Conversation Skills: Softening Your Speech ๐Ÿ˜Š Master the art!

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:05
Hi everyone. In our previous lesson, we talked about agreeing with others, even when we don't really want to.
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š” ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„. ์ด์ „ ์ˆ˜์—…์—์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์›ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—๋„ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋™์˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:14
Sometimes, though, we need to express an opposite opinion, but we know it may not be received.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€ ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ํ‘œ๋ช…ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์—ฌ์ง€์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:20
Well, so it's better to soften or statement.
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ง„์ˆ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:26
Modal verbs are very useful when we want to soften our speech.
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๋ชจ๋‹ฌ ๋™์‚ฌ๋Š” ๋ง์„ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ๋•Œ ๋งค์šฐ ์œ ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:31
Instead of telling someone they made a mistake, we have the option of saying they could be wrong.
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์‹ค์ˆ˜ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€์‹ ์—, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ํ‹€๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์„ ํƒ๊ถŒ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:37
They might be wrong.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ํ‹€๋ ธ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:40
There may be a mistake.
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์‹ค์ˆ˜๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:44
Learn these useful ways to present an opinion if you don't want to sound forceful.
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๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋ฉด ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ์ œ์‹œํ•˜๋Š” ์œ ์šฉํ•œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์•Œ์•„๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
01:12
We have other words to soften a statement.
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์ง„์ˆ ์„ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:15
There are times when we need to sound confident.
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๋•Œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:18
But there are also times of negotiation when we need to keep the peace,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ‰ํ™”๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๋•Œ ํ˜‘์ƒ์˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:23
so we use words like: kind of,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
01:27
sort of,
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01:28
just,
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01:30
maybe,
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01:31
seems like.
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.
01:34
Consider these examples:
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๋‹ค์Œ ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
02:04
So compare the strength and tone.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ฐ•๋„์™€ ํ†ค์„ ๋น„๊ตํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
02:12
This can sound clear and confident.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:15
But it could also sound bossy, like my idea is the best idea and that's what we're going to do.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‚ด ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๊ฐ€ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด์ด๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•  ์ผ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ถŒ์œ„์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค๋ฆด ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:23
Compared to: I kind of think that renting a car would be better for us.
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๋น„๊ต: ์ฐจ๋ฅผ ๋ ŒํŠธํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋” ์ข‹์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:42
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๋Œ“๊ธ€๋กœ ์•Œ๋ ค์ฃผ์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:47
We'll end here and I'll see you again soon for another lesson.
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02:52
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02:58
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