Conversation Skills: Softening Your Speech ๐Ÿ˜Š Master the art!

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00:05
Hi everyone. In our previous lesson, we talked about agreeing with others, even when we don't really want to.
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็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚ ๅ‰ๅ›žใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใฏใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใฏๅŒๆ„ใ—ใŸใใชใใฆใ‚‚ใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใซๅŒๆ„ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
00:14
Sometimes, though, we need to express an opposite opinion, but we know it may not be received.
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ๅๅฏพใฎๆ„่ฆ‹ใ‚’่กจๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:20
Well, so it's better to soften or statement.
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ใพใ‚ใ€ใใ‚ŒใงๆŸ”ใ‚‰ใ‹ใใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใ‚นใƒ†ใƒผใƒˆใƒกใƒณใƒˆใซใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นใŒ่‰ฏใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:26
Modal verbs are very useful when we want to soften our speech.
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ใƒขใƒผใƒ€ใƒซๅ‹•่ฉžใฏใ€ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใƒใ‚’ๅ’Œใ‚‰ใ’ใŸใ„ใจใใซ้žๅธธใซไพฟๅˆฉใงใ™ใ€‚
00:31
Instead of telling someone they made a mistake, we have the option of saying they could be wrong.
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่ชฐใ‹ใซ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’็Šฏใ—ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ้–“้•ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‚ชใƒ—ใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
00:37
They might be wrong.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ้–“้•ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
00:40
There may be a mistake.
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้–“้•ใ„ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
00:44
Learn these useful ways to present an opinion if you don't want to sound forceful.
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ๅจๅœง็š„ใซ่žใ“ใˆใŸใใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ๆ„่ฆ‹ใ‚’่ฟฐในใ‚‹ไพฟๅˆฉใชๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ๅญฆใณใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
01:12
We have other words to soften a statement.
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ๅฃฐๆ˜Žใ‚’ๅ’Œใ‚‰ใ’ใ‚‹ไป–ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
01:15
There are times when we need to sound confident.
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่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ็™บ้Ÿณใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
01:18
But there are also times of negotiation when we need to keep the peace,
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅนณๅ’Œใ‚’ไฟใคๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ไบคๆธ‰ใฎๆ™‚ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Š
01:23
so we use words like: kind of,
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01:27
sort of,
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01:28
just,
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01:30
maybe,
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01:31
seems like.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:34
Consider these examples:
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†:
02:04
So compare the strength and tone.
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ๅผทใ•ใจใƒˆใƒผใƒณใ‚’ๆฏ”่ผƒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
02:12
This can sound clear and confident.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆ˜Ž็ขบใง่‡ชไฟกใซๆบ€ใกใŸใ‚‚ใฎใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
02:15
But it could also sound bossy, like my idea is the best idea and that's what we're going to do.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็งใฎใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใŒๆœ€้ซ˜ใฎใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒ็งใŸใกใŒใ‚„ใ‚ใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ๅ‰ใใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“.
02:23
Compared to: I kind of think that renting a car would be better for us.
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ๆฏ”่ผƒใ—ใฆ: ใƒฌใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ซใƒผใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚ŠใŸๆ–นใŒใ„ใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:42
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02:47
We'll end here and I'll see you again soon for another lesson.
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ใ“ใ“ใง็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใพใŸใ™ใใซๅˆฅใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใŠไผšใ„ใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
02:52
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