show enthusiasm and interest in what  the person is saying but how can we take it a step  
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further so right using better adjectives  that's good right we can show we are interested  
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but that's just step one so how can we take it a  step further to an even better even more fun and  
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more interesting conversation we can do this  with a speaking strategy called qarf or carf  
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so what is qarf these are four simple letters to  remember and help you when you're in an english  
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conversation and maybe you're feeling a little  nervous or stressed just remember q a r f so  
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what does that mean q means question a stands for  answer r is response and f is follow-up question  
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so if we have a conversation between two  people maybe person one asks a question  
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person two answers and person one  responds and asks a follow-up question  
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and it keeps going in this way  q-a-r-f-a-r-f-a-r-f-a-r-f-a-r-f
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uh so let's see what this looks like so  let's try our conversation again with qarf
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and we're going to look at this in detail  so first let's read this conversation  
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what are you going to do this weekend i'm  going to see my favorite band in concert  
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i'm so excited that's awesome i love going  to concerts which band are you seeing  
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oh i'm going to see the red hot  chili peppers do you like them  
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yeah they're great i love their song under  the bridge no way that's my favorite song  
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okay wow so we can tell that this  is a much better conversation right  
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but why well let's look a little bit closer  so here if we look at person a we have  
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a question right often we start conversations with  questions how are you what are you doing today how  
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are you feeling uh what did you do yesterday  and so on right person b answers the question  
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i'm going to see my favorite band i'm so excited  
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next instead of just saying that's great or  that's awesome we have a response and a follow-up  
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question so here my response is that's awesome  i love going to concerts and then a follow-up  
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question about the topic right they're going to  see their favorite band oh which band is that  
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so even just this simple strategy of responding  and adding a follow-up question can make it a much  
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better conversation uh sometimes if you're feeling  nervous in a conversation you might just have qaqa  
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qaqa what are you going to do what about tomorrow  do you like this do you want to do that right not  
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really great so how can we prevent ourselves  from doing that with our response so here i  
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shared my opinion about what they are doing that's  awesome and a little bit more detail about what  
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they said so something about me too i love going  to see concerts and then my follow-up question  
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which band are you seeing then they answer  oh i'm going to see the red hot chili peppers  
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and lucky me they also asked me a follow-up  question do you like them right very common in  
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conversation and here i'm responding yeah they're  great so i have my better adjective right great up  
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here we used awesome i love their song under the  bridge so again adding a little bit more detail  
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to my response and then they respond no way that's  my favorite song and like this our conversation  
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can continue so an easy way to remember is q a r  f question answer response and follow-up question  
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now before we talk a little bit more about this  about how what is a good response and what is  
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a good follow-up question take note that in both  the answer and the response i'm adding details so  
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if you are and this is another tip so if  you're having a conversation with someone  
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and you only give short short short answers  well that makes it very difficult to have a  
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meaningful longer more  interesting conversation right  
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so imagine just like we did before if this person  said i'm going to see a concert short answer  
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that's that's awesome short response okay well  our conversation is basically over right we can't  
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really go very far from there it's difficult so be  sure if you are answering give a detailed answer  
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not just i'm going to see a concert i'm going  to see my favorite band how do i feel so excited  
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and when we respond adding information about  ourselves to oh i love going to see concerts  
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adding details to our answers and  responses is a great way to make  
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the conversation way more interesting and  here in our response down here this person  
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asked ah do you like the red hot chili  peppers i could have just said yeah
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oh okay conversation over again no yeah they're  great my opinion and adding more detail i love  
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their song under the bridge so adding details  is a really great way to make qarf work for you  
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so let's go ahead and talk  about what is a good response  
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right we have q and a remember to add details  to your answers but what are some good responses  
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we can use strong adjectives like that's  awesome that's amazing oh that's so cool
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we can add our opinion just like i did in that  last conversation that's awesome i love going to  
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concerts that's so cool uh i love their song under  the bridge right adding our opinion so step one  
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and two another option for a different step two  so having our strong adjective response that's  
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awesome that's amazing that's fascinating  that's uh spectacular and then our opinion  
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we can also add a short anecdote an anecdote  is like a small very very short story right so  
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let's say that i was in that conversation  and they and i said what are you going  
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to do this weekend oh i'm going to see my  favorite band in concert i'm so excited  
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so i might say oh that's awesome uh and  then short anecdote i went to go see uh  
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my favorite band radiohead in concert recently and  it was amazing then my follow-up question who are  
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you going to see and the conversation continues  so this is another way to add detail but remember  
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to keep your your story or your anecdote short  right we don't want to uh have someone say oh  
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this amazing thing i'm going to see my favorite  band and then kind of ignore their response tell  
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a long story right so short anecdote oh i did  that it was amazing who are you going to see so  
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these are all examples of good responses strong  adjectives and your opinion or strong adjectives  
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and a short anecdote or just a short little  story to relate to what they are saying
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and after we have shared our opinion or a short  anecdote what about follow-up questions what are  
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good follow-up questions well of course when  we are asking questions we should think of  
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our question words like who what when where why  how and which so for example uh let's say we had  
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the question or the person said i'm going to  see my favorite band okay so let's just write  
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it here favorite band from that conversation  i'm going to see my favorite band in concert  
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let's try to make a follow-up question with  each of these i might say who are you going with  
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um what are you most excited about  when are you going where is the concert  
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uh why is that your favorite band how are you  going to get there or how long have you liked  
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this band and maybe which song do you hope they  play i already have what seven questions i could  
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ask so if you are feeling a little concerned  oh how do i keep this conversation going  
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remember your wh questions and now let's get some  practice we can think of a good response and a  
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follow-up question for any topic there are so many  possible follow-up questions so let's try so let's  
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say person a says i'm from america okay meeting  someone for the first time so how could i respond  
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well remember i want to use a strong  adjective in my opinion or an anecdote  
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so let's say i decide to use an anecdote i  could say something like oh that's interesting  
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now my there's my strong adjective and my anecdote  i went to america last year it was awesome  
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and now a follow-up question where in america  are you from so this is much better than saying  
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something like oh cool response follow-up question  oh that's interesting i went to america last year  
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and it was great uh where in america are you from  and then they share right much better response so  
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my follow-up question was where in america are you  from i could also ask a question like um uh maybe  
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how long did did you live in america from seeing  them in another country oh why are you traveling  
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here what are you doing here right if i see  them in another country many possible questions
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okay let's look at our next one let's say person  a says i love to read so hobby conversation right  
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another uh getting to know you oh i love to read  so remember first i want to respond with my strong  
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adjective and my opinion or an anecdote so  this time let's try an opinion so my friend  
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says i love to read i might say oh that's cool i  really like to read too right agreeing my opinion  
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i like to read too and now i need my follow-up  question what kind of books do you like to read
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so again we can think of many follow-up questions  here what kind of books do you like to read  
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what are you reading now how often do you read  
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why do you like to read right so many questions  we could ask oh do you prefer books or movies
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and let's take a look at one more let's say i'm  talking to someone and they tell me i want to be  
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a business owner so we're talking about our goals  jobs things like that so first i want to respond  
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and remember strong adjective and opinion or  anecdote so i might say something like oh that's  
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really interesting um my dad is a business  owner why do you want to be a business owner  
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and my follow-up question why do you want to be a  business owner or again something like what kind  
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of business would you like to own where would you  want to own a business and so on so as you can see  
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we can have a good response and follow-up question  to any topic so remember q a r f okay our last tip  
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today is to engage the listener so what about  when we have a story to tell in a conversation  
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or what about when we have a lot to  say or we have to speak for a long time  
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it's best not to dominate the conversation  or this means to speak more much more  
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than the other person right so how can we  change this we can engage the listener so  
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the listener is the person we are  talking to right so how can we do this  
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so let's say i'm telling a bit i have a story to  tell we're having a great conversation already and  
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i want to talk about my experience let's say we're  talking about travel and i want to tell the story  
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of when i traveled to vietnam to hanoi i loved  it it was amazing and i want to talk about it  
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well i could probably talk about that trip for  five minutes straight but that's not the best  
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way to have a conversation right maybe the other  person will lose interest or stop listening or  
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right not really the best so how can i engage  that listener and have a better conversation  
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the first thing i could do is ask for their  opinion about something like what do you think  
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about data for example i could share about when  i went on a food tour in vietnam right maybe i'm  
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talking about that and instead of telling the  rest of my story right away i could say oh what  
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do you think about food tours or what do you think  about vietnamese food have you ever had vietnamese  
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food right what do you think about it and now  they're engaged oh yeah i've had it and i think  
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oh yeah me too it was so good and  then i can continue my story right
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number two depending on the story you're  telling you could ask for their advice  
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uh so actually these two topics we have  talked about in previous live streams  
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giving and asking for opinions and also uh  giving and asking for advice right so words  
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like should could ought to had better and then  with opinions i really like i'm into and so on  
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so be sure to check out our previous live streams  for that so the second way is to ask for advice  
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if you need to what would you do if you were me so  maybe i'm telling a story of oh something happened  
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i i was um i lost my phone it was so crazy  what would you have done in that situation  
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right what would you have done if you were me  so ask for their opinion their advice what they  
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would have done and then they might share  oh yeah maybe they'll share a story oh that  
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i lost my phone once and i i had  to do this da da what did you do  
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so we've engaged them we're not just talking  uninterrupted and the last way is to ask if they  
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have a similar experience so a question like have  you ever so but maybe even before i tell my story  
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oh yeah my favorite travel experience was when  i went to vietnam have you ever been there or  
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in my story have you ever had vietnamese food have  you ever done this have you done that where's your  
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favorite place you have traveled what's your  experience like so asking about their experience  
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so remember to engage the listener ask questions  during your story ask for their opinion  
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ask for their advice if it's relevant or if you  need to and ask about their similar experiences  
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the key point is to be aware of your talking time  be aware of when you're talking for a little too  
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long maybe some of you do that i know i certainly  do sometimes be aware of how long you're talking  
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and uh but one thing a tip that i want to give you  guys is it's not always you doing all the talking  
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right sometimes maybe you're talking to  someone they are talking a lot so a tip  
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if they are not engaging you  and you're just sitting there
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listening to a very long story you can do  something called interject so this means  
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maybe they get to the end of a sentence  and now you can add something you want to  
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say right oh maybe there maybe i am talking  to you and i'm talking a lot blah blah blah  
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blah going on about my travel experience and  you're like okay yep okay okay sarah right you're  
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talking a lot so you can interject with your  experience maybe i'm talking about my food tour  
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and i'm about to keep talking but i pause and you  might say interject oh that reminds me of when i  
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went to this place and i tried this and i did that  okay so another tip maybe you're on the other side  
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they are talking a lot you can interrupt politely  interject with uh something you want to share  
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right and again you can share your opinion  or share your advice or share your similar  
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experience when the tables are turned so last  remember a conversation should have back and forth  
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and sometimes you have to take charge this might  mean asking a question right asking for opinion  
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advice or a similar experience or interjecting  with your opinion advice or similar experience  
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okay guys so remember use strong adjectives show  your enthusiasm show you are interested with your  
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words and you can do it with your tone of voice  and your gestures and body language as well  
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but step one strong adjectives show that you are  really interested in what the person is saying  
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step two use qarf remember to if you are  answering a question answer in detail  
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right don't just give a short short short  simple answer tell a little bit more if you  
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are responding to what someone else said be sure  to add your opinion or maybe a short anecdote  
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about what happened to you and ask a good  follow-up question again to show you're  
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interested and to give each other more to talk  about more details better conversation easier to  
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talk right the more you know the easier  it is to keep a conversation going  
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and last remember to engage the listener ask  questions ask for their advice their opinion  
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their similar experiences or if you are the  listener remember it's okay to interject and  
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ask questions of your own today let's talk  about something called the mirroring method
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so first let's answer our of course our first  question what is the mirroring method well  
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we can think first of course what is a mirror  well here we see someone looking into a mirror  
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right you see what we call your reflection  right looks the same and what you do  
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your reflection does in the mirror right so  this is where the name for the mirroring method  
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comes from is a mirror right it does the same  thing as you mirroring is the careful study of  
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an english speaker so this includes using verbal  and non-verbal behavior which we'll talk about  
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so here uh mirroring we use with video because  this is something we study and practice over time  
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so we want to use a recorded video of a speaker  of an english speaker that we can use to study and  
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practice their verbal and non-verbal behavior so  we'll talk about what that is so you watch a video  
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of an original model english speaker and as you  watch you practice mirroring or repeating exactly  
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what the speaker is doing this includes verbal  behavior so speaking and the way the person is  
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speaking and non-verbal behavior so this is body  language maybe this means their facial expressions  
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it can help to look at someone's mouth for  pronunciation what they do with their hands  
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what facial expressions they make and so on  so why should you mirror why is this a useful  
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strategy you can improve many different areas of  your language learning by doing something like  
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mirroring so by watching studying and repeating  native speakers or just good speakers of english  
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you can improve things like your rhythm so  rhythm is the uh like the pace and speed at  
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which you speak right so each language has some  different rhythm so you can improve your rhythm  
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you can improve your intonation and intonation  is the way our voice goes up and down  
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when we speak uh any language right so different  languages have different intonation and also the  
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way we talk about things we use different rhythm  and different intonation depending on the topic  
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so mirroring and watching a really good model  and repeating after a good model speaker and by  
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the way model means like a really good example  uh maybe no one is perfect but a great example  
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is a model so someone who you want to be like  right oh they do they speak so well i want to  
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be like them i they are my model  right they are a good example  
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so also you can improve your non-verbal so  non-speaking communication so remember that's  
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things like gestures facial expressions and so on  and of course your overall confidence this is an  
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easy method to practice and you will see yourself  improve as long as you are consistent of course  
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another reason why you should mirror is you can  see how all these different parts of pronunciation  
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rhythm and intonation and sentence stress  and word stress and so on make a speaker  
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more effective and easier to understand  when they are sharing what they want to say  
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and finally it's enjoyable many students who  have used this method say that it gave them more  
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confidence and helped them to be interested  in english again so if you feel like maybe  
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the way you are studying now is not fun for you  or not interesting this is a really great tool  
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all right so we now we know what is mirroring  and why you should do it so next let's talk about  
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who so i mentioned the word model right  this is the person you are going to choose  
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the model can be a native speaker of  english or a really good non-native speaker  
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choose someone you enjoy watching if  you really enjoy watching the news  
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and you have someone that you really enjoy  watching you can watch them and model they can be  
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your model you can mirror them so you can choose  anyone if you enjoy sports choose your favorite  
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athlete and watch them in interviews and you can  mirror them it's up to you who you choose to model  
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but make sure it's someone you enjoy if you are  modeling someone who oh so boring then this will  
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not be fun right so choose someone you enjoy you  can mirror people on many platforms like youtube  
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and netflix there are so many options available  and you can choose the person you want to watch  
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and you can also choose the topic that you are  interested in talking about right you're mirroring  
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someone's speech and body language so you  can choose the person and topic you enjoy  
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so that's very important make sure you  enjoy it okay next let's talk about how  
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how do you do it how do you mirror someone what is  the method so i'm going to give two simple steps  
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and i encourage you to look back maybe  watch this part of the video again  
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if this is a method you want to  try just to make sure you get it  
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so step one is to analyze what you are  watching so let's take a look at this word  
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analyze analyze means to look closely right  look at the details and really try to understand  
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in a deep way really understand what you are  watching so start by focusing on the big picture  
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or the big uh themes of what you are watching  like who the speaker is what they are trying to do  
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and what speech characteristics they use  to accomplish that goal so let's go back  
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first who the speaker is so of course  you want are you listening to an athlete  
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are you listening to a scientist are you listening  to just a normal youtuber who is the speaker  
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and next what are they trying to  do so maybe you are watching uh  
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something that is trying to inspire you or make  you feel motivated like you want to do something  
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is that what they're trying to do  maybe they're trying to persuade you  
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which means to change your opinion so  is that what they're doing in the video  
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maybe you choose to mirror someone who is  teaching is that what they're trying to do and  
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so on so there are many things maybe they are just  talking about their daily life maybe they are uh  
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just sharing some simple information maybe they  are talking about a product uh and so on there so  
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what are they trying to do this is very important  because this changes the way that we speak so for  
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example if someone is trying to inspire you  the speed and volume and pausing that they use  
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and things again like intonation are going to be  different than if they are teaching you let's say  
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so it's very important to know what they are  trying to do in the video is it to inspire you  
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is it to teach you is it informal which means  maybe just casual or maybe just talking about  
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like a vlog or something talking about their  daily life like they would talk to a friend  
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and how are they speaking so this is step  one analyze look closely right who are they  
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what are they trying to do and what do you  notice about the way they are speaking to do that  
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thing so for example when you listen to me maybe  you notice what where what is the purpose of  
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this video well of course it's to teach you about  this method so you might notice my speed is slow  
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and clear my volume is normal right not too loud  not too quiet and i pause often to make sure  
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that you can understand so this is these are some  different characteristics or qualities or traits  
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when someone is trying to teach right so you  know why you are watching me you know who i am  
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what i'm trying to do and you can hear my speech  is different than if i was trying to inspire you  
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or persuade you or talk about my daily life right  okay so step one analyze what you are watching  
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who is it what are they trying  to do and how are they speaking  
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to do that if they are teaching how are they  speaking to teach okay the second step is to  
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uh continue to analyze but in this we're going  a little bit deeper so let's change that to oh  
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where'd my mask go there we go analyze more  deeply what you are listening to okay so  
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maybe it is a 10 minute video well you probably  cannot use this method for the entire 10 minutes  
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at one time maybe choose a short segment  maybe something like 15 to 30 seconds
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of the model's speech and focus on their  stress right that the way that they  
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emphasize certain words in their  sentence their rhythm their intonation  
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or uh maybe maybe these are areas that you  are very good at so focus on your area of need  
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maybe you really want to work on  your uh your into your body language  
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for example uh or you want to work on putting  it all together and speaking more fluently  
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with good flow and so on so focus on your area  of need for a small section of the model's speech  
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then you are going to spend time practicing  it for memorization this is another reason  
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why it's good that it's very short right  we don't want to memorize 10 minutes  
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of speech and body language that's very hard  maybe you could do the whole thing eventually  
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in small sections uh but just choose something  small and if 15 seconds is too long for you  
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you can do even shorter than that you can do one  sentence right so start with something easy for  
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you so first spend time practicing it just for  memorizing the words the uh intonation the rhythm  
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and then slowly add those nonverbal gestures  movements and facial expressions to fully mirror  
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the model so this is mirroring right so we're  going to choose the person that we want to model  
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analyze or really look and listen  very closely to their speech  
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and what they are trying to do with their  speech and then spend a good amount of time  
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practicing memorizing and really  working on mirroring what they're doing  
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so something important is that mirroring takes  time and practice so some of you this might  
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be confusing this with another method called  shadowing shadowing is repeating a speaker with  
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a short delay so for example maybe i am watching  a movie in the language let's say i am trying to  
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learn spanish so if i'm watching a spanish movie  shadowing is just listening and repeating right  
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away right there's very short time between but  that's not mirroring shadowing can be useful too  
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if your level is a little higher and you're just  trying to quickly work on your comprehension and  
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understanding mirroring takes time and practice  so one to three weeks depending on how long  
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or how difficult what you chose is so if you chose  a vlog for example and you chose 30 seconds of  
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someone talking about uh what they are going to  do that day maybe just one week if you chose a  
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topic like technology with a lot of vocabulary and  that's a little more difficult maybe three weeks  
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but it takes time and practice so also unlike  shadowing that you are choosing the model  
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and you're focusing on verbal and nonverbal so  speaking and body language to mirror the speaker's  
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emotions and purpose so this can be very useful  for learning how to express similar emotions  
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and a similar purpose so remember the  purpose is the reason why they are speaking  
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so their purpose again might be teaching so maybe  you are an english teacher i know some of you who  
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watch this channel are so watching a teacher  and mirroring their the way that they speak  
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and what they do might help you to feel more  confident in your ability to teach in english  
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if you want to talk about a certain topic and try  to persuade someone remember change their opinion  
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about some any topic listening to a good model  that you like that is very good at persuading can  
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help you to learn and practice the ways that they  do that to become more effective this is something  
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that second language learners do so you learning  english but uh we do this in our native language  
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as well right there are people who we think are  very good speakers or very good teachers very good  
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uh persuaders and we were very good at inspiring  people and we might try to be like them and this  
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includes trying to speak like them or express our  ideas like them right so we do this with our role  
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models anyway this is just doing it in a second  language and it can really really help you to  
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learn how to do it express whatever that  emotion or purpose is more effectively  
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okay so next i'm going to give you two very good  resources you can use to help you with this method  
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so i'm going to give you one for netflix and one  for youtube all right so for netflix there is a  
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google chrome extension so if you use google  chrome you can download this called language  
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learning with netflix you can use this to study  your favorite shows and movies on netflix so uh  
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let's talk about how to use it quickly you can  download it from the chrome web store which we  
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see here right so it's in your settings extensions  and just search for language learning with netflix  
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you can also just go to google.com and  type in language learning with netflix  
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and you can download it so it's free  no money free app to use free extension  
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and let me show you what exactly this does so  after you download it you'll see uh when you watch  
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youtube or net or when you watch netflix a setting  will come up and you can click to turn it on
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so after you turn it on this is the screen that  you will see you can see that it gives you english  
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and the subtitles in your language so for this  example i used korean so here we have english  
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and korean subtitles but it can be english and  any so many languages shown at the same time okay  
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so once you get here you can click the settings  button and then you'll see this screen so  
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choose the correct settings the audio so what  is the language you hear the netflix show in  
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what the subtitle language  is and what the translation  
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language is so here again i chose korean  but there are many many options available  
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and this is what you'll see and there are some  cool features with this as well you can highlight  
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a word and then something will pop up and  you can see the definition of the word
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you can click this little play button here to  repeat the sentence and listen again this is very  
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good for shadowing or if you want to really  just listen right you can do short 15 to 30  
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seconds also very good for studying mirroring  as well so click that button to listen again
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then uh if you see the sentence here you can  even hover over or put your mouse over the  
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word right so let's say your mouse is here this  screen will pop up and give you definitions and  
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some examples of how it's used in the show that  you're watching so you can listen to just one word  
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you can listen to a whole sentence you can even  just click the word and hear the pronunciation  
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again and again and see the translation in your  language so i think this is a very cool tool
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and if you want you can click this button  over here turn this ap on to stop the video  
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after each sentence if you want to study  hard and really listen again and again  
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so again this is called  language learning with netflix  
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this is a really great way to study  with a show or a movie that you like
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and also the last thing here is you can  click this star button to save the phrase  
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so you'll be able to see it again in the future  and this really helps to organize your learning
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so that's for netflix uh there's another  one called dual subtitle for youtube  
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so same you can find this on the google  chrome store it's also free and it's called  
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youtube dual subtitle so it's the same idea  right you download it you go to youtube  
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and then you can choose the subtitles two at  the same time that you want to see on youtube so  
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the netflix one is a little better you can  click the words but here at least with so  
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many youtube videos you can see two subtitles at  the same time so i encourage you to use this to  
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study your favorite youtube channels and if  the person you want to mirror is on youtube  
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this can be a really great way of understanding  what they are saying and what their purpose is  
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right so as you read in your native language ah  they're trying to persuade me oh they're trying to  
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make me buy something oh they're trying to teach  me right so having these subtitles can help you to  
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understand and analyze what they are saying and  then go ahead and begin your mirroring study  
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so as i said this extension is similar to  language learning with netflix but for youtube so  
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i encourage you guys to use these well and  the last thing the last so we have netflix  
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and youtube google chrome extensions and here  is something i have mentioned before ted.com  
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so ted is an excellent resource i'm sure many  of you have watched ted talks people from all  
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over the world on all different topics  give speeches in front of an audience  
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where they talk about so many different topics  many are about teaching and sharing information  
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but some are art artistic right  there's music and poetry and  
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people sharing stories about their lives things  like that so many different topics and many  
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many many videos have subtitles in other languages  so if you want to study some very very good model  
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english speakers ted.com is excellent for  this you can improve your listening speaking  
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your vocabulary and your body language these  people on ted are presenting so they are  
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very careful and very purposeful with  their body language how they are speaking  
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uh and because there are so so so hundreds  of topics you can choose from you can really  
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improve your vocabulary about many different  topics also the videos have full transcripts  
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so a transcript is the whole everything that  the person says in the video that you can read  
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and you can also see a translation of the whole  transcript so this can help you with mirroring  
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right you have it right there before you you can  memorize practice and really learn to mimic some  
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really excellent english speakers okay guys  so that is it for today for this lesson about  
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mirroring this is a really great way to learn  and practice and i really hope you give it a try
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