English vocabulary lesson B2 - Describing relationships in English

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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Hi there, welcome back to advancedย  English classes with Harry. That's me,ย ย 
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. Harry์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ณ ๊ธ‰ ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์— ๋‹ค์‹œ ์˜ค์‹  ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ™˜์˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ €์—์š”,
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Harry. So we're here to help you to improve andย  advance your English in the best way possible.ย ย 
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ํ•ด๋ฆฌ. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ์ตœ์„ ์˜ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์„ ํ–ฅ์ƒํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฐœ์ „์‹œํ‚ฌ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๋„์™€๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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To understand the grammar rules, to understandย  vocabulary, how to use it. Expressions,ย ย 
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๋ฌธ๋ฒ• ๊ทœ์น™ ์ดํ•ด, ์–ดํœ˜ ์ดํ•ด, ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋ฒ•. ํ‘œํ˜„,
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phrasal verbs, whatever it is, andย  whatever it takes, we're here to help.
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๊ตฌ๋™์‚ฌ, ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“ , ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ๋„์™€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Okay, and remember to subscribe to myย  channel, if you like this particular video,ย ย 
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์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ํŠน์ • ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“ ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‚ด ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์žŠ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
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then just click on the like button,ย  and all support would be reallyย ย 
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ์ข‹์•„์š” ๋ฒ„ํŠผ์„ ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ชจ๋“  ์ง€์›์ด ์ •๋ง
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gratefully accepted. And I would be veryย  grateful and thankful if you can do that.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์—ฌ์งˆ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด ์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ˆ˜์—…์—์„œ
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So what are we going to talk to you aboutย  today in the class? Well, in today's class,ย ย 
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๋ฌด์—‡์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ• ๊นŒ์š” ? ์ž, ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ˆ˜์—…์—์„œ๋Š”
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we're going to look at adjectives, and we'reย  going to look at adjectives to describeย ย 
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ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ณ  ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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relationships. We're all involved in relationshipsย  somehow in some part of our lives. Eitherย ย 
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. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋‘ ์‚ถ์˜ ์–ด๋–ค ๋ถ€๋ถ„์—์„œ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ๋“  ๊ด€๊ณ„์— ๊ด€์—ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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in the past or in the present, and hopefully,ย  for those of you are not, in the future. Soย ย 
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๊ณผ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ฏธ๋ž˜์— ์žˆ์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
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relationships are a really, really importantย  part of our lives. So I'm going to give you someย ย 
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๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ถ์˜ ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ข‹์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„์™€ ๋‚˜์œ ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์ธก๋ฉด์„ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๋Š”
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insight into the adjectives that we use toย  describe different aspects of our relationships,ย ย 
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๋ฐ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํ†ต์ฐฐ๋ ฅ์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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both good and bad. Okay, if you have any questionsย  relating to this, you can always come back to meย ย 
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. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์™€ ๊ด€๋ จํ•˜์—ฌ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด ์žˆ์œผ์‹œ๋ฉด ์–ธ์ œ๋“ ์ง€ ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค์‹œ ์—ฐ๋ฝํ•˜์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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through email, I'll give you the contactย  details at the end of this particular class.ย ย 
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. ์ด ํŠน์ • ์ˆ˜์—…์ด ๋๋‚  ๋•Œ ์—ฐ๋ฝ์ฒ˜ ์„ธ๋ถ€์ •๋ณด๋ฅผ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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And if you have any other issues, well, asย  always, send me an email or send me an email,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋“ฏ์ด ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ํ–ฅํ›„ ๊ฐ•์˜
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I'd be very, very happy to include them inย  future lessons. So let's go that we've gotย ย 
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์— ํฌํ•จํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋˜์–ด ๋งค์šฐ ๊ธฐ์ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ด์ œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ
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14 individual adjectives describingย  relationships. So I list them down one by one,ย ย 
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์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๋Š” 14๊ฐœ์˜ ๊ฐœ๋ณ„ ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ํ•˜๋‚˜์”ฉ ๋‚˜์—ดํ•œ
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and then I'll go through them and give you anย  example as to what they mean and how to use them.
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๋‹ค์Œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๊ณ  ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š”์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณตํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Supportive, distant, tight-knit, caring,ย  close, tense, dysfunctional, dysfunctional,ย ย 
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์ง€์ง€์ , ๋ฉ€๋ฆฌ ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ์žˆ์Œ, ๋‹จ๋‹จํ•จ, ๋ฐฐ๋ ค์‹ฌ, ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•จ, ๊ธด์žฅ, ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ์žฅ์• , ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ์žฅ์• , ์„ฑ์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Œ, ๊ณตํ—ˆํ•จ, ๊ฐ€์งœ
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insincere, hollow, fake, dishonest, weak, stable,ย  and finally solid. Okay, let's go through them.
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, ๋ถ€์ •์ง, ์•ฝํ•จ, ์•ˆ์ •์ , ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฌ๊ณ ํ•จ. ์ข‹์•„, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด์ž.
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And remember these are adjectives.ย  And they used to describeย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋˜๋ฉฐ
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situations, they're usually used to describeย  noun. So lots of these situations were describingย ย 
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์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ช…์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋งŽ์€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด
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the person or the actual relationship itself.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ ๋˜๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ์ž์ฒด๋ฅผ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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So we'll start with number one supportive. So thisย  will be used to describe a person, if a person isย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์ง€์›๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด
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supportive, then they're going to help. So givingย  support is all about giving help. So supportive,ย ย 
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์ง€์ง€ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ง€์›์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋„์›€์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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when we have a problem. Supportive when we needย  to have a discussion about our work that we'reย ย 
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๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ์ง€์›ํ•ด ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งŒ์กฑ์Šค๋Ÿฝ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ž‘์—…์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋…ผ์˜ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๋•Œ ์ง€์›ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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not happy with. Supportive when we had an argumentย  with our parents or siblings or our children. Soย ย 
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. ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜์ด๋‚˜ ํ˜•์ œ์ž๋งค ๋˜๋Š” ์ž๋…€์™€ ๋ง๋‹คํˆผ์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ ํž˜์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
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in a relationship, somebody who's supportiveย  is really, really important to be there,ย ย 
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๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ, ์ง€์ง€ํ•ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์ ์‹œ์—, ์ ์‹œ์— ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ •๋ง ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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at the right time, the right moment.ย  Supportive to give help, or lend support.
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. ๋„์›€์„ ์ฃผ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ง€์›์„ ๋นŒ๋ ค์ฃผ๋Š” ์ง€์›.
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Second, distant. This will be quite a negativeย  adjective to use. So we're referring to somebodyย ย 
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๋‘˜์งธ, ๋ฉ€๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ์— ๊ฝค ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ๊ฐ€ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ
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as distant, that means they're not connectingย  with us, or they're cutting themselves offย ย 
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๋ฉ€๋ฆฌ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์ง€ ์•Š๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ,
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from communication with others, orย  that they seem to be preoccupied.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ์˜ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต์„ ์ฐจ๋‹จํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๋ชฐ๋‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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So when you're trying to talk to somebody whoย  is distant, they literally could be in anotherย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ฉ€๋ฆฌ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•  ๋•Œ , ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ง ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์œ„์น˜์— ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ , ๋‹น์‹ 
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location, they could be sitting in frontย  of you, but their mind is somewhere else,ย ย 
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์•ž์— ์•‰์•„ ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋งˆ์Œ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ณณ์— ์žˆ๊ณ ,
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their thoughts are on something else, they'reย  focusing on perhaps their job or focusing on someย ย 
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๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์ƒ๊ฐ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฒƒ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์ง์—…์ด๋‚˜
03:39
other aspects of their life, but they're cuttingย  you off. And therefore they look, they feel andย ย 
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์‚ถ์˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ธก๋ฉด์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ฐจ๋‹จํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ณด๊ณ , ๋Š๋ผ๊ณ , ์ด๋“ค์€
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they... and you can sense that they are distant,ย  they're not really there. They're in the same roomย ย 
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๋ฉ€๋ฆฌ ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ์žˆ์Œ์„ ๋Š๋‚„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฐฉ์—
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but they could be 100 kilometres away becauseย  they don't really communicate, don't connect.
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์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ 100km ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์†Œํ†ตํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ์—ฐ๊ฒฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:59
Next word is tight-knit. So, when we useย  tight-knit, we often use it not only inย ย 
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๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ๊ฝ‰ ์งœ์—ฌ์ง„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํƒ€์ดํŠธ-๋‹ˆํŠธ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ๋•Œ
04:06
a relationship of two people, but in relationย  to family. So a family relationship we can referย ย 
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๋‘ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฟ๋งŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๊ฐ€์กฑ๊ณผ ๊ด€๋ จํ•˜์—ฌ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š”
04:11
to it as a very tight-knit family.ย  Tight-knit means they are reallyย ย 
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๋งค์šฐ ๋ˆ๋ˆํ•œ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ๋ˆํ•œ ๊ฒฐ์†์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ์ •๋ง๋กœ ์ง€์ง€ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
04:17
supportive of each other. They spend aย  lot of time together. They are there whenย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋งŽ์€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋ณด๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
04:22
they when each other needs something.The... theย  siblings, the brothers and sisters, the parents,ย ย 
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์„œ๋กœ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ํ•„์š”๋กœ ํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ˜•์ œ์ž๋งค, ๋ถ€๋ชจ,
04:28
they spend a lot of time perhaps onย  holidays, weekends, dinner, a veryย ย 
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๊ณตํœด์ผ, ์ฃผ๋ง, ์ €๋… ์‹์‚ฌ, ๋งค์šฐ
04:34
tight-knit family. If a problem happens for oneย  member of the family, they're all there to lendย ย 
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๊ธด๋ฐ€ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ ๋งŽ์€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ณด๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์ค‘ ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€
04:39
a helping hand. So tight-knit, meaning reallyย  close, bonded, really connected together. Okay.
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๋„์›€์˜ ์†๊ธธ์„ ๋นŒ๋ ค์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ธด๋ฐ€ํ•œ ์œ ๋Œ€๊ฐ์ด๋ž€ ์ •๋ง ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฒฐ์†๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ์ •๋ง ์„œ๋กœ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์Œ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”.
04:48
Caring. Well, this is a very positive adjectiveย  to use. A caring personality. He has a very caringย ย 
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๋ฐฐ๋ ค. ์Œ, ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ์— ๋งค์šฐ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋ฐฐ๋ ค์‹ฌ ๋งŽ์€ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ๋ฐฐ๋ ค์‹ฌ ๋งŽ์€ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
04:56
personality. He likes to look after people.ย  He's always there if his mother or fatherย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋Œ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ๋‚˜ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ํ•„์š”๋กœ ํ•˜๋ฉด ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
05:01
need him. He's very caring. She's very caringย  with her elderly grandmother, she goes to visitย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ๋ฐฐ๋ คํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ์—ฐ๋กœํ•œ ํ• ๋จธ๋‹ˆ๋ฅผ ๋งค์šฐ ๋ณด์‚ดํ”ผ๊ณ ,
05:08
her every weekend, she brings food, sheย  cleans the house. So she has a very caringย ย 
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์ฃผ๋ง๋งˆ๋‹ค ํ• ๋จธ๋‹ˆ๋ฅผ ๋ฐฉ๋ฌธํ•˜๊ณ , ์Œ์‹์„ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์˜ค๊ณ , ์ง‘์„ ์ฒญ์†Œํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ๋ฐฐ๋ คํ•˜๋Š”
05:15
approach. So, caring means to take careย  of. Caring means to be kind and generous,ย ย 
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์ ‘๊ทผ ๋ฐฉ์‹์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋Œ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ณด์‚ดํ”ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋Œ๋ด„์€ ์นœ์ ˆํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ด€๋Œ€ํ•˜๋ฉฐ
05:22
and genuinely look after those people who need ourย  support, or who need our help. So to provide love,ย ย 
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ง€์›์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋„์›€์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
05:29
and affection, and support when it is needed.
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ํ•„์š”ํ•  ๋•Œ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘๊ณผ ์• ์ •๊ณผ ์ง€์›์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:34
Close. Close relationship is a relationship,ย  which is tight, okay. So a relationship,ย ย 
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๋‹ซ๋‹ค. ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ๊ธด๋ฐ€ํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
05:41
which is not easily broken, a relationship whichย  is built on trust and love. And both parties toย ย 
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์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ๊นจ์ง€์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ด€๊ณ„, ์‹ ๋ขฐ์™€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ ์œ„์— ์„ธ์›Œ์ง„ ๊ด€๊ณ„. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ด€๊ณ„์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์–‘ ๋‹น์‚ฌ์ž๋Š”
05:48
the relationship understand each other very,ย  very well. We have a very close relationship.ย ย 
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์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ๋งค์šฐ ์ž˜ ์ดํ•ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์šด ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:54
Of course, in all relationships, you can have yourย  ups and downs, you can have your difficulties,ย ย 
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ ๊ธฐ๋ณต์ด ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ , ์–ด๋ ค์›€์ด ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ ,
06:00
you can have your arguments, but overall,ย  if you're close, nothing is going to getย ย 
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๋…ผ์Ÿ์ด ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์ „๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ, ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด
06:05
in the middle. So everything is close, veryย  hard to break that to get in between, okay.
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์ค‘๊ฐ„์— ๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฐ€๊น๊ณ , ์ค‘๊ฐ„์— ๋ผ์–ด๋“ค๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊นจ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งค์šฐ ์–ด๋ ต์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:10
So when we're trying to establish a relationship,ย  that is that is close, we have to understand theย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋งบ์œผ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•  ๋•Œ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š”
06:16
other party, we have to respect the other partyย  in the relationship. To understand what they want,ย ย 
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๊ณ , ๊ทธ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ์†์—์„œ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด
06:22
understand what their needs are. Andย  also hopefully that they will understandย ย 
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๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์š”๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋˜ํ•œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด
06:26
our needs, and our wants. Okay, so close.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ํ•„์š”์™€ ์š•๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„, ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ฐ€๊น๋‹ค.
06:30
Yes, I can see they have a very closeย  relationship, they have been together,ย ย 
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์˜ˆ, ์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งค์šฐ ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
06:34
since they were teenagers, they haveย  been together since they were at college.ย ย 
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์‹ญ๋Œ€์˜€์„ ๋•Œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ, ๋Œ€ํ•™ ๋•Œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:39
Nothing seems to upset them. Any difficulties,ย ย 
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์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ํ™”๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด๋–ค ์–ด๋ ค์›€๋„
06:42
they get through it together. So that willย  be a good definition of a close relationship.
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ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ด๊ฒจ๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜ ์ข‹์€ ์ •์˜๊ฐ€ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:48
Tense. So when a relationship is tense,ย  not necessarily about the person,ย ย 
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์‹œ์ œ. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ˜๋“œ์‹œ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๊ธด์žฅ๋œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ,
06:52
although a person can be tense, or when you feelย  that all your muscles are tight, then you couldย ย 
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๋น„๋ก ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๊ธด์žฅํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ทผ์œก์ด ํŒฝํŒฝํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚„ ๋•Œ
06:58
describe yourself as tense or you're waiting forย  something bad to happen, then you can be tense,ย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์„ ๊ธด์žฅํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‚˜์œ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ธด์žฅํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค,
07:03
you can be on edge. But a tense relationshipย  is not necessarily a good relationship.ย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ดˆ์กฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ธด์žฅ๋œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ˜๋“œ์‹œ ์ข‹์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:09
A tense relationship is something that isย  waiting for a bomb to explode or somethingย ย 
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๊ธด์žฅ๋œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ํญํƒ„์ด ํ„ฐ์ง€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
07:14
to cause problems. It's never relaxed.ย  It's nobody in the relationship is everย ย 
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๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฒฐ์ฝ” ์—ฌ์œ ๋กญ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜ ์–ด๋Š ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋„
07:20
at ease. So there are always problems likelyย  to happen. Not now, but there could have beenย ย 
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ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•  ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
07:25
a week or day. Or a few weeks or a fewย  days ago or could happen in a couple ofย ย 
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์ผ์ฃผ์ผ ๋˜๋Š” ํ•˜๋ฃจ๊ฐ€ ์ง€๋‚ฌ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜๋Š” ๋ช‡ ์ฃผ ๋˜๋Š” ๋ฉฐ์น  ์ „์— ๋˜๋Š”
07:30
days or a couple of weeks time. So there's thatย  tenseness. Meaning there's some likelihood thatย ย 
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๋ฉฐ์น  ๋˜๋Š” ๋ช‡ ์ฃผ ํ›„์— ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ธด์žฅ๊ฐ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:36
something small could start a row or startย  an argument. So... Now, it can be temporary.
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์ž‘์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด ํ–‰์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋…ผ์Ÿ์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ์Œ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ... ์ด์ œ ์ผ์‹œ์ ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:42
There's a very tense relationshipย ย 
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๋งค์šฐ ๊ธด์žฅ๋œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:44
because he's lost his job and he'sย  on edge or he's a little bit nervy.
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๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ์ง์žฅ์„ ์žƒ๊ณ  ์ดˆ์กฐํ•ดํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ๊ธด์žฅํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:48
There's a tense relationship because she's notย  quite sure whether she wants to get married orย ย 
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๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€์ง€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๊ฐ™์€ ์ง‘์„ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๋ฉฐ
07:53
whether she wants to leave it for anotherย  little while she's quite happy living andย ย 
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์•„์ฃผ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ ์ž ์‹œ ๋™์•ˆ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ๋– ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€์ง€ ํ™•์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ธด์žฅ๋œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:57
sharing the same house. But getting married isย  a big step. And she needs time to consider that.
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. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ํฐ ๋‹จ๊ณ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•  ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:03
So the relationship could be tense for aย  little while until she makes a mind up. Soย ย 
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ์ •ํ•  ๋•Œ๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ์ž ์‹œ ๊ธด์žฅ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ
08:08
tense can be permanent, not good and notย  good in relationship for either party.ย ย 
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์‹œ์ œ๋Š” ์˜๊ตฌ์ ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ , ์–ด๋Š ์ชฝ์ด๋“  ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:14
Or can be temporary because there's some situationย  that has arisen, some problem that has arisenย ย 
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๋˜๋Š” ์ด ๊ธด์žฅ์„ ์ผ์ • ๊ธฐ๊ฐ„ ๋™์•ˆ ์กด์žฌํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์ƒํ™ฉ, ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•œ ์–ด๋–ค ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ผ์‹œ์ ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:19
that is causing this tenseness to beย  present for a period of time. Tense.
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. ์‹œ์ œ.
08:27
Dysfunctional. We often hear the expressionย  a dysfunctional family. Dysfunctional meansย ย 
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๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ์žฅ์• . ์—ญ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์ž์ฃผ ๋“ฃ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ์žฅ์• ๋ž€
08:32
it doesn't work. Okay. And a dysfunctionalย  family is a family that seems to have noย ย 
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์ž‘๋™ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—ญ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์€
08:38
rules, no boundaries, no manners, everybody isย  doing their own thing. And everybody's gettingย ย 
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๊ทœ์น™๋„, ๊ฒฝ๊ณ„๋„, ๋งค๋„ˆ๋„ ์—†๊ณ  ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ์ž์˜ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€
08:44
into trouble for different reasons. Somebody's onย  drugs, somebody's in trouble with the law. One orย ย 
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๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์ด์œ ๋กœ ๋ฌธ์ œ์— ๋น ์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๋งˆ์•ฝ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ , ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๋ฒ•์— ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:51
two members of the family are not working, they'reย  living on benefits. All sorts of social problems.
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๊ฐ€์กฑ ์ค‘ ํ•œ ๋‘ ๋ช…์ด ์ผ์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ํ˜œํƒ์„ ๋ฐ›์œผ๋ฉฐ ์ƒํ™œํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜จ๊ฐ– ์‚ฌํšŒ๋ฌธ์ œ.
08:58
And you could put it on to a little packageย  and describe it as a dysfunctional family,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ž‘์€ ํŒจํ‚ค์ง€์— ๋„ฃ๊ณ  ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ์žฅ์• ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์„ค๋ช…ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:04
yeah. So everybody's doing their own thing. Nobodyย  looking after the other. Nobody caring for the theย ย 
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์˜ˆ. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ์ž์˜ ์ผ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋ฌด๋„ ์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ๋Œ๋ณด์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:11
unity of that particular family. So dysfunctional,ย  something that doesn't operate. So when weย ย 
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ํŠน์ • ๊ฐ€์กฑ์˜ ํ™”ํ•ฉ์„ ์‹ ๊ฒฝ์“ฐ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์•„๋ฌด๋„ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ์ด ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ์ž‘๋™ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€
09:18
use the word functional, it'sย  if it's functional, it works.ย ย 
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๊ธฐ๋Šฅ์ ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ์ ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ์ž‘๋™ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:22
This introduces this prefix, and it turnsย  it into negative dysfunctional family. Okay,ย ย 
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด ์ ‘๋‘์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋„์ž…ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ์žฅ์•  ๊ฐ€์กฑ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ‰๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„, ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ์ž‘๋™
09:28
something that just won'tย  or doesn't work so easily.
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ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ž‘๋™ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ.
09:34
Insincere. Another negative adjective insincere.ย  And somebody is sincere, they truly believe inย ย 
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์„ฑ์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค. ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ insincere. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋Š” ์ง„์‹คํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ์ž์‹ ์˜
09:41
what they say, they're sincere in their thoughts.ย  So again using the prefix in- we turn it into aย ย 
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๋ง์„ ๋ฏฟ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ์ง„์‹คํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ ‘๋‘์‚ฌ in์„ ๋‹ค์‹œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ์Œ์ˆ˜๋กœ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ‰๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:48
negative. The opposite insincere. So thoughtsย  or comments might look on the face of it to beย ย 
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. ๊ทธ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€๋Š” ์„ฑ์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ƒ๊ฐ ์ด๋‚˜ ๋Œ“๊ธ€์€ ๊ฒ‰๋ณด๊ธฐ์—๋Š”
09:56
friendly, but you know in reality that these areย  quite insincere, there's nothing to them. Okay?ย ย 
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์นœ๊ทผํ•ด ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ๋ถˆ์„ฑ์‹คํ•˜๊ณ  ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”?
10:02
Oh, have a good weekend. Oh, yes, I'm reallyย  sorry for your trouble. Oh... They're justย ย 
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์˜ค, ์ข‹์€ ์ฃผ๋ง ๋˜์„ธ์š”. ์•„, ๋„ค, ๋ถˆํŽธ์„ ๋“œ๋ ค ์ •๋ง ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„... ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ
10:07
words. And somebody doesn't come across as beingย  sincere, and we can describe him or her as beingย ย 
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๋ง์ผ ๋ฟ์ด์•ผ. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์„ฑ์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๋ณด์ด๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ์„ฑ์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋ฌ˜์‚ฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:14
insincere. Or the comments that they makeย  has been completely insincere. No love,ย ย 
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. ๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ง์€ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ง„์‹ฌ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋ž‘๋„,
10:21
no respect, no real meaning or feeling of supportย  behind them. So completely and utterly insincere.
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์กด์ค‘๋„, ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ์˜๋ฏธ๋‚˜ ์ง€์›์˜ ๋Š๋‚Œ๋„ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์™„์ „ํ•˜๊ณ  ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์„ฑ์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:32
Hollow. When something is hollow, it's empty,ย  the hollow tree. So when a tree falls down inย ย 
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๊ตฌ๋ฉ. ์†์ด ๋น„์–ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์†์ด ๋นˆ ๋‚˜๋ฌด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ˆฒ์—์„œ ๋‚˜๋ฌด๊ฐ€ ์“ฐ๋Ÿฌ์ง€๋ฉด
10:38
the forest, and over the years, theย  inside of the tree rots and decays,ย ย 
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์ˆ˜๋…„์— ๊ฑธ์ณ ๋‚˜๋ฌด ๋‚ด๋ถ€๊ฐ€ ์ฉ๊ณ  ์ฉ์–ด ์†์ด ๋น„์–ด ์žˆ๋Š”
10:44
you're left with an empty trunk of the tree whichย  is hollow, okay. The hollow branch where theย ย 
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๋นˆ ๋‚˜๋ฌด ์ค„๊ธฐ๋งŒ ๋‚จ๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
10:50
owl or the bird nests for that the spring. Soย  that... this is a hollow branch, so it's empty.ย ย 
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๊ทธ ๋ด„์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ถ€์—‰์ด๋‚˜ ์ƒˆ๊ฐ€ ๋‘ฅ์ง€๋ฅผ ํŠธ๋Š” ์†์ด ๋นˆ ๊ฐ€์ง€. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ... ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์†์ด ๋นˆ ๊ฐ€์ง€์ด๋ฏ€๋กœ ๋น„์–ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:58
So when a relationship is hollow, itย  means it's empty, there's no love,ย ย 
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ๊ณตํ—ˆํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ณตํ—ˆํ•จ, ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ด ์—†์Œ,
11:03
there's no respect, there are no feelings.ย  Well, of course, there may be feelings,ย ย 
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์กด์ค‘์ด ์—†์Œ, ๊ฐ์ •์ด ์—†์Œ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ญ, ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ฐ์ •์ด ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
11:07
but the feelings may not be positive, so they areย  negative feelings, and you feel hollow inside.
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๊ทธ ๊ฐ์ •์ด ๊ธ์ •์ ์ด์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฐ์ •์ด๊ณ  ์†์ด ํ…… ๋นˆ ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด๋‹ค.
11:12
So when we have this empty feeling within aย  relationship, we feel that there's nobody lovingย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ๋‚ด์—์„œ ์ด ๊ณตํ—ˆํ•จ์„ ๋Š๋‚„ ๋•Œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์•„๋ฌด๋„
11:18
us or caring or bothered about us. And if there'sย  a problem, then we seem to be dealing with theย ย 
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋Œ๋ณด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ท€์ฐฎ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ €ํฌ๊ฐ€ ์•Œ์•„์„œ ํ•ด๊ฒฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:24
problem on our own. So it is and the relationshipย  is completely and totally hollow or empty.
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. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ์™„์ „ํžˆ ๊ณตํ—ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:31
A hollow sound is an empty sound, you know, ifย  you stand at the mouth of a cave and you shout,ย ย 
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์†์ด ๋นˆ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋นˆ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋™๊ตด ์ž…๊ตฌ์— ์„œ์„œ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ง€๋ฅด๋ฉด
11:37
you get the echo or the noise, reverberates onย  bounces off the walls because it is empty. Okay.ย ย 
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๋ฉ”์•„๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์†Œ์Œ์ด ์šธ๋ ค ํผ์ง€๊ณ  ๋ฒฝ์ด ๋น„์–ด ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ฐ˜์‚ฌ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”.
11:44
And that's the feeling when you have a problemย  and you've got a hollow relationship, you mightย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๊ณตํ—ˆํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ์˜ ๋Š๋‚Œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
11:49
as well be talking to yourself because the echoย  will come back because nobody is listening.
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์•„๋ฌด๋„ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ฉ”์•„๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋Œ์•„์˜ฌ ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ํ˜ผ์žฃ๋ง์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‚˜์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:56
Same way with fake the next word fake when aย  relationship is fake, it means false. Okay,ย ย 
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๊ฐ€์งœ์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์งœ์ผ ๋•Œ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ์–ด ๊ฐ€์งœ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ง“์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:02
so it's something that it really isn't, okay. Soย  if somebody tries to present a relationship as aย ย 
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์ •๋ง ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ
12:09
good relationship, but in reality, it's not thenย  it's a fake relationship. If they try to present,ย ย 
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์ข‹์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋กœ ์ œ์‹œํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ€์งœ ๊ด€๊ณ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด
12:15
that they are a loving couple, or that they areย  a couple of care or whatever that might be. Butย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ถ€๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์ปคํ”Œ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ, ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“ . ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜
12:21
deep down both parties to the relationship,ย ย 
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๊ด€๊ณ„์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์–‘์ชฝ ๋‹น์‚ฌ์ž์˜ ๊นŠ์€ ๊ณณ์—์„œ
12:25
know that the relationship isย  not really a true relationship,ย ย 
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๊ทธ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์ง„์‹คํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
12:28
then it is fake. And fake is a copy somethingย  that is not the original, like a fake painting.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ€์งœ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์งœ๋Š” ๊ฐ€์งœ ๊ทธ๋ฆผ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์›๋ณธ์ด ์•„๋‹Œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณต์‚ฌํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:36
Yeah, so you copy some famous painting andย  try to sell it as the original, of course,ย ย 
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๋„ค, ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์œ ๋ช…ํ•œ ๊ทธ๋ฆผ์„ ๋ณต์‚ฌํ•ด์„œ ์›๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ํŒ”๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
12:41
it's not. So it is a fake. It's something thatย  isn't. So you, you can do all you like you canย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ€์งœ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
12:48
airbrush a photograph, you can do whateverย  you wish to but it's not the original. Soย ย 
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์‚ฌ์ง„์„ ์—์–ด๋ธŒ๋Ÿฌ์‹ฑํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์›๋ณธ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ
12:52
it's going to be fake. So relationshipsย  can be fake, they can be false.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ€์งœ์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ๊ฐ€์งœ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๊ฑฐ์ง“์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:58
Dishonest. When a relationship is dishonest, thatย  can really... relate and refer to the person. Ifย ย 
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๋ถ€์ •ํ•œ. ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ๋ถ€์ •์งํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ •๋ง... ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์ฐธ์กฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:05
he or she is done... dishonest. That meansย  they're not being true to their word. Yeah.ย ย 
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๊ทธ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ๋๋‚ฌ๋‹ค๋ฉด... ๋ถ€์ •์งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฆ‰, ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์•ฝ์†์„ ์ง€ํ‚ค์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‘.
13:10
So they tell you something, but then they breakย  their promise. They tell you something, then theyย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์•ฝ์†์„ ์–ด๊น๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งํ•œ ๋‹ค์Œ
13:15
they tell somebody else something different. Soย  they are being dishonest. And in relationship,ย ย 
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ถ€์ •์งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ,
13:22
particularly between two people, if it's supposedย  to be a loving relationship, then one of thoseย ย 
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ํŠนํžˆ ๋‘ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์‚ฌ์ด์—, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ผ๋ฉด
13:28
rules, those unwritten rules of the relationshipย  should be honesty between the two parties.
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, ๊ทธ ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜ ๋ถˆ๋ฌธ์œจ ๊ทœ์น™ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‘ ๋‹น์‚ฌ์ž ์‚ฌ์ด์˜ ์ •์ง์ด์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:33
If somebody's being dishonest, you're they mightย  say of course I love you. Or, of course, we can doย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์ •์งํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
13:39
that. Of course, you can do that. But in reality,ย  they mean something else, then they are beingย ย 
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. ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์˜๋ฏธ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ
13:44
dishonest. And again, this is honest, the wordย  adding the prefix dis- and we saw before in aย ย 
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๋ถ€์ •์งํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ–‰๋™ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ •์งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ ‘๋‘์‚ฌ dis-๋ฅผ ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ์ด์ „์—
13:51
couple of words, we had a dysfunctional speltย  dys-. Now we have dishonest. Spell dis- prefixย ย 
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๋ช‡ ๋‹จ์–ด์—์„œ ๋ณด์•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ์ฒ ์ž๊ฐ€ ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ์ž‘๋™ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” dys-์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ถ€์ •์งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ŠคํŽ  dis- ์ ‘๋‘์‚ฌ
13:59
in front of honest, turns that intoย  the negative adjective. So dishonest.
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์ •์งํ•œ ์•ž์—์„œ ๋ถ€์ • ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ‰๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋ถ€์ •์งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:07
Weak. The relationship is weak, well, then it'sย  the opposite of strong. So it will collapse atย ย 
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์•ฝํ•œ. ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์•ฝํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ฐ•ํ•จ์˜ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
14:13
any sign of trouble now, so if you don't have aย  strong relationship, how are you going to get overย ย 
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์ง€๊ธˆ ๋ฌธ์ œ์˜ ์กฐ์ง์ด ๋ณด์ด๋ฉด ๋ฌด๋„ˆ์งˆ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค๋ฉด
14:18
any troubles, financial troubles, work relatedย  troubles, just general relationship troubles,ย ย 
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๋ฌธ์ œ, ์žฌ์ • ๋ฌธ์ œ, ์—…๋ฌด ๊ด€๋ จ ๋ฌธ์ œ, ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ธ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
14:25
you know, we all go through those issues fromย  time to time. But if the relationship is strong,ย ย 
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์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ•ํ•˜๋ฉด
14:31
then it will withstand any of those pressures.ย  If the relationship is weak, then it's like aย ย 
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์••๋ ฅ์„ ๊ฒฌ๋”œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์•ฝํ•˜๋ฉด
14:37
wet handshake. It's not really worth anythingย  yet, okay. So, weak means something that cannotย ย 
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์ –์€ ์•…์ˆ˜์™€ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„์ง์€ ์•„๋ฌด ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์•ฝํ•จ์ด๋ž€
14:43
stand any tension, cannot stand any pressure andย  when the pressure comes, the relationship willย ย 
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์–ด๋–ค ๊ธด์žฅ๋„ ๊ฒฌ๋””์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ณ  ์–ด๋–ค ์••๋ ฅ๋„ ๊ฒฌ๋””์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ณ  ์••๋ ฅ์ด ๊ฐ€ํ•ด์ง€๋ฉด ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€
14:50
collapse or it will breakย  because it is fundamentally weak.
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๋ฌด๋„ˆ์ง€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊นจ์ง€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทผ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์•ฝํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:56
Stable, a stable relationship is something that isย  is flat, it is even. It's not up and down. Okay,ย ย 
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์•ˆ์ •์ ์ด๊ณ  ์•ˆ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ํ‰ํ‰ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ท ์ผํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์œ„์•„๋ž˜๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:04
it's a stable. Yeah, we get through life becauseย  we have built stability around our lives,ย ย 
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๋งˆ๊ตฌ๊ฐ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์‚ถ์˜ ์•ˆ์ •,
15:09
stability in relation to our working life,ย  stability in relation to our employment, stabilityย ย 
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์ง์žฅ ์ƒํ™œ์˜ ์•ˆ์ •, ๊ณ ์šฉ์˜ ์•ˆ์ •,
15:15
in relation to our... how we relate to ourย  family, and above all, stability in our personalย ย 
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๊ฐ€์กฑ์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค๋„ ์•ˆ์ •์„ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ–ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์‚ถ์„ ์‚ด์•„๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ
15:22
relationships. So something that is rocky goesย  up and down, okay. Or like this... A rocky tableย ย 
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๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ฐ”์œ„ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์œ„์•„๋ž˜๋กœ ์›€์ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜๋Š” ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ... ๋ฐ”์œ„ ํ…Œ์ด๋ธ”์ด
15:29
moves from side to side. But something stable isย  even, it's flat, you know exactly where you are.
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์ขŒ์šฐ๋กœ ์›€์ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์•ˆ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์€ ํ‰ํ‰ํ•˜๊ณ  ํ‰ํ‰ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž์‹ ์ด ์–ด๋””์— ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์ •ํ™•ํžˆ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:36
Now, of course, in most relationships gets aย  little bit boring if it's stable all the time,ย ย 
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์•ˆ์ •์ ์ด๊ณ 
15:41
and there's no little sign of excitement. Soย ย 
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ํฅ๋ถ„์˜ ์ง•ํ›„๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค๋ฉด ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ์ง€๋ฃจํ•ด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
15:43
from time to time, you have to jizz andย  jazz up the relationship a little bit inย ย 
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๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜
15:48
introduce a little bit of excitement.ย  That's okay, that's what people expect.ย ย 
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ํฅ๋ถ„์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ํ™œ๊ธฐ์ฐจ๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์š”, ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:53
But it doesn't take away from the fact that thereย  is genuine stability in the relationship. Stable,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„์— ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ์•ˆ์ •์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•ˆ์ •์ ์ด๊ณ 
15:59
even, something that can survive the ups and downsย  of life, and particularly in the modern life.
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์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด๋Š” ์‚ถ์˜ ํฅ๋ง์„ฑ์‡ , ํŠนํžˆ ํ˜„๋Œ€ ์ƒํ™œ์—์„œ ์‚ด์•„๋‚จ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:07
And then finally, solid, it's a bit like stable.ย  Solid is dependable, okay. The table is solid,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฌ๊ณ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ์•ˆ์ •์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์†”๋ฆฌ๋“œ๋Š” ์‹ ๋ขฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ…Œ์ด๋ธ”์€ ๋‹จ๋‹จํ•˜๊ณ 
16:13
the wall is solid. So when something is solid,ย ย 
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๋ฒฝ์€ ๋‹จ๋‹จํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๊ฒฌ๊ณ ํ•˜๊ณ 
16:17
and you're built on a solid foundation, thenย  the relationship will withstand pressure points,ย ย 
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๊ฒฌ๊ณ ํ•œ ํ† ๋Œ€ ์œ„์— ๊ตฌ์ถ•๋˜๋ฉด ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ์••๋ฐ•์ ์„ ๊ฒฌ๋”œ
16:23
it will be able to survive the argument, itย  will be able to survive the disagreement, theย ย 
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์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋…ผ์Ÿ์—์„œ ์‚ด์•„๋‚จ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋ถˆ์ผ์น˜,
16:29
financial crisis, whatever the crisisย  that will happen from time to time.
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๊ธˆ์œต ์œ„๊ธฐ, ์œ„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ์‚ด์•„๋‚จ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ˆ˜์‹œ๋กœ ์ผ์–ด๋‚  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:33
Well, that's all about relationships. Andย  remember, this is about adjectives relatingย ย 
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„์™€ ๊ด€๋ จ๋œ ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
16:37
to relationships, I'm not giving you aย  relationship advice, I am the last oneย ย 
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. ์ €๋Š” ๊ด€๊ณ„์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
16:40
to do that. But it's about the English,ย  the adjectives you can use to describeย ย 
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. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
16:45
the relationships that you might have withย  family and friends or work colleagues.
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๊ฐ€์กฑ, ์นœ๊ตฌ ๋˜๋Š” ์ง์žฅ ๋™๋ฃŒ์™€ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ์ธ ์˜์–ด์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:49
So let me give them to you one more time.ย  Supportive, distant, tight-knit, caring,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๋” ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ฃผ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง€์ง€์ , ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ, ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ, ๋ฐฐ๋ ค์‹ฌ, ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•จ, ๊ธด์žฅ, ์—ญ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ, ๋ถˆ์„ฑ์‹ค, ๊ณตํ—ˆํ•จ, ๊ฐ€์งœ,
17:00
close, tense, dysfunctional, insincere,ย ย 
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17:08
hollow, fake, dishonest, weak,ย  stable, and finally solid. As always,
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๋ถ€์ •์ง, ์•ฝํ•จ, ์•ˆ์ •์ , ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฌ๊ณ ํ•จ. ์–ธ์ œ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋“ฏ,
17:17
and as I always say, if you want to contact meย  in relation to anything and to make some commentsย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ œ๊ฐ€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ, ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ๊ด€๋ จํ•˜์—ฌ ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ์—ฐ๋ฝํ•˜๊ณ  ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ
17:22
or some suggestions for future lessons, and youย  can do so on www.englishlessonviaskype.com. I'llย ย 
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๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ–ฅํ›„ ์ˆ˜์—…์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด www.englishlessonviaskype.com์—์„œ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ œ๊ฐ€
17:30
read them and listen to them. Certainly includeย  any suggestions that are worth including. Andย ย 
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์ฝ๊ณ  ๋“ฃ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํฌํ•จํ•  ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ํ™•์‹คํžˆ ํฌํ•จํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
17:36
as always, if you or any family member or friendsย  you think want to have English lessons to improveย ย 
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋“ฏ์ด ๊ท€ํ•˜ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ด๋‚˜ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์˜์–ด ํšŒํ™”๋ฅผ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œํ‚ค๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ฐ›๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
17:41
your conversational English, or whether it'sย  to prepare for an exam like IELTS or CAE,ย ย 
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IELTS ๋˜๋Š” CAE์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์‹œํ—˜์„ ์ค€๋น„ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
17:47
or to prepare for that very, very importantย  first or second stage job interview with anย ย 
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๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋˜๋Š” ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ๋‹ค๊ตญ์  ๊ธฐ์—…๊ณผ์˜ ๋ฉด์ ‘ ๋‹จ๊ณ„
17:52
international company. But you know where we are,ย  we got lots of teachers willing and able to helpย ย 
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋””์— ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์•„์‹œ์ฃ ? ๊ธฐ๊บผ์ด ๋„์™€์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋งŽ์€ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
17:57
you. And indeed, if you want a free trial lessonย  with me that fill in the form, send it to us,ย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์–‘์‹์„ ์ž‘์„ฑํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ ํ‰๊ฐ€ํŒ ๊ฐ•์˜๋ฅผ ์›ํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์ €ํฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ณด๋‚ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด
18:02
and I'll contact you as always, we really, reallyย  appreciate you taking the time to subscribe to theย ย 
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์–ธ์ œ๋‚˜์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์—ฐ๋ฝ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋‚ด์–ด ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•ด ์ฃผ์…”์„œ ์ •๋ง ์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
18:08
channel. We really appreciate it when you joinย  us and I look forward to seeing you again soon.
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. ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์‚ฌ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋ฉฐ ๊ณง ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋ต™๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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