5 Apps to MAKE NEW FRIENDS and PRACTICE Your English

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As language learners, we often ask ourselves questions like,
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What more can I do?
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Because it often feels like there's always something else you need to do.
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Pay for another course, pay a new tutor, buy
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a subscription to something, buy new textbooks.
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It always feels like there's more we have to give more time we have to spend.
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And it always feels like it's such a chore.
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And something that I've personally found to be true when it comes
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to this aspect of connecting or finding speaking partners
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or even making friends in the language that you're learning is that social
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media can be one of the best tools to achieve this.
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So today I'm going to show you how you can use these five social apps
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to not only advance your English, but also advance your social life.
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So if you're ready to make English a fun, natural part of your life,
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be sure to smash that like
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and subscribe button so you never miss out on any of our new lessons.
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So the first benefit we're going to look at today
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is that Twitter can help you stay updated, informed and connected to the world.
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What I mean by this is that whether you're interested in politics, news,
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celebrities, or even just knowing what's happening in your local community,
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Twitter can help with that.
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In fact, here in South Africa, we are currently experiencing
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power outages on quite a regular basis.
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So I personally mainly use my Twitter account
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for following our local government
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so that I'm able to stay updated on when those power outages will occur
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or in fact, to stay up to date on anything happening in my community.
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So in case you didn't know this, when you include a hashtag in your tweet,
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it becomes linked to all other tweets that include that hashtag.
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So one hashtag I like to follow is #Ctinfo,
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which is the hashtag of my local community.
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So this Twitter hashtag allows me to stay updated
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and connected with members of my community.
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And you can do the same depending on your interests.
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So whether you're writing your own tweets or responding
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to what someone else has said, be sure to include
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a hashtag as this will add context to what you're saying.
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And also allows other people who have similar interests abuses you
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to find your tweet easily and also to follow you.
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The next benefit of using Twitter is that it can help
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you build your confidence and even your sense of humor.
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From standup comics to celebrity meltdowns and gossip to funny pictures and videos.
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Twitter has something for everyone sense of humor,
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and it might just keep you busy for hours.
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But what I've seen over and over again in my years on Twitter is how people
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actually become funnier themselves if they're willing to risk it.
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Twitter can help develop your sense of humor.
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So one way to do this is to create a fictional account.
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Now, obviously, the intention for this wouldn't be to create any trouble.
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It would be to express your humorous thoughts or your ideas
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without being shy or feeling self-conscious about what you're saying.
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Several people I know who have done this have mentioned how easy it is for them
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to actually express themselves in English and to actually share
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their thoughts and opinions without feeling self-conscious.
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And this also allows them to easily connect with other people,
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to comment and reply
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without thinking about, you know, what will people say when they read this?
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What will people think of me?
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So the fourth benefit of using Twitter is that it really helps
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you learn new vocabulary.
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Since you're only limited to 280 characters on Twitter,
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it is a great way to practice using more concise,
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abbreviated ways of communicating and expressing your thoughts and ideas.
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This is also a great opportunity to learn the vocabulary
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and expressions that people are currently using online
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All right, so now
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we're going to look at apps that are perfect for speaking practice.
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And the best recommendation that I have for you, without a doubt,
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is the RealLife English app, which allows you
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to practice with speaking partners from around the world.
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A similar but different option is to try using language exchange apps like Tandem,
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which I've personally used to learn Portuguese,
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and I'm happy to say that I made tons of friends from around the world
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and even recently got to meet one of them, and I stay in touch with them
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quite regularly.
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So I know that it is definitely more than just
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speaking practice learning for the sake of learning.
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You really can make strong connections
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through using these apps to practice your English.
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So one of the main benefits of these apps is making friends and socializing.
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So in addition to speaking to them in a language that you want to learn,
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you will also have the opportunity to not only broaden your social circle,
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but also broaden your understanding of the world.
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I remember when I was in Brazil recently and every opportunity
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that I had to use Portuguese, I would freeze.
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I wouldn't know what to say, even though I had the vocabulary
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on the tip of my tongue and I wasn't able to speak.
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However, speaking apps and language changes is such a huge help
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when it comes to this because when everyone has to speaking the language
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other than their mother tongue, you sort of lose that charm.
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It becomes a lot easier to feel comfortable and to really be at ease
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with making mistakes and just simply speaking and communicating.
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One of the absolute best things about a real English app
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is that you have access to real life conversations with our podcasts,
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where we talk about how to best learn English movies, culture, and so much more.
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Plus, you have access to new transcripts
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and flashcards every single week.
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You never again have to feel like a lost and insecure English learner.
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So don't waste any time.
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Download it right now by clicking up here or down in the description below,
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or simply search for real life in your favorite app store
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the next
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social app we're going to be looking at is Discord.
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And while there are tons of apps out there
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for video voice and text messaging, Discord
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is currently one of the most popular ones you'll find.
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So in my case, I use this code for learning French.
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I have been studying French
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for just a very short while, and I'm part of a discord group
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where we share information about the course and what we've learned.
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So I'm pretty new to this course.
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I am going to share four ways you can use this code to improve your English.
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So thanks to the many different ways you can use this code,
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as I mentioned, you know, voice video
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you can even watch movies or videos together with a group of people,
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and you can have a larger group of people than other social media platforms.
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Like WhatsApp.
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So you can really connect with
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large groups like a class or a group of people who have
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similar interests, whether it's gaming, cooking, knitting.
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You can connect with that larger group and share information, share ideas.
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And like I said, even watch a movie together.
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Well, you can start your own server or your own community of English learners
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or your own community of soccer fans or anything you're interested in.
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If you want to create your own server.
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You can click on this option right here
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at Server, Create My Own,
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and you can use one of the templates over here.
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Maybe you just want to have a community or a server of friends.
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So let's say we want to create a community of friends
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for me and my friends or for a club or community.
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So let's say I want to create a private one.
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At the moment it's only me in there.
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And now I would need to invite my friends and personalize my server with an icon.
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So this could also be a public one.
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So you could have a server where you're inviting other people,
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other language learners like yourself to join and practice with you.
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And basically you could practice using this code
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to improve your English together.
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So the next benefit is that if you don't have
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any idea where to start, you don't want to create your own server.
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You don't want to be left alone in a group like me.
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Then I suggest you explore public servers.
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So if you click over here
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you can find tons of servers about different topics to make it easier.
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You could, of course, just
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use the Discover
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section over here to find what it is that you're looking for.
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Gaming, music, education, science and tech entertainment or student hubs.
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So you can find public servers that focus on a variety of different topics,
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such as anime, cryptocurrency, self-improvement,
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or even just making friends and hanging out.
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Before you continue watching, why not pause the video
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and let us know down in the comments?
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Have you used any of the social apps mentioned in today's lesson,
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and have you made any new friends or speaking partners?
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Share your experience with us.
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We'd love to hear from you.
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Or you on Facebook.
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I am, and I dare to say, but it is not my favorite app.
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I guess the days of mindlessly scrolling for hours,
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checking on friends and trying to connect with old acquaintances is over
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Having said this, the one thing
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I do want to recommend to you today is closed Facebook groups.
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I absolutely love them and I think you will too.
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So the first benefit of Facebook groups that I'd like to talk about today
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is that you become part of a community.
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And what I mean by this is that you're basically surrounded by like minded people
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who share the same or similar goals as you do.
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Of course, if your goal is to learn English,
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then you might want to join a group where you'll find
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other learners or teachers who share information or tips.
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And these group members become sort of like a support group.
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So here are a couple of groups that I've joined.
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This is a group where people share positive things about South Africa.
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And here's a group where people talk about scams
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that they've experienced, that they've encountered, that they've heard
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about that's currently taking place around the country.
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And it's really amazing because you'll find that
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when you're part of these closed groups, it's really like a support group.
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You really have a community of people who share that same interest
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and who share that passion or love for whatever kind of group you're joining.
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The second benefit is that you have a new forum
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You may think that you've read everything there is to know about a particular topic
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and still feel like you're not advancing or getting any better at it.
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You might have questions well, Facebook groups are a great place
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to ask questions, seek advice and get recommendations.
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You'd be pretty surprised at how willing people are to help
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if you actually take that leap and ask a question.
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One of the Facebook groups that I follow is for English learners and I often
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see people posting about their goals and whether or not they've achieved them.
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And it's incredible because whether or not you succeed or fail,
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you have a group of people who are there for you.
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So, of course, the best benefit for using these types of Facebook groups
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is that it improves your language learning tremendously
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You're communicating in English all the time.
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You're learning new things, you're sharing ideas, you're asking questions.
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So not only are you improving
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your English skills, but you're connecting with others.
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You're probably making tons of friends and you're learning so much
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the next
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social app we're going to be looking at is LinkedIn.
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And you might already know that it's emailing for jobseekers
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and career development, but we're going to focus on right now
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is how perfect it is when it comes to networking
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which means like finding the right people, finding amazing people around the world
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related to your industry or unrelated to your industry.
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And this is perfect
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for sort of building those connections or building those bridges.
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And these could be people who add value either to your personal life
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or your professional life.
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So basically, when you like something, someone's sharing
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and you know, I've seen her posts many times
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and I really like what she's about, I think she's inspiring.
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My other connections, this is one of my connections, usually shares her posts.
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And I'm thinking, Wow.
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Arianna Huffington is so inspiring.
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I should also be following her.
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Now, before I click follow, I just want to make a very important point
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about LinkedIn.
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Now, most people on LinkedIn tend to play it quite safe
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when it comes to adding or following strangers.
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So what they tend to do is they tend to only connect with people
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who are in their industry or people that they have already met in some capacity.
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Well, sites like Twitter open the advocate for you to add strangers on LinkedIn.
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It's a little different.
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LinkedIn uses a little bit more hesitant of doing this.
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And I think this has some pros and cons I would say, in my opinion.
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Go ahead, follow.
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What's the worst that can happen?
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That person would probably appreciate the follow
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So basically loosening up on the definition of connection
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or friendship can have some serious benefits for you, especially on LinkedIn.
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Because while it's easy to lose a business
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card, a connection on LinkedIn will always be there.
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And, you know, sometime in the future, you might be thinking
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about changing your career or you might be needing some advice.
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And you'll always have a connection.
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You always have that person that you can message.
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And although it's not guaranteed that they will respond,
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it's much better than not having that connection at all.
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Right.
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So another great
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benefit of LinkedIn is that it helps you to establish yourself professionally.
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So by connecting with the right people and sharing insightful articles,
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you can show your connections or you can show others
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that you are knowledgeable and active within your profession.
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So something else you can do to draw attention to your profile
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and to really add to your professional side is to check out
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the available courses that LinkedIn has to offer.
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So these courses are related to what you've stated on your profile.
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So this is your skill set, your work experience,
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and also things that might help you advance in your career.
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And now my favorite benefit of LinkedIn, which is that it's so easy to find
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informative and helpful posts.
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While other social media focus on people's personal lives
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LinkedIn is all about professional, so LinkedIn offers
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motivational and educational articles as well as business
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news on various professional topics.
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And the best part is that you can learn a ton with some brief daily scrolling.
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So that's it for today's lesson.
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But if you would like to learn essential vocabulary and expressions
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to use around the office, why not check out this lesson next
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and since I meet my team online, this meeting.
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Room is used for filming.
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I use it for filming my learn English TV and English lessons.
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But for.
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Most people it is common to use the space
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to get together with a small team and basically.
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Use the facilities here, such as the desk,
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the whiteboard and the markers over there.
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Brainstorm form ideas, or to just have a chat
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About this website

This site will introduce you to YouTube videos that are useful for learning English. You will see English lessons taught by top-notch teachers from around the world. Double-click on the English subtitles displayed on each video page to play the video from there. The subtitles scroll in sync with the video playback. If you have any comments or requests, please contact us using this contact form.

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