How Radical Hospitality Can Change the Lives of the Formerly Incarcerated | Reuben Jonathan Miller

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How Radical Hospitality Can Change the Lives of the Formerly Incarcerated | Reuben Jonathan Miller

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There are few things we know about mass incarceration in our country.
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We know, for example, that we're the world's leading jailer.
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With five percent of the world's population,
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we incarcerate 20 percent of its prisoners.
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And we know that we punish our poor, our own.
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Half of the [imprisoned] --
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in fact, well over half -- live below the poverty line.
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This is nothing to say
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about the egregious racial disparities in how we administer justice
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and how we choose to punish.
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Black Americans are five times more likely to be incarcerated than white Americans.
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And they do lengthier sentences, even for the same crimes.
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This is punishment in the United States.
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But what is punishment for?
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When does punishment end?
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Why do we punish in this way?
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In the 1970s,
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we said that punishment was for the purpose of rehabilitation.
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But on the heels of the civil rights movement
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and a predictable, because it was cyclical, crime wave,
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we decided that rehabilitation no longer worked.
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In fact, our policymakers said
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that nothing worked for people like them.
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That is to say, the people that we lock away
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in our American jails and prisons,
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the kinds of people that we put in a cage.
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We made a political decision in that moment
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that what we would do
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is we would sentence people to longer terms in prison
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and that we would make sure that the punishments were more harsh.
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But my research shows
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that punishment doesn't end when the sentence ends.
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I'm a sociologist.
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I began this work as a volunteer chaplain
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at the Cook County Jail in Chicago,
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and it was there that I was confronted with the realities of mass incarceration.
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It was there that I was greeted by a sea of faces that look like mine,
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from neighborhoods that look like mine
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because I was born poor and Black after 1972.
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This is the year that mass incarceration began in earnest.
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And I was confronted by the reality
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that the people I spent time with were not just my neighbors,
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they were certainly more than just criminals.
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These are people who had families,
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who loved people and who were loved by people.
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These were people who contributed to their homes
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and to their sense of community.
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So I had to know what happened when they went home.
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I had to know what brought them there in the first place.
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So I began to study mass incarceration.
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I spent two decades following people that we've learned to be afraid of.
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A man I call Jimmy Caldwell was one of those people.
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He spent two decades on and off in Michigan jails and prisons.
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He was diagnosed with bipolar disorder
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but didn't get access to medical care
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or the medication that he needed.
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I met him on the day of his release.
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He was handed a sheet of paper.
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This is known as the conditions of release,
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and they list things that you may not do.
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You may not cross state lines;
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you may not own a weapon;
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you may not drink even if you’re of age;
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you may not use substances, including marijuana,
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even in states where it’s legal;
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you may not associate with so-called known offenders.
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This is an impossibility in a city like Detroit,
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where crime and incarceration, by the way,
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is concentrated in so few neighborhoods.
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It’s also an impossibility in cities like Chicago or LA or New York,
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or any of the major places where people live.
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I wanted to know how he met these restrictions.
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But more than the things that he couldn't do,
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he was given a new set of responsibilities.
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You must report to a probation officer once a week at least.
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You must submit to and pay for a urinalysis.
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You must attend Narcotics Anonymous.
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You must do this multiple times each week.
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You must also go to a workforce development program.
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You must get a job.
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You must do all of this before 3pm each day,
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because that’s your curfew.
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And you must wear an ankle bracelet so we can monitor your movement.
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Violation of any of these rules can cost you your freedom.
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How did Jimmy make these appointments?
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He was effectively homeless.
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He had no money for transportation.
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How did he reconnect with his family,
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the people whom he loved and who loved him?
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So I decided to follow Jimmy,
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as I followed people like him for so many years before.
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We met at the Rosa Parks Transit Center in Detroit,
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this is a bus depot near midtown.
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This was one of the coldest days of the year.
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It was February of 2015, and Jimmy was unprepared.
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He didn't have a coat.
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He wore a Detroit Tigers baseball jacket.
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And he didn't have a winter hat,
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not a full one, he had a thin worn skullcap that he wore.
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This is one of those days where your teeth chatter.
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It's one of those days where you can see your breath.
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And here's Jimmy.
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No scarf, no gloves.
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And here's where we have to go to a workforce development center
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that's at least a half-hour walk
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from where the last bus could drop him off.
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So here we are, walking to the center.
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It's very cold.
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And during this walk,
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Jimmy does his best to make me feel comfortable.
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He tells me no fewer than five times,
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"Man, I appreciate spending time with a brother like you."
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This is what he says.
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He says, "I'm glad to be doing something positive."
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This is what he tells me.
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And he begins to compliment me until I feel uncomfortable.
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I think he’s trying to butter me up for something;
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I think he's prepared me for the ask, I'm not very comfortable with compliments.
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This isn't my thing.
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But when I got to the center with Jimmy,
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I understood in a much deeper way why he went through those motions.
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The entire building was closed.
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There was a loose leaf sheet of paper taped to the front window
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that had the address to hopefully open centers
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that he might be able to go to.
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There was no phone number on that paper,
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so we couldn’t call ahead to make sure it was open,
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and it didn't matter if there was a phone number.
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Jimmy's phone had run out of minutes long before,
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he couldn't have called if he wanted to.
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I wish I could tell you that I gave Jimmy a ride to that center
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because I'm a good guy
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and I thought he was a good guy in a bad situation.
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I wish I could say that;
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I think I'd earn points on humanitarian grounds.
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But the truth of the matter is I gave Jimmy a ride because I was cold.
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I didn't feel like walking nine miles.
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I didn't feel like getting on the bus.
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So we hopped in my car and we made our way.
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Miles through the Detroit traffic.
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But it didn't matter.
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When we got to the new center,
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the one that was nine miles away,
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a center that was ironically close to the place where Jimmy slept at night --
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By the way, he was doing off-the-books demolition work for his old dope dealer;
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the dope dealer started buying and selling real estate;
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in exchange for Jimmy’s work, he allowed him to sleep there.
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We get to this place that's so close to his home,
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but that he was made to travel so far away
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because he was ordered to go to somewhere else.
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And by the time we get there, the training classes were full.
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There was no space for Jimmy.
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They tell him to come back the next week
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in case another person on probation failed to show up.
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We grab brochures on the way out the door,
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and we headed to Coney Island, this is a Detroit diner chain,
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so that Jimmy and I could debrief about the day's activities.
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Jimmy thanked me profusely
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for the seven-dollar lunch that I bought him,
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for the bus card that I gave him in exchange
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for the interview that took place,
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and for being there for him.
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For being there.
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What did I do?
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Jimmy's life moved from one rejection to another.
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The prison refused him psychiatric care.
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The social service agency shuttered its doors.
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Without me, he wouldn't have made it to his appointment.
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And with me, it just didn't matter,
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he was turned away anyway.
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He wouldn't even have a place to stay without his dope dealer.
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And homelessness, by the way, is a violation of parole.
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All of this would have to be explained to his probation officer,
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who may not believe him.
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And this is a fantastic story.
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Jimmy lived at the mercy
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and the kindness of others.
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He needed them for food, for clothing, for shelter, for transportation,
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to maintain his freedom, his very freedom.
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This is all a matter of public policy.
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Jimmy, like 19.6 million Americans in our country,
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20 million people,
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a population that's ten times the size of the jail and prison census,
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those people live with felony records.
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They live in an alternate legal reality.
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What I write about as a "supervised society."
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In the supervised society, 44,000 laws,
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policies and administrative sanctions
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dictate where they may go,
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with whom they might live and how they spend their time.
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If you've got a criminal record,
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even if that record was from a lifetime ago,
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even if you've changed your ways
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in ways that only your family might hope that you would,
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it's nearly impossible to get work.
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19,000 labor market restrictions ensure that.
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It's nearly impossible to rent an apartment without help.
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Over a thousand housing regulations ensure that.
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Four thousand regulations on civic engagement,
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1,000 regulations on family and domestic rights,
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almost ensuring that if you've got a criminal record
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that you can't live with the people that you want to live with most.
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How did we get here?
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How did we get to this supervised society?
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The roots run deep, at least as deep as our country.
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But the legal infrastructure for a supervised society
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began in the 1980s.
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It starts in housing policy.
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Congress passed legislation that made it so
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that landlords would reject applicants with criminal records,
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and people in public housing had the power to evict tenants
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who allow people with criminal records
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who even so much as visited their home.
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Overnight, grandmothers were being evicted
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for the crime of letting their loved ones sleep on a couch.
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This is the supervised society.
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This is the world that we've made.
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I caught up with Jimmy a few months later.
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I wanted to know how he was doing.
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But mostly, I want to know about his relationship with his mother.
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His mother was a fantastic woman.
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I talked to her on the phone a couple of times,
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and I knew she adored Jimmy.
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This made sense because Jimmy was her baby.
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He was the youngest of her five children
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and the only boy in that house.
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She certainly would have helped Jimmy if he turned to her,
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and she did often.
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But Jimmy told me that her landlord started asking questions.
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He saw Jimmy making his way around the building
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and he didn't want any trouble.
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Thousands of families have been evicted from their homes
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for the crime of letting a loved one sleep on the couch.
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Thousands more live under the threat of eviction
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for simply allowing someone with a criminal record
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to stay there for a few days.
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Jimmy certainly needed his mother.
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She certainly would have responded to his need.
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But he told me, "I don't come around like that no more.
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I don't want to put her in that position."
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Jimmy avoided his mother,
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the one person who would have helped him,
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because she wanted to help.
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He avoided her to protect her.
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Americans say, "We believe in rehabilitation," it's what we say.
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How do we explain Jimmy's life?
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We say we believe in a second chance,
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but how do we explain this perpetual punishment that lasts a lifetime?
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This is the fact of mass incarceration,
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and it is indeed a fact.
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I know this, I know it from my flesh.
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My brother was incarcerated
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while I did the research I'm telling you about today.
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And I could tell you stories about the trouble that he had
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when he tried to find a job or get an apartment.
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I could tell you how hard it was for him to find his place in the world,
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but I'd rather tell you a different story.
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I'd rather tell you a story about a man who helped us find our way out.
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Ronald Simpson Bay
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was handed a 50-year sentence for a crime he didn't commit.
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He's a remarkable man.
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He fought that case for 27 years,
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one of the few jailhouse lawyers who managed to get himself out.
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He helped many people while he was inside,
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he's helped even more today, now that he's home.
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He's one of the nation's leading advocates for criminal justice reform.
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But it wasn't always good for Ronald, obviously.
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About 10 years into his sentence,
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Ronald's only son,
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a boy who holds his name,
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was murdered by a 14-year-old boy.
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I don't know what I would have done.
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I can only tell you what Ronald did.
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Ronald went to the judge and to the prosecutor,
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and he advocated for that boy,
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that he be tried as a juvenile instead of as an adult.
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This boy who took so much from him.
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He made sure that he would have a second chance at life.
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"How did you do it, Ronald?"
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"Why did you do it, Ronald, I would have hated that child."
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"What were you thinking at the time?"
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Ronald said to me,
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"I advocated for that boy because it was the right thing to do.
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I thought it would be an example for others
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who needed to move on with their life."
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Ronald did not love his son's murderer, how could he?
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But Ronald made an ethical commitment,
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and he did with those ethics required.
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Ronald practices a radical politics of hospitality.
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One where we make a place in the world
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for people who even cause us harm.
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And he invites us to practice these politics.
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Because this politic of hospitality,
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this radical commitment to belonging
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will take us so far beyond the politics of fear
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that govern our lives today.
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Out of fear
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we've written 44,000 laws to prevent people from harming us.
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But the laws that we've written have done the opposite.
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Any criminologists worth their salt will tell you this.
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They'll tell you that unemployment, that family separation,
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that housing instability,
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that all of these things lead to more crime, not less.
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They make our world more violent, not less.
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But we do it because it made us feel good,
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and we did this despite what we know.
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So how do we find our way out?
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How do we end this permanent punishment
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that we've decided to enact?
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How do we get out of the supervised society
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that we've decided to legislate?
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Well, first, we can get to know people with criminal records.
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The statistics are grim,
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but it's in these grim statistics that I find hope.
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One in two Americans has a formerly incarcerated loved one.
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This means that most of us can start right at home.
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We can get to know the people in our closest circles
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because if we ask the question, if we try to see,
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then we'll notice that people are closer to us than we imagined.
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And we can, of course,
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ask our elected officials to do something different.
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All politics are local,
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and the politics of mass incarceration are hyperlocal.
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Mass incarceration was the result of a thousand policy decisions,
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so we can ask more of our judges, our district attorneys,
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more of the people that we elect to the mayor's and governor's office.
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More to our local politicians who help govern our wards and our cities
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and our towns.
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We can ask them to help us imagine a new world.
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We can even ask this of our employers
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and of the people in leadership in our houses of worship.
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They can help us find a new world,
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or we can find new people who will.
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But above all,
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Ronald calls us to practice this radical politics of hospitality.
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And this is what I think is the real measure of our ethics.
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It's what did you do when things are hard.
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It's easy to love the lovable.
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But Ronald calls to us to practice a politic of hospitality,
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to make a world where we can imagine a place for everyone so that all belong.
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And he asked us to imagine this world, even for people who've caused harm.
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And he asked us to imagine it,
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even for people who've harmed us.
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And from there, I take great hope.
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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