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focus on things like grammar or phrasal verbs and you don't have

phrasal verbs and you don't have

phrasal verbs and you don't have to listen to me speaking to

to listen to me speaking to

to listen to me speaking to quickly like I do in this series

quickly like I do in this series

quickly like I do in this series so if your understanding that

so if your understanding that

so if your understanding that and you're ready to begin let's

and you're ready to begin let's

and you're ready to begin let's get into the lesson today I got

get into the lesson today I got

get into the lesson today I got a really interesting email from

a really interesting email from

a really interesting email from a student and it's kind of a

a student and it's kind of a

a student and it's kind of a part of a theme of emails that i

part of a theme of emails that i

part of a theme of emails that i tend to receive from people and

tend to receive from people and

tend to receive from people and again I talk about psychology a

again I talk about psychology a

again I talk about psychology a lot so i'll be talking about

lot so i'll be talking about

lot so i'll be talking about psychology in this video well

psychology in this video well

psychology in this video well the mail was talking about how

the mail was talking about how

the mail was talking about how this this learner

this this learner

this this learner she's really enjoying master

she's really enjoying master

she's really enjoying master English conversation so I was

English conversation so I was

English conversation so I was happy to hear that but one thing

happy to hear that but one thing

happy to hear that but one thing I was not so happy to hear about

I was not so happy to hear about

I was not so happy to hear about is that when she was younger she

is that when she was younger she

is that when she was younger she heard that you know if you would

heard that you know if you would

heard that you know if you would not learn English as a two three

not learn English as a two three

not learn English as a two three or four year old child then it's

or four year old child then it's

or four year old child then it's almost impossible to learn it as

almost impossible to learn it as

almost impossible to learn it as you get older

you get older

you get older so this is what some experts

so this is what some experts

so this is what some experts have told people before now i

have told people before now i

have told people before now i have to be kind of careful about

have to be kind of careful about

have to be kind of careful about this topic because I am an

this topic because I am an

this topic because I am an expert about my particular thing

expert about my particular thing

expert about my particular thing my particular field which

my particular field which

my particular field which happens to be fluency and

happens to be fluency and

happens to be fluency and specifically speaking confidence

specifically speaking confidence

specifically speaking confidence so not just being able to speak

so not just being able to speak

so not just being able to speak the language but how can you get

the language but how can you get

the language but how can you get out and meet people that you

out and meet people that you

out and meet people that you don't know and start

don't know and start

don't know and start conversations with them and be

conversations with them and be

conversations with them and be able to actually speak

able to actually speak

able to actually speak confidently

confidently

confidently so that's my expertise and what

so that's my expertise and what

so that's my expertise and what I do but what i like to be very

I do but what i like to be very

I do but what i like to be very specific about is that I only

specific about is that I only

specific about is that I only try to talk to learners about

try to talk to learners about

try to talk to learners about what they can do and I really

what they can do and I really

what they can do and I really ever I don't know maybe you can

ever I don't know maybe you can

ever I don't know maybe you can correct me if I'm wrong if

correct me if I'm wrong if

correct me if I'm wrong if you've heard me say this before

you've heard me say this before

you've heard me say this before but I rarely ever

but I rarely ever

but I rarely ever if ever tell people what they

if ever tell people what they

if ever tell people what they can't do

can't do

can't do now even though i think i may be

now even though i think i may be

now even though i think i may be pretty smart i know i'm not you

pretty smart i know i'm not you

pretty smart i know i'm not you know the the most amazing genius

know the the most amazing genius

know the the most amazing genius on the planet

on the planet

on the planet so I'm sure there are plenty of

so I'm sure there are plenty of

so I'm sure there are plenty of things I don't know and even

things I don't know and even

things I don't know and even with learning english i'm always

with learning english i'm always

with learning english i'm always trying to learn new things every

trying to learn new things every

trying to learn new things every day I spend I don't know how

day I spend I don't know how

day I spend I don't know how many hours a day I spent working

many hours a day I spent working

many hours a day I spent working in trying developing new

in trying developing new

in trying developing new techniques and creating new

techniques and creating new

techniques and creating new courses and all kinds of things

courses and all kinds of things

courses and all kinds of things because i know there's always

because i know there's always

because i know there's always more we can learn and even you

more we can learn and even you

more we can learn and even you know most of the progress that

know most of the progress that

know most of the progress that happens in life it could be

happens in life it could be

happens in life it could be maybe what different companies

maybe what different companies

maybe what different companies produce other things like that

produce other things like that

produce other things like that but most of the companies that

but most of the companies that

but most of the companies that produce things or most of the

produce things or most of the

produce things or most of the the new products that are

the new products that are

the new products that are produced or you know new classes

produced or you know new classes

produced or you know new classes or new lessons or new techniques

or new lessons or new techniques

or new lessons or new techniques for learning whatever those

for learning whatever those

for learning whatever those things are most of them are

things are most of them are

things are most of them are small slight additions or

small slight additions or

small slight additions or changes or slight improvements

changes or slight improvements

changes or slight improvements on things that are kind of

on things that are kind of

on things that are kind of already working pretty well so

already working pretty well so

already working pretty well so that's why you see most new car

that's why you see most new car

that's why you see most new car commercials it's you know

commercials it's you know

commercials it's you know they're talking about a new

they're talking about a new

they're talking about a new sliding door that opens with the

sliding door that opens with the

sliding door that opens with the push of a button or you know

push of a button or you know

push of a button or you know some slightly larger amount of

some slightly larger amount of

some slightly larger amount of space in a car or something like

space in a car or something like

space in a car or something like that because really there's not

that because really there's not

that because really there's not much difference so I kind of

much difference so I kind of

much difference so I kind of feel bad for car companies

feel bad for car companies

feel bad for car companies because you know unless they

because you know unless they

because you know unless they create a flying car or something

create a flying car or something

create a flying car or something like that you know they're

like that you know they're

like that you know they're they're not really going to have

they're not really going to have

they're not really going to have much something new and

much something new and

much something new and interesting to talk about sorry

interesting to talk about sorry

interesting to talk about sorry i feel kind of bad for them but

i feel kind of bad for them but

i feel kind of bad for them but talking about all these things

talking about all these things

talking about all these things about the there's kind of a

about the there's kind of a

about the there's kind of a couple of different problems

couple of different problems

couple of different problems with this thing number one is

with this thing number one is

with this thing number one is that we see very clearly that

that we see very clearly that

that we see very clearly that the things you tell two children

the things you tell two children

the things you tell two children so people that are very young or

so people that are very young or

so people that are very young or even when you're just beginning

even when you're just beginning

even when you're just beginning to learn something so even as an

to learn something so even as an

to learn something so even as an adult you know let's say you're

adult you know let's say you're

adult you know let's say you're learning computer programming or

learning computer programming or

learning computer programming or something like that

something like that

something like that if I tell you and you're you

if I tell you and you're you

if I tell you and you're you know even 30 years old and say

know even 30 years old and say

know even 30 years old and say oh you can't do this with a

oh you can't do this with a

oh you can't do this with a particular kind of code or

particular kind of code or

particular kind of code or something like that

something like that

something like that now as soon as I tell you that

now as soon as I tell you that

now as soon as I tell you that then your brain shuts off you

then your brain shuts off you

then your brain shuts off you think okay I don't have to think

think okay I don't have to think

think okay I don't have to think about that anymore because I

about that anymore because I

about that anymore because I know I can't do that particular

know I can't do that particular

know I can't do that particular thing and that it is

thing and that it is

thing and that it is anytime you hear that word can't

anytime you hear that word can't

anytime you hear that word can't it closes your mind off and i

it closes your mind off and i

it closes your mind off and i believe i've talked about this

believe i've talked about this

believe i've talked about this before i made another advanced

before i made another advanced

before i made another advanced listening practice lesson about

listening practice lesson about

listening practice lesson about this when I was talking about

this when I was talking about

this when I was talking about the kind of language you should

the kind of language you should

the kind of language you should be using with your kids so I was

be using with your kids so I was

be using with your kids so I was giving the example after I'd

giving the example after I'd

giving the example after I'd spoken with a friend of mine

spoken with a friend of mine

spoken with a friend of mine about you know like he's he

about you know like he's he

about you know like he's he actually just had his son and so

actually just had his son and so

actually just had his son and so I have a daughter and we were

I have a daughter and we were

I have a daughter and we were talking about how we be raising

talking about how we be raising

talking about how we be raising them and we were talking about

them and we were talking about

them and we were talking about whether or not you should use

whether or not you should use

whether or not you should use curse words so things like

curse words so things like

curse words so things like fucking shit and other things

fucking shit and other things

fucking shit and other things like that in front of your

like that in front of your

like that in front of your children and we both agreed well

children and we both agreed well

children and we both agreed well maybe it's not such a bad idea

maybe it's not such a bad idea

maybe it's not such a bad idea to use those things but you know

to use those things but you know

to use those things but you know there's obviously worse things

there's obviously worse things

there's obviously worse things you could do but the more

you could do but the more

you could do but the more important thing was not really

important thing was not really

important thing was not really saying anything like no you

saying anything like no you

saying anything like no you can't do that

can't do that

can't do that like especially we don't have

like especially we don't have

like especially we don't have enough money so we're not able

enough money so we're not able

enough money so we're not able to afford this kind of thing or

to afford this kind of thing or

to afford this kind of thing or something like that

something like that

something like that so you you're really not

so you you're really not

so you you're really not supposed to be released in my

supposed to be released in my

supposed to be released in my opinion or our opinion when we

opinion or our opinion when we

opinion or our opinion when we were discussing it

were discussing it

were discussing it instead of thinking about what

instead of thinking about what

instead of thinking about what you can or can't do you begin

you can or can't do you begin

you can or can't do you begin with how are you begin with kind

with how are you begin with kind

with how are you begin with kind of like what you want and then

of like what you want and then

of like what you want and then the how comes from that so you

the how comes from that so you

the how comes from that so you decide okay i really like to

decide okay i really like to

decide okay i really like to purchase that expensive car and

purchase that expensive car and

purchase that expensive car and maybe I don't have enough money

maybe I don't have enough money

maybe I don't have enough money right now but if I begin

right now but if I begin

right now but if I begin thinking about how i can

thinking about how i can

thinking about how i can purchase something and really

purchase something and really

purchase something and really focus on the thing that I want

focus on the thing that I want

focus on the thing that I want the path to getting that thing

the path to getting that thing

the path to getting that thing makes itself available to meet

makes itself available to meet

makes itself available to meet so i really felt bad and like I

so i really felt bad and like I

so i really felt bad and like I have to come back

have to come back

have to come back this comm dat there are two

this comm dat there are two

this comm dat there are two pronunciations of this word

pronunciations of this word

pronunciations of this word combat is like the noun form of

combat is like the noun form of

combat is like the noun form of it where you're talking about

it where you're talking about

it where you're talking about battling things and the verb

battling things and the verb

battling things and the verb form is to come back to combat

form is to come back to combat

form is to come back to combat something so if you have to

something so if you have to

something so if you have to fight against something like in

fight against something like in

fight against something like in my case I have to fight against

my case I have to fight against

my case I have to fight against the psychological foundation of

the psychological foundation of

the psychological foundation of learning that most students have

learning that most students have

learning that most students have so they're thinking well my my

so they're thinking well my my

so they're thinking well my my expert or my teacher or my

expert or my teacher or my

expert or my teacher or my parents or somebody told me that

parents or somebody told me that

parents or somebody told me that because I have learned in this

because I have learned in this

because I have learned in this way that I can't do this other

way that I can't do this other

way that I can't do this other thing over here now people argue

thing over here now people argue

thing over here now people argue with me you know I it's okay i

with me you know I it's okay i

with me you know I it's okay i understand that people want to

understand that people want to

understand that people want to say oh well you know this

say oh well you know this

say oh well you know this particular thing doesn't work

particular thing doesn't work

particular thing doesn't work for me or this thing like we're

for me or this thing like we're

for me or this thing like we're not able to do that or something

not able to do that or something

not able to do that or something like that but more often than

like that but more often than

like that but more often than not the people that say you

not the people that say you

not the people that say you can't do something I've already

can't do something I've already

can't do something I've already closed off their mind to

closed off their mind to

closed off their mind to believing that something can be

believing that something can be

believing that something can be done so i wanted to talk kind of

done so i wanted to talk kind of

done so i wanted to talk kind of quickly about this and and

quickly about this and and

quickly about this and and really open your own mind up to

really open your own mind up to

really open your own mind up to this just to give you the idea

this just to give you the idea

this just to give you the idea that number one if you're not

that number one if you're not

that number one if you're not all-powerful all-knowing that

all-powerful all-knowing that

all-powerful all-knowing that there are probably many things

there are probably many things

there are probably many things you know about but many more

you know about but many more

you know about but many more that you don't know about

that you don't know about

that you don't know about so it's kind of behooves you

so it's kind of behooves you

so it's kind of behooves you this work to be who would like

this work to be who would like

this work to be who would like means that you know you should

means that you know you should

means that you know you should do something

do something

do something kind of recommending it to you

kind of recommending it to you

kind of recommending it to you but it behooves you to keep your

but it behooves you to keep your

but it behooves you to keep your mind open and to try listening

mind open and to try listening

mind open and to try listening to new things even if they sound

to new things even if they sound

to new things even if they sound a little bit strange or weird

a little bit strange or weird

a little bit strange or weird because this is how we learn and

because this is how we learn and

because this is how we learn and I often have to talk about this

I often have to talk about this

I often have to talk about this because the way I teach people

because the way I teach people

because the way I teach people is quite a bit different from

is quite a bit different from

is quite a bit different from what people are normally used to

what people are normally used to

what people are normally used to when they were thinking about

when they were thinking about

when they were thinking about learning a language anyway so

learning a language anyway so

learning a language anyway so get back to this

get back to this

get back to this getting back to the story about

getting back to the story about

getting back to the story about the student so she was saying

the student so she was saying

the student so she was saying yeah I like i enjoy the program

yeah I like i enjoy the program

yeah I like i enjoy the program but you know it's it's been kind

but you know it's it's been kind

but you know it's it's been kind of a struggle for me thinking

of a struggle for me thinking

of a struggle for me thinking that I couldn't learn even

that I couldn't learn even

that I couldn't learn even though i did well on tests

though i did well on tests

though i did well on tests because i was thinking in my

because i was thinking in my

because i was thinking in my mind that will it i guess it's

mind that will it i guess it's

mind that will it i guess it's not possible trying to learn the

not possible trying to learn the

not possible trying to learn the language as an adult in this way

language as an adult in this way

language as an adult in this way and now she's seeing you using

and now she's seeing you using

and now she's seeing you using the program and just continuing

the program and just continuing

the program and just continuing to practice she's changed the

to practice she's changed the

to practice she's changed the way she's thought and now that's

way she's thought and now that's

way she's thought and now that's going to really help her

going to really help her

going to really help her china really really learn things

china really really learn things

china really really learn things in a new way and actually start

in a new way and actually start

in a new way and actually start saying a lot more progress

saying a lot more progress

saying a lot more progress so it begins with the

so it begins with the

so it begins with the psychological open-mindedness

psychological open-mindedness

psychological open-mindedness open-mindedness to keep your

open-mindedness to keep your

open-mindedness to keep your mind open and be willing to try

mind open and be willing to try

mind open and be willing to try new things and then that's where

new things and then that's where

new things and then that's where the progress comes from so once

the progress comes from so once

the progress comes from so once you believe you can do something

you believe you can do something

you believe you can do something or at least you're open to the

or at least you're open to the

or at least you're open to the possibility of it

possibility of it

possibility of it that's when things start to take

that's when things start to take

that's when things start to take off now there are lots of

off now there are lots of

off now there are lots of experts in things and basically

experts in things and basically

experts in things and basically the way expertise happens is

the way expertise happens is

the way expertise happens is that you developed you know you

that you developed you know you

that you developed you know you do something a long time and you

do something a long time and you

do something a long time and you begin to learn like really

begin to learn like really

begin to learn like really really tiny things about that

really tiny things about that

really tiny things about that that it's a it's a good thing

that it's a it's a good thing

that it's a it's a good thing because it teaches you a lot

because it teaches you a lot

because it teaches you a lot about how to do something so i

about how to do something so i

about how to do something so i know all these like very very

know all these like very very

know all these like very very tiny things about fluency and

tiny things about fluency and

tiny things about fluency and like I don't even talk about I

like I don't even talk about I

like I don't even talk about I don't like one-tenth of all the

don't like one-tenth of all the

don't like one-tenth of all the things i know about it just from

things i know about it just from

things i know about it just from having practiced in learning

having practiced in learning

having practiced in learning about new things and like i said

about new things and like i said

about new things and like i said before that's what I spend my

before that's what I spend my

before that's what I spend my time doing it just like a

time doing it just like a

time doing it just like a passion of mine to help people

passion of mine to help people

passion of mine to help people learn and I really enjoy this

learn and I really enjoy this

learn and I really enjoy this problem of how can we take all

problem of how can we take all

problem of how can we take all the people on the planet and

the people on the planet and

the people on the planet and help them get fluid if they want

help them get fluid if they want

help them get fluid if they want to

to

to so anyway yeah thinking about

so anyway yeah thinking about

so anyway yeah thinking about that the kind of problem with

that the kind of problem with

that the kind of problem with expertise is that when you think

expertise is that when you think

expertise is that when you think you're figuring something out

you're figuring something out

you're figuring something out one way and then something new

one way and then something new

one way and then something new comes along your yet your first

comes along your yet your first

comes along your yet your first like well we should reject that

like well we should reject that

like well we should reject that thing because i thought it's not

thing because i thought it's not

thing because i thought it's not it's not something that could go

it's not something that could go

it's not something that could go into my mind like that

into my mind like that

into my mind like that so even as an expert myself I

so even as an expert myself I

so even as an expert myself I have to be very careful about

have to be very careful about

have to be very careful about that and that's exactly why I

that and that's exactly why I

that and that's exactly why I don't say oh you can't do that

don't say oh you can't do that

don't say oh you can't do that so if the learner comes to me

so if the learner comes to me

so if the learner comes to me and says all like I really enjoy

and says all like I really enjoy

and says all like I really enjoy your method but maybe I've

your method but maybe I've

your method but maybe I've learned something from some

learned something from some

learned something from some other thing is a fantastic

other thing is a fantastic

other thing is a fantastic that's great i don't think that

that's great i don't think that

that's great i don't think that like my method is like the only

like my method is like the only

like my method is like the only way to learn the language and

way to learn the language and

way to learn the language and there's nothing else you can do

there's nothing else you can do

there's nothing else you can do so lots of different people try

so lots of different people try

so lots of different people try different things and I think

different things and I think

different things and I think that's fantastic

that's fantastic

that's fantastic it's just a way that you should

it's just a way that you should

it's just a way that you should continue to keep your mind open

continue to keep your mind open

continue to keep your mind open and that's the thing that's

and that's the thing that's

and that's the thing that's going to help you get fluent

going to help you get fluent

going to help you get fluent because the more your mind is

because the more your mind is

because the more your mind is open the more you're open to

open the more you're open to

open the more you're open to trying different things and then

trying different things and then

trying different things and then like a scientist you experiment

like a scientist you experiment

like a scientist you experiment try a couple of different things

try a couple of different things

try a couple of different things see what works and you continue

see what works and you continue

see what works and you continue what does work and then

what does work and then

what does work and then discontinued what doesn't

discontinued what doesn't

discontinued what doesn't so i'll just give you one quick

so i'll just give you one quick

so i'll just give you one quick story about this just to remind

story about this just to remind

story about this just to remind you that even something that

you that even something that

you that even something that seems like a very basic thing

seems like a very basic thing

seems like a very basic thing you know people do it and a

you know people do it and a

you know people do it and a perfect it to a certain level

perfect it to a certain level

perfect it to a certain level and they think well I guess we

and they think well I guess we

and they think well I guess we can't get better than that and

can't get better than that and

can't get better than that and then somebody comes along so

then somebody comes along so

then somebody comes along so somebody appears and takes it to

somebody appears and takes it to

somebody appears and takes it to a new level

a new level

a new level so that's what i'm trying to do

so that's what i'm trying to do

so that's what i'm trying to do with fluency as well people are

with fluency as well people are

with fluency as well people are thinking like well we've

thinking like well we've

thinking like well we've developed all these methods and

developed all these methods and

developed all these methods and we kind of know what to do and

we kind of know what to do and

we kind of know what to do and then I'm trying to do this up

then I'm trying to do this up

then I'm trying to do this up here to show that like it really

here to show that like it really

here to show that like it really is possible to learn things in a

is possible to learn things in a

is possible to learn things in a different way

different way

different way anyway so this is a story from

anyway so this is a story from

anyway so this is a story from the Olympics so there's this guy

the Olympics so there's this guy

the Olympics so there's this guy named dick Fosbury and paws

named dick Fosbury and paws

named dick Fosbury and paws burry was a like a high jumper

burry was a like a high jumper

burry was a like a high jumper so you would like run and try to

so you would like run and try to

so you would like run and try to jump over the the flat bar and

jump over the the flat bar and

jump over the the flat bar and he developed a new way of

he developed a new way of

he developed a new way of jumping called the FA's burry

jumping called the FA's burry

jumping called the FA's burry flop and so instead of running

flop and so instead of running

flop and so instead of running and kind of jumping over maybe

and kind of jumping over maybe

and kind of jumping over maybe with his legs up like that

with his legs up like that

with his legs up like that something like that he turned on

something like that he turned on

something like that he turned on his back and he kind of flipped

his back and he kind of flipped

his back and he kind of flipped over and arches back over the

over and arches back over the

over and arches back over the bar which enabled him to get

bar which enabled him to get

bar which enabled him to get over the bar a little bit higher

over the bar a little bit higher

over the bar a little bit higher and when people saw that they

and when people saw that they

and when people saw that they were like wow that's mean it's

were like wow that's mean it's

were like wow that's mean it's pretty cool and that's what the

pretty cool and that's what the

pretty cool and that's what the standard thing most people do

standard thing most people do

standard thing most people do now

now

now so it was different so at first

so it was different so at first

so it was different so at first people are looking at that like

people are looking at that like

people are looking at that like wow is that legal can you do

wow is that legal can you do

wow is that legal can you do that can you can you jump over

that can you can you jump over

that can you can you jump over the bar that way but you know

the bar that way but you know

the bar that way but you know that was again at the beginning

that was again at the beginning

that was again at the beginning people reject something new this

people reject something new this

people reject something new this is just the typical thing that

is just the typical thing that

is just the typical thing that happens

happens

happens so if you are the kind of person

so if you are the kind of person

so if you are the kind of person it's open minded about things

it's open minded about things

it's open minded about things like that you could see

like that you could see

like that you could see something and think wow

something and think wow

something and think wow like instead of just rejecting

like instead of just rejecting

like instead of just rejecting it or thinking like oh we can't

it or thinking like oh we can't

it or thinking like oh we can't do that thing even though you're

do that thing even though you're

do that thing even though you're seeing somebody actually doing

seeing somebody actually doing

seeing somebody actually doing it in front of your eyes

it in front of your eyes

it in front of your eyes that's going to make your

that's going to make your

that's going to make your progress much slower depending

progress much slower depending

progress much slower depending on I guess whatever it is you're

on I guess whatever it is you're

on I guess whatever it is you're interested in whether that's

interested in whether that's

interested in whether that's fluency or something else

fluency or something else

fluency or something else so in the case of Fosbury

so in the case of Fosbury

so in the case of Fosbury there's kind of other elements

there's kind of other elements

there's kind of other elements around that that made it

around that that made it

around that that made it possible for him to do something

possible for him to do something

possible for him to do something different one of those and maybe

different one of those and maybe

different one of those and maybe like you know even me having to

like you know even me having to

like you know even me having to like research the story a little

like research the story a little

like research the story a little bit

bit

bit but i just thought it was really

but i just thought it was really

but i just thought it was really fascinating is that my

fascinating is that my

fascinating is that my originally like people were

originally like people were

originally like people were doing the high jump and when you

doing the high jump and when you

doing the high jump and when you jump on the other side that

jump on the other side that

jump on the other side that really big soft matte they use

really big soft matte they use

really big soft matte they use was not there before so you have

was not there before so you have

was not there before so you have to think about clearing the the

to think about clearing the the

to think about clearing the the high bar but also thinking about

high bar but also thinking about

high bar but also thinking about what you're going to do when you

what you're going to do when you

what you're going to do when you get over like over the bar and

get over like over the bar and

get over like over the bar and onto the other side

onto the other side

onto the other side so either you have to land on

so either you have to land on

so either you have to land on your feet there's like a pit of

your feet there's like a pit of

your feet there's like a pit of sand or something so you could

sand or something so you could

sand or something so you could actually enjoy yourself if you

actually enjoy yourself if you

actually enjoy yourself if you jump really high over that thing

jump really high over that thing

jump really high over that thing and then come down on the other

and then come down on the other

and then come down on the other side

side

side so now people don't have to

so now people don't have to

so now people don't have to think about it but at that time

think about it but at that time

think about it but at that time when people were just starting

when people were just starting

when people were just starting to introduce okay we're gonna

to introduce okay we're gonna

to introduce okay we're gonna have this mat here because

have this mat here because

have this mat here because really the the focus is on

really the the focus is on

really the the focus is on jumping over the bars like who

jumping over the bars like who

jumping over the bars like who really cares what happens on the

really cares what happens on the

really cares what happens on the other side

other side

other side so at that point that you made

so at that point that you made

so at that point that you made it available or made it possible

it available or made it possible

it available or made it possible for people to think in a new way

for people to think in a new way

for people to think in a new way so that's why I try to make

so that's why I try to make

so that's why I try to make things available or make things

things available or make things

things available or make things possible for you by creating

possible for you by creating

possible for you by creating different kinds of lessons or

different kinds of lessons or

different kinds of lessons or just researching different

just researching different

just researching different things and figuring out like

things and figuring out like

things and figuring out like from other industries what

from other industries what

from other industries what people are using to solve

people are using to solve

people are using to solve different problems and then I

different problems and then I

different problems and then I try to apply those in language

try to apply those in language

try to apply those in language learning

learning

learning so all these things a whole

so all these things a whole

so all these things a whole point of this is number one

point of this is number one

point of this is number one be careful not only what you

be careful not only what you

be careful not only what you tell yourself but also the

tell yourself but also the

tell yourself but also the things that you tell your

things that you tell your

things that you tell your children about you can't or

children about you can't or

children about you can't or whatever so I talked about that

whatever so I talked about that

whatever so I talked about that like with my wife and you know

like with my wife and you know

like with my wife and you know certainly my daughter so I don't

certainly my daughter so I don't

certainly my daughter so I don't say oh you can't do that i just

say oh you can't do that i just

say oh you can't do that i just think like how can you do that

think like how can you do that

think like how can you do that thing

thing

thing and obviously re is still pretty

and obviously re is still pretty

and obviously re is still pretty young but just getting into that

young but just getting into that

young but just getting into that that habit of explaining what

that habit of explaining what

that habit of explaining what you can do or what you can't do

you can do or what you can't do

you can do or what you can't do it's really important for kids

it's really important for kids

it's really important for kids and then the other thing the

and then the other thing the

and then the other thing the other reason this is important

other reason this is important

other reason this is important is because you really want to

is because you really want to

is because you really want to have an open mind about about

have an open mind about about

have an open mind about about what you can do because the

what you can do because the

what you can do because the moment you think like oh this is

moment you think like oh this is

moment you think like oh this is the best we can do

the best we can do

the best we can do somebody else will come along

somebody else will come along

somebody else will come along and create something better so

and create something better so

and create something better so you're all there's always a

you're all there's always a

you're all there's always a process of learning and getting

process of learning and getting

process of learning and getting much better

much better

much better so the more you keep your mind

so the more you keep your mind

so the more you keep your mind open to those things the more

open to those things the more

open to those things the more you you know you can actually

you you know you can actually

you you know you can actually improve or whatever that happens

improve or whatever that happens

improve or whatever that happens to be whatever the industry or

to be whatever the industry or

to be whatever the industry or the hobby or the topic or

the hobby or the topic or

the hobby or the topic or whatever it is you're studying

whatever it is you're studying

whatever it is you're studying anyway i hope you've enjoyed

anyway i hope you've enjoyed

anyway i hope you've enjoyed this lesson if you have to give

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you want to disagree with me that's just fine as well but you

that's just fine as well but you

that's just fine as well but you don't really think about what

don't really think about what

don't really think about what you can do

you can do

you can do as opposed to what you can't so

as opposed to what you can't so

as opposed to what you can't so get out there think about what's

get out there think about what's

get out there think about what's possible and i will see you in

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always saying trying to improve trying to learn a little bit

trying to learn a little bit

trying to learn a little bit more each time trying to do a

more each time trying to do a

more each time trying to do a little bit better each time

little bit better each time

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