Conversation Skills: Softening Your Speech 😊 Master the art!

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English with Jennifer


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Hi everyone. In our previous lesson, we talked about agreeing with others, even when we don't really want to.
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Sometimes, though, we need to express an opposite opinion, but we know it may not be received.
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Well, so it's better to soften or statement.
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Modal verbs are very useful when we want to soften our speech.
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Instead of telling someone they made a mistake, we have the option of saying they could be wrong.
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They might be wrong.
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There may be a mistake.
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Learn these useful ways to present an opinion if you don't want to sound forceful.
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We have other words to soften a statement.
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There are times when we need to sound confident.
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But there are also times of negotiation when we need to keep the peace,
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so we use words like: kind of,
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sort of,
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just,
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maybe,
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seems like.
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Consider these examples:
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So compare the strength and tone.
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This can sound clear and confident.
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But it could also sound bossy, like my idea is the best idea and that's what we're going to do.
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Compared to: I kind of think that renting a car would be better for us.
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You can let me know in the comments.
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We'll end here and I'll see you again soon for another lesson.
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