Demonstrate Charisma at Work in English [Leadership Qualities at Work]

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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

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Charisma is a fantastic word to know in English.
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μΉ΄λ¦¬μŠ€λ§ˆλŠ” μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ•Œμ•„λ‘λ©΄ ν™˜μƒμ μΈ λ‹¨μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Simply put charisma is a characteristic that combines
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κ°„λ‹¨νžˆ λ§ν•΄μ„œ μΉ΄λ¦¬μŠ€λ§ˆλŠ”
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warmth, kindness, and power or influence.
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λ”°λœ»ν•¨, μΉœμ ˆν•¨, 힘 λ˜λŠ” 영ν–₯λ ₯을 κ²°ν•©ν•œ νŠΉμ„±μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Someone can have charisma,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λŠ” μΉ΄λ¦¬μŠ€λ§ˆκ°€ μžˆμ„ μˆ˜λ„
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or they can be charismatic. Now in this description,
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있고 μΉ΄λ¦¬μŠ€λ§ˆκ°€ μžˆμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이제 이 μ„€λͺ…μ—μ„œ
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I'm using that word warmth, but I don't mean someone's temperature.
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μ €λŠ” λ”°λœ»ν•¨μ΄λΌλŠ” 단어λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ§€λ§Œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ μ˜¨λ„λ₯Ό μ˜λ―Έν•˜μ§€λŠ” μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Instead,
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λŒ€μ‹ ,
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when we use warmth to describe someone's personality or their
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ μ„±κ²©μ΄λ‚˜
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qualities, it is a synonym for using words like kind,
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μžμ§ˆμ„ μ„€λͺ…ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ λ”°λœ»ν•¨μ„ μ‚¬μš©ν•  λ•Œ μΉœμ ˆν•¨,
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nice, caring, and patient,
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상λƒ₯함, 배렀심, 인내심과 같은
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all very positive qualities. In a dictionary,
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λͺ¨λ“  맀우 긍정적인 μžμ§ˆμ„ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것과 λ™μ˜μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‚¬μ „μ—μ„œ
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charisma is defined as a personal magic of
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μΉ΄λ¦¬μŠ€λ§ˆλŠ” 개인적인 λ¦¬λ”μ‹­μ˜ λ§ˆλ²•μœΌλ‘œ μ •μ˜λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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leadership.
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Someone who inspires loyalty and creates enthusiasm,
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좩성심을 κ³ μ·¨μ‹œν‚€κ³  열정을 λΆˆλŸ¬μΌμœΌν‚€λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒ,
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someone with positive influence.
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긍정적인 영ν–₯λ ₯을 가진 μ‚¬λžŒ.
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So why is this word so important? Why are we talking about it today?
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κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄ 이 단어가 μ™œ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μ€‘μš”ν• κΉŒμš”? 였늘 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” μ΄μœ λŠ” λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
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Displaying charisma is a powerful,
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카리슀마λ₯Ό λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” 것은
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effective way to demonstrate friendliness and have positive influence
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μΉœμ ˆν•¨μ„ 보여주고 직μž₯μ—μ„œ 긍정적인 영ν–₯을 λ―ΈμΉ  수 μžˆλŠ” κ°•λ ₯ν•˜κ³  효과적인 λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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at work. Something that we all want to do.
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. 우리 λͺ¨λ‘κ°€ ν•˜κ³  싢은 것.
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I am Annemarie with Speak Confident English.
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μ €λŠ” Speak Confident English의 Annemarieμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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This is exactly where you want to be every week to get the confidence you want
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이것은 당신이 μ˜μ–΄
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for your life and work in English. And in this video today,
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둜 μ‚Άκ³Ό 일에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ›ν•˜λŠ” μžμ‹ κ°μ„ μ–»κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ 맀주 κ°€κ³  싢은 κ³³μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 그리고 였늘 이 λΉ„λ””μ˜€μ—μ„œλŠ” 직μž₯μ—μ„œ
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you're going to learn 10 ways to demonstrate charisma in English at
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μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ 카리슀마λ₯Ό λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” 10가지 방법을 배우게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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work.
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And the good news is you already have all the language you need to do this
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쒋은 μ†Œμ‹μ€ 이 μž‘μ—…μ„ μ„±κ³΅μ μœΌλ‘œ μˆ˜ν–‰ν•˜λŠ” 데 ν•„μš”ν•œ λͺ¨λ“  μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό 이미 가지고 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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successfully.
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[Inaudible].
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01:41
Let's start right away with the first way you can demonstrate charisma at work,
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[μ•Œμ•„λ“€μ„ 수 μ—†λŠ”].
직μž₯μ—μ„œ 카리슀마λ₯Ό λ°œνœ˜ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 첫 번째 방법뢀터 λ°”λ‘œ μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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greet everyone.
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It might surprise you because this seems so basic,
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이것이 λ„ˆλ¬΄ 기본적인 것 κ°™μ•„μ„œ 놀라싀 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ§€λ§Œ,
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but how often do we ignore other people?
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 자주 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ λ¬΄μ‹œν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
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How often do we stand in an elevator and say nothing?
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 자주 μ—˜λ¦¬λ² μ΄ν„°μ— μ„œμ„œ 아무 말도 ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? λ³΅λ„μ—μ„œ
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How often do we pass someone else in a hallway and say nothing?
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ§€λ‚˜μΉ˜κ³  아무 말도 ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” κ²½μš°κ°€ μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 자주 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
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Using a simple hi or hello is a kind way to
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κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ hi λ˜λŠ” helloλ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것은
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acknowledge the humanity and existence of another person.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ 인간성과 쑴재λ₯Ό μΈμ •ν•˜λŠ” μΉœμ ˆν•œ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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It doesn't seem like much,
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별거 μ•„λ‹Œ 것 κ°™μ§€λ§Œ
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but sometimes a simple high or hello can say so much
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가끔은 λ‹¨μˆœν•œ 고함 μ΄λ‚˜ 인사가 훨씬 더 λ§Žμ€ 것을 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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more. It can say, I see you. I acknowledge you.
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. 그것은 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€, λ‚˜λŠ” 당신을 μ°Έμ‘°ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ . 당신을 μΈμ •ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:26
And that is powerful.
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그리고 그것은 κ°•λ ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 카리슀마λ₯Ό
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The second way to demonstrate charisma is to never underestimate the
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λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” 두 번째 방법은
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power of politeness. Just like using a greeting,
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κ³΅μ†ν•¨μ˜ νž˜μ„ κ²°μ½” κ³Όμ†Œν‰κ°€ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 인사말을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것과 λ§ˆμ°¬κ°€μ§€λ‘œ,
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remembering to say, please,
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제발, κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€, μ²œλ§Œμ—μš”λΌκ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜λŠ” 것은
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thank you and you're welcome is a simple act of kindness.
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λ‹¨μˆœν•œ 친절의 ν–‰μœ„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:44
And sometimes it's the simple things we remember the most.
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그리고 λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ κ°€μž₯ κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜λŠ” 것은 λ‹¨μˆœν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Do you have someone at work who always says,
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직μž₯μ—μ„œ
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thank you when you do something nice for them. Doesn't that feel wonderful.
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쒋은 일을 해쀄 λ•Œ 항상 고맙닀고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 멋지지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
02:56
You probably remember that about that individual and
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당신은 μ•„λ§ˆλ„ κ·Έ κ°œμΈμ— λŒ€ν•΄ 그것을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜κ³ 
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you can do the same thing for others.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ μœ„ν•΄ 같은 일을 ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Strategy number three is to show that you're interested.
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μ„Έ 번째 μ „λž΅μ€ 당신이 관심이 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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How do you feel when.
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기뢄이 μ–΄λ•Œ?
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Someone says to you: That's so interesting. Tell me more about that.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 정말 ν₯λ―Έλ‘­κ΅°μš”. 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 더 λ§ν•΄μ£Όμ„Έμš”.
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You probably feel pretty good and you probably enjoy talking
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당신은 μ•„λ§ˆ 기뢄이 κ½€ 쒋을 것이고
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about whatever opinion or experience it might be.
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μ–΄λ–€ μ˜κ²¬μ΄λ‚˜ κ²½ν—˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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When people show.
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 보여쀄 λ•Œ.
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Interest in us,
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μš°λ¦¬μ— λŒ€ν•œ 관심,
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we have a very positive impression of them.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 그듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ 맀우 긍정적인 인상을 λ°›μ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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We think that those people are really interesting, warm,
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 정말 ν₯λ―Έλ‘­κ³ , λ”°λœ»ν•˜κ³ ,
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kind, and wonderful.
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μΉœμ ˆν•˜κ³ , ν›Œλ₯­ν•˜λ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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You can do the same thing for others.
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당신은 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ μœ„ν•΄ 같은 일을 ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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I actually have a full lesson on this topic of how to be interesting in English.
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λ‚˜λŠ” μ‹€μ œλ‘œ μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ ν₯λ―Έλ‘œμ›Œμ§€λŠ” 방법에 λŒ€ν•œ 이 μ£Όμ œμ— λŒ€ν•œ μ™„μ „ν•œ μˆ˜μ—…μ„ 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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And it comes down to just a few simple things,
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그리고 그것은
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such as listening to other people,
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ˜ 말을 κ²½μ²­ν•˜κ³ ,
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carefully showing that you're listening to them and
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 말을 κ²½μ²­ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŒμ„ 주의 깊게 보여주고, κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 말에 관심이 μžˆμŒμ„
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asking questions that indicate you're interested in what they have to
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λ‚˜νƒ€λ‚΄λŠ” μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜λŠ” 것과 같은 λͺ‡ 가지 κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ 일둜 κ·€κ²°λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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say.
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I definitely recommend taking time to review that other lesson
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so that you can get all those details.
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λͺ¨λ“  μ„ΈλΆ€ 정보λ₯Ό 얻을 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ μ‹œκ°„μ„ λ‚΄μ–΄ λ‹€λ₯Έ κ°•μ˜λ₯Ό κ²€ν† ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 직μž₯μ—μ„œ 카리슀마λ₯Ό λ°œνœ˜ν• 
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The fourth way you can demonstrate charisma at work is to recognize others and
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수 μžˆλŠ” λ„€ 번째 방법은 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό
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their accomplishments.
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ μ„±μ·¨λ₯Ό μΈμ •ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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How do you feel when someone says I'm really impressed with how you did... ,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ 당신이 ν•œ 일에 정말 감λͺ…λ°›μ•˜λ‹€κ³  말할 λ•Œ 기뢄이 μ–΄λ–»μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ ?
04:23
Or you did a great job with that presentation, it feels pretty good.
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λ˜λŠ” κ·Έ ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ„ ν›Œλ₯­ν•˜κ²Œ ν•΄λƒˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그렇지
04:27
Doesn't it?
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μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
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And you probably have a very positive impression of the person who said
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그리고 당신은 μ•„λ§ˆ κ·Έ 말을 ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒμ— λŒ€ν•΄ 맀우 긍정적인 인상을 가지고 μžˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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that. You're grateful for their kind comment.
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. κ·Έλ“€μ˜ μΉœμ ˆν•œ μ˜κ²¬μ— κ°μ‚¬λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:38
You can do the same for other people.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œλ„ λ˜‘κ°™μ΄ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이λ₯Ό
04:40
And the language we use for this is extremely simple.
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μœ„ν•΄ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” μ–Έμ–΄λŠ” 맀우 κ°„λ‹¨ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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You can use sentences, like I'm really impressed with how you...
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당신은 당신이 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ...
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I'm really impressed with how you put that presentation together.
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당신이 ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ„ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ κ΅¬μ„±ν–ˆλŠ”μ§€ 정말 κ°λ™λ°›μ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.와 같은 λ¬Έμž₯을 μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ˜ˆμ‚°μ„
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I'm really impressed with how quickly you were able to finish the budget.
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μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 빨리 끝낼 수 μžˆμ—ˆλŠ”μ§€ 정말 감λͺ…λ°›μ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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If someone delivers a product to you, you could say,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ μ œν’ˆμ„ λ°°λ‹¬ν•œλ‹€λ©΄
05:01
this is exactly what I was hoping for, or this is exactly what I envisioned.
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이것이 λ°”λ‘œ λ‚΄κ°€ λ°”λžλ˜ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜λŠ” 이것이 λ‚΄κ°€ μƒμƒν–ˆλ˜ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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This is exactly what I wanted. Or simply, you did this really well.
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이것이 λ°”λ‘œ λ‚΄κ°€ μ›ν–ˆλ˜ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜λŠ” κ°„λ‹¨νžˆ λ§ν•΄μ„œ, 당신은 이것을 정말 μž˜ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Strategy number five is to tell others when you
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λ‹€μ„― 번째 μ „λž΅μ€ 쑰언을 받아듀일 λ•Œ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ μ•Œλ¦¬λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
05:16
take their advice. Now, I want to be clear in this example,
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. 자, μ €λŠ” 이 μ˜ˆμ—μ„œ λͺ…ν™•νžˆ ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:20
I'm not saying that you ask for advice. That's certainly the first step,
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μ €λŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ 쑰언을 κ΅¬ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 말이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그것은 ν™•μ‹€νžˆ 첫 번째 λ‹¨κ³„μ΄μ§€λ§Œ
05:25
but tell someone when you actually use or follow their advice.
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μ‹€μ œλ‘œ 쑰언을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λ”°λ₯Ό λ•Œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ λ§ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
05:31
We all love to give recommendations or share what we think others
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우리 λͺ¨λ‘λŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄
05:36
should do.
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ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  일을 μΆ”μ²œν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ κ³΅μœ ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:37
But it's particularly powerful when someone says,
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ "
05:41
I followed your advice, thank you so much.
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λ‚˜λŠ” λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 쑰언을 λ”°λžμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 정말 κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€"라고 말할 λ•Œ 특히 κ°•λ ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:46
Or thank you,
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λ˜λŠ” κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:47
I took your advice and it was exactly what I needed.
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κ·€ν•˜μ˜ 쑰언을 λ°›μ•„ λ“€μ˜€κ³  μ •ν™•νžˆ ν•„μš”ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:51
It is extremely powerful in the best way possible when
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05:56
someone follows our advice and they were successful because of it.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ 우리의 쑰언을 λ”°λžκ³  κ·Έκ²ƒμœΌλ‘œ 인해 μ„±κ³΅ν–ˆμ„ λ•Œ κ°€λŠ₯ν•œ ν•œ μ΅œμ„ μ˜ λ°©λ²•μœΌλ‘œ 맀우 κ°•λ ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:01
The sixth way is quite similar to number five,
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μ—¬μ„― 번째 방법은 λ‹€μ„― 번째 방법 κ³Ό 맀우 μœ μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:04
tell others when they were right.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ 그듀이 μ˜³μ•˜μ„ λ•Œ μ•Œλ €μ£Όμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
06:07
Don't you love it when someone says to you, you were exactly right.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 당신이 μ˜³μ•˜λ‹€κ³  말할 λ•Œ 당신은 그것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
06:13
It validates your opinions, your methods,
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그것은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 의견, λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 방법, 당신이
06:16
the way you do things, the way you think,
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일을 ν•˜λŠ” 방식, 당신이 μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” 방식을 κ²€μ¦ν•˜κ³ ,
06:19
and someone who is charismatic does that for other people.
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카리슀마 μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ€ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ μœ„ν•΄ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:24
And as I've mentioned before,
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그리고 μ œκ°€ 이전에 μ–ΈκΈ‰ν–ˆλ“―μ΄
06:26
you already have all the language you need to do this successfully in English.
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ€ μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ 이것을 μ„±κ³΅μ μœΌλ‘œ μˆ˜ν–‰ν•˜λŠ” 데 ν•„μš”ν•œ λͺ¨λ“  μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό 이미 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:31
All you need is you were right.
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ν•„μš”ν•œ 것은 당신이 μ˜³μ•˜λ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒλΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:34
You were right about how to handle that difficult client.
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당신은 κ·Έ μ–΄λ €μš΄ 고객을 λ‹€λ£¨λŠ” 방법에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ˜³μ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:38
You were right about those budget numbers.
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κ·Έ μ˜ˆμ‚° μˆ˜μΉ˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ 당신이 μ˜³μ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:40
You were right about that marketing strategy plan. You could also say,
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κ·Έ λ§ˆμΌ€νŒ… μ „λž΅ κ³„νšμ— λŒ€ν•΄ 당신이 μ˜³μ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
06:44
thank you so much for sharing your idea, your opinion, your advice...
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 아이디어, 의견, 쑰언을 κ³΅μœ ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ 정말 κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€...
06:49
You were right.
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당신이 μ˜³μ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:50
Number seven might surprise you say no when you need to
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7 λ²ˆμ€ ν•„μš”ν•  λ•Œ 거절
06:55
and be clear, but polite.
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ν•˜κ³  λͺ…ν™•ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 예의 λ°”λ₯΄κ²Œ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ†€λΌκ²Œ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:58
It's a little bit strange to say that people who are charismatic,
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카리슀마 있고 λ”°λœ»ν•˜κ³  친절
07:02
who are warm kind and powerful should say no,
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ν•˜κ³  κ°•λ ₯ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ κ±°μ ˆν•΄μ•Ό ν•œλ‹€κ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것이 쑰금 이상
07:06
but here's why:
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 여기에 κ·Έ μ΄μœ κ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:07
how do you feel when you ask someone to do something
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ 무언가λ₯Ό μš”μ²­ν–ˆλŠ”λ°
07:12
and then they cancel on you at the last minute? It's frustrating,
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λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ μˆœκ°„μ— μ·¨μ†Œν•  λ•Œ 기뢄이 μ–΄λ–»μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? λ‹΅λ‹΅ν•˜μ§€
07:17
isn't it? And it probably creates a lot of stress in your life.
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μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? 그리고 그것은 μ•„λ§ˆλ„ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 삢에 λ§Žμ€ 슀트레슀λ₯Ό 쀄 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:21
Maybe even a feeling of rejection.
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거뢀감이 λ“€ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:24
If someone asks you to do something and you know that you
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 무엇을 ν•˜λΌκ³  μš”κ΅¬ν•  λ•Œ 당신이 그것을 ν•˜κ³ 
07:29
either don't want to do it, or you really can't,
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싢지 μ•Šκ±°λ‚˜ μ •λ§λ‘œ ν•  수 μ—†λ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄,
07:33
maybe you have too many other things to do, but you say yes,
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μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 당신은 ν•  일이
07:37
out of politeness,
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07:39
it is much better to be honest,
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λ„ˆλ¬΄ λ§Žμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ •μ§ν•˜κ³ 
07:43
upfront to say no at the beginning,
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μ²˜μŒμ—λŠ”
07:47
in a really clear and polite way. Thankfully, there are some wonderful,
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정말 λͺ…ν™•ν•˜κ³  예의 λ°”λ₯΄κ²Œ μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λΌκ³  μ†”μ§ν•˜κ²Œ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ³ λ§™κ²Œλ„
07:51
simple ways that we can do that. And I have a full lesson on that topic.
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” ν›Œλ₯­ν•˜κ³  κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ 방법이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έ μ£Όμ œμ— λŒ€ν•œ μ™„μ „ν•œ κ΅ν›ˆμ„ 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ™μ˜μƒ μ•„λž˜μ—
07:56
I've got a link to that lesson below in the video.
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ν•΄λ‹Ή κ°•μ˜μ— λŒ€ν•œ 링크가 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
07:59
So if that's something that you want to learn,
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그것이 당신이 배우고 싢은 것이 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄
08:02
I definitely recommend checking it out.
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그것을 ν™•μΈν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:04
Strategy number eight for demonstrating charisma at work is to
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직μž₯μ—μ„œ 카리슀마λ₯Ό λ°œνœ˜ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•œ μ—¬λŸ 번째 μ „λž΅μ€
08:08
show enthusiasm and celebrate others' successes.
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열정을 보여주고 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ 성곡을 μΆ•ν•˜ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:14
How do you feel when something wonderful happens in your life and someone says,
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μΈμƒμ—μ„œ λ†€λΌμš΄ 일이 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜κ³  λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€
08:19
Oh my gosh, congratulations. I am so happy for you.
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였 마이 κ°“, μΆ•ν•˜ν•œλ‹€κ³  말할 λ•Œ 기뢄이 μ–΄λ–»μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? λ‚˜λŠ” 넀덕에 행볡해.
08:24
And it is genuine, true happiness.
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그리고 그것은 μ§„μ •ν•œ μ§„μ •ν•œ ν–‰λ³΅μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:28
You probably feel wonderful.
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당신은 μ•„λ§ˆ 기뢄이 쒋을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:31
It is great when other people celebrate with us.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μš°λ¦¬μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ μΆ•ν•˜ν•  λ•Œ μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:35
It's definitely better than someone being jealous or angry
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08:39
because they didn't have that successful thing in their life.
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μΈμƒμ—μ„œ μ„±κ³΅ν•œ 일이 μ—†μ—ˆκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ§ˆνˆ¬ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚΄λŠ” 것보닀 ν™•μ‹€νžˆ λ‚«μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:44
Remember, charisma is this interesting combination of warmth,
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μΉ΄λ¦¬μŠ€λ§ˆλŠ” λ”°λœ»ν•¨,
08:49
kindness, and power.
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μΉœμ ˆν•¨, 힘의 ν₯미둜운 μ‘°ν•©μ΄λΌλŠ” 것을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜μ„Έμš”. λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μ„±κ³΅ν–ˆμ„ λ•Œ
08:51
The ability to genuinely be happy for someone else when they've been
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μ§„μ‹¬μœΌλ‘œ 기뻐할 수 μžˆλŠ” λŠ₯λ ₯은
08:56
successful is a clear demonstration of those qualities.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬ν•œ μžμ§ˆμ„ λΆ„λͺ…νžˆ λ³΄μ—¬μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:01
And all it takes are words like, congratulations.
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그리고 μΆ•ν•˜ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 말만 있으면 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:05
I'm so happy for you. That's fantastic news.
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μž˜λλ‹€. 정말 쒋은 μ†Œμ‹μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:09
That's wonderful. The language we need for that is simple,
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ν›Œλ₯­ ν•˜κ΅°μš”. 이λ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄ ν•„μš”ν•œ μ–Έμ–΄λŠ” 간단
09:14
but it's powerful when we use it.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ‚¬μš©ν•  λ•Œ κ°•λ ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 직μž₯μ—μ„œ 카리슀마λ₯Ό
09:16
Number nine on our list of how to show charisma at work is to be supportive.
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λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” 방법 λͺ©λ‘μ˜ 아홉 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” μ§€μ›ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:21
Whether someone is having a bad day,
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μ–΄λ–€ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 쒋지 μ•Šμ€ ν•˜λ£¨λ₯Ό 보내고 μžˆλ“ ,
09:24
maybe they've missed a deadline or made a mistake,
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λ§ˆκ°μΌμ„ 놓쳀 κ±°λ‚˜ μ‹€μˆ˜λ₯Ό ν–ˆλ“ , μ•žμœΌλ‘œ λ‹€κ°€μ˜¬
09:27
or perhaps there's a big project coming up,
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큰 ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈ,
09:30
a presentation in English and they're feeling really nervous about it.
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μ˜μ–΄ ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ΄ μžˆμ„ λ•Œ 그듀은 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 정말 κΈ΄μž₯ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:34
Having someone else's support may be the one thing they
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ 지원을 λ°›λŠ” 것이 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ ν•„μš”ν•œ μœ μΌν•œ 것일 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
09:38
need. And all you need to say is, I believe in you,
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. 그리고 당신이 말해야 ν•  것은 당신을 λ―ΏμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:43
I know you can do this. Or if they're in a frustrating situation,
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당신이 이것을 ν•  수 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜λŠ” 그듀이 λ‹΅λ‹΅ν•œ 상황에 μ²˜ν•΄ μžˆλ‹€λ©΄
09:47
say, I'm really sorry. That sounds difficult.
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정말 λ―Έμ•ˆν•˜λ‹€κ³  λ§ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. μ–΄λ ΅κ²Œ λ“€λ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:51
That sounds really challenging. I'm sorry you're going through that.
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정말 μ–΄λ €μš΄ 것 κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이런 일을 κ²ͺκ³  κ³„μ‹œλ‹€λ‹ˆ μœ κ°μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ§€μ›ν•˜λŠ” 데
09:55
It doesn't take a lot of time or effort to be supportive of someone else,
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λ§Žμ€ μ‹œκ°„μ΄λ‚˜ λ…Έλ ₯이 ν•„μš”ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ§€λ§Œ
10:00
but it will display charisma that combination of
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10:05
warmth, kindness, and power, that personal magic of leadership.
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λ”°λœ»ν•¨, 친절, 힘이 κ²°ν•©λœ 카리슀마, λ¦¬λ”μ‹­μ˜ 개인 λ§ˆλ²•μ„ 보여쀄 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:10
And finally,
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그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ
10:11
number 10 on our list is to be helpful.
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우리 λͺ©λ‘μ˜ 10λ²ˆμ€ 도움이 λ˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν• 
10:15
When you can,
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수 μžˆμ„ λ•Œ μ‚¬μš©ν• 
10:17
two simple questions you can use are what can I do to help?
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수 μžˆλŠ” 두 가지 κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ€ 무엇을 λ„μ™€λ“œλ¦΄κΉŒμš”?
10:22
Or is there anything I can do to help with that?
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ λ‚΄κ°€ 도와쀄 수 μžˆλŠ” 일이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
10:25
You have 10 simple but effective ways to demonstrate
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10:29
charisma at work with your coworkers, your peers, your supervisors,
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직μž₯ λ™λ£Œ, 상사,
10:33
anyone you work with and in doing so,
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ν•¨κ»˜ μΌν•˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ 직μž₯μ—μ„œ 카리슀마λ₯Ό 보여쀄 수 μžˆλŠ” κ°„λ‹¨ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 효과적인 10가지 방법이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
10:37
you are expressing kindness, friendliness,
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10:40
and positivity in English. Now, before we finish today,
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. 자, 였늘 마치기 전에 카리슀마λ₯Ό λ°œνœ˜ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄
10:44
I would love to know if there are other strategies you use
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μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ μ „λž΅μ΄ μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ•Œκ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
10:49
to demonstrate charisma. If so, share them in the comments below.
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. κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄ μ•„λž˜ μ˜κ²¬μ— κ³΅μœ ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. μ–Έμ œλ‚˜μ²˜λŸΌ
10:54
If you found this lesson useful to you as always, I would love to know,
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이 κ°•μ˜κ°€ μœ μš©ν•˜λ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜μ…¨λ‹€λ©΄ μ•Œκ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 맀우 κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ
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and you can tell me in three very simple ways. Number one,
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μ„Έ 가지 λ°©λ²•μœΌλ‘œ μ•Œλ €μ£Όμ‹€ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 첫째,
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give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube and subscribe to my channel so that
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μ—¬κΈ° YouTubeμ—μ„œ 이 κ°•μ˜λ₯Ό μ—„μ§€μ²™ν•˜κ³ 
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you never miss. One of my Confident English lessons. Number two,
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μ ˆλŒ€ λ†“μΉ˜μ§€ μ•Šλ„λ‘ 제 채널을 κ΅¬λ…ν•˜μ„Έμš”. μžμ‹ κ° μžˆλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—… 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 두 번째, 직μž₯μ—μ„œ μ˜μ‚¬μ†Œν†΅μ—
11:12
if you know someone who's struggling with communicating at work and wants to
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어렀움을 κ²ͺκ³  있고
11:16
demonstrate politeness, kindness,
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곡손함, μΉœμ ˆν•¨,
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and friendliness share this lesson with them,
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μΉœκ·Όν•¨μ„ 보여주고 싢은 μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ•Œκ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ 이 κ΅ν›ˆμ„ κ·Έλ“€κ³Ό κ³΅μœ ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
11:22
you can do that by email or by sharing it on Facebook.
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μ΄λ©”μΌμ΄λ‚˜ νŽ˜μ΄μŠ€λΆμ—μ„œ κ³΅μœ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:26
And finally,
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λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ
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the last way that you can tell me this lesson was useful to you is to share with
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이 κ°•μ˜κ°€ μœ μš©ν–ˆλ‹€κ³  말할 수 μžˆλŠ” λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ 방법은
11:31
a comment below in particular.
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특히 μ•„λž˜ λŒ“κΈ€λ‘œ κ³΅μœ ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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I want you to share your examples of a demonstrating charisma in English.
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μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ 카리슀마λ₯Ό λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” 예λ₯Ό κ³΅μœ ν•΄ μ£Όμ…¨μœΌλ©΄ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:38
Have a wonderful week. Thank you so much for joining me.
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멋진 ν•œ μ£Ό λ˜μ„Έμš”. 저와 ν•¨κ»˜ ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:42
And I look forward to seeing you next time for your Confident English lesson.
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그리고 μžμ‹ κ° μžˆλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ„ μœ„ν•΄ λ‹€μŒ μ‹œκ°„μ— λ΅™κΈ°λ₯Ό κΈ°λŒ€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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이 μ‚¬μ΄νŠΈλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ ν•™μŠ΅μ— μœ μš©ν•œ YouTube λ™μ˜μƒμ„ μ†Œκ°œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ „ 세계 졜고의 μ„ μƒλ‹˜λ“€μ΄ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ„ 보게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 각 λ™μ˜μƒ νŽ˜μ΄μ§€μ— ν‘œμ‹œλ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μžλ§‰μ„ 더블 ν΄λ¦­ν•˜λ©΄ κ·Έκ³³μ—μ„œ λ™μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λΉ„λ””μ˜€ μž¬μƒμ— 맞좰 μžλ§‰μ΄ μŠ€ν¬λ‘€λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ˜κ²¬μ΄λ‚˜ μš”μ²­μ΄ μžˆλŠ” 경우 이 문의 양식을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ—¬ λ¬Έμ˜ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.

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