Kung Fu, Star Trek and the Many Paths to Spirituality | Rainn Wilson | TED

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Folks. I wanted to talk a little bit today
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about some of the ideas that are contained in my new book,
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"Soul Boom: Why We Need a Spiritual Revolution."
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But first things first.
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I thought it would be really important to initially define the word "spiritual."
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What do we mean when we say the word "spiritual?"
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Because that means a lot of different things
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to a lot of different people.
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So when you're talking about a spiritual revolution,
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what exactly are we discussing,
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how do we define our terms?
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To a lot of people,
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"spiritual" means ghosts and seances and Ouija boards.
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That's certainly not what I'm talking about.
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To many people,
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"spirituality" or "spiritual" refers to a kind of,
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what I would call a vague feeling in the heart
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while at a yoga class
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or meditating or a crystal or incense or something like that.
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That's also not what I'm talking about.
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I don't mean to insult that spiritual path in the slightest.
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I think it's incredibly important.
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More on that later.
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And to some people,
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the word "spiritual" is synonymous with religious and religion,
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and "spiritual" simply means church on Sundays at 11 am.
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That's also not what I'm talking about.
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I'm going to go right to the source, I'll go to the Oxford Dictionary.
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And spirituality is the "quality of being concerned with the human spirit."
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And in the Cambridge Dictionary,
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it's "the quality that involves deep feelings and beliefs
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of a religious nature rather than the physical parts of life."
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So those are two pretty great definitions.
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And right there, smack dab in the middle is what I'm talking about
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when I say that we need a spiritual revolution.
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So to tiptoe toward some of these larger ideas,
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I need to go back in time.
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I'm throwing myself way back to my childhood in the 1970s,
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and one of the most important words from the 1970s
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is television.
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I was raised by a television, folks,
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like so many of us here in the United States,
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and two of my favorite shows from the 1970s
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kind of reveal what a spiritual path is.
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These two shows are “Kung Fu” and “Star Trek.”
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So I'm going to start with "Kung Fu."
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“Kung Fu,” for those who don’t know, is about Kwai Chang Caine,
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and he is a half-Chinese Shaolin monk,
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practicing in China,
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learning not only martial arts
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but Daoist wisdom, Confucianism
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and Buddhist ideas of wisdom and self-reflection.
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He is then sent out of the monastery, and he goes to the Old West.
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This is set during the 1860s,
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and he is wandering through the West
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and encountering all kinds of unfortunate events
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like racist cowboys and mean people
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and aggressive landowners with shotguns.
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And he is distilling his eastern wisdom and sharing it with people.
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He is learning as he goes.
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He's learning how to be ever more thoughtful and patient
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in the midst of all of these terrible racist cowboys.
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And eventually there's always a kick ass fight.
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To me, "Kung Fu" is incredibly profound.
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I have a section on it in my book
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in which some of the phrases of the show "Kung Fu"
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can be compared to the Bible, to Confucius,
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to the Bhagavad Gita, to the sayings of the Buddha.
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And this is a path that we all walk as spiritual beings.
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We all are seeking to increase our wisdom,
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our kindness, our compassion,
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our patience,
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all of these, what I would call spiritual virtues,
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as we move through the world, we're cultivating these.
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We are beset by tests.
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We have our own version of racist cowboys.
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We have, you know, mean bosses and deadlines and Zoom calls
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and impatient kids,
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and we have to make money and raise our families
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and we have our moral purpose to make ourselves better human beings.
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And that is the "Kung Fu" path.
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And the other path,
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our other part of our moral purpose,
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is to contribute to the well-being
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and maturity and maturation
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and social evolution of humanity as a whole.
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And this is what I would call the "Star Trek" path.
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The "Star Trek" path is, of course, about humans in the future.
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We have created The Federation.
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All the countries are united,
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we're boldly going into outer space and seeking a new life
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and new civilizations.
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But to me, it's a very spiritual television show
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because what has happened on planet Earth
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that they don't talk about very much on "Star Trek"
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is that we've worked out all our problems.
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We have ended income inequality through the power of technology.
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We have solved racism.
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We've ended sexism.
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And we are at peace with nature and with our own nature.
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And this, to me, I see as the other part of the moral, twofold moral path,
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which is our spiritual contribution that we make to our species
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as it grows and matures
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and moves along its journey toward maturation,
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love, harmony, unity in diversity.
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And that's the "Star Trek" path.
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But then ultimately,
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the thesis that I want to build toward
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is how do we look at this more "Star Trek" path?
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How can we use spiritual tools
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to affect societal change at a foundational level?
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So to continue the conversation,
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I want to bring Carla.
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Hi, Carla.
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Carla Zanoni: Hi, Rainn.
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You know, when I read your book
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and when I was just hearing you talking about the "Kung Fu" path,
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which is highly personal, personal development,
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and the societal path of "Star Trek,"
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I was feeling really hungry to hear:
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Do we have any evidence,
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especially for such an evidence-based, science-thinking audience here at TED,
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that this kind of way of thinking can be applied?
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Rainn Wilson: Yes, well, I have a couple of very specific examples.
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So one of the, again, in the second part of the book,
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when I’m getting, kind of digging deeper into the spiritual tools
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used for kind of, societal and social transformation.
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I talk about, at great detail,
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about partisan politics and the election system,
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especially here in the United States.
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We talk about how the other party is wrong and bad and evil and misguided,
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but no one is having a conversation about how the system itself
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is so colossally dysfunctional.
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So we have, what I would call, a really toxic system
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that is ultimately unsustainable as a system.
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I bring up an idea from my personal faith tradition,
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which is the Bahá’í Faith,
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but rather than quote me about it,
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I want to quote the great author Amanda Ripley,
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who wrote a book called "High Conflict,"
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in which she brought out one small part of the Bahá’í tradition,
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which are Bahá’í elections.
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She talks about how in Bahá‘í elections there’s no clergy in the Bahá’í faith.
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So Bahá’ís elect a body to govern each local area
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so the Bahá’ísof Los Angeles every year come together without any electioneering,
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no campaigning, no funds, no money,
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no one suggesting anyone over anyone else,
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and meditatively and prayerfully elect nine people
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to govern the affairs of that community every year.
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And they seek out the people with the most spiritual wisdom
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and the most selflessness to be public servants.
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And my thought is, well, we can't really do that for the United States.
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That seems unrealistic.
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But what if, what if,
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there were a small community, Pancake Flats, Colorado,
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that was tired of all the divisiveness and hyper aggression
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and financial waste from partisan politics,
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and they said, we’re going to do the same thing,
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and we're going to elect five or seven or nine
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or however many town council members to govern the affairs of the city
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and the people that are the most selfless.
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And when we think about it like that
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and we think about a small change happening at a grassroots level,
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you can start to imagine,
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oh yeah, perhaps there is a way to,
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in an entirely new ...
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In an entirely new method to change fundamentally
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how we govern and seek our public servants.
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CZ: I'm wondering,
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like, what do we need to do as individuals to work on ourselves
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so that we can then participate in
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that kind of, societal way of working that you're describing?
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RW: Great question.
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And I am old enough, TED attendees,
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to remember the 1970s,
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and I spoke about television,
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but I also remember the great hippie bumper sticker that said,
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"Let there be peace in the world and let it begin with me,"
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and I also remember when people were actually talking about world peace.
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Nowadays, if you talk about world peace, people roll their eyes,
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and they think you're naive and it'll never happen.
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But I truly believe that we can work towards world peace.
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But you're absolutely right.
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Let there be peace in the world and let it begin with me.
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We have to also, at the same time,
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be working on our “Kung Fu” part of our journey,
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on our personal,
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what I would call spiritual development.
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And you certainly don't need a belief in a higher power to do that.
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But one of the aspects of the book I have at the end,
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I have seven pillars for a spiritual revolution,
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and one of them is virtues education.
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So I believe that we all have spiritual virtues contained in us.
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There are small pieces of the divine, the reflections of God,
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they're reflections of the beautiful creative force
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that courses through the universe.
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They are kindness, humility, patience,
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honor, creativity, love, honesty.
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The list goes on and on.
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And that these need to be cultivated in us and in our children especially.
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And we don't really do that.
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Now I want to just say that, again,
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one doesn't need to have a religious faith
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to look at the these virtues in this way.
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You can simply look at them as positive character traits or leadership qualities,
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and we want to cultivate those in our children
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with or without any kind of religion or spirituality.
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That's up to the parent.
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But, all too often, I've noticed in raising our son that when,
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let's say a child is dishonest and caught in a lie,
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a parent will say,
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"Hey, don't lie.
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It's bad to lie."
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But they will not have done the work to talk about the quality of honesty
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and how important honesty is
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and how honesty manifests in your life
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and how your life can be made better
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and other people's lives can be made better
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through the quality of honesty.
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But the importance of virtues education
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is something that we can do on a personal level,
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we can do it on a family level,
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we can do it in our cul de sac or our condominium.
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We can do it at our local church and we can do it at our local school.
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And it's one of the pillars toward a spiritual revolution.
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CZ: And Rainn, one of the things
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that you talk about so eloquently in the book
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is really pointing to one of many pandemics
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that we're living through,
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including racism, sexism, materialism, climate change.
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You also talk about the mental health pandemic
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and particularly how that applies to young people in our lives.
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RW: So I talk at great length in the book about having spiritual conversations,
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about deep topics that have existed from the dawn of time,
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from the Hindu tradition,
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from the, you know, the Vedas and Upanishads, the Bhagavad Gita,
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through the sayings of the Buddha, the dharma paytas
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through the Bible and the Koran
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and the holy writings of Indigenous faiths as well, and traditions.
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And one of the biggest issues with young people
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in the mental health epidemic has to do with resilience.
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If you ask psychologists,
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there is a lack of resilience in young people.
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So let's break that down a little bit.
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In our contemporary Western culture, we no longer talk about death.
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Death is just, it's taboo, it's forbidden.
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But because we're not talking about death,
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we're also not talking about suffering and the nature of suffering.
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And this is what the Buddha taught.
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You know, “I teach one thing and one thing only,
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suffering and the end of suffering.”
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Guess what? Life is suffering.
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It's filled with disappointment and struggle and conflict
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and heartbreak
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and death of pets, of friends, of relatives, of grandparents.
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The list goes on and on.
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And so this affects young folk
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in a way that they have much less resilience.
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Now, there's much more to the mental health crisis than this.
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This is just one small slice of the pie,
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but it does have to do with why spiritual conversations and spiritual tools
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are so important.
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CZ: And it's interesting,
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I had heard the surgeon general's ...
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discussion about the pandemic of loneliness.
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And it was very striking to me that it is both with young people
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and with our elderly
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and really spanning generations
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and incredibly serious.
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But in your book, as a rhetorical device,
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you propose the creation of a new religion called Soul Boom.
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And in that, in the tenets of that religion,
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you say that science and religion should really live side by side.
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This is a pretty crazy idea, right?
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RW: Such a great and important question.
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And I do believe that...
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Contemporary society has been so toxified by partisanship
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and bifurcated,
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that, for some on the political left,
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any mention of spirituality or spiritual solutions has to do with church,
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which has to do with the political right.
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And any talk about science
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and like, science fixing let’s say, climate change or whatever,
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has to do with a partisanship
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and negativity having to do with the left.
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So we're kind of at each other,
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and what has happened in this, kind of, church versus reason,
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faith versus reason debate
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is we've created a false dichotomy
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that science and religion, science and spirituality, rather,
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are two wings of one bird.
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And that bird is reality.
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That they're not in opposition to each other.
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They are very much in harmony.
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There are two ways of understanding one reality.
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Science understands,
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it's a way of processing data through experimentation.
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And it's also a compilation of the data
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that's been compiled, that has been proven.
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And this is how we're able to have this conversation
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on these laptops with these cameras over the magical interwebs,
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is through the beauty, grandeur, majesty and amazingness of science.
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So what does spirituality do?
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Well, throughout the great wisdom traditions,
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throughout the great faith traditions, not only of the Abrahamic faiths,
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but the eastern faiths,
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the Daoist faiths and the Indigenous faiths,
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spiritual ideas seek to understand
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the reality of what it is to be a human being.
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CZ: You have a very specific prescription of how to connect with nature
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to find that sacredness in life.
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You also talk about some personal, deep experiences
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that you had with that.
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How can we bring the sacred into our lives in, you know,
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our day-to-day lives now?
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RW: Right, so part of the spiritual journey
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and spiritual tools that I'm talking about in the book
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have to do with cultivating a life of deep meaning, purpose,
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satisfaction and well-being.
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So I have a section of the book on sacredness
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because I went on a spiritual pilgrimage in my faith tradition.
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And it was so profoundly moving to me
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that there were shrines and prayer and meditation.
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There was connection to beautiful nature
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with a group of people from all over the world
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going on this same kind of journey together.
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And it was so deeply touching and meaningful.
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And then I got back to my life in Los Angeles
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and everything was like, Zoom meetings and phone calls
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and you know, appointments.
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And I've got to run to Trader Joe's.
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And I was realizing there is a lack of sacredness in my own life.
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And I thought that this might be an interesting cultural conversation,
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like, can we bring the sacred to bear in our daily lives
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in such a way that it fulfills our hearts
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and fills us with meaning and connection
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and transcendence?
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One of the --
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And I talk about how this doesn't necessarily need to be a shrine,
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although it could be a place, for instance,
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right outside my window here,
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I have a wooden bench that I meditate on every morning.
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So to me, that's kind of, a sacred space for me.
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It doesn't need to be a place or a space.
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It could be a pancake breakfast,
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it can be a condition of the heart.
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But nature is a beautiful way to find sacredness.
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And this is something that everyone can agree on.
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The people who are walking a spiritual path
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or those who are agnostic
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or atheist or spiritual but not religious,
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we can always bask in the awe and wonder of nature.
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And I talk about specific ways
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to just simply increase our connection with nature.
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You know, if you go outside three times a week, make it four.
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If you're outside for this many days, do this.
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Like, make sure that you have at least once a year,
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some time in wild nature that's completely off the grid
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because that cultivation of awe and wonder,
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you can look at it as a spiritual experience
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or you can simply look at it as an uplifting experience
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for our nervous systems.
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Putting that aside, let's go back to the "Star Trek" path for a minute.
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Again, the “Star Trek” path is about being part of making humanity deeper,
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better and wiser.
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Don't let your awe and wonder moment end
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simply by an experience in the forest.
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Go back home with your families, your children, your community,
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your condo association, your cul de sac,
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your co-op board,
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do something to help preserve forests,
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do something for nature.
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Get involved in a nonprofit for climate change.
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Save an animal.
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Be a part of making a difference
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by drawing on that powerful well of awe and wonder
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that you have connected with when you stood in a forest,
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watching the sunrise.
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CZ: I think this is a perfect transition to some of our audience questions.
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We have somebody, let's see.
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TED member Diana writes,
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"You briefly mentioned yoga, church.
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If it's not those things,
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what do you recommend that people engage with
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to grow spiritually?"
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And I think connecting it with what you were just saying,
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how do we connect the personal aspect of that spiritual growth
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to then be part of a community, to give back in service,
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to be part of something larger than ourselves?
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What does that look like?
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RW: Great question.
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And I certainly don't mean to insult yoga.
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Let’s go back to this very simple idea of “Kung Fu” and “Star Trek.”
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So we go to yoga class, we meditate, we pray,
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we read the texts from the holy writings that have been around
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since the dawn of time.
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And then we take that, just like I talked about,
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our connection with nature, and we move it into service.
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Bahá‘u’lláh, the prophet founder of the Bahá’í Faith,
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said all men were created to usher forward an ever-advancing civilization.
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So in this context,
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there is a spiritual charge to all people
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to help make the world a better place.
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You can be a bus driver, a school teacher.
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Everyone has a role to play in making the world a better place, right?
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So you take that action, whatever it is, volunteering, working for a charity,
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and guess what?
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When you give in service,
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that actually also recharges your own spiritual batteries.
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If you want increased well-being and greater happiness,
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give to others.
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Share with others, serve others.
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Live in service.
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You recharge your batteries,
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then you have even more to give and the cycle continues.
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It's like a yin and yang.
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CZ: Our TED member Diana writes,
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"You mentioned that, in the '70s,
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many people thought world peace was a worthy goal
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and now many people think it's naive.
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What do you think is the best way to convince people
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who think wisdom equals skepticism
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or being ‘real’ about the darkness of humanity?”
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RW: That’s such a beautiful question and well-posed.
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I'll share a personal story that I shared in the book.
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In my section "Seven Pillars for a Spiritual Revolution"
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I talk about "foster joy and cynicism."
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And I had an experience in New York as a young actor.
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I was studying with the great acting teacher, André Gregory,
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subject of the film "My Dinner with Andre"
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and he would meet with his acting students.
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And we had tea one day in his apartment and he said,
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"So Rainn, how are you doing?
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What's going on?"
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And I said, "Well, Andre, I'm feeling really down.
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I'm feeling depressed, I'm feeling pessimistic, I'm feeling cynical.
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I don't feel like the world can get any better.
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And I just don’t know what difference I’m making,
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and I'm just feeling really down about it."
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And he was 70-something at the time.
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And he reached out and grabbed my arm hard
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and he looked right into my eyes like laser beams.
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And he goes, I'll never forget this,
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he said, "Don't, don't do it!
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You can't do it.
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If you're cynical, if you're pessimistic, they win.
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If you are negative, they win.
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You have to stay hopeful.
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You have to keep hope alive.
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You have to stay optimistic because if you're cynical,
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you'll sit back on your couch and you won't do anything.
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But if you stay optimistic and hopeful and positive about change,
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then you're actually going to do something.
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Don't let them win."
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And he released me,
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and I went out of his apartment into the West Village of Manhattan,
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and it really stuck with me my entire life.
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And I have my own internal battle because I can get very pessimistic
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and surly and negative.
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My own internal battle is on a daily basis to say,
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"To keep hope alive, what can I do?
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How can I make a difference?
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How can I make the world a better place?"
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Because he's right.
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The more cynical we get and pessimistic we get,
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especially about something as important as climate change
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or ending racism for instance,
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things are just going to stay the same.
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CZ: I am a poet at heart, and I think we need to kind of close there.
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One of the poems that you include is one of my favorite poems,
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William Carlos Williams.
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And the poem reads,
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"It is difficult to get the news from poems,
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yet men die miserably every day for lack of what is found there."
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What does that have to do with spirituality to you?
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RW: It's a beautiful way to bring this conversation around.
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When I was speaking about these pandemics, I frame it by using that poem.
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It's a segment from a much larger poem by William Carlos Williams.
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"It is difficult to get the news from poems,
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yet men die miserably every day from lack of what is found there."
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What is found in poems?
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Universal human experiences,
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transcendence, beauty.
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Inspiration, upliftment.
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A mirror being reflected toward us.
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A kind of storytelling, a metaphorical kind of storytelling that reveals truth
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about the human condition.
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You can't get the news from it.
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But we are in a crisis right now, mental health crisis.
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We are experiencing tremendous numbers of deaths,
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of despair,
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and for lack of what is found in poetry.
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And I would say that one could simply and very easily substitute spirituality
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for the word "poetry."
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It is difficult to get the news from spirituality,
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but yet men die miserable every day from lack of what is found there.
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There are deep, rich, profound spiritual tools,
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writings, holy writings, wisdom traditions
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from Indigenous peoples, from Eastern religions,
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Western religions,
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that again,
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if we've thrown the spiritual baby out with the religious bathwater, OK,
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but are there truths there that we can draw from
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to enrich our lives, again,
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on a “Kung Fu” level, on a personal level?
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And are there tools and wisdom and light and hope and love
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from these great rich, ancient traditions
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that can also help transform humanity
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and take it on a path to ever-greater love, compassion and unity?
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CZ: Rainn, I am so grateful for this time, for a very profound conversation.
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